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Battle Ignorance

Battle Ignorance

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@NM_kawaii
@NM_kawaii 5 жыл бұрын
I have a strong feeling that all the dislikes are from Desi parents
@khwabsheikh8889
@khwabsheikh8889 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@slenderxalt2635
@slenderxalt2635 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed 😂
@harunrashid0173
@harunrashid0173 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@hannanatalisa3282
@hannanatalisa3282 4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@Myview246
@Myview246 4 жыл бұрын
and mamas boys
@ahadulislam3066
@ahadulislam3066 4 жыл бұрын
The more I watch such lectures, I deeper I fall in love with my religion. Thank you. Alhamdulillah
@asifkundgol7715
@asifkundgol7715 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillha 😊
@DrSaifalAamir
@DrSaifalAamir 4 жыл бұрын
*ٱلْـحَـمْـدُ ٱللَّه‎* ❣️😇
@JuliaJordanT
@JuliaJordanT 4 жыл бұрын
I will convert soon Inshallah. But I share your view :)
@sabekhan4715
@sabekhan4715 4 жыл бұрын
Same here....
@donotgiveup3130
@donotgiveup3130 4 жыл бұрын
Mashallah
@RJ-uq6py
@RJ-uq6py 5 жыл бұрын
If parents really loved their children, they wouldn't force them to marry someone their children don't want to marry.
@nnn-nc9zt
@nnn-nc9zt 4 жыл бұрын
Forced marriage is even haram
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 4 жыл бұрын
If they feared ALLAH truely...
@mala967
@mala967 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine getting forced to marry your first cousin that you think of a brother and below yeah welcome to my life
@ahmedaagun
@ahmedaagun 4 жыл бұрын
dont say that brother! every parents love their children ... You wont even understand or notice the sacrifices they make for you They just misunderstands things that leads them to force
@hirarehman8905
@hirarehman8905 4 жыл бұрын
Joke
@grigotts
@grigotts 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through severe depression because I'm unable to get married as I live in a very judgemental society and my mom keeps saying I'm getting punished by Allah now because I rejected a proposal that she liked a couple of years ago. I have been terrified ever since then but listening to this lecture now made me feel better. It made me realise that I wasn't wrong to say " No" when I felt I wasn't ready.
@itsmeesomeone8984
@itsmeesomeone8984 4 жыл бұрын
More power to you sis.. That is an utter misconception that once you rejected a good proposal god will punish you😑..
@talesbysana
@talesbysana 4 жыл бұрын
Allah loves us more than 70 mothers how can he punish you for rejecting a marriage proposal where u were not ready! No sis InshaAllah something really good is written for you. Place ur trust completely on the Almighty😇
@sadafbadar167
@sadafbadar167 4 жыл бұрын
Same here i too thought this way
@sailorashy3847
@sailorashy3847 4 жыл бұрын
That's right sis. Why would Allah punish you for not loving a man that's not even your husband. Parents can be ridicules. Mine does too. Don't marry someone you don't like on impulse because people are taunting you. That impulse would fade away in a while and you would be stuck in that state for god knows how long... Maybe the rest of your life... That thought gives me shivers
@Memes4u4u
@Memes4u4u 3 жыл бұрын
Sister Allah is with you there is a person out there for you. So don't worry InshaAllah everything will be alright
@tanvirmahfuz202
@tanvirmahfuz202 4 жыл бұрын
"being forced by their parents to marry some of their cousins from Bangladesh" . Me: *watching it from Bangladesh. 😨😨😨😨😨
@IrfanQuraeshi
@IrfanQuraeshi 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Invite me to your marriage...
@itsmehani7446
@itsmehani7446 4 жыл бұрын
ՏγED iRFᗅN 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
@sistersalima6829
@sistersalima6829 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@nocturnalblue7899
@nocturnalblue7899 4 жыл бұрын
Just pray your female cousin in the US doesn't watch this :)
@omarsait2050
@omarsait2050 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@timetraveller6163
@timetraveller6163 5 жыл бұрын
What would I do without you man. Simply the best teacher ever...
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 4 жыл бұрын
ALLAH will provide some other source of comfort then...
@sweetiemim8448
@sweetiemim8448 4 жыл бұрын
I obied my parents and got married to a person I didn't like, not even a bit beacuse I thought he was a wrong guy and as result he betrayed with me within two months after our marriage. Dear parents Do Not force your daughters to marry a person she doesn't want to live with. I repeat Do Not. Let us live the life fully From Bangladesh
@sailorashy3847
@sailorashy3847 4 жыл бұрын
Dear sister I hope you are doing well now
@Ayesha______
@Ayesha______ 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah have mercy on you and guide you and all the ummah
@misirali5916
@misirali5916 2 жыл бұрын
Apu I'm also a girl from Bangladesh. I just wish this won't happen to me. You're well aware of the situation in Bangladesh 😭
@raheequlmakhtoom1760
@raheequlmakhtoom1760 5 жыл бұрын
Is it possible for asians to become that much open honest and brave. Every parent thinks we are overpowering
@athirahsufyan7509
@athirahsufyan7509 5 жыл бұрын
raheeq ul Makhtoom truest thing ive heard!
