Pinay Tampo Naga City Philippines

[@williamgarrett4912]

I have married a filipina. The best marriage in the universe. I learned to llisten. Chris i to are a talker, when things go wrong. My wife is a gift from GOD.

[@NYJGreatness]

To me, tampo is a sign of immaturity. Ive heard stories of wives who went weeks without talking to their husbands because of tampo. That’s unacceptable in my humble opinion.

[@krazycorw7561]

M D no wonder why the men have a side chick

[@ohboynothimagain]

My ex gave me tampo but it lasted 2 days. She made me cry she felt bad we talked made up

[@timg5463]

@@wgactu BS. It is pure manipulation. Do not be a slave to that silliness.

[@timg5463]

@@ohboynothimagain you cried. Are you kidding me? In their culture, you just went to huge sissy status.

[@chrisowen5209]

I like it when you are walking the streets in Naga City, it gives me a chance to see what’s there. My wife is from Naga City, every time I’ve been there she keeps me in the hotel and gives me San Miguel and picks me up to go get something to eat or a family get together. Chris, you are giving me what I need to be able to see the city when I return.

[@timg5463]

chris owen hilarious. Early on my fiancé did the same with warnings of danger and goblins. Did not take long to figure out that she wanted to keep me blind to all the lovely dancer bodies strolling around town.

[@jameseverhart5789]

Hi Chris and Mel! My wife and I have been together almost 7 years and married almost 5. She is from Norzagaray, Bulacan but lives here in the states now since 2014. Most of my wife's tampo came from being homesick. Her english is very good and we can talk about most things. I am like you Chris, I like to find out what is wrong and try to resolve the situation and compromise. My wife has learned that I will not let her have tampo anymore. There is always time for yourself when you need it but not because you're upset with me. So we talk about it now and she knows I won't leave her alone until we do. It has resolved her tampo issues. We are moving back to the Philippines at the end of this year because we are tired of working for other people. It is time for us to relax and enjoy our life together.

[@goldenages7089]

Tampo is scary. I think the only solution is to address this early on and get it corrected. I could never live with that behaviour.

[@timg5463]

I refuse to deal with tampo. It is ridiculous behavior and I cured it in my fiance, sort of. The first time she had a serious bout of tampo, about who knows what silly thing, I tried to get her to discuss what the problem was. She refused and I sent her packing and told her that she could return when she decided to act like an adult. Two days later she returned all smiles and was happy to discuss her problem. Some silly thing she misunderstood. It has been an educational process for her to accept how discussion and problem-solving works better but, she has done it. If I see a hint of tampo creeping up I tell her quickly to talk or is she ready for a vacation with her family. She straightens right up. Do not accept it is my advice.

[@mapleleaf6420]

Constant tampo throwing things equals divorce . Another word for tampo ,ABUSE .

[@blacksecurity6956]

Been to the Philippines twice and coming back towards the end of the year. Meet a good women . from bataan . love your page .

[@trevorsnee6519]

When my Wife goes Tampo! You know the Song "Silence is Golden" it sure is Hahaha! As always love your Video...

[@JohnSmith-bz9be]

Yep, great advice here

[@alandray5282]

I have been married for ten years and can't speak Philippine...my wife speaks good English but I have to correct her alot. .Alan

[@ochenhetree]

Great video about cultural differences

[@christopherstimpson6540]

I have chatted to a few women on the internet and noticed this tampo and found it beyond what I have found in other countries. Good advice that you gave. Get to know each other before getting serious.

[@TomandRuthPhilippineAdventures]

Great video.. tampo.. can act up.. sometimes a neighbor or trycycle driver will have too...great video.

[@PhilippinesMyParadise]

Hello Chris, Mel, Mathew & Sophia Thanks very much for your great videos, please keep them coming. I have always liked your wonderful channel, and will always do. Best regards/Ned

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

We appreciate it Ned thank you.

