It is not the ultimatum; it is the guidance. That is why he responded so well. Adults need guidance too when they lose their way ❤
@Bombabingbong66 Жыл бұрын
True, Never bother with Ultimatums, addicts don't react to that.
@whitepouch0904 Жыл бұрын
@@Bombabingbong66agree 💯. Don’t cut addiction cold turkey work one step at time till you know in yourself you can jump a big leap and have some tools to overcome it.
@stephanieholmes8420 Жыл бұрын
Almost 6 years sober and guidance is key
@tab0419 Жыл бұрын
@@Bombabingbong66exactly! Every living human being has an instinctual sense of rebellion when it comes to being given ultimatums. That is why guidance, specifically in finding a new way to live, think, cope and “deal” with their issues is definitely the better approach! The ultimatum approach is never going to produce a genuine nor a long lasting result! 😊
@udontevenwannaknowbruv10 ай бұрын
I know this isn’t the same at all but I use to be addicted to soda as a teen and so much that my teeth started getting incredibly sensitive, my enamel was breaking down and I was gaining weight like crazy. I just liked the taste and prickly sensation of soda but it also made me feel sh*tty because downing multiple bottles a day is obviously not good for your body. My dad would get so angry that he would threaten he was gonna kick me out or exclude me from family dinners as ‘punishment’. My mom took an entirely different approach, she took me to the store one day and bought whatever lemonade sirups (it’s kind of like kool aid but a healthier option in Europe) I wanted and bought me bottles of sparkling water. Mixing sirup with sparkling water was basically almost the same as soda. Over the next few months I would lessen my soda intake and substitute it with the sparkling lemonade mixture. I would drink these mixtures and put less sirup in a glass of sparkling water until I was able to drink it as just the water. She helped me kick my soda addiction and I’m so grateful for her understanding and patience without judging me like my dad. Guidance really is the most important factor into getting rid of an addiction even if mine was just about soda 😂
@Ibethepappy Жыл бұрын
It’s the ‘yes sir’ ‘no sir’ for me. Posty never lost himself.
@jessicatarr7090 Жыл бұрын
He’s soo polite and I love that he is honest.
@jackiecuratola4415 Жыл бұрын
He’s high😂look at his pupils
@yupp561 Жыл бұрын
@@jackiecuratola4415 and still maintains respect. Most sober people choose to do the opposite so what's your point?
@anorganism8913 Жыл бұрын
@@jackiecuratola4415 Geewiz you must be a saint looking down on society. Why don't you come back down to the mud and dirt that is the human being.
@charityfields3513 Жыл бұрын
Not for a minute did he ever lose himself.
@MarkDanger777 Жыл бұрын
He's the most respectful and polite artist I've ever seen
@kingloaf Жыл бұрын
Kevin gates
@tinyking11 Жыл бұрын
💯💯🔥
@JesusSavesSouls Жыл бұрын
@@kingloaf Nah, he’s not in the same category…. That dude loves himself.
@V4inShadow Жыл бұрын
I feel like Ed Sheeran can do no wrong 🤷♂️🤣😂
@TruG670 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Best Joke of the Day hahahaha
@ljtaylor849311 ай бұрын
This is a real man. Beautiful words. Great manners. Honest and humble.
@RealDrugTalk10 ай бұрын
100%
@Dude-16899 ай бұрын
True. It's so natural and not forced.
@aidarsays9 ай бұрын
I’d say he was born into a wrong country. A man with a heart looking around and saying wtf is this country and those people - cannot be happy in America. It’s a devils country centred around pleasures
@88Kimberly8887 ай бұрын
you forgot to say iconic 😂 millennials and their words
@sirsatire78026 ай бұрын
@@88Kimberly888jinkies Mr, you really showed those millennials their word usage, people like me and you dont know good words and all that tomfoolery
@TheLemonSqueezer411 ай бұрын
Not just the “yes, sir” “no,sir” but also waits for him to fully complete the questions before beginning to respond, huge respect
@brittstrouse271 Жыл бұрын
He’s just always so polite. His momma raised him well. So wholesome. ❤
@randosandora Жыл бұрын
Well his step mom and his dad
@neoanderson4840 Жыл бұрын
If she did he wouldn't be so high up ... he may be nice n well mannered n empathetic...but for himself he's a mess ... in my opinion
@sirfizz6518 Жыл бұрын
Don't always assume it's anything to do with the parents. I've known a few people, including myself who learned way more from other folks in life about how be good...and it kinda sucks that the moms (or dads) automatically get the credit. Some of us actually learn a lotta empathy from the pain inflicted by our parents on us and others. Both of mine wanna blame the other for everything bad and take credit for everything good. Folks like them should be denied the satisfaction. Next time someone tells me my parents raised me well ima say "not at all, I've just been blessed to meet some amazing people" Fr it takes a village...❤
@christahewitt2758 Жыл бұрын
He was raised by his dad 😂
@xBintu Жыл бұрын
🤮
@hunterhill1013 Жыл бұрын
You can tell post is a genuine and nice guy. You can also tell he is struggling w demons
@richardhyde4717 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@twinflamegirl9901 Жыл бұрын
You can see the demon struggle on his face. Literally in ink
@leeannasloan2292 Жыл бұрын
@@twinflamegirl9901 bullshit. Some of the kindest snd most spriitual people i have ever meet sre covered in tattos.
