POV: you have family issues/ parent problems

[@Arlos_Skull]

~TIME STAMPS~ 0:00 - 3:30 All the things she said by t.A.T.u 3:30 - 6:26 Bang bang bang bang by SOHODOLLS 6:26 - 10:22 The family Jewels by MARINA 10:22 - 11:40 Looks who's inside again by BO BURNHAM 11:40 - 15:32 Dollhouse by MELANIE MARTINEZ 15:32 - 19:20 Step on me by THE CARDIGANS 19:20 - 23:37 Daddy issues (Remix) by THE NEIGHBORHOOD Correct me If any of them is wrong!!

[@K_yian]

Thx this helped❤️

[@kiv9880]

Thank you so much! ☆♡

[@Yourlocaljackass69]

Tysm this helps alot 👍

[@Dianx0ph]

Tysm it rlly helped

[@Cheyyyyy_The_Best]

Its also on the screen btww

[@Sketchyapperz]

"I'm just telling you ....." "When I was your age...." "Look at your classmate..." "STOP CRYING" * Rants to them all Abt my school problems * "Just ignore them" "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?!" "*Teases me with someone I hate*" "He's hitting you cuz he likes you" "Why are you making me look like a bad mother?" "Why do you not spend time with me anymore like we used to?"

[@clouddog111]

I couldn't figure it out until you came, haha~~!! [...]

[@Ph1raachan]

Wow.. Ig im not alone

[@Arrow_lowkeysilly]

I'm sorry I understand tho :(

[@randomgurl7455]

oh.. so im not alone?..

[@muffinhead3635]

"SHUT UP! your voice is annoying" "why don't you to speak to me? or give me time? " WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME ? 😭😭please clarify it to me, I've had enough! I want to spend a day without crying too!

[@Ghxstyyee]

I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you for sleeping. I'm proud of you for waking up. I'm proud of you for trying to wake up. I'm proud of you for eating. I'm proud of you for trying to eat. I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth. I'm proud of you for brushing your hair. I'm proud of you for trying. I'm proud of you for breathing. I'm proud of you for fighting. I'm proud of you for surviving. I'm proud of you for making your bed. I'm proud of you for being a good person. I'm proud of you for being amazing. I'm so proud of you. Your soul is so beautiful, and you are such a hard working person, even without the motivation. And just remember, when you're hurt because of people, know you're capable of anything against them. They think you're weak. But your trauma reflects off of your past to future. You can hurt them. You can fight. You can do anything. You are not incapable. Feel powerful and strong. Feel better than them. They are just lazy, sad assholes. Good job. You're working hard. You're gonna do great, my love.

[@mhagachacookie4474]

thank you u just made my day

[@GodHasForsakenMe-]

thanks man it's 1 am right now for me and I'm just having a mental breakdown and this comment is the first set of happy tears I've gotten tonight. thank you so much. This means more to me than it should.

[@loquisjagsdj]

thanks man this day has been so hard and I'm feeling bad all the time, this makes me feel better and not a bad person, this comment set of happy tears on the day, thank you so much you make my day better...

[@iloveyouprotag]

This made my day I started to crying to. Tears when. I saw this cuz I was cry just because. My family issues thx very much

[@shadowfox1273]

Thank you so much, I appreciate this very much

[@Birlaps_stan._.]

POV: Your youtube recommendations know more about you than your parents and friends 🙂

[@Iza-K.07]

Fr

[@milkyubun]

Understand...

[@image6880]

Truee

[@X2_.]

How did you know-

[@Birlaps_stan._.]

@@X2_. Because you're just like me 😞

[@bringingbacksweetmemories]

Parenting is very important. I wish my father was a better man.

[@Unknown_3ntity]

Me too, I hope someday he will be gone from my life and I hope you can leave him too if that’s what you need.

[@Silly_In_Space505]

Same.. i hope it gets better for you.🫶

[@SrtaBonnie]

Same.

[@s.a.w4528]

Mine locked me in a damn room to starve

[@kimdokja12]

Same.

[@broccoli.1109]

"stop crying or i´ll give you a reason to cry" "stop acting like an innocent kid" -I WAS LITERALLY AN INNOCENT CHILD

[@bluevalentaine995]

same

[@ARTICMONKEYS3]

i WAS innocent..

[@bsfswher.]

same.

[@gevrekazra]

Same

[@tosha-e4t]

the first one omg the number of times ive heard it-

[@gregvelasquez9123]

"Do you have mommy or daddy issues?" Dawg im the issue

[@vxl.g]

Same 😔 lbvs 🙁

[@MidnightStarPawz]

Same.. :(

[@azammidrahman1427]

Both

[@Nagito232]

Same

[@Livy_loves_pizza]

Real

[@LALA_kaka]

i love how the internet gets me more then my family

[@Kiwiceptionnelle]

yeah

[@AMAAT3RASU]

Fr

[@galaxy-starxd3473]

True asf

[@Orange_21]

factsss

[@ashjohnson6745]

So true

[@dnvz.4773]

"why did they give me a daughter like you.." ow. that one really hurt.

[@MelaniesCookie]

Releteable, lol

[@SychaelaSouthern-cq4yx]

it's like them saying "why can't you be more like so and so" yknow..

[@andifishgallery9400]

That’s incredibly unfair, you can’t expect children to fit a perfect mold like that. I really hope you take care ❤of

[@JustAHarmlessSoph]

My mom has told me time and time again, what did I do to deserve a daughter like you, nevermind the fact I'm nonbinary.

[@ibrimekin]

“You came to me as a detention.” What the fck i did in my past life

[@Dat_Bonka]

" You´re too young to have problems with mental health" They said... But don´t worry, theres many people for you. Even if you don´t know them in person. I´m here. We´re here..

[@nanamon-is-a-vocafan]

People in my screen can't hug me while I cry.

[@Serinity_baseball12]

Yes thank you

[@WeirdPersonInYourCorner]

“I thought I was your daughter not your slave”.

[@Serinity_baseball12]

I know

[@bluevalentaine995]

we´re on the same feelling

[@rosy-p3q]

for real

[@ReyYoruichi]

And she will say "I teach you to be a useful daughter and not to embarrass me."

[@christellew3727]

Exactely what I feel. He just said that he can't stand me but it's his fault!!!

[@echotheneko7346]

21:08 "when you told me the whole story i felt like throwing up" "I could see it on your face it was rough" best parttt

[@fatid.k.7928]

That part of the song was just playing when I read it. 😆

[@Bearr6931]

IKR

[@dogdog7883]

my favourite is "and if you were my little girl, i'd do whatever i could do"

[@Bearr6931]

@@dogdog7883 I hate that part.. it reminds me of "him" 💀

[@Soph-ev1kr]

"You saved her life" is my favourite it reminds me off my ex who is my friend now but my parents are keeping me away from him and other stuff because they aren't good people at all but anyways my ex would always be there for me, even check up on me, he never wanted to leave my side at all he knew I need him so much and he is my only place to escape and be happy I just hate being long distance from him and having no contact to him anymore because off my parents

[@louiemillan6090]

Me maturing is when I realize that parents never said "im proud of you". Or " I love you" sincerely...lol

[@clouddog111]

haha~~!! [...]

[@Channel9832]

Los míos si... Pero no me siento así :(

[@Animelover-b6q]

My mom has only said she’s proud of me when I was breaking down from so much stress and she still most of the time didint I can relate

[@b-12.08]

Damn true even if it hurts...., i feel a bit disgusted by how my mother still says that to me even if i see that she really doesnt mean it and only says it to seem like a good mother....

[@MariaTorres-ft7ie]

I'm proud of you:)

[@omgtildanoway]

I remember when i was tired my geography teacher asked me if i was ok and i started tearing up, it made me realise how severe my neglection was as a kid. as well as how bad my mommy and issues are, everytime a teacher praises me i will immediately become attached.

[@claudiaolivares3215]

We are the same, I am much more fond of my teachers than with my family, My teachers always ask me how I am, how my day has been or if I need anything, sometimes I even see them as a father or mother figure. 😅

[@omgtildanoway]

@@claudiaolivares3215 yeah the struggle is real 😅

[@hagerhugayes3047]

Tbh same I love my uncles teachers siblings and family members more than my actual mom and daf

[@omgtildanoway]

@@hagerhugayes3047 same omg twins?

