Picking our Soulmates❤️ [based on MBTI]

Guests:
Eunsu: / shimeunsu
Nicole: / nicolejihyun
JBRO:
/ dr.johnyoo
/ jason.j.ki
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#jbro #nyc #dating

[@samanthacurious]

I have been married for almost 10 years and it is so cute seeing you guys discussing this topic. Enjoy this video very much. On the other hand, once you got married, everything will be different. Not as what you have imagined. And you will realize life just carry on and no one is perfect. Maybe you can interview married couples with or without kids, what love is. You will get different answers. *wink

[@sw33tfr0styy]

Jason is such a mature and sweet person. Everything he said, I could relate. I’d like to submit a suggestion if you guys could bring in a guest with a time where they were stuck in a bad relationship where it took them a very long time to leave.

[@snam626]

I’ve been married for 7 years and this episode is so cute. I would say finding “the one” puts too much pressure on yourself. And there will be difficult times in marriage where you may question your choice in your partner. Relationship is work and each partner needs to put work into it. I hope you all find someone that cherishes you.

[@maya_jones3411]

This whole “The one” thing doesn’t exist. There’s many people out there that you would be attracted to and compatible with.

[@daphneayo8320]

Interesting discussion! I don't totally agree with Nicole though, that good people attract good people. One thing I have found is that good people will attract everyone, the good, the terrible, the toxic, 'cause even toxic people are also attracted to beautiful things. The key here is to learn how to filter sensibly. There are genuinely good people who unfortunately keep getting entangled with toxic people for so many reasons. I just hope they don't see themselves as a reflection of the kind of people who seek them out. And as I always pray: May good people find good people. BTW, I love your content. Always.

[@Ashnesss]

LOL no it’s not their job to filter. Good people don’t chase or pursue toxic people. Toxic people pursue, chase, harass and abuse good people. It’s their job to have self control and discipline, and NOT ruin people’s lives or mistreat people. Good people establish boundaries and stay away. It’s the toxic ones who don’t buzz off and poke their nose where it doesn’t belong. You’ll never see a decent person taking interest in a toxic person. It’s always the toxic one who’s interested in the decent person.

[@daphneayo8320]

@@Ashnesss We're technically saying the same thing. Thanks for responding.

[@NaNgNg0]

ENTJ and INTP are super compatible personalities so JBros makes a lot of sense right now 😂😂😂

[@JBRODUCTION]

😂😂🙈🙈🙈 destiny

[@marobace]

I was hanging out at my friend’s parent’s restaurant at our local airport. A Pilot approached me & said, he had a flight but could he call me. I said sure, not expecting much but hours later I got 2 calls at home and it was him, I wasn’t home and later on he showed up at my house. My friend’s mom had given him my info and he’s been calling me ever since. 😎 That was 38 yrs ago this past Summer. He is still a Pilot ✈️ and 4 children, (3 married) 1 granddaughter, 4 dogs and a cat later our marriage is still strong as the day we met. It was love at first sight for him. What I have learned in my Life is Love matter’s but like I said before…it’s all about EFFORT, whether it’s, family, friends, co-workers, partner’s or spouses. It takes 2 people to make a relationship & 1 person to decide it’s over. Food for Thought: 🤔 If one person realizes they are putting in all the “Effort” it get’s old & tiring & this will make any relationship fail.

[@virginiaperez8485]

You are great Thank you

[@idevourtheworld]

Please bring the ladies back!!! They are awesome and hilarious.

[@Yolomamba24]

As much as I'd like to believe in fate. I still think you have to be active in putting yourself out there. I.e. if you don't put yourself in situations where you can meet new people, you're not giving fate a chance to work.

[@AndreaDiaz-rc3iy]

THISSSSS

[@Traumatised311]

I agree I belive in gate But that happens when u r around many people Not when you're sitting in ur room

[@rickytiller5698]

You two are great! And Ensu and Nicole are great to listen to! Thanks for another terrific interview!