@helloproxy Жыл бұрын
It's the money too, unfortunately all of these musicians seem to go through a drugged out drunk phase, especially this generation. Hopefully Post makes it out alive. When you have the money to do whatever you want and you're that young, if you don't have the right people around you, you'll lose yourself easily.
@chastity5767 Жыл бұрын
Imagine how many souls he could save with his popularity if he turned to christ and encouraged others. I hope this is God's plan for him, to conquer his demons and help others.
@kengbrissy30746 ай бұрын
He’s an example of the word “gentleman”
@RealDrugTalk6 ай бұрын
100%
@Christian-gb8zf Жыл бұрын
You meet someone that loves you and teaches you how to love yourself and you start to treat yourself better - that’s what he’s talking about. The good stuff
@jeanettenejadi1777 Жыл бұрын
exactly. Thank you!
@iliostalahti Жыл бұрын
Ahh... You saved me the trouble of typing all that. "Help" " guidance" euphemism for "love"
@mstxxgcfl Жыл бұрын
Eyes are saucers - molllaayyyyy
@amystokes680 Жыл бұрын
Cheers
@wherestheaudio1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir
@meredithgrubb4497 Жыл бұрын
Post is one of those dont judge a book by its cover people. Hes so respectful too.
@richieroop3069 Жыл бұрын
He's gone to the dark side 😢
@sabrinaszabo9355 Жыл бұрын
Surprisingly insightful TOO
@captainorangesburner Жыл бұрын
Those pupils!!! 😳
@Mcintosh7397 Жыл бұрын
Literally, when I first stumbled onto him several years ago, I thought he'd be a fucking jackass "thug" but then one night I started watching interviews and listened to his music and was blown away.
@sagenapier7480 Жыл бұрын
Yes he is and has such a great heart and always seen going out of his way for fans and such. Gotta love Posty 💯🫶🏼
@ASMRBarbie Жыл бұрын
When he says “ it’s the guidance out of the dark into the light” that’s the most beautiful thing, I’ve ever heard! ❤
@dollyleopard4689 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@gsgobert1 Жыл бұрын
Priceless ❤
@journeywithme_erika1890 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, it was so humbling ❤
@PapiAndrey Жыл бұрын
Then you haven’t heard much
@angelac3705 Жыл бұрын
You can lead a horse to water , but you cant make them drink. Guidance takes you to beautiful moments but its essentially up to the individual to experience fulfilment, i love how he expressed what guidance did for him ❤
@juliesantaelena449 Жыл бұрын
He’s such a caring person. I hope he finds love forever
@saluma1447 Жыл бұрын
Im just glad he clarified, it was NOT an ultimatum she gave him, but guidance which takes time, like building a relationship and building trust
@EliteOnTheBeat Жыл бұрын
THIS is the most humble human being in the entire music industry.
@helpingyouleave Жыл бұрын
I've never known what he even looks like but now I agree with your comment after seeing one interview
@chippzlemonz Жыл бұрын
Jesus fuckin Christ. He had the actual baphomat symbol inside his hoodie??? Don't you guys remember that ??
@nlcrme Жыл бұрын
Well said indeed ❤
@BehindTheBush96 Жыл бұрын
@@chippzlemonz Baphomet* so? You think going to church, following (some) of the Bible, wearing a cross and being a Christian makes someone a good person? Never met a Christian that wasn’t a piece of shit anyway. And they have a very ugly history - if anyone deserves to be judged and hated for what they believe and how they dress, it’s them and all religions like them. Pagans, atheists and Satanists are far nicer than Christians and have murdered far fewer people. Big fvcking deal if someone has a picture of a goat on their hoodie, only someone with no common sense gets angry over that but not at Christians wearing symbols of their racist, misogynist, homophobic and dictatorship religion 🙄
@himinthegulf9867 Жыл бұрын
@@chippzlemonzso just because he has a different belief than you, that makes him a bad person? That’s ridiculous. Also, the Bible says no to judge people. Maybe you should go to church more and stop being so judgmental
@jenniferkinnunen5805 Жыл бұрын
I stayed with my fiance through his crack and meth addiction. He's been clean for 3 years. You cannot give them an ultimatum. They have to want to be clean to get that way. I just talked to him through the tough times. Was patient and he made it through. But he did it himself. I just supported him.
@taylornic Жыл бұрын
You are an angel 🫶🏻
@leeannasloan2292 Жыл бұрын
I eent through it with my husband of 17 yesrs. You cant make a person choose between you and the drug, the drug will ALWAYS win and the person will resent you when they just csnt stop...like you said they will stop when they get there
@yazz1628 Жыл бұрын
♥️🧿💯👏
@solasmax Жыл бұрын
Did he ever cheat on you?
