I have this in synastry with my daughters dad and I am so grateful I got out alive. My Pluto squared his 8th house Mars. He had the aspect in his own chart too and he was a Scorpio sun and mercury. We had a lot of really beautiful aspects too, and his Neptune squared my moon too. It was so hard to quit him no matter what he did, no matter how much he hurt me, cheated on me, hit me. He brought out an extremely insecure part of me. There was a deep unconscious part of me that liked pushing his buttons until it went so far. It was the most alluring, disturbing, sexually intense, intoxicating, and terrifying relationship.
@mimi123412345672 ай бұрын
Waw
@miriamuSama4 жыл бұрын
Such bullshit. ‘The worst.’ We have loved eachother for 20 years. No violence, not verbal and not physical. Just love. When a relationships fails, its not always ‘that 1 aspect.’
@MargaretRowsonAstrology4 жыл бұрын
You're right! It's not just one aspect but the whole person! nothing wrong with intense love!
@wordsoundpowerinc3675 Жыл бұрын
It's because she's ready into the negative aspects of Mars in Scorpio in synastry.not realizing that it depends on which decan the Mars in Scorpio is in matters. So really it's about the degree and how it aspects the rest of the synastry chart.
@keiligh135 жыл бұрын
I’m a Sun-Pluto in Libra in the 6th house. His Mars conjuncts this within 2 degrees. His Scorpio Moon and South Node conjuncts my Scorpio Venus, Vertex, and Uranus! The most wonderfully deep and significant relationship I’ve ever had. And amazing intimacy. I think if two people are mature enough in their evolution, these kinds of connections have the potential to create incredible positive connection. We are both very deep and intense people but have learned to control the ego.
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
keiligh13 wow that’s awesome! What you guys have is special! ♏️
@Elwen-xs7gr4 жыл бұрын
Can you tell me if Mars(him) opposition Pluto(me), what do I have to do in order to be positive outcome? My moon also conjuct his Pluto, his Sun, moon, merc, Venus all in my 8th house, what should I do in order to make this to work?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience Anna. It just may help someone. You summed it up precisely! The Moon Neptune square only added to the confusion , fantasy, illusion and idealism of the relationship. You have great awareness and honesty. I’m grateful also you escaped this violent web of entanglement. It’s not easy and must have taken great courage! All the best to you and your children. 🙏🦋❤️
@phoenixoliviacopy2727 Жыл бұрын
I have pluto/mars square with my partner and there's nothing but love and passion. So confused about this reading.
@MargaretRowsonAstrology Жыл бұрын
Thats great! in synastry can be great Passion!!
@heathermcvey96603 жыл бұрын
I have Pluto/Mars/Lilith conjunct in my natal. Also there is my Sun/Moon midpoint. So, every relationship I have has Pluto conjunct Mars as they're always close enough to my age to have their Pluto in orb. I don't resonate with being a psycho satanist. :)
@MargaretRowsonAstrology3 жыл бұрын
lol! the transformation generation!
@popadoodledoo89135 жыл бұрын
Hi could I ask what the maximum orb for the conjunction would be? I have this aspect with s/o in a 9 degree orb so not sure it counts...but my mars is also in his 8th house which I've heard is a very similar energy. Do you think this conjunction would be felt?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
Tosca M-Zadeh Hi. You could widen the orb to 10 degrees. Mars ruler of Scorpio ♏️ in the 8 th house is vey powerful!
@popadoodledoo89135 жыл бұрын
@@MargaretRowsonAstrology thanks so much for your response! I thought maybe because we both have this aspect natally (conjunct and opposition in Scorpio and 8th house) that the 9 degree conjunction in synastry would be felt quite strongly but I've been told orbs are only extended to 10 degrees for luminaries. Otherwise 8 degrees max. But in your experience even up to 10 degrees has an impact? We also have the square in composite :/
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
I am looking at the over all picture of the Scorpio ♏️ 8th house connection. Follow your intuition.
@tractordriver8950 Жыл бұрын
@@popadoodledoo8913 I feel this even with 7 degrees difference. I’m the mars.
@miahi23562 жыл бұрын
Why you saying the worst one? It's like your projecting your fears in this video. What I felt. i understand your teaching us but it's not all that bad he's a pluto conjuct my Mars and it's incridble you really gotta look at the whole chart.
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
Yes you do have to look at the whole chart.
@tractordriver8950 Жыл бұрын
It’s one of the worst ones if the 2 are not evolved.
@916bigAl2 жыл бұрын
You look lovely here 😊
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@sparkles77752 жыл бұрын
I was talking to a guy with Scorpio sun merc mars lilith pluto which landed all in my 8th house. He has mars cnjct pluto natally and we had it in synastry (i was pluto) left before the web was weaved!
