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[@kikylinda5710]

The way I clicked so quickly on this video even though I'm a virgin waiting for marriage 😂😂this video isGod answering a question that has really been boggling my mind!

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Lol. Me too! 😂

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Smiless. Same here

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We gather full here🤣

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😂you are not alone

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😂😂 I tell you 😁

[@manassehomoye3267]

I believe in the praying aspect too. Very very well 😂 Lemme tell you a funny story about it too... My parents had me two years after they got married. Why? Because my dad randomly just said, during discussion with friends that He will not have children after marriage until he has flex his love(my mom). When the pressures became too much and my mom wasn't getting pregnant after marriage(of course he had forgotten he ever said what he said)he went to God and started praying for children. After praying and praying, one year later God told him about what he has said in ignorance and my dad had to plead for mercy cause the pressure on my mom was getting wesser 😂 I came a year after that 😜 As a Registered Nurse, even though I'm still single like a singlet, 😅 I can proudly say you both are right!! The information is accurate and the advice is Apt 👌 I enjoyed watching too 😁 One day one day, I'll meet you two personally. I love how you both exude knowledge ! Thanks for sharing. 🙏 PS - The new changes on the channel, hmmm... 🤔 I'm loving them 😍❤️

[@SeemyeO]

I was just about adding this comment…as Christians our words are powerful

[@mbangokokon2348]

Singlet🤣🤣🤣

[@beatriceakinwolemiwa7006]

Hmmmm.... It's well o We said same and yet to conceive. We've prayed and all though. I'm not worried but I asked God for light today and just maybe this is it

[@Chiomanwachukwu342]

God I ur mercy

[@praiseljegede6527]

Very informative! A lot of people feel they know these calculations but sister bae broke it down well! Thanks!

[@debbieadl]

I’m impressed to see our Brother knows so much about contraceptions. Most guys don’t but they should. Thank you. Really helpful 👍🏾

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[@chidinmaemmanuella2714]

Thank God you talked about this explicitly. A lot of young couples struggle with this. GOD BLESS YOU for taking initiative.

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Love the new setup!😍😍😍

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Thank you for this Stalwart Lovers ❤

[@TheAdedolapo.]

Very good presentation of the topic. Well done fam❤

[@miracleokenwa4906]

i love love this advice thumbs up stalwart lovers.

[@AanuOwoeye]

The fact that your husband is aware of this and educated himself. This is inspiring. 🎉🎉🎉❤. Thank you both 😀😀

[@estheribikunle4841]

Enlightening video. Thanks for this, would surely be of great help when my time comes. I know of a friend who did the 'pull and pray' during her safe period and her son is now about 8 months old, lol.

[@promiseclever6673]

Much love guys ❤️❤️

[@odogbilitreasure4828]

Juicy topic today love it 😍

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Much love 💕 for you guys,God bless you both

[@TomiFlourish]

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Thanks for the wonderful advice. You are loved

[@akinsikuelizabeth5780]

Thanks alot guys. This really helps 💖❣️ Saving this for few years time😁

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First person here 😊 Happy new year my favs❤

[@elainetomlinson9307]

Wise advise very informative 🙌🙏❤🇯🇲

[@oyindamolaBabs]

This is the first time I will understand this ovulation calculation.... thank you sis BAE

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The rod and the staff! 🤣🤣🤣 You guys are so sweet to watch

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Just got married and this is very insightful ❤

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Thank you for your educative talk my role models though you don't know it, buh trust me you are. Much respect

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[@ntsakomavunda9018]

Sound interesting excise and technical now😜🧐the days calculations and pull and pray. Thank you , informative

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I have missed you guys so much had to drop the comment before I watch

[@TheStalwartLovers]

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I love your sincerity and openess

[@adedoyinolayode9127]

I have never understood this ovulation thing before🙈 thanks for explaining 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@bmsolayinkaafolabi]

Thanks for sharing.

