People Being DUMB in 2023

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[@dezziej.4074]

First story, I thought it was common sense not to propose at someone else's wedding. Like, is it really that hard? Second story:... so many things wrong. Dad had absolutely no right to tell OP to use tampons. If OP wanted to use tampons, that's her choice, but he has no right to force it on her. Also, does he think using tampons is going to stop the dog from getting in the trash? No, the dog will likely just destroy the tampons instead. Seems like the dog needs to be trained not to dig in the trash. Side note, what's up with so many people implying people who use pads are childish or immature? This is like the fifth story I've seen of someone saying "Grow up, use tampons". Again, if someone wants to use tampons, that's their choice, but exactly what is childish or immature about pads?

[@cheyblake2475]

What's up with the dog anyways??

[@dezziej.4074]

@@cheyblake2475 I've seen one of my aunt's friend's dog dig in the trash sometimes, so I think dogs just like trash for some reason. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@riel4553]

There was a tampon ad campaign that called pads "diapers", they even showed a baby with a bulky diaper. That was many years ago, I don't know if the ad set the trend or if that's old public image.

[@ItsMinnowSeason]

It's SO gross not only to tell girls/AFABs to "grow up and use a tampon" as it is, implying that it's "mature" to use a tampon...because it goes in you. That's legit the only different, that's the big change, the big ole whoop about tampons, it goes up the hoohaa. To say it's something you need to "grow up" and "get used to" is so disgusting and obviously sexualized/creepy when it's legit just a blood and flesh catcher. But it's 100x more disgusting, nasty, creepy, vile, invasive, and beyond gross for a MAN, a FATHER no less, to tell a girl something like that. "Grow up" jfc, do people really say that about a period product? Pads aren't made with little 12 yr olds on the packaging tf is wrong with those nasty fools. And over a DOG too, just close the damn door and or train/watch over the damn dog and stop it from getting ahold of shit it shouldn't 😭 its obviously attracted to the scent of the period blood so just- let the door be closed so the dog can't get ahold of them Imagine objectifying your own child and acting like putting a tampon in her is making her "grow up" OVER A DOG

[@Astra-Moon]

As a female who uses pads I can say sometimes the reason for using them is medical. I'm on blood thinners and tampons are not recommended for females who are on blood thinners.

[@yazzyari9746]

A grown man telling his daughter to grow up and use an invasive form of feminine products is so wrong on so many levels. Its her body and her choice and he does not get to pressure her to do something she’s clearly uncomfortable with and on top of that if he has a problem with it maybe he can also take action to make sure their dog doesnt do that, either by training them or simply just keeping the damn door closed.

[@poisonoussnake2022]

I agree

[@aaaaaaaaaaaaaa2374]

ellen is consistent in posting and we stan her for it

[@TheArnaa]

Story 1: Two iron clad rules for a wedding: don’t show up in white, and don’t propose, announce pregnancy or do anything which takes the spotlight from the couple in any way. Story 2: how about the dad makes an effort to train his dog to stay out of the rubbish bin?! Oh wait, that would require him to actually make an effort instead of taking the easy way out and blaming OP for using the sanitary protection that’s best for her comfort.

[@js8303]

The first story is so wild! How are you going to take away the shine from someone else on their WEDDING DAY? The second story is just crazy. How are you, a man, going to tell your daughter what to use during her period? You don’t know enough about a period or her body to decide that! Me personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable using a tampon either! TSS is a risk I’m not willing to take. Instead of blaming the daughter, take responsibility and teach the dog!

[@espopstar]

1:47 I had the exact same issue when we babysat my aunt's dog and I also was the one cleaning up and (unsurprisingly) the best solution was to just close the door when we were done. It's very easily dealt with and the dad had no reason to make it into something to confront her about if she's cleaning it up herself anyways.

[@T_Cup]

Story 1: OP should tell his parents they're right and that separating business and personal life means firing the brother is the perfect solution lol Story 2: Given that the mum is 47, I assume the dad is a similar age, yet he doesn't understand how feminine hygiene products work at his age? He and the dog both need training lol

[@saimawasti9598]

I think the best way that OP in the first story can get revenge, is by having him and his wife announce their pregnancy on his brother's wedding day. Or have his wife's/OP's friend propose to their S/O on their wedding day, so the brother will understand exactly how it feels when his spotlight is taken away by proposals.

[@lofgren88]

I don't get why he thinks it would be better to use tampons. She would have to throw those away, too. All period hygiene products are non-flushable.

[@sarahglover3286]

NEVER propose at a Wedding UNLESS you have the Bride and Groom's approval. SIMPLE!

[@thankyoujieun]

0:54 if business should be separate from personal life then he wouldn’t have gotten a job in the first place

[@ellap4235]

News flash: Dogs chew up tampons, too. Or maybe he would like her to flush them??

