pov : life of a oldest child

[@X_JamesFleamontPotter_X]

As an oldest child who was also an only child for eight years I know how this shig feels

[@libbyglass]

ahh im so sorry you know how this feels I completely understand

[@tajinaasgar]

Yess the high expectations is sooo real tip like I could have a 94 in math and my litttlr sister could get a C and my parents don’t mind and also the blaming always happens I hate it

[@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp]

Same, but my parents treat me and my younger brother according to our ages. Sometimes I feel they spoil me too much, like treat me like a child younger than my age (I like it). So as an oldest child I can't relate to this. They treat my younger brother the way they treated me at his age. Btw, this (the way my parents treat us) is common in my country.

[@tajinaasgar]

@@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp good for you!!

[@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp]

@@tajinaasgar ikr

[@thatsdarkiguess]

a quote from my parents: “since you’re the oldest, you have the most expectations…they go down with each child. simple.”

[@lara_ballerina]

felt

[@HazardousBgirl]

Oof. That’s though.

[@nailzzy-xoxo.]

Lucky.

[@marvel_stark3000]

Bruh I'm the youngest and I completely feel like being the oldest it sucks. Who ever is the youngest child is sooooo lucky

[@MeexXD]

felt bro

[@Wednesday_fan216]

This is basically describing me as the oldest

[@libbyglass]

ahh im so sorry...

[@PreppybyTalluah]

Same for me

[@TurtleDropZone]

Same…

[@shadinaneo6452]

Same though....

[@Tipsbykennedy.]

Fr

[@kikikiki8381]

Honestly, this isn't a representation of an oldest child, it's a representation of bad parenting.

[@UrFavBrunetteKyleigh]

that’s what i said

[@tahiti-themagicalplace7007]

Nah I’m oldest and this is true

[@Miracle12348]

@@tahiti-themagicalplace7007I’m a oldest child and this is how my younger sister is treated. It’s bad parenting it’s just some people don’t accept the fact that some parents are bad. I’m sorry for you.

[@MiuMiu_Wony]

Nope

[@Miracle12348]

@@MiuMiu_Wony yep

[@nadi_ed]

Nothing feels worse than getting As all throughout elementary, being exited to tell your parents and them being just as excited, then the reaction slowly fading into ‘well that’s just the expectation’ then the only response you get when you work your ass off in high school to have a 4.0 and they barely blink twice. Then you get another sibling, and the expectation for them is barely Cs because ‘they’re not like you, they’re like I was in high school.’

[@user-19jfJd283jdjJ]

*The never spoken truth*

[@VegetaPrinceofSaiyans1]

Listen to this: So my entire elementary and middle school life, I gave my parents straight As, except a couple of times in middle school where they were Bs. I'm going to eleventh grade. A couple of months ago, I got a C. My father got the audacity to start calling me a "C Student." I'm still hurt by this bullcrap. And now my youngest brother uses it on me in arguments, knowing it hurts. No one even cares anyway. I'm "just being too sensitive"

[@michelaruggeri5938]

This is literally my life: I'm tired of having to go home afraid that someone will tell me something because I got an A- instead of an A/A+. I'm tired of always having to have a thousand responsibilities. I'm tired of being blamed for anything. And I’m not perfect, my sisters CAN’T be like me because my life isn’t the best. Finally someone who understands me. Thanks girl, I respect you 💕

[@OnlyAbriS]

this so relatable. especially the getting blamed part. people are always like “you’re lucky you’re the oldest.” no, come on. if this is luck, i’ve been lied to lol

[@Shadowdragonz13]

Ikr, my brother had a broken toy and he blamed me for when I did nothing about it, I am a teenager I don't want anything to do with the toy! Yet I got blamed, but the thing is, now I have been blaming him right back for stuff that I know he never did and now I am the " rude person", sometimes you never win being oldest 😔

[@krisbaskins5773]

this is so accurate. being the oldest also ment you had to pick up the whole house cause your siblings "don't do it as good as you" or some stupid reasons like that.

