Pregnant Woman’s Mother In Law Seemingly Ruins Gender Reveal Moment

[@Apriladrenaline]

The fact she didn’t hug them both says a lot

[@treece01]

I’m a boy mom of two sons. Note taken…do not overstep your boundaries moms. I had a lovely mother in law and I hope to be just like her one day, and realize that I am gaining new daughters and not losing my sons.

[@cht7380]

You will have very lucky daughter in laws

[@westwind324]

Boy mom here, I hope I will be gracious and loving to my future daughter-in-law. I trust my son to choose the right woman and I will happily invite her into the family and take a big step back.

[@twocathome399]

especially when it comes to babies! we as women must acknowledge how different pregnancy affects the husband and mother . the mother needs her boundaries respected and all the support possible!

[@jassy95]

As someone who has a overbearing M.I.L...please PLEASE be careful of what you say. I'm not saying walk on eggshells but remember you're kid is human just like she is, not all women are like you, if she is quiet and you're not don't trample over her because 90% of the time us D.I.L look up to you so much and look forward to a relationship with you. ❤ I've been through some questionable things that if it weren't for him, I wouldn't have delt with. Here's 3 examples: I was talking to one of my boyfriend's cousin's. Me and her were just meeting and there was other family around. (I'm very quiet and his mom has been getting on me for being "too quiet". I'm what you'd call a "woman of few words". So in an attempt, which was going well, I started having a great conversation. All I could think was, "she's going to be so proud!" 😅) NOPE Next thing you know my boyfriend's mom comes up, smacks her hand on the island, deading the room in silence then loudly proceeds to say, "Hey, get drinks for everyone!" I was startled, his cousin was startled, and truly we all were confused because everyone was doing their own thing. I was so embarrassed 😳, I wasn't raised like that and it most certainly threw me and her (his cousin) off. Plus usually when someone ask for "help" it's because...they need help or are in the process of doing something else and well need the help. I'm genuinely a nice person too and will help anyone. After, she sat down and went back to drinking. She only drinks when she has company over or maybe once or twice in a week, so I'm not saying she's an alcoholic, by an means. Anyway, Nodody needed or wanted a drink. The rest of the night she made comments, gave her son looks, and continued to contradict herself. She yelled at her husband for...just...well standing and if the food wasn't made right she'd have a public meltdown. Don't get me started on if she was proven wrong about something 😅. It's a scary time for everyone involved. The second time we had a small group of people over, and I wanted to know how she made her baked beans, because I genuinely enjoyed them and wanted to make them. I asked her how and sarcastically she put her finger to her chin looked up to the ceiling and said, "Well let's see...you turn the oven on, press bake, hit...3...5..0...-" Everyone went silent in shock.... Then his cousin interjected and with this face 😧 exclaimed her name. I stood there embarrassed then walked away. As I was walking away I heard her say, "What it's not that hard?? 😏 Then his cousin said, "I'm sure she knows how to work a oven, she was asking you for the recipe." Shortly after she came upstairs to hug me. 😳 Third time I wasn't feeling well, it was Thanksgiving. I went to her and told her I felt weird 😕 like something physically was off. I'll never forget, she turned to me and said, "You know, I think you manifest your illness." I said, "nevermind" and walked away. 2 days later, families there and I wasn't that hungry. My bfs dad made steak, salmon, veggies, etc I ended up everything on my plate except the steak because it was too heavy...she leaned over and whispered to me, "You know it's really rude to not eat what someone cooked. Get up. Put it on your plate and eat it" I stood up grabbed the steak and sat back down. A day later I still wasn't feeling good. To make a long story short, I ended up going to the hospital for kidney failure. I'm thankful I'm ok today. This was only 3 instances with more that I'm trying to forget. Thanksgiving is coming up again and I'm genuinely scared of what she's going to say 😪😔 All of this didn't have to happen and made my move to a different state with no family near a really lonely one. Idk what I did but sometimes She's nice and sometimes she's really mean. 🤷‍♀️ So from me to you, I should've set a boundary but I'm really quiet and meek. I've talked to the bf about it but I never said anything because I'm scared it would be turned on me and I don't want my bf and his mom to argue bc of me, or me drive a wedge between them. Mom's don't realize how much they set a tone in a home. How much weight you on others when you're children grow up. Once you're a mother, you never stop being one and a little bit of kindness goes a really long way. Take these three stories and promise me one day you'll do otherwise. ❤

[@strawberryme08]

Me too mine is great I hope to be as good as her

[@marlawright5711]

I was married to a mamas boy, everytime i would cook he would always compare my cooking to his mom's even though she never cooked things i made. I got so tired of it that the last time hes said something i told him to go to his mom and suck on her chichis if he wants her food so bad. He was a woman abuser as well and i left him so glad i did. Now i am married to a wonderful man who loves his mom and respects her and heeds all the advice she gave him while growing up and he is remarkable.

