Please watch! I really need some advice!!

[@esperscornerofyt]

As someone who is in the community we will support you no matter what, I’ve known two non-binary people who I think were born female, one idk about them, but my Bestie, who is non-binary is gay, so you could very well be lesbian, pan, or bi, no matter what you’re still valid.

[@-Tlr-]

Thank you so much

[@esperscornerofyt]

@@-Tlr- anytime ❤️

[@BloodCrystalss]

⚠IMPORTANT!!⚠so i thought the exact same thing as you right..? (Well without the non binary thing and all, im gender fluid) but i had no clue what my sexuality was, and i labelled myself as bisexual,then pan sexual, then queer, but nothing EVER felt right.. until i watched young royals, i got completely obsessed and loved this one character, wilhelm, did some research on him, (dont ask i am too obsessed) and turns out, him being unlabelled plays a MASSIVE part in the show! And i, at that point had basically no clue what that even was, but when i looked into it, being “unlabelled” means you can still have preferences to a certain gender (or genderS) and keep the label. There’s a flag and everything! :D It’s helped me feel so much less insecure about the fact i didn’t know how to label my sexuality, but now, we litterally have a sexuality for not having a label!! And even if it does not apply to you, i still think it’s important to spread a awareness about this :)) oh and also, it doesn’t matter what your pronouns are, you can still be unlabelled with a strong preference to girls, (in ur case ^^)

[@jxst_haru519]

I actually felt that way a long time last year if you don’t know if you‘re allowed to call yourself a lesbian because you‘re non-binary then I can tell you that it still counts. I always thought I needed to be pansexual because if I wasn’t pan I wouldn’t love everybody right? But that was dumb so I now identify as a lesbian. If you don’t know what you are that is totally okay you don’t need to know what you are!! You will find out soon or not but even if you don’t you don’t have to identify as anything you can just say your queer or homosexual so you don’t label yourself! Being a lesbian can also mean non men loving non men. Some people say that isn’t right but you can choose that on your own. :) Also if your called by your deadname you can tell the person nicely that you don’t want to be called that. If they do it more often you need to seriously talk to them because it’s really disrespectful! Sorry if the text isn’t written good my first language isn’t English I hope I could help you but if not I hope someone else can :)

[@-Tlr-]

This helped so much, thank you thank you thank you! You’re English is very good btw! English was my first language and I still suck at it😭 thank you so much for taking your time to help me!! I really appreciate all of your help:)

[@jxst_haru519]

@@-Tlr- of course any time :D

[@Blazeyate]

Don’t worry figuring yourself out takes a long time so if you’re not really sure what sexuality are right now don’t be worried

[@-Tlr-]

I give love to you

[@tuamadre-pe2gi]

well i was literally on ur same situation, non-binary and only love girls.. and actually yes, it counts as lesbian. i also had troubles to understand what tf i was hope it helped

[@-Tlr-]

Thank you so much

[@XXstarzzXX]

As of being a non-binary and having many friends who are in a similar situation as you or have been in a situation similar to yours, my advice is stay calm if someone calls you by your dead name but politely address that's your dead name. None of us can control who we love but we have a choice, we either accept who we like straight or not accept yourself and force yourself to be what other people want you to be, my advice for this is be you. If you don't know if your allowed to call yourself a lesbian because you're non-binary I can tell you, that it still counts. That's all of my advice I hope I helped her and the others who needed more help. (I just realized that I said I was done but I'm too lazy too change that so I'm just gonna add more even though I said I was done) So don't worry about what other people will think of you because you love your own gender or you don't like anyone aka Asexual or like all genders, but I'm here to tell you as a part of the community I help people with situations like yours and I created a club online, for people like you with situations like yours, and it doesn't matter if people don't support you for you, don't be friends with them. Now thats officially it, have a great day all of y'all!!! And hope i helped

[@XXstarzzXX]

I just realized I said force yourself to be what other people want you to be, I correct my mistake I mean be yourself and do NOT force yourself to be someone who you aren't.

[@XXstarzzXX]

If the creator replies it would make my day, bless you all and have a great year^-^

[@-Tlr-]

Yo yo yo… Thank you… SO DAMN MUCH!!😭😭😭✨✨✨

[@venomwolfwarriorIsyourmom]

Well I don’t have much knowledge of this but I think being lesbian means you just like girls? Correct me if I’m wrong but I have a friend that is lesbian and goes by she/they

[@-Tlr-]

Oh okay thank you!!

[@venomwolfwarriorIsyourmom]

@@-Tlr- np!! :D

[@CouldntThinkOfaGoodUsername]

@@-Tlr- Lesbian is just nmlnm which means non-men loving non-men So yeah if you like girls you can totally label yourself as a lesbian! ^^

[@Raine6_26]

FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!

[@-Tlr-]

Hi😅

[@OMOR1.1S.L0VE.-AND.L1FE]

you may be transgender nor gay/lesbian (by what ur gender is)

[@-Tlr-]

Ohhh okay!!

[@OMOR1.1S.L0VE.-AND.L1FE]

np ❤️