[@Copperxx]

No I swear it’s first like: “you have to be a good role model, you should be a good example for your younger sibling” Then it’s like: “you should be like your younger sibling” I just don’t understand parents sometimes

[@rafiamir6758]

it feels like they are making you do it bexause your the oldest, not because your siblings are young or any other reason

[@vk2ig]

​@@CopperxxIt's a fundamental fact that some parents are ... well, I don't want to insult anyone so I won't say it. But it would be nice if they stopped and thought of the adverse impact on their kids for once.

[@Memeking_Bob]

​@@Copperxxtrueee

[@VictoriaOm12]

Need to clean up everything cuz my siblings don’t do it💀

[@Reaper0nYT]

me for high expectations: it’s literally impossible in my school to get an a+-

[@libbyglass]

yeah isn't it just Im in a media school so its quite easy to get a top grade distinction

[@Lefty-1909]

I non stop study to make my parents proud as they're always digging into me that I need to work harder so I don't end up like them and I can achieve my dreams. This makes me extremely ambitious and rarely get to do things that I want to do. But they don't realise this. They always call me lazy and say I spend to much time in my room but it's were I do my work and the other bit of time I have left is what I would actually spend in my room. I'm really stressed out alot of the time but they don't think I can be because I'm "just lazy" and think I'm using it as an excuse. I rarely want to eat, I struggle with sleep and sometimes don't, I lack motivation but when I have motivation, I REALLY have it, I have so many procrastinating thoughts, I pull my hair, etc. but they don't realise any of it. However, teachers who barely know me know more of it than them and have even told them but my parents just ignored it and got worse. However, they're always bragging about my intelligence to their friends but then moan because I don't/can't help out with chores as much and constantly compare me to my cousin who always does chores because she doesn't focus on school work like I do and has time but she gets paid for it.

[@mysterygalaxykitten4394]

fr

[@chlooxz]

As the oldest child with a younger brother everything on here is true. You just described me... 😭

[@randomgachawithvicky8445]

I’m not even the favorite child and most of this hasn’t even happened to me. And most likely never will.

[@libbyglass]

your lucky

[@randomgachawithvicky8445]

@@libbyglass wow thanks for replying! 💖🥹

[@Miracle12348]

It’s because you have good parents. Good for you not everyone is that lucky!

[@HH56727]

Lucky

[@Breadqueen-g2f]

I can relate a lot to the last one, it’s always like my mum doesn’t even care, she always blaming me for everything that my little brother does, when we get in a argument she blames it on me saying I must of done something to annoy him

[@luffy0562]

I am the oldest so i can relate a ton. They always blame me for something my sister did. Like if she made a huge mess. My parents would say it’s my fault. Its not fair 😔

[@志瑜杨]

I’m a younger sister but an older cousin, so I can at least relate a bit when it comes to that. “You’re older so you should’ve stopped him” but when you act older “You’re not his parent, stop that”. You can’t win.

[@Miracle12348]

That’s called bad parenting it’s terrible how many people relate to this.

[@luffy0562]

@@志瑜杨 yup thats so true

[@Elizabeth-jd5te]

I am the oldest sibling and I can relate soo much. I also love how you make people understand what problems people around you feel, and what they have to deal with. I will definetly recomend your channel to my friends (even though I have only 1)

[@miracle_d]

Bro can’t relate my older sister can do whatever she wants and won’t get in trouble for it, like she stole the rent money once. But I feel bad for every other older sibling they have it rough.❤

[@libbyglass]

ahh im so sorry I can't believe she did that how can she get away with that that's crazy! I completely agree with you

[@riWeebBee]

honestly my brother is the same he is always hitting me and taunting me plus steals mom's money when she isnt here and im too traumatised to tell her

[@mirandavillamizar8564]

me 2 she get an A they compare every person in the room like you should get an a 2 like she did

[@riWeebBee]

@@flimedbylia i told her and she just said hit him back and when i did i got a whole lecture about how he is older and my brother and as his sister i should respect him

[@Motala_2010]

My sisters the same

[@Stormborn-Rose]

Honestly you need an award for being so relatable. As an oldest child myself I definitely can agree.

