PREGNANT WITH OUR 8TH BABY AND OUR OB DOCTOR REFUSED TO TAKE US & DISMISSED US FROM THEIR PRACTICE🥺

Hey Family, we decided to share this video to give you insight on how the healthcare system can be unsupportive, especially in the black maternal health rate. 🥺 Unfortunately, I was dismissed from the Ascension, St. Vincent Riverside Family Medicine Center in Jacksonville Florida because I decided to have a home birth. This medical facility refused to care for me during this pregnancy because I went against their systematic approach to healthcare. As I wanted to take more of an autonomous approach to my healthcare and my pregnancy, I realized that not every medical facility is supportive of that. I now choose to give birth at home, and this will be my third time having this experience at home and it has been liberating! Never be afraid to try something different and take autonomy over your own life and healthcare experience.
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[@typrayerinspiration]

God know best!!! That doctor’s rejection is your protection 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@vibelikehers6630]

Amen❤

[@thehenryfamily_]

Amen!! This is sooo true!❤

[@just6564]

Amen

[@dianeross4522]

You beat me to it. Absolutely.

[@brittanisteward218]

Whewww a WORD!!!❤❤1

[@msmhamilton87]

Dropping you from their practice is a blessing. You don't want anyone caring for you/baby who doesn 't want you to have children in the first place. AT HIME BIRTH WITH YOUR OWN💞💞..

[@thehenryfamily_]

Amen!!! Sis, I didn’t think it was a blessing at first, but now I am now confident it was!🙌🏽

[@sonyadupree5296]

I agree

[@cduncan9491]

Absolutely! ❤

[@gatesfamily3470]

Indeed 🙏🏾

[@tracydavis1716]

First of all let me say how much I love 💕 you guys!!! Thank God for Jesus!! You all keep doing what you’re doing, y’all are the best!!🌹💜🌹

[@flesh8595]

As a single black woman with no children. Thank you we need more videos like this !!!!! Thank you both

[@madeofhonor9562]

"When you don't know what to stand for, you fall for everything..." Word! So spot-on and true.

[@lydiaphillips7961]

Amen 😊

[@dawnwalker716]

The fact that your husband is always present is a BEAUTIFUL thing!!

[@dawnwalker716]

You’re not seen as an unattached black woman. And how dare you NOT be on public assistance! They have labeled as an ABW-Angry Black Woman because you’re smart enough to speak your rights!! GOOD FOR YOU SISTER GIRL!!!

[@TDS621]

HIGH VALUE MAN 🎉

[@leslieburleson1631]

​@TDS621 A high value man is a man who allows himself to be led by the Lord and a man of that caliber will attract whatever he needs and wants.. But the Lord 1st always❤

[@TDS621]

@@leslieburleson1631 Why the feedback? I was just making a comment.

[@latonyatanner7578]

They have 8 babies of course he’s present😂

[@lojuriye9269]

Knowing what is going on with Black Maternal/ Infant health in this country. Message to OB: Thank you for dropping our loved ones. We do not need you . We want the Henry's to be safe , loved , and happy. I pray the new office is filled with love and joy . And you and the family are cared for.

[@thehenryfamily_]

Amen!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thank you so much!

[@lojuriye9269]

@@thehenryfamily_ Yall are virtual family . We had our first baby late in life my husband and I both being in our forties . I did so much research about the health care system . I am really praying for you both and the family . Sis keep up posted as much as you feel comfortable.

[@lamalady57]

AMEN! Judge Hatchett lost her daughter -in -love through doctors not listening. Serena Williams almost lost her life due to doctors refusing to take her seriously after the birth of their first child.

[@peggyoneal325]

@@lamalady57, yes, you are so right! We have to keep informing one another Of such act…..

[@chanellovely2836]

I agree in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! Amen&Amen❤❤❤

[@seanjean9677]

The doctor assessed the situation and was not willing to take the risk. I understand! Because if something goes wrong, they will be sued.

[@alexiselle3347]

Period

[@newsworthy2082]

This is against the law. If the doctor takes public assistance and turns anyone away they can be reported. I know because I had to report to a doctor for my elderly mother.

[@javaskull88]

My late husband and I used to hug and pray together. I’m so glad to see another couple do it! May God bless your union.

[@terynb4407]

Eh depends on the state​@@newsworthy2082

[@memamcintyre1975]

@@newsworthy2082 It is not against the law. The AMA Code of Ethics allow patients to be discharged. You cannot abandon a patient but you can send a letter with a defined timeframe as to when you will no longer see them. If an emergency occurs prior to that date, you are required to provide emergency medical care. Now if they failed to do that then it would be abandonment. code-medical-ethics.ama-assn.org/sites/amacoedb/files/2022-08/1.1.5.pdf code-medical-ethics.ama-assn.org/ethics-opinions/terminating-patient-physician-relationship

[@gravitatewithlove8386]

The only thing i can say, just the husband praying for you makes a big difference. You will be ok.

[@YesitsShan]

I was dismissed from an OB in the Ascension system in Birmingham, AL for the same reason when I was pregnant with my third baby. I wasn’t mad though, it turned out to be a blessing because come to find out I was having hypoglycemic episodes and my OB hadn’t even addressed it. My lab work revealed my sugar had dropped into the low 40s after the 1hr glucose test, even though I tested after having eaten a huge breakfast. The OB office had never called me to address this critical blood sugar. The midwife that I switched to discovered it when reviewing my records. She was awesome, and if any of you are in the Birmingham area and looking for a midwife, Lauren with Birmingham Midwifery is a fantastic option.

[@thehenryfamily_]

Wow! Thank you for sharing this! I believe that Midwives are absolutely amazing! I will definitely take them over an OB any day! Thank you for sharing this again.

[@just6564]

Wow unbelievable no ethics anymore 🙄

[@amaragrace94]

I'm not even married yet, but I've already decided that as long as I'm not a high risk pregnancy, I will be delivering with a midwife at home or a birthing center. What hospitals charge for deliveries is actually insane.

[@lamalady57]

As a type 2 diabetic, dropping below 70 is unsafe dropping below 50 is DANGEROUS ‼️‼️I’m thankful your midwife read the notes and made you aware. I’m also thankful she is doing something about it. 👏👏👏👏

[@__A_A]

Hello from Birmingham friend! I’ll be sure I share this information!

