பொண்ணு கிட்ட பேசினதே இல்ல! | Toxic Amma நல்லதா ? கெட்டதா #|tamilzhatamizha Kichdy

[@MK-hy3pg]

Hi randy bro.. hats off to u for selecting such a good topic n discussing with us, which is needed for this generation kids n parents... keep rocking with these type of social awareness topics.. please speak about kids who are all addicted towards gaming n gadgets... how parents should tackn handle them

[@immanueloutbox9766]

1.பல ஆண்களின் வாழ்வில் நடக்கும் உண்மைகளை உடைத்து விட்டீர்கள், 2.ஒரு நேரத்தில் என் அம்மாவும் இப்படிப்பட்டவர்கள் எனத் தெரிந்துக் காெண்ட பின்பு 3. ,இன்றளவும் என் அம்மாவை ஒரு மனுஷீயாக கூட பார்க்க முடியவில்லை, 4. வாழ்கையே வெறுத்து விட்டது, 5. தாய்-தந்தை தங்களை கடவுளாக நினைக்கின்றீரகளே தவிர பெற்றாேராக நினைப்பதில்லை, 5.அவர்களை பாெறுத்த மட்டில் (சுய நலம்=சுயப்புணர்ச்சி) பிள்ளைகள்=அடிமைகள்

[@SrutiVarun]

Such a sensible and sensitive content handled well by both of u. As a mom of two young boys, i feel very heavy hearted to see the kids being tortured in the name of paasam n maanam even now .

[@nandhinithiru7429]

Akka rockey ...even Anna shocked..and all ammas walked 😅😂

[@shivsphere]

Yes 😂

[@ShanthoshRajThirumoorthy]

Very good content bro... Inaiku namaku romba theva padura topic... Neraiya ammakal inaiku avanga toxic nu kuda puriyama theriyama na romba caring ah iruken nu nenachukuranga... serious ah ve sila samayam enga amma ta pesum bothu antha meme mathiri miga periya advice session ah maaridum.... Thank you for providing quality like this!!! Kichdy family , Kichdy Parambarai ah seekiram maara dhan poguthu.... 1M naama reach aaga dhana porom... Naama jeyikka dhan porom Maara!!!

[@Kichdy]

Thanks santosh

[@Ajm337]

The daughter in law said that she gives all her salary to her MIL and i was shocked..come on she doesnt have freedom to decide what she should do with her salary..

[@anuprakashms]

This is amazing! Love the back and forth between Randy and Ezhil! Sandai nallathu! It was a good argument which every family should have! Both boy and girl parents need to understand this! It gets intense around 22:00, “Yaaru initiative Edukurathu!” 👏🏼👌🏼 Hats off!

[@geethakarthikeyan1902]

Randy is still in old school. The lady nailed it......

[@shivsphere]

True

[@selvabharathiselva6027]

Yes

[@Privin0704]

Bro nenga pota video la yae idan urupadiya irunduchi 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@Kichdy]

Oho

[@priyaanathan]

Good content brother ...I have been following your videos for the past 6 years and this kind of quality content videos are much more needed for the society... please do more videos this with Ma'am 👍

[@Kichdy]

Thanks a ton

[@mohanamayilvahanan550]

Naan 4 yrs mela kichdy follow panren bro intha mathiri neenga unga wife kooda panra discussion rombave Nala iruku insightful conversations Inga niraya theva idhellam address pannama vidrathu thappu a good discussion 🎉🎉

[@venbatamizh3704]

2024 ல் தான் நாம் இதைப்பற்றி பேசுகிறோம் என்பதே கொடுமை.

[@User3216-w9z]

I am 38 yr old mom of two girls ..elder one is in college ...but still my mom see me as their product and says nanga unna valathom...selavu panni marriage pannom and all...

[@anniyanayalaan]

You got married in your 20...? 😅

[@swatcat04]

Sis, if u look at the olden days, men's accomplishment is always 'Pon, pen and Mann', we were always objectified 😢 things are getting better for us. Kudos to u for enduring all the emotional taunts for all these years.