[@Danmei_fan.ryy06]

No they don't need a reward

[@Stormborn-Rose]

@@Danmei_fan.ryy06 why not. If I may ask.

[@Danmei_fan.ryy06]

@@Stormborn-Rose because it's not relatable to a lot of people

[@Stormborn-Rose]

@@Danmei_fan.ryy06 I was just going of my experience. Sry if ur offended

[@asuna6541]

As the middle child I basically take care of all my siblings while my parents are gone but my older brother says he’s “the boss”

[@niggasgang8784]

As the oldest he's sound spoiled asf

[@emiliaequestrian]

Same

[@HealingIsOk]

Me too

[@Midnight-fy3uj]

As the oldest child I have to take care of everyone well everyone screams and complains to me. It just depends on the family really.

[@asuna6541]

@@niggasgang8784 I mean he has a PS5 he doesn’t even use that he got for Christmas. I had to return a gift or 2 so I could get a laptop, shoulda returned the PS5.

[@sarrthestar.]

The "just revise harder next time" is so real, like I did my very best and you guys said you'd be proud of me but when I do my best I just get hit with a "try harder next time" like what?😭

[@ayeshh_siddiqa]

Can you do life of a youngest child.

[@Emmaxoxo-cd2gf]

This is me fr i love ur vids they r so helpful, especially as an autistic kid with anxiety and bpd and eating disorders/body shame. i have become so much more confident since i subbed so ty

[@Nxhi_xoxo]

As the oldest child I'm happy to see finally someone who values the oldest child but Yeah it's pretty accurate we always get blamed for things we didn't do (and the rest is also true

[@Kayeyuhh]

As the oldest sibling in my family, I can say that this is true. Also my brother takes advantage of him being the youngest to blame everything on me and get in trouble. There's more down sides than positive effects to being the oldest.

[@Thisgirlaudrey]

This is the opposite of my older sister life. I love being my little sisters role model.

[@Seungmins_nmbr1]

As a youngest child, I have been blamed for everything and get compared to others

[@MiuMiu_Wony]

If you think so you’re lucky you’re not the oldest

[@Seungmins_nmbr1]

@@MiuMiu_Wony ik every child isn't lucky tbh

[@Halt_ichf130]

Then see what the oldest people go through

[@pearlygirly634]

as the oldest child with one other sibling, i relate to this... especially being blamed and having to do all the chores..

[@Llama_Girl_Slays]

This is so true being the oldest is quite hard. I know how this feels and the last one about breaking is the worst one out of all of them.

[@ava.08]

As the oldest child in my family, I can relate to this a lot.

[@LilyMartinez-i2m]

As an oldest child, I understand it. Something u have to remember, is that u can't do it alone. In middle school, I never hugged, talked to, or spent time with my little sister; bc I was afraid. She used to say she wanted to grow up and be like me, but I was anxious and depressed, and was afraid that she'd have to go through that hell too, if it rubbed off on her. I'm going into hs now, and I spend time with her now. I cry everytime I think about the amazing little person I forgot to watch grow up. I still feel the constant pressure for perfection, but I no longer am depressed. Remember, life is so much better if u choose not to do it alone. Pls don't do what I did. 💚

[@gachabrownie]

as an oldest child and a middle child I can proudly say I love looking after my siblings there so funny, smart and interesting and also I love kids as long as they're not those kids that keep asking for your phone and then your parents force you to give it to them

[@Miracle12348]

Then you must have good parents.

[@morganjohnson7007]

As an oldest child I'd like to say that this happens alot and it feels bad tbh it lead me into deep depression! SO ALWAYS KEEP UR HEAD HIGH AND NEVER LET SOMEONE MAKE U FEEL SMALL! ❤❤❤

[@TurtleDropZone]

I’m the oldest child and all of this stuff happens to me. I always get blamed for everything which kinda makes me mad.

[@Remy.leona.11]

The high expectations one is so relatable especially because I am "smarter" than most people so my parents expect me to do really well even though I am bad at tests

[@audanbarotilla1378]

as an oldest child, I feel this 💗

[@jeffgreen5439]

I am the oldest myself, and I feel all this...i wish we were treated a bit better

[@-Summ3r]

Have you done youngest yet?

