Personal safety tips for women

[@yasc2723]

"a man will never ask a woman for help" this is so true but they also know this. this is why they sometimes send CHILDREN or other women to do that.

[@authoress777annie]

Yes! Someone in the comments said to go to a mother with kids if they get lost (for 17 and younger) but women and children are popular trafficking tactics and I thought exactly what you did

[@mobina1248]

Wow, really? It's freaking scary.

[@denizakarca0405]

@•• maybe they just look like mothers? I don't know

[@authoress777annie]

@•• women who traffick or women who've been trafficked will typically have a set of fake kids. The women forced to do this typically have their life threatened.

[@niley.nunchuckz]

@@denizakarca0405 some mothers will sell their children or even use other children to pose as helpful when they are actually apart of it my mom watched a movie about child trafficking this little girl was playing at the park and another little girl went up to her and asked her to help find a puppy the little girl looked and said she found the puppy then the other girl pushed her inside the van this is a popular tactic to abduct children ik its a movie but it has happened for real

[@musicmix4226]

Story time: One day my sister and I wanted to go to the library to check out a few books but first I had to get gas because it was getting pretty low. After I filled up my car and got back inside to get ready to leave, my sister pointed at a black suv nearby and she told me that he was staring at me while I was filling up my car (btw it was the middle of the day around 1pm). I noticed that the black suv was still sitting there and just staring at us which really creeped me out. When we started to leave the black suv did as well. My sister started taking a video of the car and the license plate because it was getting suspicious and we felt unsafe about the situation. The guy in the car noticed that my sister was filming him and he drove off really quickly. I’m so grateful my sister was there with me because if she wasn’t the situation could’ve been way different. Always be aware of your surroundings!

[@riya9573]

Omg that is so scary I’m glad to know ur ok ❤

[@weirdanimesquad2806]

Thank the gods ur sister was there she a life saver

[@Bearded_Dragons_Slay]

I would have not noticed and died 😭

[@willowbabes-aka-Ann]

@@Bearded_Dragons_Slay same

[@IceGirl1514]

@@Bearded_Dragons_Slay same

[@samar5846]

Long/Short story: One day I was going home from the grocery store with my cousin, she was driving and I was on the passenger seat. Anyways, we were on an autostrad (a road where there are no buildings or anything next to and you can’t park there and most cars go really fast and no one stops there) and a man in his car drove next to ours and opened his window which means that he wants to ask us a question. He looked a little old, maybe in his 60s, my cousin slowed down and stopped the car next to his, he then told us that one of the front wheals was broken and that from the look of it the car can’t drive anymore or it’ll stop in 5 minutes of driving. He then got out of his car and started pointing at the front wheal and convincing us to get out of the car so we can take a look, we told him that we will go to a gas station and have someone look at it but he kept insisting for us to get out of the car and see it ourselves. And the more we would deny the angrier he would get. He then after 5 minutes of trying to get us out went back to his car with an angry face and drove off. After that my cousin and I went to a gas station and asked a worker there to check out the front wheal and when he looked at it he said that there’s nothing wrong with it, he even kicked it and nothing happened, after going home we also checked it and there was nothing, so obviously this guy was trying to get us to get out of the car in a place where no one would see us and god knows what he would have done. Everyone be safe!

[@Hamsberg]

Long not short

[@Hamsberg]

And u misspelled wheel

[@InW0nderland]

​@@Hamsberg why's that such a big deal? thats not important at all omg get over it. whats important is this person is safe and not hurt! english is not always the first language to some people, and thats totally fine.

[@Hamsberg]

@@InW0nderland if u never were thought ur mistakes u would be a dumbass, thats why im telling them that

[@InW0nderland]

@@Hamsberg who are YOU straight up calling me a dumbass? they probably have mistaken that because their first language isnt english, and also couldn't you just scroll and ignored the misspelling? this is not the right time to correct ppls misspells. maybe be more mature, and read the room before you speak.

[@emmaleaanderson]

it’s so sad that we live in a world, where people are terrified of what another person could do to them🥺

[@v1sheshagrawal]

Not ugly people tho, yall stay safe

[@vNilleframboise]

@@v1sheshagrawal organ trafficking has no beauty standard stay safe!

[@shanviranjan362]

@@v1sheshagrawal You have such a great advantage then!

[@Ifyouseekyou]

@@shanviranjan362 LMAO

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

@@v1sheshagrawal Lots of rapists and killers dont care what you look like, they stalk you cause you're an easy target

[@sarasahliemarcato4709]

for the one about digging for keys, my mom always taught me to get your keys out before you leave the building and put them in between your middle finger and ring finger to make a sort of shank tool you can use to protect your self.

[@poppyslife3077]

Same

[@mayasurekha]

Dont do that it's actually of no use instead put it in between ur thumb and index or in a stabbing position

[@waterbottle4125]

Do a ice pick possishon

[@jordanmacleod3688]

as a man i have my keys in my hand and i between my fingers ready to jab,

[@BaldLezB_In]

So do women just live with paranoia or what

[@jungwonserincarnation]

When I was 3 my father taught me that if I ever get lost in a mall straight go to the billing counter on whatever floor i am and not to panic and that he will find me on whatever floor I am I'm 14 and it saved to so many times that I can't explain , so I wanna say that if u r a parent teach your kids this , this can actually help the youngsters

[@caramelu2525]

My mom always took me to stores with her, and i always separated from her to go see toys and stuff lol. I didnt panick when i didnt see her and just walked around the store and eventually i would find her

[@NOBODY-qr5en]

Holy shit where do you people live ? it's not normal to abduct children People are acting like this is happening constantly and that everyone should always be hyper-vigilant. It's harmful to society

[@mnlight8308]

Exactly, as a kid I got lost multiple times its scary

[@SKZ_4_LIFE_2024]

My parents have always said to me and my younger siblings that if we get lost alone in a store or a mall, go right to the closest person that work in the store (EVEN better, somone of your own gender), NEVER go up to for example one of your friends parents if your parents dont know them REALY well, people have been kidnapped by their friends parents. Stay safe💗💗💗

[@ChessieChess]

What’s a billing counter?

[@Rose7576_]

-lock your doors the minute you get in your car and leave as soon as you can. If you need to send a quick text, have your doors locked. -if a car is following you, check by driving by the same place twice. If they’re still behind you, drive to a police station. -hold your keys while walking to your car at night. This way you have an alarm and a weapon at your disposal if needed. -never tell someone the exact dates that you’ll be home alone or away from your house unless they’re close family. If you don’t know someone well, don’t casually tell them that you’re home alone. -turn on location and allow a partner or friend access to it in case of emergency -if you’re going to get drunk, make sure a sober friend will be with you so that they can make sure you stay safe from anyone looking to take advantage (this happens scarily often especially during college parties. PLEASE make sure you have a plan before you get wasted.)

[@Juwlz]

I have a grocery store parking lot story(it's long, just a warning) one night I went to Kroger and noticed that all the parking lot lights were out. I went inside and because it was after 8pm, the doors near the carts were closed and you had to enter the second entrance. So I entered and walked around the building, to get to the carts. There were 3 men just sitting in the empty and dark cart area. I felt awkward and politely smiled at them because they were staring at me. I finished shopping and as I was finishing at the self checkout, I noticed one of the men from the cart area, just standing at the exit, no bags in hand, like they were waiting for something. I had a bad feeling but I told myself I was being paranoid. He followed me out, but kept a decent distance behind me of about 8 feet. As I was walking through the dark parking lot to my car, a van drove by and their headlights momentarily lit up the area around my car. I saw two pairs of legs, like people were hunched over by the driver's side of my car. I looked behind me and the guy was still walking behind me, about 8 feet away. I felt trapped and didn't have my phone out because I am a idiot. I felt like I couldn't run back to the store without going past the guy behind me and I couldn't go to my car because of the weirdos by the driver's side. What I ended up doing was quietly put the bags that were in my cart, around my wrist. As I walked by my car, I pushed the cart and JUMPED into the passenger side door of my car, with my grocery bags around my wrist, hit the lock button, leaned over to the steering wheel and hit the horn as I hopped into the driver seat. Two men immediately popped up. One began knocking on my window, I think he was trying to say something was wrong with my tire, and telling me to get out of my car to look. The guy who had been trailing behind me, stood behind my car. They didn't seem to notice that the spot in front of my car was empty, so I just drove forward and I swear I heard one of them shout something about getting a number. I was shaking so hard and I parked at the opposite side of the parking lot and saw the men walking back towards the store. Trust your instincts. Have your phone out and if there is a parking lot with no lights, just leave 🤦 I think they were planning on waiting for me to put my groceries into the car and walk to the driver's side door, and when I instead jumped into the passenger side and slammed on the horn to draw attention to the area, they panicked and tried to make me think my tire was flat, to explain why they were hiding like that.

[@gurmeharkaur9046]

Oh shit If this Happened to me I would be Terrified. I srsly wouldn't get out of my House for atleast a Month. Btw Be safe don't let this Happen again 😀

[@Juwlz]

@@gurmeharkaur9046 lol yeah, I was really freaked out for awhile, and also confused because I don't know what their intentions were. I ignored my instincts over and over again like a total idiot🤦 I remember when I noticed the guy just lurking by the exit, with no bag in his hand, just waiting, that I thought about asking a employee to walk out with me, but I told myself I was being silly and was too embarrassed to ask.

[@xiiv.emilia]

that is so terrifying oh my god! i am so happy your thinking was quick and you managed to get out of that situation harm-free.

[@Godsloveministree]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Im so sorry you had to go through this but this is really helpful to others. So glad you were okay!

[@marchymeow4584]

Thank god you made it out safe i don't know if i could have thought of something that quick 😨

[@ds8290]

Facts::: my best friend literally was leaving the grocery store and she was attacked by two guys. They were trying to get Her into an SUV and handcuff her wrist to the door. Luckily she fought so hard and hit them with a frying pan. They couldn't get her in the SUV. All this happened right in front of the grocery store and not one person helped her. The only thing anyone did was record it and call the police. Both men eventually were caught but before they were, one guy ran off and he stole her ID. Again, luckily he was caught so she was able to get her ID back. There's so much more but it is true what she said.

[@okie456]

I’m so sorry your best friend had to experience that! It’s such a sad world we live in where we have to check our surroundings so much and be scared or cautious if someone were to abduct us, men or females

[@heynotizzy7493]

With a frying pan? Is your friend's name Rapunzel?