[@ShibiviaDempress]

As a first time mom, I chose not to deliver at a hospital. After researching the hospital system etc, I dropped my OB at 28 weeks and hired a Midwife team and a doula. Last October I had a beautiful natural birth and delivered a healthy baby. Thank you for using your platform to help spread awareness. Giving birth is not an illness. The hospitals treat it as if it is.

[@summerjohn5110]

Praise God🙌

[@marilynjohnson6298]

That Part!!!!!!

[@Im.A.Potatoe]

Who said it was? Yall say anything

[@audreyyy...5967]

As a RN myself I am sooo happy that you guys see the truth about healthcare ...keep strong eat well and continue to pray and be at peace you got this! I became a nurse thinking I would actually get to help all I see is procedures and systems nothing of sense

[@fynaskanb]

I agree. It’s no longer about healthcare, it’s all about the MONEY! It’s definitely a Business now.

[@jeni2114]

This is so true

[@kimkat1577]

You are been naive

[@annmarieknapp]

Hello, this is America. It's always been about the money. The doctor can say no.

[@sassyd8738]

I agree and it is becoming more and more about money and less about the patient care and help

[@deenex]

From a medical perspective, I would be so honest, I wouldn’t feel comfortable taking you in either. No one should be denied care but I would most definitely refer to someone else. Like you have stated multiple times, it’s your decision to have children and God has enormously blessed you but with them being so close in age, your body not “fully” medically healed and other complications that may arise, I would simply not have the courage. God bless you and yours💕

[@vodkawarr7335]

Deenex, I agree with you...

[@marilynjohnson6298]

My grandmother had 11 without a Dr and just with a midwife and all of them are less than 2 yrs apart.

[@deenex]

@@marilynjohnson6298 again each to their own and every one discerns differently but it’s such a risk. I would not encourage it at all

[@cjdiaries7722]

Agreed I’d be scared to have another that close after the first 2

[@destinybound1988]

If God thought it was an issue, he would not have made our bodies to create babies the way he did. There are women everywhere who have babies “back to back” who are healthy and don’t die in the process.

[@jacqulynwatkins4492]

I am a black woman , Christian, and a retired nurse who does not do traditional Western medicine because I agree that it's big money business. But when more than one person is involved in your care, there is a higher propensity for legal implications and I would have done the same thing. As a nurse I never allowed any other nurse to give my patients any medication even if I was on my break because I never wanted to be held accountable for someone else's mistake . It's called CYA to prevent from being sued. Trust me it wasn't because you're black it's because their attorneys advised against it. Trust me. .

[@elishar.lockhart1076]

Facts!!!

[@kanishapickett8548]

Hello I’m a nurse as well pregnant with my 8th baby. In each pregnancy my children would always measure on the smaller growth percentile before and after they were born. Today i had an ultrasound and for the second time the NP came in to the room to yet again remind me how small my baby is. Mind you i had to take off work to go to this appointment because I’m a school Nurse working the same hours that the clinics are open. So i responded to her saying ma’am this is nothing new everyone of my babies have been smaller than others. My biggest baby was 5lbs 12 oz. And my smallest was 4lbs 9 oz. So today i was informed they want to do two Non Stress Tests a week an Ultrasound weekly and that’s not including a now weekly OB Appt. All of this they want to do just in case and they use the terms preventive and it just seems they do this for extra money. We have private and public insurance. Also i was induced with the last baby because of my BP which was fine but this time i did a lifestyle and diet change to overcome that and now that my BP is better with no need for medicine, i feel they just finding something to bill me on. Do you think i should cancel the NST? Because they told me the babies blood flow and fluid was great so i don’t see the point in coming in two to three times a week.

[@Klgray7373]

@@kanishapickett8548one as a nurse you should know better to ask HERE if you should. However it sounds like your Medical team Is doing what they should. Next YOU decide your steps but keep in mind if the outcome is not as good as your other pregnancies. Would you regret not following their request for care????

[@alisonsmith77]

@@kanishapickett8548 I’m a physician. They are following the ACOG protocol for underwent babies. There is little to no extra money in for a noninvasive non stress test but they will lose money if not done b/c to your insurance company that looks like a “gap of care.” Basically, it looks like your doctor did not provide acceptable standard of care so the insurance will refuse to pay for much of anything regarding your care. It sucks but that’s the way it is. Insurance companies control patient care.

[@quannadevore-vk3yk]

⁠@@kanishapickett8548 God bless you Kanisha. You know your body, it’s sad how so many places have become about the dollar and not listening to their patients. I’m looking for an Ob office right now for the same reasons. I hope that you pray about it and follow your heart, sounds like you know what you need to do. ❤❤❤❤❤GOD BLESS YOU HENRYS as well. It’s a business, it’s hard finding doctors that care. I remember when you give birth you’re in the hospital 3-4 days now, they getting you out the door in 24 hrs😢😢😢be safe and keeping supporting each other. Keep God first❤

[@user-il9zj4pg8s]

But my opinion is, if you made the decision to deliver at home. The honors are on you to find out howbto go about it. That's not your OBGYN's job nor the hospital to provide you with that information at all. Whether that is their competition or not. You have to figure out what you are gonna do and what you need to do to deliver your baby if you not gonna use the services of the hospital.

[@CosmicInternalPeace]

I went through the same thing 2 years ago with my son, but I received a letter that my Doctor left the practice. I refused, the Glucose test, and they kept calling me to come take the test. They told me I was difficult and would give me nasty looks. Then they tried to talking me into a C-section, and I refused. To be honest, it was so exhausting to stand my ground. Then I realized this is spiritual warfare, just to stand my ground. Finally a light bulb went off, and I decided to do home birth. Home birth, was the best experience ever! 🙏🏽 My body did all the work and the recovery was super fast. We prayed and it was so peaceful and relaxing! Be blessed Henry's ❤

[@Joyjoy12149]

I understand you but as health care providers they have a legal duty to take care of you and make sure that your health is ok while pregnant

[@CosmicInternalPeace]

@@Joyjoy12149 I am a mother of 5. I am a vegetarian, I work out. No drugs or alcohol I believe in holistic health. When you go into the hospital to give birth, they have your body positioned wrong to deliver. They do not take into consideration the different body positions that will allow your body to release the baby with ease. I don't take epidural, it causes harm to your body and nervous system over time. My Sister is a Nurse Practitioner and strongly advise me to give birth at home. The Midwife was so intuitive all she did was talked my husband and I through the delivery process to keep me calm and relaxed. My Husband helped me to reposition my body to the most comfortable position, and immediately my Son came. The health care system structure is horrible in the US. It is a business like Mrs. Henry Stated! My Husband and I have our own legal responsibilities for our family to make the best health advancement decisions. The Health Care System doesn't make my decisions.