@DKingFisher
@DKingFisher 5 жыл бұрын
ikr It is definitely hard but if you approach it slowly. Like firstly they have to be in the fold of Islam properly and be very obedient to Allah. Once they are in such a condition start giving them a little by little Islamic knowledge slowly. Once they are interested and starts respecting you for this. Go ahead with your topic. Jumping into the main topic as an Asian is something really hard, Asian parents weren't brought up this way. But if you approach slowly I am sure by the will of Allah you will be able to do it
@maymay5812
@maymay5812 5 жыл бұрын
The truth is culture over religion never works if it is put at higher importance and taught that it is the main moral rules
@ismahanijas2759
@ismahanijas2759 5 жыл бұрын
yup absolutely right.. I feel the same way.. they told me to tell them what I want they didnt mind, they open for what ever my opinion is.. but then they didnt agree and refuse my opinion
@januzairamli4426
@januzairamli4426 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like people in my culture are usually closed minded especially when it comes to religion and especially the older generations,is it just my culture?
@DKingFisher
@DKingFisher 5 жыл бұрын
I love every time when he mentions a country mostly its Bangladesh
@bimayuda3843
@bimayuda3843 5 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum Bangladesh from Indonesia
@DKingFisher
@DKingFisher 5 жыл бұрын
@@bimayuda3843 Wa Alaikum Salam. May Allah's peace and blessings be upon all of us
@sallylemon5835
@sallylemon5835 5 жыл бұрын
The fact he is Pakistani but often mentions Bangladesh is enlightening though. Might be his wife or son in law from Bangladesh, or he was giving lecture in a place of majority listeners there are Bangladeshi Muslims
@ishan7966
@ishan7966 4 жыл бұрын
bangladeshi from bangladesh.salaaam
@mahadehasanyt
@mahadehasanyt 4 жыл бұрын
same here :p
@muhammadahsan9336
@muhammadahsan9336 4 жыл бұрын
As a man, this is the most motivational video ever.
@sneakydoge476
@sneakydoge476 4 жыл бұрын
Nouman Ali Khan: "marry your cousin from Bangladesh" Me a Bangladeshi: is this a personal attack or something?
@foku12345
@foku12345 4 жыл бұрын
It's not personal, it used to happen in British Bangladeshi community. But now this type of force marriage is declining.
@mrpsyco2420
@mrpsyco2420 4 жыл бұрын
Nuh dude..that's true......it happens in Bangladesh.... I think it’s nasty...I'm also Bangladeshi ...
@roseuchiha2617
@roseuchiha2617 4 жыл бұрын
Force marriage is pretty common in Bangladesh...Dude,It's not a personal attack but fact.Girls have to sacrifice their with whom she never accept him as her husband.
@sarahmi23
@sarahmi23 4 жыл бұрын
usually it’s Pakistanis and Indians who marry their cousins.. didn’t have to bring bengalis into it
@labonnoislam7965
@labonnoislam7965 4 жыл бұрын
Like Pakistan and india are good people!??? At least Bangladeshi man can treat their wife properly not like fanatic Pakistani....
@sayedanwar2838
@sayedanwar2838 4 жыл бұрын
3:15 When I was 15 I had my first hard la or job. Ever since, i always value money, respected my father and i knew i need to get educated cause i cannot do hard labor 40 hours a week. Alhamdulilah
@nadine7293
@nadine7293 4 жыл бұрын
I've never heard such a beautiful speech about marriage advice.
@abdelhaksaouli8802
@abdelhaksaouli8802 4 жыл бұрын
For all people who have been described as ugly and get rejected, brace your self and read the story of Julaybib radia allaho anhoo
@Amirasuperdope
@Amirasuperdope 4 жыл бұрын
Abdelhak Saouli I love that story! Mashallah
@Android-ds9ie
@Android-ds9ie 4 жыл бұрын
@@Amirasuperdope what story
@zeynand4039
@zeynand4039 4 жыл бұрын
where can I find an explaination of that story? My arabic comprehension is not that good.
@abdelhaksaouli8802
@abdelhaksaouli8802 4 жыл бұрын
@@zeynand4039 search this in youtube : " Julaibib [RA] - The Unknown Sahabi"
@silentraven4582
@silentraven4582 2 жыл бұрын
But that story doesn’t make sense to me The only reason she ended up marrying Julaybib was because the prophet (a.a.w.) ordered her to do it. How does that help fellow ugly Muslims today, if the prophet isn’t requesting people to marry us. Literally, I don’t get why people bring up that story as if it’s relevant for today
@Optimusmaximus123
@Optimusmaximus123 4 жыл бұрын
i am 15 why am i watching this
@afifaansari5419
@afifaansari5419 4 жыл бұрын
Bcoz it may help u
@شافعالدين
@شافعالدين 4 жыл бұрын
Allahu A'lam
@optimusops3949
@optimusops3949 4 жыл бұрын
@Ayaz M A MashAllah brother. Keep watching these videos! May Allah grant you Jannah!