[@durability.]

Where did she get that frying pan bruv?

[@nataliaaa18]

​@@durability.From grocery store

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually do say are u the uber but the uber told me not to say that again i am a teenager and my father told me to go with my 7 year old sister to the club for her training we both went alone with an uber and then our told an uber to pick us up so i wasn't sure which car was it so i saw a red car and my father said on the phone that it was it so i decided to ask and i asked are you the uber but later in the car i he told me not to ask that question just ask for the name

[@fluffy2494]

I have stopped being friendly with strangers or helping them especially when I'm travelling alone. It happen once, that old man end up being very touchy. Sorry if you ever met a girl that never wanted to talk to you in public.

[@user-mr4np1fk4w]

I'm sorry that you have to be this way

[@urmom-cx6nw]

I’m sorry you had to experience something like that. Sending much love 💗❤️

[@Its_.somebody1]

That's Awful, I'm so sorry that happened

[@raehahfellah6899]

My sister experienced this too an old married man was trying to touch her on train while she was trying to sleep... Not knowing what to do my sister pricked the man's hand with a safety pin which she hangs around her neck while travelling... The man couldn't shout because it was night and his wife was literally sleeping beside him... The man didn't do anything further

[@fatherlouiswilliamssugaada1095]

A member of the Korean band n.flying Seunghyub once pretend to be one of the fan's boyfriend during a Instagram live ...she commented that she feels some men are following her...it was around 8pm I think...he told her to increase the volume of her phone and then he pretend to be her boyfriend that is going to pick her up and the guys left her alone..it was interesting for me thought you like to know

[@girishjain3216]

a real gentle man...

[@m_iki.]

Wow can you tell where I can re-watch the video

[@Kallu_kalia98]

​@@m_iki. kzbin.info/www/bejne/jIWWhKqDpdhkhs0 here you go

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually do say are u the uber but the uber told me not to say that again i am a teenager and my father told me to go with my 7 year old sister to the club for her training we both went alone with an uber and then our told an uber to pick us up so i wasn't sure which car was it so i saw a red car and my father said on the phone that it was it so i decided to ask and i asked are you the uber but later in the car i he told me not to ask that question just ask for the name

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually didn't share this video with anyone

[@zezelikesart]

"A man will never ask a woman for help" story: It was during a language stay in France when my friend and I were in a café for lunch and some random man asked me to help him with the wifi. I told him to ask the waiter that was standing right at the counter but that man insisted that I were to help him. My friend didn't know what to do, so I told her (in German) to call for the waiter. He told the man he'd help. Later on, my friend and I went to the beach for a little stroll and the same man approached us asking for some cash. My friend was about to look in her bag but I told her not to and told the man that we did not have cash on us. He insisted that any bit is enough and I noticed him taking steps closer. My friend got really nervous because she is not used to this and her anxiety made me feel the need to protect her. That's when I pulled out my phone, took a picture of his face and screamed at the top of my lungs that I will call the police if he doesn't leave immediately. It worked - temporarily. The next evening, the same man approached me while my friend was getting us ice cream. (The audacity!?) I recognized him immediately but I wanted to see what he could come up with this time. Mf asked me to help him find his keys that he had dropped somewhere on a side alley. I declined and he tried to guilttrip me into it. If the street wasn't that crowded, I would've hurt him long ago but the risk of accidentally traumatizing random kids was too high, so I just rolled my eyes, flicked my hair and gave him a peek at the picture I had taken the previous day. His reaction was priceless. It just proves that predators either do not care who they target or get really stubborn. Edit: We did tell our host family and had them help us file a report at the police office. No clue what happened afterward because the following incidents didn't involve him anymore.

[@jayanthilakshminarayanan9214]

God......that man was creepier than even the word creepy

[@ryangenia4974]

My mom said that she would beat up any man who goes near her daughters like that.

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually do say are u the uber but the uber told me not to say that again i am a teenager and my father told me to go with my 7 year old sister to the club for her training we both went alone with an uber and then our told an uber to pick us up so i wasn't sure which car was it so i saw a red car and my father said on the phone that it was it so i decided to ask and i asked are you the uber but later in the car i he told me not to ask that question just ask for the name

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

And what does she mean by stay alert what is the problem if you look for car keys

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

Guys can i ask a question did she mean anything rude to the people who do these stuff or does she think anything bad about them

[@llem1011]

As someone who works retail, I always ask an employee to escort me to my car on late, dark nights. As a young girl I get nervous walking alone, especially since my car is extremely far away from the entrance.

[@Ivanovaaaa]

Flashback to when I was taking tutoring classes two years back because Sophomore Year has quite a competitive exam in my country. The institution was a twenty minutes walking distance from my home and I was a regular. On the crossroad of that institution there was a small stall vendor who used to sell masks, socks and stuff like that. He was a short man with a round tummy and looked completely harmless. Adjacent to that was a sugarcane juice stall. I used to buy it everyday to avoid dehydration while walking. It was around December and I had been going there for roughly 6 months. One cold evening, I had some extra class, as a result it got really dark and was around half past eight. As I was returning home, I walked past the same stall and onto the street. I was walking alone with nothing, not even a cellphone but with a backpack of just books. And to my surprise, I saw the same vendor walking _ahead_ of me. As he kept walking my skepticism rose. Therefore, I crossed the road and started walking ahead of him but from the opposite side of the road. To my shock, he crossed it too and was hot on my heels. I turned around the corner, he did too. But, now we were in a cramped place. It was kind of a market and he was behind me. So my 15 year old brain had an idea to stop and pretend to purchase something because he wouldn't be able to halt and would definitely go ahead with the crowd. I did exactly that and started looking through different designs and details of masks in deep thought. I deliberately took more time than necessary just to be extra cautious. After a few minutes I bought a black mask with silver strips. I was content but that dissipated just as fast because, I saw the same man, standing on the pavement, behind a tree, staring intently at me. And as I took my first step ahead from that shop, he too calmly came down from the pavement. I started walking real fast leaving him trailing behind. My heart was thumping so hard against my ribcage. To say I was petrified would be an understatement. I could've pissed my pants from those dreadful and ominous vibes alone. Fortunately, I saw a familiar lady who was doing her daily grocery shopping. But we had never interacted much in the past. For the record, I wasn't even sure about the fact that we lived in the same complex. Had to ask her for confirmation. Anyhow I stuck around her and gave her a gist of my situation. We were still on the same street, mind you. She then questioned something around the lines of, "Where/who/which one is he?" And I shakingly mumbled something like, "Don't turn around, please don't turn around." She did. I don't know what she saw but she reassured me that there was no man following us. I didn't dare look back. She dropped me off safely in my apartment's elevator. I thanked her sincerely and genuinely expressed my gratitude. P. S. English is just a language that I learned at school so I believe I'm not so adept at it, please correct my errors if you can.

[@angel0.0_]

That's creepy especially when you don't have a phone and your english is great ngl👍

[@blu3_jaye762]

Your english is better then mine and im a native speaker😅 and that is a terrifying story, just reading it gave me chills. I can’t imagine experiencing that

[@WarriorsFan360]

Your English is excellent! Especially if you have recently learned the language. I'm glad you you are safe now!

[@khushi-zh9is]

OMG!!! That's terrifying, i m feeling good for u that u r safe, and your English is just perfect.

[@meirecosta9046]

AAAAHHH HELP TO LONG TO LONG……

[@hardearnedliving5907]

The best advice I know for protecting is one obviously being aware of your surroundings when you’re alone and be prepared to fight if you have to, but if you are noticing someone following you or watching you, the best thing to do is watch back. Make it clear to them that you know they’re watching you. It will make them uncomfortable and go away

[@girishjain3216]

It is really true... happened with me

[@Kade0__0]

Something I learned from my mom is to always when your a couple feet from your car check underneath it! Sometimes people will hide underneath and when you get to the drivers side will grab your ankles or slash them with a weapon making it so you can’t get away. Another tip when you’re opening your car door face it so you are parallel to the door. This way if someone tries to attack you, you can use the door as a shield so they can’t push you in the car. Stay safe!

[@moonrisediamond2057]

Also if your a child and you get lost in a mall or anywhere in the most unsexist way go up to a lady with kids and ask them for help first It’s just a safety tip 😍😍😍

[@kaylaberlin5886]

Unfortunately this is the best option.

[@waterbottle4125]

It’s true

[@HypeGrlie]

Yeah, sometimes you unfortunately have to rely on stereotypes to stay safe

[@starwarssiths4316]

I mean I would say anyone with a kid is the safest option. If they have a kid regardless of gender I would say that’s the safest bet.

[@tessanichols1141]

Umm not sure about were ever u live but we have a place in the middle of the mall that u can go to and they have people there who can help u

[@gretabuchanan]

I heard that if someone’s following you and you want to run away, wait to run until you turn a corner so the person following you will keep walking since they assume you are too.

[@hardstuck6200]

that, and always make sure to make 3 right/left turns if you feel you're being followed since this will confirm. although this only works in places you know have 3 corners and aren't dead end roads.

[@entersomenamehere4896]

Yea, and don't go to your house that's the worst idea they get to know your address. Go into a big shop, mall or restaurant because if anything you can call staff for help.

[@ragnarok283]

nah you won't hide lol

[@nataliaaa18]

That's a good idea! Thank you

[@SwaggySahana]

@@entersomenamehere4896 I’d say if someone’s following you drive to a police station they’ll get scared and run off.

[@whoactuallyaskedforyouropi6340]

I don’t really recommend asking your Uber “Who are you here to pick up?”. This will make the Uber suspicious of you, since there’s a lot of scammers who use other people Ubers.

[@Aiibh]

Really? So you're saying is that being scammed for him is worse than being abducted for you?

[@emmapowell6282]

@@Aiibh It’s Uber policy for drivers not to answer that question because they do get scammed. A better question would just be asking the Uber drivers name.

[@Aiibh]

@@emmapowell6282 yea.

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

@Lily Doxie Oh thats a great idea I've never used an Uber but if I ever do I'll be sure to remember this

[@maike2024]

i never used an uber but couldn’t the uber ask for an id if they think you’re trying to scam?