[@kmeeks92987]

Why did you refuse the glucose test?

[@Christinesworldspice]

@@CosmicInternalPeaceI love this!! ❤❤❤

[@angelac.2384]

​@kmeeks92987 I wanted to refuse the glucose test but then my sister explained the importance of it and I took it

[@86JJay]

Respectfully with the rates of maternal and neonatal morbidity, especially within ethnic minority groups like us are alarming. The more babies you have the harder your uterus will have to work to contract after birth (hence more severe cramping after each baby) This increases the chances of postpartum haemorrhage (PPH) and associated risk ie heart disease. This risk increases significantly after 5 births. Regarding post dates the risk of placental insufficiency (placental function starts to decrease) increases significantly. Induction also increases the risk of PPH. Although it’s inconvenient, try not to take it personally. They’re protecting their liability. Especially in a country where healthcare is so expensive. I know God will provide all your needs. (Student midwife in 🇬🇧) God bless

[@Pj287.]

@@simoncat well said

[@Nattaferg]

100%. Listening to them, it is very clear that despite having gone through so many pregnancies, they are woefully ignorant of the risks esp. with the increasing numbers of pregnancies. She is balking at the doctors wanting to do ultrasounds, draw blood and check for STDs (one of which she can't even properly pronounce the name). I think it is irresponsible to have so many children in this day and age.

[@sandrabowman8935]

Praying God’s protection over you and your baby. May He bless you and your beautiful family. I love you guys. 🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@livingbeyondvision4863]

Now THAT is a real husband and a real wife! Thank you for this informative video.

[@maryhudson8643]

The doctors and nurses have to protect themselves, my friend didn't know that her husband gave her HIV and by testing her is how she found out, so let them do those tests.

[@themagicians1122]

Say IT AGAIN. PLEASE

[@themagicians1122]

Say, LET THEM DO THEIR JOB

[@blackredwhiteandblue1440]

As a mom, grandmother, and RN( former L&D nurse). Be glad you were booted… if I knew what I now know 40 years later I would have had all home births with midwives and please no vaccines. Especially before 6 years old. You will be blessed… love your family and you two as a couple we pray for you all and thank you for sharing ❤

[@thehenryfamily_]

Thank you so much for sharing this information! We love you back!❤

[@blackredwhiteandblue1440]

@@thehenryfamily_ Also I was hoping for twins😂😂

[@linglang7322]

Question: Don't we have to get the children vaccinated ad long as they are a citizen or have a birth certificate and/or social security number? I hope I explained that correctly. I don't know much about it so my apologies.

[@blackredwhiteandblue1440]

@@linglang7322 Nope again you have choices and rights

[@taneahumphrey7918]

​@linglang7322 You do not have to get your child vaccinated at anytime not even for school. Just like the Henry family said systematic they will push all protocols no matter if they are good for you or not.. its called hospital protocols. Or medical protocols most practices follow them to the letter instead of listening to the patients. Holistic approach is the best at all times because that approach caters to the healing of the issue instead of a drug that masks the problem.. hope that helps.. 🙏

[@nicolesnow3467]

I had an unplanned home birth & when the EMT delivered my daughter and I to the hospital, they treated me as if I did something wrong. I also had both of my children unmedicated and was treated unjustly. The healthcare industry is trained to follow a system & routine. Anything that goes against that “routine” makes them feel unprepared and threatened. But then there’s GOD, who is in control of it all 😊🤍💚

[@neshkatama9083]

Yes God never disappoint 🙏

[@mickiesadventures]

This need to go viral so people can learn about this practice and the facility! This is unfair, maybe if they lose more patients they will change their ways!! This is not the way to treat people!

[@aspiringtoinspire_with_KW]

Totally agree

[@RoyalBlueMoonRiviera]

🪬🌟✨✨✨🌟🪬

[@tayascahbudget2fire118]

Thank you both for sharing 😊 God bless you all. ❤

[@tamikabrown8539]

Rejection is God's protection. Much love to y'all ❤

[@BossLadeeTee-LilJeremyJ]

Amen💃🏽🙌🏽👏🏽🙏🏽

[@ms.nebraska]

I was just saying this today!!!

[@ajoo6907]

In the words of my late Nana.." out of every seeming negative experience something positive is born." Step out on faith and thank God they dropped you..he knows best and he's protecting you from something.

[@seanjean9677]

These doctor’s take risks every time they deliver. If some happens, they get sued! Cudos to the doctor for protecting themselves.

[@zshzanTila]

it doesn't seem like they dismissed her in order to avoid a high risk situation but rather they a) the MD doesn't value patient input. it's his way or the highway aka God complex b) they didn't wanna do all the prenatal care only for her to go to a midwife for birthing bc that's the most costly (💲💰) part.

[@geminienergy]

@@zshzanTila but how would the doctor get sued if she was going to give birth at home to a midwife?