@عبدالملك-ي5ه3ي
@عبدالملك-ي5ه3ي 4 жыл бұрын
Why not learn more? I'm 14 but I know why I'm watching it even thought there's no way I'm getting married any time soon.
@Optimusmaximus123
@Optimusmaximus123 4 жыл бұрын
@@عبدالملك-ي5ه3ي why not if you've hit puberty u can get married
@kakolyhaque9227
@kakolyhaque9227 4 жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah your khutbahs draw attention in such a different way! It’s like hearing khutbah from a long-known friend! May Allah bless you with much more knowledge and May He bless us all too 💕
@aleksanderblinn4492
@aleksanderblinn4492 4 жыл бұрын
1. Do not be rude in speech (3:159) 2. Restrain Anger (3:134) 3. Be good to others (4:36) 4. Do not be arrogant (7:13) 5. Forgive others for their mistakes (7:199) 6. Speak to people mildly (20:44) 7. Lower your voice (31:19) 8. Do not ridicule others (49:11) 9. Be dutiful to parents(17:23) 10. Do not say a word of disrespect to parents (17:23) 11. Do not enter parents’ private room without asking permission (24:58) 12. Write down the debt (2:282) 13. Do not follow anyone blindly (2:170) 14. Grant more time to repay if the debtor is in hard time (2:280) 15. Don’t consume interest (2:275) 16. Do not engage in bribery (2:188) 17. Do not break the promise (2:177) 18. Keep the trust (2:283) 19. Do not mix the truth with falsehood (2:42) 20. Judge with justice between people (4:58) 21. Stand out firmly for justice (4:135) 22. Wealth of the dead should be distributed among his family members (4:7) 23. Women also have the right for inheritance (4:7) 24. Do not devour the property of orphans (4:10) 25. Protect orphans (2:220) 26. Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly (4:29) 27. Try for settlement between people (49:9) 28. Avoid suspicion (49:12) 29. Do not spy and backbite (2:283) 30. Do not spy or backbite (49:12) 31. Spend wealth in charity (57:7) 32. Encourage feeding poor (107:3) 33. Help those in need by finding them (2:273) 34. Do not spend money extravagantly (17:29) 35. Do not invalidate charity with reminders (2:264) 36. Honor guests (51:26) 37. Order righteousness to people only after practicing it yourself(2:44) 38. Do not commit abuse on the earth (2:60) 39. Do not prevent people from mosques (2:114) 40. Fight only with those who fight you (2:190) 41. Keep the etiquettes of war (2:191) 42. Do not turn back in battle (8:15) 43. No compulsion in religion (2:256) 44. Believe in all prophets (2:285) 45. Do not have sexual intercourse during menstrual period (2:222) 46. Breast feed your children for two complete years (2:233) 47. Do not even approach unlawful sexual intercourse (17:32) 48. Choose rulers by their merit (2:247) 49. Do not burden a person beyond his scope (2:286) 50. Do not become divided (3:103) 51. Think deeply about the wonders and creation of this universe (3:191) 52. Men and Women have equal rewards for their deeds (3:195) 53. Do not marry those in your blood relation (4:23) 54. Family should be led by men (4:34) 55. Do not be miserly (4:37) 56.Do not keep envy (4:54) 57. Do not kill each other (4:92) 58. Do not be an advocate for deceit (4:105) 59. Do not cooperate in sin and aggression (5:2) 60. Cooperate in righteousness (5:2) 61. ’Having majority’ is not a criterion of truth (6:116) 62. Be just (5:8) 63. Punish for crimes in an exemplary way (5:38) 64. Strive against sinful and unlawful acts (5:63) 65. Dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine are prohibited (5:3) 66. Avoid intoxicants and alcohol (5:90) 67. Do not gamble (5:90) 68. Do not insult others’ deities (6:108) 69. Don’t reduce weight or measure to cheat people (6:152) 70. Eat and Drink, But Be Not Excessive (7:31) 71. Wear good cloths during prayer times (7:31) 72. protect and help those who seek protection (9:6) 73. Keep Purity (9:108) 74. Never give up hope of Allah’s Mercy (12:87) 75. Allah will forgive those who have done wrong out of ignorance (16:119) 76. Invitation to God should be with wisdom and good instruction (16:125) 77. No one will bear others’ sins (17:15) 78. Do not kill your children for fear of poverty (17:31) 79. Do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge (17:36) 80. Keep aloof from what is vain (23:3) 81. Do not enter others’ houses without seeking permission (24:27) 82. Allah will provide security for those who believe only in Allah (24:55) 83. Walk on earth in humility (25:63) 84. Do not neglect your portion of this world (28:77) 85. Invoke not any other god along with Allah (28:88) 86. Do not engage in homosexuality (29:29) 87. Enjoin right, forbid wrong (31:17) 88. Do not walk in insolence through the earth (31:18) 89. Women should not display their finery (33:33) 90. Allah forgives all sins (39:53) 91. Do not despair of the mercy of Allah (39:53) 92. Repel evil by good (41:34) 93. Decide on affairs by consultation (42:38) 94. Most noble of you is the most righteous (49:13) 95. No Monasticism in religion (57:27) 96. Those who have knowledge will be given a higher degree by Allah (58:11) 97. Treat non-Muslims in a kind and fair manner (60:8) 98. Save yourself from covetousness (64:16) 99. Seek forgiveness of Allah. He is Forgiving and Merciful (73:20) 100. Do not repel one who asks (93:10)
