Pre-Marriage Counselling - Relationship Problems & Solutions | Justice Anwar ul Haq

[@QasimAliShahFoundation]

𝐀𝐒𝐊 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 ▶[phone]

[@Muhammadsanaulmustafaqadri]

Europe ke qadam chumne ki kya zarurat hai... Jab islam ne hi iss Amal ka bahtareen tareeq e kaar de Diya hai...

[@gul139]

Is mey Europe k qadam chumne ki kya baat hui? Aapki baat samajh nahi aai Weasy tou mey aap ko bohat long jawab likh chuki hon in another comment. Kya aap wazahat kareen gey k kahan pay Islam nay tareka kaar bataya hey? Pak mey tou bagair beti aya pouchay hi nikkah kar dia jata hey. Yeh bhi nahi dekha Jata k banda is qabil hey bhi k kisi k sath guzara kar sakay. Mazeed Zulm yeh k kamata bhi Na ho. Ab wo aurat kya karay ? Ma bap k ghar wapis ja nahi sakti. Aur bhi behnay bethi hain. Parhi likhi wo hey Nahi q k baap nay parhaya nahi. Ab wo 8th ya dasween fail larki apni say 10-15 saal baray insan k sath apni 2 chotay say bachon k sath kaisay guzara kara jo kama bhi nahi raha bas Majazi Khuda bana betha hey ????

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[@AbdullahOwais-vj5kx]

Assalam o alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu

[@AbdullahOwais-vj5kx]

Sir I have most importantl questions

[@sonya23453]

No matter how long you interact with the person you intend to marry, their true face and nature is always revealed after marriage. Toxic people with evil intentions are very good at hiding their true selves.

[@ashaali19]

Do istikhara and pray Allah ap KO asal chere Dekha de ge Red flags nazar aey gea Ab ye ap khud dekhna chiaye to dkeh le

[@BukhariQuotes786]

200% true

[@kashifnazir9234]

True

[@Aj-FitnessBeginner]

Exactly 💯

[@mmahrukh]

Absolutely 💯

[@careandcurefoundation7415]

بہت خوبصورت پلاننگ بہت خوبصورت اغاز اس سے الحمدللہ طلاق کی شرح جو بہت زیادہ پاکستان میں بڑھ گئی ہے اس میں کمی ائے گی

[@maryamvlogs432]

نہیں جب تک اللہ پاک کا ڈر اور آخرت کا خوف نہیں ہو گا تب تک کچھ نہیں ہو گا

[@ShahrukhAhmed-w4n]

Beshak AP ne bohat Sahe farmaya❤

[@SeedScaling553]

Bohat achi guftagu. Justice Anwar ul Haq nailed it.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Marriage Is A Serious Responsibility Not Entertainment. Think Practically 👍

[@Hindu-vn7bv]

Hindu ho na Jai Shree Ram 🚩

[@Otto45]

​@@Hindu-vn7bv LMAO Don't Hindus also force the practice of Satti where a wife is forced to burn herself on her dead husband's pyre?

[@ArtCraftPaintingDecor]

Sad reality but 100%true

[@MuhammadYasin-of2qq]

جناب جج صاحب کو دونوں ہاتھوں سے سلام

[@naifrakomal5386]

It is not created by Europe, but Islam is the first religion that allowed us to meet with your future spouse with the third person's presence. If a girl or boy like each other then they should get married. Otherwise, parents can't force them. However, in Europe, USA and Canada girl and boy meet before marriage

[@adeebanisar6877]

مسلمان بس انا لے کر آگے چل پڑے۔ دوسرے مذاہب نے اسلام کے قوانین اپنا لئے

[@MuhammadAwais-vk5nj]

Exactly u r ri8

[@Muhammadsanaulmustafaqadri]

Nahin janab aap yah islami nazriyyat hame na bataye bataiye hamen to quran aur Hadis ko bhi tabhi follow karna hai jab Western aur American ideologies use ko approve kar de ... Nahi to hame Islami nazriyyat or islam ke tareeq e kaar se bhi koi lena dena nahi ... العیاذ بالله توبہ توبہ۔۔۔ Allah bachaye.. Allah ki panah..