[@the_nurse_influencer]

Another gist is here again 😁 Thank you sir/ma for these tips

[@Stachios77]

I truly believe that God put your video on my feed. You have videos that answer all the questions I have been asking myself as a 23-year-old virgin waiting for marriage. 🥺Thank you, and God bless you. You have gained a new subscriber!

[@legoutdeca711]

You are not old . Am 27 , Virgin and still waiting . May God visit us and give us good husbands 🙏🏾

[@Stachios77]

@@legoutdeca711 Amen! God richly bless you🙏🏾

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IDE .. yes!! something i can relate with finally!!

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Much love❤ for you my beautiful couple, More strength🙏

[@titilayoayangbayi5915]

Thanks so much for this information.... I'm bless and I think I will go for the second idea when I get married ❤

[@AmbassadorJude]

I am enjoying you guys.. really have been thinking of this. thanks

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This is really educating thank you so much for sharing this ..I love yhis two couples you guys are a source of inspiration ❤

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Thanks for sharing sir and ma We're learning 🥰

[@larryking826]

Thank you for sharing ♥.. Much love stalwart lovers.. My wife Sha go enjoy this life.. Because knowledge O'poor

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[@TheStalwartLovers]

😊🤗

[@preciousohagwu3200]

It’s how everyone talks about keeping yourself for marriage and nothing about preventing unwanted pregnancy in marriage. God bless you SLs!!

[@The_ChurchGirl]

This got me 🤣

[@estherifeolu9566]

You people are full of God's wisdom

[@sandraroberts3579]

Congratulations on your dialogue. Have heard about the Billings Ovulation Method? The Billings Ovulation Method is one of the most studied natural Method of Fertility for couples to plan their family. This Method helps the couple to observe and record the woman's daily discharges and sensations at her vulva which indicate when she is infertile or fertile. The couple can use this information to postpone or archive pregnancy or to monitor the woman's reproductive health.

[@BuilderscallRealty]

Thanks Stalwart Lovers

[@stellzluchii]

Well said... If you have not had a child yet try and avoid hormonal contraceptives 👍

[@funmilolaawe8839]

Thanks for giving medical disclaimers. This is for people without kids yet who are not ready to have children and can afford to have it anyway if this doesn't work. If the ground is already full or you really have a strong medical, physical or financial reasons to prevent pregnancy, please use appropriate contraceptives for your weight, history and medical guidance. Every body is different and despite all the ovulation tracker, use of calendar method, withdrawal methods, na 50/50. Please be advised.

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Love the audio quality 😁🙌

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Good to hear! 🥰

[@dolapoadu]

Thank you very much for this video, it was really insightful. From a medical doctor's point of view I would say the best thing to do is to visit a gynaecologist first to know which option is best for you. Although condoms are one of the best barrier methods, some people react to specific condoms based on the latex material it is made up of and they have a higher failure rate compared to hormonal contraceptives. Hormonal contraceptives on the other hand have their own side effects even though they have a lower failure rate so I wouldn't dispute that. Overall I'll advice to visit a gynaecologist with your partner to discuss the best option for you.

[@harrietdarkoh7331]

God bless you Dearies....

[@blaqcoco9785]

Thank you starlwart lovers for educating us. It's actually one of the questions that bothers me, I asked you guys in your DM and the reply was very educative, thank you. I just don't like contraceptive pills because they've side effects that the doctors and people are not talking about, you will notice changes in the woman's body, they get big stomach, get fat... Seeing the changes in my mom's body, I had to ask her, why is your stomach this big, she said it is family planning, I just hated it, she is late now, we lost her when she was going through the fibroid removal surgery. I was disturbed, I didn't want to use contraceptive pills when I get married but I don't know how married people prevent pregnancy without using contraceptive, I didn't have the idea that married people use condoms until I started asking married couples, and most of them said they use condom, but the other pregnancy prevention process wasn't mentioned. I didn't want to go to the internet yet to search, I just wanted what couples have used and it worked for them, then I met starlwart lovers and I decided to ask you guys and the response was very educative, thank you. More research will be done when I'm close to being married, now I have idea and will seek medical advise when necessary. This is going to be part of our discussion when we are getting married, because some people can believe that married people should not use condom. Nice colour pop and great audio! 👌

[@TheStalwartLovers]

🥰🤗❤️

[@iamolamide7557]

So sorry to hear your mum has passed and the circumstances surrounding it. I pray the Lord will continue to comfort and direct you. And may He lead you to the man He has made for you in Jesus name🙏🏽

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Thank you for shooting this video this was a number one question i had in mind to ask you guys and suddenly wooh i bombed into it

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that's awesome!