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That is compelling!!
@sparkles77752 жыл бұрын
Haha the sexiest man I've ever laid eyes on!
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
@@sparkles7775 hard to walk away from that. They can be very loyal. Depending on the person and their compulsions . If you have incredible chemistry it’s hot!he would be obsessed by you.
@sparkles77752 жыл бұрын
If only, I'm still obsessed with him but felt it in my gut to walk away. So so hot!
@sparkles77752 жыл бұрын
We also have venus opp pluto which i have natally
@tractordriver8950 Жыл бұрын
So who will tend to be the obsessed and narcissistic one with this aspect? What orb degrees would be the max?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology Жыл бұрын
lol! About 5 to 10 degrees
@aaaaaaaa919126 ай бұрын
His mars conjunct my pluto in 8th house in scorpio.. does this intensify the good or bad?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology6 ай бұрын
It sounds to me like it’s pretty hot chemistry between you. Can be enormously passionate, magnetic attraction. Scorpio definitely needs that in a relationship. No good or bad. You need to look at the whole chart.
@lpllll107752 жыл бұрын
Hello,who feels the sexual attraction more?the planet person or the house person?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
That’s a great question. If someone’s Pluto was in your 7th house of relationships they may have a very powerful magnetic pull or control power you feel if you have no planets there. Of course there are many factors in the chart not just one thing but I liked your question. Have a good day.
@lpllll107752 жыл бұрын
@@MargaretRowsonAstrology thank you, have a beautiful day as well
@gothgod102 ай бұрын
what about mars opposition Pluto in synastry?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 ай бұрын
Hi Goth. Can be powerful will! Compulsive obsession with other each other. Think Scorpio ♏️ both are rulers. Strong chemistry or repulsion. Intensity. Pluto person may have control power over mars. Both extremely physical!! Look to houses signs they are placed in.
@doubtfuldreamer5 жыл бұрын
Even trine?
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
Hi. I was talking mainly about the conjunctions and challenging aspects. trine would be chemistry very strong soul connection. easy flowing aspect seeing into each others soul. still Pluto mars are strong willful planets! so potential for power struggle may appear. Mars can be ambitious argumentative. Pluto likes mystery, power and depth.
@doubtfuldreamer5 жыл бұрын
@@MargaretRowsonAstrology thanks for replying margaret. Do you believe soul connections are meat to be challenging? My synastry with someone also shows moon conjunct pluto, moon conjunct mars, sun sextile moon, and some neptune, venus, uranus, jupiter contacts, but this person isnt available to me so i dont understand the purpose.
@MargaretRowsonAstrology5 жыл бұрын
doubtfuldreamer Hi. Not always. Moon mars & moon Pluto are powerful emotional conjunctions. It depends who the person is to you , say your mom or a partner. if there was trauma involved and what houses are aspected. Sometimes it’s for our evolution and sometimes it’s a red flag 🚩 to walk away. hope this helps.
@arelymartinez96072 жыл бұрын
How about Pluto trine Mars 0°
@MargaretRowsonAstrology2 жыл бұрын
That is a vey magnetic powerful chemistry! You can use it to dig deeply into any area of transformation. Intense energy think Scorpio sexuality, joint finance, control
@ksuc30594 жыл бұрын
everyone that is about my age forms an opposition from Pluto to my mars . and I have it in my natal too 😔
@MargaretRowsonAstrology4 жыл бұрын
Interesting. How does that play out for you?
@ksuc30594 жыл бұрын
Margaret Rowson Well... in my case it’s very “special” because once someone’s Pluto hits my Mars in opposition or square it will also hit my Sun and Venus as they are in a tight conjunction in my chart. So in general, from what I noticed I’ve got the worst treatment ever from my family: my sister is a heavy Narcissist she literally treated me like her property and being extremely abusive and controlling. I got a lot of damage growing up with her, including serious material loses she tried to destroy literally everything that I had worked on including my personal life and friendship and so on. So her’s Pluto is in opposition to my stellium. Than my Father’s Pluto is in square. I wouldn’t say he is a narcissist, maybe I just cannot connect the dots but he was also being cold, authoritative, humiliating, manipulative and controlling.. From my friends and partners that were my age growing up I didn’t notice anything like that in extreme just some jealousy, little shitty behavior maybe some gossip here and there and kind of a hard break ups but never a a real violence / blood or stuff like that. But I know a lot of people just didn’t like me and when I was small all the teachers, hated me and didn’t even hide it.
@juliajulia88888 Жыл бұрын
Hi and opposition ? Thanks
@MargaretRowsonAstrology Жыл бұрын
Compelling and repelling at he same time. May be some power struggle may be obsessed with this person with Pluto. Strong attraction. Of course you need to look at the whole chart and which house they are in. Control