PEOPLE in Your Reality are MALLEABLE ∬ Everyone is You Pushed Out

[@user-rq4on9zl2b]

This is so true I made my boss being kinder with me

[@Matty-8888]

Me too

[@Anonymous-ce5qb]

How?

[@colleenm5280]

You are already creating it so create it the way you want it to be!

[@ShellyBullard]

yep!

[@maggiecastro9791]

I love it ,taking responsibility for everything that's going on in my life .thank you 😊

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@heyitsmeanky]

This is actually very true. I experienced this before I knew anything about LOA.

[@SaschaRose1111]

You are so inspirational and communicate with such clarity! I have watched hundreds of Loa videos and have been inspired and enjoy them all! I must say the light bulb finally came on after watching and listening to your videos. I look forward to and watch them multiple times of day! I feel myself changing to a new person and I love it! Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.

[@SaschaRose1111]

I love this video! I always refer back to it when I’m feeling unaligned! ❤️

[@healthychill]

i love your energy , soft and lovely

[@black12212]

I agree

[@irenesai3070]

I knew I subscribed to you for a good reason. This is exactly my philosophy of life yet these days I tend to forget it and fall into the martyrdom illusion. Thank you ❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful. I'm so glad the message resonates. Stay tuned because I'm releasing a lot more content speaking about this Truth. Much love x

[@Paulina-be7ju]

Absolutely yes agree Creation is finished We are just giving life to different states

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

I am actually taking care of an old lady with alzheimer. From the first time I met her, she let me have. I won't repeat those words she said so I don't shock you. But this is something I have notice about her recently. I got into the practice last year of saying thank you three time in a row whenever I see repeating numbers. Now she says thank you three times in a row. She never used to say thank you at all.

[@ShellyBullard]

Amazing!

[@guy3749]

I know this to be true as I have done the same as the person below me has said, my boss treats me well, dosen’t get mad at me , everyone else gets shit at work, I have no problem with him and him with me. But I have a problem with one company and I know I did that to myself but this was before I knew about LOA. It has spiralled out of control and now I’m changing that. I love these videos Shelly , thanks for sharing these valuable videos with all of us.

[@coraimalopez4110]

I love your calmness. I follow a few coaches who are… aggressive lol. Which is cool if that is what one likes, but I understand more if one is calm. So thank you 🤍

[@ShellyBullard]

I appreciate that!

[@sweetsue4204]

If I’m creating anyway, I might as well create what I really desire. I like that thought. 😁

[@anthonyscott16]

Another great lesson Shelly. As always, I have a somewhat long question. As a teen I worked in a men's clothing store at the mall. A girl walks in and I instantly thought, omg she's fine. She says she wants a gift for her boyfriend who is about my size. I sell her an outfit and she leaves. My boss was watching the whole thing and says. "That girl likes you." "No way. She came in for clothes for her BF." I replied. He said, "Dude, she's feeling you. She left her number on our mailing list. Call her" A week later I called and she said, "What took you so long?" Fast forward to recent times. I'm cooking my kids dinner, look out the window and see this smoking hot blonde. I instantly think, whoa, wouldn't mind seeing her. A month later I'm going door to door with my daughter selling girl scout cookies. We ring a bell and guess who opens the door. Yup, hot blonde. We chat for a min when a guy pulls up. She introduces me to...her husband. Oh well, I thought and went on with my life. A few months later I hear someone calling me while I was at the local high school. "Remember Me?" It was hot blonde walking up behind me. I didn't really say much because she was married, wished her a good day and went on with my life. I saw her again 6 months later and this time she was very very pregnant. I congratulated her and again went on with my life. A week later I'm driving down the block and see her with, wait...a flat stomach. "You had the baby? Congrats!" I said. "Yes, but I had to throw him out." she replied. I was so confused. "Huh? You threw out the baby?" "No silly, my husband!" she laughed. To shorten the story, we wound up together as you've probably surmised. This pattern has repeated itself over and over in my life. I see an attractive woman, approach her, only to find out she's unavailable, but somehow wind up with her, without any malicious intent or effort on my part. So how am I manifesting these relationships so consistently? It's not like I am trying to ignore the fact that they are taken and visualize living in the end. I wasn't scripting, or doing affirmations, or ladder techniques or anything. I literally didn't try at all, even though the odds were heavily against me. You might be tempted to say that I got my desires because I had no resistance to them. But isn't thinking that this one is married and very very pregnant a huge dose of resistance? Maybe I'm not clear on what resistance truly is. I guess I hope that if we can clarify how I'm able to keep doing this then everyone can benefit by applying the same steps to any and all aspects of their life. As always I'd love to hear your thoughts and have a wonderful day Shelly. Thanks!