@faizaahmad1746
@faizaahmad1746 4 жыл бұрын
I respect and salute you. I wish parents could listen to this. I refused my cousin but after that am seen as a black sheep of the family
@simpesfaip
@simpesfaip 4 жыл бұрын
good for you,from outside u look like white sheep among black bunch
@faizaahmad1746
@faizaahmad1746 4 жыл бұрын
@@simpesfaip 😂😂😂 thats so comforting
@simpesfaip
@simpesfaip 4 жыл бұрын
Aleem Ahmad thats all you need to know.doing what Allah recomends against everyone else is the best of Jihad. Keep going that way. Ure doing good👌
@theshine8433
@theshine8433 4 жыл бұрын
I wish all Indian parents understand English and see this understand its depthness 🙄
@cutlet9227
@cutlet9227 4 жыл бұрын
I am from a 100℅ Islamic country and here people aren't interested in marrying their cousins. And our parents or grandparents don't joke about going to kill the boy who got in a relationship with you..
@piqueny8872
@piqueny8872 4 жыл бұрын
It’s your life your happiness your future Put Allah 1st the prophets sunnah Your parents lived there life now it’s time for you to live your own lives.
@ummufares5487
@ummufares5487 4 жыл бұрын
Every parents need to listen to this 😢
@akaffouni
@akaffouni 4 жыл бұрын
قال رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - : " طوبى لمن وجد في صحيفته استغفارا كثيرا " . رواه ابن ماجه ، وروى النسائي في " عمل يوم وليلة" 🌹أستغفر الله العظيم و أتوب إليه🌹 🌹أستغفر الله العظيم و أتوب إليه🌹 🌹أستغفر الله العظيم و أتوب إليه🌹 The
@farhanmubeen531
@farhanmubeen531 5 жыл бұрын
MashAllah great lecture by our favourite noman brother 👍
@maisharaihan2182
@maisharaihan2182 4 жыл бұрын
My parents keeps forcing me to marry. I almost got married twice, they don't even care about my opinion. And I'm just 20.
@os.a.m.a
@os.a.m.a 4 жыл бұрын
Well then talk to them, explain your reasons and opinions, Show them this video and ofc don't rise your voice and do not reject the idea of ​​marriage because this will make them insist more Gl
@Beastly707
@Beastly707 4 жыл бұрын
Forced marriages are not allowed. Find a solution with them by talking to them and telling them what you expect in a man.
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 4 жыл бұрын
Well hurry up and marry then. Women expire quickly so it’s better to get married young, this will also help protect you from zina women and men are so exposed to these days and yet you people wanna delay marriage (which is half your deen) simply for the sake of your “studies.”
@lenaxshin
@lenaxshin 3 жыл бұрын
@@sieg6635 it's not jus because of studies? Many don't want to marry because they will start having greater responsibilities to satisfy the needs of the husband and have a family. Not every woman is ready. Many r forced to have children merely after few months of marriage even tho the woman isn't ready n if they say they wanna have kids after 4 or 5 yrs they get frowned upon. Its a huge pressure on the woman wt wud u understand of it so keep ur dumbness to urself its none of ur business if she doesn't wanna marry now
@deadshot086
@deadshot086 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is the best tips for man who wants to get relationship or married with the future spouse.
@tys6739
@tys6739 4 жыл бұрын
i truly like how this guy explains about Islam. practical and wise.
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 4 жыл бұрын
"Next fifty years".... parents should take their 5 precious minutes to think about those 50 long years of their children...
@baybiisk
@baybiisk 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, most of them are just selfish for their own agendas. They want to dictate every part of your life even when it comes to choosing your partner.. our parents won't live with us forever.. we will be stuck with our partner and if we are not happy it will be like torture. may Allah help us.
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 4 жыл бұрын
@@baybiiskAameen...Yes exactly... May ALLAH guide us all... May ALLAH protect us also from doing evil and reckless things... We should seek help from ALLAH, and try to be kind to our parents in our behavior... But that doesn't mean let them force us to do whatever they want.
