People Who REGRETTED EVERYTHING

[@thankyoujieun]

that's her own fault, because she bottled everything up instead of communicating to him whenever she needed space.

[@shannonhill5676]

Story 2: If I was the husband, I would have divorced her. People tend to reveal how they truly feel when they are angry. And if you didn't mean it, then you wouldn't say it. And why even say " I question why I even married you." That is extremely hurtful to hear and as a very introverted person myself with little to no friends, those kinds of words hurt. I feel extremely bad for the husband.

[@whitneybennett4857]

As someone who's an introvert to the very max, has always had self-esteem issues, and adores her husband (sorry to get sappy but it's true), my spouse saying that would absolutely shatter me. I'd feel like I had no choice but to leave after that because even if he apologized sincerely and did everything he could to make it up to me, I would still always be wondering whether or not he actually was happy with me.

[@lunarialoonatic]

It’s not even just that. It’s just that she chose to blow up. She could have easily approached this a different way. Instead she just decided to keep it to herself, wasn’t honest and she chose to blow it all up at him and make it his problem. She could have easily said she needed more time to herself and he would have accepted that most likely. At the very least he would appreciate the honesty even if he was hurt. But my gosh instead she was so rude and is shocked her husband isn’t the same? Ofc he isn’t he’s probably thinking she hates a part of him

[@reneenevermore2771]

Idk if there is any coming back from feelings like you found the one person in the world who accepts you the way you are and can talk to about the things you love, and then them telling you that it’s all basically worthless and a reason for questioning your life together. I don’t think I would ever feel good about myself around that person ever again. I feel so sorry for that poor husband.

[@reeses_unicorn]

I'm also on the spectrum and am super invested in my interests (Disney Channel, cartoons, etc.) One of my favorite things to do is share them with another person. I think it's only a matter of time until OP gets divorced. She can tell whatever sob story she wants.

[@lunarialoonatic]

@@reeses_unicorntbh it all cokes down to his the husband feels. Maybe they can try therapy but it won’t help if he doesn’t even think he can trust her again (understandably so)

[@KarinaCappucci]

Story 2: GIRL. She could've just said that she needed some me time. Good lord.

[@AmorPandaAdorable]

Story 2. That girl messed up big time. I don't think she cannot fix/come back from this. Good lord, I wouldn't be surprised he divorces her. Feels like he hinted it when mentioned that part about his dad. If someone said that to me about my hobbies, I would emotionally shut down and become indifferent to them. 😬

[@piegirl8263]

That poor husband.

[@whitneybennett4857]

Story 2: Woman, while it might seem like a cliche saying, this is exactly why they tell you to think before you speak. So you don't end up doing bs like this. You can never take back statements like, "I wish I never met/married you." Even if he does forgive you and by some miracle stays with you, those words will forever linger somewhere in his mind.

[@lunarialoonatic]

Or even just talking to him about it. It’s clearly been bothering her for a while. She could have asked for “more me time.” Instead now ofc he’s going to think he’s the problem

[@dezziej.4074]

Second story, if OP truly wanted space she could have just... said so? Like if at any point she felt overwhelmed by her husband's interests, why not just say, "Hey, this is too much, I need some space" or if she wasn’t interested said, "Hey, this isn't my thing, but I'm glad it makes you happy"? It's really that simple and I think her husband would have understood but instead, she let her frustration build until she snapped. No wonder her husband withdrew, he shared things he really liked with presumably the only person he thought understood him only to realize she essentially thinks his hobbies-and by extension him-is worthless.

[@riel4553]

Second story is one of the saddest things I've heard this week. My father is super into Ham radio stuff, that doesn't interest me at all, but am I currently translating a manual for his latest handheld? Yes. Am I looking for a desk clock with huge numbers for the next Ham contest? Yeah, it looks like I'll have to go to IKEA for that one. Indeed OP broke her husband, it wasn't enough to imply that she can't stand him, she suggested that his entire lifestyle is wrong too.

[@gazoontight]

First story: Is the relationship doomed to fail? Sorry to break it to you, bub, but you no longer have a relationship. Take the ring to a reputable jeweler who buys estate jewelry, sell it for whatever you can get for it, and move on with your life without her. Five hundred dollars is nothing compared to divorcing after ten years and two children. That would be much more costly. Dude, you got off cheap. Second story: There was a song with the line, "Words are so cheap but they can turn out so expensive." Time will tell but he has already emotionally checked out of the marriage. When you tell someone that you don't know why you married him it sounds to him like it was all a charade or a big mistake. I don't know how she repairs this. Likely she cannot.