[@helena3631]

doctors like the hospital so they can control the environment if the baby’s heart drops or life event happen theirs no crash chart,no OR on hand … as a nurse I see both sides she has had multiple births so she’s a great candidate I don’t know her medical history but 7 live births pregnancies is great I don’t know her medical history…the south has horrible healthcare I don’t even use my license in Florida the pay is so low and they work you like a slave … Also OB aka child birth it’s high risk for the doctor and patient malpractice is thru the roof… also we test for STDs throughly out pregnancy and do sonograms at key points during pregnancy so women find out they have herpes 2 and chlamidya and HIV since that’s standard married men cheat the most marriage doesn’t stop the man from having sex with other women /men ..also if your celibate we still test for stds because many are talking about vaginal intercourse but many do anal or oral which you can get stds from peoples version of celibate is different.. birth in general is high risk and birth records are valid for 18 years I vaguely remember so the doctor can get sued at anytime during that time if the parents think the child is disabled not from genetics that’s why doctors now so medicine based they are trying to mitigate the risk.. I see both sides of this

[@zshzanTila]

@@geminienergy good point

[@thomasclarrett1918]

RIGHTWHY ARE YOU STILL HAVING BABYS THAT CRAZY

[@chosen-777]

I was dropped by my OB as well with my now 9-year-old son. After 7 miscarriages and getting pregnant after all that trauma, & being told to call if I were to ever become pregnant again. I call only to be told I had been dropped & no longer a patient by phone. No letter, no nothing. Texas is very racially divided. Knowledge is power. If we do have brown Americans who are in these practices, please advocate for each other and help one another !!!! This does not mean that other nations of people will not help, but systematically, the system is designed to be against black healthcare. We love you, Henry's!!!! ❤

[@denisedean2446]

Brown people dont advocate for anyone but their own and Whites. Your husband is a blessed godly man. Glad the Lord restored your marriage.

[@MariaRuiz-wr1qv]

Not only black or brown people, let’s not create victimization, they do the same to white people. No matter what you may think that is a racial thing, it is not. Health care is totally a business, does not matter the color of your skin. I stopped going to a doctors office because every time I would go there he wanted me to do all kinds of tests, and I just ignored the system and stopped going there.

[@jodidavis8369]

You are so right. I'm from NY as well now living in GA and my last pregnancy was stressful due to the poor healthcare compared to NY. I had issues with my Cigna insurance so it delayed my prenatal care until about 7 months pregnant and no one wanted to take me that late in the pregnancy. But I eventually found someone. But......here we go....as soon as i get there the nurse practitioner barely gave her name and starts talking about induction at 39 weeks...mind u i'm only 30 weeks at this point and i have given birth naturally twice before. So after that appointment i decided to go back just for an anatomy scan and never returned. I just showed up at the hospital whilst in labor and a random nice midwife helped me deliver at 39 weeks 6days and i gave birth in about 20 mins. To God be the Glory.

[@divingchicago]

Going to the South is the worst decision for healthcare when coming from the North. As a clinician, never neglect your care. Identify another provider and clinician when your health status change.

[@kimeop123]

I would tell to never to do that again many health doctors and nurses call cps on people for neglecting their prenatal appoints

[@singingforthelordjesusviviane]

I like the way he always look at his wife with love while talking. ❤

[@thomasclarrett1918]

FAKE

[@virgieadejumo6594]

This is so sad. And I live in Jacksonville. I am too old to have kids but my medical facility is exactly the same way. A BUSINESS. They wanted me to come to the doctor monthly. I don’t even have any medical issues. I asked my doctor why I had to come monthly and she said it’s for WELLNESS. Can you imagine going to the doctor monthly. Sad, sad, sad.

[@NunyaBiznes-yn8co]

Wow they tried it! 😷😏

[@virgieadejumo6594]

@@NunyaBiznes-yn8co But it didn’t work. They better get someone else to play their BUSINESS games, cause I am not the one.

[@dbrum1119]

As a healthcare professional, you are right on the nose. Please know your rights and the power you hold. You guys are steps ahead and I love it. Please continue the path.. thank you for sharing this with people who may not know.

[@TaraShaunte]

I did not tell the dr I was having a home birth. I did all my prenatal care with them and decided I would not go to hospital once in labor. Boom.

[@ruthreddick8369]

Smart!!❤

[@GraceCHenry]

That's what I plan on doing. Get all of my necessary care and make sure everything is okay with baby. Then do a home birth.

[@sassyd8738]

Best way especially is anything goes wrong you still have that Option

[@sabasahlu5417]

did they charge you a fee or anything for not showing up

[@BOUJEE_ONABUDGET]

I FEEL BAD FOR FAMILIES THAT HAVE DOCTORS THAT DON’T CARE ABOUT THEM. I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND EVERY DOCTOR AND MIDWIVES I HAD ALWAYS RESPECTED MY DECISIONS AND CHOICES. I PRAY EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR YOU AND BABY.

[@ladybashley5017]

So studying insurance information, coding and billing..everything..procedure or test is a code that must go in your file to the insurance carrier. When you refuse certain procedures it is actually written as non- compliance because the insurance cannot be billed and the provider cannot be paid. And yes you will be dropped by the provider.

[@SueDeNym08]

It's not non-compliance to decline a diagnostic test or preventative procedure. Non-compliance is supposed to be used when a patient is already on a course of treatment and fails to properly follow the prescribed treatment. It's deviation from a treatment to which they previously consented. Labeling a patient who exercises their right to informed consent (including non-consent) as non-compliant is a coercive practice and deprives patients of their rights.

[@beccafitz22]

After working in healthcare for years, yes it’s necessary. Things change with each pregnancy. It’s important to remember not everyone knows when the have a STI, not everyone is honest about their drug & alcohol use, & things like HIV status are important to know during pregnancy/labor/delivery. Not every provider feels comfortable being legally responsible for a woman birthing at home & not all births (home births included) go as planned or without incident. I’m all for home births but, if something goes wrong…then what? A doula or midwife may not be able to address that situation. Do what you want but, don’t be so stuck on “all natural no medication” that you unwittingly harm yourself or your baby. There is no necessity to have pain normal or not. Not everyone is built the same. You can endure…others can’t & that makes them no less a woman/mother than someone who can. Of course it’s a business?!?! Should it be free? Does it cost too much? Yes, but nothing in life (and certainly delivering a life) is free. The reason insurance companies don’t cover midwifery is because when /if something goes wrong…people want to sue for unheard of amounts! Continuity of care is healthy. Y’all said “history” as for why you didn’t need all of the labs & tests. True, I would tell all of my patients their partners are an extension of them, their wants, needs, & expectations. Birth plans are great to have as a template for the delivery HOWEVER, they rarely happen as planned. It’s called life 🤷🏽‍♀️😩🤗. It’s not solely because you challenged them. Please remember doctors/hospitals are legally required to perform certain test/procedures. They will lose their jobs if they treat you different. Antoine, diabetes DOES NOT always work like that. Please use your voice but remember, your choice means you’re responsible for the outcome. Be healthy & blessed everyone.