@goodflowh
@goodflowh 4 жыл бұрын
Those who are still young, work like he did otherwise you will end up alone and dependent like me, I believed my parents I was brainwashed by my parents I was emotionally blackmailed by my parents and at the end I am older in 40's and became ill and dependent and told all the properties are all ours (not me included, and if given I can't even take care of it). Life happens and I never thought that I could ever get ill. Wasn't even allowed to find my own partner, in fact was threatened if I was to find someone on my own so as a girl I got scared and girls get scared especially the obedient ones who were/are made to fear Allah, and parents that to disobey them otherwise is Hell because they are not like boys or at least most boys but for boys rules are different (told as well) that they have needs so not sinful but for girls is sinful to even think about or show her likeness. Girls only want emotional love a partner in life. The way our ugly culture is no one will marry me regardless what the religion says and the kinds of older women our prophet has married to support them. Now if I want to even have kids I can't due to those medications and unstable health. Have your children now in 20's and if not too late your early 30's because kids require a lot of energy and your resources like your lack of sleep and off schedule, and food habits for others, weight gain comes due to lack of sleep and food timing disorder, because no one is able to help, and or food temptations when feeding your children because you never knew good eating habits; it though can be fixed but help of family is always great because your husband needs to work. Don't fall for "I can take care of my own kids" when you can live and ignore mistakes of other like in laws so you can get help and they get love from holding their grand kids and nieces and nephews. Those parents who deprive their children of love from their aunt's and uncle and grandparents due to ugly selfish politics have no interest at heart for them for the long run. Don't look at the assumed demonized made relationship that all in laws are bad but how that person really is, only Allah puts love or hate or dislike in people's heart's based on what they want not the given title of that relationships. Any ways get married, and if you are strong in emotions face the parents, you might get lucky. You will or may be humiliated, face the monsters because it's not the girls fault it's the fathers mostly who are selfish or greedy, don't let the words hurt your ego if you really want the girl but not as a trophy only if she is worth in character wise or in emotions for you based on how you feel, and if you get her don't punish her how her family is or treate d you because then Allah will punish you. As for girls if you find a hard working guy respectfully stand up and be firm in your decision and you work too in case your parents threaten you but this can happen only ones, so make sure that this guy is good if sacrifice comes to it but I hope it never comes to it so convince your family and pray. Now I am depressed because I have nothing to look forward to, I wanted to see how my children would look like and turn out, and then see their kids but non of it for me. Alhamdulilla I don't get jealous at all and I trained my mind but all this wrtting just for you guys to know the consequences of someone's obstacles so you don't create for yourself and children and to encourage your well being, though the media or so called friends or society always try to influence your thinking because I don't know what challenges are in your life are to not fall for that miserable and jealous trap that your "single life will be missed out" because they are miserable for the mistakes they made. Life is full of tests, get married and make it work unless you are only physically being abused, so other things learn to deal with but better to ignore. I hope may Allah give you all good partners and keep everyone healthy and together. We are only in this world for short time so don't set demands and expectations just do your own side of the best.
@LTRLVRIFY
@LTRLVRIFY 4 жыл бұрын
Sister your in my duas, Jzk for sharing this.
@goodflowh
@goodflowh 4 жыл бұрын
@@LTRLVRIFY JazakalAllah khairun. May Allah do the best for you in this world and in the hereafter for remembering me in your duaas. Your good wishful thinking brought tears to my eyes in this special night of Ramadan.
@baybiisk
@baybiisk 4 жыл бұрын
Reading this comment has made my heart sink as I'm in my mid 20s and my parents sound exactly like how yours are. My parents won't allow me to choose somebody myself (I recently came across a good guy who was everything I wanted in a person but had to let him go because of my parents backwards mentality) I don't want to disrespect my family because I'm aware of the consequences (if I say I'm interested in someone I will get abused) but they don't have somebody in mind for me either.. may Allah help us. I genuinely pray dear sister Allah makes it easy for you, there's khayr in every situation and though it may seem like theres darkness in your life just know Allah will reward you immensely for your sabr. you're in my prayers keep me in yours please as I am stuck..
@aleksanderblinn4492
@aleksanderblinn4492 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment Its shed light on something i did not understand I pray Allah keeps you close Have faith and patience my dear sister Love and light
@toobad9295
@toobad9295 5 жыл бұрын
I’d be nice to see people encourage women to work as well but no one seems to care about that
@i.simply9225
@i.simply9225 5 жыл бұрын
Too Bad My dad encourages me and my sisters to get our degrees first before marrying. That way we don’t have to depend on her husbands if by any chance he decides to leave.
@manalrazi4863
@manalrazi4863 5 жыл бұрын
Yh
@toobad9295
@toobad9295 5 жыл бұрын
@@i.simply9225 I love that your dad does that but sadly I just don't see that a lot especially coming from men
@oscaka0073
@oscaka0073 5 жыл бұрын
@@toobad9295 Probably because most Men grew up being told to " Man up " and to take care of the women he's about to marry financially , physically and emotionally ? The dad's a doing us Men a great favor by teaching his daughters to ' Man up ' and get a job . Its great to not having to take care of another adult if you're a man .
