PREGNANCY ADVICE from my MOM of 16 KIDS!

[@AlexaEvjen]

So, I got pregnant at 18- completely unplanned... and now at 26 and married and thinking of trying again, I can promise you there's never a right time!! I'm nervous and excited and worried and impatient all over again! I feel like when/if I do have another I'd feel like I'm starting over completely!! Everything your mom said is spot on. Holding your baby that you made, talked to and felt for 40 weeks is mind blowing fantastic and I can literally FEEL that emotion right now thinking of it! You're going to be a wonderful mama & Josh will be a great dad! Don't stress, let it happen in God's time

[@meri7766]

You don’t need to feel pressured to try for pregnancy if you aren’t ready! We are all supporting you in every case and you should definitely wait if you think it’s not the time, but it’s okay to change your mind too!

[@MaddieGee33]

Even if you start trying doesn't mean you're going to get pregnant right away. I believe it's all in God's hands, you might start trying and he says not right now. I don't think anyone is ever really "ready". Having a child is so life changing yet magical ❤️

[@sarabyrd9708]

It’s a euphoric experience to carry your newborn across the threshold of your home. No other feeling comes close. It makes everything worth it!

[@jojopetro9206]

I hated being pregnant & didn’t feel connected to my baby at all. Had multiple break downs about having to “share my husband” with a baby….. well let me tell you. She’s amazing, literally incredible, I love her more than life itself. What your mom said about not caring if you have to get up in the middle of the night, you don’t care. You just want your baby to be happy. They fall in love with you as their mommy and you can see it happening. It’s so amazing to be a mom. 10/10 highly recommend 😍

[@marisolcoria2505]

I had my sweet boy when I was 19 and I wouldn’t change that story. This year we are trying to have another baby. In August I had a miscarriage. I was only 4 weeks but I had a strong feeling that I was carrying twins. It’s been hard but we are going to try again. I believe that God will bless us when the time is right. Loved this video.

[@rebekahmyrtaj4619]

I believe that there is a difference between knowing when the time is ‘right’ and not quite feeling ready. I am the same… 1 moment I’m ready and the next I’m not but I am also aware that the time isn’t quite right for my family yet. I am also of the LDS faith and you guys have some really beautiful and powerful experiences as a family. Thank you for sharing and showing your trust in the Lord and his timing. Personal revelation is so beautiful ❤️

[@jennamoore3467]

So true. I am also a member of the latter day saints

[@addison1531]

I am also LDS member two!

[@tinaempunkt9845]

Don't stress yourself out about having kids. When the time is right, it is going to happen. Just relax and enjoy your life. :-)

[@Sara-mg3iw]

Kass, I am a mother of one child! I had her when I was 21 years old (I am now 25). She came as a surprise (I was on the pill) but my husband and I were so happy. A child changes your whole life. Yes it is hard, but it's the kind of hard that has a purpose, so it never feels like a bad hard... if that makes sense. You are more prepared to have one than so many women who do become a mother! You already know how to care for your siblings, I would say that you would do an amazing job. Pregnancy is hard but it can also be fun! It's the one time everyone will swoon over a big tummy 😂. Its a really cool experience but can also be mentally challenging even more than physically challenging. My biggest piece of advice for new moms is to never be afraid to ask for help! I went to therapy when my baby was 6 months old because I had so much anxiety! I loved her so much and didnt want anything bad to happen to her, so those thoughts consumed me a little too much. But my therapist told me that is normal. It really helped talking to someone about it!!! I say GO FOR IT!!! You would do an amazing job, and raise an amazing human. Much love 🖤

[@sophialiu4236]

Such great insight! Thank you for sharing!❤️❤️

[@TayaTiwari]

@@sophialiu4236I don’t think she was talking to you

[@kindnessmatters4068]