[@rocky.rocks1445]

Idk how to solve the relationship with her father but to solve the problem, just close the bathroom door at all times so the dog doesn’t get to the trash

[@markcollins2666]

I'd go one step further, and install one of those automatic door closers on the bathroom door.

[@windowsill9724]

Or a lid with a weight on it for the trash. One of my cats is a fiend who used to play with my used tampons, but not anymore.😅

[@stacym6076]

The best trash cans for the bathroom are the ones that have lids, like mine that opens when you step on the pedal. My dog can't get into it at all.

[@sweetsea3607]

Personally, I wouldn't go as far as firing the brother, but I do understand why he did it. If anything, it teaches you who your real friends are because the brother is not only one who's guilty. Those who were constantly putting the limelight on the brother and his fiancé are guilty too. The dad going on about tampons. What the F is wrong with him? He's the one who needs to grow up. The dog is still going to pull them out and make a mess. Not to mention you're not supposed to sleep with tampons. She did the right thing.

[@carisasantiago6256]

Story 1: it's a universal rule to not propose at someone else's wedding without the bride and groom's permission and approval, the brother didn't even ask, he just went with it and expected the op to be okay with it, and when he got fired he's wondering "what did I do?" Story 2: dad was out of line, op was already figuring out ways to stop the dog from getting into the bathroom trash and dad still decided to bother her about it, and telling her what period products to use, and he should know that you never flush tampons as it can clog the pipes

[@jessicaswinbourn.320]

For the second story, she could throw the pads into a bin the dog can't reach. Or have a special lid on the bin the dog can't open.

[@nemo227]

You have an idea for a product that will sell multi-millions -- a simple latch that is dog proof but easy to open for humans. Let me know if you want to work on the design/manufacture together. $$$$$$$$

[@Mistfall254]

It's called a trash can w a pedal that opens the lid dogs cant open them unless trained 2 do so

[@nemo227]

@@Mistfall254 Thanks for the reminder. I remember those from when I was a kid in the 40's and 50's. Did they somehow go out of style? We keep our kitchen trash in a plastic bin behind a door. When we had our dogs and cats they never caused any problems. I miss those dogs and cats.

[@Mistfall254]

@@nemo227 no I have 2 in my house rn

[@nemo227]

@@Mistfall254 Worthwhile, I believe. I just looked them up on the internet and prices ran from downright reasonable to over 150 buck$. They can be good to have; keeps pets from making a mess or getting into something that can make them sick or cause injury.

[@monicamacie1807]

Couldn't they just get a trash can with a lid to keep the dog out of there? or as others have already suggested, keep the bathroom door shut.

[@lailukaislurking]

Some dogs are smart enough to nose them open. We had that problem with ours for a while.

[@windowsill9724]

@@lailukaislurkingput a weight on it

[@lailukaislurking]

@@windowsill9724 We put it in a small trash can on top of the toilet.

[@Wakilonzo]

Tampons can be uncomfortable to some. Am in my late 30s and i cant do tampons. They are uncomfortable to me.

[@Pinkalooo]

I can use them and I did when needed from 13-17, but knowing they can be risky if left too long gave me anxiety and maybe it was just mental, but I swear my abdomen would hurt in a different way than cramps when they got close to the 8 hour mark. I only ever really left them in for 6 hours at most. My mom got me a menstrual cup at 17 when I finally got comfortable with the idea and asked for one. It's all I've used along with pads for 2 years now and I'd never use a tampon again as long as I have my cup. If I was desperate I would, but tampons will never by my first choice for swimming or going out for a long time ever again. So as someone who used tampons for 4 years, and still can use them, I personally wouldn't go back to them. Even with my menstrual cup I still use at least liners to catch any leaks. If you're comfortable with it at all though, I absolutely suggest the menstrual cup. They vary by brand but some brand have really soft flexy ones that you don't even feel once they're in place, and you don't feel like you're gonna leak past your pad or anything. And they can safely stay in for 12 hours no problem. I've even pushed it a few times and have been absolutely fine. There's no risk of TTS, only the blood getting old and causing bacteria. This probably sounds like an ad but I SWEAR it's just been that good for me.

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Number one rule of weddings: Never, I repeat, never upstage the bride and groom. Ever. Period. End of discussion. Maybe firing his brother may have went too far, but still... 1:26: OP's dad should absolutely "stay in his lane". No man should ever give advice on a woman's menstrual cycle since men never go through it. OP may have to find an alternative way to dispose of her pad, such as putting it in an outside garbage can.

[@saimawasti9598]

I think the OP did the right thing firing his brother. Serves him right for ruining OP's wedding like that.