@DianaBeautyLA Жыл бұрын
Damn I got cheated on bad. On the days where I wasn’t nurturing him back to health, he was out there having unprotected sex with random girls and got even meaner.
@ronbridges6789 ай бұрын
My wife worked with me and got me off of crack and alcohol. I love her for seeing that I needed help and guidance instead of leaving me!!!! Still together after 37 years
@RealDrugTalk9 ай бұрын
Amazing well done
@DanielsJ658Ай бұрын
Just like Keith Urban & Nicole Kidman 😊so sweet ❤
@0bumble0 Жыл бұрын
If anyone has ever been to one of Postys concerts, you know how grateful this human is. After every song, he always says, " Thank you, ladies and gentlemen," lol. Kind, humble soul.
@Nightmaresonly Жыл бұрын
I beg to differ. A LOT. He came to Tampa in 2019 and was almost an hour and twenty minutes late on stage, after all his opening acts that lasted longer than they were supposed to. When he got on stage you could tell he was so fucked up he literally wasn’t even singing. His songs were playing in the background and he would jump in every now and again, but wasn’t full on doing a chorus. We left after he played like three and a half songs cause I’m not gonna pay what I did to see you stand on stage and basically karaoke your whole set. Especially after he was late as long as he was. I’m glad he’s gotten better supposedly, from some clips now he just seems fucked up on other things. But his concert here sucked. Worst birthday present ever and it was my first really real concert at 18.
@joanneknudsen4191 Жыл бұрын
I luv too how he stops the car or golf cart short to a screatch ing end to sign an autograph for an adoring fan especially a child or teen!
@piupiu4467 Жыл бұрын
nah it's always 'Thank you so fucking much ladies and gentlemen'
@0bumble0 Жыл бұрын
@piupiu4467 yep!! Lol, you are right. He is just a humble dude.
@denied_SC Жыл бұрын
Well, I just went to the "If yall weren't here ill be crying" tour, and he's like " Thank you so much, ladies and gentlemen" after every few songs. Especially when they chewr
@jeromysmith2486 Жыл бұрын
What catches me off guard the most about Post is how polite he seems. Respect
@marieefarrell5009 Жыл бұрын
Love how polit his been this hole time 100percent a gentleman🌻
@Autumnpearly Жыл бұрын
Hes always been this way
@lindyinclusive8163 Жыл бұрын
I love how he always shows respect and treats his friends, employees and fans like gold!!!!
@crustyhailey Жыл бұрын
And smart
@lindyinclusive8163 Жыл бұрын
He’s not only respectful but he’s an example of being yourself and literally trying stuff others may judge. He’s not done doing that!👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️
@rumplestilsquat7942 Жыл бұрын
He said she guided him away from the dark. Not an ultimatum. That’s love. I had an ex dip two days before me stopping withdrawals from a relapse. I didn’t need her but it would have been nice to have someone root me on. My dog still loves me though. Sober, dodged a bullet w the chick, and happier than ever!🤙🏽 Glad Posty got his real riches🤘🏽🤘🏽
@angelmaree Жыл бұрын
Often times we walk the hard path alone but what is waiting for us at the end of that path is our true blessing. I’m happy you found your way to the light. As souls, it’s the guidance while we are in the dark that is what’s most precious. We can’t fault those who don’t understand the significance of walking our path because they are walking their own. Stay strong, stay blessed and most of all, thank you for sharing.
@cassandrahughes2897 Жыл бұрын
Just bc she left doesn't make her a bad person. Shame on you for dragging her as if it was you that dodges a bullet. As someone who's married to an addict and has been run through and dragged through the mud for a decade, I'm sure you did the same . If you made the mistake of relapse, then she clearly had stuck by you up until then . And bc she didn't continue to forgive your bullshit shes the bad guy? Riiiggghht. Take some responsibility, spoken like a true adduct im hearing the blame be put on someone else and none of it in yourself. She had every right to leave . Your ignorance is showing you might want to tuck that.
@tonytran7382 Жыл бұрын
I woudnt judge her under that condition, its the choice that you made, she have the right to be smart about it and protect herself, u would want the same for your daughter
@PENGUINFORENSICS Жыл бұрын
Good shit man. Opiate withdrawals are hell. Flu,covid,cold sweats all in one. Hope you stay solid.
@rumplestilsquat7942 Жыл бұрын
@@tonytran7382 she went back to the dude that beat her and messed around. Her priorities are shot. I never give up on anything. I wouldn’t want my children to. She was trying to get pregnant by me but will leave for a two week relapse that she drank everyday with me? I dodged a bullet and would NOT want my daughter to act as such.
@cwslim Жыл бұрын
This is why I will always be a post fan. He's is so authentic and real all the time. Honestly he's one of those people who just straight up has a beautiful soul, you just can't help but love him!
@lifeofgamez42749 ай бұрын
He drunk
@adriennemailloux68569 ай бұрын
@@lifeofgamez4274etc..