[@sandragiant777]

You guys have some of the most wonderful and eye-opening discussions - so much wisdom is shared. And you choose your guests very well - you can tell a lot about people by who their friends are. Your thoughts and advice are helpful no matter what community you're from, because you tackle discussions from a fundamental human level.

[@cherylng9395]

Is it just me or does John like Eunsu 👀

[@tknam3278]

One thing people don't really know about is those who is giving is the ultimate winner in relationships. They are to be seen as fool but they tend to give their heart to the fullest so when they break up, there's no regrets left for them. Those who is receiving, on the other hand, look like winning in the relations but they are likely to take all the love they have for granted. When the relationships are over they regret and can't forget the big heart they'd had, leading them to make a call to the ex when drunk or lonely while the ex is having a great date with another. So, if you feel like giving anything no matter big or small to your bf or gf, just do it. Don't think of it as you're losing. Your genuine heart and love will be cherished.

[@vanessamartinez24]

Thank you ladies for your input & advice!! I can see why John & Jason complement each other really well 💕 so happy you guys are posting relatively quick 😁

[@erikaguerra7817]

Once again y’all blessing my feed ✨ Thank you for the many laughs😂💛 blessings to y’all always~!!

[@RevingtonDalton]

I love so much Nicole's speech. Most of her experience makes sense and is good as I view it. Both are good Q & A keep going, Jason and John. I am waiting for more vlogs coming from you. 👍✌️😇Good luck to you all 🍀❤

[@snowy_shea]

This episode as usual is a 10+++! 👏👏👏 Thank you guys for sharing ur valuable thoughts & insightful words of wisdom! 👍👨‍🎓👩‍🎓👩‍🎓👨‍🎓 🥳 🙌 🙏

[@workofivory]

Nicole is so insightful. Loved her advice

[@_daisydaisy1438]

loved your sharings and the humor in-between!

[@yungsteez541]

Very pretty and smart ladies and a very intricate conversation. Keep it up J bros !!!

[@mevans3291]

Loved every moment of this!!

[@y-nhyduong1248]

I totally ship Jason and the ESFP friend. Jason seems like the patient and emotionally intelligent person to communicate well with ESFP, and ESFP seems like a sweet person and unique-thinking person that vibes with Jason's more sentimental and soft sides.

[@aishaadam7473]

She does not give off esfp energy, not sure tho

[@fdoctor79]

Someone already mentioned this but I think you all should interview married couples to get varied perspectives. Great discussion, tfs!

[@jenniferflores1770]

I love watching all your guys videos! Thank you for always making me laugh, learn etc😊

[@leepm7612]

its always insightful video as usual. I think the most challenging one is "try to not be too attached to another person".

[@janeausten1820]

You guys are amazing tour guides, I hope they enjoyed their visit

[@deebacon9590]

❤ yay more content for y’all! ❤ I agree on faith and soulmates. I also feel you should have standards but also not be stronghold on a person having to have all ur box check off! I’m taking my first love to the grave yard! Y’all know I’m dragging him there! 😂 😂 I’ve been saying it seems so hard dating these days! I think the day my son brings a GF home for my approval, that means he’s ready for the next level. He’s 26 and still no gf has yet to come over! 😂😂

[@joycemacayana1946]

Dr. Jason 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I totally agree with Nicole. Love yourself first and be complete by yourself before you share those love to someone else. Its self worth. I also believe that someone better will always come after breakup. They looked better as you'll like or be attracted to them because the past doesn't or didn't do things your present does. The small wave Dr. John had me laughing .. hahaha! Fetish dinosaurs.. Nice nice lol Great content. 🙌🏻Well done guys. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Kudos as always. See you on your next video. 화이팅!!👊🏻💚

[@ameliayeo]

Love these discussions keep them coming!

[@slumberotter5411]

I believe in giving the person you love a 100% cos whats the meaning of loving if you don't give it your all. If you get hurt it is devastating but you will get up again and love again. That's my personal opinion anyway. Love this kind of content from you guys. Really enjoyed Eunsu and Nicole as guests.

[@peacelife]

Omg! How did I missed this vid. Great vid. Nicole is hilarious haha should do this again!