[@hagerhugayes3047]

@@omgtildanoway twins for life I guess

[@muffinhead3635]

I wish I could say : "Mom it's not always my fault" "Mom when will I become a choice than option" "Mom I am under severe pressure " "Mom I want a shoulder to cry on" "Mom I didn't do that he did please believe me" "Mom he made that mistake not me" All I say : "sorry mom"

[@WarningPond]

It is with a heavy heart that I must acknowledge the existence of abusive parents, a reality that no child should have to endure. The pain and suffering inflicted by these individuals can leave deep emotional scars that may last a lifetime. The home, which should be a sanctuary of love and protection, becomes a place filled with fear, anxiety, and anguish. The constant belittlement, physical violence, and emotional manipulation chip away at a child's self-esteem, leaving them feeling worthless and unlovable. The cruelty and unpredictability of an abusive parent can leave a child in a constant state of hypervigilance, always on edge, fearing the next outburst. The innocent trust that should exist between a parent and child is shattered, replaced by a sense of betrayal and confusion. It is a tragedy that some individuals who are meant to nurture and guide their children instead inflict pain and suffering upon them.

[@aliciaafton433]

I can relate but don't worry we can all get through this

[@cybercupid]

Same.. I remember when my mom thought I lost her towel and smacked me. Turns out it was in the dryer. She didn’t even tell me sorry.

[@22-Lily-22]

I'm trying to say it too but everytime i try to say something they hit me

[@Jay-qd2vm]

same

[@ali_vesia]

“Her son/daughter gets all A+ why can’t you?” “Can’t you dress nice” “Be more like your sister” “Can’t you act more like a girl” “I’ll give you a reason to cry” “The doors wide open for you to leave” “I’ll send you to your father if you don’t listen” “Shut up can’t you be a better example” “You better not end up like…” “You better shut up before I hit you even harder” “You have to trust me” “You can tell me anything” “Why don’t you ever come out of your room” Yet she talks bad about me to all her friends and other people, she goes through my stuff without my permission, my room is the only place I feel safe in my whole home ironic isn’t it because a home is supposed to be a safe place.

[@Eekie_Spooks]

I understand u so much "Ur to young to be depressed " "Ur a brat" that one actually happened to me . "GOD WHY CANT U JUST BE BETTER!?" If u ever experienced this I'm so sorry and u matter to much for that person there just selfish try to listen do anything to make u happy u shouldn't come back to that person nor should they come to u.

[@kalyanipandala6527]

I relate to this sooo many of these and let me tell you that if they dont even value u they don't deserve u.

[@gothgrape]

Oh my god this exact words I hear

[@Otaku12969]

Omg i started crying when i read all that i relate so much

[@Aishycheesecrackers431]

Relating to another level 😭

[@lovingroseo]

i’m aware i have severe daddy and mommy issues. i’ve always wondered why i would always begin to tear up after a male or female teacher would praise me or even talk to me, when i got older i began to realize all i wanted was a parent that was actually a parent. i was raised by my brother beyond all this chaos i just want to make my mom and dad happy like what kind of child wouldn’t want that? but i didn’t realize being a child or parent could be so hard why was i born in this world to only grow up and realize the people that were supposed to love me more than anything would hurt me more than my own thoughts could :( i’m only a child that’s trying his best to make his parents smile but all he gets is scoldings of disappointment update: i’m doing better everyone. though i’ve spent many of my days alone, i’ve begun to grow and slightly mature… in the span of 8 months haha i apologize if this is sudden, but after reading all your comments, i worry that you all may believe life does not get better, no, life does not get better, it only becomes bare able when you approach it. i wrote this paragraph in my first year of high school, and now i’m a sophomore. within my family issues, i supposed myself that i shouldn’t dread like this. i may not be able to have a good relationship with my parents, but that shouldn’t define my outlook of life. but still, i remain in a state of peace and confusion. i am still young, and i am still learning, that life, does in fact, become bare-able. i am alive. i am in the present moment. thank you to everyone to whom offered their time, and responded to me. thank you to whoever reaches the end of my message. i hope you all, young, old, (especially those in their 20s) find peace in your life. - niveus 2023

[@sumayyah.muhsin]

im so sorry for you i can relate

[@hikkikoneet]

i understand how you feel, i've been through the same, i hope things get better and you can get out of this situation to get into a more comfortable one

[@tocabocalover1013]

Im sorry i can relate w/my dad

[@TerrenceTheolderbrother]

I hope things get better for you, if you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me

[@ccolez]

Your not the only one, I relate and used to these situations also. Im so sry to here hat btw!.

[@Solangeloshipper]

Vent My brother has been a mistake ever since he was in middle school. Because of that, my parents pushed all of their hopes and dreams onto me. It was fun in the beginning, they would praise me when I got good grades on a test or did a hard move skating and give me gifts when I won gymnastics competitions. But as soon as Covid happened, when I was in grade 7, I guess they thought I was too old for that or something because they got obsessive with it. It started with them just scolding me for simple things. Like when I got a bad grade on a test(which is total bull, I haven't gotten below a 90 in my life but anything below 95% is a disappointment I guess), or when my room was more messy than usual, which I think also contributed into my current mental state but oh well. But after a while, they started yelling at me for no reason. They poke out everything they can to make sure I don't end up like my brother. Who has a fine job, by the way, it just wasn't up to their standards. My mother is the reason I'm anorexic, she regularly comments on my weight and yells at me about it. She used to call me fat but when she saw that I agreed with her she switched to calling me too skinny. She started telling me that no clothes look good on a skinny person. But a while ago that felt like praise, so when she said it I just got happier. She realized that as well and is back to calling me fat. ANd it makes sense, I'm not perfect if I'm not pretty. That goes with being perfect, if I was just smart and not pretty than I wouldn't be worth anything to my parents. Being skinny factors into that I guess so I need to be skinny if I want to be perfect. I'd say I'm in a better mental state than I was back then but I still have an eating disorder. That's actually not entirely my mom's fault either. Two years ago the girl who sat beside me in grade 8 made fun of my food and weight every day. I started not being able to eat in front of others because of it and that's a habit that still hasn't gone away. My mom and that girl combined started an eating disorder I guess. My dad tells me every day what I'm going to do in the future. I honestly don't even want to be what they want me to but I don't have any other dreams because any time I say I want to be something else they crush that by pointing out all the ways I won't be fit for it. My dad isn't even home that often, he comes home for like a week after being away for nearly two. And when he is home he's constantly planning my future or telling me the things I'm doing wrong. Sometimes they yell at me for doing my schoolwork and not helping them around the house as well, I can't understand them at all sometimes. When I do get good grades or do something right they go back to praising me so I always try my best but most times it's not good enough. I would take the few moments of praise over the constant yelling. I can't do anything that my parents don't agree with and I can't say no to them either because they just yell at me and call me ungrateful. I honestly feel like I'm stuck. My brother still lives with us but he's not even in the house most of the time. I see him once a week tops. Not to mention my parents are homophobic, and that's less than ideal because I'm pan. I can't even joke about it without my parents getting mad and telling me not to mention anything related to 'those types of people'. I'm too scared to bring it up to my brother to see how he reacts because he tells my parents everything, whether on purpose or not. The only reason I'm even commenting this without the fear of being caught is because my parents finally stopped checking my phone a year ago because they think their wonderful golden child can do nothing wrong. They used to check my phone every night when I first got it to make sure I wasn't doing anything wrong. They checked it once a week a year later and they finally stopped. I'm not allowed to go to other people's houses at all. I'm not allowed to stay up after 9 unless I have a homework assignment that needs more time. Although I never go to sleep at 9, I just lay in bed doing nothing. Well I use my phone now, I had to give it to my parents every night the first year. I could go on and on about the rules that I have but won't because this comment is long enough. I guess I'm just waiting to graduate in two years so I can finally graduate and have an excuse to leave. Anyways that was very long and I'm sorry to anyone who read that but I had to get that off my chest.

[@sumaitasafa9593]

Girl we're literally living the same life Same dad Same mom But I have a sis and not a bro

[@alixar_null]

I’m so sorry for you. Parents like this disgust me, and they shouldn’t be parents at all. I genuinely believe that you should try and find out who you are, not who they want you to be. When you get out, you’d want to be who you are not the mindless drone they want you to be. You should find a support group you’re comfortable with either now or later down the road so you aren’t alone when you leave. My best advice is to cut your parents out of your life as soon as possible, contact with them would make it easy to try and emotionally manipulate you again. There is hope for you, even if you’ve given it up.

[@rimaramax]

You got this my fren

[@clouddog111]

I wish I didn't relate, I don't even have someone to tell everything to

[@bluee7717]

I hope it gets better ❤ i really mean it . 🫶🏻🙂

[@nozzy57]

"See!? That's exactly the problem. That shutting down. I'm always so scared to voice my feelings because you'll just shut down!" Gee thanks.

[@SirenVYYY]

POV: You literally relate to all of these songs but you’ve already accepted you don’t have a “normal” family. Whatever normal means to you.