[@Digitalsabahat]

I 100 % agreed with this and i am continuously saying we should talk before marriage.

[@Muhammadsanaulmustafaqadri]

Of course we should talk before marriage but why do we need to learn that from Western or American ideologies which also allows to do zina before marriage and have babies and then marry or promotes live in relationship and so many things of that kind. Whereas we have our own Islamic ideology which teaches us how to establish relations. Or have we chosen to become an ideological slave of Western and American ideologies so we have to agree with everything said by western and American ideologies and follow it. Or are we shameful of our own Islamic ideology, so we need to justify our own Islamic ideology in the light of Western and American ideologies.

[@gul139]

Sir, first of all what Islamic ideology you are talking about ? The Muslims are divided into 2,4 and millions of mini sects, which also have the cultural glazed of unnecessary “Gharetmandi” and “blocked and/or narrow minded”. I am writing as I am listening and he just mentioned about maslak. When people are deep down sinked into their sect/maslaks/ and so called personalized Islamic ideology then how could you follow the ideal “ Islamic ideology” Another thing to mention is, why are you so hating western/American ideology? Just like when you need latest technology to cure a disease or surgery for patient and you run towards West, why can’t you adopt the ideology which doesn’t interfere with the Islamic value ? You adopt the right things no one is saying to adopt west in premarital physical contact and pre marriage children. That’s a common sense ( which I know is not common anymore) but people with Brian who think knows to adopt only which is necessary and does not conflict with Islam. There is no harm in seeing and talking to a person who you are going to spend all your life with especially for a girl who is educated and does have a career mindset and also have potential to make the world a better place, she wants to know that I should be allowed to work after marriage Vs thousands of example of girls who are doctors and not allowed to work after marriage! This is the waste of the education, hard work and the money! This is how economic condition of our country is not getting better! No one thinks rationality either too western to neglect Islam or just too religious to be blind followers of their imrams and peers and whatnot. Another thing to mention here is that which Islamic Theologian, religious Alim, scholar, Mufti in Pakistani is promoting this topic to learn, talk, discuss before you say “Qabool hey” by only checking few check marks, who ??? Nobody! Or merely a couple whose voice influential people don’t let to get aloud. The Islamic ideology system is crashed within because of the difference of opinions within Ummah and for personal gains on lower levels. In this case it’s better to get ideologies from Kafir and implement in such a way which does not interfere or damage Islamic ideology. Thank you!

[@CSSPMSAdviser]

These discussions should be normalized in the society.

[@sabeenarshad-r9f]

Mental level is necessary for good marriage

[@jameelahmed-is1li]

الحمدللہ ، محترم جسٹس انوارالحق صاحب کی بہت ہی زریں اور قیمتی باتیں جن کو سننے سے زندگیاں سنوارنے میں مدد ملتیں ہیں اللہ تعالی محترم جسٹس صاحب کو اور قاسم علی صاحب کو اور ان کی ٹیم کو اجر عظیم سے نوازے ان کی زندگیوں میں سکون و خوشیوں کی برسات کرے آمین یارب العالمین۔ انڈیا سے جمیل احمد صدرِ مدرس

[@chemist532]

Acha explain kiya Sir Aap ne sabhi factors ko 1st jo ap ne bataya zehni mareez ka tu Ye baat theek bhi hy but sometimes situations aesi hoti hain k aik hee baat pe society pressurize kerti hy aur insan ki nature change ho jati hy. 2nd ap ne girls ka after marriage career ka bataya ye lazmi hona chahiye q k unn ki pori life ki mehnat hoti aur wo waste na ho. 3rd most important spouse intellectual level ye sab se important hy jisay sab se zyada ignore kiya jata hy. 4th maslaq ka bataya jesay k hamaray haan sunni wahabi ka. Good 👍

[@NaheedArshad-p8l]

jazakAllah Khair for sharing useful points . This topic is today's dire need for people to understand . You are doing sadqa jaria . May Allah almighty bless you more and more aameen 💐

[@myinsights3752]

Jaisa koi hota ha osko waisa he partner milta hai. Bus adatein alag alag hoti hain. Neeiutein or dil o dimag same he hota hai.

