As an autistic daughter myself, I can relate to this on another level. I am now 15 years old and I'm not allowed to cook, only bake. I'm definitely not allowed to touch the knife, I still have parental controls on my devices even though I was supposed to be able to decide whether I wanted to manage my own account or not on my 13th birthday. My mom packs my lunch, definitely invades my privacy and also talks about my autism in a way that gives me insecurities just like the part in the video where Lauren's mom tried to tell her why she can't have a boyfriend. Honestly, I almost teared up watching this because it's the most relatable thing I've ever seen in my life. This video is just so heartwarming. I also just feel like my mom doesn't trust me. She doesn't even let me go outside by myself unless I have to walk home from my coding class and she only allows that because my little brother walks with me + she makes me text her to assure her that I am ok. Honestly, even though this is just a story, I'm so glad that everything turned out well for Lauren because I don't know if it will be the same for me. Me and my mom had a talk today and she is definitely ok with me going to college once I graduate hs but I feel like she wants me to stay near home and start with community college before transferring. She said that I would need to stay and "grow up more" because I can't do my laundry, I can't cook and I am terrible at cleaning (I wonder why). Also, I would need a job which is a big change. At this point, this video just reminds me of my mom and I'm scared that she might stalk me like that too. Honestly, I don't know anything anymore. If you're not autistic then pls don't judge us. I feel overwhelmed constantly because of having to worry about not only what my mom would say but what other people would think. We are aware of our condition because we hear a lot from our parents. I know this is messy but If you actually read up to here, then thank you for reading my tedtalk.
@lucasabrams46110 ай бұрын
A good idea might be to show her this video then or at least tell her about what happens in it then link it to how she’s been treating you, hopefully she can learn from that?
@williammcmillan112010 ай бұрын
Wow that sucks
@ericalo894010 ай бұрын
Totally understandable, I had overcome a lot with autism and epilepsy
@rananashi675510 ай бұрын
As a person with autism, I know what you are saying. I think that the reason behind this is ignorance.
@Dobo-4gx10 ай бұрын
womp womp its a joke????
@GoldWristX10 ай бұрын
That mother just kills the vibes of every single room she in.
@Joey-u5p10 ай бұрын
And I got my own helicopter parent and that exact parent is always so bothered by my interests of cats and how I wanna keep him or her safe from dangerous household everyday products like perfumes and things like that but I’m just trying to make sure my kitten child will be safe before I get to having him or her on the flip side after graduating I always thought to work at an animal shelter then from there a cafe with cats but since I’m autistic I’ve been held back from such a thing
@Riley_smt10 ай бұрын
@Hazelandbauer Fr tho
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
Yep, I agree. Lauren's is way better off without her Overprotective mom to ruin things for her, Seriously!
@tadiwagloria10 ай бұрын
So true
@Cutie_M-210 ай бұрын
fr
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
Her sick father is more supportive than her Overprotective mom will ever will be
@Bella-3310 ай бұрын
frr
@msharchand10 ай бұрын
Tell me about it😂😂😂😂
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
@msharchand what I mean, he encourages her to follow her dreams, & Unfortunately the mom even thinks he's a dreamer, & can't face reality neither
@Gigaspear10 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562not what he meant by that but alr
@Simply.allison12310 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562😭 they r agreeing with u
@MamaChatalie3 ай бұрын
Can we take a second to appreciate how amazing the sister is
@liliblink7Ай бұрын
Underrated comment
@liliblink7Ай бұрын
Frrrr gurl
@Wwcc-z6oАй бұрын
The sis is amazing while the mom is giving I won’t let you go NEVER
@soul_fiddler.cosplay20Ай бұрын
I am autistic and have a younger sister who is 3.5 yrs younger and she is a neurotypical person and she sometimes looks after me telling me stuff or whatever but she looks at me funny sometimes. Otherwise she tries to be supportive. My bf’s younger sisters on the other hand whole different story. The younger sister acts like she’s MY an older sister 😂 but I’m actually older by a year and a half, then the youngest and I just influence each other lmao 🤣
@Jasmine-s9kАй бұрын
Ikr😂😂
@DREAMY_DELULU10 ай бұрын
It’s just acting. It’s JUST acting. IT’S JUST ACTING!
