Post Infidelity Stress Disorder (PISD): Counseling Implications

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Russ Curtis, Ph.D., Professor of Counseling

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@hardcorvette 2 жыл бұрын

This is spot on. The symptoms are crippling.

@russcurtis1 2 жыл бұрын

Hang in there...counseling and time can help heal.

@Soulwildxlovex Ай бұрын

absolutely love the chakra drawing / tapestry behind you

@lilyalley1487 4 жыл бұрын

The first time I've ever heard of pisd. And It resonates with my relationship so much. I wish I could find a therapist or physiologist in our area that have knowledge in this area. Thanks for bringing light to this. I think its something that could help many people and it needs to be brought more aware. Thank you

@kristidin1983 3 жыл бұрын

Please continue to make videos on this. Please from someone who has been betrayed and everyone is told I've been crazy.

@jimanders8812 4 жыл бұрын

I had a great counselor, six years later on my birthday and around Christmas shit hits the fan there’s no getting out of the depression of being betrayed it’s definitely ptsd for life. Staying married may have been the worst thing we have kids and they have seen enough to probably never want to get married. There have been good times but it the pain never ever leaves

@russcurtis1 4 жыл бұрын

I am sorry to hear that Jim. It is trauma. Don’t underestimate it. And get a good counselor who knows about vulnerable narcissism. Sending you light.

@mark.e.p 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your help on this. I'm struggling finding out my wife had an affair last year. I knew the signs were there and confronted her. She opened up to me and said it was over which it was, he finished it and now she feels hurt from him after confessing how much she meant to him and the hurt she is causing me. We are trying to make it work, it's a month on, early days. I have good days and bad days and it hurts really hurts.

@russcurtis1 2 жыл бұрын

I am sorry. Hang in there.

@TheRockyTopRock 2 жыл бұрын

@@russcurtis1 great empathy, doc.

@TastyTrees916 2 жыл бұрын

She needs some cement high heels and a lake trip 🤣

@DoubtingThomas333 2 жыл бұрын

Hope you left her. I know it's difficult, but it's the best thing for you. Coming from someone who's spent 12 years in 3 long term relationships, one being a marriage. All these women cheated. The last one was the worst of all, a serial cheater and pathological Liar well versed in deception.

@LionGoddess1 4 жыл бұрын

is it the same as the aftermath of living with a pathological liar?

@russcurtis1 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, a lot of overlap

@muzduza44 5 ай бұрын

Im not a whole lot like i was when i was so unconscious.and driven by alcohol and drug's. In that way i can forgive the betrayal i have done.

@russcurtis1 5 ай бұрын

I love this saying: If I knew then what I know now, I would have made different decisions. We are all learning and growing every single minute.

@muzduza44 5 ай бұрын

Awee man...even tho my oerson died.i never got to be honest with him in my betrayal to him.i now suffer in many ego centered pop up thoughts and urges.i just didnt know how to love.

@Gypsygirl79 4 жыл бұрын

How do you know the difference between paranoia or intuition?

@russcurtis1 4 жыл бұрын

I'm going to create a video about that. There are questions to ask that can help clarify this.

@muzduza44 5 ай бұрын

Betrayal at my stage of life seems apart of my imature powerless ages.but who knows if i could behave in those ways again?i am a bit braver to claim my truths.but true betrayal and feel guilt sorrow its so uncertain why we played out such traits.