[@abdulsattar-ox5rv]

Sir good job. ALLAH PAK ap ko ajr e azeem atta farmay.ameen

[@majmalkhan4]

Great Job, May you live long, Allah bless you. Best Regards from France.

[@fizaKanwal-k7t]

Great great great... Baaz videos k lye ilfaaz nahi milte... Yeh un men se ek hai.. Baaz personalities ki taareef k lye bhi ilfaaz nahi milte.. Juistice Anwar ul haq sahib is one of them... Baaz idaron ki tareef k lye ilfaaz nahi milte... Qasim Ali shah foundation un men se ek hai.....

[@HH-mi9yl]

Arrange a Counsellor/Mentor 1. Physical and mental Fitness of spouse to be asked frankly. 2. Job related discussion whether she can work or not ? 3. When and hom many kids to conceive. 4. Intellectual compatibility of each other. 5. Culture at home parents conditioning. 6. Everything should be clear and true only in premarital counselling. 7. Religion of kids in inter religion marriages.

[@draa7474]

People are not saying truth before joining the relationship, many of think ek baar shadi hojane do phir sach show ho bhi gaya to kya ab ye kuch nahi karsakte ...talkh reality 😢

[@sonya23453]

True

[@nimrahanwar3929]

Bhtreen explanation ♥️ one of the finest Speech ♥️

[@sabeenarshad-r9f]

Bt not every religion but In Islam pre marriage se phly larky larki ko namaz k b pabandi krni chay for better mental health

[@TariqBarlas]

Good aware to pre marriage counseling....very nice talk,info,tips😊

[@IqraFatima-z6q]

Very Informative thanks

[@naifrakomal5386]

It is a great topic that we need awareness

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

H😮😮😮

[@ghulamghoss4237]

we want more knowledge in this sensitive topic to get more information to make our life long selectoin remrakable

[@Abdulrehman-r3g8v]

Nice counseling about pre marriage

[@ShahzadAbbasi-fy4pd]

Absolutely right ✅️

[@maryamvlogs432]

سر میں اپ کی بات سے ایگری ہوں لیکن ہوتا وہی ہے جو اللہ پاک کی مرضی ہے کونسلگن کے بعد بھی لوٹھیک نہیں ھوتے

[@nasrullahadilnasrullahadil6620]

Qasim sahib thanks alot for these informative videos

[@STUDENT_OF_IT]

I think es per 32 minute video ki bajayeee 5 hours ki video hooone chahiyaa....we are requesting

[@muhammadaumariqbal]

Fair V KAKH NAI HONA....😂.. Pakistani JahiL Qoum ha

[@Aj-FitnessBeginner]

​@@muhammadaumariqbalbhai tu ne sahi kaha purkistani ek baadi Jahil Quomm 😅😅

[@ammarasadiq1507]

AoA Sir ! Correct & Excellent point ?

[@muzaffarhussain4772]

Mashallah very nice and beautiful explain to see Marg matter.❤

[@careandcurefoundation7415]

قاسم علی شاہ فاؤنڈیشن اس کے ممبران اس کے بانی پوری ٹیم بہت زیادہ مبارک کی دعاؤں کی مستحق ہے کہ اس درس کے لیکچر سیریس پاکستان جیسے ملک میں پہلی دفعہ بلا معاوضہ ہر ایک کو میسر ائے ہیں

[@sohailakmal8572]

Jazakallah Sir.