[@ArtificialPerson]

STORY 1: If she could communicate the specific kind of ring she wanted, sure she could've communicated how she didn't want to get engaged anymore ugh annoying lol Also,I think he could sell the ring!

[@tiffanykip]

You never too old to start again. My dad is 54 and found his soulmate after he left an abusive relationship he was in for 25 years.. He wasted a lot of years on the monster of a woman but now he is happier than i even seen him before! Im happy for him

[@KarinaCappucci]

Story 1: LEAVE.

[@amateurflor13]

yeah normally i think it's okay for rejections, because sometimes the person does want to get married but something else is going on or the timing is off or whatever. in this case tho...she doesn't seem to feel bad or care about how devastated he feels. that really sucks :/ like i dunno, he seems to like her more than she does him. she's just super weird ab it all, imo.

[@goofyrat2938]

Yeahhh I agree with @amateurflor13 - ‘that sucks’ is a TERRIBLE response that lacks empathy and understanding. Something weird’s going on with her for sure

[@marzzie1987]

The second story is my worst nightmare! I’m a hobby person and I love collecting things, doing projects, staying indoors. The idea someone would lie about being ok with my hobbies JUST so they can say they’re in a relationship terrifies me. I hope he packs up his treasures and leaves. Finds some people who actually like him for him.

[@js8303]

Story 1: Oh goodness…that’s a pretty rough situation

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: OP lost $500, which is a lot of money, but it's way less than he would have lost if he had married her and then had gotten divorced from her. OP dodged a major bullet. Their eventual break up is a foregone conclusion. OP should pawn off the ring for whatever he can get for it, take his losses, and move on. 3:38: OP was living a lie by being married to her husband, and her tirade pretty much ruined everything they had built up. It's gonna be difficult for her to regain his trust, but now that she destroyed his passion for life, it may be too late to save this marriage. Maybe OP's husband should have backed off a bit and give her space to enjoy her life, but given the irrational way she reacted, divorce seems inevitable.

[@noonecares1615]

Things said in anger is true words people suppressed for a long time, she could’ve sat down and communicated “ I want time for myself it’s not that I don’t love you but I’m not that into your interest and don’t get me wrong i appreciate that you include me in your world and I love seeing you happy but I need time for me also” that’s it if he gets butt hurt about it later on and start saying or doing petty things you know what your have to do because comprehension is key for the relationship

[@carisasantiago6256]

With the second story, my boyfriend is interested in Power Rangers, Yu-Gi-Oh, anime, and Pokemon. I recently got into Pokemon, and I like it. I also like anime. Sometimes, I may not understand his other interests, but I do listen and engage. Never in a million years would I say that his interests bore me or question why I'm with him. Op can't expect everything to go back to how it was before she said those hurtful things.

[@PhantomMagician1846]

story 2.... the wife screwed up big time. the only thing worse she could have said to him was "you suck in bed". As a man I can tell you that our hobbies are very very important to us. We don't need a woman who is into the same stuff we are into, but she must be accepting of them. then top pour salt in the womb and question why she married him. He is now questioning if he should stay married

[@jeniharris6493]

Story 2: if a guy did this to a girl we would all be labelling him abusive and uncaring etc. How do you go from ‘wanting more time for yourself’ to saying this kind of horrible abusive things. A lot of the things she said were absolutely uncalled for. It was down right cruel and really crushed him. He was bringing her into his world, he was happy to share his love of these things with her and that’s what she used to verbally attack him. She is trying to play helpless and the victim in her write up. When you mess up, you do EVERYTHING you can to put things right! You immerse yourself in his hobbies . After this kind of abusive tirade, it takes a long time to get back to normal. She is emotionally immature, her numerous apologies do not reset to original mode. Absolutely unacceptable! Well now she will get more time for herself. And he will end up being more social looking for someone else.

[@chrisspears9937]

Second Story you need to sit down with your husband show him this post and apologize for everything you have hurt him severely and you need to make it up to him. And do it sooner you'll lose him forever

[@karsenstrong1303]

2nd story: As someone on the spectrum, I know what that is like. I've had something similar done to me before. Except it was with a "friend" instead of a partner.