[@elishar.lockhart1076]

Well said!!! So true !!! It’s funny how people will rip apart fees for something as important as health care but will not think twice for the designer items and other nonsense that they will spend thousands on without second thought. Yes advocate for yourself but arm yourself with knowledge first.

[@vrhowa]

This is very informative information. It’s important to know that doctor’s have guidelines to follow when it comes to their job. No doctor will be put in a situation that compromise himself or his patient. It’s important to know your health because one mistake could cost a person their life. I experience this with a family member and she was as healthy as they come. But doing childbirth she developed an hematoma and her doctor didn’t know. My niece developed a fever so high that the nurses couldn’t get it down. Eventually, the nurse got ice packs and place them on my niece. I remember Serena the tennis player had a hematoma when she was pregnant. I had already told my niece mother and father what was going on. The next morning the doctor had to do emergency surgery to remove the hematoma from the abdomen and use a vacuum to suction the rest of the blood out. This almost cost my niece her life. I was there the whole time to educate the nurses and the doctor. I was my niece advocate and I knew what was happening when she first turn sick after giving birth to her first child. This was over 3 years ago this year.

[@lollybones]

Thank you.

[@tenishacarter5449]

I know someone who decided he wanted to to deliver his baby at home. Well, the baby became stuck in the birth canal and both baby and mother died. She hemorrhage and bled to death. Yes, he was very religious and felt that this was the route he wanted to go even though she was high risk. I agree with wanting to have control over your birthing experience, but some tests and precautions are necessary.

[@beccafitz22]

@@vrhowa thank you & I’m happy you could be there for your niece & everything turned out OK.

[@melissaforrest8917]

Teach us girl this is information that we, us have never heard treated like we are robots or just a number. May God strengthen you both during your journey thank you for being obedient to our Father.

[@introvertedqueen9759]

I work for a MFM (Maternal Fetal Medicine) here in Jax, FL. we pretty much treat high risk pregnant patients and I agree with everything you’re saying. You have a right to say what you want your care to look during this journey. So many gems in this video. Thank you guys for being obedient.

[@donnadarity4001]

Some tests are required for quality care. Some people are not truthful, and I have seen babies be born with STDs. The mother could have been treated prior to the delivery. You are correct; patients have a choice. It is correct that a baby can be delivered 2 weeks before or 2 weeks after the due date. It is not only a business, but the safety of the mother and baby should be the front and center focus. You and your husband are informed and that is really a blessing. I think that hospital is a private facility. Health care in the US is expensive compared to other developed countries. This practice doesn't want to take the liability of something happened with a home delivery, since this is not part of their practice.

[@shathomas564]

I am so Thankful🙏 your addressing this! My son is 5 months and I had to fight tooth and nail for what I wanted and my husband's presence made a world of difference. If you show up by yourself their gonna treat you like a single mother and pressure you into things you don't want done. OB tried to force an induction and the next appointment when my husband came she went over my options with a different tone. These people a trip!

[@thehenryfamily_]

See! That’s so crazy!

[@35yrsanurse10]

OB GYN Drs have to carry expensive malpractice insurance and usually every birth is liable until age 18. Some states costs of insurance very high. Many OB docs will not accept patients who are more than 20 wks because they don’t know the medical history of the patient or pregnancy. So many uninsured deliver enroute or in the ER because they are followed by no one. OBGYNs have guidelines and testing they will attempt to follow to decrease the chances of being sued because a child has developed with medical issues and medical bills. The parents file a lawsuit stating they would have terminated the pregnancy had they KNOWN defects were present so docs order and recommend many tests.. Some Drs just quit the OB part eventually make less money , avoid the insurance costs and just stick to the GYN or Gynecological practice. ❤️

[@alisonsmith77]

I’m a physician and hope to clear a few things up. There are a lot of things at play here. 1. If a doctor starts to see you as a patient, they are legally obligated to follow you until birth and are responsible if something goes wrong. Say for instance, something abnormal shows up on your lab work, screening test, or you develop a complication… that physician is now responsible for you and baby. 2. Continuity of care is important to all physicians b/c not all providers are created equally, unfortunately. There is a spectrum of “acceptable care” which gives doctors some lead way in how they run their practice. If I’m seeing you, I know what has and hasn’t been done. I also know you as a patient and can somewhat anticipate your needs and desires. Hate to say it, but there are incompetent doctors and no one wants to work behind a shitty doctor. So seeing one person gives the doctor confidence in the care you’ve received. 3. It is a woman’s choice to have a home birth but she must find a practitioner. Usually, on her own b/c as medical doctors we do not recommend home births. That why we also don’t do them. So legally, an OB would not refer a patient to undergo a treatment that is not medically recommended by our boarding agency. 4. There is a “trust but verify” model used in medicine. Many of the test we do are also required by your insurance company. There are metrics we as physicians have to meet that tells insurance companies we are providing “high value care.” So altho we may trust you when you say you don’t need HIV and other testing… our office gets dinged for not doing it b/c it looks like we aren’t doing the right thing by our patients. In a sense, it is a business but it isn’t a business promoted by doctors. Insurance companies have a lot to say when it comes to actual patient care. This is b/c they have big time lawyers advocating for them on Capitol Hill. Insurance companies find anyway not yo pay doctors these days. They will send “gap of care” letters letting us know that we didn’t do a certain test or procedure and give us a timeframe to get it done before they deduct payment. 5. Midwives are cheaper b/c most insurances won’t pay for their services b/c it’s not recommended as safe. So they have to make it feasible for patients to pay out of pocket. There are some that accept insurance but they typically deliver at hospitals where there is always an OB available in the event of an emergency. I’m not aware of any insurance company in the US that will pay for a home birth. 6. I’m all for your right to choose your delivery method. Just wanted to give more insight as to why things are the way they are. Blessing to you and your family. I pray you have a safe, uncomplicated pregnancy, birth, and recovery ❤️

[@steelwing154]

Thank you for explaining things from a doctor's perspective. It's good to hear both sides and provides more clarity on the situation.

[@elishar.lockhart1076]

Well said!!! I understand this family’s concerns but I have worked in healthcare for over 25 yrs and as I was watching I was cringing because this is the part that needed to be explained.