[@maryamvlogs432]

جب تک اللہ پاک کا خوف اور آخرت کا ڈر نہیں ہو گا

[@12345dc]

Qasim ali. Shah done great job for all of us

[@attaullah8587]

Nice video and information MashaAllah

[@thecraftvalley3405]

Amazing very impressive lecture I totally agree sir ur r right but some how parents situation can't chalid apply future sir sbi ghr ki esi story hain k koi b biyan ni kr skta kisi ko susral kisi ko dost kisi ko relitves aur kisi ko parents ni jeene dety hain it's true reality but ek point saha pe bnta hai ap galat environment me khud ko kse stable krna hai ye hum sb pe depend krta agr hum positive trha se chalen ya koi apko positive samjhne mean point ye hai k koi ap k environment me rehty hoye insan ki basically personality kesi hai is cheez ko thk se judgement kia jye tu life sahi diraction me chly gi thk HAI U THINK ABOUT THIS.. INSHAALLAH ALLAH pak hum Sa ki life bht achi guzre ameen ❤❤

[@almasgardezi237]

Important point's

[@harisspeaks8047]

You are right sir❤

[@anasshamim6768]

Ma shaa ALLAH. Zbrdst vedio speeches

[@umerjavaid5349]

Keep it up Sir...

[@Learningcycle-g1f]

Nice lecture

[@hashirahmad9239]

Good lecture

[@hussainamjad9443]

اچھا موضوع: حدیث شریف- نکاح سے پہلے لڑکا لڑکی پردہ مے رہ کر ۔۔۔ بات چیت کر سکتے ہیں۔۔۔۔۔افسوس کی بات-میاں بیوی کے درمیاں رنجش مے تیسرا فریق ملوث ہوتا ہے ۔

[@geminisagittarius6211]

Zabrdast 👍🏻

[@OnlineQuranAcademy-p7k]

Bohat achi video ha

[@naifrakomal5386]

Well said

[@SamraAmeer-zw7sl]

Great Sir ,Agreed

[@bahmed6587]

بہت اعلیٰ

[@QQ-yv8yl]

شادی کا پراسس ذرا جلدی شروع کر لینا چاہیے. کئی بظاہر مناسب فیملیز سے رابطہ کیا جائے. سال ڈھیڑ سوشل رابطے میں رہیں. اپنی تسلی کرنے کے بعد رشتہ داری کرنی چاہیے.

[@irshadahmad-xz1yf]

Asslam Alikum sir i have a issue how can i disscuss it to you .

[@nadiasami3442]

Mashallah zabardast good video

[@NoorAlishbas]

Marriage not for 2 days....or timepass .marry those you can live happily. Who care you ...respect you.

[@KashiMalik-y4x]

Sahi Kaha hai sis

[@Almahaditv]

Ye meri friend ki jane waly Hain Jinki MBBS beti ki Shadi aik Plumber say ho Gai, plumber nay Housing society ma kisi or ka ghar dikha k shadi ki... larki nay divorce nai li or uskay sath shadi guzarne ka faisla kia

[@Aishiqbal160]

Oh

[@asmaahmad7652]

محترم جسٹس صاحب جس west کی آپ مثال دے رہے ہیں اس میں اور ہمارے معاشرے میں بہت فرق ہے یہ تو marriage کے بغیر ساتھ رہتے ہیں کئی سال تک پھر شادی کرتے ہیں جو کچھ عرصہ بعد ختم ہو جاتی ہے۔ پلیز آپ جیسے انسان کو تو اسلام کے حوالے سےبتانا چاہیے تھا کیونکہ اس کی رہنمائی ہی صحیح بھی ہے اور ہمیشہ کے لئے بھی ہے۔ عورت کا اصل رول آئندہ نسل کی تیاری ہے یہی اس کا اصل career ہے۔ اس کے ساتھ اگر وہ کچھ کرنا چاہے تو کرسکتی ہے۔

[@MuhammadAsif-qh8vl]

اسلام۔۔اسلام کی رٹ اور طعنہ زنی کی بڑی پڑی ھوتی ھے ۔ پاکستانیوں کو۔ او مولوی جی۔ ایک اسلام وہ ھے جو کتابوں میں ھے دوسرا اسلام جس میں ھم نے دیسی ٹچ دے کے بنایا ھوا ھے ۔ اس کے حساب سے جج صاحب بات کر رھے ھیں۔

[@Naginasabir2244]

Good explanation

[@AhmedAli-mw4eg]

Well said Sir ❤

[@rizwanasabri831]

What you wil you say when husband don't obey his words and refuse all dialog after marriage.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Marital Education Very Important Now. 👍

[@AdilHussain-tt2qw]

Nice explanation but it's just one-sided that's why it's so amazing.