[@sharbanibose]

Yesss exactly,I wanted one too

[@-Summ3r]

@@sharbanibose I’m guessing your also a younger sibling

[@sharbanibose]

@@-Summ3r yup

[@libbyglass]

im doing youngest next I promise

[@libbyglass]

im doing youngest next I promise

[@arunakashi5555]

This is sooo true the oldest child always gets the blame like me but it is not our little sisters falt it feels like that our parents don't even care about us only the youngest child

[@UrFavBrunetteKyleigh]

no this is called bad parents not oldest child

[@little_lilly]

I very honestly and truly can relate. It’s really annoying some times

[@Yunasteddybear]

I can relate to that!

[@Roach_grrlz]

as a 10 yrs old older sister i relate to this bc they push high expectations on me when i won 3rd place on spelling B they said that why did i fail i should have win bc i was the oldest of my classmates and like they would believe to my middle sisters lies and fake stories and she would snitch on private things i have and she would sneak into my socials and check chats and they would give me too much chores and will call me lazy if my lil siblings mess up toys and stuff and i have too be the 2nd parent bc my mom works at dubai and my dad yelled at me bc he thinks i would fail and i would be the last place of my classmates..and like i told my dad i wanted smth and they would say "IF U FAIL YOUR EXAM U WILL NOT GET WHAT U WAT AND NO GADGETS" like what WHY are they always blame it at gadgets?? i really want to leave but i cant really know if i should.

[@nittakornnittakornchamrat4986]

This is why the oldest child always hides their pain…

[@XOS1MPLYPRXPPYXO]

This is so accurate it’s insane. 24/7 I have to cancel my plans because my parents are going out and need me to watch my siblings. I’m missing this entire half term because my parents are going out. Today I got invited out with my friends to the mall, and my parents told me I couldn’t go because I had to take my 8 year old brother on a date. I used to have straight A’s all throughout primary school up until secondary when I’ve been seriously struggling in most lessons. The amount of nights I haven’t slept because I’ve been trying to study for an exam I know I’m gonna fail anyways. In all my exams I get better scores than my friends, I get better results than my siblings get, I still got told ‘it’s not good enough’ and I can’t even say anything back because they’ll ground me. I can’t wait until I’m 18 because the second I can move out I am and I’m never looking back

[@shealynnsiataga]

Very true I am the oldest and it’s hard bc u try rly hard and shit and you just want to take one break but the u feel like you didn’t do enough or u think u r disappointing ur parents and if u feel like this too just know that ur not the only one out there and it will always get better❤❤❤❤

[@n0t_valll]

this is so true if my younger brother or cousins ever curse or do something wrong i always get the blame. if my younger brother hit someone its because i 'taught him' my dad and mom always give their attention to him and never to me but when i confronted them about it they said that im overreacting and that i should go spend time with them instead of staying in my room all day, and why don't i go to spend time with them its because every time i do i get in trouble for some reason and who's fault is that? my brother i might be dramatic for blaming my brother for everything but once he was born eveyone started hating me for no reason and say that he's a little angel and so kind, once he's around others he acts like a cute innocent child but once he's with me he's the most annoying person in my life. im the most hated person in my family and i always get blamed because im the oldest and i taught everyone how to do this and that (curse, hit people, act inpolite) its just messed up, the other bad things about every older sibling is that they are like a second parent for their younger sibling and take care of themselves the worse part is that the parents start overstressing them and since no one will ever care about them anymore once they get a brother or sister the attention will all go to them the older sibling always do chores and are forced to do them meanwhile the younger siblings never do anything- i don't get it our parents always talk to us about things in their lives they need to fix like im not your therapist they only come to you once they need help nothing else this is fucked up i hate it- the part i most hated about this is that everyone wishes to be the oldest in their family because they will be the favorite etc.. but instead its the complete opposite the you gest will always be the favorite for some damn reason im sick of it the oldes goes through so much more trauma then the other siblings i just dont get it why cant siblings be loved equally?