[@sultanajahan1908]

Hey that happens with me as well. I'd like to know as well.

[@codplayer7096]

I know why bro, lots of guys do not start the conversation like you!! Or would never called the girl

[@Ambrosia_144]

You are sooooo beautiful!! Inside and out!!😍 I just subscribed. I’m a big Neville fan and you explain it so well.. Love to watch more videos of yours! 💕♥️💕

[@ShellyBullard]

Awwww thank you! Receiving!

[@lauraangelicalomeliraya4623]

Wow!!! That's just great!!!! I'll give it a shot. Knowing firmly that it is The true! 💐💐💐💐

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad you enjoyed it!

[@valariev5142]

Lots of luv to you Shelly ❤️Thank you so much for your eye opening videos 😘

[@AshQ12]

OMG I have been wanting thinking and feeling this for ages How long does it take for this to materialise

[@ShellyBullard]

There is no set time... we don't know how long. It can be instantly, it can take longer. If you're a manifestor then you probably already know, we are not in charge of the HOW or WHEN. We are only in charge of BEING that which we want to CREATE. If you ARE it, you know longer ask "how long," because it already IS. ;) Thanks for the question. I love it!

[@winzygirl1074]

I love you Shelly but I don't agree with you on this one, yes you can set a date because that's how I got into my awakening, jan. 6th 2012. I set that date and tried everything to make it come about but nothing would work so I gave up, didn't want it anymore and went on about life, then jan.6th it happened, I completely forgot about it and that exact date it came about... but I didn't want it anymore. Yes you can decide the when, but I do agree with you on all the rest of your teachings.

[@Chanel4-l6o]

@@winzygirl1074 I think she means more you can't set an expectant date, like "they will text me on Saturday" and then all day Saturday be waiting like are they going to text me when will they text me etc and be discouraged. Because you went about your life and forgot, you lived in the subconscious acceptance and affirmation of what you wanted - then hence jan the 6th it happened! Which is amazing, but I think for people who are working on a deadline so to speak, it puts too much focus on the 3D rather than the actual belief or affirmation being true within you as you're just simply waiting to see results as confirmation.

[@jessywanders8829]

I am still learning this process and I hope to see them change.

[@ShellyBullard]

💙🙏

[@angelalangat791]

You are completely right. I noticed I act a certain way when I'm around certain people. I've understood that w have to change our internal script to change the external. So how do we protect ourselves from other people's crazy thoughts about us?

[@MindGymMeditations]

I think this is finally my aha moment

[@ShellyBullard]

I LOVE to read this! 👏

[@krutibhatt5701]

We hear people saying that the ones that they trusted the most betrayed them. So why does this happen?

[@SJ-sb5ro]

Because it's a saying we've heard throughout our lives and we accept that as a fact, or at least a possibility.

[@ravenel2]

I don’t know. When I was a teenager I met a narcissistic, gaslighting boy with zero empathy who confused me terribly. Everyone in my family is honest, and I had empathy, so I had no idea people could behave like that. I’m just starting to understand decades later that it had absolutely nothing to do with me! Now, can this fit into what Shelly is saying? There are in fact narcissistic people in my family, so I think I did attract someone who I trusted who was going to turn out to be emotionally cold and distant like them. But what I did not attract was the side of that boy who seduced girls into one night stands (that part of it did not happen to me, although I’m told that that is what he did to others). As for the lying and the gaslighting-it’s possible that since my family was honest and dependable, I was immediately able to see through that part of it, and say straight up, “Wait a minute. Why do you never do anything you say you are going to do?” But I still wanted him to like me and accept me! So maybe there were sides of this person who were normal to me, and sides of him which just did not resonate at all.

[@mikki5569]

I’m going to to try again - I failed and reacted to what’s was happening instead what I already have 😜

[@lauraangelicalomeliraya4623]

Don't give Up!!!