@toobad9295
@toobad9295 5 жыл бұрын
@@oscaka0073 that's probably something I'll never agree with, teaching boys they have to be emotionless as if they're robots and not normal functioning human beings just like women are, parents should be raising their kids by learning them to take care of THEMSELVES and teaching them to be independent whether it's a man or a woman, family isn't about one person doing everything family is about team work, a woman isn't a baby to be taken care of by someone else she's just as much as an adult as a man is
@docnextdoor572
@docnextdoor572 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know but for some reason this guy is much more knowledgeable and better than jakir Naik
@isratfatima9346
@isratfatima9346 5 жыл бұрын
OMG!this is some amazing words as always from ustaadh Nouman! May Allah bless him. He is amazing. ❤
@beyzasz
@beyzasz 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for that video!! I love how humorful the imam is! May Allah strengthen the relationships with our Parents♥️
@allstarprogenius6062
@allstarprogenius6062 4 жыл бұрын
My Allah guide the people who disliked
@zuhaazam112
@zuhaazam112 4 жыл бұрын
They all desi parents 😂😭
@funnfood4824
@funnfood4824 4 жыл бұрын
Your daughters are so lucky to have you...
@tanjidislamhridoy219
@tanjidislamhridoy219 4 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! Just wow. Really helpful
@asmajabeen7192
@asmajabeen7192 4 жыл бұрын
I have listened to this and the best part is “be a man” that is what actually needed for today’s society esp for Pakistani males,when they just earn a professional degree and their pride is all they have.Instead of the basis which are required for getting married,and Astagfirullah the lame reasons they give for rejecting any female.In short sorry to say bit halal is actually difficult to find.Hope ALLAH bless with the righteous spouse Ameen.
@ilikecats3860
@ilikecats3860 4 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who’s a kid and still watching this
@ilikecats3860
@ilikecats3860 4 жыл бұрын
Meryam Serhane I hope so
@Billionaires_Muslimmotivation
@Billionaires_Muslimmotivation 2 жыл бұрын
Such a good speaker. mashallah. God bless you
@marzanarazia2694
@marzanarazia2694 3 жыл бұрын
He teches us in a different way...
@Malik_Sarmad
@Malik_Sarmad 4 жыл бұрын
That job thing you advised for us boys is awesome 👌 our society is missing it badly JAZAK ALLAH 💖
@lutfasharmin7237
@lutfasharmin7237 5 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah very very beautiful & beneficial lecture from brother Nouman Ali😍👌. I feel comfort & getting encourage after listening this precious leccture. Thank you so much, I'm from Bangladesh😃.
@Userlibzzzzhwjuajjjauuw6882
@Userlibzzzzhwjuajjjauuw6882 4 жыл бұрын
As soon as he said can the young men become men for gods sake I hit like
@SalemPhiladelphia
@SalemPhiladelphia 4 жыл бұрын
I was scrolling in the comments and once he said that I was reading your comment lol
@kainatazhar9697
@kainatazhar9697 4 жыл бұрын
i thank Allah every day for Sheikh Nouman Ali Khan. really, may Allah bless him.
@y01cu_yt
@y01cu_yt 2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah. CezakAllahu hayran.
@midhatfriend6789
@midhatfriend6789 3 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah I haven't even watched halfway through the video and Ik it's for me. Literally an hour ago I was crying in salah questioning him why isn't he answering me when he promised openly call upon me and I'll respond and here I am after an extreme anxiety attack watching this video. SubhanAllah
@problem7495
@problem7495 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best lecture about marriage
@unk_mee
@unk_mee 4 жыл бұрын
In sha Allah...I will have the prince of my dream.💖
@simpliali1267
@simpliali1267 Ай бұрын
Such a helpful and beneficial video, Jazak’ Allahu Khair
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925
@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 4 жыл бұрын
If parents really feared the Wrath of ALLAH (SWT), they would never dare to marry their children off by force...
@goodwords1696
@goodwords1696 5 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah , recently we started our new series Sahih Al Bukhari Book of Tawheed. Alhamdulillah we finished uploading Chapter 1 to 23.
@mwanamisikasirani5829
@mwanamisikasirani5829 3 жыл бұрын
May we see Ustadh Noise in Jannah ☺️. He makes the deen easy to understand for the young people 😔
@Nikkaali123
@Nikkaali123 4 жыл бұрын
Allah make my best day the day i meet you ...😍 In sha Allah
@shakeelkhan1826
@shakeelkhan1826 4 жыл бұрын
Good information JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
@proticalscienceforbeginner7764
@proticalscienceforbeginner7764 3 жыл бұрын
The most liberating religion is Islam. I'm glad that I reverted
@NGamingpubg
@NGamingpubg 4 жыл бұрын
Me: *watching it from Bangladesh. 😨😨😨😨😨
@nasheenjahannasir2976
@nasheenjahannasir2976 4 жыл бұрын
In Bangladesh forcing women to get married is rare. Maybe it's done in the rural areas but in the cities and towns love marriages are popular. Even if it is arranged marriage , women's opinions are always taken to consideration. So forcing girls to get married is not the average situation.