[@JudyGantz]

The look on this poor girls face😢 just breaks my heart! I feel so bad for her, This mother made herself look so stupid!!😮

[@jenelljurado8500]

That Mom did that shit on purpose! WOW imagine How over baring She will be with Their Baby!!!! Yes RUN GIRL RUN!!!!!

[@waitwhat6056]

I have always steered clear of men with Mom's like this. I've had friends who dated men & married men like this, and it was constant drama, problems, and power/attention game playing from the Mother.

[@jassy95]

Why are they like this 😭.

[@lemiravela9317]

Better yet, when she has the baby by c/ section and the mother in law insisted on holding the baby before the mom even wakes up from the surgery. True story.

[@sorayaleblanc588]

Most of the time the mother is up during that procedure

[@jassy95]

​@@sorayaleblanc588you don't know what true story means do you 🧐.

[@jassy95]

​@@sorayaleblanc588you don't know what true story means do you 🧐.

[@sorayaleblanc588]

@@jassy95 y u responding to me

[@jassy95]

@@sorayaleblanc588 I'll take that as a no 🤣🤣🤣

[@BebbaDubbs]

Even if a man has one in a million that means that there's almost 8,000 great people out there for you. If they have a crappy mom, let him go

[@BMass83]

This is still better than the guy I went to school with who skipped his WIFE, AND FAMILY, to run to his BOYS when he found out they were having a boy 😳 My jaw DROPPED. If this was my Husband we would be having a Come To Jesus Talk ASAP. You can sleep with me, OR YOUR MOTHER. Your choice.

[@oleksowurszula]

And he hug her without hesitation Typical mama boy Run girl ASAP

[@aivaandari6220]

And she will see “nothing” wrong with it…..bet she ain’t married…..

[@Rebelmutt507]

Don't run from mama's boys unless they refuse to set boundaries. My honeies mother and I are no longer on speaking terms and it made our lives infinitely better. I know when we decide to start trying for a baby and get pregnant that it will be something like this. And he already admitted that she probably wouldn't even treat our child the same as just his child because Corbin is so spoiled by her

[@iiam.Jazmine]

She could’ve hugged them both. After all, they’re having a baby not just him.

[@mega-lomart7154]

If that’s all she did I’ll gladly trade mine in for her! Mine told me on Mother’s Day that there’s still plenty of time for my daughter to come out retarded.

[@michellelove5866]

her whole face says it all!

[@tamarasherley]

I would have just got in my car a drove off

[@tamaragore437]

I wouldn't have another one with him. That's disgusting.

[@wumao_gang1020]

Cringe

[@notyobitcch]

Honestly I don't even think it's a big fucking deal really it like ya'll just do too much is too much.

[@rf4341]

Thank you. He came out of his mother and I’m sure she’s gonna do the same one day. People love to comeplain about senseless ish.

[@hannahhoward5951]

I’d have to see more of the video, like if MIL didn’t even try to acknowledge the DIL and ONLY ever hugged son and patted her stomach or something…. Personally looks like DIL more upset that whatever video she was capturing now included MIL.

[@chrissylong6001]

I agree. It’s annoying at most.

[@tashboog5458]

All I know is that is the cutest pooch I’ve seen on social media today 🐶😍

[@rainydayz4038]

My ex mother in law wore a white Lacy dress on my wedding day and her sister in law wore a black dress. Back then it was very rude and taboo. They did it on purpose. Also his father threatened me when my husbands aunt was to make my dress for me as she had for all the other women in the family. He was so jealous that he told everyone he wouldn’t come if she made my dress. For no reason at all except jealousy. I told him not to come then. He was bluffing obviously. This just spurred a lifetime of grief. He was so ripped to both of their apron strings all of his life that I was a third class citizen to my own husband…. For 30 years! Girls, do not do what I stupidly did. Run as fast as you can from these kinds of relationships. The only reason I don’t regret it all is because I had four amazing kids that I love so much. And he ruined that for me also. Run fast

[@Madi-ls5uu]

How’d he ruin having 4 kids? I’m curious. My husband is a momma’s boy too. He just watched this with me and said what the MIL did here wasn’t that bad.