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I am about becoming a data analyst. Nice to see one on this channel

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I also literally got addicted 😂❤️they are the epitome of a wise couple. God bless you both

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You have my admiration stalwart lovers

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New mic, yaaay! Here for the better audio!

[@TheStalwartLovers]

😉😊

[@gbemisolaolumide1063]

Barrier method like condoms are the way to go. Cheap, easily accessible and safe not to mention the extra lubrication. Life made easy

[@adetutuadeoti527]

Omo , see as i quickly click the vedio😂 thanks famz ❤ for all this outpouring knowledge

[@divineejiofor3976]

I love the way sister bae said..."I no know oo"🤣❤️ when uncle boo said "if you know you know"🤣🤣🤣...Omo sister bae just spoke my mind cus I no know oo🤣🤣

[@BlessingOpatewa]

The contraceptive method you both practice with the ovulation date check is the calendar method. While, spilling the seed on the sheet is another, called the withdrawal method My first time hearing the term “the rod and staff, they comfort thee” 😂🤦🏽‍♀️ I Enjoyed the video

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haha uncle boo and sister bae the intro is hilarious love you two haha

[@TheStalwartLovers]

😅😅😅

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Thank you Doctor Uncle boo n Doctor Aunty Bae😃🤓

[@diyallthings]

Even those with regular cycles can have a modification in their cycle due to factors like STRESS .

[@anosikechinwe3970]

So interesting.

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You guys do justice to this.

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🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 keep loving and keep believing

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First viewer🔥🔥🔥

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You're welcome 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@realtorjaymedia]

God bless you abundantly. Please which lightening are you using for your video?

[@TheStalwartLovers]

A ring light and 3 LED GVM lights. One with white and two with colors behind us.

[@alongeoyekunbi9901]

You see that pull and pray, we did it a lot!!!

[@emildaadamu7742]

😅😅

[@olumidepriscilla2011]

Impressive discussion.i am a medic and specialist in reproduction.hormonal contraceptives is a no no for newlyweds however depending on how long u want to delay pregnancy you can use the condoms or do the non hormonal conceptives and enjoy the rod and staff to d fuĺlest🤣 without any fear whatsoever. However my best advise is talk to a gyneacologist bcos every ladies reproductive cycle differs in responses to all this. GOD BLESS YOU GUYS😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@AmbassadorJude]

awww.. the lady has a charming smile

[@gracebriggs1904]

Good job

[@gloriaessien505]

Uhmmmm sis bae said Baby... I am used to hearing uncle bae.. Canada is doing some good tinz 😊

[@femifamiyesin7303]

Awesome Post!! The male urinating between sessions can also help flush out any active sperm cells which may be in the urethra. That's for couples who do rounds upon rounds. Or if for any reason he had ejaculated prior to the intercourse. It all requires discipline really. To make it more interesting, both couple should be actively interested in keeping track of the wife's fertility window, cycle length, flow duration, ovulation day, possible menstruation day, days of possible mood changes, cravings. The discipline of keeping track should not just be a burden placed on one of the parties. Which makes this video superb. Cos it shows you both are actively involved. Thumbs up guys. You're doing awesomely!!👍👍👍!

[@yumyumfoodsindiaspora]

Urinating does not flush anything o

[@sebiotimoadetayo6889]

I don’t know of urinating but yeah, it would be nice for both parties to be involved in the changes that is happening in each other’s bodies especially in relation to family unit. No offence but can you back up your statement of urinating with a research link?