[@CurrentlyBored-]

Y’know, being the youngest, i really want to know what my sister thought and felt when we were at a young age and growing up, although she treated me like shit most the time, she cared for me and i loved those times where she did actually care for me… after i found out she wasn’t leaving for college i bawled my eyes out right in front of her, i was so happy that she wasn’t gonna leave me, we see each other almost regularly now… although she’s probably the reason for my childhood trauma, i still love her.. it’s confusing but i think people with siblings will get it.. ❤

[@DaniSchmidt-gf4ln]

I'm the eldest sibling and I need advice. My sister isn't like how she portrayed hers at all. Mine has anger issues and gives me attitude 24/7. I clean, I cook, I take care of, even of my parents. Im burnt out and my patience is thin when im burnt out. She thinks she's older than me when she's 10! I've been trying to teach her to say please, thank you, excuse me, etc since she was little but she just refuses and gives me the stink eye. I tell her she can always come to me for anything I'll always be there for her and love her always but she's just so mean. She's always been mean, since she was born even my mom agrees. I feel like shit rn I was tryna straighten my freaking hair and she was doing that attitude shit again and I told her to watch her mouth and she opened it for soap she didn't think I'd do it. I put 2 squirts of soap at the tip of her mouth so she wouldn't get hurt or anything then I accidentally smacked her with the bottle (not hard at all) cuz she jerked her head in that direction and she started crying. I immediately got her water and told her to spit it out and out of spite she SWALLOWED IT. I don't know if it's me or her but I need to learn something idk. Any moms, older siblings, or even younger siblings with advice? Thanks for reading this far

[@AnishaHamzaAziz]

This is so relatable tysm for spreading awareness abt this

[@The_MrDuck]

It feels so good to have someone who understands me ❤

[@READ_MY_DESCRIPTIO_N]

As a oldest child it made me cry😢

[@jabedqureshi782]

This is soo true man its so hard being the oldest

[@hellocorgi6553]

My day has felt bad cause of my younger siblings I needed this thank

[@skincare_swiftie_13]

Here is my bad side of being the oldest (this is siblings and close cousins cause I only have 1 sibling and I’m the oldest out of cousins too): blamed for everything, nothing is mine, would be high expectations but I actually meet them so yeah, the role model, no role model for myself to look up to (I see my aunt more than mom and aunt is not the best influence), have to break the news to siblings/cousins abt the world most of the time, setting too high expectations for them, them constantly being compared to me, setting high expectations for teachers (specifically for my cousin who’s a grade/year younger than me) that they can’t live up to, never getting what u want, parents only listening to younger family, pressure to follow in parent’s footsteps (my parents own a business and are rlly fancy etc) Good personal experiences as the oldest (still cousins and siblings): get to experience things first, not often compared to them, spoiled (that’s prob a just a thing with our family but I’m the spoiled one in the family), never having hand-me-downs, gets all the attention, gets to go to events with parents, getting privileges before them (cursing, moving out, drinking, etc)

[@jabberwocky950]

As the oldest child I can confirm this is true It's honestly horrible 😭 you can't get a break no matter which child you are

[@Elmaone]

Some people forgot we have feelings and heart too 🥺💔

[@dxo.dxo1]

This is so true I’m the oldest of 2 and it gets hard sometimes it’s always so unfair 😭

[@dazed_dreams.]

I can relate to this a lot… Once I was chosen to compete because I got a high score and when I told my mom I was back up because my classmate did better then me she was so confused and questioned, “Someone did better then you?” It didn’t help when my dad heard too. Another was when I was the only one is my grade to get a 100 on a test but instead of congratulating I got, “That’s sad how no one else got a hundred.” Like what about me? I got a hundred? I was the only one with a hundred. And you want to complain how I wasn’t at the top…

[@itsAyman31]

Watching this as an oldest child made me cry idk why

[@Cr1ms0nCann1bal]

As the oldest this really is how it is, not able to go out because of siblings and babysitting, the role model, the blame, and (for me personally) the not being helped for personal issues because no one realizes

[@lexdendunnen8004]

I just started tearing up bc it’s sad how this is true- I’m a oldest child to three other kids 😔

[@Gianna-u9h]

Finally someone understands being a role model is a lot of pressure to be perfect and you feel like you have to hide your emotions 😢

[@TreeBeeTree]

The grades one especially hurts when your younger sibling(s) get a higher grade and your parents are all proud of them but say "Its ok. Just try harder next time" to u

[@lylarosee]

I'm the middle child and get treated like this. Gotta love being the middle kid.