The sunlight shinning thru the back window was so I pretty!! My 2nd baby was a twin as well😢 makes me sad sometimes wondering what we are missing or what my 2nd is missing out on, but I trust God to make up the difference for her as well. 💗 Also I got married at 28yrs old, so a bit older and since we want quite a few children I felt like we needed to start right away. My husband and I had known each other since he was 8yrs old. We were such good friends before we even started dating! so we knew each other really well and yeah we were just ready to be parents right way... but we ended up trying for 10months before I did get pregnant. I had given it to God right from the start and wanted his leading in this. Its a very serious things to have children (im sure you know tht!!) its a life that is in my hands and I can ruin it or help it blossom into something beautiful... so anyway God said wait a bit, but when I got pregnant we were more then ready and it was perfect timing for our life. I feel like when you are ready you will know it. It will be peaceful and sure. 💗😏 Side note:) while I feel its such a serious decision it is also full of joy and happiness and when we do our best with all we have in us, God is so good to help with whatever we miss. Having children is such a blessing and they make the best memories💗💙

[@designerproductions]

Kass, you are sooooo young. Please enjoy being young and having few responsibilities. Your mom got pregnant at 45. You have PLENTY of time to have kids. It's so important to enjoy being young and carefree.

[@user-uw1fn2uh5b]

her mom didnt get pregnant at 45?

[@designerproductions]

@@user-uw1fn2uh5b yes she did she was around 43 or 45 i don't know exactly which age

[@Iloveyou-og5pt]

@@designerproductions she had her first child at 21-24

[@lauren_charlotte405]

Wouldn't it be adorable if kenadee and kassadee had a kid at the same time

[@tristinarobinson7144]

That would be amazing 🥲🥰

[@meredithlamont6434]

I wish it was real

[@eshaalalam1558]

OMG yes!

[@Softball09]

Yea

[@nadiakhiani931]

ikr

[@gladisberduo9738]

I had the same thought as you that i had to be ready and it had to be the right time, but once I found out I was pregnant I was so happy that a little person was growing inside of me and when she was born I literally sobbed of how a little human grew inside of me and now I get to hold her and love her every single day. But now that I have her I feel like there’s never a “right” time, if it happens it happens 😊

[@stephanieknight1486]

You would be an amazing mum. God has a plan and timing is everything. I feel like when it is mean to happen it will. Dont rush because I feel like you have to be 100 percent committed. We all love you and we are all here for you. Trust In God and everything will work out

[@jordanhope3087]

I had a baby at the age of 19 (scary) totally worth it, I agree with what your mom said about there is something magical about them handing you your baby!! Take your time and when it's time for you and Josh are ready you will know ❤️

[@reginefeidal]

I wanted to get pregnant so soon after we got married, but then we moved and became best friends with a family of four and I saw first hand how hard it was and how many sacrifices you have to make as a parent. So I was going to wait at LEAST two more years (by then we had been married for two years) and as we started to grow confident in the decision to wait some more I got pregnant. And I’m telling you, I was devastated when we found out! Cut to now, I still have days where I wish we had more time just the two of us and didn’t have to buy so much baby stuff and move to a place with two bedrooms etc. I am sooooo happy and I can’t wait to meet our little boy in March. It’s all about gods timing Kass❤️

[@teeheepreppy]

Congrats!

[@nicolaclement6993]

I don't feel like there's ever a 'right' time, you would probably always find a reason not to try. The truth is though, when it happens, you make it work, it just becomes your new normal. You are still very young and no-one knows what the Universe has in store for any of us, sometimes its just best to let things 'happen', its not until you look back with hindsight that you can answer the questions you have now. You said said if it happenes now, you would both be excited, maybe thats an answer!

[@SnailWhales]

Loved the story about PresLee and Ledger. Years before I had my son, my daughter and I both had dreams of him. She was a toddler at the time and would wake up from sleep and say “I was in space with my baby brother.” I also had dreams of him and what he looked like snd he would talk to me about who he is and his plan. Several years later, surprise! A baby brother who looked exactly the same as I had dreamed him.

[@HeatherSC02]

My mom had a boy before me she miscarried at 8 months. Had to carry him 3 days not alive before they could remove him. She never saw him but she’s thought about him every day especially since I have illness wondering if he did too. We know he’s in heaven. Women are strong and my heart goes out to any woman in pregnancy journey. When time is right in Gods plan Kass you’ll have a baby.