[@haruhi7745]

Welcome Back. Nice and cool topics🌷

[@piggiesmalls4]

Loving these two lady guests! 💕

[@_daisydaisy1438]

Awww!! I really like this!

[@larularulei7533]

"Good people attract good people". Can absolutely relate to that. So true.

[@LyssieLysse]

Great video! I spent years trying to look for "The One", but I realized that I really just want someone who will kick it with me and my love for anime, K-dramas, K-Pop and telenovelas until the grave (100551 years from now) . I really was set on my "type" in my 20s and didn't realize I was blocking out quality guys. I'm 32 now and I'm more lax in looking for my counterpart and I'm interested in seeing who I'll ultimately connect with.

[@pinkypilot]

New subscriber...good convo. Been happily married 15+ yrs. (I'm Asian, he's Irish). As someone (going into this relationship) with self esteem issues, I have to say that my husband has been my rock and staunchest supporter. So, one can go into a relationship, insecure, and become independently stronger. He was not 'the one' initially, but he is now.

[@maythibo8109]

I can relate to her. My MBTI is INFJ and I’d prefer to check out personalities than look 😅

[@Ashnellsantiagoo]

Love your videos 😊

[@LeeLee-zk7xf]

31 years of age, so still a young perspective lol: 11 years with my husband now and 4 being of marriage. It was undeniably fate with my husband, but we’ve had our fair share of needing to ‘control and handle’ our relationship with care to keep it striving. We are but only humans. Fate will allow something to happen, but it’s also up to you to care for it to workout. I’m quite driven in my career, but I look at relationships similarly to my career. I can be the best suited and qualified candidate for a job, but if it’s not fated, the opportunity won’t be given. I can also be non-qualified and by fate be given an opportunity. Either/or, it all requires your own efforts and care to truly succeed. You don’t have to believe in chivalry, but fate is one to not overlook lol. Love Eunsu and Jason’s perspectives!

[@caleb4956]

너무 재미있다!!

[@elibby1095]

Hi guys! 👋🏻 I think the more you chase love, the further it will drift away. Until then, work on yourself and you will see how everything falls into place and when you least expect it, that person will arrive for whom the wait has been worth it..! 👌 BTW, I'm ISFJ 😌 haha! Bye! 😘

[@sabb5829]

I agree first love is special for sure since it’s the first time you experience feelings like that but you don’t take it to the grave yard for sure. I’ve been married for 25 years and there is only one man in this world I’ll be taking in my heart to the graveyard and that’s my husband for sure. He wasn’t my type when we first met and we have extremely different personalities and interests but I love that guy. He’s everything I needed

[@tonygaupo]

this is a fun episode!

[@sunnni_]

So based off this, what you're saying is I need to find someone that is INTP (like Jason) or ESFP(like Eunsu) lol. I have no problem doing random and weird behavior in public, I literally dance sometimes waiting for the bus lol. I actually never thought about what Nicole said about first love can be a new person each time you do date and it may be your last love. Definitely open my eyes to a different idea and mindset so when I do date again, I can think about this

[@annemacleod1421]

I’m with Nicole…self acceptance puts you in a good space to be able to share your life and love with others….and you have to meet people, be open, be available, not wait f9r it to come to you because I am not such a believer in fate! I’m a married Pakeha (white) woman living in New Zealand! Not your demographic! But love how you have these conversations and tools ideas and beliefs around. It’s healthy! 🇳🇿🇳🇿🐑🐑

[@lorenpal8978]

jason, i think you are a good person. wiling to walk with a human dinosaur. awwwwww (insert heart emoji here)!

[@namede6210]

Interesting discussion. But hey I gotta say that Eunsu is just so beautiful.

[@vivpatlee1023]

Please bring married guests,such as your parent or young couple. I think it will bring so much different prospects. Dating vs marriage are 2 different games.

[@austinleexkiller]

Hey JBro I was wondering if you can make a video about what to do if some people don't like the way you are and doesn't like your personality. Should you change yourself? And is someone out there that will like the way you are? Also, your videos are really helpful on dating and life. Thank you, JBro!