[@User3216-w9z]

@@swatcat04 thanks sis

[@User3216-w9z]

@@anniyanayalaan idhula sirikka enna irukku

[@krpainters36]

​​@@User3216-w9z me too wondering 20s le marriage ah ne. but why sis? did anyone forced you ?

[@gayathri4984]

Good content brother... 😊 Mam spoke so nicely... 😊

[@ka1pana]

Good analysis. Adding S to mother becomes smother ! Hope affected kids get enlightened and save themselves soon.

[@MOHANAMona-yq3dl]

Mam ah monthly once kupitu vanthu kichdy la pesa vainga randy sir bcoz i am a college student of single mom.I want to learn more things.Thus video is literally helped me😌

[@its_me_puchi]

This is qualified to be regular content. Make this as series.

[@Kichdy]

Panniduvom!!!

[@thevarraajsmuniandy2821]

​@@Kichdy anne u and akka do a podcast about animes and manga ... Not about fans or sub cultures of it... Do about qualiy of making and psychology in animes,.. there is a myth or kind of like that that said animes and mangas are more emotionally active nu do a podcast bt neengalum akkavum same space and screen le do a roundtable podcast include a show screen

[@sindhusp7395]

Good topic👍🏼 parent has this mentality - avungaluku mattum taan maanam and mariyathai iruku… avemaaanam, kovam ithulaaa ivungaluku mattumey sonthammm.. avungeluku vantataan rattamm, pillingaluku vantaaa takkali chutneyyyy…

[@2gendancers]

Hats off to Kayal. Thoroughly enjoyed her analysis here. Keep rocking

[@praveensundar2485]

9:12 madam is absolutely right

[@devisrianandhan4101]

Hey Randy just same pinch..🙌🙌🙌🙌.. Na oru KZbinr ah iruntha kandipa intha topic eduthu pesi irupen❤❤❤ I feel bad for that boy ....

[@Ajm337]

I was really worried about the first boy..How is he going to study and work in this society..That amma has ruined his life..i wonder if he marries a woman who was brought up the same way..😢😢

[@Kichdy]

yes kastam dhaan

[@dnapolren]

I love your wife's angle of attacking issues.. we are two boys in the family.. my younger brother is yet to be married.. my parents in my view were fairly liberal and brought us up making us do all the home chores.. for context, Appa and Amma are from Chennai and we grew up in Bengaluru.. but only after my wife came into my life, I could see how much control my parents have on my life decisions.. and despite saying that wife is like a daughter to them, I can clearly see the differentiation in treatment.. similarly she has her preferences and prejudices.. but our parents have to learn basic negotiations with their kids and learn to let go.. I am 40 and still feel stifled..

[@jk516]

Indha episode name enadhu where to see full episode

[@inikamanohar2811]

Mam on fire 🔥

[@Vruthula]

Thank you anna..Thank you mam.... awesome conversation ❤❤❤❤

[@shalininataraj367]

Good and clear conversation

[@yamunapandiyan5927]

Good one randy bro I have seen the full video after a long time.. I'm a doctor even itself I experienced the same toxicity from mother in law and from insecure husband.. hats off for the content

[@vigneshkumarar4772]

Good content bro. We need more videos like this

[@drathidevidhamo]

Nice conversation and practical discussion

[@krisshandharmaraj3495]

Sister! Superb. Thanks a lot for the voice out. Totally agree with you❤

[@moonchild271]

Iniya Amma hats off.. en appa ta ipdi Dan nanum sanda poduvan but enga appa ivlo worst la Ila .evlo best number inda neeya naana pathu therinjukitan... One question that resonated with me is .who is going to change the society mindset.break the stereotype...the gender bias is so rampant even in the gen z and gen alpha kids😢

[@mourinflorian4141]

I like this video format. We need more of this.

[@tiep7946]

Ungga videos leye intha video very interesting. Ungga wife very bold and brave.

[@mercyhenry8146]

Empowering talk for the women. Loved it🩷

[@juggernautism]

I'm very happy to see the discussion... Its good to give the awareness.. Many ppl have experienced this or doing this kind of parenting.. Ratios may look better but still its danger... In my view, there is a very very thin line between the controlling and freedom in parenting. It is good to catch them.. Not everyone is born with the talent.. but every parent or parent-to-be must be aware of the situation and act.