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
Yes, I know it's just acting, But it's an example what can happen in real life too.
@Deflectofficial110 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562 i know it's acting But this actually happens sometimes
@missy.3llaa9 ай бұрын
you guys don’t get the comment
@Codycosplayandfriends9 ай бұрын
bro, I kept getting so upset I almost threw my phone
@syahrilshahiby98149 ай бұрын
I got what u mean, this video was full of emotions. I feel it
@Hanging_with_da_boys10 ай бұрын
Bro, this mum literally just pops out of nowhere like granny 💀
@Taviajoys10 ай бұрын
😂
@shoshoalawadhi503210 ай бұрын
fr😭
@Isitboinky10 ай бұрын
😭😭
@laurel_Felicity10 ай бұрын
LMAOO🤓
@debbie38849 ай бұрын
😂😢
@EverettNightshade8 ай бұрын
That mom's crossing boundaries with her daughter. No wonder she moved out. Just because you have a child with a disability, that doesn't mean you get to make his or her life any harder.
@KARanngem81wof6 ай бұрын
My mom did this to me too even though I'm not Autistic. I was claimed to have Mr. But I don't have that. Even one of my friends said that...Dcd is horribly under diagnosed because over 27 symptoms and signs exist in my life. It's horrible that parents never truly support people who really want to be independent...
@KARanngem81wof6 ай бұрын
I took pre-med years ago and I will continue to succeed in it...
@jvtv12345 ай бұрын
I can totally relate. Although I was never diagnosed with ASD, I have eccentricities and obsessions. I always felt like my whole life was a perpetual adolescent in the eyes of my family. On one hand, they treated me like a handicap; yet, they had high expectations for me. They wanted me to have the trappings of adulthood but felt that I wasn't ready for certain milestones, e.g., getting married and having a child (but I did all of that very much to their chagrin). They were total control freaks which pissed me off. Many times, I stopped talking to them. They couldn't understand why I needed validation. If they wondered why, all they had to do was look in the mirror.
@teagandooher50875 ай бұрын
EXCUSE ME ATISUM IS NOT A DISABILITY SO SHUT UP ITS JUST A DIFFERENT ABILITY SOOOOOOOOO SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
@Jamo-g3s5 ай бұрын
Mom thinks she knows best when she does not
@Otey_D2 ай бұрын
My son with autism has been taking mushroom supplements, and his teachers have noticed a significant improvement in his behavior and ability to learn. We're thrilled!
@ricomanuel75672 ай бұрын
I'm not a fan of medication for autism, but mushroom supplements is a great natural alternative.
@fdvkggbn2 ай бұрын
Yes, I've been using mushrooms with my son for a few months now, and we've seen some really positive results. We've been using a combination of lion's mane and cordyceps, and it seems to be helping him with his social interactions and communication skills. He's also been less anxious and more focused, which has been a big help for us
@jordanlewis56662 ай бұрын
Hello, im interested. How did you get it ?
@fdvkggbn2 ай бұрын
doc.kain
@jordanlewis56662 ай бұрын
Is he on 1nsta ?
@davethibault673410 ай бұрын
I'm autistic myself and in the past I've had issues with the way Dhar Mann has portrayed autism in the past. Far too often he would rely on stereotypes, portray the characters in perfect at everything, or it would come off as tasteless like the case of recreating the incident of Myka and James Stauffer rehoming an autistic orphan. Yeah, still haven't forgotten that one. But this video though. Oh boy this video. I really have to speak my mind on this one. This video was really good. I really got behind this story and I really appreciate how Lauren was portrayed here. I found her struggles very relatable to the first time I moved out of home, when others would tell us it was a bad idea. And my god the emotion with the scene of her Dad really tugged at the heartstrings. The autistic elements wasn't perfect, like that line "I'm more than just my autism". But at the very least it's showing how much Dhar Mann has improved since he first started doing these videos.