[@I_like_cats666]

As an older child myself thank you for doing this now people can feel what we feel

[@ItzTanna]

This made me cry its too relatable…

[@-JustKat-]

Story time: So I’m 11, and my older sister Megan is 19. She’s my everything, and I’m hers. We tell each other everything and have that strong sister bond. One day I was just watching KZbin in my room and I heard her crying a little bit. I went into her room and I asked if she was okay, and she just pulled me into a hug. It turns out, she found this video and she started telling me how stressful it is being the oldest despite how much she loves me and just started venting her heart out to me, and I let her because I could tell she was hurting. The things she said she can’t relate to are babysitting, high expectations (she’s a really good student), and the blaming. She said she loves being my role model.

[@azeleasslimes]

I have been an oldest child of 6 for 12 years, this LITERALLY DESCRIBES MY LIFE

[@gadisathelilchef4225]

As the oldest child, I find this really relatable, parents just think "Oh yeah! You should have good grades and take care of your younger siblings" but sometimes we are just to over worked and tired but you still have that younger sister to take care of, especially if you have a toxic family, the younger siblings are gonna need you..

[@Midnight-fy3uj]

This is the most relatable thing ever.

[@Kayden-fm9cq]

omg this just breaks my heart

[@ARandomBxba]

As the oldest, the last 2 were very relatable as the first 2 not so much. It’s sad to know people know how it feels :’)

[@Pen1312]

I rarely see oldest child POVs. It is always middle children. Middle children have it bad, but it always makes my day to see the oldest child ones.

[@ameliavarner5466]

I am the middle child who is also the oldest. So not only am I a forgotten middle child but I have the responsibility (chores) of an older child and babysitting and trying to please my parents who don’t seem to care unless my grade slips to a B or anything for that matter it is just unfair in my house. However I don’t let that stop me from working hard to make my parents happy and being a role model for my younger siblings and keeping my grades up and studying to get my dream job. It is hard in my house there has been so many problems my family has gone through in a span of three years 2013-2016 my mom got diagnosed with MS and my grandmother passed away in august of 2014 to cancer and in 2015 I lost my dad to cancer and type 2 diabetes and my mom in 2016 had an MS relapse and couldn’t move for a few months at the time from 2013 to 2016 I was 4 years old to 7 years old so I didn’t know how to process it all at my age when I became a teenager it all came rushing back and I had been diagnosed with mild depression crippling anxiety and crippling social anxiety. I didn’t let it stop me I kept going yes I fought thing and they did get really bad I got help from a therapist and he helped me with so much in just a short time I also learned so much from him. Since then I haven’t had anything bad really happen to me there are still time I struggle with it but I fight because I refuse to let it control my life like it did and my mother has gotten so much better. I do still worry for her and do everything I can to help her and keep her from overworking herself. But I can tell you don’t let anyone push you around try to control you don’t put all the pressure on yourself and don’t not help out but don’t keep it all bottled up inside either you can do this you can fight to. ❤❤

[@AstheticDoodle]

As an oldest child I know what it feels like being blamed for stuff you didn’t even do….

[@ItsYaGirlAudrina]

Finally someone who understands

[@thedj3737]

Ok but I found the role model cute it shows the relationship between the siblings and show how much they care about each other

[@BlackpinkSedits]

Honestly as the youngest i hv told my older sister so many times i wanna be like her. You really can't blame us either...the older ones seem so perfect...and the parent also just wants u to be like them u cant help but wish u were as good as them.

[@daileencerritos9540]

The funny thing is that I actually relate to this it’s my day to day life of the oldest child and I started to talk back but then just decided that it’s not worth my time

[@UrFavIsabellaa]

This is basically describing me as the oldest..I’ve been dealing with this for 9yrs, I know how this feels

[@Miracle12348]

I’m sorry for you.