[@swatcat04]

Very good content... people need more awareness for mental health and mental health wellness should be more accessible for everyone.

[@r.k9313]

Good content bro ❤ Big fan of you Randy bro 😍☺️

[@subajanani4171]

podu... akka on fire🎉🎉.. en manasula iruntha barame koranju pochu.. when framing only girl or women for any kind of problems ..

[@ramzar2848]

23:00 true na ponnu same idhe yenaku nadandhuchu parents yen oru madhri thambi oru madhri treat panuradhu , avanga product use pannadhu still yenalae maraka mudila but yenale mudinjadhae seiren thavira usual ah amma appa Mela iruka alvuku adhigam pasam ila avangalaum.kudukala ivanga yenge namme nallae place katti thara poranga nammaku olunga education or gold savings yedhum seiyala nu nane yen life parthikiten ipo varaikum yendha suggestion kekamaten poi 1 hr Mela iruka maten but na andha madhri panangala valaka Kudadhunu na lesson kathukiten adhu evolo vedhaniya tharum purinjadhun nale

[@Rv-jy4ti]

உண்மை தான், ரொம்ப அம்மா sentiment வேண்டாம். நமக்கே வெறுப்பா இருக்கு

[@ashersash]

Sis on fire 🔥💃🏻

[@vishwajithejilarasan1049]

Ellam marum .. aanal penadimaithanam mattum different differenta irrukum..

[@soldierking6859]

🎉 Kudos to you brother.. for taking such an important topic during these fake feminism era.. Women are the easy target for fake feminism... 😢😅 They dont understand that they are the target.. and suffer without knowing it ..

[@gangadharanja641]

Hii im not receiving any notification from KZbin when you post new enquiry

[@v.krishnabalan3660]

Episode no bro

[@RajithaVenugopal]

Last generation till 90s kids became parents namma parents ellam parenting pathi books or KZbin videos paarthu nammala valarkalai.. Avanga parents ku minimum 9 or 10 kids iruppanga. So it is all the media and the exposure nowadays kids get. So I don't agree with this. It is my humble thought. after all maturity level matters. Good topic and wonderful discussion bro 😊❤😊👏👍.

[@mmmkalaikoodam9037]

ஆம்பல் பையன் அடிச்சு வழக்கமும்.பொம்பள புள்ளையா பொத்தி பொத்தி வழக்கனுமாம்.என்ன ஒரு மனநிலை 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dhas_nivi]

Conversation 🎉

[@yaminip6948]

background music vendaam sir

[@karthikeyannlk]

Nice conversation

[@Christiano-f1f]

Really good topic Randy♥️

[@Arungkaatchiyagam32]