@kyleclontz65816 ай бұрын
@@lifeofgamez4274no he has a unique personality and soul. Gtfo here with that “ oh .. he drunk”. God speaks in many ways. Maybe you should lend an ear.
@josuesolis1269 Жыл бұрын
That’s a Texas boy right there. Polite and respectful.
@aleejjj Жыл бұрын
You can be polite without acting like u r in military
@bizzy3501 Жыл бұрын
@@aleejjj he just said sir. 😂
@kristenjustkristen9462 Жыл бұрын
Though he was from NY? maybe he relocated in his early years? bc I as a Texan (not a weird one, I'm from Austin 😉) he DOES sound polite and sweet like we do.❤️ Either way, wherever he's truly from, his manners are amazing.
@DJPhillthy Жыл бұрын
Hes all fucked up and acting like a child. It's totally unnatural to be saying yes sir no sir in a setting like that. He must be pretty stupid
@wishtheyunderstoodme Жыл бұрын
@@aleejjj he only said sir, that's normal etiquette
@heatherstaniscia5813 Жыл бұрын
he deserves every happiness, he's the nicest guy ❤
@larxzl7711 Жыл бұрын
nobody deserves anything people earn and gain happiness from the choices they make
@erinkelly5297 Жыл бұрын
An ultimatum doesn't do anything, but having a loving companion who helps show you the light makes all the difference.
@brother_chase Жыл бұрын
🙌❤️🔥🙌
@lapis3834 Жыл бұрын
Sooo true !!!
@sophialira011310 ай бұрын
She made him want better for himself first and then be a better human being for her ❤❤😭😭 he deserves the entire world and all the love!!
@KLP36912 Жыл бұрын
Out of all music artist today, his eyes is the most honest. Synchronize between his words and his heart. Is freakin rare nowadays
@michellelee785 Жыл бұрын
WoW! I don’t know much about him, but what I c on tv & and internet. Aside from his stage presence and appearance, in this interview u can see a sweet country boy, how interesting to give an interview like that on Howard Stern…he def has a few diff sides to him… I like this one 😉
@MsMtheory Жыл бұрын
Really? They look like most serial killer eyes lol or pike hes tired. (I dont think he is, hes just got very small dark eyes)
@jacal420 Жыл бұрын
Also the most dilated. LOL
@KLP36912 Жыл бұрын
Well, think positive guys :)
@Slowmo1231 Жыл бұрын
@@MsMtheoryhave u ever really compared the eyes of one serial killer to another? They're completely empty, Post's eyes look nothing like the eyes of a serial killer.
@lonnypaalman3805 Жыл бұрын
Post, we wouldn't want to lose you, please take care.
@lewisisdaman Жыл бұрын
His problems are not the sort that can be discussed at length with anyone. Like most men his age he will probably never really open up about what he's really going through. He'll take it all to his grave in the end. Let's hope he has a long life free of any unnecessary suffering!
@TheWobblyjobbly Жыл бұрын
He’s not currently going through substance abuse. People are spreading misinformation based on his amazing performances on stage. Don’t be fooled.
@reachingoutforher Жыл бұрын
Lol
@CharleneCash197311 ай бұрын
Post Malone tugs at my heart strings.. Looking into his eyes for too long ...can bring tears to mine. He has A LOT of life experiences for such a young man. He's around the same age as one of my sons...and I can't help but truly care about the well being of this amazing and talented human being. ❤
@MahaliaMD73Ай бұрын
I know… us moms are protective of this sweet boy! I have one precious little girl, but I’d be very proud to have a son like Posty, too. He’s just adorable!
@njoythesilence1980 Жыл бұрын
He’s the sweetest, most personable, adorable, honest, heartfelt,True to himself artist that I have seen in a long long time. I just adore everything about him.
@jillnunes318 Жыл бұрын
Forgot these on the your list sexy and hot or is it just me 😅❤
@bradfoster8146 Жыл бұрын
Idc what anyone says about this guy, he's an absolute gem of a person. Protect this man at all costs
@prettibaddie868 Жыл бұрын
He is so respectful man I believe his girlfriend guide him and helped him,she didn’t judge him she saw he was hurting and going through something and that was his way of crying out for help,and his girlfriend saw that and help him out of it.that’s so amazing.I’m happy to hear this because men always believe that women are so bad out here I’m just happy he has a woman in his life genuinely love him enough to care for his health and well-being ❤
@des1510 Жыл бұрын
🫡
@justingarcia5012 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I met that kind of woman too, and she forever changed my life for the good.
@lena1699 Жыл бұрын
"Yes sir"... oh my heart. He is just so respectful and wholesome
@vickyjgutlovics-hecei7273 Жыл бұрын
His humility is beautiful!
@DiamondSplendid-yy7dg Жыл бұрын
And God always look at those who are humble and look at him, he even met a woman who has changed him for the better. I wanna be humble
@2_pencil Жыл бұрын
I wish him the best. I’m glad Post found someone who values him and is helping him to value himself.