@katiebayliss828010 ай бұрын
I agree, I’m autistic myself and I’m glad their was a video that was so close to home in the fact of others treating me different at school. The others wasn’t really close to home to me as people suffer differently with autism! X
@Aleenaslife-n4q10 ай бұрын
I am not autistic , but seeing Dhar Mann create videos including autism and other disabilities it’s extremely heartwarming ! We need more videos like this 😊
@lizzys_drama_island10 ай бұрын
Yess! And also Jesus loves us all ❤❤❤❤
@Grindingismyname10 ай бұрын
My classmates bully autistic people I don’t like them
@Amyhorselover1310 ай бұрын
I’m autistic that is the one thing that keeps me going in life and my parents tell me having a disability makes me unique
@sense.reginald10 ай бұрын
bro the mom gives vibes of the evil stepmom from tangled 💀💀💀💀 "mother knows best" ahhh 💀💀💀💀💀💀
@Astro-qt10 ай бұрын
Ur a bad doggy😭- dhar man
@Rxberta_x9 ай бұрын
Wait , why is this so true-
@keithtwins9 ай бұрын
It’s a scary world out there
@MBoxJr9 ай бұрын
fr bro
@Rubytreen9 ай бұрын
Frfr
@tryphenaquain10 ай бұрын
bro i get the ick everytime she calls her honeybunny lmao😭💀 Edit: Hi guys just wanted to say thanks for all the likes I've never had this many before it genuinely surprised me😅
@Popsicles199310 ай бұрын
Fr
@AishaMohammed-y3o10 ай бұрын
Thank God I'm not the only one 😂😂it was cringe asf
@aliyasaccountyay10 ай бұрын
Fr I got the ick
@s2k8.0010 ай бұрын
Same
@Jonah-hv5rs10 ай бұрын
He gave me that ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick,ick EWWWWWWWWWWWW
@Liv_is_a_theaterkid4 ай бұрын
This is good representation of level 1 autism in women. I am 17 (almost 18) and I was just diagnosed with level 1 autism a year ago. I think the drama could be toned down, this is film acting, not stage acting. However, this is good representation of non-stereotypical autistic traits and I'm happy to see it.
@Hii035110 ай бұрын
This mom is seriously getting on my nerves
@Annabellegracesworld10 ай бұрын
It’s just acting
@kajaxlesly210 ай бұрын
Cry about it!! Lmfaoooooo!! 🤣💀
@Londyn.h10 ай бұрын
Fr
@Alayna-nf1if10 ай бұрын
Fr
@Alayna-nf1if10 ай бұрын
Like let her do her own thing
@hunneylipps10 ай бұрын
Okay tbh the mom is such a good actor She's so manipulative like it makes me really scared because of how good she is 😮
@avaranabraham85077 ай бұрын
Thats Katherine norland
@UzumakiGirl147 ай бұрын
probably cuz of all the experience
@scarlet18196 ай бұрын
yes zoey I knew already
@scarlet18196 ай бұрын
Zoey she has heterochromia which is when u have different color eyes
@leahcharmxo85105 ай бұрын
Fr she is so good
@rubywindred86399 ай бұрын
As an autistic (High functioning) and epileptic daughter myself, I can relate to this on another level. I am 13 years old now and I'm not allowed to cook, I don’t like things that are mine to be touched or breathed on and It’s very difficult to make decisions most of the time. And when my mum talk about my autism I feel a bit shy/embarrassed that I’ve got autism. This video is so beautiful and heartwarming
@rubywindred86399 ай бұрын
And some people even mock me as I can sometimes think slowly
@Stella_Hill8 ай бұрын
Same here
@artikii8 ай бұрын
@@rubywindred8639aw i feel bad i hope you find a good partner and live in a safe household where you feel normal
@Aroaceenby8 ай бұрын
I understand how you feel. As i became an adult I've actually been less embarrassed and more open about the fact that i have autism but I'm also aware that it is and will always be a factor in my life. It's especially prevolent in social situations, and all my previous "friends" have abandoned me for one reason or another. It's hard, but it's who i am and i don't want to feel bad about it anymore. I hope you get to a place where you feel the same way.
