Projector-Manifestor Dynamics: Unveiling the Wisdom of Human Design in Relationships

Join us in this intriguing podcast episode as we delve into the dynamics of a unique projector-manifestor relationship. Explore the fascinating interplay of human design elements, from the electromagnetic channels to the nuances of recognition and invitation. We challenge conventional beliefs about projectors and generators, emphasizing the importance of how individuals enter relationships and live their designs. Discover the profound impact of surface-level correctness on the deeper dynamics of connection.
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Sandy Freschi: www.sandyfreschi.com
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00:00 Introduction

[@darcv242]

Hi Sandy, as a Manifestor (who is also a natural informer), I say it’s great that your Projector friend also informs! I have no trouble informing, but I detest not being informed regarding something that directly affects me. (Really, doesn’t everyone?) Now, my husband is a Generator, BUT my old lifelong 3/5 Projector friend gave me significant guidance throughout the years. So, even though that wasn’t a romantic relationship, I know from decades of experience that Projectors can definitely add value to a Manifestor’s experience! As far as electromagnetics, from my own limited observations, they don’t seem to be as significant as friendship is in the long-lasting relationships. I, for one, would not determine whether I should give someone a chance based on our charts, anyway

[@humandesignexperiment]

Thanks so much for your informative wisdom.

[@marnaecoleman257]

Thank you Sand! I can't wait for you to get into the cross of the sleeping phoenix!!

[@teef888]

I would love if you taught full certified Human Design courses🙏🏽 loved the one you put up on your channel.. thanks for this chat.. from a 5/1 projector😌.. husband is a manifesting generator.. it’s a tough one 😅

[@soarwithsydney]

Hi from another 5/1 projector ☺️

[@christinemose7308]

Well, this projector spent 10 difficult years with one manifestor husband only to go forward and spend 12 more difficult years with the second manifestor husband. I think there really is an unfortunate attraction between manifestors and projectors. In my experience, the projector suffers deeply, while the manifestor never skips a beat. Let's face it, if a person is hardwired for recognition and you are in a relationship with a manifestor, chances are slim to none that recognition will be bestowed upon you. It's hard enough getting it from a generator, but a manifestor? Forget about it.

[@humandesignexperiment]

That's what I thought too until I saw these two in action. So sorry you had that experience.

[@AndreiFantastic]

I just think most people don’t understand a manifestor enough to ever feel secure with us. I’ve always had partners tell me that they don’t feel like I’m present. That’s because a manifestor isn’t about fitting into society or feeding into that social dynamic, so likely it will never feel like that. But most manifestors I know are insanely loyal. It’s just that a partner has to be okay taking a backseat to all of our energy and lack of energy 😂

[@christinemose7308]

​@AndreiFantastic , thank you for that manifestor perspective. I was indeed fortunate in both marriages that infidelity was not a dynamic. Perhaps that was the expression of the manifestor aura's proclivity for loyalty. I think the attraction and ultimate issue was their innate power as beings. I am a dis-empowered projector, so I was probably attracted to what I lacked. I was also raised by a mother with attachment disorder, which likely normalized a sense of alienation in a relationship, so the manifestor's hard aura felt like the patterns set in my childhood.

[@tiffanykip1406]

Hi Sandy, a really informative investigation of the topic. So much lightbulbs for me. I have a manifestor friend where we also shared a romantic attraction. Which I got from the Gene Keys perspective. I think it can work but being strong in not always wanting the recognition is important. He has his manifestor absent moments and those are not about distancing but him just needing his own space. We helped each other decondition and clear some karma I believe. Having the 18-58 I loved the new perspective on vitality. I can be so enthusiastic and excited about people i sometimes think it’s to much for the other. Or so I thought… and I also recognize the Oedipal dynamic and also how I have grown out of that. So yes a lot to reflect on. 👍🏼🫀🙏🏽