POUR MINDS Episode 243- Cant Knock My Confidence FT Shan Boodram

Hey yall, we coming to yall from LA with our lovely and hospitable guest Shan Boodram. We discussed everything from having children at 30+ , not allowing your partner to destroy your confidence, your side piece might be your future husband, and so much more. So grab your wine and unwind with ya girls.

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[@DreaAndLex]

Y’all be nice in the comments this week ok .. this episode was a lil tough for big mama 😭❤️

[@Lasha.Harvey]

WE LOVE YOUR LEX& DREA I IM IN MY LATE 30's NO KIDS I RELATE TO THIS SHOW SO MUCH I SEE YOLL AS BIG SIS FOR SURE🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞👑👑

[@Lasha.Harvey]

GOD IS MAKING BOTH U LADYS PUSH THRU YOUR TRIALS BECAUSE THIS IS YOUR DESTINY IS TO UPLIFT OTHER WOMEN OF ALL AGE RACE& COLOR I THANK GOD FOR YOUR LADYS U TRULY HELP ME STAY CONFIDENT💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞👑👑

[@unwrittensymp]

You are seen & supported 🤎

[@AmberEverywhere]

Literally!!

[@ctheentertainercte622cluht3]

💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@Chrysyyyy]

This is why I love y’all friendship, bc Drea does NOT allow Lex to downplay herself at allllll.

[@jmichelle979]

“Money is not everything but life is hard as hell without it!” FACTS Drea! Having money definitely makes the majority of hardships better/easier.

[@ArabaApau]

Lex, thank you so much for your transparency. I wish you would show this side more. It’s so beautiful. Vulnerability is beautiful. You are BEAUTIFUL! And we all can relate to your story as women ..

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you! As the show grows it’s definitely harder to be transparent but I know what I went through could help someone going through the same❤️

[@ArabaApau]

@@DreaAndLex I went through something similar so I appreciate you being so honest ! Makes me know I’m not alone ❤️❤️❤️

[@cashbaby24]

@@DreaAndLex The part about forgiving yourself for your past has been hard for me to deal with too. But hearing you talk about EXACTLY how I felt made me feel seen. Thank you LEX for gifting that to us ❤️

[@gamerschain61]

Lex I love u so much ❤ I loved this whole episode thank you for always being honest and forward with your viewers and so real and non judgemental we love you lexp

[@gamerschain61]

Lex had me crying because these topics esp the first one hit home with me.

[@lisavslisa101]

I honestly hope to see Lex and Drea find true love and get married one day😊..to see them start from the bottom and elevate to marriage and kids would be awesome love stories😊

[@rosereign888]

The bottom😅

[@SoRealSoReal23]

To keep it a buck, it was refreshing to hear a more open and vulnerable side of you guys.

[@kayjonae218]

I’m only 22 but I still found great value in this conversation. It was so transparent, educational, and even comforting. Also, you guys picked the perfect person to have this conversation with. I love me some Shanboody! Def a collab I didn’t know I needed, and an episode I will rewatch often. Thanks for another great episode 🩷

[@ashleymac9730]

Only halfway through and this is one of the best episodes ever. Wow.

[@jettaboggan5201]

I agree ❤

[@taylorbrione]

Truly

[@MsBlackIntrovert]

As a mom the part where Shan talks about mothers having to give 'milk and honey' really spoke to me thank you!

[@eliza2256]

Do you know the book she’s talking about?

[@keimon1493]

I love Lex so much , the way she explained her dating style & the “trying to be the cool one with the idc attitude never works in the end. This episode and how she broke down her dating life is so me!!! Maybe it’s a Leo Thing because people think we are so conceited and we really humble & chill and scary 🤣

[@killaks]

Y’all gave the girls SUCH a gem this week! This conversation is so necessary & priceless. Thank you so much Lex for opening up, we know it is not easy. You both are truly living in your purpose it’s so beautiful to see! Can’t wait to see what’s next! ❤

[@90sgyald]

AHHHHH OMG!! The collab I never expected 💕

[@itsraycoleeeee]

I appreciate Lex story so refreshing and very relatable

[@sparklesandcupcakes]

I love this because I just became a mommy last Friday 😊

[@DreaAndLex]

Congrats!

