Plan With Me + Life Update - Creative Journal Spread Inspired By One of My Patrons! Happy Planner

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𝘈𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘏𝘗 𝘈𝘮𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘥𝘰𝘳, 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘥𝘶𝘤𝘵 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘢 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘴.
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[@suzisaintjames]

I'm sorry this happened. But thankfully you don't have to move again! Know that we all (80k+) are sending you well wishes. You are so sweet, you deserve and will find better. Sending lots of love 💖 from sunny 🌞 Arizona 🌵. Take care of yourself and each other 😷.

[@dewberryhouse772]

I wish I could tell you how much your channel has meant to me. I'm a young widow, like yourself. I found your channel shortly after I lost my husband and your honestly/transparency has been so refreshing. You've really helped me through some difficult times. Thank you for being who you are and I know there are brighter days for you ahead

[@creativcat]

I’m here for your sarcasm and dark humor, you deal with life however you need too, your fans will be here for you. You tried very hard to make things work, but in the end you did what was right for you. That is the most important part. You don’t need to worry about what others think of you and your videos, just do you and the people that matter will watch…I hope you find peace and happiness. Everything will be ok Mary Ellen. Please keep the faith! ❤

[@sbrown8937]

❤️✌🙏💕I'm so so sorry. I know that's hard and it hurts. Sending so much love and prayers for comfort and peace for you.💕

[@vickiemiller4108]

Dear Mary Ellen, God bless you. Thank you for being brave and strong and sharing your life update with us. A long time ago, I backed out of a wedding on the day of. When I tried to return the wedding gifts to my friends, they all told me, “Keep them. I’m so glad you didn’t marry him.” You are excellent at making your videos and spreads. I, and many others, will keep watching you and cheering you on and copying you the best we can. Love and blessings to you.

[@thosenotbusybeingbornarebu9213]

2024 is the year to put yourself 1st and receive what youre worth Mary Ellen. Healthy boundaries for YOU and allowing your heart to rule and be the gate keeper. You hold the keys. Such a shining star you are, please remember that. We all see it, love you and hold you near to our hearts. Hoping you feel more like yourself very soon.

[@k.bowser9134]

MaryEllen, (in my stern mother voice), every decision you have ever made has brought you to this place, right here, right now. You are a great person and you might not be so great if all that has happened, didn't. Take care of you. One foot in front of the other.

[@alaskancat]

I’m so sorry Maryellen. I’ve been with PWB since you started this channel and I know how much you have had to deal with, and from a viewer/fan POV, I can say you have handled every single hardship with grace and good taste as far as your content is concerned. I wish you the best, with someone or without, with a ring or without. You owe your viewers nothing more than you are willing to share. Treat yourself with kindness, you deserve it. 💜

[@kikig9203]

Girl life is life. Don’t feel embarrassed I’m sure we have all been through something similar. I did feel for you because I could hear the pain in your voice. Keep making your beautiful spreads, making us laugh and sharing your light! ❤

[@emileysteinbruegge3171]

I love that you are always the most open, authentic version of you on your channel. I'm so sorry that you are going through a hard time right now and I'm praying peace comes quickly.

[@terrypoff2651]

Give yourself grace and know we love you. Take the time you need. Thank you for making us know we are not alone, and you aren't either.

[@colmom24]

I'm so excited that you picked my spread!!! It made my week! You owe absolutely nothing to any of us, we're here to offer support in EVERY aspect of what you share with us!

[@cindybernard7850]

Please don’t be embarrassed about doing what’s best for you. I love your channel because you are open about your life, and it makes you relatable. I’m here for the good times, bad times, and even the times that Bumble is going crazy with her toy, lol.

[@anursewithplans-andrea6974]

I am so sorry you’re going through this. As a long time viewer, I love that you share parts of your personal life. Take the time you need. Lots of hugs.

[@michellepowell9341]

"Chaotic and unhinged" pretty much sums me up, too!! :) I deal with the hard parts of life with sarcasm and humor, too; whatever it takes to get though. I'm glad Heather is home and you're in your own place with your girls and family near by. Spring is coming; new beginnings, and fresh starts! You've shared so much of your life with us, I know I'm not the only one here who feels like we are comfortable friends. Know we are pouring love into you as your heart heals. ♥

[@kera8534]

My dad used to say that life is like an ocean; the waves take you high and low but it is forever continuous. Keep your head up. The next wave will come ❤

[@lindamoran5835]

We love and support you, Mary Ellen.

[@ColleenSlaughter]

Cat therapy is always a great way to spend time. Give yourself some grace and time to heal. Love watching your videos.

[@marylynmiller5158]

From personal experience I know that sometimes no matter how much love is there, 2 people can not be together. Just keep applying stickers until you are ready to do something else. Your fans will support you.❤❤❤❤ P.S. I happen to like full, chaotic spreads!