Enga parents romba romba romba romba romba romba romba toxic parents 😭😭😭...epo pathalum veetla vachu potikitu than povanga...dailyum morning 7 to night 11 manni varikum... ennaiya padikavum vaika mattranga, frbds pudicha kuda police kita soluvanga...oru vati frnds pudichathuku unnoda frnds ellarum antha payan kuda palagu intha payan kuda palagu sonna enna panuva nu kekuthu... lodge lodge ah kotikitu poi palaga sonna enna panuva nu asingamaa pesuvangaaa...love panna kooda police kita poi ivan ennoda ponna rape panitan...naa love pandra payan vanthu avanukku kodapirantha akka , thangichi iruntha enga appa kuda padukka soluvanga..ithu mari pesuvangaaa la entha parents vathu😢😢😭😭🤮🤮....na love pandran payanoda sis iruntha en appa kuda padukka vara solu nu soluvanga...apdya love panna police kita soli adika soluvanga...ilati aala vitu konuduvangaaa.... romba romba romba toxic, engeyum veliya vida matranga, kotikitu poga matranga, frndss pudika vidaama matranga, frndss pudicha frnds kuda outing pona kuda nanum varen nu soluvanga...nirya pasanga kuda palagavitu lodge lodge anupuna enna panuva nu kekuthu...panam keta kooda edduku kasu kasu nu kekkura .. yarvathu paduka vara sonnagalaaa kasu kaga asingamaa pesuthu saniyana... padikanum asai padren... padicha kuda .. yarvathu love panithu avan kooda odi poiduvan nu solithu,ivan than ah marriage panipan nu enna panuvan nu kekuthu,padika vaicha... veedu, jewells, niraya panam kudukanum... ennaiya EPdi valathualoo athukuu amount kudukka soluthu...padika venamm veetla iru nu soluthu...😭😭😭😭😭... satyama mudyala...rat poison sapten, cockroach powder,puchi marunthu sapten onumae aagala enaku...thukka la tonuguna nala irukum .. arrange marriage panna kuda paduthu paduthu paduthu kolanthai kolanthaiya kuduthu poiduvan nu asingamaa pesuthu dailyum...epoo paaru padukura pathiya pesuthu.... phone pathalum,tv pathalum,vedika pathalum yara pakura,yevana pakkura,poi avan kuda paduka po...padukka kupudren unaiya nu pesuthu... amount edutha kooda ,yara ketu edukura... entha pilangulum parent kita irunthu kasu edukathu... apdya na edukka la vachkoo pa.. sudam yethi athumella satyam panna sollumm...one avanga sethu poganum... bayangarama sabam viduvanga...na konja black ah iruken nu ennaiya vera mari pappanga...enaku theriyama sis niraya seivangaaaa..enna ketalum vangi tharum, bank la deposit pani irukanga, avaluku nirya account la amount pothu irukanga, ovvoru year ah birthday varuthula dailyum jewels vangi kudupanga... relative kuda enna pudikathuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu..na romba romba Balck color, niraya seivangaaaa avalukku, theriyama seiyavanga...dress,food kuda enaku theriyama seivangaaaa, avalukku nirya kasu kudupangaa,na keta ila nu solum... enga parents ah kolla pannalamm nu thonuthu... sethu poita aluga mate ...aluthalum..ullaukula siripen...padikanum asaiya iruku padika vaika mattranga...epothab ivanga sethu povanga nu iruku 😢😭😭😭😭... kadavulaeee enga parents seekrama sethu poganum.... plssssssssssss...ennoda parent mari ungaluku kidakanum athutha jenmaththil... engeyum veliya vida matranga... veetukulla jail mari iruken...enga ponalum potikitu than povanga...enna pannalum...suma vedika patha kuda po unna paduka kupudren niyum po nu solum asingama... Frnds, love ithellaam panna police kita soluvanga.. lodge lodge use paniten nu solum arrange marriage panna kuda paduthu paduthu kolanthai kolanthaiya kuduthu poiduvan nu solithu... marriage pani kudutha unaku oru pavun kuduka maten nu solithuu...po husband nalla unna notuvan... asingamaa bad words romba romba romba romba romba pesuthu...unkita paduthu kolanthai kolanthaiya kuduthu poiduvan nu solithu arrange marriage panna kuda... ennoda parent mari ungaluku kidakanum athutha jenmaththil kidakkanum.... seekrama parents sethu poganum

[@BhavaniKannanChennai]

Good content....

[@kannansree5582]

Perfect 🎉

[@machinelearning2536]

9:21 i dissgree,.... padichakum kelvi kekrathukum sanmantham illaya ?😂😂 padichavan nala than proper uh kelvi kekave mudium

[@muhammedhashim2021]

Background music a thevai illa bro andha marumagal pesinadhu kekkava illa ...

[@chelliahselvam]

Very good debate

[@muhammedhashim2021]

Aarambathula marai mugama mam appa ponnu vishayam husband wife sambanthama sonna bothu apadiye ungalayem sonnadhu madhiri irundhadhu 😅

[@riyaanddiyashihtzubreed9801]

Very good topic 👍

[@rakshanaudhaya6476]

Boy u need to grow up....the women rocked🎉

[@lakshmi9153]

Randy nalla intha maartbiri show pannunga, very interesting to see your conversation/debate/argument. Veetla just husband and wife intha maathiri debate panna athukku apram few days fight thaan, but video na content nu sollikalam👏👏

[@Ajm337]

Randy whenever i come across these kind of topics i expect your videos with your partner and you are there🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@Kichdy]

hahahaha..Thanks

[@Irnnn5]

chennaila nadakuthu sister iti la padikure ava mamiyar job kk ponathu full salary mamiyar kaila kodukanum solrainga

[@ramyak3389]

Inga every individual combined to become society, so society la changes nadakanumna every individual should change.