[@pure_k2188]

Quick story: Me and my brother (I was around seven he was around eight) were playing on the playground at a motor home camp (we were on holiday at the time). The road was right next to the playground. It was nearly dark and no one was outside except me and josh (mum and dad were in the motorhome making dinner). A van pulled over on the side of the road, next to me and my brother. There were two men in the van just watching us and their back windows were covered with tinfoil so you couldn’t see in. After about 10 minutes they were still watching us and that’s when my dad came out and told us dinner was ready. As soon as they saw my dad the men drove off. I don’t know what could have happened but I feel it was likely they might’ve tried to kidnap us.

[@Urz_Stingrayyy]

That seems scary

[@minenhlemaphanga9548]

The fact that you still remember that day in detail shows it traumatized you in some way. What matters is you and your brother are okay and nothing happened to you, you can tell your parents this during a light conversation so you can get it off your chest.

[@Jesuslovesyou_365]

Thank GOD ! May GOD continue to protect you .

[@juliennees]

omg..

[@Dominic_Delta]

Glad you guys are okay.

[@rayrayrayray7]

a man will never ask a woman for help is so true, and this is only now helping me explain why i felt so unsafe when a guy approached me and asked me for directions to the gym one time when i was on my way back from school. He insisted i walk him there and walked really close next to me, asking me where i lived and where i was from etc etc and every time i stopped walking he would tell me to keep walking. I was so scared but i didnt knwo what to do so i whent into a corner shop and told one of the ladies who worked there that the guy behind me was following me (he was literally following me around the shop and looking over my shoulder whispering in my ear asking me questions). I burst into tears when i told her and she immediately got inbetween us and kicked him out if the shop. She was so nice about everything and allowed me to stay behind the till for as long as i wanted and offered me free food and water until i felt safe to leave. I dont knwo what i would have done without her because her corner shop was the last shop before turning into a much quieter and secluded road so i dont knwo what that man would have done to me if i whent there. When i told my family about this they all made light if the situation and my sister even laughed at me and said i should have said no to walking with him, and until now i couldnt explain why i was so scared of him because they made me feel like it was nothing to be scared of. But in the moment it was so scary and its because i knew he obviously had bad intentions and i could never explain why, but its because men truly dont EVER ask women for help, and especially if they INSIST you do help them and do what they want, they definitely will try and do something bad to you

[@littlskittl1990]

Adding onto the parking lot one: always try to park with your driver side door facing the entrance of the building. That way you can get in quickly and leave, or see if someone is standing near your driver door Also, law enforcement have asked convicted rapists and killers why they chose the targets they did. A lot of the time, the answer didn't have to do with looks, instead it was the person who was alone and distracted, and overall a really easy target.

[@mollieadele]

This is actually a helpful tip that you can easily do, instead of carrying around a taser or pepper spray in our non-existent pockets

[@Urz_Stingrayyy]

Fr they need to start making ACTUAL pockets. 😒

[@Urz_Stingrayyy]

I wear my brothers sweatpants that don't fit him anymore and the pockets are HUGE! SO MUCH SPACE AND I LOVE IT! I can fit do much stuff

[@chitrarupabanerjee5071]

Here’s something creepy I experienced: So in my first year at design school they took us to this art gallery a little away from my house. My college is a lot further from there & they took us to this gallery via bus. It was around 4:30 pm when the gallery tour ended & two of my friends & I decided to not go back to college with the group since our houses would be easily reachable from there. Right opposite to that gallery is a park called the Central Park (not the New York one, this is in India) . It was my first time visiting that area with my friends & I’d never gone to that park before , so we decided to go. It was a beautiful park right beside a lake & we stayed there for one and a half hours until it began getting dark. I called my dad up & he asked me to be alert as that area was notorious of crime. We actually didn’t know which way to go and were discussing about it in-front of the park gate. Anyway, we settled on walking a while & then taking a public transport from the main road. My two friends & I started walking along the sidewalk . By that time it was really dark & it was even darker because the sidewalk was covered with dense trees. We were chatting & kept walking . I suddenly realised that there were two men is dark hoodies , with the hood up , constantly walking behind us. I didn’t tell it to my friends at first since I wasn’t sure but soon I realised we were being followed. I didn’t stop & whispered it to them as we were walking . I asked them to laugh out loud & act like everything was normal. We kept (fake)laughing & talking about how all of us had knives in our bags. ( I actually did have a paper cutter in mine because of the crafts projects we have) We kept increasing our pace little by little and I constantly had my phone in my hand with my finger firmly placed on the on & off button, which pressed for more than 3 times sets off an emergency alarm & texts all your emergency contacts your location with a message asking for help. This walk went on for forever and in the end we started running. I looked behind & the men were now also running. I finally saw this shop infront with bright lights & asked my friends to stop there. This was a fairly crowded place & we couldn’t find the men anymore. As soon as we reached the main road we decided to take any vehicle & rush home. It was the scariest encounter I’ve had & I’m so glad all three of us got home safely. My conclusion is that the men probably heard us talking earlier & realised we had no clue about this area . That’s when they made us their easy target. A major tip in these situations is to never show the person how scared you are. That is exactly what they want. Also, the emergency button in iPhone is really wonderful.

[@Sophie-lj4jd]

wow ik I'm a month late but I am so glad you and your friends are safe

[@pratt8687]

What if the men were jogging?

[@olgachekh3114]

@@pratt8687 Lol seriously? I hope you're joking. Did you even read the whole thing, they were first walking and then started running when the girls started running and were constantly behind them. Anyways if you are joking then sorry

[@cardinalbob1]

Stay with the group.

[@gurpreetkaur5552]

This is a so freakin scaryyyy

[@ohtobeastarx]

Also, adults NEVER ask children for directions, if you are a child ALWAYS say I don't know and carry on walking, start to run if they follow you.

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually do say are u the uber but the uber told me not to say that again i am a teenager and my father told me to go with my 7 year old sister to the club for her training we both went alone with an uber and then our told an uber to pick us up so i wasn't sure which car was it so i saw a red car and my father said on the phone that it was it so i decided to ask and i asked are you the uber but later in the car i he told me not to ask that question just ask for the name

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

And what does she mean by stay alert what is the problem if you look for car keys

[@el-hakimdesignandcontracti6437]

I actually do say are u the uber but the uber told me not to say that again i am a teenager and my father told me to go with my 7 year old sister to the club for her training we both went alone with an uber and then our told an uber to pick us up so i wasn't sure which car was it so i saw a red car and my father said on the phone that it was it so i decided to ask and i asked are you the uber but later in the car i he told me not to ask that question just ask for the name

[@konfettikopf]

I'm so lucky that I think I can feel pretty safe in parking lots here in Germany. Most of the time it makes me even comfortable to park further away. Glad I can feel that way Stay safe over there💕

[@gachabear1616]

Same♥️

[@lainavv]

I'm so happy for you ❤️ However, it depends on a region HEAVILY. Some German cities are notoriously known as significant human trafficking hubs. Stay safe! PS. I've lived in Germany ☺️ Cheers!

[@reez6098]

@@lainavv which ones?

[@asunayuuki3583]

@@lainavv could you please develop??

[@kiradaniels475]

Little story here.. I was walking in what I thought was my safe neighborhood, back when I lived in a fancy suburban place with my ex. It was daytime, around 2pm. I sorta knew my way around the neighborhood but not super well since I had only lived there for a year and I was completely new to the area. This white pickup truck started slowly driving behind me, I thought it was a work truck or maybe they are going slow to pull into their house. I’m on the sidewalk and I pick up speed as I’m starting to get nervous. The truck continues to follow me slowly, I send my location to my boyfriend and text him the situation. We go down a few streets and I get up into the neighbors yard and start taking a video of the truck. The truck then speeds away. I never walked alone again. Things like this has happened a few times, I would keep my Labrador with me when I walked hoping that would deter someone. I carried a pepper spray gun, that actually looked like a gun and had a holster. I had a taser, tactical weapons and an alarm on me. Still never felt safe. I hate driving, I have been followed to the point I had to drive into the hospital parking lot and call the police. The police got that person but still I don’t understand why this happens so often.

[@armyfics3053]

It's okay! You are brave , But be safe , I am afraid of your safety!

[@someoneyoumayormaynotknow3924]

I am a girl too and I totally get you. I mean they usually try to get any women out there, no matter what they look like but from your profile I can say that you fit in the type they prefer? Like if it’s human trafficking sounds f up but you would be favored more? It sounds so stupid I know and k swear I am a girl too. Just be careful out there

[@flowerbox_em1102]

Hope you're ok, stay safe and healthy!

[@preciousb868]

The reason it happens is because you're drop dead gorgeous and some sick individuals decide to fixate on you because of that attraction. Stay safe out here.

[@SunnyCatUp]

It’s because whenever a guy sees a beautiful woman he can’t control his feelings and needs to steel her. Goodness, whenever I see a gentleman that looks very handsome The first thing I think about is not kidnapping them, but I guess that’s the first thing that some men think about. (and I’m not saying that all men are like this I’m just saying that some are)

[@countersteer713]

Finally a helpful video about this stuff. A few weeks ago I saw a post like "3 Things To Do When You Feel Suspicious Of A Stranger On The Street." Get these three gems that were bestowed upon the internet. "Wear earphones to avoid conversations, be rude to any suspicious man that comes up to you, and speed walk/run." This was on some like tumblr feminist Instagram account. Helping women by impairing their hearing, fatiguing them before anything happens, and ensuring that they piss off any psycho who already made them a target. Like bruh it's better to just not say anything than to give the literal worst self defense and preparedness advice ever told. Like just because the advice is posted on a woman-focused account doesn't mean they know what they're talking about. Stay alert. Put the phone away, look around you, listen around you, and save your energy for if you need it. He'll, if you're in a city you could just yell "police brutality!" and the entire block will start watching you.

[@AH-tu3km]

Lock your car when you get in. Sometimes I gotta pull up directions when I get in my car and I don't want to do it driving but I always lock it as soon as the door closes. Don't look down/away if someone is asking for help. Ex: stranger asks "what's the time?" Hold the watch/phone up don't look down at your phone/watch. When you're looking at someone it's easier to react if they try to grab your purse or attack you vs looking down at your wrist and distracted.

[@jasminhere]

Literally reading all the comments in night and these makes them more scary😭💀

[@tartagliachilde4053]

Fr fr I'm scared af to go out now...

[@lavenna522]

she's literally triggering my darn anxiety even more lmao.