[@olive_eclipseee]

When Kass said miscarriages are her biggest fear it made my heart break because now it’s happened to her 😢

[@adorbsxryryroadto3k]

Awwww

[@jessicarooks5207]

I’m currently pregnant and I also thought I’d be super sick the whole time- and luckily I haven’t been sick or felt bad AT ALL!! Aside from normal growing and stretching- which is uncomfortable, I have really enjoyed this pregnancy so far! It is my first- I just turned 26, and for me I had been ready for several years. I think at some point you’ll just know that you’re ready!! It’s the best feeling to grow your baby💕

[@MultiCaroleM]

My advice is don‘t let anyone stress you out about having a baby you will know when you‘re ready to be a mommy 😊 I was always stressed out because i wanted a baby so bad that we ended up trying for 4 years and those 4 years where just so hard a lot of tears frustration because it didn’t worked for us but then Covid came and i was focused on other things like work protecting my loved ones and stopped thinking about getting pregnant at this time but god had another plan for us and yes i got pregnant with my cute baby boy Keylan ♥️🥰 i was just so grateful 🥰♥️ and now my cutie is 9 months old and 2 days ago i found out that im pregnant again 🙏🏻😍

[@Kath913]

great job on facing your fears kass, especially with your first pregnancy, I hope all is well with you

[@KKnits]

I’ve always trusted my inner feeling/intuition. I did wait, until I was ready. These days we are lucky to have a choice. Just a few generations ago, women didn’t have a choice. I think you will know when you are ready. If you feel ready, you enjoy the whole experience and wonder more. It’s a wanted baby, and you weather the tougher times better. I do know you will be awesome parents when you do have children. But do what is right for you. Don’t feel pressured. You need to be happy and relaxed when it’s time. I thought your outfit lovely and comfy! And a wee tiny bit Princess Leia, but in the best way. Thanks for sharing, God bless!

[@violethotston3897]

I was 15 when i found out I was pregnant but always new that I wanted to have kids and I would say that you and your body will know when it’s time to have a baby iv always beloved that your body will not create something that your not ready for x good luck ❤️

[@Purify123]

Ooohhhh, I lOVE those stories where God gives such a knowing in the experience. I live for those stories.

[@nicolebroaddus4225]

I think you should go for it, you'll be a great mother, an Josh will be a great father. Your just over thinking it, if you just stop taking birth control, an then just put it out of your mind, it will come naturally. That's my advice. Much love to you guys.

[@_annaaa_]

Tiffany is such an amazing mum!❤️ And Kass you are so gorgeous 😍

[@paigee__06]

Paislee is my mood!! she is such a lovely character. She is a breath of fresh air.

[@jessicastivers5087]

I think she is already pregnant! She is glowing!! 💖

[@cuppiecupsters]

Kenn and Kass need to get pregnant at the same time!!

[@gfam4415]

It took my 5 years to get pregnant with my second born we were trying and finally stopped trying and it happened it happens when you least expect it. We don’t ever know when is the right time but God does. Now I have 2 wonderful kids.

[@MoneyDropMillions]

Even though your life instantly changes you WILL welcome those changes when you look into the eyes of the precious life you gave birth to.

[@charliemmerson7435]

I don't think there is ever a right time but when that baby is born your mom instincts will kick in. You will be a wonderful mother and anyone can see that by the way you act with your siblings.

[@abbiclements5328]

Your still very young,so don't put so much pressure on yourself!! If it happens, it happens. You will be incredible parents! I'm currently pregnant with my 2nd xx

[@nunederkosrofian7801]

Kass at 9:53 "we wish you a merry yuh yuh" 😂😂😂😂

[@moniqueromero8661]

I’m pregnant with my 2nd boy my first I had at 19 and my 2nd I’m having at 27 it was very hard for me because I was in a very abusive relationship and was basically a single mother I finally left him a month ago so I’m doing this alone again. But I would say you are very lucky to have a good husband by your side and having kids is not easy but it’s the best thing ever. I feel whenever you decided to have baby’s it will be at the exact time God wants you too

[@bossyprincess28]