[@rayeesamehkri]

Fun... intriguing... relatable and awesome 😎👏👏♥️

[@tatacathrina.9120]

Jason is so sweet ^_^ we should call him " guru 😁.".

[@groovingarbie5007]

Analysis, paralysis. Just jump in, live and learn, and experience life.

[@lazmikabir7868]

wise words spoken by wise people

[@nupurkhadilkar467]

Boys are back ☺️😀💕😜

[@joycemacayana1946]

I had to watch first. 잠깐만요.🤭

[@elinab376]

That was a funny video, guys :)

[@squadhilal]

Well stop looking, I’m right over here 😌

[@Ashnesss]

You nailed it talking about the “combination of things”. I always say that you need a combination. Not one thing over the other. If you don’t have everything in a certain dose, it can’t work and you’ll feel the gap. John nailed it with the reciprocating part 👍🏻 I’ve been through a living hell for 7 years because a random psycho who I had rejected, committed crimes against me and couldn’t pick up on the fact that he had NO chance whatsoever. I’m shocked at how DUMB he is and how little he knows about human behaviour and male female dynamics. John and Jason, you guys are smart, kind, DECENT, funny, positive and you have great meaningful relationships in life, which is always an important sign. You’re the perfect example of the modern professional man who keeps learning. Personally, I think John is hot 🦋

[@CS-jr4vi]

I"M SO EARLY WHAT

[@fifidelialia]

breakup is like a stepping stone to reach home after got schooled by the past. 😀 it is okay to begin again, bc pain stays temporary when you focus on love so. when u r in high vibrational state, you attract the same thing. this is the law of nature, the law of attraction. 💟

[@misssteff0418]

John never fails to make me laugh! How ‘bout a vlog with the boyfriends next? or a tour of New York City w/ them! 😍 That would be fun!

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

So funny hahahaha. Good conversations!

[@dorothytran2926]

Nicole's comment about cake is too real LOL

[@Lczzy]

She is right. When you're looking at personality, it is hard to find a person with good character / personality/ chemistry .

[@zxc56km6]

Found J Bro after my first breakup a couple years ago and it helped me process things during lockdown. Now, this video comes out the day after my second breakup and I resonated with everything you guys said. Thanks bros!

[@xoafrin]

as entj-a i feel you john

[@abcqurl2014]

Is it just me, or does Nicole look a bit like Park Bo Young at certain moments? 🤔 Loved the discussion though, definitely interesting seeing everyone's take especially from a personality perspective. Can't wait for the next one! ❤

[@yinq7558]

Y’all too picky, it’s obvious xD I agree w most married comments below that once you’re married it all changes, kindness is the most important thing. Someone to put up with your flaws and takes care of you when you’re down…

[@JessBess]

Not surprised Jason is INTP haha I felt like I was similar to him (I’m ISTP)

[@susanmyat1270]

This topic is very touching for me of What. Nicole’s thinking is mostly the same as mine. We are from different countries and different cultures, but I have found myself happy in the USA. I love so much Nicole's speech on this topic. Keep going, Jason; I agree with you about believing in the universe as I face somehow connect with my GF, who I meet in the USA. Keep going, Jason & John. Both of you are amazing. I’m waiting for more vlogs to come. Good luck to you all🍀😇👍👌

[@Mindsetolympics]

Infp here ❤

[@Lala_lalacllll]

died laughing hahaha!

[@_daisydaisy1438]

My MBTI is the same as Jason's!

[@TubeDeviant]

Why isn't this video three hours..?? Even then, it would only be scratching the surface. =)

[@qianjin88]

not even calling top 10 coz i just wanna watch lol

[@LKelly-ep8ce]

Ok, so here's experience talking. When you think you met "The one," you might be wrong. You ask why? First, men or women tend to be physical attracted, but meeting "The one," is nonexistence. People tend to have high expectations and when those standards go down just a bit, you might just meet "The right person." How can that happen? Simple, be open minded, honest, faithful, (yes, even when you're dating) independent, be a good listener, (don't just hear) have things in common, (same interests are important) and most important, patience and communication is key to a happy and loving life. Don't expect perfection, that doesn't exist! Lastly, don't put your happiness on that other person, it just doesn't work that way, as your happiness is in your hands each and every day. Do what you love without hurting anyone, a motto I go by and 30 years later, I'm as happy as I can be. Good luck everyone!!!