[@IamtherealCatwoman111]

Thats not her fault shes just trying to provide safety tips 🧐💀

[@muihs]

as she should. you must be prepared if the things she describes happen to you, even if this means youll have paranoia for the rest of your life.

[@littIetoe]

What's she supposed to say to that? Sorry you can't handle safety tips?

[@ushergusherussy]

Well same but better to be safe and sound than be blissfully ignorant right?

[@hiitsjane]

I'm sorry to hear that but she's also helping millions of other women

[@shelbyb9965]

To go with the parking lot abductions thing: if a large vehicle is parked next to you so that their driver's side is next to yours (like if they backed in next to your normally parked car) be on high alert. If the windows are heavily tinted or there are no windows so you can't see in, either enter from the passenger side of your car, immediately lock the doors, then crawl over to the driver's side, or go back in and ask for an escort to your vehicle. Do not go the driver's side alone! It's so easy for somebody to grab you and drive off that way. It may be nothing, somebody just wanted to park that way, but it's always better safe than sorry.

[@aaleyahmumau9647]

Hmm interesting

[@annamuller4772]

Maybe a dumb question but i'm here to learn lol: how would they grab me? if i imagine the bad guy being in the drivers seat i dont get how he would grab me ... like there is no room in the drivers cabin to put me ...? the typical thing i've heard is they open the sliding door and throw you in and in that case it doesn't matter what way the car is parked, does it? hope my question makes sense and thank you!

[@axsthet]

@@annamuller4772 I don't think u got it so it's like the van is on the driver side of ur car and as u open ur car to get in at that point the person in the van would open the door snatch ur hand and get u inside the van

[@Alia-uk4li]

@@annamuller4772 These types of ppl park near your driver's seat side so it could be easier to catch you, when you panic you would go to your driver's side to drive fast away and not to your passenger side

[@lunarlotus8778]

ok i agree but as a person with a CRV and dark tinted windows and who usually got it backed in i’m now worried that someone might have been creeped out 😭🤚🏽 Edit: the worst part is that i live in a sketchy place and with sketchy grocery stores not too far 😭

[@xsamthingelse]

(I'm a trans man) When I still had a feminine appearance, the only time I accepted to help a man it was a father (maybe around 25 years old) with a 4-year-old daughter who just wanted to take her to the bathroom. He didn't want to bring her to the men's bathroom nor to go into the women's bathroom, so he asked me to take her to the bathroom for him. When I came back with his daughter he thanked me and both of them waved goodbye, and it ended just like that 😊

[@london9830]

I’m a trans woman who just started being full time less than a year ago. It’s crazy how much more concerned I am about my safety than I ever was before now that I’m a woman.

[@diamondrl0]

as a pre-T trans man, this made me feel less dysphoric about going into the women bathrooms. I'll be so scared when I'll have to go to the men's bathroom-

[@Johnnycagesslut]

@@diamondrl0 ive been on T for 7 months and im still scared of going in the mens bathroom 😭😭

[@diamondrl0]

@@Johnnycagesslut dude :( that's one of the worst things

[@hiddenvalleyranch775]

I'm Trans Cat and I'm terrified of using the litterbox. Also my owner didn't buy me the organic brand of cat food I normally prefer.

[@DonnaJo3452]

It’s great that a younger generation is aware of and teaching female safety tips.

[@shwetapradhan4248]

Why do you sound like an 83 year old grandfather

[@insomniac1284]

I remember a few years ago, when I was around 11, I went out to help my mom buy stuff from a restaurant. It was around 5 or 6 in the evening when there wasn't alot of people on the streets. When I was nearing the restaurant door, I saw an older man probably around 30 literally staring at me. I went into the restaurant, bought what I needed and came out. The random man was literally standing there like he was waiting for me, I walked a few steps and saw that he was facing me and staring at me. I got scared so I stared at him while walking back into the restaurant. I stood inside the restaurant door, told the front desk people and stared at the man. Eventually he walked away when he saw me waiting and staring at him. It was really creepy

[@jeonkelly9838]

God damn it's so creepy same happened with me also some 2 years ago at that time I was 14 actually what happened is I was going back to home by walking because I missed my bus and it was almost 7 pm so I thought of taking short cut and that was pretty strange because there was no one but also i surged up and continue walking but in a distance I saw a bunch of people who were staring at me and I wasn't feeling good but next minute they surrounded me but thankfully my parents came because I was really late and they tracked my location and saved me otherwise Idk what would be with me and this scare me now also

[@insomniac1284]

@Moana Gracious NY

[@makcuja]

@@jeonkelly9838 that's so scary..gladly you're safe...who would've known what would happen..everyone please be careful and stay safe!

[@starlight9840]

This happens to me a lot. Whenever I see people looking at me weirdly I just give them the death stare and continue with my business.

[@Urz_Stingrayyy]

@@starlight9840 yeah I do that a lot, whether it's an adult, a kid my age, or a 5 year old

[@tiad2125]

When you get in your car, LOCK YOUR DOORS as SOON AS YOU CLOSE IT! Look around before you walk up to your car, make sure no one is extremely close to you! And majority of the time if you're walking somewhere and someone pulls up on a car and have a knife or gun..they can't stab you or hold it against you until theyre close RUN fast and into a store or populated area! If it's a gun they probably won't shoot you to draw attention to themselves..run quick and not in a straight line!

[@mercedeslaster650]

Always always always run in a straight line. Running in a zigzag will actually slow you down and make you easier to catch. Also a slower target is an easier target to hit. If you were to take a video of someone running in a straight line and slow it down you will see that the individual is actually swaying their body from left and right quite drastically so a bullet will most likely miss unless the shooter is trained which is not the case for most criminals, especially criminals that would pull a gun on someone that is far enough away to run.

[@Qatisu]

Some car models only lock when the car starts driving, which is a safety hazard

[@parvathiraparla8204]

One Story: I'm from India. I was once standing somewhere at school, waiting for my father and my BFF called me and said "let's check if your father is there" (actually she was on the opposite side of me) and so I went to her side. But after a few seconds, I left there, and a big coconut fell right on the spot I was standing a few moments ago. I then realized that there was a coconut tree and if I knew it properly, I will never stand there like that because elders always warned me from the start, "be careful near coconut trees because they can fall and hit your head really hard" I know this is not a public danger but Still, it can ruin your life or take your life away. *Please always check before standing anywhere and I was super lucky that time and greatful that she called me on time or God knows what would've happened*

[@Shnagglepop]

When I was a pre teen, my friends and I met a group of guys and girls on a basketball court near our park, 4 of them where our ages (i was 12, my friends were 13) and the new kids had their 16yo brother with them. I thought the 13yo younger brother was really cute and he wanted to date me so I went for it. My friends warned me that they got major creep vibes off the group, but I thought they were just being discriminatory because they came from a poorer area than we did. I ended up being groomed and abused by the older brother and the other two freinds until I was 16 and finally gained the courage to escape. I ended up blocking out the abuse until a few years ago and it all rushed back to me at once. I tried to go through the police but it was thrown out because the only witness (the guy I dated) unfortunately died in an unexpected accident and he hadn't told anyone else. Unfortunately now I suffer severe trauma and can't remember large sections of my teen years because I spent so long blocking it out. I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self to trust my friends and run. If you get a weird vibe or someone tells you to run, trust them!

[@Jesuslovesyou_365]

I'm sorry that happened to you. I pray that every negative incident that traumatized you be deleted from your mind in JESUS name 🙏 Amen.

[@cutepanda498]

I'm very sorry for you😔 i really hope that this will never happen again and that you will get better!

[@peatot2670]

@@Jesuslovesyou_365 it's actually quite disrespectful to shove your religion down someone's throat while they're recounting their trauma

[@Jesuslovesyou_365]

@@peatot2670 hi ! It's a prayer from my heart for the sister in the respective comment. My GOD JESUS commanded me to love and pray for others. Now I want you to go back and read my comment and tell me Where have I 'shoved my religion' . When you comment make sure it has a valid point. Have a good day. JESUS loves you !

[@thekameha1]

The fact that there's a need for these tips is very sad why can't women just be safe in the world like how most men are (btw my opinions have changed and did not intend to blame or imply men are safer or all the offender i do still obviously believe women should safe but also that men or as or at least close as unsafe in the world)

[@Bro-Larsen]

Guess I should stop asking my female class mates about help for math then XD but you speak the truth it's very sad

[@bakarah495]

i just carry a knife with me everywhere 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Bro-Larsen]

@@bakarah495 it's just so sad that in 2022 we're still worrying about this crap

[@grizzlybear2702]

I wouldn’t even recommend men go go outside at night unless it’s absolutely necessary. The reason most men say they are not scared to go out alone is to not be called a chicken

[@nom._.nom.]

@@Bro-Larsen u can also ask a buddy or a teacher (hint that's also what a teacher it there for to help and educate u) :) and ofc u can ask a girl friend of urs

[@shookmin_rv1376]

Quick Story: When i was in 6th grade, I've randomly just decided to wait for my dad outside our school to pick me up instead of waiting inside on the mini waiting shed, cuz in that way, i could see my dad way easier. (Outside was still part of the school btw, an outdoor yk yk) while i was standing waiting for my dad, an old lady gradually kept coming closer to me and strangely keeps looking at me. I keep moving away but she kept standing near me. She asked me "waiting for someone to pick you up?" (I was so freakin scared that time cuz One, I'm an introvert, Two, she was a stranger which most highly i wouldn't interact with) I statteredly replied "uhh yea, my dad" and she just nodded her head. I kept moving my body to look for my dad and luckily i saw him immediately. I've shouted "DAD!" and ran to him, this old lady was kinda close when i approached my dad and she said "she's been waiting for you for quite long ☺️" while idk giggling(?) I've told my family abt it and told me to not wait outside again.