My husband and I got pregnant with our first when we were 18 so we had to grow up quickly (had him at 19), perfect little angel child. Very smart, always ahead of kids his age, very respectful and listened well. Our second son we had at 24 and I had multiple medical issues after having a c-section with him... He's quite the opposite of our oldest. Colicky baby, he's allergic to pretty much everything except fruits, vegetables and plain meat, and he's behind other kids his age (we baby him so much because of his allergies so it's partly our fault.) Since having him I got my tubes removed completely at 26. I feel sad about it a lot, but I know the 2 sons we have need us and throwing more kids into the mix wouldn't be any good for us. Anyway, no children, pregnancies, births or chapters of life are the same. I envy you for taking your time and really thinking through getting pregnant. That's truly amazing. Also, your mom is pretty great and so wise. I am part of the NEN fam KZbin channel so I enjoy all of your guys' content. Happy Holidays. 🙂

[@SnailWhales]

You have so many years to have a baby. My first was born in the middle of my 20’s and I had tons of experience with kids, always babysitting, siblings and cousins and I was still in shock when I had to take care of a newborn 24/7. When that reality hit me that I was responsible for another life and my life was never going to be the same, it was shocking. It was also amazing and beautiful and hard. Motherhood will transform and change you snd make you grow and you will be amazed at who you become. You’ll see your strengths and the love inside you blossom. It’s important to know that you can be strong through it all and during those difficult times in the beginning know that it won’t last forever. And someday you will miss it! I am sad that I didn’t have more than the kids I have. I wish I had. It goes by way too fast like the older ladies will always tell you! Babies and kids are everything! They are a joy and light up the world. Your mom knows this which is why she’s got so many. If I had had a good marriage and the funds to do what she’s done I would have. It’s what I had dreamed of as a little girl. You have everything ahead of you and everything will happen at the right time. 😊

[@mohaumotsapi3432]

I can't explain how this story touched me started crying as well😂 God bless you guys ♥️

[@levileinen7881]

I was pregnant with twins 3 times and miscared each time with both twins but what i think is you should ait down with josh and yalls doctors and talk about what yall are think about and see what their advice is for you guys. I love yall so so much hope yall have a great day!!

[@familycruz5512]

I think you will be a amazing mom your girl or boy will be so thankful for a mom like you. But if you don't think your ready no pressure do what you want

[@andreacoop5623]

I had a colic baby. She was my first I had at 22. She didn't sleep for 2 years!! I am so thankful for my mom and dad during that time who were the biggest help. Colic babies are in a league of their own for sure, but it's just because you want so bad for them to not be in pain and to help them but you just don't know how. Kass a baby will come when it's meant to be. You will just know when your ready!! No one else can tell you when that time is.

[@Katlyncreations]

Our son is turning one in dec. It took us over a year to get pregnant using ovulation tests and all the things. I was also high risk during the pregnancy. The journey to our son definitely was hard with getting negative tests cycle after cycle and then dealing with the rough pregnancy too. Honestly that all changes the second you hold your baby. It is honestly the best feeling in the world. All the sudden you have this little person🙂. Our son kye was taken from me after about 2 hours and rush to the NICU. I am going to be 100% i still have ptsd from that. We also started trying for a second baby around June and August 29th we suffered a miscarriage at 5 weeks.👼

[@rachelwhiddon5343]

just remember God is with you always no matter what! i think though if you right now are unsure... you are still so young you dont have to rush right now! i wont say anymore other than i hope those fears go away for you. peace over you!

[@AleXxCat01]

I got pregnant at 19 unexpectedly.. had her at 20. She is the light of my life I couldn’t imagine life without her. I don’t think there’s ever a “right” time

[@RubyClark-h5z]

I felt completely the same way when me and my partner when thinking about having a baby. When ever he said he wanted 1 I was like I am not sure yet and the same when I wanted one. But I feel pregnant completely unplanned with our 1st child and although she wasn't planned she was always wanted and we where both over the moon.

[@coraromine7321]

You will be a great mom! I am a grandma to my grand babies 🥰

[@ccre88trixx]

I'm pregnant now. Years ago I was engaged and we had spoken about trying for a baby. I think the trying made it very stressful. That engagement didn't work out. I'm now with a different guy in a much healthier relationship. We were not trying, just not preventing and I feel like it happened at the right exact perfect moment. Unfortunately pregnancy has brought out some people's true colors so I've had to remove a lot of toxic people from my life, but overall it's been a very magical experience. I'm almost 7 months along now and just super excited to start our little family.