[@jassy95]

It's still rude to wear white at someone's wedding. Let my mil try that...I dare her 🤨

[@jassy95]

​@@Madi-ls5uudid you tell her it was 😂😅

[@wumao_gang1020]

It’s literally not a big deal bruh it’s nothing at all 😂😂

[@aishaaa-17]

Guys I already think I'm having a toxic future mother in law 🙄🙄 she's so toxic and jealous of me....

[@strawberryme08]

They had like five seconds after the reveal why didn’t he hug and kiss his wife 😅

[@jenem9618]

Right? They had three business days to hug before the MIL came up

[@crystalsumner6057]

😂😂😂 She said RUN

[@roxy9539]

Grab them both and hop up and down joy! While whispering covid restrictions are strict! 😮😂❤

[@claremorgan6033]

How do you know she didnt hug the wife next? She was excited for her son. She should of waited but my goodness, why is everyone ready to throw her under the bus? She was overjoyed for them both I am sure..geesh. The internet just wants to stir up trouble here. What have we all done this week that we shouldnt have, or was in bad judgement? You're next.

[@claremorgan6033]

@@u-no-me7218 That's a really mature outlook.

[@meerahm3345]

I couldn’t agree more.

[@gleren55]

I agree with you, jumping to conclusions too soon

[@claremorgan6033]

I can't remember what I did when my daughter had her first gender reveal....I know I ran in great excitement to hug the first one of them I saw. I guarantee the other one wasn't offended.

[@AngelaNolan-v9z]

Because the Prego woman in this video actually posted this a year ago, this isn't the original, and the Prego woman captioned it, "Is he having a baby with me or his mom?"

[@anthonykichler118]

First of all the whole gender reveal thing is entirely stupid !

[@empath9814]

To each their own. I don't think it is I think people are just extremely excited for a baby.

[@tetelouise4558]

If thats me, im happy to hug my guests & fam....and happy for them to hug him....this is a whole lot of drama because a mom is excited for her son...maybe the daughter in law is the problem and pushed their relationship into a negative place....lots of what ifs and could be's.... I just dont see me being mad at my MIL for wanting to hug her son ASAP after finding out....id think its sweet ❤

[@valentinadennis7280]

I feel like she was just excited & a spur of the moment type of thing.

[@2Camelpofthewind]

I didnt see what the problem was. She was excited for the reveal and hugged her son...

[@d.n.9909]

I threw my son and daughter-in-law a gender reveal. This same thing happened 😮 but it wasn’t me. It was his dads Mom 😅😂😢

[@ingridmcclain1295]

I think there is more to the story, there seems to be not a healthy relationship between the dil and mil because if there was, the dil and mil would be jumping up and down together… Trust me been there done that bought the shirt and now happily married we OVERCAME TOGETHER!❤️😂

[@nathleenholt5987]

There's something women need to know men who love their mom quote un quote mommas boy.when moms gone he's going love you like that.And that hug was on him he should have turned to his wife

[@Comillia]

Crazy how hugging your child is considered “ruining” a gender reveal - maybe she was just very excited? Who’s to say she didn’t also hug the wife? Not saying that maybe it was a little too soon to hug him, but I doubt she was being malicious. People need to stop jumping to conclusions. Honest to goodness, if a mother being excited for her child and hugging him is a red flag and makes you want to run for the hills, then I think the problem is you.

[@AngelaNolan-v9z]

There is more to it. The original post isn't this one but from a year ago and the Prego lady captioned it, "is he having a baby with me or his mom?"

[@CocoaPuffss]

It's about the mother in law giving Michael Scott vibes. Just because she's there doesn't mean she's the spotlight

[@mirzarizwanbaig9449]

Mother's 💜 is unconditional ❤❤❤ No women can take her place.. Including wife...

[@jassy95]

Weird....no one wants to be their mother, that's what the mom's don't get. Or do moms sleep with their sons???

[@selardohr7697]

Also they all scared the poor dog.

[@familycourtchaos]

Awww 🥺

[@Dineheart]

The only thing the Mother in Law is Guilty of is not being able to read your mind. Maybe tell people before your photo OP what your intentions are before you film; anyone could've hugged either one of you before your spouse and wouldn't have been in the wrong for it. Imagine being so fucking privileged that you weaponize your spouses families actions. Her day wasn't ruined, she just has an overbearing ego and felt that " Hey, I'm going to use the internet to shame my partner and his family into seeing things my way." For her sake, he takes this mess on the chin and continues feeling this woman's juice is worth the squeeze; otherwise that's another single mother.

[@orchidsbloom6110]

Personally, I don't see the big deal. She did raise that man so wife owes his very existence to this mom and she has raised him literally waiting for this day for her son. What if the girl's mom had hugged her first? Yall are petty 😅😅 Nothing is ruined.