[@TeacherTonya74]

You shouldn't propose at a wedding without the bride's and groom's permission, but firing them for it? The dog would still eat the tampons! Dad is completely out of line.

[@TheDarkOne1920]

Well the brother pretty much ruin their wedding, an event taht cost a lot of money and he still didn't apologize or see what they did wrong. So I'll say the guys have all rights to fire his brother, after he help him a lot he juat go and ruin his wedding fo4 no reason at all. A proposal can be literaly done in every moment, you don't get weddings all the time. I hate weddings, but I would have take the same action as op lol.

[@saimawasti9598]

But what the brother did wasn't something that should be taken so lightly. He should never have proposed to his brother's wedding in the first place, or least not propose without the newly wedded couple's permission. He should've understood that proposing at other people's weddings is wrong and unacceptable, because the spotlight is gonna be taken away from them. Doing that is like dying at someone else's funeral. So it serves him right for ruining his own brother's wedding that way.

[@laurawilliams1090]

You would blame someone for dying at someone else’s funeral?!

[@kpoparmyorbit]

honestly firing him was a bit extreme but he really shouldn’t have done what he did at someone else’s wedding..

[@minisamuri2]

I agree, yea the brother shouldn't have proposed at the wedding but firing him over that is not the right reaction and if there was no other reason it could get op sued for wrongful termination. Edit: Except if the place this story takes place in has at will termination, then he can fire the brother for any reason legally, but firing the brother is a bit extreme.

[@saimawasti9598]

But what the brother did wasn't something that should be taken so lightly. He should never have proposed to his brother's wedding in the first place, or least not propose without the newly wedded couple's permission. He should've understood that proposing at other people's weddings is wrong and unacceptable, because the spotlight is gonna be taken away from them. Doing that is like dying at someone else's funeral.

[@kpoparmyorbit]

@@saimawasti9598 oh yeah he was wrong for sure but the punishment was misguided in my opinion, surely there was something else he could’ve done instead of firing him, like the other person that replied to this said, he could be in a lot of legal trouble for letting his emotions interfere with his work

[@saimawasti9598]

@@kpoparmyorbit I respect both of you guys' opinion and you both could be right. Indeed, there surely could've been some other kind of punishment. But honestly, I still stand by what I said though.

[@spinasoul]

Dogs who take pads will take tampons, I know very well, what we did was change the bin so that the dog wouldnt be able to open it when we werent at home since we have a cat and his sand is at the bathroom

[@spinasoul]

// and no, its not as simple as "train the dog", for example our dog doesnt do it as long as we are home but as soon as we are away for a few hours she will

[@bluecraft2012]

Story 1: I completely understand OP's point. They could have proposed literally any other time but at the wedding? Its disrespectful. Althought im noticing that theres a lot missing here. Did the guests continue to give attention to the brother and his GF throught out the wedding? Was the brother told what he did was wrong? I dont think youre overthinking and youre justified in firing him. It sucks for him but theres consequences. Also the irony that the parents said, "business should be separate from our personal lives." OP did just that by firing his own brother lmao. I feel like theres more to the story. Story 2: they could have simply closed the bathroom door or get a trash can with a lid that snaps shut. Issue resolved lol

[@0imagine0]

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[@SpookyMomma918]

if that dog goes after the pads , it's gonna go after the tampons...........sheesh. dumb, dumb dad

[@GabbyGaburieru]

dang that dad was ddddddddddduuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb even my dad knows you're not supposed to flush the tampons wtheck?!

[@amateurflor13]

ths poor girl, omg i'd be so uncomfy

[@fanofallaroundaudreyandjus544]

Oh no!! This is going to be crazy. 😂😂

[@yazzyari9746]

For the second story, changing to tampons wouldnt do a damn thing. Like what does he honestly think is gonna happen by changing that the dog will suddenly stop going for them? And flushing them is a no go also so.. maybe he should grow up and train their dog to not do that or keep the damn door closed 🙄🙄

[@eileenhathaway1674]

"Right, I paid 10,000 + for the biggest day of my life, but let's make it all about YOU!" Reasons not to propose on someone else's day. Extra points if GF wore white to the wedding.

[@heikedixon4968]

Train the dog to not go through the trash.

[@ellap4235]

He was 22. They're not exactly known for making the best decisions.

[@saimawasti9598]

I think 22 is at least old enough to know you should always ask for permission from the married couples before you announce your engagement at their wedding. He should never have proposed to his brother's wedding in the first place. He should've understood that proposing at other people's weddings is wrong and unacceptable, because the spotlight is gonna be taken away from them. Doing that is like dying at someone else's funeral.