@rubywindred86398 ай бұрын
@@Aroaceenby I had the same problem with friends too! And as my 3 other schools wouldn’t except me for who I am I’ve had to move schools 5 times. But I’m more open for my autism than I use to be. Have a magnificent day and weekend!
@cordellovelton75905 ай бұрын
I never let my autism stop me from living my life and doing tough tasks. My parents were always supportive.
@mattdooley62064 ай бұрын
I have Autism Spectrum Disorder and I have more mental health disorder but I’m medicated for my my Anxiety and anger and Depression and OCD my OCD gets bad at times and I been in special Ed classes and I don’t work I only do cattle and chicken farming and hay farming and I’m a deer hunter and a trapper and I make my own Minimum Wage and I raise my own food to sell to people and I have no limits no controls where nobody can’t boss me around or control me except for my mother she kinda controls me but not as much. Life is good LG
@Primieprimprim3 ай бұрын
Yeah I know but my life was never perfect either so just hope to start my bi gender journey one day I hope so I can be who I am in the future as an autistic bi gender
@justincarter30332 ай бұрын
Same here
@Evan-ithcАй бұрын
GOOD JOB! @mattdooley6206
@JoleneGonzalez-m9e10 ай бұрын
Mom: you know I'm not the bad guy here Me: yes you are 😂😂😂
@Astro-qt10 ай бұрын
I will buy u if u are cheap- dhar man
@MariskaRobinson10 ай бұрын
Very ture
@r.e.m.028 ай бұрын
That's exactly what I said 😂
@stevenwagner-rx7ew7 ай бұрын
Yeah, she's pretty much offending her, she broke into her house twice and thinks of stereotypes of autistic people
@CindyWells-r8j5 ай бұрын
Fr the mom doesn't even want for her daughter to have her dreams she needs to do what she sets her life ro
@stacysaint-ilma78110 ай бұрын
Her dad would’ve been so proud of Lauren for what she accomplished. She’s lucky to have a very supportive sister Olivia.
@genesisISjustgeneis10 ай бұрын
And a loving mom
@stacysaint-ilma78110 ай бұрын
@@genesisISjustgeneis but she was coddling Lauren
@ellieandronansvlogs708110 ай бұрын
@@stacysaint-ilma781 yeah exactly did he not just watch the entire video?
@malroberts560310 ай бұрын
Dued it’s just a vid
@Gimston_hottie10 ай бұрын
FR THESE PEOPLE @@malroberts5603
@Johnny-u37210 ай бұрын
I swear if This was my mom I would be SCREAMING my lungs out
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
I agree . Her mom needs to back off
@NoScope_Eyes10 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562 no
@ccadelaide9 ай бұрын
@@NoScope_Eyesfym no💀
@acornwcue39 ай бұрын
Literally
@ricardomorales89699 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562I don’t blame you. The mom needs to leave her alone.
@Meliaaa19Ай бұрын
that mother is so controllable…shes mean and bold herself..
@llbellaaa227 ай бұрын
My anger issues could not be able to deal with her mom 😭😭😭
@AriaHuguely5 ай бұрын
Me too. Her behavior aggravates me. 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@SassyCici4 ай бұрын
STGGG… cuz her ahh is annoying
@Aestheticvibes_12-r5t3 ай бұрын
Same
@ToniquaCrump-b5o3 ай бұрын
Facts
@TotallyNotOlivia133 ай бұрын
Real!
@mayyace9 ай бұрын
My mother suddenly became like this when I got diagnosed with autism at 15, she was never like this before the diagnosis. I was lucky that my parents were divorced and I could go to my dad's house and ditch her. It's incredibly uncomfortable to see others treated like this with no escape, even just in a KZbin video.