[@rongrant7253]

The men who go to the Philippines and get ripped off by Filipina are the naive of the world. Those men will also suffer at the hands of greedy women in the west. Through my wife, her family and neighbours I know many Filipina and they do not fit the picture you paint Chris. Tampo is no different to the PMT that women in the west exhibit. A marriage anywhere in the world requires, understanding, caring, tolerance, and mutual support. If you do your research I think you will find that those who fail in relationships in the Philippines have also previously failed in relationships in the west, or alternatively have been unable to establish a relationship in the west. You reap what you sow in most cases. I do not have a prenup, Melodie and I have been together 11 years and married almost 7. I own my home and have significant savings, we have no debt. I have a lot to lose but I know my wife values the love, care, support and nuturing that I give her in our marriage more than materialistic things. If this was not the case I would have already lost everything by now and if I withdraw the love, care, support and nuturing I provide then I deserve to lose half of everything I own.

[@CFNUN]

Dated a girl there for 3 years, married end of December, came back to uk in March to finalise things so I could come back and stay for good, (retired Feb 18), by April she had joined a date site and found a bf!!?? why did she marry me? how do I start over at 65?

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

It happens a lot..The good news is you can still retire and find a good Filipina there are lots.

[@intuitivesean443]

Your ok brother there’s still plenty of them there your good

[@timg5463]

You are good to go brother. Follow some good rules and you will be fine. 1. Must have college degree. 2. Must be employed. 3. No children. 4. Never married. 5. Siblings employed. 6. Parents ok financially or deceased. Those are good places to start. Then keep eyes and ears open. And whatever you do, never ever a bar girl.

[@intuitivesean443]

I love tampo better then a lady who won’t shut up

[@edzvlogs1188]

i know the tampo too well,but,been long time together so worked it all out too ,,,,but,love listening to your youtube

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

Thank you.

[@rasputinswalloper475]

Tampo just sounds like an excuse to engage in childishness, which is fine if you are a five year old, but I don't personally think I could be bothered with that in an adult relationship.

[@TheEnimabandit]

Tampo is not cultural it is just plain childish that would not be tolerated anywhere else, in the Philippines people are allowed to do it and get away with it, were as in the west they would let alone pretty soon. You can get subservient I have seen a number of them but its usually when the girl is poor and the guy is well off and providing you don't buy any houses then they don't do it. So to say except it I'm not sure one really should.

[@TheEnimabandit]

@Michael Hope The being quiet is not Tampo Michael it is the total withdrawal of warm, the closest we have in the west is sulking but this is so much more. Many many Filipino's loose their expat partners as we basically just wont put up with it, it is really part of the issue most of us see when we come here that most locals are much younger emotionally than westerners and they have been allowed to get away with it as they grow up. They do it as kids as they learn form the mothers and sisters plus it gives them this Male Lambing thing which is all about saying sorry for everything and anything that may have upset them. Bottom line is it drives westerners nuts and for any Filipinos looking for an expat partner understand that most expats get fed up with it very very fast and will just walk away. One thing to remember is many of the expats who look for a Filipino partner like the Asian look which can be found in a number of other countries around here i.e. Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia all very similar looks, and none of these potential partners don't do Tampo so to be brutal there is other options to putting up with it for a loving Asian Women. I have lived in the Philippines for 14 years so have seen the Tampo issue kill so many relationships and usually lease the Filipino wondering what went wrong!

[@keep-going]

The tampo thing is more a transition period. It was like that when my wife first came to UK. Like the saying - you can take the filapina out the Philippines but can't take the Philippines out the girl. It does get better for most couples and me and lilibeth have been together for 17 years.

[@robertkubrick3738]

So far, so good, my girl said all arguments must be finished by bedtime. If she's as good as her word, I have it made. Even if she slips up a little and stays mad for two days, it's all peachy.

[@nationalist1969]

Tampa doesn’t work on white men.....I told my wife when we first started dating that (tampo) could never work with me......if she wants to be with a Filipino man then tampo would be tolerated. But she didn’t want a Filipino man, she wanted a white man. So she stopped. My wife wasn’t like most Filipinos anyway so it was easy for her to stop. Remember too Filipino men are known to have mistresses so you could see why they would sulk. You could also see why they would rather have a white man.

[@muryoung7108]

Lots of info in your videos! Tampo is everywhere though.lol

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

Thank you !