[@joshua_tattooerpfwellsie2131]

Yup, this is why I never had kids, you never know how you're gonna fuck everything up for someone elese....... I'll pass, all of this shit is entirely to much

[@tesiatalks]

You're trolling right? 😂 So because the mom birthed him she gets to take the spotlight from the couple? Should she stand at the alter too? Right in the middle so everyone knows where she belongs 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@destinycosmos2023]

@@tesiatalks👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Lunchladydoyle]

Yeah NO. That’s completely UNNATURAL. When we become adults our spouses come first not our mommy. You must be hella immature if you think he should have been hugging anyone but his wife in that moment.

[@barbaraweber3084]

So what? His mother and him has had a relationship way longer than the "wife" and him. It's just a genuine reaction. She's happy for him. Get over it.

[@keikeyleno]

Where can we find the original video? No credits?

[@melissaayala9417]

Pictures say it all

[@Ibrahimpbuh]

Nah bro I love my mom I wouldn't care, she took care of me throughout my whole life ❤️

[@jassy95]

And she can take care of you for the rest of it. 😂 Hey you know this verse right? Genisis 2:24 24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Just checking...@Christbeloved194

[@meerahm3345]

What’s the big deal? The mother is overwhelmely happy for his son. Who knows after she hugged her son then she hugged the wife too. I wouldn’t mind if my mother in law hugs her son first before my husband hugs me. Beside that maybe the mother is her first grandson and who knows she’s the one who planned everything.

[@Comillia]

I agree - at worst she was overexcited. None of this seemed malicious, it’s an exciting moment for everyone

[@barbarjinks8170]

Nobody else observing mom looks like the wife? Why is this always the case?

[@bonnie2057]

Wow that is overbearing

[@annpatterson5572]

What a witch?? Oh, Im referring to the spoiled one that's having the baby. What's wrong with hugging her son? She probably DID hug the mom to be but ofc, the video cuts off. Would she have felt the same if HER mom would have ran up to her?

[@tesiatalks]

I understand she's excited to be a grandma but this was the PARENT'S moment. She had her parent moment and now it's time to take a backseat. When you get married you're starting a new family. That doesn't mean the Mom has no place, but it does mean she's not the star of their show!

[@nangyinyinmaw3562]

She is his mom, his first queen, she does what she likes to do… why are u guys so mean..!!!

[@0mcmhs8]

By the title I thought the mother in law did her cannon to early and ruined the moment. People are saying she ruined it by hugging her son😂 Come on now! Mother to be when your baby arrives don’t you dare tell me you wouldn’t do the same. Because no matter how old your child gets it’s still your baby and the mother in law was just excited. This mother to be is probably the type to wake her man up at 4 in the morning asking for him to go get her ice cream. Dramatic for no reason.

[@AngelaNolan-v9z]

She wanted to share the moment with her husband but maw in law had to take the spotlight. Original video was from a year ago, I wonder if there's an update. Sorry, but I wouldn't have done what she done with either of my sons.

[@juliekim894]

How long should she have waited.....I dont think the MIL did anything wrong. This is sad.....the couple didnt even look like they were going to hug each other.

[@kellybraun5013]

My mother in law is a precious angel and she can do whatever the hell she pleases. Who throws a fit over crap like this? Who sets up a camera and posts gender reveals? So cringe.

[@countremy730]

not really sure what happened but if he agree to a "gender reveal"..... what other sign did you need?

[@Sigmaasphere]

You can't even huv your mom now!! Your so evil bro

[@lauraflores437]

I see no problem lol she's like mom number 2 and that mom to be is going to need her more than she realizes

[@rf4341]

Child please.

[@JDS928]

What if the girls mom did the same....this lady is simply making mountain out of a mole....he was her son first and then he became the husband , nothing wrong here , only this this lady looks at things with the lens of sarcasm

[@Havis_Princess]

You cant hug both people at the same time. There's nothing wrong w hugging your son and beibge xcited for a grandbaby. I wouldnt care

[@user-xp8uo2ml2v]

what's wrong in here

[@familycourtchaos]

Did you get triggered by something?

[@country_chic]

Some people don't even have their mom in their life to get to share special moments like this one. This guy's mom being alive and well and getting to attend and witness this special moment is what should matter most. There is no way in hell I would let my gender reveal moment be ruined just because my MIL hugged her son (my husband) right after the reveal was made. In my opinion, it's petty and immature to get mad about. Life is way too short.

[@LilPoopsie]

He should be hugging the wife first. It's about THEM and THEIR baby, not about the in laws, grandparents, whatever. The guy's mom just had to insert herself and make it about herself smh..

[@quetzal3000]

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