[@MuhammadAli-fl9yi]

Well done Sir

[@hamzahamid222]

😮 4:49

[@Quotessymmetry]

Sir divorci ko b single larki chaiye or single jo hain un k parents wesy hi darty hain ye issues b raised krain q k larky waly nay hmesha qasoor larki ka btana hay kabhi koi apny ko ghlt nahi btaye ga

[@amnabatoolsabri1530]

Aap is topic per bhi baat Karen shadiyan do gharon mein hoti hain husband aur wife ke bich mein kahan hoti aisa lag raha hota hai man baap ladki ko lekar a Rahe husband ladki ko lekar Nahin a Raha. Allah Tala ne aurat ko mukmmal kamil banaya mard ko aurat ki zarurat hai aaj hamare society mein mardon ne mamlat ajeeb kiye hue hain 💯

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

H😊😅😊

[@Paresa2]

Big lecture

[@niloferishaqi336]

asalamoAlikum Sir Mera bhe essa he shadi ke case me huwa samne wale ki haalat jesa Apne bataya wesa he tha

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

Hi😊😅😊😊

[@ImranProductionTV]

Great work keep it

[@mohammadzafar2695]

Good ❤❤❤

[@mohammadfarooq2475]

اس یورپ کی مثالیں دیتے تھکتے نہیں جہاں طلاق کی شرح پاکستان سے زیادہ ہیے ، جنہوں نے عورت کو جنسی تسکین والی مشین بنا دیا ہیے جنہوں نے عورتوں کے حقوق سلب کئیے ہیں عورتیں بچے بھی پیدا کریں دفاتر فیکٹریوں میں بھی کام کریں کیا یہ عورت سے دشمنی نہیں الحمدللہ اسلام نے عورت کو بہت تحفظ دیا ہے سمجھنے کی ضرورت ہے

[@MaryumNaveed-k5l]

Kya aap kabhi europe gay hain?

[@umairiqbal2880]

تم کبھی یورپ گئے ہو؟ صرف پورن میں ہی دیکھا ہو گا

[@mohammadfarooq2475]

@@umairiqbal2880 گیا ہوں یا نہیں وہاں کی عورتیں خود کہتی ہیں کہ مسلمان عورت کو ہم سے زیادہ حقوق حاصل ہیں مثلاً مسلمان عورت کے پاس جتنا بھی مال ہو وہ اسی کا ہیے خاوند کا اس میں کوئی حق نہیں یہ اسلام کہتا ہے یورپ کی عورت آدھا خرچ خود کمائے گی آدھا خاوند مسلمان عورت کا نان نفقہ سب کچھ خاوند بھائی باپ کی ذمہ داری ہیے یورپ کو دیکھ لیں عورت مرد کی طرح کام کرتی ہے یعنی بچے بھی پیدا کرے گھر کا کام بھی کرے مزدوری بھی کرے زہنی غلاموں کو یورپ اچھا لگتا ہے پتہ نہیں کیوں؟

[@editorial6132]

First comment😂... Most demanding vid

[@shahzadmahmood801]

Can anyone tell Me the name of this Sir and how we can approach him

[@afragillani]

Justice r anwar ul haq hn I think

[@shahzadmahmood801]

@@afragillani Jazak illah thank you so much🤲🏻

[@afragillani]

@@shahzadmahmood801 وایاک

[@mariasaman9730]

I want some consultations. How could I reach this platform online? I do not live in Pakistan right now.