[@alisonsmith77]

@@steelwing154 thank you for reading and understanding. Trust me, it’s very frustrating for doctors b/c we are not making all these rules and regulations but b/c we are the face of medicine it makes us appear to be the bad guy.

[@alisonsmith77]

@@elishar.lockhart1076 yes, I usually don’t comment but doctors get such a bad rep when in reality it isn’t us. It’s the pharmaceutical and insurance companies. I sit on the state legislature fighting for the ability to do what’s best for my patients without having to answer to non-medical professionals (aka big pharma and insurance). But my boarding agency follows the “health shouldn’t be a business” philosophy which limits what we can do on capital hill. Meanwhile, insurance companies and big pharm follow the “healthcare is a business” model. They pay lawyers top dollar to lobby on their behalf. While most medical boarding agencies refuse to allow lobbyist for medical doctors. Again, thank you for reading and understanding ❤️ Doctors fight tirelessly for our patients. We are just outnumbered and our voices mean nothing.

[@SoulSearch11110]

This information is so helpful, thank you for sharing.

[@memamcintyre1975]

Simvia, I am a black woman, a retired physician, mother to 4 grown children, 4 grandchildren. My specialty is/was Preventive Medicine. I am praying you have a healthy pregnancy and birth. I do need you to understand that not all healthcare is systematic and that certain things being done are important. Every pregnancy is not the same, as every pregnant woman is not the same. Understand that you can have absolutely no problems with prior pregnancies for one to differ completely. For me, it was my 4th and last one. All of mine were in the hospital and natural. The glucose test is something I would not pass up. Make sure urines are checked. I pray God holds you close and pray a protection over you and your family.

[@CBtalks8554]

I am a difficult Black women to the point that the Dr I see will now say. Do you to want to research this first and I say yes before you write that script. I am so Proud of you guy's and how you are allowing God to Direct Your Path in exposing this systemic Abuse in these arenas. Blessings Abound Henry Family😊❤❤😊

[@rachelg6413]

Thank you for sharing!!! I just had my baby and the doctor said she's going to take blood for testing, my husband asked some basic questions ... Then she said it was MANDATORY BY THE STATE, my husband then said, that's no problem, can we see some sort of document stating that. No documents were ever presented. Meaning, the doctor lied to us, and we didn't see that doctor since!

[@wendydiamond1683]

Not just your Beloved Husband…but your “Kickstand!!” Yazzz… support and love for his Queen ❤ I’m blessed by his empathetic spirit 🙏🏽💯❤️‍🔥

[@rainalove9828]

Thank you for bringing your situation to the light because it's happening too often to too many people. You are helping other who are going through the same situation.

[@brit1908]

Speaking as a health care professional, some of those things are done systematically simply because it has to be. We have had women come in with a discharge and swear up and down that they are not sexually active but test positive for pregnancy. A woman will say that she is married in a monogamous relationship but test positive for an STD. So yes, these tests are ran on every pregnant woman because the ultimate goal is to bring a safe and healthy baby into the world and it starts by making sure that mom is healthy. So if she has any of thse things that was tested for, she can get treated for it.

[@janalew4746]

Exactly she’d be mad if a doctor didn’t test and she had an std passed to her baby or they didn’t run drug test and her baby come out intellectually impaired and then turn around and try to sue the doctor blaming them when it was her fault. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jazzo720]

Yea it’s all i liability, I’m pregnant 32 weeks and in the beginning I missed two appointments and they wanted to discontinue to see me because of that reason right here^ the nurse told me stories where woman tried to sue because of “problems” but they weren’t even going to the dr for there proper check ups

[@naomizulu7974]

u r correct,this couple tho...

[@djidjine5082]

I agree and I’m thankful for those test. My son’s father cheated and had unprotected sex with someone else and I had no idea that I had and STD until I was tested for it. You just never know.

[@blackdiamond231]

Well said. It would be a disservice NOT to do these tests. The Doc prob doesn’t want to have them sign a whole bunch of AMA’s and avoid a potential lawsuit.

[@dannic1465]

We're here for you a 3rd time!! Im not surprised that they refused care. Better them to refuse the care rather than malpractice. I love you guys. Stay amazingly blessed. All is well!🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💐👏🏽🎊👶

[@TT-cu7ze]

Precious couple! Thank you God for the blessings. A quiver FULL! Protect her and baby.

[@cha_young]

This is a blessing in disguise!!! 👏🏾 🙌🏾 You don't need to be under their care if they're going to act like it's not your choice and your body!

[@lessiejulien]

I was also dismissed as a patient after having my youngest 6 years ago because I declined a c-section. They kept telling me that he would be 10 lbs and it would be a risk to have him vaginally. I told them no and that I wanted to try to push. Lo and behold, he was only born at 8 lbs and I was able to deliver him safely. Before my 6 weeks follow-up, I received a letter in the mail that I was dismissed from all of their practices. Thank you for bringing awareness. God bless you and your family during this journey!

[@thehenryfamily_]

Oh my goodness!😔 That’s terrible sis. I apologize that this happened to you. I am so grateful to hear that you’ve advocated for yourself and health.

[@lindahatcher1869]

I got absolute chills listening to your testimony, because of the news reports deaths of Black women in the hospital after delivery babies- including television's Judge Hatchett's daughter-in-law. Glad you are getting this information out there.

[@t.lunaimhotepmdiv135]

I love that this beautiful black family is talking about this! I literally found your channel with the short of you giving birth at home. You all are aware and educated on the truth about birth! Love it! - Sistah Birth Worker

[@AJHR77]

This was such an important message. It was nice to hear from both perspectives. I tell you Rejection is God's protection!

[@TheCorala]

Women are not machines and the Lord gives us the ability to conceive butt the Lord gives us wisdom - it is taxing on a womb. It takes 9 mos for the baby to develop, so after delivery the womb needs “rest” to come back normal. We don’t conceive w our wombs - we carry w our wombs.. smthg called a prolapsed womb (body come down) can result fr the stress on the womb. Some women can take it but can be hard on the body for others. Wombs need a rest - maybe some doctors are aware and don’t want the risk. May this mother and family be safe and healthy. Happy delivery mother . May the Lord keep yu and baby safe.

[@janetbishop120]

Move on Mr and Mrs Henry. He is guiding your footsteps ❤

[@thehenryfamily_]

Amen! Thank you!