[@ellap4235]

@@saimawasti9598 Yes, you're right. It's so inconsiderate to die at someone else's funeral. My gosh, what are the people who would do that thinking?? I hope you're kidding.

[@wsss8945]

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[@Harkanon]

Maybe educate the dog !

[@bananabanana9704]

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[@heather_foreather]

I don't even know how tampons works

[@lindatshappat4973]

Number 2 story-They could try training the humans to close the door or buy a trash container with a lid.

[@mariekim3513]

I love the top! 😩💓

[@ManiiDee]

Won’t the dog take the tampons out the trash as well?

[@Lunashadow-qn3ms]

Buy firing the brother he is keeping private live out of his business

[@ytxmoriah]

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[@blobbythepotato7062]

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[@shadowboxer1]

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[@jaime01090]

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[@jaime01090]

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[@B1gbootyB0y]

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[@MartinCorrigan-t9l]

I might get hate for this but she could throw them in the outside bin i mean that's what my fiance does so our cat and dog don't get at them

[@angelailankford25]

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[@IsabelaHenriquez-nf1uu]

First one was stupid

[@parkgimmy4225]

Is someone else proposing in your wedding really enough to take the spotlight for you? Because I feel like, the rational relatives and friends would still focus on the main wedding instead of the proposal that just happened. Idk, I'm not accustomed to western culture and white weddings so i can't understand. Proposals aren't that big of a deal where I come from.

[@TheDarkOne1920]

Well is not that the propolsals are big, is just that on the western culture, proposing on a weding it's a very disrespectful thing to do, because weddings are the big and important event of the day were the groom and the bride are the most important people. So doing a propolsal in a wedding is a very disrespectful thing to do. And also is just weird, that you are celebrating the union of two people and knowing that you take the oportunity to rob that spotlight and make it about yourself. Is part culture and part being respectful for the couple that are celebrating their wedding.

[@parkgimmy4225]

@@TheDarkOne1920 no I get the "being respectful towards the main couple" part. But what I'm curious about is the way the guests behave after the sudden proposal. Everybody knows it's rude so how come the guests (the family and friends of the bride and groom) celebrate the other couple in the middle of someone else's wedding? Doing that makes the guests part jerks as well .

[@vintereventyr_]

@@parkgimmy4225 i think people just carried away, being happy for the new couple, kinda forgetting what social event they're at

[@TheDarkOne1920]

@@parkgimmy4225 Well it will depend really, in this case the carried away like nothing happened and sometimes, people act as like nothing happened just to mantine peace in other cases the just kick them out. It really will depend on the family and type of poeple that are on the event and yeah the family is also assholes for celebrating the proposal and seeing it as nothing bad.

[@saimawasti9598]

​@@TheDarkOne1920family? Do u mean family of the person who does the proposal at someone's wedding without permission?

[@andrewvega5567]

No way, you completely skipped over how the brother is in the wrong for firing him Literally preventing him from putting food on the table and paying bills, that’s not okay wth

[@saimawasti9598]

But what the brother did wasn't something that should be taken so lightly. He should never have proposed to his brother's wedding in the first place, or least not propose without the newly wedded couple's permission. He should've understood that proposing at other people's weddings is wrong and unacceptable, because the spotlight is gonna be taken away from them. Doing that is like dying at someone else's funeral.

[@andrewvega5567]

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[@ytxmoriah]

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[@shadowboxer1]

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[@sherysoliman3321]

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[@shadowboxer1]

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[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

In the very first story, yes you are overthinking it because work is business compared to your wedding which is very personal. Your little brother is obviously a great worker, but you're just mad about something personal. His little brother probably strives to try to be just like his big brother so he thought that at least you would be happy that he's proposing to his girl too, and I am sure that the big brother was already married when his little bro popped the question to his gf. So how exactly was the event ruined? In the second story, that is such a very insensitive thing for the dad to say because he doesn't even know what all his daughter is specifically going through. He definitely owes her an apology. These were some great stories!! Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!

[@saimawasti9598]

1st story: But what the brother did wasn't something that should be taken so lightly. He should never have proposed to his brother's wedding in the first place, or least not propose without the newly wedded couple's permission. He should've understood that proposing at other people's weddings is wrong and unacceptable, because the spotlight is gonna be taken away from them. Doing that is like dying at someone else's funeral.

[@Darkstalker1012]

First/thumbnail story: OP’s brother is DEFINITELY out of order. It’s disappointing that you can’t even work with/ hire family these days, because of grimy crap like this. Second story:…Is very weird, and very uncalled for..like fr OP’s dad needs to stay in his lane. Like who tf are you to tell a GIRL what to use during her time of the month, and how to use it…Train your pet, and stuff like this wouldn’t happen…It’s like people are PURPOSELY choosing to be doucebags for no apparent reason whatsoever