[@Channel9832]

Si

[@QHu-kx1tr]

Fr and sad

[@Animelover-b6q]

True

[@Tokito.sama346]

normal? I don't think I know what that means is it normal to want to commit suicide everyday wanting to take a swan dive of the roof

[@flowersplayz-lz2zo]

every time my parents see each other they fight and yell...and i have to watch all of it...

[@Rosypichado]

7:08 is like my life in a sentence “all we share is one lastname”

[@yoyo_god_killua]

Absolutely perfect to choose the Yugi family as the cover image. They really encompass the severities of family issues. They even fit pretty much all the songs. And this next part may just be me being self-indulgent as a Hanako fictionkin, but it especially fits from Amane's perspective. I mean, he clearly has issues with almost every member of his family, especially Tsukasa.

[@sakura-zh6lq]

i aggree with you, the image fits this playlist so well, since it was because he got neglected that Hanako killed his family(sorry for bad english, not my native language)

[@ReeRaRoo]

IDK MAYBE SPOILERS ;-; I feel like Tsukasa was bullying Hanako because when Nene went to the past and met Hanako at the festival Hanako said that Tsukasa gets violent when he doesn't get his way or smth. Also why do people simp for Tsukasa? I get he's kinda a yandere.(according to some other ppl I know) But he did do smth to Hanako in the past and Hanako's obviously scared or feels extremely uncomfortable around him:/ I just realised that I forgot what I was going to talk about and started ranting on Tsukasa srry

[@yoyo_god_killua]

@@ReeRaRoo Spoilers!! I agree. There was some form of abuse that was happening, but Tsukasa still manages to be the most important (his yorishiro) to Hanako.

[@h-otaku]

which anime?

[@covespa]

​@@h-otakutoilet bound hanako kun

[@SerenaFaire]

I grown up with a "loving but toxic childhood". I am the only child or to be more specific the "only grandchild", my family was loving but I didn't realize how toxic it is until I turned into a teenager, they were always expect so much to me, and disciplining me even its just a little (like playing with other kids in a party). It got to the point where I didn't develop any social or mental qualities... my parents left me to live with my auntie for 5 years (I was 7 when they left) and all those years I have no guide to guide me in my early years of development, and I have experience so much pain and mistake during those five years and suddenly COVID started and they were forced to come home and they took me.. that's when it started my years of pain , emotional and verbal abuse, I told them I have problems too and I been through so much but they didn't believe me.. they told me that academic achievement doesn't mean anything but my whole years that they were there I did nothing but to satisfied others and go to satisfied them.. I lost it and depression and anxiety finally won when they said "you didn't even to anything to make me proud our your father proud" and "if I know that your going to the reason of my embarrassment I would have killed you when you were a kid".. I wish I didn't hear those words cuz it's been 2 year's and that words keep on repeat in my head everytime I did something that I knew would hurt my mother's reputation..

[@The_Best_Student.]

- *start to cry * - why are you crying. - because you're yelling at me - SO I'M YELLING BECAUSE YOU'RE CRYING!! this is how I in 7 years lost trust to my parents, but they changed. They don't yell at me now, but that deep scar stayed on my trust

[@tartagalicious]

I never realized how bad my daddy issues evolved. I always wondered why I preferred male teachers and why I always searched friendship from older boys and men. To the point I believed I had a crush on them, when in reality I just wanted them to hug me, praise me. You know when you imagine fake scenarios? None of them pleases me, no romantic ones. But if I imagined fatherly scenarios, I was so so happy, or when my male teacher said "you did a good job" when I got an A. Also the reason I am not often interested in boys younger than me, or sometimes even the same age. I need to restart and get over it, fr fr.

[@beatrismitincu]

same with female teachers, i think i have mommy issues and sight daddy issues too but idk

[@Giannad8718]

I was 7 when my parents starting forgetting about me and left me to take care of my self and help raise my little sister, it took them 7 years to finally start looking at me like their child and loving me like one.

[@megangroah4822]

I was probably around 7 when my mom forgot me at the school I had to go home with my friend 😀

[@yoto-rv8ns]

​@@megangroah4822 BRO SAME. MY FATHER FORGOT ME AT SCHOOL. except tht i dint hv a friend so i walked home...

[@Mad_James]

I feel like I'm in prison. You will surely tell me that it is normal in adolescence. I totally agree with you, since I am going through this phase. But I think I still have some reason in addition to feeling locked up. I have no social life. My parents never allowed me to go to friends, nor to go for a walk or to go to classes alone, while my high school is a few blocks from my home. I've always been taken away from people. Even from the rest of my family. I'm trying today to open up to others, even if it's hard. My parents were not very present by the way. I understand that they have a job. Except that as soon as they can be present, they do useless things when they could be there for us. My sister has difficulties in progress, yet my parents do nothing except criticize her. They don't really support me either. They force me to do things I don't want to do, and I'm not talking about household chores of course. They want to decide my future. To sum up, I spend most of the time at home or in class, alone for most of the time because I have always been removed from all human life and I am being traced a future that I have no desire for. Believe me, being alone can be good. But being alone permanently is much less so. When we can't talk to anyone, we keep our problems in us. And we imagine more and more horrible things. "Just because you're alone?" Yeah, "just" for that. (If anyone has read this, thank you for reading. You're Nice 🙂 ) (Sorry if i make mistakes, i'm french soooo i used a translator because my english is...not very fantastic lol)

[@33437]

Je pense que je peux comprendre ce que tu ressens. Surtout sur la solitude. Ce n'est vraiment plus très bon.Peut-être que dans une telle situation, tu devrie simplement faire ce que tu voule. Sans autorisation. Il est toujours plus facile d'être puni que de regretter de ne pas l'avoir fait. Dans tous les cas, quelle que soit la voie que tu choisire, je suis sûr que tu réussire. L'essentiel est de ne pas abandonner, peu importe à quel point tout semble mauvais. (mon anglais est nul, ainsi que mon français, désolé pour les fautes lol)

[@victoriashipley3344]

facts fr. honestly when ur 16 or 18 you can legally leave ur house cuz ur of age . everything will get better js be patient ig

[@beatrismitincu]

i feel you

[@oceanexblve884]

How old are you

[@Mad_James]

@@oceanexblve884 i'm 16 . So yeah , Maybe I'm not really mature because of my "adolescence crisis", but I'm not exaggerating anything, I'm just saying facts.

[@Black-CoffeeProductions]

When the mommy and daddy issues are so bad you think every time someone praises you, you're doing a bad job or not doing it good enough at whatever it is.

[@justinboddeker4017]

Or that their praise is just empty words and that they actually hate you and pretend that they care just so that they could use you even though they have been nothing but kind to you.

[@pumkkimmi]

To whoever reads this, i love you i love your smile i love your laugh i love your personality i love your hair (or lack thereof) i love you even if you have insecurities i love your accomplishments i love you even if you have failures i love your eyes i love your beauty i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate) i love the way you dance i love you on your happy days i love you even on sad days i love you on the days you feel lonely i love you on the days you feel helpless i love you on the days you feel like no one cares i love you on the days you feel forgotten i love you on the days you feel unmotivated i love you on the days you feel loved i love you on the days you feel sick i love you on the days you feel motivated i love you on the days you feel depressed i love you on the days you feel stresses i love you on the days you feel crazy i love you on the days you feel hopeful i love you on the days you feel cuddly i love you on the days you feel clingy i love you on the days you feel amazing i love you on the days you feel beautiful i love you on the days you feel like a failure i love you on the days you feel angry i love you on the days you feel aggressive i love you on the days you feel horrible i love you on the days you feel safe i love you on the days you feel unsafe i love you on the days you feel vulnerable i love you on the days you feel weird i love you on the days you feel ok i love you when you're healthy i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music) i love your taste in music i love your taste in movies i love your taste in tv shows i love the way you act i love you even if you cry i love you when you're kind i love you even if you you're mean i love you even if you're alone i love you even if you can't feel i love you even if you feel too much i love you even if you can't take life anymore i love you even if you feel like it's too much i love you when you're asleep i love you even if you have nightmares i love you when you have dreams i love how you believe i love you when you believe in yourself i love you even if you don't believe in yourself i love you even if you hate yourself i love you when you love yourself i love the way you think i love you even if you have problems i love your solutions i love how you support i love you even if you're in pain i love you even if you're hurt i love your promises i love your secrets i love your attitude i love you sass i love your creativity i love your voice (or lack thereof) i love you hand gestures i love your stories i love you even if you have wounds i love you even if you have scars i love your face i love your past i love your future i love your present i love your outfits i love your style i love your art i love your honesty i love you even if you lie i love you even if you're tired i love you when you're energetic i love how you look i love how you cook i love you when you're adventurous i love you even if you're scared i love your imperfections i love your perfections i love you even if you worry i love you when you talk (or communicate) i love your opinions i love you even if you have headache i love you even if you have a stomach ache i love you when you help others i love you when you're mature i love you even if you're immature i love you in the hard times i love you in the easy times i love you even if life isn't bright i love you when you're responsible i love you even if you're irresponsible i love you even if you fight i love you in your darkest moments i love you in your brightest moments i love your heart i love you in the day i love you in the night i love you at midnight i love you at 3 am i love you at all times i love you at your best i love even if your worst i love the little things you do i love all of you i love you when you're you i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪. and even if this is not mine.. spread it around the internet, everyone needs of love