[@ariK7807]

Expect I’m the youngest who gets blamed for EVERYTHING… my sister does it all and I’m sick of it

[@Eclypsed_Moon]

I also go through this but I’m the youngest and my older sisters get away with everything and than I get yelled at or told I’m lying about something…

[@abigailgarcia6995]

Someone who finally understand how, hard it is to be the life of the oldest sibling. Km literally the oldest and some of the things happen ti me🥺😢

[@ElizabethHamato-fz2jt]

I have never found something more relatable in my life

[@aleqxiaaa]

Could you do one on being a younger sibling? We also share some pain…

[@jaycee_eq]

As the oldest girl of 3 I know how this feels, and the worst part is this isn’t where it ends, there’s so much more stuff

[@stelladouglas6924]

its so sweet sometimes with your siblings wanting to be like you tho-its so cute

[@Ki__ten]

As an oldest child i relate to this my parents have high expectations on me 😢

[@Raven15-]

oh my god you just described what its like. I always have to cancel plans with friends to babysit my sister even though she has a club she can go to but refuses to. My grades are currently 4 A’s and 3 B’s, which is good. and my mom yelled at me over having a few b’s its so weird- then when my sister has a few 3’s and an 4 (3’s are equal to b’s and 4’s are equal to A’s) its not an issue. like-

[@Im_bett3rthanu]

Ikr like when u have plans everything ruins it... Being the oldest literally SUCKS SO MUCH

[@SlimeHi18]

I’m the oldest and I can relate to this my little brother always act like a brat when I’m other here crying myself to sleep

[@hockeygirl23]

I love and hate being the oldest at the same time. Like the other sibling positions it has it's ups and downs

[@SophiazDragonz101]

As an older child with 4 lil brothers, this is so relatable!!

[@AnnabelleRice-hw3ku]

Yep this is all true along with getting gaslit for having “attitude” when you’ve been helping all day and you just can’t anymore and you end up not having a cheerful tone and it’s considered “snippy” and being told you’re out of control for having strong emotions about everything and not even being able to stand up to your parents.

[@nymphology118]

im an young child and this makes me cry i remember my sister:(

[@arnoldguisa4155]

Me as an Oldest child got into trouble for stupid things, high achiever, introvert, craziest, playful, blamed for not having the highest grades and also family expects to be the best of the best, suffered the most when protecting my brother from older guys bullying him, meanwhile my younger (since it’s only me and my brother) doesn’t get blamed, has more time to go out, extrovert, has more friends, parents don’t mind if he has bad grades, less responsibility, makes a lot mess around the house, homebody

[@priyaoberoi7646]

This is so relatable all of my friends are like your grade is good then why are you being worried. Isn't this thing too much why always it's the elder one but not the younger one. This thing made me almost cry🙂.

[@dianac3304]

Can u make one for the youngest List maybe Perents being strick bc they want to "protect you" sence your their last one Getting yelled at constantly and perents letting anger out on you Getting blamed for EVERYRHING Not being able to have as much fun as the older ones with perents Not being able to understand anything as you wernt born yet in the times theyr talking abt/being left out Perents having higher expectations for you to be as sucsesfull as older siblings Perents presurring you to not be a "dissaponintment" like your older siblings Getting spoild but not being able to se perents as much as your older siblings did Getting teamed up on or being hates by older siblings Getting bossed around all the time I would rlly apriciate it if you could to this so more people relise that bwing the youngest isint the best one. ❤❤ Tysm if you acctually do it!!

[@strawberries1gachaandroblox]

As the oldest child I can relate so much… an especially on the being blamed 24/7…

[@Kochuu11]

This is so relatable 😢

[@violet.m]

Also as the oldest, if you had early childhood traumatic experiences they may effect you more since you were old enough to understand or went through more than siblings who weren’t born at the time

[@biscuit_bitez]

Its the exact opposite for us in our family lol, my sister is the oldest, constantly breaks things, gets in trouble, makes mistakes (really bad ones), and always blames it on me. Constantly lies. To the point that none of us ever believe her on anything.