[@ItsTinaB]

Congratulations

[@Lasha.Harvey]

I LOVE HOW OPEN LEX WAS IN THIS EPISODE 😎😎 WE GOT TO SEE U LADYS HAVE A LIL LIVE THERAPY 💞💞👑👑

[@Suunshineeee]

Lex, I appreciate your transparency on this episode. I think a lot of us walk around in silence, thinking that we’re all alone. And then blame ourselves for the ways we allowed people to treat us. You had me reminiscing on my own growth, and I found some more tips on how I need to be even more graceful with myself, and not downplay my past self because it took her to get to where I am now. 💜

[@DIVINEHAJ]

this was such a great episode! 💗highkey wish it was longer 🥺 cus i loveee shan down. lex thank you for being so transparent about a topic that women don’t get enough grace on. dealing with insecurities after a breakup is super hard to deal with so im here for this conversation

[@brittanyedwards8862]

i tend to fall off of pour minds from time to time but made sure to catch this one bc (shan) and i knew it would be good. lex! your vulnerability was so amazing. remember to hug your past self and know that you can only move forward with what you know now 💓

[@IndyDee]

Whew I am Lex for sure…… I struggle with expressing what I want and social anxiety. I love your transparency Lex❤❤❤.

[@tee6384]

That took so much strength to admit Lex! We love and support you thru it all 🙌🏾

[@countessstevens63]

This was one of THEE BEST episodes I’ve heard ladies! You all were sooo open and I could tell you were way more relaxed than before. I love the grown woman dialogue and can relate so much with the topics. Thank you so much for this one ❤

[@kellabillingsley5141]

GREAT EPISODE LADIES.. SHAN WAS A GREAT GUEST FOR THIS CONVERSATION I SEE THE LOVE BETWEEN LEX AND DREA AND LEX ITS GOOD TO OPEN UP WE ALL GO THRU SOMETHING AND ITS OK TO BE VULNERABLE 💗

[@ItsTinaB]

This episode really opened my eyes to so much that I haven’t realized, understood and/or recognized within myself and as a mother and partner. This one was so necessary. Thank you.

[@BlossomingB]

We need more guests like Shan. I love her 🩷🩷

[@Chlojo777]

This was a GREAT episode!! Shan was a wonderful guest. Lex thank you so much for sharing your story! Happy healing💜

[@goddessavaiae]

Slow love... born to bond... go back to go forward. THESE ARE TRUE GEMS 💎💎💎

[@hunnyoverlorde.]

Been praying for this one for a while. Lovely work, ladies! 💓

[@ladyfaith7937]

*rock resident here😂* Just now being introduced to y’all and the movement. Whew, this is so needed in this season if my life, right now! God be working! Sending peace and love to all ✌🏾

[@laquinta91]

God will place things to see & hear when u really need it in your life. I really needed this episode & Lex story. Im going through the same. Recently left a situation & gained alotta weight. Confidence took a hit, but now I'm transforming & healing back to me everyday. Thank you for this ❤️

[@lisavslisa101]

Thank you for being so transparent and open to us Lex! Your healing yourself along with so many other people❤

[@Tayrhe__]

I am an OG listener and This is by far the best conversation y’all have had on the podcast. It was cool to see more of this side from both of you! Thanks for sharing

[@INC408]

I love this collab. Y’all did so good. Thank you for all the gems!

[@_zb6600]

Lex being so transparent this episode was needed we here for you bae 💞💞💞💞🫡

[@BMarie08]

This was absolutely BEAUTIFUL & NEEDED🙏🏾🙌🏾❤

[@dcrump1014]

Love to see the transparency 🙌 thank you for this episode!

[@analayshaburgess-collazo2999]

im going through this rn lex , thank you sm for speaking on it !