[@Alexyourtransbigbrother]

This genuinely made my day a bit better, thank you sir/ma’am/whatever you prefer. You are a good person and I hope you have a good day

[@pumkkimmi]

@@Alexyourtransbigbrother have a good day aswell

[@Loreleihere]

This legit made me cry

[@leosflowergarden3178]

Im well aware my family has issues, but as a kid I wasn't. I thought the falling apart family I grew up in was normal until when I told my friends I was met with looks of concern and asking if I was okay, I didn't realize It wasn't normal until today where most of my friends have kind families that don't involve several alcoholics and nights of screaming and calling the police. And I honestly think this is why as a little kid I grew up faster than everyone else did, and now I act like a kid because I didn't get a childhood, I had to be an adult at 4 years old. In exchange for a childhood I got years of trauma including almost being killed by a family members horrible drinking abuse and I really wish I didn't. "I see things that nobody else sees" I really do. My families falling apart at the seems but when people are around they act like the picture perfect family.

[@beatrismitincu]

i dont know who you are but i wish the best for you you deserve happyness, everyone does, i hope you are well and you find that happyness you never received

[@DamonTorranceswife]

Im so sory that that happend to you nobody deservs that

[@Random_AnimeWatcher23]

Just a vent.. I have issues with my dad, my real dad, he's an alcoholic, he hasnt done anything bad, but because mom and him don't live in the same house or together. I dont see him often maybe every other weekend. I have a sister over there too, I'm sure she misses me when I'm gone. It's hard to accept that you dont know if you father is sober or not. I mean imagine you going to your grandmas house, yes, they live in the same house. You just came back from a tiring week of school, you just wanna relax and spend time with your dad. Only to find out, that he's buzzed out, looking like a zombie and he smells like beer, you already know what he did. Then, he tries to hide the evidence of the beer cans in the most obvious places. Your hope to spend time with him is gone. The rest of the weekend is to try and forget that he exists, but the stench of the beer is in the air constantly reminding you of his presence. He sleeps all day and does nothing, doesnt help around the house, nothing. He doesnt have a job either, 50 years old and no job. The money that he gets is from the blood donation center, he uses it to buy more. It's not like he hasnt got help either, we got him professional help. A center for people who has drug and alchohol problems. Meetings that he has to go to. But he doesnt. He always said that he will get a job. But the moment he does get one,the first paycheck he saves for later, for beer of course. Not for bills and not for us. For beer. I gave up on his journey to recovery, I have been told to have faith in him. That he needs support. But it's been years, he has been drink ever since I frist met him, I'm now almost an adult and he's still there. There was an incident were he tried to steal money from my step mom. He lied straight to our faces when we confronted him He tried to go up stairs and hide the moeny in his pocket, she had to wrestle the money out his hand. I have had to yell at him a couple of times but it falls on deaf ears. It's not like we haven't tried getting rid of him. We have, a few times we locked him out of the house and told him to go to a homeless shelter. You might think that's cruel, but when has he tributed to anything? At the end, when HE decides to sober up again, he pretends like nothing happened. It tiring really and I'm sick of it, I have been patient long enough for years. And honest, i want him out. I mean, it wont make a difference.

[@fireblack6395]

My dad gona brok up with my mon

[@A.P2002]

i feel EVERYTHING you just said, but with my mom

[@galaxy-starxd3473]

I'm so sorry maybe call the cops to help..?

[@boredallday611]

It's good to lock him out. If he can't change himself for the better, then do not let him in your life so that he can make you more unhappy. Maybe he does get help buy for now kick him out.

[@Random_AnimeWatcher23]

@@boredallday611 I wish he stayed out but unfortunately grandma(his mom) felt pity for him and let him inside (which was a huge mistake) and because he knows that we will lock him out the moment he leaves again, he has since been inside house.

[@janetgalvan3631]

I was just 3 when I see my parent fighting in front of me I'm so young to see that cause I can only hear screaming shouting and I'm jealous of my cousin cause her mom and dad never fight I wish I was her.

[@athenablack6079]

I was three when I realized no whole family would ever want me as I heard my mom "foster" yelling at my foster dad she didn't want me and how I had to go. I hated my mom ever since and was given to my current mom who I just resented as a motherly figure. She did adopt me tho but it wasn't butterflies and roses after that either. I vividly remember a lot of traumatizing things from around that age. And a lot of details.

[@abhilashasharma4476]

Now you r big enough to understand that why they fight... So don't think about the past deal the situation according to present you that time you r small enough to understand that... Now you r mature enough to stop their fight

[@WhiteNoFace]

Same

[@stellan0va]

bro same.

[@khaulahfauzolazim7534]

I was like 7 when that happen

[@Silly_In_Space505]

I feel so left out in my family, nobody acts like they actually care and they make fun of my hobbies and how i think. It makes me feel worse about myself everyday.

[@rbh0107]

i’ve realized how traumatized my parents constantly fighting when i was in 4-5th grade made me. it came to the point where when nighttime came, i was so scared they would argue again. there was one specific night incident that would scar me for life, my parents might have disregarded it now or have forgotten about it but i was there that night, protecting my poor mom, and i remember it all too well. whenever they argued, i would go upstairs and hide. then i would cover my ears so i wouldn’t have to hear what was going on or my dad’s loud yelling voice. i felt like it was always my fault that i started the arguments that it was because of me. i used to secretly always wish my parents divorced (still kind of do) as it seemed like it was for the better. i would wish i had parents like my friends and cousins, they all seemed like this picture perfect family with parents they never argued. during those times of hiding, i would always think the first thing to do was pray to God and i would cry cry cry out to him. little me did not deserve any of this. poor her, if i could see her again in those moments i would hug her so tight. even now, when my parents sightly raise their voices at each other, i get brought back to 10 year-old me frightened and scared for her life and my body feels this absolute hit of anxiety and panic. about 1-2 months ago, i hid in the bathroom when i heard them talking loudly to each other and it completely brought me back to all those times i hid in the bathroom for the same reason… and it was the worse feeling of realization. i always blamed my social anxiety on maybe genes and not going out a lot, but i think this part of trauma in my life also had something to do with it. i’ve read other peoples’ stories of their social anxiety worsening from seeing their parents fighting so i think this has formed it even more. parents, please don’t argue in front of ur kids, it could harm them really bad. this was one of the hardest times of my life, it just felt so dark, when i think about this time, i can just feel and sense that negative nostalgia of it and i hate it so much.

[@milayuh7]

as a girl who constantly gets into fights with her parents, these songs are so true. my little sister has constantly wake up to hear me and my parents fighting. my mom had me when she was 19 and my dad 18. i pick fights with them cause of the anger i hold.

[@milayuh7]

@Livas' my moms 32 im 13

[@BpTWICE]

I go through a similar thing too. When I was young, I always fought with my dad, and my sister just watched. Shouting, crying, I always thought that she was the golden child since she never had that problem. Then my parents got divorced.

[@Moon._.Empress]

I know you probably dont hear this much, i know i dont. Your family issues and trauma are valid. You dont need to feel like "oh it wasnt that bad" or "im overreacting" if they fucked up, they fucked up and no matter of them being better now can change that. But dont worry, it gets better. And no matter what im here for you

[@fnaf_warriors_hazbin]

read it again. as many times as you need to to feel like it’s true. you should hear it as much as you need to.

[@jelagatjanice4555]

Thanks 🥺💔

[@xxmercuryxx2.1]

You. Thank you.

[@markbark3333]

Thank you, stranger.

[@aditigarg74644]

@@jelagatjanice4555 i am going through same thing idk why I can’t stop blaming myself honestly my family is not normal but I am grateful to at least have one but it’s always full of extreme fights every time they fight I am tired of keeping them together even my mum said that I am the reason of most of their fights idk she’s acting so strange especially nowadays my family conditions used to be worse when I was young but it improved but now I think it’s all coming back I am scared sorry just wanted to lighten up

[@figmentedpicklepaste-ct6hq]

!vent! My dad and his side of the family disowned me for having issues, and attempting to take my own life, I haven’t heard from them in 6 months now and my birthday is next week. I doubt my dad will wish me happy birthday, but I just hope he thinks solemnly of me sometimes, just like I do him. I have loving grandparents who take care of me now though, I’m doing better than I ever would have, even though I miss my dad, I’m happier without him

[@kiv9880]

I'm so sorry this happend to you, i wish you a happy early birthday! ♡

[@switchedaccountsmoveon]

Happy early birthday :))

[@RyO0.]