@RealDrugTalk10 ай бұрын
his a g
@aaronluciani4741 Жыл бұрын
Amen sir!!!! I was lost in a dark world, filled with drugs, crime, violence and horrible people. I had the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. It was the person I wanted as my forever. She never gave me the "ultimatum" but I wanted her forever and knew I would never have her if I didn't do something different. She deserved a good man. So I gave my life to Christ and became that man she deserves!!! 13 years later we in a different life, a good life, with a love I never felt before!!!
@lexalove1154 Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful... Congrats 💕💫
@Murphy_lee Жыл бұрын
Congrats brother most won't ever find what you've found !
@Earlysquadgoals Жыл бұрын
Proud of you ❤
@dynomantar9733 Жыл бұрын
Good on you brother. I just did it without jesus. I gave my life back to me cuz it's the only one I get. Don't waste your life planning for what may or may not (definitely not) come next. Time is turning your tomorrows into yesterdays, and then you're done.
@brendannokam4167 Жыл бұрын
He is a gentle giant. He is so polite I love him already
@710Chri Жыл бұрын
The fact that he is still saying sir even though he’s a household name. I respect this dude so much
@DJPhillthy Жыл бұрын
Hes all fucked up and acting like a child. It's totally unnatural to be saying yes sir no sir in a setting like that. He must be pretty stupid
@jalaaaah Жыл бұрын
i don’t think being a household name excuses one from having manners & common decency. i see so many people who don’t say “please” or “thank you” in public to workers on the regular and when they do it’s usually to rush someone; chivalry is sadly dying out in general.
@DJPhillthy Жыл бұрын
@@jalaaaah He's not saying it in a respectful or courteous way, he's just blurting it out after every question he gets asked because he's too high and too stupid to have a normal human conversation
@bountyrunsit Жыл бұрын
@@DJPhillthy😂 🤡
@Jlinwoodjackson Жыл бұрын
I didn’t get this gentleman for such a long time…, but EVERY TIME I see him in any kind of interview… he is fully engaged with the other person, and extremely polite n respectful. He is truly unique in the music scene and his own man.. that’s a rare gem these days
@amberparker9883 Жыл бұрын
He is always so kind and polite saying yes sir and yes ma'am. He seems like such a good dude
@SilverLakeKingdom Жыл бұрын
In life, we all have pleasure meeting a really beautiful person, an angel that helps us to see the ugly side of alcohol.
@RealDrugTalk Жыл бұрын
🙏
@smittyjdj9 ай бұрын
Sadly not all but I get what you’re saying. Personally I am a beneficiary of this ❤
@kpeezyforsheezy Жыл бұрын
“When the student is ready, the teacher will appear” -Taoist proverb
@Zeoooooooo Жыл бұрын
This is so very true and I love this proverb, thanks
@shivrs01 Жыл бұрын
I first heard this when I was younger and watching a Zorro movie. Never forgot it.
@mainukaarthur2634 Жыл бұрын
And when the student is truly ready, the teacher disappears- expect Malone to chop breakfast after getting his lessons right 😊😊
@markmark.marcial Жыл бұрын
Bullcrap
@ashleyv.c.7290 Жыл бұрын
the way he speaks to others and show's that you can be respectful regardless of what you look like or who you are is amazing. post Malone is an amazing human being 💜
@DJPhillthy Жыл бұрын
Hes all fucked up and acting like a child. It's totally unnatural to be saying yes sir no sir in a setting like that. He must be pretty stupid
@simple.flamingo Жыл бұрын
A loving partner compliments the balance you seek, not force you into it.
@MahaliaMD73Ай бұрын
He’s so thoughtful… he really listens when someone else is talking instead of avoiding eye contact and not listening because he’s too busy thinking of what he’s going to say next… so respectful! I want nothing but happiness for this pure soul.
@Yes-bn6yy Жыл бұрын
He’s such a respectful man. Makes me proud to be a Texan haha
@hospice8896 Жыл бұрын
This is how we act. Just normal
@rickyparrilla2426 Жыл бұрын
That's what real love does to someone. Real love makes you want to become a much better human being!!! Much respect to him!!!
@cindypierce8780Ай бұрын
I am almost 60 and I love Post Malone's music. After watching this and seeing how resoectful he is, I like him even more!
@Bridgette1111 Жыл бұрын
It’s impossible not to love this man ❤
@mattrivers973 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't tell you a single one of his songs but I like him lol
@AllAirCap Жыл бұрын
@@mattrivers973haha. They’re good. I’ve seen a video of him leaving a concert and someone wanted his shirt. Handed it over. Next person wanted his shoes, handed em over. I might be wrong but think he gave up his socks too.
@ryanwilson8323 Жыл бұрын
I don’t
@RedHand47 Жыл бұрын
@@ryanwilson8323 why? must be a miserable existence.
@danagantt4841 Жыл бұрын
Those manners though. The world needs more of this politeness.