[@hannahblanch4659]

Omg you and Josh would make the cutest babies!!

[@_moesha_xx]

Nayvee in the back of the car in the beginning not listening is a solid mood😂

[@liatdotcom]

TAKE YOUR TIME!!! Enjoy your youth and your husband 😍

[@halannaclibbery4972]

Im a mom of two. I got pregnant at age 22 and had my, now 8 year old at 23. and my 2nd at the age of 25. Being a mom is so hard but it is also the best in the world, And I wouldn't change it for anything. You'll have your good days and somedays you'll feel like you failed as a mom, (Then you'll have your kid come up to you and say "I love you mommy, You are the best in the whole wide world") and all your doubt about yourself at that moment will go away. Don't stress about having kids. You are young, you have plenty of time. When the time is right, you'll know. :)

[@DanielaPerez-od6jz]

I’m only 13 but I’ve had advice and seen a lot of videos plus I’m Hispanic so in my family every year like 3 cousins each have a kid and the way I’ve always thought abt it is if h get sick or feel bad I’m always thinking push through 9 months for a lifetime of happiness

[@karenzabigwood7150]

My mum always got me to Wright down Pro`s and Con`s on life choices.

[@violettv7794]

I mean it really depends on what u and josh wants. Really the best thing to do in my opinion is to listen to ur body and you’ll know when your ready. Also make sure ur always open with your feelings about it to josh bc you wanna make sure that josh feels ok about it to

[@beccaannmcghee218]

Omg we're trying to conceived just now and OMG! this makes me sooo broody!! 👶🏻🍼💓

[@torinothdurft7196]

I fell pregnant to my partner at 17 years old, 18 I gave birth. I’ve been with my fiancé for 11 years and now have the most beautiful 9 year old. Since she was one we started trying to have a second 15 miscarriages later and we are still waiting for our rainbow baby. I’m so so greatful to have my little girl. I couldn’t imagine life without her and she has saved me multiple times. 🤍

[@vjannelle723]

My son is a surviving twin too. Went through VTS at 7w6d. Was so sad. First they said it was an unhealthy baby, then within 2 days baby was completely gone. Still miss that little soul every day.

[@charlottedod3594]

Love you Kass Keep going on the great content xx

[@kitea007]

I know everyone says it, but it's true you never will fully be ready to have a baby. I waited for 7 months after getting married to try getting pregnant. We got pregnant after 2 months, but sadly lost our first baby to miscarriage. Afterwards I was afraid to try again and took a break for a few months to heal, and got pregnant again on the first try. It can be very scary and I still wonder sometimes how I'm going to be able to do it, but I am grateful for the life God has given us. It's perfectly okay to wait longer if you don't feel ready, but just know that any blessing you are given by God he will allow you to become prepared in time.

[@Victoriapaige90]

Your mom is wonderful

[@alyssakostiew5072]

You'll make a great mom and Josh would be a great dad!❤

[@milliejasper]

Kass: I'm half and half, I dunno Kass's tiktok: I WANT A BABY!

[@joanlamb544]

My skin literally looks terrible rn, so girl your skin looks great!! Don't feel bad😌😄😄

[@just_gabby9032]

Sorry lass but "crack a mirror get 7 years of bad luck" But same I'm thinking of Christmas to😂🎅⛄❄🎄

[@fruitcake1934]

My brother died and it was really hard and I cry all the time over this and I’m only 11 right now and my brother now is amazing 🌈❤️

[@beck421]

POV: you're watching this video after Kass's miscarriage 😢

[@Filmed.by.Harper]

She’s pregnant now!!!

[@kaileeslife4513]

Your just going to see one day a notification from her saying I'm pregnant that day I will be so excited

[@Peachessssss13]

My mom said that when you are thinking about getting pregnant you'll never be ready if you are waiting to be in the perfect place financially but emotionally it's more difficult that kind of depends on the person for me I know I have really bad anxiety so when there's something I'm not sure if I'm ready for I just kind of have to force myself to do it if it's something I know I want because a lot of times the only thing stopping me from doing something would be the anxiety but obviously that's just me and everyones different so it's kind of up to you when and if you'll get pregnant

[@vsamantha02]

I feel like that sun that was shining extra bright was your siblings. I've never felt such a blessed family then your family. I already have one kid he will be 6 this Monday but I am kinda the way u are about having a sec on if I wanna be pregnant I feel like I had a good pregnancy and him growing up that all the fears u have are what I'm scared of for my next one or even having a miscarriage is scary

[@evarohde8009]

Kass u would be a good mom

[@zamnilovelife]

I'm so excited for this vid!