Happy birthday ✨💗

[@A_Z_A_T_H_O_T_H]

Happy birthday, Aries 🐏 I think. Here's some cake: 🎂 And a balloon 🎈 Some decorations and festivities: 🎉🎊✨👑🎂🎁💖💕🪄🪅 A candle (make a wish): 🕯️ Some music: 🎶🎵🎶🎷🎸🪕🎺🎻🧑‍🎤💽📻🎧🎙️🪕 The guests: 🥳💃😎🕺☺️😃🧑‍🤝‍🧑🧍‍♀️👭🥳🥳☺️😎😖🥸🙆 And you, the birthday girl/ boy/or whatever you'd prefer: 🤴👸 Now let's have a partay!!!!!! Don't let those losers get you down!!!! Happy birthday, whoever you are!! You rock 🪨🗿👩‍🎤👨‍🎤🎸🎶🎵 Sending an e hug 🫂🤗 Never let anyone din your smile!!!!!! 🥳🤗👭😃😎👽🕵️🧝🪄🎩🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈♈👑💍🕶️🎎🎏🧧🍜🫔🫔🥘🥘🥙🌷🌺💐🌺💃🕺👍🙌🤲👉👈😋🥲🙃

[@ChaoticJstar]

Hey happy early birthday hope it gets better somehow for you

[@PinkOrangeOrangePink]

They give more warmth to strangers than they are willing to show to me. They make weakness a sin when its me showing it.

[@Alyssa_ally200]

My friend started to vent to me and when they started to cry I was trying to comfort them but then they started to yell at me and how I have "such a perfect life " at that point I was holding in my tears. Yelling is one of my triggers but I hate the way she told me I have a perfect life if only they met my family.

[@gabby9931]

I literally almost cried in costco today, because i saw kids with their mom's and dad's and saw how happy they were. I realized i could long for that, but i would never get it.

[@kimikohikari8473]

i have severe family issues AND A HARD MOMMY ISSUES since i was 5 that is what i remember, being choked, hit, getting bottles trown at me, having to deal with a bipolar, maniac, toxic mom going crazy or drunk crying over ANOTHER man, being afraid of loud noises, fights, its hard. I tear up just from a teacher praising me doing EVERYTHING for someone noticing me thinking that someone obssesing over me being good because of how i was raised literally almost dying and hearing your mom yelling at you compared to an abusive dad and family damn. i cant wait to be 18 and have a chance to go away and never look back from this hell..

[@btsarmymonster2705]

They say beat us up was never violence its all for our good ....

[@nashla917]

A life for a 12 yr ( teenager ) can be hard depends if you have parents issues, trying so hard to make them proud of you, make them smile, even tho I try so hard I will always get in trouble, I have mommy issues, I keep trying so hard but still can’t, tbh sometimes I try to say nicely I still couldn’t… :(

[@Urfavsmartavaxx]

I also have mommy issues

[@aly_panda4304]

This hits hard especially knowing I live with a random family since my parents lost custody over me, it sucks and I know my parents didn't really care about me

[@jhopesspriteempty8173]

I told my mom about my SA yesterday She looked right at me with no care in her eyes and just said “that’s so dumb why did you go with him? Why didn’t you report it too? What if other girls-“ Okay but a girl already did, ur daughter like tf. She left after that cuz I started crying smh I also told her how the most important person to me is my coach because he saved me from suicide and she goes “huh youre so ungrateful we’ve done so much for you” they laughed in my face when I told them about it smh they also threatened to take away my dojo knowing it’s the only thing that’s keeping me alive Almost every time I ask her for help now, so simple she just glares at me and says “why don’t you ask Mr (my coach I don’t wanna say the name) because he’s soo much better” She’s mad because someone was able to help me instead of just laughing at me

[@mar_ella]

I am so sorry that happened to you, you dont definitely deserve it. She is not your mother after she has done these things to you. Hope you will be better in future. You are so strong,I love you❤❤❤

[@andreeadumitru3395]

Omg..i am so sorry about that hun...please be strong,i know it's hard,you might want to give up now,but please don't,stay strong love,and please keep fighiting,please..i love you😟❤❤

[@daisyvillarreal-bm7hy]

For everyone, especially my parents, I had to change to please them but it's over and I can't stand it anymore, I stopped being well a long time ago. I changed for them. I cried for them. that's all my tears.

[@St4rmy_N1ghtz]

They didn't notice you were crying They didn't notice you were sad They didn’t notice you were tired They didn’t notice you were alone They didn’t notice how attentive you were They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are They didn’t notice how you try to make others smile They did notice you failing grades They did notice your unattractive They did notice the mean side of you They did notice all your mistakes They did notice all your flaws They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them. But you stayed strong You kept going on You never gave up on hope You never let then take you down And you know they wasn’t good enough for you And that’s what make you stronger (credits to original writer) Tysm for reading this ^^

[@XxashamberxX]

True, but now im starting to give up

[@Questem]

I am a simple person. I see The Hanako Red House arc, I click.

[@Tree_person222]

Lol we're both tbhk fans

[@josephpendzich5863]

I found my people lmao

[@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans]

started as a normal comment but then turned into a lil vent i knew “look who’s inside again” hit different for me, i just couldn’t express into words back then how i felt it’s like every time i leave my room “there she is” (actual quote) they think it’s funny, it hurts when people laugh at it and then attack me for having a bad attitude because i didn’t laugh? and i feel like when i’m around them, they’re watching my every movement and judging me for it, i don’t know when i’ll be punished for something and why when i’m alone, it’s like there’s somebody trying to detect my presence. i feel like i have to make as little noise and movement as possible as to not cause a disruption or get in trouble maybe the reason i’m always expecting a negative outcome for my actions is because in past situations, i wasn’t properly explained on what exactly i did wrong?/the intensity of the punishment didn’t match my mistake?

[@leosflowergarden3178]

I get it, I really do. If you need someone to talk to im here ^^

[@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans]

@@leosflowergarden3178 thank you so much 💜

[@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans]

any time i start struggling with something like sleep or time management, my parents instant reaction is to take my things from me. I’m well past the age where that’s a common solution for most people, i feel like my own stuff isn’t mine and like they have full control over me i should be my own person by now with them as a guide, but it’s a certain type of parenting that strict and controlling but with little guidance in specific places i remember just one time my dad helped me with school, and my mom helping a few times, but that was with telling us the url(homeschool), printing things out a couple things, told us to refresh the page over and over. but then at some point she stopped, expecting us to be able to figure out what work ethic is, and that we ourselves had to do a certain amount of sitting in an uncomfortable cold environment with audio so quiet and terrible that you can’t tell what they’re saying which has led to me being useless every day and unable to do anything at all, it seems. it doesn’t help that im neurodivergent, making each thing i mentioned 20x more painful tl;dr when i have problems, my parents take my stuff and expect pure happiness from me, they never helped me with actual schoolwork at all and now I’m stupid because i didn’t learn the things i was supposed to back then

[@leosflowergarden3178]

@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Of course!

[@beatrismitincu]

i can relate a little my parents when i trhow a tantrum they laught. im not taken sereusly ever. i dont matter. my feelings dont matter. they cant understand how sensible i am and i want to say you are not alone i thhink i live in a bad hoisehold too try to resist :(

[@winona_bntggs]

Vent. I absolutely gave up on trusting any one especially my parents. I always feel pressured and they always get mad at smallest mistakes, they blame me for everything, they think im weak for crying over anything they think im to sensative they think its bad being to sensitive when they dont know what theyre doing and how affecting it is. They say that looks dont matter but tease me on my insecurities and how fat i am, im always ledt out and no one notices. Sometimes someone does but they just leave when i say im fine. Its such a tiring life being in a picture perfect family. Ppl think we are doing awesome, ppl think we have good relationships, ppl think we have no issues. But me personally i do have. I have no one to talk to since no one to trust, im absolutely fed up of life, ive always thought of running away and starting new, but i always think theyre still family. There are happy moments but there are very much traumatizing memories/moments. Oh and i have asain parents‼️ yea lmao. I gave everything to them, but its always my fault, i cant talk to them abt anything bcus i would always think that theyd say something bad abt it. "Wheres our old little girl?" Well its theyre fault i changed. Its their fault i dont trust them anymore. They also gaslight it to be our fault or like "what happens if we die huh? Youll be happy?"" Then what if i die first. And the fact they say "we have no favorite" but my mom clearly favors the youngest. + My older sister is no help, meanest person ever. Why'd I end up alive anyways. Why can't I just go?