[@Its_.somebody1]

I dont really understand the last part

[@amyhatfield9562]

​@@Its_.somebody1they meant not to wait outside school and instead wait inside the building I'm pretty sure

[@Its_.somebody1]

@@amyhatfield9562 i dont know abt that it made more sense with that info that they typed and not the thing you said i dont understand yours

[@Leadorhell5265]

I think becuz u were waiting outside lady thought something bad can happn to u so she stayed there to keep u safe but still if it was tht way she could ask u to wait inside the school and it could be the other way around like she can be the bad guy here so i don't really know wht to say well glad tht u r safe

[@yanasto]

Also, don’t be reading your phone as you walk to your car or anywhere, look straight ahead with shoulders back and walk briskly and confidently. Do not wear noise cancelling headphones out and about and do not walk with earphones in your ears (it is a signal to predators that you have blocked your hearing and are an easier target). If you sense someone walking behind you, don’t just quickly try to take a sneaky glance from the side. Turn fully around while you’re walking and assess who is behind you. You want to look like someone who will not be an easy target, who is confident and will fight. Last but not least, CARRY A FIREARM. Get your CCL license and practice regularly at the range. You have the right to defend yourself! I would much prefer to read more stories about attempted rapists and abductors shot and killed rather than another innocent woman found in a ditch because she was helpless.

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

Lol, when I go for long walks during the day (12,000-15,000 steps, 2.5 hours, about 8-11 km) I ALWAYS have my earbuds in, but I either have one in one out, or both in but medium sound so that I can still hear. If its later in the day (5 pm-8:30 pm, it gets dark at 8:30 here cause of daylight savings) I take my earbuds out completely and peer over my shoulder. I ALWAYS walk as fast as I can and get back home as soon as possible, and on days where I really dont wanna go outside, I walk indoors. I wanna lose weight and get fit, that way I can at least run if someone tries to chase me. If someone tried to chase me now I would die like some dumbass in a horror movie. Update: I am no longer walking as I'm in Australia and ITS FUCKIN SUMMER AND I HATE MY EXISTENCE

[@kitsuu6677]

Walking and appearing confident will not help. In the most sexist way possible, men hate it when women are confident. They want us to be afraid. Making yourself appear confident can make you a bigger target depending on your bodytype. If you're a tall muscular woman then men wouldn't really try to mess with you. If you're anything but muscular and/or tall you can be a target for men. In fact, it's advised to just mind yourself and try to avoid making eye contact with men. Men who are looking for a victim will probably go for the first woman who makes eye contact with them. Walk at a normal speed, not too slow and not too fast. Don't let the man know you're afraid but don't appear too confident. Please DO NOT look behind you and ESPECIALLY do not turn around completely to look at the man following you. DONT let him know that you know you're being followed. Don't think you can muscle your way out of it. Even if the man behind you is short and skinny, he is still way stronger than you can imagine. Don't depend on speed either. He can definitely outrun you. Why do you think male and female sports are separated? And why do you think male athletes achieve much much more than female athletes? You need to use thinking. Do you have your car keys in your hands? Could you use them as a shank to distract him then kick him in between his legs? Do you have pepper spray or a taser or any other item you can use to defend yourself? Maybe your phone's flashlight to distract him as well? It's best to have him preoccupied with something else before making a run for it. Men will shrivel up on the floor and cry for 30 minutes to an hour if kicked hard between the legs. Another weak spot is their necks, eyes, and a specific spot in the middle of their abdomen right underneath the chest. Don't be afraid to get nasty and kill him. You can go ahead and dig your car keys into his neck. Bite him as hard as you can if you need to. Punch him right in the eye as he's distracted by the injury on his neck and the bite marks as you proceed to kick him between the legs. Think fast, ladies. Having a firearm with you at all times is unnecessary. Pepper spray or a zapper is already enough. If you live in an unsafe area or are afraid, it's advised to take female self-defense classes. I know this might sound fucked up, but know that even in public you still might not be safe. Even if there are many people around, you'd be surprised that most won't try to help you if a man does anything to you to avoid conflict. Don't always be on alert even in crowds, but keep it in mind whenever you're walking down a busy street. You won't always be saved if harassed publicly.

[@gagiucarina]

Can you take into account the fact that we are not all americans? 🤣🤣

[@mila.5371]

what should i do as an autistic then? I need the headphones to function

[@yeshagoyal2966]

Don't look back like that! Pretend to look at some store and look to the side and look back from the corner of your eye at whoever is behind you

[@valeriebrown3709]

In addition to these tips some self defense classes and firearm and shooting classes and practice at the range are very helpful too. If you’re not comfortable to own or carry a firearm then always have a knife and pepper spray on you.

[@albinopenguin6894]

Pocketknives are great Small, sharp and able to easily fit in your pocket

[@angelicasubiry5178]

So many people say women over reacting for being scared. I have personally been cat called and followed. Thanks for making this video!

[@borislicina455]

I may be male but I always find it sad that I stumble over these safety videos. So sad women even have to think about such stuff and can't simply enjoy their evening.

[@heyolyla8659]

W for you

[@noelsmith3367]

Thank you! Someone who understands what it is like to be a girl

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

Haha lucky you I would give anything to be born a guy

[@EmbrysArt]

Here's a W for you

[@EmbrysArt]

@empty here's another W for you

[@pikazacian242]

Honestly though, the lack of pockets in women’s clothing can be a safety hazard in some situations, so some advice from me would be to try men’s pants, it may seem weird, but trust me, the only real difference is sizing and pockets, nobody’s gonna tell the difference, but you have a good place to store things you need so you don’t have to dig around, keys in one pocket, maybe phones and earbuds (if you have them) in another, and wallet with IDs in a back one if you have jeans, if not, use the same one as your keys. Some women’s clothing have pockets, so get those if you want to and can find them, but if not, men’s would probably be better than digging through a purse distracted and unaware of anyone who could have dangerous intent

[@Zoestone-m6g]

I’m so glad someone’s finally pointed this out

[@000Responses]

Phone holster gang

[@md_jashim]

I usually shop alot from men's section. The fashion range is more and in the women's section i see pink shirts with love written on

[@kashavisahu2432]

If you don't want to wear men jeans then simply put on a jacket with holders in summers use a light jacket

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

Hell yeah dude, I always wear mens clothes. Its so comfyyyy

[@Bearded_Dragons_Slay]

I can’t stay here forever 😭 creator should thank all the extremely long comments making me save the video and come back later. I’ve been sitting here for ages reading everybody’s story’s 😭 I can’t do this-

[@thecherrywhichtaehyungkiss4209]

I know right 😭 I want to read all of them they’re so interesting 😭

[@SNOWY10457]

Me too😭

[@girishjain3216]

same..

[@priti8213]

Same here

[@eternal_vibezs]

Fr😭💀

[@IceePhoenix]

So last year I was doing a christmas play at the community theatre. I'm very introverted, so I had just managed to comfortable with the cast at last and opening night was not far away. My adult sister (she's actually my birth mom, I'm just adopted by my grandma) always took me to rehearsals. She was helping in the backstage areas with props, when a random guy walked up to the people making props. The area they were making the props in was basically just a garage, so they had the door up. The guy starts asking for money and asks if he can come in. It was winter, so it kind of makes sense he'd want to come inside if it was cold, but it wasn't cold. My state is usually an ok temperature in November/December. He was acting weird, so they politely say he cannot come in and wait for him to leave before shutting the door. Or so they thought. He actually stole my sister's purse. I had come out of the changing room just after the guy supposedly left, because I had a feeling something was going on. My sister says she can't find her purse, so I help her look for it, but I cannot stay because I'm in the middle of rehearsals. I find out about the guy, and I think "oh my god this can not be a coincidence." What's creepier is that the changing room for the kids is right beside the open garage, and there is a curtain leading to the room, not even a door. We went the whole night, and nobody can find the purse. At one point, EVERYONE starts looking for it. I was actually told to go outside at about 11 PM alone as a teenager, without my phone since my sister had it (her phone was in her purse), and look for the car. I didn't even have time to change into normal clothes, I was wearing a leotard and no shoes. It was cold now because it was about midnight. Even if the days here aren't cold, the nights are. This was obviously a terrible idea. In addition, I have diagnosed anxiety with autism, and I was literally having a panic attack. I knew that mf was still out there and it was dangerous for me to go out there like that, so I stayed mostly inside and leaned out the door, and it was a good thing I did because he was actually still out there, and I heard some noise so I closed the door. I saw the car was still there anyways. He actually waited for the music director to drive us to our house before he stole the car (because everyone still thought the purse was missing). So for some reason, we wait to call the cops until my mom and my sister leave me and my little brother at home. My mom got a brand new car literally the day before this happened. We were really lucky to have gotten that car then or else we'd have no way to get anywhere. They arrive back at the theatre with the cops, and the car is gone. We have life360 on our phones, so I was trying to track my sisters phone with that. It was on battery saving mode, which means it shouldn't have updated the location, but it did anyways. I text my mom a picture of where it says the phone is. This helps, and they find the guy in less than an hour. He had actually stolen two cars with his girlfriend that same week and they just got out of prison a couple of weeks ago. He immediately confessed as soon as he was caught. All that was missing was a few dollars, some random items (pens mostly), and my mcdonalds fries.

[@opal3789]

Man’s stole your fries? Jeez out of all of that, that is definitely the nail in the coffin.

[@Bearded_Dragons_Slay]

Not the fries- 🍟

[@Bearded_Dragons_Slay]

🍟

[@leenaaa_aaa]

I hope you got your MacDonald's fries back😢

[@Its_.somebody1]

Not the fries!!🍟😔

[@jlynn797]

I just never leave the house without my husband. He's like my personal bodyguard. 😂

[@Pudding_zip]

A bodyguard without payment 😂

[@jissajohal1475]

@@Pudding_zip oh my God your funny

[@alive2eat751]

But this so sad that we have to go out with someone to be safe. I feel safer when I go out with my friend instead of going alone

[@jissajohal1475]

@@alive2eat751 ya me too

[@amalkiimasha6616]

@@Pudding_zip hii armyonce

[@fatherless8748]

The fact that women actually really need these videos is insane. What has the world come to that women have to be on high alert all the time, it’s sickening. Thank you very much for the tips

[@thaliasavard2694]

I remember when I was around 11 years old, I was walking home from my soccer practice a summer evening around like 6:30. And this shirtless man with no shoes who looked and acted like he was super high came running up to me. We were behind a building in an backlane. (since I was a kid and it was a shortcut) He started yelling at me. I was very nervous and sprinted back to where some of my team mates and coach's where. I was sobing and the strange man was still running, until he saw my 2 male coaches and 1 of my friend's dad. I told them everything through tears and they called the police. They came but never ended up finding the strange man. To this day still live in the same neighborhood and I don't ever want to walk alone. Also I never could thank the teammates and people that helped me and hugged me when I was going through a very scary time.♥️

[@karli4074]

“a man will never ask a woman for help” lol many points were made

[@bethanyc5786]

Safety tip number 1, raise our sons to not be predators.