@jenn2894 Жыл бұрын
I could never issue ultimatums when my husband was struggling with addiction, bc I knew I would never leave him, especially at his lowest point when he needed me most. I just rode it out and gave him encouragement to fight his demons. some ppl are worth fighting for.
@warrfrog11 Жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom, you are a Queen and never forget that...
@jenn2894 Жыл бұрын
@@warrfrog11 you're sweet😊 I'm no saint tho, I gave him as much hell as he gave me. it was hard for awhile there, but hopefully we gained a lot character through the struggle, lol.
@Weeks25 Жыл бұрын
I have no idea where my husband would be right now if I didn’t give him an ultimatum years an years ago. We started dating when I was 16 an he was 18. He had issues at home growing up an he drank to deal with it I guess. He wasn’t a fun drunk though he was obnoxious or angry. I couldn’t stand him when he drank. We had a baby at 19 & 21 an not long after that I said either you don’t ever drink anymore or I can’t be with you. He has been sober since an we are now 37 & 39. He says all the time he would be dead or in prison if I didn’t do that. I refused to accept being with someone that was one person sober an another drunk. He wasn’t abusive so thankfully it didn’t cause me to get an issues from it. 4 kids an 21 years strong ❤
@jenn2894 Жыл бұрын
@@Weeks25 i love hearing success stories, I'm so glad everything worked out for your family ❤ I thought about giving my husband an ultimatum more than a few times, but I was scared to bc the opioids had ahold of him pretty hard. I was scared he'd make the wrong choice and die alone and I couldn't bear that. If things had gotten too bad , I might have left, but most of the problems we had bc of his addiction were financial. we had to struggle a lot, but it was never more than I could handle, thank God 🙏.
@pablitomispicyburrito Жыл бұрын
@@jenn2894 as a recovering heroin addict, I think you made the choice that was right for you and your partner. I started drugs at 14, heroin at 17 and spent 13 years in full blown addiction. Ultimatums usually don’t work. Most people stop supporting you emotionally, mentally, etc. I truly think if my family supported me rather than shame, judge and abuse, I would’ve quit years earlier. I started going to therapy 5-6 years ago, but I was still lost and lonely and relapsed ever other week. What changed my life was meeting my wife. She never gave ultimatums or made things harder for me. It was the first time I had real support, understanding and love, honestly in my entire life. I’ve been sober almost 5 years now. I relapse once, for a short period within the first few months of sobriety. I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t meet her. The reason ultimatums usually* don’t work is because you’re forcing someone to make a decision on your terms. When an addict chooses to get help on their own terms, it’s something they want and have decided they are ready for. When you go to rehab and say “I decided it’s time” versus “my partner/family gave me an ultimatum” it’s so much more empowering. But again, for the above commenter, there are always exceptions!
@RyanNorton308 Жыл бұрын
When you meet the right one, it isn't an ultimatum, it's an interal decision to want to be the best version of yourself for that other person. ❤
@AppleDumplinDaily10 ай бұрын
You nailed it. You want the person who you love there entire soul, to be the best of themself. Ultimatum is in my eyes giving up on someone. That's not true love or true friendship. Love all the way....be there unconditionally.
@buzzybee186 Жыл бұрын
The "yes sir" , "no sir" in interviews with Postie always are so damn genuine. He humbles anyone to not judge a book by its cover
@thugnificendo Жыл бұрын
He's such a unique individual kinda makes u forget he's even a musician and he's so normal in Hollywood posty is fascinating
@dirkdiggler1242 Жыл бұрын
Not a musician in the sense of the word, Justin Beiber discovered and promoted him. He had no direction b4 Beebs, he just was in the right place at the right time.
@tobymacdonald5893 Жыл бұрын
@@dirkdiggler1242 That’s just not true lmao. Posty took off after White Iverson, after that the whole music world wanted to see what he would drop next. They’re really good friends yeah but it’s not like JB made posty famous. Posty did that himself
@surfergirl2943 Жыл бұрын
I love Posty. He truly is such a sweet person- he did something really cool for my youngest kiddo and I can affirm that he is truly this nice on and off camera.
@suzy3899 Жыл бұрын
That’s so sweet ❤ he seems like such a nice guy!
@taylornic Жыл бұрын
He lives (sometimes) in the same city in Utah as my husbands aunt and uncle and they will also confirm he is a genuinely nice guy. Waitstaff and people in the community love him
@craigdjones1978 Жыл бұрын
The most down to earth, polite and respectful celebrity ever. Always treats his peers and even his fans with total respect
@Tyler-hg6gy Жыл бұрын
I had someone like that. Guidance from dark to light. I still benefit from that 25 years later.
@JessDAblessed710 Жыл бұрын
DAMN POSTIE- I love you but that Molly got you ROCKED🫤🙏🏽❤️💯
@misscarapeacelovegoodvibes8730 Жыл бұрын
@@JessDAblessed710 I know RIGHT! SENDING YOU PEACE LOVE GOOD VIBES
@davidvargas-vidal6201 Жыл бұрын
he's so respectful. never judge a person by their appearance.