[@aced.7333]

Knowledge is freedom. Thank you for sharing! Im grateful you had options available and spreading the word. Its unfortunate you had this experience during this wonderful time. The Henrys are inspiring and beautiful. Thank you!!

[@dorethapowell5723]

Love a praying couple, trusting God to carry you through this upheaval, knowing He is the “GREAT PHYSICIAN”

[@schaunagaye33]

Blood works are routine for antenatal care regardless of number of pregnancies you have. I understand your take on it being a money making business but in Jamaica where health care is free..... those blood works are routine for each pregnancy. From a doctor's perspective which i am, wanting continuity of care is actually practicing good health care. Its actually best to stay with one person who knows your history, etc. I can't say i fully agree with everything that's being said.

[@CatsaLots]

I haven’t listened to the entire recording, but I read your description. You have to be careful with using your channel to put businesses on blast due to disagreements. I hope you understand your rights and exercise them appropriately. I also hope you understand that patients do not always tell the truth. For example, patients will say they don’t use drugs and if not tested can cause a medical emergency for certain procedures. Maternal care is a partnership. The doctor is responsible for ensuring 2 patients are healthy. If you aren’t comfortable with the doctor, find a new one. I have done so. Also, the doctor must feel they can work with you as a patient. Systems aren’t wrong and sometimes can be unnecessarily inflexible but sometimes those systems exist for a purpose.

[@Mariegracefully]

I fully agree with your comment. Rules are rules procedures are procedures. You can't just say nah I'm good on taking the hiv test to shave the cost of your bill down. People will be at the doctor like they're at an auction or deli being so specific on what they want and don't want. And God forbids someone is on drugs, lie say they aren't and their child have some birth defects. So it's set in place that everyone gets drug and std tests, I don't see an issue. You are blessed Mrs. Henry that yours is faithful but now a days married men are sleeping around the most. I've seen it with my own two eyes. Married Christian men.

[@shannonstokes4691]

Agreed. It’s irresponsible to dog whistle against this practice for her personal reasons. A patient’s freedom of choice does not take away the medical provider’s freedom of choice. Very short-sighted perspective.

[@jenniwilliams3295]

I don't see why anyone who has nothing to hide wouldn't just do the test. Baby everything died peacefully just like get done it's not an inconvenience it's not insulting you I've had it done with all four of my c-sections and I was married.😊

[@difficultl.a.883]

YALL KNOW SHE SLOW!

[@difficultl.a.883]

Any 2 times she gone have 3 infants in pampers, NOT VERY SMART! IF THEY DONT STOP HER SHE WILL HAVE A 9TH 1 WHEN THOS BABY HERE IS ONLY A MONTH OR 2. SAD SICK & TWISTED!

[@SharelLove]

Kudos to you for advocating for your health care. I use this all the time, if there’s something that doesn’t sit right, speak up and know you do not have to accept everything. I will refuse medication in a heartbeat, a procedure that is not necessary, whatever. You’re right, it doesn’t matter what type of insurance you have. Blessings to you and your beautiful family.

[@Moxiemo8]

Thank you for sharing such knowledge. So many people believe their provider's have their best interest and think they truly care when really it's just business.

[@thomasinagarrett]

Your BODY, your RIGHT! I'm glad yall spoke on this topic, because I as a 40 yr old mom of 3 that cannot have anymore kids was told what I could/couldn't do with my birth/pregnancy/body. I wish I had more options during the birth of my 3 children. I hate I didn't get to experience different birth options. Thank yall for helping others. I love yall Henry Family 🦋💜🦋

[@ChantelleLGordon]

8 is new beginnings y’all. Greater things are yet to come

[@sugarspice9307]

I thank God for such a loving couple. Blessings, grace, peace, and mercy to the man of the house, and the entire family. 🙏🏽 🤲🏽

[@theedeevynegoddess]

6:56 you really are good at explaining. Both of you! Thank you for sharing there are many that don’t know this. Y’all are definitely God sent!

[@Ninab-bb6ii]

It was a blessing she dropped you guys sis . Many black women are having their babies at home or home birth centers ❤️. They tried it with my doula but she held her own!!!!

[@katherinejones4249]

That is very serious. Having a baby can be deadly for you and your baby. A hospital setting with proper care is very crucial. I pray something changes this situation for yal.

[@TracyCordero-vv5ky]

I love the flow I love the energy You guys are so inspirational to all of us this is what a healthy loving relationship looks like

[@tavashaholifield5604]

Thank you guys so much for sharing. We the people needed this. 😊

[@user-il9zj4pg8s]

Although they know you history things can change. Its always good to check cuz things can change. But you can refuse but that is just what is done.

[@lovevioletflowers3442]

If that practice isn't set up to accommodate home births, OR if for some reason they don't think that a home birth is appropriate for your particular situation, then it really is best to part ways and look for a different practice. Just as you as the mother have to make a decision about what kind of risks you can live with in terms of your birth plan, the doctor who works with you also has to decide how much mediolegal risk they can live with. The risk level has to be acceptable to both parties; if it's not, then a different practice is in the best interst of both parties. I wish you all the best.

[@SueDeNym08]

Refusing to provide care that is within the scope of the doctor's practice may leave a patient without care. Even temporarily, that is a direct and unnecessary risk to the patient. A more responsible and patient-centered decision would be to continue prenatal care while assisting the patient with a referral and transition into a midwifery practice at a birth center. Doctors who place anything above patient well-being are a risk to their patients.

[@shannonstokes4691]

@lovevioletflowers3442, as a healthcare attorney, I totally agree. Each side has to weigh the pros and cons and analyze what risks they can safely assume.

[@Mrsquick]

I thank God for my self advocacy. It's all thanks to my mother and her 4 sisters, who are all nurses. Fifth aunt just retired from the state I live in. She oversaw state complaints for health care. Thank you for enlightening others.❤

[@twren100]

Love this so much! I choose to seek out alternative types of care when I had my 1st baby 20+ years ago! I was young and on government assistance and didn't know where to start but I researched my options. I thank God that he lead me to my midwife and doula. That experience open my eye to so much about our healthcare system or lack thereof! This video make me happy in so many ways because women , especially women of color or on government assistance can see that they ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE!!! Thank you for sharing!!!!!