[@tutublossom8545]

@@yumyumfoodsindiaspora it does o. Especially for couples using a condom, urinating flushes any leftover semen and for the woman, it helps flush out little bacteria that might cause Urinary Tract Infection.

[@yumyumfoodsindiaspora]

@@tutublossom8545 Absolutely wrong. Do your research. No medical backing

[@tutublossom8545]

@@yumyumfoodsindiaspora I have done my research ma’am. You’ll see it anywhere.

[@adejumoadeola9424]

Mike looks so much like my brother. Thanks guys for all of the messages in each videos

[@yahwehzgal2511]

I am getting married in few months & this has been a sort of bother for myself & my spouse. This has been quite enlightening. I really appreciate it. God bless you guys greatly

[@TheStalwartLovers]

You are welcome 😊

[@gifteseogene4924]

You are right about checking in with your doctor as newly wed about contraception..well done guys

[@joyesther5274]

Thank you for this Stalwart Lovers. My wedding is coming up in March and I've read books on this topic. I don't want to use pills because I read that they're abortifacient. This is enlightening. Thank you, sister Bae.

[@christabelonitiri6522]

Contraceptive Pills are not abortifacient,there are other drugs that induce that but not contraceptive pills...if you want to get best information about drugs search on their mechanism of action...

[@preciousohagwu3200]

Please go to a family planning clinic to find the method that works for you! Contraceptive pills are not abortifacients- sincerely, a pharmacist.

[@angelinaafrifa7796]

God bless your union, you are very positive and loving

[@chinenye.u]

There are cycles of 25-26 days though. 28-30 isn't the norm for quite a nos of people.

[@drabisoladeborah]

Welldone

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

It is ok to space out kids like by using natural family planning (nfp) by charting and to avoid all kinds of contraception as that would be a grave sin and when doing the marital act it must end with the whole process being completed for example not using the pull out method or condoms

[@VisionBearer]

Thank you so much for this video. I had not taken calculating my unsafe periods too seriously because I felt it was difficult. Watching this has helped me out with this. Thank you! To come to think that this video is so timely as I was just reading about the natural options some days ago.

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Glad it was helpful!

[@adekunleoluwaseun7263]

I love you both.❤️😍

[@tolulopeadegbemile8086]

Apt tips. Prevention is better than cure!

[@julianaaffum5994]

I'm not much of a "commentor" but this is my own two cents as a nurse and a year old wife. We did our research before getting married and a contraceptive looked like our safest bet mostly because we couldn't trust ourselves to stick to the cycle. I tried the Depot and bled for three months then decided to use the implant instead. The implant has totally changed my cycle and I now bleed for 2 to 3 weeks instead of 4days. I've stuck with it because we plan on taking it out soon anyway . This might be TMI but thought it could provide perspective for someone. Definitely not doing it again though

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Wow. It must have been a lot. I pray for balance in your body and restoration in your reproductive cycles in Jesus name. Thanks for sharing your experience so others could learn. It is really appreciated.

[@julianaaffum5994]

@@TheStalwartLovers Amen Loves.....God bless your ministry

[@atolagbeolusholadavid9161]

Thank you for this, This is very educative! As regards pulling out I feel it isn't scriptural, that was what Onan did in to the bible that God put him to death (.Genesis 38:9-10) Just my opinion though

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Onan was killed not because he pulled out, but because he was wicked and didn't let his brother's wife have children.

[@atolagbeolusholadavid9161]

@@TheStalwartLovers Thank you for clarity

[@dianamangudu1322]

Precisely, God didn't punish the action, the motive behind the action was the reason for punishment. God judges the motive more than the action.

[@maziochendu5258]

Sister baw was the teacher in this one Broda boo was just doing like Agama 🤣🤣🤣

[@patriciaadeoye7748]

Lovely couple

[@Grace-uk8sg]

Sister Bae is so beautiful

[@GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan]

❤