[@AdeelaAzam-kg7ry]

How can i contect with u

[@salmanahmed6695]

One discussion sy jan toh nahe sakty na

[@rarevoicenote1760]

Welldone❤

[@FarwaQureshi-xh2mu]

Jis lerky lerki k Walden bacho k sath dosti ar itefaq se rehty hai tou wo aik Khubsurat koam ki sange bunyad rkhty hain. Jin bacho ko positive independent strong bnaya jata hai Ar mazhab pe chlayq jata hai esy log kabhi na bacho k leye partner ghalat chunty hai na esy log khud bhi ghalat intekhab ne kerty. Ye bat alag hai k esy log bht kam hai dunya mei. Shadi tab ki jaye jab lerka lerki razi ho khush ho

[@fasahathussain3684]

My opinion is don't marry in today's situation it's very difficult to handle it and nowdays women are becoming independent so have a living relationship, if you can't find better then move on simple.

[@zaniimran89]

bohat khoob

[@M.yaseen263]

There are very strict rules in our KPK society. As you mentioned arranging a call conference, our people are not even allowed to do this. There is no way to know about your life partner if you are a KPK resident.

[@KMRESOLUTIONS]

ASK ur parents to ask these question n record on ur behalf in writing or in voice recorders

[@gossips2560]

Parents ko yhi bat kon smjhae... Unky isi fesly ny Meri life khrab kr di... Or AJ me shadi k bad apny parents k ghr bethi hon

[@Amina-rv8mn]

Sir Sara truth ni btana hy to pta kesy chaly ga k konsa Sach ni bta ... kuch examples

[@rafiasumair7458]

Yha Shadi se phle bcho Ki bat krne KO beshrmi khte😢

[@hamzahamid222]

Anza😅 3:35

[@Ayesha_Malik..]

Exectly

[@babar8160]

100%true

[@mohammadfarooq2475]

میڈیکل ٹیسٹ کروانا اچھی نصیحت ہیے باقی باتیں فضول اس مغرب کی مثالیں دیتے ہو جہاں عورت کو ایک جنسی تسکین والی مشین سمجھا جاتا ہیے دفاتر اور فیکٹریوں میں عورتوں سے کام کرواتے ہیں عورت بچے بھی پیدا کرے اور مرد کی طرح کام بھی کرے کیا یہ عورت سے دشمنی نہیں تو پھر اہل مغرب کی مثالیں کیوں دیتے ہو اسلام کی بات کیوں نہیں کرتے زبان سے کلمہ گو اور عمل سے اہل مغرب کی پیروی یہ منافقت کیوں؟؟

[@solymanlucky6461]

Right I agree with u

[@hamzahamid222]

19😮 7:01

[@ENERGETICENCOUNTER]

Dinii momlat me hm dini ullama kou invite nhi krte hai especially marriage k momlat me.. Ek waqil hme sikaie ga halanke ye Sab Koch oske apne ghar me ye rules nhi hote hai...

[@muhammadnurulislamsaeedi]

Yaar Earoup ke ratte lagana band karo

[@hamzahamid222]

😅ok 3:17

[@solymanlucky6461]

Me ye samajtha hoon jis ghar me ya rishte me koi 3eesra banda ajay aur wo fesle karna shoroo karen to phir rishte kisi aur ke hisab se chalenge aur kis waqat rishta dam tore koi garante nahi he to plzz apne rishto ke sare cheezo ki zimmadari khod lele.

[@hamzahamid222]

😮kobi kiews peos nay h ko sumid 😮 14:31

[@ahmadabbas9926]

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[@ShamimSadia-ic5qx]

sir ye jo session hy jo sir bat kr rahy bikul fact hy but logo kesy samgahy samgty hi ni hy boht muskil hy log boht rokhy hoty hy

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

Hi😊😅

[@shazadalihadershazad4747]

Chacha ji khas kr muslim mashre mai ristedari nhi Dalalee hoti hi Boli lgti hai Ye bat smjne k liye kfi elemm ki zaroorat hai

[@abdulsattar-ox5rv]

Sir husband & wife ki mutual understanding & respect sy he gher janat nazeer ban sakta hy.

[@hamzahamid222]

🎉by n name hamza😮

[@shabir0111]

Who thought it's General bajwa?