Hi Shelly Thank you for your precious videos. After this one, I've some reflexions about "where all that begins". This question is, moreover, the one which scratches my mind invariably... I think that - as these are "we" who are creating everything (and everyone) what&who "exists" in our life - this is, probably, valid also in the period of our childhood. (Even if, on the "here-level of consciousness", we consider that everything that "happens" to us in the adult life, "happens" because the template(s) was/were "programmed" in the childhood: but this "programming" which has place in the "childhood", isn't it "programmed" itself by... ourselves (and not at all by "our parents", etc)...? ...The question is, so: "when" begins the creation of our world "by ourselves"... and "if it begins at once, at the day of our birth, at the day of our arrivée on the Earth (selon the concept that, as the children, these are WE - following our conscious and subconscious images and memories - who decide of our "parents" comportments, about their "rapports" with us, about the "patterns" that "they give to us", and even about their love or divorce, and no themselves who decide about us and about anything what "happens" in our early-life...), so where is situated the "source" of this "programming"...? "Where it "begins"...?" Otherwise: concerning "creation of reality by the child, so at our first years of our life: are-these the "parents" who create the reality of "their" child, or is-this the child him/herself)...? And if it's the child him/herself... so which are the "causes" of have created, by the child, the horrific "parents", the "parents-tyrans", the "cruel parents", the "parents who leave us", or who divorce...? I think this to be a very interesting question... but also a question of which the answer could help to many people to find the "source" of "what was happened - and so what continues to happen - in their lives". Myself, I'm searching the "data" about it... Could-you (of course if you consider this topic be important) speak about it in your video(s)...?

[@nessalight8681]

This is crazy... Because I wonder am I being created as a particular way in my loved ones realities too? Do I have control over that?

[@MDGOLD]

4:19 to 4:24 I'm sorry i didn't ask To get abused by my father When i was born.

[@yeoyvonne]

Transformative information 👍💜

[@swatipandey5800]

What about narsiccists and abusive husbands?

[@danielmarone5757]

I made a girl text me that she misses me and she added I don't know why I'm texting you this

[@ShellyBullard]

Wow!!

[@cindylouwho6053]

How long does this take for the person to change? Also does this work on family members, too? Thanks! This was a great video.

[@marisolserrano9671]

How can I change my sp to be more loving with me ??

[@sharonthomas865]

Thank You Shelly 🦄😊🌷🌹⭐🌝

[@HEADEDWESTWARD]

What about children that were abused? This sounds like they were responsible for what happened to them.

[@aikhanam2]

What about abusive people?

[@BladeRunnerNX6]

Thank you for this! [: My god you are so beautiful

[@Charlotteapaige]

Shelly, I love your channel! I absolutely believe this is true. How can I know what it is that I’ve done to create the people in my life the way they are showing up, so that I can change it?

[@sweetsue4204]

You had expectations of their behavior. Choose better-feeling expectations.

[@Cr7_eleen]

I love your videos beautiful

[@gowthamivinjamuri5965]

Great I love u

[@ximenaleon4785]

what if there is a person that dislikes u and neither do u like but u have to deal with them because of mutual friends? like i dont want to change her i dont like her either and i dont care to be friends with her or have a relationship, i want her to disappear lol what do i intend then

[@anweshaP14]

Ximena Leon that she changes cities or atleast isn’t in your circle

[@Sman-eg1zs]

You could do imaginal acts where you only have people in your life who you get on really well with and like and it's mutual, cultivating gratitude for the total absence of unpleasant people. I suppose self love stuff too. Hope that helps.

[@AshQ12]

Hologram

[@ShellyBullard]

YES!!

[@sachinbhadouria5990]

🤩💖🌺 Shelly

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️

[@keerthanaroy4102]

❤️

[@Lettie_Elisabeth]

[ •☆• umpteenth # 10 ♡• 12❄️16❄️2023 •♡ ] So so so so good!!!! 😭😍 Your videos feel like they were born of my own heart! Like the god self concept version of me wrote them for me. I love you so muchh, do you still do coaching? I know I can trust myself enough to manifest all my wildest dreams solo, but I would love to have time with you just for your amazing energy ✨️👑🌹

[@aldobottle937]

This is incredible and so true 💚 I had forgotten about this for years 🏞 💙 🏞 💙 🏞💙 🏞 💙

[@colleenm5280]

You are already creating it so create it the way you want it to be!

[@3M3657]

💗

[@ShellyBullard]

💖

[@Solov_d444]

❤