[@yougetaspear7799]

The playground of the rich....so balling 😊

[@jodyneun]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Ms.Opinionated]

When see the word "girl friends" in the thumbnail, I think you are dating them. 🤣🤣

[@rp0110]

Can you please do a video on whether Male and Female can be friends or not. I've watched a tonne lot of videos and many people say you cannot - but these perspectives are mainly from the west/ white/ black culture and I would really like to hear an answer from asian perspectives. I have a few male friends, some have girlfriends and some don't. We will go out to eat from time to time and i genuinely just wanna be friends with them. So can male and female actually be friends??? Or should I be vary of these pp and back off a bit 😂😂😂

[@ClaireUSMC99]

Holy 🐄...I am an ENTJ 🙈 The most common thing that men say about their soul mate: 1. When I first saw her, I knew she was the one. 2. I can't believe she loves me! 3. I am the luckiest man on Earth!

[@timberlin4075]

“what turns you on when you see a guy?” jason responds the loudest

[@naomimartinez790]

Now I get it why I'm single hahaha

[@louise7912]

19:28 Book "A arte de esquecer"; Iván Izquierdo (The Art of Forgetting). Is that what you meant?

[@louise7912]

16:26 "Unfortunately repressed emotions do not die. They are silenced. But they continue to affect the person." Sigmund Freud

[@kook3602]

maybe just me, Nicole looks exactly like Park Bo-young

[@tatacathrina.9120]

I don't think we need to learn ourselves from other people ... so dating various people is not necessary at all, it's even confusing ... our character will develop because of experiences and various problems in life but not from other people, meetings of various people or dating random people will actually add to the problem and confuse because not necessarily the people we are dating can actually add good input for the development of our character and personality, dating or meeting the wrong people will actually reduce energy, waste time and increase our psychological burden. in many ways, thus hindering the development and growth of our personality, if you want to develop well, and add wisdom and knowledge in life, hang out with seniors in the business world, businessmen, people who already know the acid and salt in this world, so that your character develops, not through dating and meeting just anyone who does not provide psychological benefits and the economy at all

[@oanhngo910]

🥰🥰🥰

[@natalietran1997]

Honey you have two professional and nice looking guys there, why do you look far?

[@sethdunn96]

Gotta say, I kinda doubt that Eunsu doesn't weigh physical attraction when being in a relationship with someone.....just looking at her IG.

[@lachlanstrom3685]

first

[@liveforyouonly]

I think Nicole is ESTJ, I see 3rd slot Ne. Eunsu seems ISFJ but it could be because she's drinking (ESFP shadow)

[@ai.cherie]

She could possibly be an ESFJ? There seems to be chemistry between the ESFJ and INTP - they are after all their opposites

[@tyamada7789]

The girl on the left has a crush on jon

[@hejmeii]

한국어 자막 달아주실 분 ? 궁금해죽겄넹~

[@BeoBeoWoof2020]

That's the reason you're still single, hahaha Jason is so "mean" hahaha

[@junlee418]

"Is she talking about me?" "No..." 아 개웃겨 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Please don't stop these comments

[@amyliataylor]

I mean is it a sign of maturity or is it settling to lower your expectations when it comes to looks ?

[@sarah_7251]

3:41 thats actually not high at all, girl keep that bar high!!😌

[@farawayfaerie8829]

first 🙂

[@hojaeyun6747]

Lmao Well dating multiple people do make you see better of yourself but maturity wise, a person would compromise her likes and dislikes for better situations for a healthy relationship you know. Be the bigger person is more mature rather than learning or how you are. Everyone is meant for other people and they can get along well depending on who is the bigger person as I see it.

[@iscakam6452]

My name is j bro two im not lying