[@sreejithchandran118]

Good content video Randy bro.. Enimey unga wife koodayea podcay pannunga.. nalla reach pogum...17.10 min audio was not audible..

[@BehindMySmile-dx2hn]

Naanum program paarthen. Really felt bad for that boy 😢😢

[@immanuel_c]

Parandur pathi video podunga

[@sahanaantony259]

Hi Bro.. please talk about Paranthur airport issue

[@CriticsYouBOY]

Ava family nasama poganuma , DMK rowdies chuma vitamatanga

[@jais8011]

அந்தம்மாவோட புருசனால வந்த பயம்...

[@Kichdy]

yes

[@gokilamariappan5725]

Am in Germany Mother of 4 yr girl and 2 yr old boy. Plz make videos about Toddlers Tantrum

[@Kichdy]

Oh defnitely..pls watch metaminds channel ..she has explained all about it

[@wasimakramtd]

Brother subscribe getting low, always shown 791 now 790??

[@Aravindk2k]

27:25 I live in North America for 10 yrs, western world la control freaka irukaravanga ellam mostly Asian migrants thaan irukanga not whites

[@soldierking6859]

😅 oh shit

[@satishnaidu0057]

Pls you seriously work on your mic issue, voice quality is very low

[@Preethavijaykanth]

#saveparandhur

[@deepabalasubramanian7624]

Hi Bro, how could I contact your wife for some counselling?

[@ennavenum8896]

Comeback ❤

[@irulappanstories5066]

#Letsaveபரந்தூர்

[@chickenheart6143]

இங்க ஆண் பெண் பத்தி இல்லை தாய் சேய் பத்தி மகன்,மகள்க்கு 60 வயசு ஆனாலும் தாய்க்கு எல்லா உரிமையும் இருக்கு தாய் ஒரு குடும்பத்தோட queen இங்க வந்து சுகத்திரம் பறிக்கப்படுதுனா Any cost நீங்க queen க்கு serv பண்ணனும் any cost queen save பண்ணும்

[@Kichdy]

@@chickenheart6143 ssssppaaaaaa

[@ShanthoshRajThirumoorthy]

Randy bro... Last ah madam sonna point super... foreign la irukura aalunga lam romba buthisaali aalunga... 15 vayasula veliya poi earn pana start paniduvanga athu ithu nu neraiya stereotype namma oorula inum iruku... But inaiku US & UK la transgender politics, gender identity politics, stop oil crazy prortests nu neraiya issues poitu iruku... also UK & US people are not so inrelligent people as we perceive them to be... Nengalum ipo UK la irukinga.. So it is time now that you also bring to us the other side of UK as well... We have a great culture historically.. So combine all these things and provide us quality contents for the next few weeks...

[@ஆகாஷ்வெற்றிமுரசு]

Good content 😂and think

[@Kichdy]

Thanks

[@ஆகாஷ்வெற்றிமுரசு]

@@Kichdy welcome

[@itsmeriyaaz4193]