[@kanos606U]

POV: There are online people (who are careful) that can help you how to cope with your parents if they gaslight you or not talk out the problems with you.

[@CREAMNCHEESE-p1r]

to be honest my relationship with my mom and sister went from 'i would die for you' to 'i would die for anything but you'.

[@kimmavis]

Once i had A happy family A happy friends cycle A best friend A true smile A mother Once i was A good girl A good student A good daughter Why I lose everything.

[@thefroggirl7060]

my father gives me anxiety :D

[@thefroggirl7060]

and my school makes me mad , i hate my life , i wish i was the one who died not my dog or brother

[@victoriashipley3344]

@@thefroggirl7060 when ur 18 u will be like "damn i was so dramatic" trust everything will get better g.

[@Thefaeprince]

​@@victoriashipley3344 how insensitive are you? "You'll realize oh I was being so darn dramatic" not all ppl have the same issues as you so there are different ways to react so don't judge them on the way they react.

[@xoxohazel_forever]

Same

[@ValentinaFernandez-hc7cf]

​@@thefroggirl7060 Hey, I understand your Situation, You can vent here if you need a shoulder, I'm proud of you For holding on, Even if Barely, Your Doing your Best And That's great, You can do it

[@Lumine264]

Well it's just how life is isn't it? Oh how I envy the people that have a good relationship with there family and the people who has a family. But I do hope that they will never feel the pain that I've been (⁠^⁠^⁠)

[@Lumine264]

Vent. I'm always trying my best to at least make them proud of me but I failed.. I'm a failure and don't deserve the life I now have. It hurts and I don't understand why am I really that dumb to not understand my own self? I don't know why it hurts and I want to make it stop but it doesn't stop I can't take it anymore I don't want to be me anymore... They don't understand me and blamed me for there mistakes. I.. I don't understand if they don't like me why did they even give me life. I never asked to live.. I don't feel safe in the house.. I can't even call it my home anymore I just want to run away but something is stopping me and I don't know what it is.. it's frustrating and I hate it. I mean If I can't even understand myself then how can they!? If I don't even know what's going on with myself..and I hate it.. it hurts and I don't know how to make it stop.. I don't want to be here anymore I just see my life as a curse. They told me to open up to them.. how fullish of me to trust them... They then decided to blame me for there mistakes..? And only see the mistakes I make rather than the good things I try to do for them.. I don't understand...! How can I even understand myself it's just complicated and they don't understand.. I'm always trying my best to at least make them proud of me but I failed.. I'm a failure and don't deserve the life I now have. They told me to open up to them.. how fullish of me to trust them... They then decided to blame me for there mistakes..? And only see the mistakes I make rather than the good things I try to do for them.. I don't understand...! How can I even understand myself it's just complicated and they don't understand.

[@zenithryne]

​@@Lumine264 I understand how hard it is, having nobody to understand how you feel or what you are going through. Sometimes you yourself don't know exactly what you are going through. But let me tell you, you will be okay. None of what you are feeling is your fault. You are strong, continue to be strong. Push through the pain, you will find someone or something that will be there in the way you need them too. Your feelings and struggles are normal. You will be okay, though I don't know you or exactly what you are going through, you will be okay❤ I love you stranger, hope your feelings one day become joyful and you can look back at the world and see how far you have come. Stay strong❤

[@ekinnurkara4503]

​@@Lumine264Hello, how are you now? I tought like you did but a few days ago i found out that wasn't my fail... My mom always frusrated and tell at me even in my a little bit fail and when i study she just told me how was my elder sister better than me. İt s not our problem its their fail. We are good and Okay but they arent grateful about their children

[@ItzkenzieplayzonYT]

Behind every family or perfect family is a run downed broken hearted family

[@Rey_Palpatine]

The "Look who's inside again" song hits hard, as someone who grew up with paranoid parents who didn't really let me leave the house by myself a lot. I had to just kind of do random shit to entertain myself most of the time. My parents had basically no friends because of their lifestyle and I barely had any either. Other kids would ask me if I wanted to go somewhere with them after school and I'd have to make up some excuse for why I couldn't, because it was too awkward to explain my family situation. I think it rubbed off on me because now that I'm an adult and technically free to do whatever I want, I don't really like going far from my house and decline any attempt people make at a closer relationship with me.

[@Akari-Chan-h2n]

If any parent or sibling sees this remember never tell your sibling or child "what do you mean ur stressed your just a kid! You dont have anything harsh happening in your life!" It may seem like that but remember the "happy" kids are the ones in most pain...

[@R1SHFTW]

I love how we all got family issues and are comforting each other... I'll be 13 this year and I live with my cousins and grandma. Dad and mom are both separate... Mom re-married, dad is still single. I sometimes wonder what i did to deserve this... I still remember the nights when i used to cry so much, being the only one in the friend group with separated/ divorced, i hate it when some of them ask me about my parents, although they dont know the situation. I feel jealous of their lives and dont know what to answer so i make up excuses. But deep down it hurts a lot, seeing none of them relating. I cant even count the times i've thought of committing, felt uselesss and like a disappointment to my parents. PS: Today would be my parents 18th anniversary (they were married on 10th June, 2005) But they divorced last year, which makes them 17 years together...

[@acfa383]

My parents never got a divorce and I wished everyday of my life that they did…I turned 20 now and I still wish they did…at least i would’ve moved on to other prblms instead of being stuck.

[@R1SHFTW]

@@acfa383 Well it's a bit hard to move on as I dont even see them that while. Now it's better, school is too much of a head ache to worry about these things. I watch anime now,it's my biggest motivation and I plan to go to Japan one day :) Have a good day or night to whoever is reading

[@StupiidLuciid]

Pov: Random commenters are nicer than your friends are about your trauma

[@caenightingale4752]

Darling, strangers on the internet get an outside view and aren't attached, they won't have qualms about calling out an asshole especially when they're parents. We care, or atleast I do. Also I suggest new friends I'd that isn't too stressful for you. Take care, My Dear.

[@yumekojyabami]

If ur not feeling good about yourself because any type of abuse remember that you can help yourself and that if you need a friend you are the best friend who knows everything about you with good or bad things.

[@GriffinTator]

I feel like the songs DNA and Family Line should be in this playlist, other than that, this playlist is very relatable. If you’re reading this, just remember we will all escape our own families one day and live the lives we deserve. Stay strong. 🖤

[@Mha_Kiri]

POV: you have no one to talk to about your problems so you just listen to this and cry. I know it’s sad but also the truth.

[@caenightingale4752]

Oh my sweet Sunflower, I'm so sorry, when hard things happen you need a support to talk to. Someone to lean on and trust, truly trust. You deserve it My dear. I'm not saying this just to say it, think about my words and let them comfort you. You deserve to speak to people about your experiences, and you deserve to have someone to cry on. Take care, Love, and don't let your experiences hold you back❤

[@hellokitty4evrr]

To everyone reading this, you didn't deserve it. You didn't deserve what they said, you didn't deserve what they did. They were supposed to be there for you, love you, be happy for you. They didn't, and it's not your fault. It never will be your fault. I know it can feel like you're alone, but your truly not. I'm here for you, I'm here for you all. You can vent under this comment, I'll listen no matter what. You're not a burden, you emotions are important, you're important. People say nobody's perfect, but I think that's untrue. I think everyone is perfect. People have flaws, but that does not mean you're not perfect, it means your human. I'm proud of you all for being here, I know it's hard, I know it hurts, but there's always gonna be someone there for you. Right now, I'm here for you. I'm here to tell you, you deserve to heal, you deserve to find love, whether its platonic, or romantic, you deserve it, you deserve love and attention, you deserve a life, a fair life. I know not everyone got the chance to live a fair life, but that doesn't mean you can't take control and make your life yours, it'll be hard but you can do it. I believe in you. I know you can. And i know you deserve to. You got this hun

[@BpTWICE]

You know when you think oh I’m alright, I can live. But then it gets worse? Yeah, well a few weeks ago I got suicidal thoughts. All my life I’ve wanted praise, more so from my mother. I never saw her, she was always busy working. And me? I was busy fighting with my dad. All the time, and because it never happened to my sister, I thought she was always the golden child, and that she was the favourite. But I believed them when they said she wasn’t. My life felt “normal” at a point. Then my parents got divorced, it broke me. I hated it, my dad, as much as I didn’t like him, loved him. So then I had to live with my mum. I hate it all. I don’t go to school, I never had a choice, so I don’t see friends every day and my sister is so closed off. There are other things, but I don’t have time to write them all. Sorry for venting

[@hellokitty4evrr]

@@BpTWICE Its okay, you can vent here anytime, my angel. I'll never judge you, and I know from experience that it sucks when your parents' divorce, it really does, and I'm sorry you have to put up with that, dearest. I know things seem tough right now, but there's always going To be points in your life that are worth it, I promise you, one day somebody or something will be there to make everything okay, there's always going To be ups and downs in life, and when you're in those downs it feels like the end of the world, but I promise you it's worth it to hold on. I don't go to school either, so I know what it's like to not be able to see your friends, it sucks, it really does but it will get better, you just need to give it time. These years might feel really slow, but I promise it's worth it in the end. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but I do love and care for your health and well-being, I hope you know I'm really proud of you for how far you've come, I know things are hard right now, but just don't give up, okay? it'll be worth it.