[@gaming_w_abby8251]

The other day I was watching TikTok compilations and you and ledger came on and it was the trend where you squirt water at the baby and as soon as I saw you guys i had a huge smile on my face

[@theresamcclure539]

Don’t rush it…you can’t send the baby back 😉🥰 it’ll happen when it’s meant too..gods timing is perfect ❤️❤️❤️

[@chaoshome34]

There are so many ways to prepare your body and teas and vitamins to take to help with all the pregnancy symptoms!

[@sheatsjennifer]

You will be a Great MOM👶👶👶👶👶👶👨‍👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧

[@candacemoore1194]

My advise to ladies thinking about becoming pregnant is it is one of the most amazing thing in the world that changes your life completely. I always say live your life don’t rush and when the time is right you will know! You are young!! Enjoy the journey!

[@natasha-leecollins8548]

I literally dreamt last night that we were both pregnant together, a month a part. ❤

[@lindseymcmonigal9890]

kass u look beautiful with or without makeup!! i love the natural look!!

[@kailinng1710]

who else is watching this when kass just got pregnant and then had a misscarraige? no one? just me? i feel so bad for kass tho

[@alexisla4323]

I am

[@briellerobertson386]

i’m crying u guys are too perfect 😭😭❤️❤️

[@emmap6400]

i love these long vlogs!!

[@Momof8upsolate]

Mom of 6 kids, wasn't sick at all during pregnancy, and my youngest sweet baby (now 3) had severe reflux and cried for 10-12 hrs a day for almost 4 months. Biggest advice I have is always always trust your mom gut, accept help when its available (even if it's a meal or a shower) and make sure to make time for your marriage!!!!

[@Ellie-l8z]

Love y kass we are supporting u I LOVE U SOOOO MUCH

[@jemionmars1561]

When you said pregnancy Preslees face lot up and she looked over the seat lol 😆

[@Yoongiwifie]

You look amazing the outfit is stunning!

[@eve_lou]

Kass! You're beautiful! - And YES PLEASE BABY!!! My older brother was a twin and my mom miscarried only his twin.

[@calmaschamomile1252]

Whenever *you* personally feel ready. While it is important to discuss these things with your partner and they will be a part of this journey, you will be the one carrying the child and likely doing a lot of rearing. You are so young! Do things you’ve always wanted to do or try first because once a child is in the equation, you may have less time to do those things! Do a LOT of research and reading about pregnancy and experiences from mothers. Pray on things too.

[@nataliewindsorbaines8012]

Hi kass I love ur vids! Ur a great older sister!

[@elainedennison6700]

hi kass my name is olivia you dont need to go to fast just take it slowly as you can dont forget it will be pain but on bright side it will be the best thing you had in your life trust me im giving you advice but you can have your own choices

[@elizabethsczepanik7353]

I love that brown outfit girl! Your siblings are just being siblings 🤣

[@angelroman1923]

idk i laught when Kass broke the mirror but i felled bad i hope your leg is better

[@mollybevan9580]

i love kass and the kids

[@livxoxo1083]

Who's watching this after she announced were losing our baby 😭😭

[@chlo..shorts]

Me😭😭😭

[@shae.011]

me 😭

[@syniahthomas977]

Ugg slipper's are the freaking best,😍

[@lexiepoo4730]

The twin story my mum can relate it happened with my brother I would of had 2 brothers I’m so sorry to here that x

[@erinstiner]

you'd be a great mom! and you'd have a lot of babysitters! xD

[@graceishere4563]

U should definitely start trying even if something happens just look back at what u said in this vid

[@karanlancaster8482]

I’ve thought the same way but u will love it and u don’t know how long it will take to get pregnant it could take u a month or it take a year