@alboshajdari3316
@alboshajdari3316 5 жыл бұрын
8 couples (16 parents) disliked this
@haroonq2456
@haroonq2456 5 жыл бұрын
16
@arifalmalaibari4021
@arifalmalaibari4021 4 жыл бұрын
Now its 64😄
@Smiileeitsunnahh
@Smiileeitsunnahh 4 жыл бұрын
Now is 125 😂
@voiceofhena4013
@voiceofhena4013 4 жыл бұрын
Now it's 145 lol
@roseuchiha2617
@roseuchiha2617 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@ayaa5773
@ayaa5773 4 жыл бұрын
Barak Allah feek ♥️
@yusufali2514
@yusufali2514 4 жыл бұрын
Inspiring Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan,,
@Naved897
@Naved897 4 жыл бұрын
This is the Islam , proud of you
@fly320
@fly320 4 жыл бұрын
I need to rewatch it . Sooo goood 💕💕💕
@anonymous_5720
@anonymous_5720 4 жыл бұрын
Hi The biggest issue facing the Islamic society is this “cultural expiration date” you mentioned for women. Once they cross 25 years of age it becomes impossible to find decent proposals. I had responsibilities until I was 32, after which when I was finally financially relieved I have not been able to meet a decent man. We need to change the mindset of Muslim men really. Even the Muslim women don’t let their sons marry a women if she’s over 30. Can you please address this issue and create awareness for people to open their minds.
@arefinsultanamomo8204
@arefinsultanamomo8204 4 жыл бұрын
I just hope, someday someone who is capable by the grace of Allah will take the project of dubbing these videos of ustadh Nouman Ali Khan Into Bangla, Hindi and Urdu. It will help many South Asian parents who find difficulties in understanding English but are really in need of getting these messages! May Allah bless Ustad Nouman and his family. Ameen. 🙂
@rimsworld5328
@rimsworld5328 4 жыл бұрын
Why am I crying watching this😔✊
@rahmaabdi7868
@rahmaabdi7868 4 жыл бұрын
i could not agree more with nouman actual facts absolute legend. Men need to be more like him.
@seemamalik5380
@seemamalik5380 4 жыл бұрын
Shukur allah ..my parents won't force ..I open up n they understand every time
@ajijulislammunna7013
@ajijulislammunna7013 3 жыл бұрын
Me watching it from Bangladesh.😍😍
@sarwatsheikh6598
@sarwatsheikh6598 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this really need it
@wks6034
@wks6034 4 жыл бұрын
Thats very true. Work makes you adult. Living alone, working. Just studying keeps one childish.
@rparwez6206
@rparwez6206 4 жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu Khair
@afrasalam7559
@afrasalam7559 3 жыл бұрын
Mashallah 😍
@johnsala5330
@johnsala5330 4 жыл бұрын
Getting pre-marriage advice for the past 10 years, now I'm 46, at which point do I actually get to get married and start my family?
@cutseruni5630
@cutseruni5630 4 жыл бұрын
Well , i want into a healthy relationship with someone that love and accept me wholeheartedly. But find 'someone' with that personality is very hard, also I can't talk or just having normal conversations without stutter or struggle to another man that i don't know at all. In meanwhile my parents kinda gets me hype up to get married too like my other cousin that already got married.
@justamanofculture12
@justamanofculture12 4 жыл бұрын
Just believe that Allah will have someone for you. You never know who you are destined to.
@Isharminaa
@Isharminaa 2 жыл бұрын
Soo true 🥺🥺 this is actually happening
@aylafaiz8357
@aylafaiz8357 4 жыл бұрын
best videos n lec on islam that never heard before.......
@ngvbvvvn9579
@ngvbvvvn9579 4 жыл бұрын
Equally girls should also have responsibility and work for their own survival so they do not depend on the husband!
@QuranwithRain
@QuranwithRain 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. Listening to Brother Nouman’s story makes me feel lazy 😂
@MsNovazz
@MsNovazz 5 жыл бұрын
ɱყɱųŋą ąƙɬɛཞ how is that possible though? 😁
@pahjaa5562
@pahjaa5562 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe you're that parent that he is talking about😂
@oaktutor1154
@oaktutor1154 5 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOL
@QuranwithRain
@QuranwithRain 4 жыл бұрын
pahjaa ali no no no. I’m a college student but he said he worked 2 jobs and I’m a full time student with one job and bunch of clubs. 😭😭😭
@oaktutor1154
@oaktutor1154 4 жыл бұрын
@@QuranwithRain dont worry buddy, you'll get through this
@lovetolove8006
@lovetolove8006 4 жыл бұрын
Love from Bangladesh ❤️❤️
@fiza10
@fiza10 4 жыл бұрын
Islam is just.! 💓💓💓
@aishatissah5482
@aishatissah5482 5 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah great tips
@themuslimah2864
@themuslimah2864 5 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah ustadh may Allah bless you
@meharunnisamehar999
@meharunnisamehar999 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing..., Islam is very beautiful.....in all the ways of living life.... Alhamdulillah......iam a Muslim...... Plz pray for me that Allah guide my father to this....... Ameen.......🤲🤲😭🤲
@Atif_Ahmed85
@Atif_Ahmed85 5 жыл бұрын
This makes sense!!