[@BpTWICE]

@@hellokitty4evrr Thank you. I found out today that my friend is moving to Thailand in December. Not just that but she was the only person I had the courage to do PDA. I really miss her, holding hands, being together/ cuddling when it was movie night. Gaming, I just want to hear one word from her, or even see her. I feel so lost knowing that she’s going to go. I’ve only been friends with her for two years. And it’s not like I can stop it. She doesn’t want to go either. We’re both not yet old enough choose for ourselves. This is affecting me a lot more than I thought. I’m afraid she isn’t.

[@hellokitty4evrr]

@@BpTWICE Im so sorry dear, i know that must be tough, im really really sorry you have to go through that. Just remember, you guys can alway wait til your older and have that amazing reunion, yeah? Catch up and relax together. It may suck now, but all will get better with time

[@BpTWICE]

@@hellokitty4evrr Yeah, I hope so. Thank you so so much

[@Arashi2007]

!vent! was 1 when my dad left and my mom is mentaly ill so she couldnt take care of me with 2 years of lifetime i was given to my grandpartens. With 11 my grandpa died and my grandma couldnt take care of me alone. So for now 5 years i've lived with my aunt who never does anything with me the only thing she can is yelling at me for every single issue she has. Now im about to mave out of here since not even my uncle whos the kindest family member i have wants me here. Im glad to leave this time but those abandonments I've been trough were way to much im scared of people leaving me yet i also attach to people way to fast. Everytime i think i found a shoulder to cry on they stab me in the back and gossip about me with others in my presence. My whole family doesnt care about me only my grades and that I'll make money. I hate it i just cant take it anymore and whoever reading this dw im not trying to k¡ll myself or harm I've tried often enough just for it not to work. Guess I'll just sit trough this pain.

[@orangesoda6556]

Bro please sit through the pain please im going through this too im also about to move out of this hellhole in a few months it's so hard to go through each day, it's Suffocating and honestly it just hurts so bad i considered jumping off the rooftop or maybe drowning myself but i guess im way too much of a coward to do that i neean after all its not that i don't want to live its just that i don't want to live like this so im just sitting through this pain so please promise me you will make it you will make it out and you will live the best life with love someday ok? I love you

[@Arashi2007]

@@orangesoda6556 dw im on it its just there is no sign of the yputh welfare office and they have 2 weeks left to answer until i have to wait another half year!

[@onkita8111]

Hang in there. One day someone will come who will listen to everything you have to say. Take all your flaws and scars and heal them with time and show theirs to you. Will give you a place to call HOME. Everyone has their own problems and always feel their problem is bigger and ignore others problems.. Just hang in there until that one person comes with whom you can share each other problems. And then life will feel a lot beautiful

[@Nana-kerokero]

You know it is bad when KZbin recommends this video for you

[@ayanoaishi303]

Pov: you wake up knowing that you hid your phone/tablet etc.. You assume that your parent/guardian took it away put you wake up looking in the spot you hidden it and its there, but you look on the place where the sticky note is at it says " DONT go on ur phone/tablet, i will know. " and you start tearing up.. Does anyone relate??

[@kanchankumari-ny2ll]

sometime parents only break their child in such a way that no one else could, the child become unconfident,overthinker,never share anything even if its a big problem ......

[@Aria-rb9zx]

Love how my family will call me things if o don’t do something right or if I don’t do something but the minute I stop eating as much they get worried out of their minds quite funny

[@akshitha6736]

my parents seem all lovey dovey and i feel like the happiest child and boom everything fades away...my hands r shaking while am writing this...idk y but they r letting ego win over all their beautiful memories...i ahet it

[@saharasandsarahscandystash]

Dang Covid really messed up my life looking back I never really get praise from my parents anymore It probably added to my attachment issues and how hard it is to break out of being a people pleaser this is a nice playlist btw

[@yourdadsbediswarm]

3:32 “teacher says that i’ve been naughty” my mam was literally my high school teacher and was anything but a mother to me

[@Sawako_the_narrator]

It also hurts when they promise to do something then break it for stupid reasons :D

[@arabella3]

'I was just like him, just like dad' I thought to myself as I watched Angie swing slightly in the wind, her face beginning to go blue from the rope around her neck. In a way I was worse, My father had killed my mother after she had been ill, we were very poor growing up and she refused to let us get her treatment, not that we could even afford it. And after some time she stopped talking she just sat and painted me and my sister, and another little girl I didn’t recognize. I was the last person she spoke to; "The voices are quite sweet" her soft voice wreaked illness, and later that night I remember hearing a slight choked scream from the garden and looking out the window to see my dad watching my mom hang from the old dule tree in the backyard. I don't remember much after that. And now here I sat in front of Angie and our unborn child hanging from a similar tree, she hadn't been ill though she accused me of being ill like my mother and told me I needed medical help, that struck a nerve and the voices told me she was ill, that she needed to be put down, the voices let me in on other little secrets she'd been hiding from me and it always fixed our issues, so why would this be any different?" Now I knew, because she was gone and I was drowning in more than guilt but in the river behind the tree I'd hung my wife in... DUN DUN DUN!

[@arabella3]

Ok so like if you want the context to the story as well as who the other little girl in his moms paintings were just ask! :D

[@nanyur3013]

​@@arabella3who was it the misterisous little girl

[@manasvinig3183]

it isnt real story ryt ?? who was the other person in painting

[@ramonalungu8502]

This is so relatable. The comments too. I'm literally crying after reading them. No one's understood me like this and I know it's people that don't even know me but it really makes a difference and it can make someone feel loved for once. I hope stuff will get better for everyone.

[@Moo-AL-carlos]

God damnit. I found a related playlist. Thanks to the creator of the playlist, sometimes it's just good to be sad, cry, or get your emotions out.

[@SrtaBonnie]

I wish my father was a better man...not a man who secretly judges...tells you that you can trust and then stabs you in the back. but know that, I am here for you! I'm proud of your existence, I know you fight so, so much... and you have to be kind to your friends, family, and even strangers, you try so hard , you put effort into your studies, work and other people's opinions... and end up forgetting to take care of yourself!... But know that I'm here. proud forever! I love you!!!!!

[@TotallyNotJulz]

This helped a lot with my family issues, thanks a lot

[@joerochester]

????

[@-Z0MB43-]

@@joerochester their thanking this person for posting this video bc it helped them cope

[@victoriashipley3344]

no tf it didnt

[@-Z0MB43-]

@@victoriashipley3344 tf is wrong with you.this helped the cope just bc it didn’t to you,doesn’t mean it hadn’t worked/helped anyone else!

[@nanyur3013]

​@@victoriashipley3344what the fuck do you mean by "no tf it didn't" just cuz it didn't help for you doesn't mean it won't help for others

[@wintig245]

I have a personal mantra for myself I've been using since I was 12. "Just 6 more years." It's "just 5 more years" now but that's still better. I just can't wait to turn 18 and get out of this fucking house. I hate feeling so controlled. If my mom knew who I really was she would basically try to "teach"(translation: retrain and recondition) me that my views, my interests, my FUCKING SEXUALITY, all wrong. She'll take my phone and monitor my laptop since she "can't trust me anymore"(translation: can't control my exposure to the truth anymore). I just hate it. I like when I can break away and just... be WinTig. I don't have to wear the perfect little Christian girl mask anymore. I can be me on here. Nobody in real life believes me. My mom is that good at acting different than she really is around others. That must be where I get it from. Don't worry about me, though. I'll be alright. I've already done this for 13 years. I'm an expert, and I know all her tricks. Just 5 more years, everyone. Edit: 4 more years!