[@learningwithlissa4861]

You have NOTHING to be embarrassed for!!! Sending you positive thoughts, health and happiness🩷

[@celestedavis6748]

Mary Ellen, I am not going to say I am sorry for you because I know you have the courage and resilience to keep going. You have faced the greatest challenges, and you are still able to laugh. There are so many beautiful things ahead of you and you have touched so many lives, so you will forever be blessed. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Praying for nothing but sheer JOY for you!

[@lilieszterkovi3736]

❤ I appreciate your honesty so much , I can't imagine how hard it is to say out loud for the world your pain and I'm just sending you love and huge hugs from Europe, across from the world...

[@laurawis340]

It takes a lot of courage to admit that something or someone isn’t right for you after putting in so much time and energy. Peace to you and your new beginning.

[@allyemily1435]

I think you found the right balance of a not-too-clickbaity title. As always appreciate your honesty with sharing both good and bad while keeping your boundaries about privacy. Thinking good thoughts for you!

[@cassandra007]

I am so sorry. You put more joy into the world than most introverts, and I was so happy joy was finding it's way into yours. I want to address the click-bait comment. I was in hospital for a couple of months and came back to find your ring missing. I was curious, because Mike was moving in when I fell ill. I looked back to see what had happened, beside Go Wild! The title helped. Thanks.

[@liliana1lfr]

Mary Ellen, you bring such joy to us, please continue to find joy in each and every day. Sending hugs and love. 😻

[@michelleadams5609]

You're able to find someone who is perfect for you. Hang in there. I have been single my whole life and I treasure the ability to move, make all of my financial decisions, and pour out my life to whatever charity I want. So much freedom. You have family. You're so lucky to have your parents! Many of us no longer have our folks.

[@vikkierose3]

Take all the time you need. Give yourself time to heal. Break-ups are hard but you are the only person that knows what is best for you and you will get through this. ❤️

[@naticastrong3490]

We love you Mary Ellen, and we support you! Sending warm hugs and prayers for better days! And side note: thank you for inspiring me with my journaling!

[@bufdudes]

Sorry to hear about your personal love life. You have been through it. It does help to talk it out and who better than us. 😊 Love the spread.

[@dawnlewis2487]

You know BEST about your life…I am glad you are here and continuing to share your love of stickers and washi and plannng and Bumble with us!

[@bufdudes]

Sorry to hear about your personal love life. You have been through it. It does help to talk it out and who better than us. 😊

[@justlaura7177]

I’m so sorry for the pain you’re in, but am grateful for an example like you to show real life. Thanks for trusting us with that and know that we love and appreciate you! All this shows me is that you fought for love but knew when things had to come to an end. Not that it’s easy but it’s certainly strong of you!

[@paulashealthyliving]

Don't give yourself a hard time about reconciling and then separating for good. The reconciliation was probably necessary for you both to come to the final conclusion. I know from following you that you are very strong and although this is a rough time, you will have sunnier days ahead and be stronger and even happier for this low time. Sending you hugs and best wishes from Canada

[@anabelleomalley627]

You will never have anything to be embarassed about when it comes to your personal life. Recognizing that a relationship needs to end is so hard, but so much better than continuing on because it's easier! Sending hugs.

[@Howetoplan]

Im guilty of the not watching every video, I just don’t have time. But I noticed the ring and new instantly that’s probably what the life update was. So I came back when I had time. I’m sorry! But thank you for being authentically you.

[@veronicaann9061]

Mary Ellen, you are a strong and beautiful soul! You have one life to live and it’s up to you, to do what is best for you. We will all be praying for your healing and happiness!

[@kirivioletlynn9138]

Oh no, I'm so so sorry. I called off an engagement before and was also SO embarrassed, but you know...nobody actually cared. Nobody even remembers it happened except us and our parents lol. I got married eventually (to someone else), and I thought people would be like "Oh, actually gonna go through with it this time?" but no one did ofc. And on here, we all support you, but we also don't know you and you don't owe us ANY info about your personal life at all. Either way, you're the queen of decorative planning and honest and open YTing, and I know we're all grateful for your content.

[@RivaSueZ]

You seem to be in a better head space than the last time the two of you broke up. I'm so glad you found that it was not going to work out BEFORE you sold you new house. It would have sucked to sell the house you were so excited to have, then shortly after end your relationship. That would have been a double whammy. On the up side, your home can feel less congested without two households worth of stuff. You were on a roll with your lists of to do items for the house before your Japan trip. After you mourn the relationship again, grab those older planners & decide which house goals still apply.