[@jasonhutt9117]

I think if a person goes Tempo may be ignore it and just try to have a better attitude smile a bit then it may spread my thought

[@niplsuckr]

Got some tip for you about dealing with "tampo" 1.) Find some reason make her feel bad for you, someway where she'll feel like she's offender and your the victim. It will work wonders for you if you execute it correctly. 2.) If #1 is not possible just bribe her, try to be sweet, just swallow your pride Filipina are mostly softhearted a good pet talk and cuddles always will melt their heart.

[@earthscannz5563]

Mine used to take months over the smallest things_they weaponize tampo to manipulate their man

[@filipinaswiss2001]

Good morning, afternoon Mel and Chris, Nice video thank you I had many issues of tampo with my husband specially the time we get to know each other, it is very hard for me to argue with him is like i need too much energy to explain something. It is harder for us some time to express what we like to explain each other he is swiss we hardly know English each other 😂

[@annabelleparish2515]

for start, your woman needs to go to work and she needs to stop contradicting you. she needs to stop relying on your money wisely.

[@brucebeardsley643]

Biggest thing is communication and understanding . I found that not to bringing my ideas how things should be when I visit there but see through their eyes . You guys are a great couple congrats

[@nationalist1969]

My wife and I met in my own country so maybe that’s another reason why my wife wasn’t a typical Filipina.

[@denisdan7102]

Tampo yes but they do Tampo to you when they are sure you're stuck with her...either married or kids or other chaines.....if you're not stuck then they will not play with you coz they know you can go any time.......

[@momlife5684]

I love watching you guys.. what a sweet couple. I'm from Naga, bicol too but now living in Anchorage, Alaska for 8 yrs. I'm so excited for our vacation this year.. I love seeing naga! Brings back good memories.. I still know how to speak my Bicol language.. Salamat po! :)

[@filipinaswiss2001]

At end of our argue im ended somewhere in the corner with TAMPO feelings

[@patrikmauritskronholm4684]

I think is the spanish blood . I don't mind it to much, in many ways i think is good. I am a man with temper and tend to say to much.. With her not talk Thing things don't escalate to much. She tends to clean or take walks. I know se will talk to me agin marriage can't really work without it. This is the main difference with argument with a western woman , you never know if she will leave. With a filipina you know that if you haven't done something really bad or put shame on her. She will stay and you can relax more in a fight with that knowledge . You really need to learn basic Tagolog living in this country, immersion is the key ;)

[@nationalist1969]

Age difference only 12 years.

[@chuck26241]

I have found out women see and hear things from outer space i think at times when you speak. I don't know where or how they come up with rewording words when you try talking with them.

[@stuartcraigan7287]

I'm going through that now, tempo ,but were working on it, hahaha

[@stevecadman137]

Yeah shut up Chris! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@papa6666]

😎👍

[@andrewfelton2844]

Looking forward to retiring in the Philippines. Keep up the good work chris. Really enjoy the videos.

[@palawanjungledays3099]

Ur not alone in thinking that..

[@zellez9477]

Haha tampo title, a bit funny. Why tampo tampo hehe. Use umbrella its so hot outside, u might get stroke. Just a reminder 😊

[@ronfischer646]

I know what you mean about their Tampo and Temper lol

[@David-qt8dw]

Mel, he didnt bring any money because he is going to spend all yours

[@markpresley2179]

Umm no sorry I couldn't deal with this tampo shit definitely not for me .

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

I don't think I can either.

[@mikemikie8312]

Very good point you made Mel ,that Chris and other foreigners don't learn tagalog ,if they did there would be less tampo and misunderstandings ,but because English is second language foreigners don't make much of an effort to learn infact they don't ever learn .have a great day both of you :)

[@chrisgeline]

you guys are still cute even when arguing...you guys will last long long time :)

[@davidholman805]

You stick up for yourself Mel lol

[@nocioni450]

chaka doll

[@cowboybobob]

I have been blessed with Hannah and her tamop not being very bad, mind you we have also not had any arguments, or anything like that. Great video Chris

[@ABritinthPhilippines]

That's great !