@unyielding.entertainment Жыл бұрын
Post is probably my favorite celebrity out there, he just seems so sweet and sincere
@tylerbellows535810 ай бұрын
Sandler
@rpmfreak91509 ай бұрын
@@tylerbellows5358Sandler told Terry crews to drop charges he filed against a rich executive producer that grabbed his junk at a Hollywood executive producer house party. Told him that was was just how it goes in Hollywood. I love Adam Sandler movies, but lost respect for him after that.
@tylerbellows53589 ай бұрын
@rpmfreak9150 although thats true (mostly. Couldnt find anything about that quote but the action did indeed happen) terry said adam is a dear friend and that adam gave him a career and always included him
@stripsKlipz Жыл бұрын
Malone you couldn't have articulated that feeling any better bro . That hit home so hard 🥺 that choice of words describes a situation that is so hard to find words for! Peace to u brother
@nrobo7692 Жыл бұрын
Im rooting for this dude. Every clip is see of him is genuine, heartfelt and positive
@Hoffman2750 Жыл бұрын
I love how he’s able to be his true self and not pretend to be someone he’s not. He may be fighting his inner demons but he just seems like a nice, genuine guy that deserves the best in life. I hope he finds the woman that wants him for him and not his career, money or clout. #PostMalone4Life
@wolfz_side4088 Жыл бұрын
Post malone has the kindest soul
@reshsgurl Жыл бұрын
He’s amazing. So kind, so thoughtful, so unashamedly human…and always so respectful. I really respect him.
@LoddyDah2 ай бұрын
When people you love are struggling, even though you sometimes have to distance yourself, you never give up. Never stop trying. An ultimatum is threatening. Guidance and support WILL bring the light out of the dark. 🙏💙
@UnosHombreBlanco Жыл бұрын
Such a respectful dude, these are the people you hope the industry doesn't break. Seems like a genuine soul. Always rock with post.
@lorettadobson902 Жыл бұрын
That's an absolute beautiful understanding of a spiritual awakening
@oldnoob1160 Жыл бұрын
Except it have nothing to do with spiritual awakening, but having a supporting figure to make you things from other perspectives and make you remember the reason why you do things
@feliciaobryan6156 Жыл бұрын
I will be 60 in July and I have so much respect for this man. I thank my daughter for introducing me to his music. I took her to his concert in St Louis for her 25th birthday. Even after he was hurt he went on to sing some of his favorite songs. And kept apologizing to us for something he control. He is amazing.
@maryannemmi9677 Жыл бұрын
Wow I’ll be 60 in July too ( July 30). Small world . Your comment just stood out to me . Post seems very respectful, o don’t know too much about him
@feliciaobryan6156 Жыл бұрын
@@maryannemmi9677 OMG it is the 29th for me. Have a very happy birthday and please do something special for yourself this year. I know that I will.
@wendysavvy4351 Жыл бұрын
Nice! 👍🏻
@janicemackie611 Жыл бұрын
I love thé beautiful human being Posty is….genuine and polite to everyone and takes all the time he can make for his fans …a lovely guy !
@caridehome Жыл бұрын
He is so professional, and so proper. Post is such a sweetheart
@divinebunch6178 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believeeee how freaking wholesome this man is. He and his gf are adorable and a beacon of light to each other🥹❤
@mredenktas Жыл бұрын
He had you when he says yes sir no sir I guess. You don’t realize that he is loaded as he is sitting and talking there I guess.
@divinebunch6178 Жыл бұрын
@@mredenktas while you’re absolutely right ab the yes sir no sir😂 being stoned doesn’t make someone a bad person lol
@mredenktas Жыл бұрын
@@divinebunch6178 not a bad person.I think he is very likable too. I just don’t think it’s right to use the word wholesome casually. I apologize if I was being rude.
@DJPhillthy Жыл бұрын
Hes all fucked up and acting like a child. It's totally unnatural to be saying yes sir no sir in a setting like that. He must be pretty stupid
@brandipeach8227 Жыл бұрын
This makes me love Posty even more. He may have been lost for a while & still slip up, but, until you have felt unconditional love & support it's hard to find your way out of the darkness. So glad he found just that ❤
@ramossantosramos79592 ай бұрын
"is the guidance out of the dark into the light" I felt that 😢🥺❤️
@annyvel8038 Жыл бұрын
I love him so much. “No sir”. Ugh, so humble and respectful always!
@Onehotjuly Жыл бұрын
He is such a kind & humble person , you can feel that just listening .
@mikepear2003 Жыл бұрын
He's so respectful.... He's really awesome
@user-wx8kj1ry4p9 ай бұрын
" Guidance out of the dark"...most beautiful statement. Love his music!!
@grimace1965 Жыл бұрын
Post Malone is a true gentlemen. Big fan.
@adamfairbrother40 Жыл бұрын
He just seems like THE nicest bloke.
@sfsc77 Жыл бұрын
He's a beautiful soul too and deserves to be with one. What a thoughtful and honest way to put this!