[@Olive-qb1uk]

And daughters

[@corazontalli7794]

look i agree with this but theres always gonna be predators. theres always gonna be bad people in the world. sure raising our children better may delete some but its just not realistic

[@leaveleague3491]

Safety tip number 1. Women shouldn't ask for free hand

[@Sofi-bq6pr]

SO TRUE ✨

[@Sofi-bq6pr]

We need less baby boys with a 🚐and more men who are ACTUALLY good people 👍

[@trinitycooke998]

This one goes along with the grocery store thing… ( it’s a long one. ) So one day I was at Walmart with my mom and she had to go to the bathroom while we were waiting in line for the checkout and she told me to just save our space in line so I stood there while she went to use the restroom. So then like 2 minutes after she left these two big creepy guys come up behind me in the line of checkout (fyi this line was super long there were 3 ppl with huge carts in front of me) and the guys had literally maybe 3 things. Also they left the line that they were in to be behind me… 😳😳😬😬 and they are whispering mind you I am like 11 or 12 at the time so I am obviously really scared of these men at this point. So anyway they are whispering and all I hear is the biggest guy saying “that one” and I turn a little bit so I could see if he was pointing at me and sure enough he was. So I then freak out and turn around in the line and bolt for the bathroom. So my ladies out here always trust your gut because if you think about it why would they leave their really short line to come with me in my long line and when my mom left. So just remember that there are bad people out there and they will do whatever they can to get there hands on girls. Especially sex traffickers will do this.

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

I'm so fucking sorry that you experienced this, and I'm so proud of you for thinking quickly. You're so strong and I'm so happy you escaped

[@teamtheguywhoalmosthitbela6683]

If you define 3 people infront of you as a "super long line" I have nothing to say. I would probably also leave my line to stand in yours with only 4 people infront of me

[@YedidahMVO]

@@teamtheguywhoalmosthitbela6683 Well, she said the other line was shorter so it still doesn't make sense :/

[@Grace-sy8gf]

@@teamtheguywhoalmosthitbela6683 Three people with a lot of stuff is a long line. That was specified in the original comment.

[@ohmygodbecky6829]

@@teamtheguywhoalmosthitbela6683 do you do your own grocery shopping or are you 12. 3 Carts filled to the brim is a pain in the butt. Not one cart, THREE. And thats assuming they’re not gonna whip out hella coupons and argue with the cash register.

[@dreamer1-7]

My situation is nowhere near as intense as some of the ones I’ve read here. However, I was getting off my shift at a gas station and decided to fill my tank after work. It was Easter, sometime in the afternoon. And if anything were to go majorly wrong I could get help from coworkers inside the station. This man comes up behind me as I’m filling my tank, and says “hey” or something like that, asked if I could do him a favor. Now I wasn’t alone out there, but I immediately felt nervous and decided the best course of action was to act sort of like a b*tch lol thinking maybe he’d get the memo and go away. I’m not normally like that to strangers, but from what I’ve gathered, men don’t like “women who don’t smile at them”; they avoid them, at least I would hope. So I answered him with a stern “What?” And he proceeded to ask for a ride to his friend’s. I don’t remember if he even gave an exact location, but I do know it wasn’t just “down the road”. Regardless, I would’ve said no anyways. So I told him I couldn’t because I had to get home immediately. I seriously didn’t know what else to say, like what do you say, right? And he’s like “oh, are you not allowed to be out driving, you got a permit or something?” I was 20 at the time and I had my license, like damn you think I’m gonna drive alone illegally? Idk why he would say that tbh. I said no it’s Easter and I have to get home and then he kinda just left. What bugs me also, is that my boyfriend, who is very loving and caring 99% of the time told me afterwards that my excuse should’ve been: “I can’t drive you because I have a boyfriend” 😒 who was not even present at the time, mind you. I basically just explained that he wouldn’t understand how a man will not take that kind of answer. If you’re a woman and you’re alone, your boyfriend or whoever can’t protect you from possible harm just by mentioning them, but apparently he didn’t get it because he never has to worry about it. So yeah even though it wasn’t all that scary, it’s important to know that the reality for women is that you never know what could happen when you’re out on your own.

[@kaorichan3860]

Not all men understand the horror

[@jean3772]

You were incredibly wise. It could have been way worse if u didn't make that b*tch face.

[@Throatzillaaa]

No offense to your bf, I'm sure he thought he was being helpful, like maybe he thought that statement would scare a guy with questionable motives off. But the fact that you saying you needed to get home on a holiday wasn't even enough to get this guy to drop it immediately, makes me think he would have definitely not taken the boyfriend excuse well at all. I think needing to get home quick is always valid, but on a pretty major holiday, that makes a lot of sense (because you could have family visiting, big dinner in the oven, and so on). It was actually a really good excuse for you to come up with outta nowhere, particularly bc it wasn't insulting to him. He could have taken an excuse like "no I don't give strangers rides" as an insult and come back at you like "you don't trust me? do I look like a bad guy?" or something similar, leading to more conversation that might go south or make him more "offended". If anything, I think the "I can't. I have a boyfriend" excuse would just prompt the man to immediately make a comment about dating you or something worse, like overtly sexual. I wouldn't be surprised if a man's response to that was "You can't give me a ride because dating someone? You think I wanna date you? Do you usually wanna hook up with someone if you give them a ride?" Since giving someone a lift and your relationship status don't seem related at all, I just think it could easily lead to the man making perverted comments.

[@potato1084]

Normally if you say “I have to get home my bf or brother/dad/other male relative is waiting for me.” they back off. Maybe that’s why he suggested you tell him that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@potato1084]

@@kaorichan3860 Most men don’t even lock the damn front door. They have to learn the hard way. My dad got the house robbed twice when he was younger for keeping doors and windows open and he still unlocks the doors. I knew a group of male roommates who had a drugged up violent guy break in cause they never locked anything. It’s more common than you’d think esp in a city.

[@Astro_Panda.]

Pleaase be aware of your surroundings I got a story too, my friend and i roller skate and theres this park across the street from where she lives, a mcdonalds is close by and a gas station is next to the park. It was starting to get a little darker but there were lights so it wasnt too big of a deal. We were inside of a tennis court because it has a smooth surface. I when i noticed this car, where the gas station is, that was in the driveway not turning into a street and just sitting there. There were no cars in the small street so he couldve turned just fine. At that point im already sketched out. I see this car go straight into the parking lot for the park and i immediately tell my friend we’re getting tf out of there. At that point she wasnt great on skates and i was teaching her so she had to take her skates off so shed at least have a chance to run if it came down to it. This guy parks on the side of the tennis court which has a little alley way and chills there for a minute. Then he comes out and smokes a cigarette. We were about to leave when he comes into the tennis court and asks my friend where we came in from because he had a dog and wanted to let him out there but didnt want the dog to run away. There were two entrances in the tennis court and he came in from the opposite entrance. She tells him from one of the entrances and he says oh okay and leaves the court and parks right outside one of the entrances. We get tf out of there and bolt into the mcdonalds that was near by because if we had gone to my friends place he wouldve known where she lived. The workers were so nice as it was still a time where the pandemic was big and no one was allowed to eat in and one of the female managers even offered us a ride home but my friend lived right across the street. Always trust your instincts and be aware of your surroundings. Also download the app Noonlight. Its an app that contacts the police and any friends or family members with a push of a button. If youre not able to answer back to the apps text or cancel the button they send coordinates to the police of your location. I used it at that time as the guy was talking to my friend.

[@laceyhoneycutt6781]

The guy: wtf is wrong with them girls... Kids these days 😒

[@equinehyds]

@@laceyhoneycutt6781 plz 😂

[@Astro_Panda.]

@@laceyhoneycutt6781 bruh where was the dog 😭😭😭😂😂😂

[@Astro_Panda.]

@@reannahissyssdonaire565 whooo them wattpad fanfics be getting a little too realistic 🥵🥵🥵🥵

[@nourasupercutie9896]

When I take a taxi especially at night I always share my live location with my mom and sister just in case my friend once told me that before she gets inside the taxi she takes a photo of the car’s number plate and sends it to her parents which I think is a really helpful tip Also when my instincts are warning me or feeling unsafe i call my mother or boyfriend and start talking with him and inform him about my location so that the driver knows that someone knows my location and can search for me in case i go missing.

[@DuchessAnastasia]

I will say it again, as an Uber driver do not ask the driver to verify who you are. You are responsible for self. The app has the driver’s license plate number, make and model and their actual picture on the app. Go to the back of the driver’s car and verify for your own safety. Look and see for yourself if the vehicle on the picture matches the picture that they are driving and look at their face. Yes, it has a mask, but the eyes and forehead and hair should be the same. Be responsible for self. You are responsible for yourself. Depending on your driver when he only has a name is careless. Yes it’s tedious, but practice will become habit. And please don’t delete my response just because you don’t like that a female driver is sharing common sense that can save your life.

[@Makdkb]

@@DuchessAnastasia thank you ❤

[@sophiek9158]

A little tip: If your coming out of a place walking to your car, get everything in your hands, if your car is a bit away, right as you leave the place, get your stuff in your hands and run to your car. It will always help, just in case someone is trying to watch you. And either go on the passenger side or driver side, and lock your car and try to drive away as fast as you can. It will help avoid people and get you out of the parking lot faster.

[@Kdrama_Critic]

This Video has Again Reminded me of my Childhood incident....which I had just forgotten....so there was a man in our Area who's daughter was my sister's close friend. I was playing in ground and I don't remember how I reached the stairs of his building. He was there and was forcing me to go up with him. I was constantly refusing him and then he was like holding my hand and saying I will give you candies...and in confusion I just started slowly to go with him...I was like he is my Sister's best friend Father. May be my sister's friend is calling me....but after few seconds my Sister came and she just Rescued me... literally she was looking like an angel at that time...I just wanted to hug her that time...My sister is very Confident from the start...so she just said to him that it's pretty late. We have to go home now....but I feel sad why she didn't asked him about what he was actually doing...but she was not Very Young at that time as well but she did saved me....she was shaking herself but she was not as dumbo as me....and Iam Soo glad that I have her😊❤️

[@m_iki.]