[@konniedos]

This is what I tell myself

[@Aishycheesecrackers431]

Lets go 5 more years before leaving the house NEARLY THEREEEE 🔥🔥

[@8-Zip-]

Let's hope time goes by quick, I'm happy on the fact the number is getting smaller though. I hope when you move out they dont bug you again, also about the Christian crap, I HATE IT. Tbh religion is useless and cant save anyone (opinion though, or can be true and nobody wants to accept it)

[@gigimoon1]

LET'S GOOOO

[@v1v1._sturnn]

I wish I could actually share my feelings with my parents I've held a large secret from both of my parents for over 4 years..

[@fox4722]

The fact that the image is Amane and Tsukasa in their family portrait though- This fits their backstory so much, I had to listen to this.

[@GGamerrrr]

I’m the problem. I have anger issues (not physical, just yelling, and just to my parents, not with friends or anything) and no matter how hard I try or how much better it gets, it not good enough. They just expect it to disappear and don’t believe me if I say I can’t help it.

[@Finn_Is_Fine]

this is perfect rn. my parents know i’m trans, and it’s not like they accept it, but they know. they’re not transphobic towards anyone else, they’re actually quite accepting. but with me? it’s an issue. a waiter called me sir (which is correct) and my mom went off on her about how i’m actually a girl and that she can’t believe anyone would think i look like a guy. well thanks. i fucking needed that right now.

[@sam.indahood]

i‘m so sorry. i‘m trans too (i came out 2.5 years ago) and my mom is really supportive but my dad thinks it’s just a phase and it hurts so bad. i just want you to know that you’re not alone and that some day it‘s going to be ok and you will heal from that. wether they accept it or not, you don’t need their support to be happy. 🫶🏼

[@MATHELoficial]

i came out 2 years ago and my parents still dont support me. my mother just call me for my new name but still call me for she/her and my fahter 0% support. your not alone and im sorry for you❤

[@Bella_on_pawzz]

“Shut up before I make you have a reason to cry” “Oh but the neighbors kid passed” “You’re a disappointment” “You’re like you’re …” “Why are you not talking to me?” “Why are you talking to me?” “Stop eating so much” “Go eat something,NOW” “Get a life” “NO” “JUST LISTEN IM YOUR…” “I’m the boss of your life” “Get a life” “Why aren’t you acting like you?” “GIVE ME YOUR PHONE” “Be better” “DONT TALK BACK” “Your grounded” Things I always hear from my dad (not my sweet mom that’s gets yelled at by my dad,he’s bipolar)

[@random.content_80]

As someone with mommy issues.. I am happy that you are still here. (Commemorating to the little girl that died inside of me.)

[@thegaybucket9840]

pov : It's fathers day and everyone is posting photos with their fathers having fun while you sit at home getting yelled at by your father for being a burden.

[@pearlxmixt9101]

It’s crazy how 221,000 people clicked on this, hope everyone gets better 😕❤❤

[@Mr.AngelWings]

I know right, I made this playlist just for fun but I didn’t expect many people to listen to it, yet let alone talk about their experiences, I made this because I had issues I’m just happy that the people who also have problems find comfort in this 😁

[@Xia_Ash]

Let me correct you.... 1 million

[@KaylaPlayzzRoblox]

I thought I had a nice normal family until I found out I relate to the lyrics within these songs omg?

[@kyro-cm1nw]

its scary that how everyone notices if something happens to them but here are some people like me thinking its normal to have such worse family then other’s.

[@R4ysi]

They're always fighting, I get in the middle to stop them, then they blame me for it.

[@Livv.649]

I don't have time to say my whole life story, but growing up my parents got divorced at the age of 6. Which I was happy about, but I mainly lived with my dad. I though way to much shit was normal, like not having a door, having to take care of your sisters when there sad because parents don't do that, parents wanting you to have perfect grades and having to do worksheets if you got a question wrong, getting in trouble because my sisters did something or getting in trouble because of saying you didn't want to do something (but you would still do it), and so so so much more. I mean just a year ago (I'm 14) I learned that people are afraid of shots at the doctor's!! Now I just want to know anything and everything that isn't normal that I think is. But how would I name it, because I think that it's normal. And to think if I never stayed for a weekend at my mom's I wouldn't know that, instead I would have jumped before having to deal with this. Thank you for listening to my TedTalk.

[@Channel9832]

Bueno, acá van algunas cosas normales! XD: Es normal desaprobar un examen Es normal aprobar un examen Es normal estar triste Es normal estar feliz Es normal estar triste Es normal estar confundido Es normal estar sorprendido Es normal pelear hasta por cosas insignificantes Es normal despertarte tarde Es normal despertarse temprano Es normal dormirse muy tarde Es normal dormirse muy tempranio Es normal hacer amigo/s Es normal tener mascotas que te acompañan en tus mejores y peores momentos Es normal encontrar el amor Es normal ser rechazado de cualquier manera Es normal fallar Es normal tener problemas Es normal contar tus problemas a desconocidos del internet Es normal contar tus problemas a tu familia, aunque no te escuchen o no les importe Es normal escuchar a los demás Es normal comprender a los demás Es normal comprender las cosas Es normal entender a los demás Es normal entender las cosas Es normal Jugar videojuegos Es normal leer un libro Es normal escuchar música de cualquier tipo Es normal romper algo Es normal lastimarse (no a propósito) Es normal cortarse el pelo (si tienes uno) Es normal tener impotencia Es normal amar Es normal querer Es normal preocuparse por los demás Es normal preocuparse por uno mismo Es normal ver el atardecer Es normal ver lo que ocurre a tu alrededor Es normal recordar el pasado por más si es bueno o malo... Es normal pensar en el futuro Es normal que todavía estés leyendo esta respuesta :) Es normal tener que hacer las compras Es normal tener miedo Es normal no animarse a hacer algo (algo que no involucre lastimarte) Es normal sobre pensar Es normal desayunar Es normal ser lindo/a Es normal ser feo/a Es normal ser raro/a Es normal no tener autoestima Es normal tener alta autoestima (nose de dónde saque el poco autoestima que tenía para escribir esto...) Es normal salir a caminar Es normal entrenar Es normal estar bien contigo mismo Es normal quererte uno mismo Es normal disfrutar la vida Es normal ser uno mismo Es normal ser tú Es normal actuar así Es normal amar a tu familia y amigos :) Es normal despertate y sentir el olor de tu comida favorita Es normal conocer gente Es normal preocuparte por todo Es normal crecer Es normal conseguir lo que más amas Es normal que hayas leído este comentario y te hayas tomado el tiempo de hacerlo Recuerda que no estás solo/a en ésto y que cualquier familiar, amigos o desconocidos del internet o presencial, están contigo :) (Please use translate)

[@crimsis]

POV: you don’t have family problems but you still listen to the playlist

[@0Claudiaaa0]

Sometimes maybe all the time kids grow up hating themselves not their abusive parents.

[@randomqiqimain4409]

It hits different when nobody believes you when you tell them and say you have such a nice mom…

[@coreysdead]

Every kid needs someone to take care of them Altough... Not every guardian can take care of the person their taking care of Some guardians are failures Some guardians get along just well For the kids who has expirienced trauma/abuse and family issues. remember you can still walk away from it🤩🔥

[@tiny_bunny_go_brr]

!TW! I was raised by my father for the most part, dispite me living in a shared household growing up. Meaning my mom was around, and she tried to raise me as well. But all she would do is scream, laugh, And act erratic. Because of my father's past, mom divorced him My mother's behavior got worse and worse, To the point she's nothing but a 12yo in an old body. Abuse, both mental and physical was high. I fear for my life at times still I'm drained, I've been through hell and back. And all she can say is "I went through things you'll never understand", I was an adult at the age of 14. And it made me so ashamed of myself, for being forced to grow up I'm gonna be 17 in April.....one more year...and I can leave...one more year...and I'll be able to start healing from all the pain...one more year and I can finally be free to live my life... Tho living my life will be difficult, Because my mother pulled me out of school at a young age. I have no education, How tf am I gonna get a job? And she never allowed me to learn how to drive either....cus she doesn't trust me to leave her.. after I tried to run away that on time I'm sure I'll be ok...I hope so anyways..

[@fawnoverbrawn]

Stay safe out there, man. Sending my best wishes

[@aliandtex]

I never thought I would have to ever search up “ playlist for a kid with divorce parents “ but here I am end of 5th grade with so many issues 😞

[@ValentinaFernandez-hc7cf]

Hey, I'm with you, I'm also a Kid here

[@ValentinaFernandez-hc7cf]

And Don't worry, I believe in you, You do your best, And I'm Proud of You

[@ValentinaFernandez-hc7cf]

You can Do it, And if you ever Feel pressured, You can Vent here, So don't worry

[@faithknope3836]

"i know that you got daddy issues' always gets to my heart every single time.

[@AhsanIkram-y2g]

This is so relatable

[@mariakarathanou5343]

I'm proud of you