[@lilyslavender]

YOUR HAIR IS SO KYUTEEEE

[@Moonberrysky]

I wish OP's husband divorce her If she don't like it then TELL HIM CAREFULLY MY GOD

[@jacquelinehart5334]

She messed up royally. She should have bitten her tongue. He is going to divorce her. That is a given. My husband has hobbies and is always sharing what he has done. I quietly listen and tell him it looks really good. Because it does. I don't always want to stop what I am doing to listen or see what he has done, but I remind myself that it only takes a few minutes of my time. We have been married for 51.5 years.

[@19GAS]

Story 1: This Girl is strange in my Opinion, because she said: She is unsure if she loves him because her job is so stressful? What kind of reason is that? Either she loves OP or not, as simple as that. 🤨🤨. Story 2: The OP messed up big times. In my Opinion its on the husband if he wants to proceed the relationship. KyutieBeauty 💖

[@amateurflor13]

story 2 is so depressing😞

[@mariyaamcrus6199]

I hope he re-sells the ring

[@_Solo-SUS_]

*As an introvert, what the wife said to the husband on Story 2 hurts since I also struggle sharing my hobbies with people. And, GURL IF U WANT SPACE THAT MUCH JUST TALK TO HIM. IT'S UR OWN FAULT, NOW DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES. Plus the bf on Story 1 should break up with her cause NO WAY, SHE'S THAT IGNORANT of his problems after SHE told him, she wants a proposal like?? WHY BLAME HIM FOR PROPOSING WHEN YOUR THE ONE WHO WANTED IT, DUMB @SS*

[@catandrobbyflores]

I have a feeling the second op may have said something in the past but her husband being on the spectrum might not have got the signals if you get my meaning. That kind of blow up just doesn't happen. I get the feeling she is the only outlet he has for his interests because of the "get a social life," comment.

[@breeannascott8973]

story 1 I have a gut feeling she was trying to get the ring hoping she would get to keep it

[@karasanchez9720]

Hii Ellen I love the video and your outfit I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that the both of yall stay healthy and safe also coco is adorable I love the both of yall 💜💜💜

[@thegoatedever]

ellen my goat ily girl

[@robinedwards8796]

Story 2: She messed up. I've been on both sides of this multiple times. Clearly she should have kept those thoughts to herself. Now here is where I might catch a little shit from other people. My own mother is on the autism spectrum. I'm on the spectrum. We don't have nice conversations because our interests are so different. I could gaf about the weather where she is. I have a weather app. Hearing about which wild animals she sees on her property is only interesting sometimes. And then she asks me questions, interrogation style, interrupting the answers to get clarification on specific details and when I try to include what *I* wanted to say about it, she accuses me of not letting her talk. It's infuriating. When I speak, its about a special interest that I deep dive on for days, weeks, or months. I like to explain about these things. I get really animated talking about them. My mom doesn't want to hear about anything unpleasant. She's annoyed when I give "too much detail" and "go on and on." I'm introverted and only have one close friend and 3 or 4 acquaintances that I speak to regularly or semi-regularly. My mom & dad are the only other people I have conversations with. So, I get it. Here's the thing: its hurtful, but being an active listener for a bunch of stuff that's only interesting to a point, is exhausting. My parents and my best friend both tell me at certain points that they're overwhelmed by the amount of information or the topic itself (I have a family background in high demand religions and one of my special interests is cults and everything about them) and need to stop the conversation which is 99% on the phone (my dad is the only one that lives close enough to get this in person sometimes). It pisses me off because I think, "Try living in my head and not ever being able to turn it off - pussies!!!" But the fact is, if they didn't let me know, I'd go on for hours and at some point, even if just from exhaustion, they'd lose their shit at least a little. It is unrealistic to think that ANYONE else is going to be THAT into the things you're that into. If the wife gave every impression that she was into it, and never said anything, her bad. *AND* people with ASD notoriously can't read a room. So you have to politely say something. But here's where it gets sticky... The pwASD also needs to realize that over time, years, interests will change. Life happens. And your girlfriend who listened eagerly for 3 hours about how igneous rocks form, isn't likely to have the same level of enthusiasm about it 3 or 4 years later (unless its their special interest too. And we change those from time to time too). At some point, you gotta be ok with it when someone you love tells you that they just can't listen about that anymore. Its also a sensory thing for them. Quit shoving things in their ear holes.