Def was gonna molest u, glad your sister came to the rescue!!

[@umliuq]

God knows what could have possibly happened if you went with the man!

[@Kdrama_Critic]

@@umliuq yeah even thinking about it is scary

[@Kdrama_Critic]

@@m_iki. yeah Alhamdulillah 🙃

[@m_iki.]

@@Kdrama_Critic sorry if this was a bit too.....umm.....much for you It was 2:00 in morning when i read this so, i was really sleepy and just said that fir some reason, i hope this was too rude or offensive Sorry again, gald you have your sister!!

[@ninicoco7]

These days I cough out loud (while having my mask on) and people don't approach because covid duh. This happened last year. I was a foreign student and was living in that country for 2 years. So I was familiar with my surrounding. However that day I was walking out of subway and my brother face timed me. It was around 1pm in broad day light. I was pretty much invested in the call and was looking at my brother while walking. I didn't realise someone was following me. That person was keeping a safe distant probably becaue I was in a video call. I had to cross the road so I told my brother to hold on and was waiting for the crossing light. Then I felt weird when I look around because eventhough I was invested in the call I felt like this person was coming behind for a few minutes and now he was standing super close. So I crossed the road and in milliseconds the person was in my space and I had no idea what to do. My instant reaction was coughing. I acted like I'm having a coughing fit and he backed off immediately I turned around and ran inside a cafe and waited there for about two hours before leaving. Always pay attention to your surroundings even if it is broad day light or a crowded place. Pickpocketers are everywhere and they can be the most decent looking men with a suit and a briefcase or a lady with a stroller or an expensive looking outfit.

[@pinkwhite7301]

Thanks for the idea buddy 😊

[@piixelll]

If something like this happens u quickly have to run to a public area don't be alone on streets

[@lilyjohnson344]

I want to go travel a lot of places but I'm scared about this whole getting abducted thing I just feel like the world would be a better place if we didn't have to worry about the people in it.

[@nikki1400]

You can absolutely travel! Just be prepared, and be smart.

[@centrifugedestroyer2579]

Go to nordic countries, like Sweden, Finland etc. They are pretty safe

[@Luke99Granato]

Go to Colombia and Venezuela, safe for women

[@Hairynibba777]

she went from “😩” to life advice real quick 💀

[@sady1139]

Facts, also for the man asking for help, even if they are injured! That’s how Ted Bundt got some of his victims! He would wear a fake cast or a fake brace and then pushed the girl into his trunk

[@andyli3608]

For the most part, if you see a man with a sort of disability, don’t ignore him. You’re promoting negligence on the entire male community because of rare incidents.

[@sady1139]

@@andyli3608 of course! I should’ve been more clear because he didn’t have a full on disability but he was wearing a fake arm sling (I don’t even think there was a cast), in general just be aware of your surroundings and don’t get too too close

[@allykuit5384]

@@andyli3608 I can't agree with that. Her safety must always be first. Those incidents aren't that rare and besides, even one is enough.

[@andyli3608]

@@allykuit5384 what about the safety and well being of a disabled man? What if he falls, what if he’s blind, what if he’s disabled? We’re still human after all. If this happened to a girl struggling, 99/100 men wouldn’t blink an eye and help in someway. It shouldn’t be a way one kind of action. Don’t ignore men in need. It’s dehumanizing. We already don’t have access and support to mental health facilities.

[@allykuit5384]

@@andyli3608 I never said anything about dehumanising. Most women rush to help anyone hurt or in distress anyway. However, too many women are caught up in something horrendous because of the feminine instinct to care for others. I'm simply saying to put your safety first. I hail from a country where criminals think nothing of putting a baby in a car seat in the middle of the road to hijack people.

[@D1EN0]

I got a story about the car parking lot thing. So I was leaving the grocery store and I notice this group of maybe 20 or 19 year old boys (there was like 5 of them) just standing outside in the middle of the parking lot. There was only my car and maybe 4 other ones in the parking lot. I started walking pretty fast to it because 2 of the men were chasing me. I had my phone in my pocket and my car keys in my hand (keep in mind my keys have pepper spray on them) as I was walking closer to my car I could see threw the passenger window that the other 2 were near my driver side door. I start running gripping my pepper spray and I quickly open my car and jump into the back seat (it was the easiest thing to get into.) I leaned over to start my car to honk at the men to get away. By the way, my windows were down a bit because it was hot-for some weird reason. And so I climb into the front seat and I noticed one of the guys putting there hand THREW the WINDOW so I'm over here freaking out and without thinking I STAB HIS HAND WITH ONE OF MY KEYS ON MY PASSENGER SEAT (the key was to my front door) and he screams and pulls his hand away and the other dude put his head threw the window (by the way the window was open enough where a persons head could fit in but not a body) and so without thinking I grab my pepper spray and spray it in his eyes and once he backs up I roll up the windows and SPEED out of the parking lot. Yeah no, I never go to the store without someone walking me to my car or my roommate comes with me.

[@siffie5355]

Why tf would they try squeezing there head in a window?? They're some messed up boys, and you're very brave to have survived that, stay safe

[@D1EN0]

@@siffie5355 the man that put his head in the window started yelling at me for stabbing his friend, I forgot to add that

[@D1EN0]

@Moana Gracious US

[@D1EN0]

@•• Okay?? My bad??

[@D1EN0]

@•• Not mad, just letting you know that I know now and won't be changing it:/

[@laney8582]

this so true spencer. thank you for posting this video to make everyone aware ❤

[@harrypotterdweeb8241]

I love how enthusiastic you are always giving great vibes

[@Debalina]

It's great that there are so many preventive ways , but also sad at the same time that these needs to be followed in the world. We can't even have the liberty of asking if the uber is the right one, and burden our hands with safety tools for even the most common and shortest trips .

[@Aaaskdkwkwnjwjj]

Story time: One day, me(10yo) and my sister(13yo) wanted to go on a walk because we were bored and it was a nice day, my parents didn't want to let us at first because our dog was somewhere else at the moment so she couldn't protect us if anything happened but they eventually agreed so we went and everything was fine until the way back, now, me and my sister have always been very paranoid so we always look behind us and my sister took a pocket knife pretty much everywhere she went but back to the story, we were on our way back and I look behind me and see a big man wearing a black hoodie with the hood up, but we could see his face and I didn't recognize him which was kind of weird because we lived in a small neighbourhood and we all knew each other but at first I brushed it off thinking that he was probably just on a walk but I was still aware and after a few corners, he was still behind us so I looked at my sister and she looked behind us and saw the man. We walked a bit more, he was still behind us so I was internally panicking but my sister turned to me and asked if I wanted to race, I immediately said yes and we took off running, not looking back and we soon got home because we were pretty close already, as soon as we got in the house I hugged my mother but neither of us told anyone about this. To this day I wonder what would have happened if my sister wasn't there, please be aware of your surroundings because the world can be truly dangerous.

[@All_his_little_things]

Here’s a little story time... When I was younger me and my mom went grocery shopping and after we put the groceries away my mom checked her phone and some random guy tried to open the car door and get inside but the doors were locked. My mom immediately honked and drove away and the guy walked off and it looked like he was holding something in his hand that could of been dangerous. So yeah get in the car and drive away because you never know and always lock the doors once your inside.

[@noah6079]

That fact that you need to know tips like that makes me sad our world is really that dangerous. I hope nothing bad ever happens to you and i hope that everyone of you is healthy and have a good day...

[@VeryVeryTiny]

“A man would never ask a woman for help” My dad asking my mum for help every minute

[@rvlaas]

i think that's a little bit different

[@olivebranch2059]

With small children along, it's more challenging to stay aware of your surroundings, especially while getting them loaded into the car. If possible, it's safer to keep children at home and get groceries delivered.

[@balapenguin8687]

ohh that makes a lot of sense now that you say it. my family would always take my sibling and I shopping with them and I started to wonder a while ago why I dont see a lot of other kids with their parents at the store. I'm sure its cuz kids are a hassle, and the just kind of town I'm in, but this does open another possibility in my mind

[@stevedouglas1619]

She's right tho .. men don't ask for help cause while growing up usually their father teaches them most of what they Kno .. most predators will say sum like"I lost my kid or dog and ask for help" a nice way to get out of the situation is to either try to get yourself into a store or ignore and act like ur on the phone .. having a license for a legal firearm would help a lot yoo for a concealed carry plus girls with guns are badass .. thanks and keep up the perfect content !!

[@MorphMakes]

i ask anyone for help really, i’m clueless most of the time lol but i do think that circumstance matters and i would honestly just say for everyone to trust their gut

[@camilap.8096]

Usually, maybe, but doesn’t mean everyone. Be safe but don’t assume all men don’t ask for help.

[@zosiabosia8769]

it's usually not parents who teach them that stuff I think, usually self taught

[@AimeeBL]

Once I was with my dad in his LARGE van and I started messing around running into the back of the van, not sitting down in the front and then walking into a walkway that was next to the van. I then saw a man looking at me and waved at him. Finally, I got into the van. A few days later, the POLICE came to my house at 3am to see if I was safe because they thought I had been abducted. *Moral of the story: Don't mess around in a super market parking lot.*

[@user-pm9ei6mz6c]

Didn't understand. How did the police come to know??

[@khloxox]

@@user-pm9ei6mz6c Probably there were surveillance cameras and they saw the license plate of the van but i really dont know

[@khloxox]

@@user-pm9ei6mz6c Or the bystander called the police??

[@brittonmartin7534]

I literally love watching your vids!!! All of the videos have helped me so much in my life! And I can’t stop watching your videos.