[@PlanningwithBumble]

Thanks, yes I am going to schedule the door guy soon and get poor Bumble a fenced in yard!

[@missunderstoodtrapqueen2875]

MaryEllen, we love you. I have always appreciated your transparency. Your planner family has your back and are only sending positive vibes your way! ❤❤❤ Hold your head high, ignore any rude comments and hug Bumble! Doggie hugs fix most things.

[@ruthbarmore5211]

I'm so sorry to hear this. You are strong and you'll make it through. You're in my heart and prayers.

[@lucialiebert1277]

I've viewed many planner videos and always gravitate more to yours because you make me feel like I'm hanging out with a dear friend. You are an honest and pure hearted person and deserve the very best. Take Care of you Mary Ellen. You are not alone. You are cherished and loved. You deserve the very best. I don't think you realize how many hearts and souls you have touched and have helped heal with your willingness to share giving us all permission to be honest with ourselves as well. God bless you.

[@dazzlingcreativevibesandpl6774]

So proud of you Mary Ellen ,for doing what's best for you 💜💜... We all love you, just be YOU.

[@donnadeardorff4995]

I am so sorry you are going through this. I’m sure having your daughter with you will help. I have 2 cats so I love your spread. Recently learned my 45 year old daughter has colon cancer so I am very depressed. Watching you create your kitty spread put a smile on my face. We I love watching your videos. You are so talented and I know you will get through this part of your life. I look forward to your next video. Take your time. We are all here for you.

[@thescentedhome]

Virtual hug, Mary Ellen 🤗 thank you for everything you do for us…you’re stronger than you think ❤️

[@CreativeDesignbyJessica]

Awww, I'm sorry to hear about your break up. I can completely understand. I think it's awesome that you share because I'm not even brave enough to start dating . . . so kudos to you Sis! TFS Be Blessed.💜💛

[@starburst2080]

Love the spread! So sorry to hear about this life change. Give yourself some grace, breakups are hard even when it’s for the best. Be kind to yourself ❤❤.

[@claudiaschoonover9880]

So sorry to hear this 😢 but no doubt, YOU WILL come out of this even stronger!! We are here for you ❤❤❤❤

[@jeanettemelendez7538]

Hugs and prayers to you.

[@janicehopkins6198]

Sometimes once isn't enough! Now you can move forward without being filled with 'what if's' ... good for you!

[@joankaiser3527]

Kitty cats are very comforting. Love the spread. My heart aches for you. Remember, you are a wonderful woman!

[@monamorgan9452]

❤ just know you are loved , about 76,000 are sending hugs to you right now, and that’s a whole lot of hugs🥰 You have taught and shared so many ideas to decorate and use our planners, thank you😊

[@bearin29]

Thank you for sharing, Mary Ellen. No one is judging you here. We adore you. Certainly, you did not come to these decisions lightly and you are doing what is best for you. Just because we miss someone does not mean we are supposed to live our lives with them. Eventually letting go of what was will make space for what is to be, and believe me when I tell you that the best is yet to come. You will get through this. There really is light at the end of the tunnel, but you need to go forward to reach it. There really is, I promise you. Sending you big hugs from across the pond.

[@biblesbooksandbeauty]

Mary Ellen, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Heartbreak is sooo hard. We love you- take care of yourself Love and prayers 💜💜💜

[@belindaaguirre8181]

Oh honey this is hard news to share with so many. Thank you for your honesty with us. Please don’t make any big decisions right now. Rest and sleep to heal. Thankfully dry January is done. You deserve a drink!

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

I'm so sorry to hear that, Mary-Ellen. I hope you are getting by and taking good care of yourself. Break ups are always hard, no matter how they happen, and we don't need to know. You know, if it's easier for to have time before talking about things, nobody would blame you if you just had a "no rings on camera" rule in the future, so that way we never notice differences and you can take your time processing things before talking about them. That's self-care, too. Don't be embarassed either. You gave love a shot and lived in the truth and that's more than many people have, whether they're single or coupled. I hope you're okay 🌸

[@teresascafasci7027]

Sending hugs to you!!!❤

[@andreabey6084]

Hugs. ❤ Thanks for your transparency.

[@rebeccaaddison7561]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for what you are going through!!! Hugs!!

[@suecowan3602]

Love the spread, and you are so right cats make everything better. So sorry you are going through this very hard time.

[@laurameegan7206]

Thank you for your willingness be so open with things that are so personal. Know that there are people who find hope ad inspiration in your honesty. Wishing you contentment and happiness in all aspects of your life! ❤❤

[@chrisblosenhauer3751]

Sending lots of love and hugs!