@mariamrasheed3187
@mariamrasheed3187 4 жыл бұрын
“For the young men”! CAN YOU BECOME MEN!!
@660-q4f
@660-q4f 4 жыл бұрын
@ShitGotReal she has a point and you don’t...sit down
@rafiurislam27
@rafiurislam27 4 жыл бұрын
I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 man!
@AF-uc2bd
@AF-uc2bd 4 жыл бұрын
Each person should have the right to meet potential husband and wife and then decide. But never go for people who are narcissistic, those like to impress and are usually very egoistical, not caring for your needs but just to win people. Be wise, think with your mind what you are looking in your life partner before you start choosing one.
@minhazulislam4682
@minhazulislam4682 4 жыл бұрын
I am from Bangladesh, funny to here the name of my country. I hope I could show my relatives this video.
@faisalasif1332
@faisalasif1332 4 жыл бұрын
I am from Bangladesh :)
@SSMBukhari
@SSMBukhari 4 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid my parents used to say " ur czns are your brothers, but now when I grew up, asking who one u like tell us🙄🙄. sincerely I too wanna to have an adoption center where ones parents would be exchanged for a brand new series😔
@official_rashine
@official_rashine 3 жыл бұрын
Islam is so beautiful😭Am so happy I'm a Muslim😊
@bullseye9723
@bullseye9723 3 жыл бұрын
he sugar-coats islam ! so dodnt get hyped up
@Fahmeedazahan
@Fahmeedazahan 4 жыл бұрын
Trust me, I did open my mouth and said things clearly. But they kept forcing me. I'm not involved in any haram relations. I want to finish my study. Want to complete my masters and then get married. I said these things clearly. But they kept forcing me with some emotional threats. And also they want me to marry someone who is 10/12 years older than me. This is not how I imagined my life would be. And nobody can change this things.
@arfaak3547
@arfaak3547 4 жыл бұрын
Great insightful video
@themuhammad1
@themuhammad1 2 жыл бұрын
I watched the whole video. The ending gave me hope 😂❤️
@annadianne8749
@annadianne8749 2 жыл бұрын
Memorizing whole ayah does not make you a parent or holy. But we know parents know best because Allah ordained it as guidance
@khushboozulekha3499
@khushboozulekha3499 4 жыл бұрын
Very true...I hope allah bless every one
@muhamedtouray1653
@muhamedtouray1653 4 жыл бұрын
I wish i had the courage many years ago to stand my ground! Look at me now
@Anonymous-ze8iu
@Anonymous-ze8iu 4 жыл бұрын
Mashaallah you’re awesome ❤️🌹
@humairazahra1040
@humairazahra1040 4 жыл бұрын
Love from Banglsdesh😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@saidyayoub4795
@saidyayoub4795 4 жыл бұрын
Great lecture
@Gamechangerr667
@Gamechangerr667 4 жыл бұрын
Nice speech!
@ibrahimkomboibrahim9537
@ibrahimkomboibrahim9537 5 жыл бұрын
If you could please add french subtitle that will be beneficial for french speaking people too . jazakallah ghair for what you do.
@SonnieKa
@SonnieKa 5 жыл бұрын
Ibrahim Kombo Ibrahim I’m a translator and I could do the french subtitles if they get in touch with me :)
@N.a.n.a._
@N.a.n.a._ 5 жыл бұрын
@@AsmaBellay Totalement.
@N.a.n.a._
@N.a.n.a._ 5 жыл бұрын
@@AsmaBellay Tu as tout dit. Dommage que les mosquées en France ne s'impliquent pas davantage dans ça, mais continuons à faire des duas. Qu'Allah t'accorde un bon mari si c'est un bien pour toi dans cette vie comme pour al akhira. ❤🙂
@leila_de_hautjardin
@leila_de_hautjardin 5 жыл бұрын
@@AsmaBellay C'est vrai que c'est pas facile tu veux à la fois choisir toi-même mais t'as pas envie de te retrouver dans le haram. Et quand tu demandes conseil à tes parents ils te disent de te débrouiller toute seule sans vraiment te donner de démarche à suivre...
@maars75
@maars75 5 жыл бұрын
- Who were you talking to ? The uploader of this vid ? - Oui. - Why he should translate this in YOUR language and not arabic or spanish for exmple ? - I sais that will be beneficial for.... - This can be beneficial even for arabic and spanish speakers muslim. Why he has to translate in YOUR language ? Do the uploader speach french ? - Non. - So who will translate this vid FOR YOU ? Who can translate this vid FOR YOU ? - I don't know. I only think to myself.
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