[@akiitea1127]

I just realized that even though I don't want a bf i'm scared to be alone. Exactly why I need friends xd

[@Christinejenkins222]

I'm always on point,especially when my 7 yr old daughter is w me.b4 u walk out of the store have your keys in your hand.keep your kids ALWAYS next to you.cause YOU are the one that's gonna fight the hardest to protect your child.August 4,2020, 2 men forced themselves into our home while we were bringing groceries in.they had a gun,at the time my daughter was 5,one of them immediately put the gun to her head,the other 1 my husband was fighting.i grabbed the barrel of the gun,I couldn't stand it in my baby's face,being much stronger than me he pulled it back,may have not been the smartest thing to do,it all happened so fast,I was able to push my daughter out the back& told her to go to the neighbors,I started to go out myself,but came back in,they were trying to tie my husband's hands.i jumped on the back of 1,he threw me back,but it was enough time for my husband to get free,they backed us into the corner behind the back door,he kept going back & forth w the gun from my head to my ole man's head,,w a big smile on his face.when they were walking to our house a young lady was driving by & noticed these guys in 90degree weather,w hoodies &masks,she called the police. Turned out they were 16 & 17 yrs old,& the gun was not loaded,but we did not know that.i would love to get a hold of their parents.1 was charged as an adult,the other charged as a juvenile.so BE AWARE EVERYWHERE,even at home where we should feel the safest. Thanks for the tips

[@delpicsla65]

I live in a pretty safe and affluent area, but my brother almost got kidnapped once walking home alone, and that has changed my perception on so many things. He was walking home late at night, even though I’m sure he knew better he thought he would be safe and he wasn’t. My heart stopped in that moment cause I was thinking of all the bad things that could’ve happened, and if I would never see him again. The world is truly not safe anymore, you’ve gotta lock your doors and always sleep with one eye open. It’s nothing wrong with being cautious and meticulous, it is worth it in the long run, trust me.

[@supercoolbeans]

When I was little my mom had a self defense tool on her keys but me as a little kid just thought it was a little fun keychain. When I got older and realized what it was… that’s when the dangers of the world hit me.

[@saramayer8824]

Thank you for the safety tipps and for spreading awareness about this toppic. And your earrings are so unbelievable beautifull just like you.

[@darijab.1729]

i'm so lucky i don't live in America. i gasped when i heard all of these stuff you do to protect yourself. be safe girls! sending love

[@theyoutubecloud4500]

Yeh same

[@_noon]

This doesn’t just happen in America, it can happen anywhere.

[@theyoutubecloud4500]

@@_noon it manly does

[@peatot2670]

@@theyoutubecloud4500 its not even that bad in America compared to other places

[@davidshipp623]

Men, particularly young men, are statistically more likely to be attacked by a stranger than a woman, so sensible precautions should be taken by everyone. In both cases the attacker is also more likely to be male. But attacks are also rare enough that you shouldn’t run your whole life in fear. Even the US is a relatively safe country and we live in unbelievably safety levels across the world compared to all of history. Be careful yes but enjoy yourself too.

[@carolinenachtrab4357]

You're very sharp! I wish someone had told me these things when I was younger. Good job!🙂

[@leonienuhn4571]

thanks for those tips!^^ ps; i love your earrings

[@CJ_He_They]

Thank you so much for all these tips! I look up to you and love you so much!

[@sollyrose]

"A man will never ask a woman for help." I don't know how many time, as a woman, I helped unknown men for different reasons because they asked me. And I'm still alived.

[@lost8861]

Yes, this It's understandable that women would be more scared of the "stronger" sex out there, but then they act like we're fucking psychopaths that are only out to get you. Like. . . I get it, but why do some people have to be sexist while doing it

[@gosalynmallard143]

@@lost8861 I'm interested, what asking for help is in her opinion? Like helping a stranger to find a way by saying where to go is also help. Men ask for directions as often as women do. Or asking for some coins to be able to go by bus (not sure those guys actually spent that money on bus tickets but that's on them anyway)

[@poop6914]

@@lost8861 dont be offended dude. This sht is scary af for us, we're just watching out for our own safety. Like yes we are aware that it's obviously not all men but we also do not know WHICH men especially STRANGERS. We always get victim blamed for not "protecting ourselves" but whenever we do protect ourselves we get sht on it for "offending men" :/// please be more understanding, im so tired of this. You think i wanna live like this? Fck no, but its reality and the real world is a scary fkn place and we all need to protect ourselves.

[@lost8861]

@@poop6914 I never said that the video doesn't have points, but I'm just pointing out that the video has blatant Bais against men at the end. Also you're saying this like men also don't get victim blamed, I'm not sorry to say this but I'm pretty sure mes get victim blamed more than woman

[@andyli3608]

@@poop6914 abductions are 1 in 300,000. You’re gonna be fine for the most part. The problem is that she’s promoting a lifestyle where you no longer help guys. I saw someone post in the comments not to help a disabled guy because it’s all an act to get you kidnapped. ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?! A guy struggling and your not helping them?

[@Otaku-xd6xd]

(Cis female but enby) When I looked more feminine I noticed girls would sit closer to me on the bus, now that I look more masculine more guys sit near me and for some reason looking more masculine is even scarier to me because I like the alternative aesthetic and sometimes wear a plushy or something like that apart from all the chains and black clothes, but I’m scared I’ll pick a fight because people don’t take things well. And when I was doing the Lolita Style when I was more feminine, I even got followed from the store all the way infront of my house, I had my mom on face time the whole time, but she was at work and my acrophobic aunt came running to get me with her umbrella and hat and face mask. Ended screaming and insulting the guy in front of everyone. I felt bad she had to do that for me because her disorder is very serious and she had an anxiety attack in the afternoon the same day and had to take aspirin.

[@Daemon_Prince]

Sounds like you just have a mental issue

[@led6244]

I was robbed outside Walmart at gunpoint in Houston, I wasn’t paying attention and on my phone standing out front of the entrance. The female robber tried to take my purse but I fought her and she only got away with my phone. I was shook. But the firefighters checked me out and made sure I was okay. Stay alert always! Keep your wits about you, walk straight to your vehicle quickly. Keep a weapon on you or your vehicle

[@Lanmarshmallo]

Everytime I fall into one of her videos I find her prettier each time

[@fancytwice7230]

SAME

[@JustNatalia2009]

Its always important to go with your gut if you feel unsafe in a situation then the situation is most likely unsafe

[@norahal8310]

The key thing is so accurate…even if nothing is happening when I have to look for my keys outside my door and it’s dark it scares the shit out of me

[@Deathsdearlybeloved]

Another good one is to always have a nail file it’s normal and easy to hide but it can help you in so many situations like cutting rope and it’s sharp so if you have nothing on you if u had to u can stab them with it to get away it’s actually very useful to have

[@balapenguin8687]

a nail file? I only have older nail files so I'm confused as to how you can stab someone with a nail file-

[@Deathsdearlybeloved]

@@balapenguin8687 some of them have a sharp point at the end

[@aestheticsvibes3681]

My mom always told me that people will never ask a child or female for help. I’m glad she told me that

[@autumnrh04]

Love how she always starts her videos with the little, “mmmhh”

[@sparkiler]

I think I saw this on reddit but there was a preteen girl who heard the doorbell ring so she went to door and opened it and this person referred himself to the 'Mail Man'. But she had a strange vibe from him She said that he wore a dirty white shirt and jeans, he did not have a uniform. Anyways he told her "There is a box for you but it is so heavy and I can't carry it myself" (keep in mind they probably have a dolly/dolie for it) He said his van was behind her house or somewhere where she couldn't see it. She said politely she couldn't. But the man said he would have a problem with it so she said "Let me get my shoes on" just to go in her room and lock the door and windows, she told her mom everything and she said to the man "Hey my mom is coming to help you with the box" the second she said that he ran away in shame and never bothered her again It is called "Mr Mailman I hope we don't meet again" I think

[@sharonburgerburger9808]

Advice, that I know, but great that you reiterate! I am guilty of a few! Thanks

[@caramelu2525]

Guy tried to force me out of my car, i started throwing hands and pulling on him and punching and Kicking. I screamed and swore like a madwoman while beating the dude. I took off my heels and started hitting him in the face with it. It was those ones that had a somewhat sharp point. He ran away and I went back to my car and drove off fast. I was really scared and i didnt even know how to fight, but i guess it was a fight or flight instinct and i chose violence. Thank goodness he just ran off and that was it. Remember, violence is not the answer, its the question and the answer is yes. In some circumstances, not all.

[@Captain_crunchy]

Girl, you went from appearing one day on my yt shorts, to being my daily dosage.

[@SKZ_4_LIFE_2024]

My parents have always said to me and my younger siblings that if we get lost alone in a store or a mall, go right to the closest person that work in the store (EVEN better, somone of your own gender), NEVER go up to for example one of your friends parents if your parents dont know them REALY well, people have been kidnapped by their friends parents. Stay safe💗

[@goodvibez17]

Once, my brother, mom and I were both walking our dog and my feet hurt so much because we walked so far. Our mom is anted to walk her farther but my brother and I wanted to go home. So our mom continued to walk our dog, and my brother and I started walking up the street to our house (our house wasn’t far away from where we had stopped). Suddenly, some completely random guy steps out of the BUSHES and starts following us. He also had a backpack, and we had no idea what could have been in it. Thankfully, my brother turned around and saw him, so he told me we were going to have a race (I was around four or five and he didn’t want me to be scared) so we both just bolted like hell all the way home and when we made a sharp turn, he didn’t see us. He also didn’t see which house we went into. Our mom saw the whole thing so she came home immediately and we locked our door quickly. Scary experience, especially because our dad was out of town. 👍

[@mrchicken6020]

Men doesn’t ask really anyone for help unless they need it because they want to prove to themselves they can do it

[@Aiibh]

Exactly that one was true

[@sarisianturi5549]

Who ask for help when they don't need it tho?

[@mrchicken6020]

@@sarisianturi5549 sorry I meant to saw when they truly need it

[@TheRipge]

This was pretty much the only comment to state this in a way that doesn't belittle most men's thought process. Well said!

[@Kento_nanami25]

Short story(based on irl):so me and my parents went shopping and i was like 8 or 9 and i got lost trying to do those pranks and hiding in the clothing racks and scaring my parents and i cried and some big dudes saw and came close to me and i got really scared but my mom told me about these things when i was smaller and i knew what was gonna happen and like i thought the dudes told me "are you lost? I know where you parents are" "here have this candy" But i said nothing and saw a group of workers and ran to them and i told them the situation and they took me to find my parents and i saw my mom and dad so i ran to them crying and the workers told them "miss your daughter is very smart you taught her well" btw those dude were innocent and they were my dad's friends.they laughed when they saw me and my parents explained everything and they gave me the candy . But kids! That doesn't mean you should trust everyone and not all of these people are you parent's friend so stay safe!

[@laylanamerow8475]

This literally scared me but I will be using them thank u

[@tantalizingtiddies7387]

Dont be scared lovely, be cautious, and be prepared. Stay safe and stay strong