@TaylorTison Жыл бұрын
Yes sir .. myself and my wife have been clean since 2019. She saved our FAMILY.. SHES AMAZING AND SHE IS MY FAMILY'S ROCK...
@Felix-mk6th Жыл бұрын
I met Post a while back and was able to say hi and exchange a few words. He is the most down to earth and humble person i have ever talked to.
@greg9088 Жыл бұрын
From a hello and a few words?
@luvbug1318 Жыл бұрын
He so sweet and polite, I hope he gets better. I will pray for him. ❤
@allenwebster6329 Жыл бұрын
When you have someone special in your life you think about things differently I drank alot in the past my wife said to me I love you but I cant do this anymore, it made me think about myself and I've been sober over 20yrs and still married to the same person my wife turned me in a different direction and helped me through my dark past and yeah it does help when you have someone that helps you and helps you realize theres more to life than drinking
@mariacristinabravo46813 ай бұрын
He's an incredibly humble, respect and loving person I'm so glad he has his person beside him together. Very polite to the interviewer as well.
@carveylover Жыл бұрын
I have never heard someone be so respectful to Howard and vice versa. I just want to protect Post at all costs. He seems like a very genuine and sweet guy.
@illthought-real Жыл бұрын
The respect this dude speaks and responds with. Incredible seeing and hearing a "celebrity" still speak the way he does ✌🏼🙏🏼
@Laura-leeJansenvanVuuren-dc8if Жыл бұрын
This is what humans should be like,, imagine a world full of good people like him!! He really is good to the core!!!!
@matdem509 Жыл бұрын
To be honest I never listened to his music. Watched one live show and thought that’s not for me. But for some reason I watch every interview or video of him I come across. I come from a family that has problems like he does, all the bad habits imaginable, and watching him being like one of us and still being so humble, polite and giving gives me hope. He is the definition of “do not judge a book by its cover”
@christophermann2589 Жыл бұрын
the way he says yes sir you can tell its who he is.just a genuine polite good soul.awesome for him!
@Aussiemade420 Жыл бұрын
Bro im a fighting alcoholic, my mum is one my gran was one, my misses is the only thing thats helped me fight it everytime, we need more awareness for alcoholism
@Openup0911 Жыл бұрын
It's no joke at all.
@Aussiemade420 Жыл бұрын
@No No the only joke is how widely accepted it is to drink everyday to much
@SeattleDonna206 Жыл бұрын
Become ok with the sometimes uncomfortableness of sobriety. Take the $ saved to be good to yourself. Serenity prayer posted everywhere. Honestly answer that prayer and you’ll make good decisions.
@kriminalmynded Жыл бұрын
From the bottom of my heart thank your mother and the people were raised you you have a beautiful heart
@rhiannonchavez51245 ай бұрын
Post seems like a genuine whole hearted person. I can see why he found his guardian angel.
@franchescapena6282 Жыл бұрын
His pupils say it all… That’s not just alcohol sir
@dragonfly9416 Жыл бұрын
I was wondering if anyone noticed that😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Lillith444 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing 👀
@jessefillmore Жыл бұрын
Noticed it too . Dude is higher than a kite , sad :(
@heathernunya7836 Жыл бұрын
Yep, I was like damn- his pupils are taking up most of his iris’. I don’t know what drugs make them small vs big but poor Posty is on drugs here.
@laylascott6096 Жыл бұрын
@@heathernunya7836 Molly, lsd, mushrooms generally dilate pupils.
@TheRickyglenn Жыл бұрын
Post needs protecting at all costs, what a beautiful soul he has!
@engelinaschuurmans7648 Жыл бұрын
He is a really nice guy with a good heart.
@EnvisionedBlindness10 ай бұрын
I will never listen to his music unless forced, but I will always love this guy. There’s not a single person more deserving of his success
@RealDrugTalk10 ай бұрын
100% his the man
@sarahclayton5490 Жыл бұрын
This is soo lovely that you have found someone who’s there for you when it really matters ❤
@isthatyoucedric7854 Жыл бұрын
You could tell someone "meet me outside this cave or you don't love me", or if you truly love them, you could get in there and help them see the way.
@AngelAshes36 Жыл бұрын
Seriously. It's usually the case that someone will give an ultimatum because they themselves are lost, have no idea how to provide any guidance, but they assume they're better/can do better. More often than not, you end up with the people you do for a reason. If it's not a journey, what do you learn? Nothing, and you keep ending up with the same kind of people, over and over anyway.
@livelife8980 Жыл бұрын
Damn Post is truly an amazing soul.i truly love this dudes vibe, absolute gentleman
@alanacassar37243 ай бұрын
It's the guidance out the dark in to the light 🕯️ is such a beautiful and pure description of the gratuide a man has for he's women the gift of the feminine 🙏🏻✨🦋
@BossOfAllTrades Жыл бұрын
Dont get your validation from external sources such as women ✅ or drugs✅ you should get them from yourself