[@deondra7848]

You guys are so anointed and beautiful….❤️🙏🏽✝️🤞🏽

[@kjafricalove91]

Systematic STD and drug testing during pregnancy came into play,because we as women have a choice,the unborn child doesn't. I worked in the obgyn and seen plenty of women whom had std's and used heavy drugs. Systematic in this case is heavily needed.

[@xencyp6528]

As long as you’re supporting one another that’s what matters.. this will be my favourite 🤩 baby!

[@yakiniglover8227]

This!!! I am soooooo happy to hear you both sharing your story. Amen! I needed this video. This is exactly why I have decided to become a Doula and and looking into becoming a Nurse Midwife. I have had 5 babaies and each pregnancy had it's own challenges and it was hit and miss with the kind of care I received from each of my OBGYN's....My story will be shared. More stories need to be shared. Keep up the good work!

[@jacqulynwatkins4492]

I see what you are saying, and to an extent you are right but on their defense it is a liability because if something were to happen they could be sued and they are protecting themselves from a lawsuit. If both they and the midwife services are involved in the pregnancy, they don't want to be held liable for anything that may occur and by law they could be because if it were to go before a court of law judgement would not be able to differentiate who is at fault so both parties would be held liable.

[@SelamAlene-ix3zh]

Am watching from ethiopia "I love this family" Lord bless you

[@CHYNALUVRARA]

Sorry to hear about what yall both had to endure! I also was in a situation where my old ob/gyn doctor dismissed me as a patient. The same day I had an appointment and didn't get seen. I was crying and in pain because I had no idea why they would treat me they way they did. I actually went to the emergency room the same night to check on my baby. The devil tends to try to mess with us knowing that we are carrying the Lord's creation. Your baby is gonna be someone special in this world we will need one day! Praying for protection healing and guidance through yall pregnancy!! I found a better doctor and my baby is doing great and is growing in this tummy of mine. God bless you both!!

[@TheSpiritgirl33]

I'm so glad you spoke on this, I'm sorry that happened to you, but its opened my eyes, to alot of things.

[@fionacole6777]

I am sorry that you had to go through that. I do believe that you should have been giving the choice to choose a midwife as you please without regards of what stage of pregnancy that you decide. I think that the medical facility does have to operate as a business in order to cover their overheads. If not, they would not be in existence or provide quality of care. I also believe that it is unreasonable to not allow them to run basic bloodwork and tests to provide you that quality of care. you might have not had gestational diabetes in your previous pregnancy, but it changes in your current. This goes for all other health conditions too. I love watching your channel, and I am excited for your family expanding. keep up the good work

[@Klgray7373]

You can choose your own midwife but an Ob/GYN can NOT refer you to one UNLESS they are affiliated with births IN the hospital

[@lolavarnes9400]

Well if you go somewhere for them to care for you. You should work with them to help you. Everything isnt perfect but alot of ppl come to the doctors office and tell them what to do. Im a healthcare worker. Lets work together but to come somewhere experienced in what you need help with and tell what to do is crazy.

[@Tyking97]

You have a blessed man watching him hold you and praying 🙏🏽 for his wife ❤

[@striving1]

I was dropped by a primary doctor in my 30's who was pushing medication on me. I looked at it as a blessing and got a Doctor who actually cared and ended up going to the gym losing almost 60 pounds and not needing meds because I changed my lifestyle. Sometimes rejection is a blessing.

[@carolfrazier5107]

Praise the Lord! 🙌🏾 Man's rejection is God's protection. Psalms 91

[@marlannakennedy4508]

You both stated using a midwife at end of pregnancy. If you prefer using the midwife, refusing test, refusing medical advise from your doctors. Just use the midwife. It sounds like you are giving the hospital a hard time for no reason.

[@lenitabruno5736]

I also was dropped from my primary care office after my original doctor retired. They told me that my doctor was no longer there and no doctor there in that office "was going to see me." So devastating!

[@user-pe6ff9jz6r]

I am very proud of you all! I see this all the time! Thank God you all are not going along just to get along!!

[@belight9562]

May our Heavenly Father cover you guys family

[@Sunlite16]

Samvia Hubbie is your kickstand….you can lean on the head of the household (your King)👑 Praise God🙌🏽

[@bettynubenube6300]

I just love how you pray for your wife😭❤🤍

[@marybenoit6375]

Very supportive husband and children. God bless you both 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏾

[@user-xc3vc9rh6i]

There must be a reason you were dismissed if you do not follow the obgyn recommendations you are not victims you chose to have multiple pregnancies which means a higher risk

[@anythingforselenas806]

I mean no disrespect to anyone, I’m just saying it takes a lot for a provider to dismiss a patient. …been doing this a long time….

[@ZimnaSophie]

Well, multiple births pregnancy carries a high risk of complications already. You decide to take a risk because you think you know better than them and you want to show everyone you know better. Your doctor tried to protect you... It's not systematic approach , its evidenced based care do you understand the difference?

[@AdiGirl78]

I’m far past having kids but this was so educating thank u both for ur platform. Such a beautiful couple and family. Y’all encourage me.

[@LashayColly]

Aww the prayer was a blessing ♥️Prayers and blessings to you and your family 🙏🏿

[@enyiomaam1803]

As a mother of 5 and a practicing ob/gyn, I know that you will deliver well in Jesus name. Please remember that everybody has rights and nobody should be forced to do what they do not feel comfortable with. Self-autonomy applies to the patient as well as medical personnel. Also obstetrics is a totally different ballgame due to the huge liability that obstetricians take with each patient. If a patient declines my recommendation, I document it and move on. If a patient declines all my recommendations then it shows there is no mutual trust in the relationship and we shouldn't have a doctor-patient relationship.

[@MckoyVeronica]

Quit blaming the Dr, and except the Dr didn't go with your plan. This is not racial. I'm glad that you all can afford these babies. ❤🙏

[@dianemom9792]

I say affording 8 children is hard. I heard the Henry's were going vegan I guess that's a way of cutting back on meat since its so expensive.

[@RAM-tt4jh]

I am a health worker and this is sick! Business over life. May the Lord restore godly foundations and truthfulness. Thank you for sharing....

[@QueenTB777]

They work well together & although they’re honest and have been through things you can tell they really have worked hard to be partners. ❤