[@jenniferduarte-hernandez775]

Sending love & prayers. Cute spread! 🐈

[@Gail-zq5ry]

Sending lots of hugs ❤❤❤❤❤

[@charlottemalone7375]

I respect your honesty so so much. ❤

[@gapeach51170]

Sending you a big virtual hug! 🤗

[@marilynrobles5379]

I also love cats and LOVE this spread !!

[@Criss_2711]

Amo lo creativa que eres y como haces que todo se vea armonioso ❤

[@joycemartinez4718]

Big hugs to you! ❤

[@catherineroy4038]

Sending you positive energy and hugs. Keep being your authentic self❤️ and thank you for the inspiration you send out to us all. Love it! Keep moving forward.

[@lyric8529]

Softest, warm hugs to you. (P.S. even before this video so many times when I watch one of your videos or look at your spreads on IG, I will think "she is so brave!")

[@cindyalberts3095]

Love your channel, love you and love your videos. ❤

[@user-dt7pt7iw7g]

A lovely spread. "Comfort Cats" is what I'd title it. So glad you are using one of the oversized planners--I just bought one, mainly for the cat sticker book that came with it, LOL. And I'm enjoying how you decorate yours. Great ideas. Love and hugs thru this rough patch you're going thru.

[@Autumnbudgets]

Sending love from across the pond xx🇬🇧🧡🧡🧡

[@melaniepederson-scholz2364]

Hugs and healing to you ❤

[@tishdsmiley]

Sending hugs and love to you. ❤️❤️❤️

[@jennifersantangelo9018]

We love and support you. ❤

[@BiteSizedBeet]

Sending you lots of love 💞

[@bharterpraise]

You’re right…I have been so over winter since the beginning of February!! Sending lots of love and hugs. 💕

[@Emilyisaknitter]

Sending support & positive wishes your way Mary Ellen. (& thank you for sharing the super cute cat spread!)

[@LindaNiblett]

You give us so much joy and inspiration don't forget you need to give yourself grace and peace to get thru this time. Your not "dramatic" you're real. Thank you for all you do for us and the planner community

[@johnandkathykeener7720]

Such a cute spread. I love cats too. Thanks for sharing with us. We all support you.

[@UFOCrochet]

Virtual hugs - You need to do what is best for you. Super cute spread.

[@dr.janaleewagner1177]

So sorry for what you are going through. Know there is support and care for you around the world. Love the cats!

[@sharonmichel9135]

❤❤❤ Thank you for teaching us to plan through the happy AND the tough times of life.

[@celesteransom4636]

I love how this spread turned out. I think it is definitely one of your masterpieces. So cohesive and beautiful. We love you. Stay strong ❤

[@Gigis-PlannerRoom]

So many pretty spreads. Yours came out so pretty too as always. 🤗 I’m so sorry to hear about your life update. 🤗 sending hugs

[@GardeniasandGrace]

Sending hugs your way. Love ya. ❤

[@lcarls71]

Sending you Big hugs from the NW Pa area.

[@tarakanebrookshire5741]

We love you & you have all the support while you go through all this. I’m glad you have your daughters close & you don’t have to move.

[@kathywrightable]

Your beautiful work makes me want to use my HP again. So inspiring!

[@ttaylor684]

Sending you many positive thoughts to get through the tough times. Always love how transparent you are with us. Your spreads are just wonderful!!

[@candicefelice8380]

I love watching your videos so so much. Your spreads always come out really wonderfully. And a lot of the things you say really resonate with me and I always feel like you are just yourself and aren't putting on a persona. I also really enjoy your sarcasm and and dark humor, it's my sense of humor too. I'm sorry you're going through so much and have been through so much in your life. Take care of yourself and take all the time you need to heal and figure out what you want to do and what is best for you.

[@Lola-zu2kt]

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻thoughts with you for your bravery with everything 💝

[@user-zn6nt3mi5h]

Love and a cat. I love this saying

[@merendadale2578]

Thank you for being your authentic self. Sending you love and peace for your heart during this really hard time. ❤

[@vickyshort5682]

Thank you for the content!

[@stephaniemarino4936]

Don’t be embarrassed, we all have been through it!! It’s definitely much harder for you since your whole life is on the internet! We are all here for you & always will be!! We just want you to be happy, you deserve to be. Take time for yourself & make sure to be gentle with yourself! Sending you all the hugs and positive vibes!! 💜💜💜

[@pitterpatti1958]

Love this crazy spread and I hope it’s a path towards self care for you. You always let us know we’re not alone. You aren’t either!! ❤

[@SweetDreamsofParis]

💕your vulnerability always touches me Mary Ellen, and the way you continue to press on through all of your life challenges is so inspiring. You have so much love from your online fans!💖💖💖

[@lauraisaac2126]

Sorry you are going through this. We support you and are all sending you hugs ❤

[@dotreky]

Sending you hugs.