[@kylar442]

Omgosh, I haven't watched your videos in so long !! And just got a notification you posted 😁

[@shadowboxer1]

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[@mugchicken]

Personally I don't think 2nd story OP is sincere at all. Maybe apologetic and regretful but not sincere enough to try and communicate. You've been shut down yes, but try harder? It's not just the trust that's been broken you literally gave this person a reason to doubt the life they shared with you.

[@Jinx_of_Nyx]

What does she even love about him if she hates all his hobbies and his personality????

[@abithapaul756]

Heyyy kyutie...❤️😍 One of your biggest fannn...🥹❤️

[@ayeshaakhtar4727]

You’re still so cute!❤❤❤

[@yeogurt_444]

so true!

[@o.m9514]

I don't want the second woman to be yet another woman always giving to her husband and feeling guilty when she expresses her frustration and sets boundaries.

[@madcatter5293]

While this is a true and valid concern, I don't think this was the case. Because she could've expressed her boundaries kindly, and saying she was questioning why she married him was completely unnecessary. Those are the kinds of things you may think, but don't necessarily need to say. Also, she herself said he was slightly autistic, so I think it's fair to say he wasn't intentionally overstepping her boundaries. He just didn't know, and she should've said something before it got to that point. As someone who has trouble saying what I feel, I know that can be hard sometimes. But it would still fall on me to be the one to fix that issue within myself. If that makes sense. Tldr: People should have boundaries, but they don't have to be mean about it

[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos Kyutie 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

[@crystaldumpling]

KOOOTIE! IM MAKING ALFREDO!! HOW R U

[@amateurflor13]

oooh, yum

[@shadowboxer1]

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[@Kuralai95]

Story 1: the girl is wrong but also the guys seems to care WAY more about money spent and the relationship itself

[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, this is code for she's met somebody else who she's secretly seeing. The main protagonist spent all of that money on an engagement ring for her because he thought that she was worth it, but the truth of the matter is that she's not at all. The main protagonist should've broke up with her right then and there when she turned down his proposal, and she was the main one who was pressuring him to propose in the first place. In the second story, I completely blame the main protagonist right here because she had no reason at all to snap at her husband when he was just trying to include her into his world. Of course he completely changed from this because you yelled at him and now he just isn't involving her in anything anymore. Just because he's an introvert, that doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings. He should easily divorce her basically she basically called both him and his hobbies boring. I love you!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!

[@WittyRoseKoi]

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[@shadowboxer1]

Nineteenth commenter.

[@euphoria9497]

Yay im early today ☺️

[@o.m9514]

I can understand the second woman. I used to have "friends" that would always talk about themselves, their problems, interests, desires, thoughts... etc.. They did not allow me to engage with them, I was only allowed to listen. They did not speak WITH me, I was not involved in the conversation. They used me as if I was a boasting station. They tipped all their rubbish unto me and left me with it. They did not allow me to share anything that I wanted to share. They did not care about my interests or satisfaction in speaking with people. It was all about THEM. I lost my patience and was upset because I felt used and worthless, even though they were speaking to ME. I wanted to have friends and they knew that and used me for themselves. This made me FURIOUS! I can understand feeling invisible, unheard and as if you do not matter, under the weight of other people's chatter and interests. It is as if ANYBODY could be in your seat, he simple wanted to boast, but only HE can be in HIS seat.

[@riel4553]

Sure that's one possible scenario. This doesn't seem to be the case with OP though. Mainly because she now regrets attacking him and they did have common interests. Btw a tip I've been hearing to deal with "friends" like that is to set up a timer in your phone: you give them 30 minutes and then cut the conversation. You have other things to do besides being their trashcan! If they only call you to vent, if they ask 'hi, how are you' and then barely give you time to answer before they start monologing, then you gradually cut them off. Because of course you'll eventually feel used and frustrated while they have no problem with the relationship. They feel lighter as they dump their stuff on you! No, seriously, we've all had friends that call us late at night with drama. It's Ok once or twice because 'that's what friends are for', whatever, but you can't keep listening for hours and hours about their same drama that they'll never fix.

[@karsenstrong1303]

You make a valid point, but the husband is on the spectrum. That is no way in any form an excuse, but he might not realize that he is boring her with his hobbies. People on the spectrum don't have natural social skills to detect subtle hints when they do something socially inappropriate.

[@angelailankford25]

Hi kyutie

[@shadowboxer1]

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[@krdiaz8026]

2nd story: Buy a lego set, and assemble it in the living room where he can see you - while wearing sexy lingerie. Then ask him to help you.

[@buck99]

❤🥰u