[@anaalijoy6951]

Excited for this collab!!❣️❣️

[@amandawise88]

Such a great episode. I really appreciate Lex being so vulnerable. I love seeing the growth of you two on the show.

[@Think-see]

I really appreciate this change of pace❤ Shan is awesome

[@mmonitx]

By far my favorite episode! Lex thank you for opening up and being vulnerable with the girls. We love you big mama 🩷

[@LTN9696]

Healing and growth! I love to see it! Thank you for sharing. It’s helping us gain clarity and we’re hear for you. Great job ladies.

[@alexandraa.472]

Thank you sm Lex, traumatic relationships definitely do a number on your confidence! I always been a confident person & once I was in a toxic situation I completely retreated into myself! I needed this Rn!💕💕💕💕💕

[@FlowerlyF.]

The collab I was waiting for!!❤ soo educational&real. Thank y‘all. 😊

[@ayannafreeman6312]

Omggg I’m so happy for this collab. I love Shan ❤

[@freshprogressbeauty]

This episode was so good! If you ever need someone to talk about fertility I studied it for many years. I love how honest Shan was about motherhood. It reminded me of Tina Fey’s book, bossy pants!

[@tyrag.7560]

Great episode! Thanks for the transparency, Lex! ❤️

[@desthabesttt]

Amazing episode ladies! Thank you so much for your transparency Lex! ❤

[@shawnwashington1778]

This was one of my fav episodes !! Im here for the vulnerability and growth. What a great collab!

[@anamarieexo]

I’m a new listener and I love you guys and this episode was so good! I always look forward to fridays now

[@Mzkhalifa259]

Liked it before even watching 😂I love Shan, I know this is gonna be a dope episode ❤️

[@daniellec4035]

This is crazy y’all got my girl Shan on … I have been watching her since she started.. glad to see y’all making y’all rounds

[@jazzytheecreator]

I never thought omggggg great collab ❤️❤️ thanks you for being vulnerable Lex ❤

[@markmason4536]

Pour Minds starting the weekend off right ❤❤❤❤❤

[@giagenae]

Great episode! I admire the transparency. Appreciate you guys.

[@tiaraamethyst7869]

Lex from your transparency to the topics.....I think this was one of my favorite episodes thus far!

[@cristinasmith2748]

This was such a great episode. Thus energy was so good. I love that Lex was personal. We're all human and go through thing. Continue to heal sis. Sending good vibes ur way

[@lovegabss3364]

such a great episode! so relatable especially with lex’s transparency. I need a book list!

[@bariserekpea]

this was such an amazing episode ! i love all the gems y’all spilled

[@lisajayne4425]

Wow this is kewl, you ladies can flex in any setting. Loves it!

[@breadwinner8585]

Best episode of the educational/informative category y’all done had 🔥 proud of y’all.

[@ineyshatyzhae]

i feel like this was such a raw & pure episode for y'all . i love it .

[@thatgirlshaz]

This episode was so dope. The chemistry was amazing. I love y’all ladies and I love Shans podcast too!! Lex your transparency was beautiful. I’m coming to see y’all in Orlando ❤

[@taylorbrione]

The link up I didn't know I needed. 3 of my faves! Loved this episode. It confirmed so much for me.

[@JayDesirre30]

Yesss omg favorite episode to date. Lex you are so strong for sharing your story ❤ sending love and mis mam was dropping gems loved it

[@a.m97]

I loveeeeeee Shannon! I’m so happy we got this episode

[@travellingdoctor1927]

This was such an amazing episode. Thanks to Lex for your vulnerability!

[@MsButtalove]

Lex I love you. You are beautiful inside and out. Also, I appreciate both of you ladies for being so transparent with your audience on this show. 💚

[@jessfortune9823]

I LOVE when yall are mushy and open like this thank yall for this

[@ketaweathers1496]

Really needed this episode, thank you lex for all this vulnerability ❤️.