Elamye oru point ah irunthalu anna onu sonaru elamye society iruku society pathukuthu but Inga society ndrathu yaru enaku nega society unagalu nanga so we are society namba pana hey avaga pakuran ivan pakuran nu ilama namba en first avaga pakuragandratha pakanu na onu panatha theriyan ryt or wrong oruthagalauku bayanthu oru visayam namba panama iruntha than athu wrong naan la extremely introvert becz of my mom ena ena yarachu question panagalo oru en relatives ah enta pesavagana first avagatha pesuvaganu antha time en postive side vida enoda negative side ah pesoda pecha soluva but of the opposite person avaga ivan ipditha pola nu oru mind of state vanthu react panuva behaviour marum after a 20 Nana outside safe zone poinwork nu pona aprm ok real world is not our world through nu purijikite open pesa arambiche and neriya decision eduthu pathi wrong ah vum poichu athuku aprm mistakes ah CRct panu ipo enaku en venu ena vena nu puriji mudikavye romba time Achu but still my mom safe zone laye Vela pakure ipo konja ok first vida so namba inga maruntha ok ivangalye pandraga nambalu panuvo nu oru step edupaga Inga most of the parents comparison vachutha teach pande even enayum sethu but Avan eathu nalathu ketathu epdi valakanu nu kotaivitraga ena ipo avara intha panitaru ne panakudanudra thoughts ok but antha epdi panba katro nu oru way iruku rude and rules vacha oru stage Myla avangaluku salichi poi ena da ithu pakatha seiva athu venanu velaga mataga motha Inga parents' kye pregnant aytagana oru course vekanu ena ivaga rude ah iruka rules poduve kids are not a machine na command or code pota mathri tha ne active aganu own ah eathu generat pana kudathu Inga kids nu neriya creative mind iruku athula focus pananu studies just for knowledge Inga oru visayam katukatha studies mukiyam on field la studies matum kaikudathu own mind and purithal vachi pananu atha again oru study material aki publish pantha improvement so Inga thanipata oruthaga marunthalu athu society ah change agum ithu enodaa rant intha comment ah papigala ilayanuntherila but plz negalachu again mistake of parenting so how children grow in society nu poduga we don't blame society becz we are society so plz parents nega unga payana pathi a to z theriyum nu nenaipiga ana that's not true avana pathai ungalu therijathu 10% ena Avagaluku ungaluku aprm oru life iruku athuku survive aganu na neega entha vithathula kathukudukuriganu porathu tha decide agum first unaga pasagala pathi nega purijikoga aprm unga pasagalukaga nega mudivu eduga unga gen tha ana ungala mathrinirukanum nu avasiyam ila.....

[@hemmapermal-me7jo]

Pasangs time ku veetukku varrathu, olunga latchanama hair cut pandrathu ellam discipline. Ithu over control ille.

[@pozhilenveedu]

Amma va pathi eppadi velila pesaradhu nnu ninachen. 40 years ah en amma enna mattum othukki vacchaanga bcz na karuppa, olli ya irupen, sumaaraa padipen. So that ...

[@Kichdy]

@@pozhilenveedu feeling really sorry for this!

[@purplegirlytn25]

Enga amma apdi dha

[@Kichdy]

konjam konjamaa puriya vainga

[@lakshmi36988]

Run😂

[@Dinesh-y5p7t]

Bro talk about parandhur

[@purpleaysh1170]

This video deserves more views...

[@hemmapermal-me7jo]

Counselor yen sandaikku vara mathiri pesuranga? Amithiya pesalamle.

[@shreenathan2144]

💯

[@vigneshloverosie5300]

kaakaikku tan kunju pon kunchu ithey yellam ipo maranthey poitangala.maybe now a days educat mothers using social media.thats y treat that ways..also teens also problem...5 m sub achive pannitu Scotland poirikalam.😊❤

[@dhevaagiyanaan]

Enaku matum than randya paaththaa anurag maari thonudhaa?? Ila ungalukum thonudhaa?

[@lakshmi36988]

Idhula rendu peru pesuranga, adhula oruthar boomer😂 ithana varusham idhu therila enaku😂

[@guhanthamilselvam2562]

Akka pesavedupa

[@bhuvaneswaris7695]

Actually ellamea ithulam Instagram reels ithulam vanthathuku apram innum over ah iruku nu nenaikurean

[@சூகபா]

❤

[@srirampoppy]

Ji sorry but unga wife pesum bothu than theridu, neenga than boomer and u r also doing stereotype. I could see a real women after a very long time. Eni unga wife channel fan na

[@Kichdy]

😅

[@karthikraja2419]

1+2 = my mother. Iam now 35

[@karthickraj6280]

Unga wife ungala save pantaanga.. illati avanga solrathu ella apdiye inga comment la ungalku opposite ah vanthirkum.. antha velaya avangale pantaanga😂😂

[@santakillsand6685]

Randy, your wife has some problems. I can see the tension in your conversation.

[@The8KUMAR]

neenga en bro santa poturinga