[@theeglamaz0n]

omg I felt that in lex because im the same. being bubbly does not mean you’re comfortable in social settings.

[@Reeses710]

Another great episode ladies.....Shan gone always come thru with the vibes & the tea!! So proud of y'all, the growth, the support that you always have for each other is a beautiful thing; cont'd blessings!

[@thembelamadliki9584]

Aaaaaaah!! I LOVED THIS SO MUCH!!!! Pour Minds and Lovers & Friends are literally my favourite podcasts. Thank you for this gift of an episode.

[@Dopeee3]

I love how deep this episode got! I would love more of theseeee

[@therealnys]

We love a vulnerable queen. Lex we love you. Your emotions are human and relatable. love this side of you. ( give yourself grace and forgiveness) And the Taurus in me always feels so seen and understood by DREA. Love y’all down 🫶🏾💗

[@briannajackson3190]

I lovveeeddddd this episode more than anything I’ve ever watched on YT🤩 So refreshing !!!💕💕

[@janienunez8853]

Lex we love you thanks for this episode and opening up 😢❤❤❤

[@ciaralashay]

I definitely needed this conversation. Such perfect timing. Thank you so much ladies. ❤

[@molicious5741]

I Definitely Enjoyed This Feature Episode!!❤️‍🔥🥰

[@austiamccloud4605]

Omgggg I been waiting on this collab since day one 😭🥳

[@BountifullyJo]

No wayy!! Cant wait to watch this! My fave people!!

[@grltn07]

I stand with this queen I'm so glad I waited til 32 to have my daughter! I wouldn't change a thing and I'm 34 now!

[@brianahardiman755]

So much value in this conversation!

[@lexxlecompte4082]

This was a very informative video. Got me thinking about a lot. It's different topics, and helpful on finding out deeper reason within. Love it, keep up the great work. Love you ladies💕

[@gabbiewest1992]

Love y’all. Thank you Lex!! We feel you! Keep going mamas 🥹🫶🏾

[@Lifewithnani1217]

I LOVEDDDDDDDDDDD a this episode, and I’m glad you guess had this guest , soooo insightful

[@duckconfie]

Thank you ladies for this episode. I appreciate your transparency and Authenticity.

[@lexusallen]

It’s the growth for me 🤌🏽 this is such a good episode, Lex’s vulnerability, Drea in love, the topics (especially kids after 30). Really needed and enjoyed this episode. And loved seeing y’all in LA 🫶🏽

[@annep7602]

This episode almost made me cry because same lex. Also s/o to Drea for seeing lex for who she really is and guiding her to loving herself more.

[@kailahwailah2442]

I love this setup. It’s so bright, vibrant and clear. Please keep this!! Makes watching so much more pleasant. Great job ladies!! ❤❤

[@superstarr2008]

They can’t keep it, they mentioned being in LA at the guests home ❤

[@MsNubianNyx]

Wow I relate to what Drea said about being salacious. I thought it was just me.. I love how transparent you ladies are ! 💕

[@truneesek]

Thanks for being vulnerable with us Lex❤️

[@naudiax3]

My two favorite podcasts! I love Shan

[@Angelssurroundme]

Thank you for being so vulnerable, Lex. You’re so beautiful and worth it

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you!

[@quixoticallyQ]

Loved everything about this episode!

[@AngelaElikya]

Thank you Lex for sharing and being vulnerable with that part of your life i'm sending you hugs and kisses ❤ you almost made me cry...

[@dunkinontheyheadz]

This episode was so good and refreshing omg!

[@HeyMissSanders]

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Definitely one of my favs!

[@Lasha.Harvey]

Happy Friday ladies thanks for the great advice as always, we definitely miss u lady's when u don't post can't wait to catch a live show in Dallas,Tx🗣🗣💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞💞😎😎😎👑👑👑

[@TheBetterThanBrand]

love this episode and appreciate the realness. its hard to practice what you preach but accountability is all that matters!

[@asiathebeautifulalexander9040]

This so real thank you for this! Loved this episode ❤