@mayyace9 ай бұрын
Ew. I'm like halfway through and I keep having to pause it because I'm cringing so much because it reminds me of my own mother so much.
@mayyace9 ай бұрын
Her look of disgust is how I used to look at my mother when she belittled me like that.
@mayyace9 ай бұрын
The only unrealistic part of this is the mother apologising. People like that never apologise and never realise they're wrong.
@DarkOnyx989 ай бұрын
@@mayyace in rare cases, there are people who would apologize. It may be due to not being well informed. They see just the types of autism where they would need to be taken care of. They don't see the other types where they can live a functional life if given proper guidance and learning what works for that person. I am sorry you had to go through similar with your mother though. I hope all is going better for you. ^_^
@mayyace9 ай бұрын
@@DarkOnyx98 That makes sense and thank you :)
@Iamjinx810 ай бұрын
dhar just keeps dropping bangers nonstop "If you always keep a bird in a cage, it'll never learn to fly." is the best quote ive heard im not gonna lie
@louiseowusu2465 ай бұрын
The smile when the mother 'dumped' Bradley 🤬 She's too much.
@MacCrunch10 ай бұрын
The message of personal growth and overcoming challenges despite having autism is inspirational. It encourages everyone to live their life freely beyond the limitations imposed by others.
@Flaky_htf710 ай бұрын
thank you
@livin.thehighlife10 ай бұрын
That’s amazing
@B_lakeee10 ай бұрын
Loved king of all clouds hoping you release more one day
@Athena_gacha10297 ай бұрын
“A kid deserves a parent But not every parent deserves a child..” -wise people
@samanthapaddy91342 ай бұрын
I totally agree with that. I totally agree with that. I totally agree with what you’re saying cause a lot of people don’t understand what this means but I totally do.❤
@ColePalmer2000010 ай бұрын
how did the mom even know where she lived 😂😂 EDIT:damn never got so many likes before
@Slinky_Slinky9 ай бұрын
She had Lauren on a tracker
@ColePalmer200009 ай бұрын
@@Slinky_Slinky ohh
@Slinky_Slinky9 ай бұрын
@@ColePalmer20000 :)
@ivi1229 ай бұрын
Tracker
@y6mal9 ай бұрын
Frr
@tessn11142 ай бұрын
The video from the dad was so sweet. Had me tearing up watching that part
@georgethomson11110 ай бұрын
I have autism myself. Us autistic people are not perfect at everything. However, people don't know what we're capable of doing. They will soon realize the strengths, abilities and positives autistic people. I don't speak for one autistic person, I speak for every autistic warrior right round the world. It will take more than autism to stop us.
@dudetocartman10 ай бұрын
Correct. It's not about disability, it's about Ability. That's our saying at my work. I am high functioning Autism myself, have an MBA, and a success.
@nykkiflandiva796310 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@Maritaplayesroblox9 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm not an autistic child but I love you guys,you all are special ❤
@bmf.splatoonnerd189 ай бұрын
I agree we are more capable than what people think
@nickcurrie_9 ай бұрын
HELL YEAH!!! HELL YEAH!!! So am I under the spectrum, fellow warrior.
@x9fertmet10 ай бұрын
35:50 'So often in life, i feel like a caged bird struggling to break free and take flight and even when i managed to escape from my cage, someone burns up my wings and I'm stuck on the ground.' Girl that was supreme. 🔥🔥🔥
@hh12610 ай бұрын
isnt that a book quote
@pechaikurai888210 ай бұрын
@@hh126yeah I guess
@pechaikurai888210 ай бұрын
@@hh126which book exactly ?
@Ykitsthatgirl_jj10 ай бұрын
Frr
@AintSlawz10 ай бұрын
🧗🍁
@IO7-Shorts10 ай бұрын
13:06 nahhhhhhhhhh the face shows pure shock, anger and disgust at the same time 💀💀💀💀
@eceey_10 ай бұрын
5 stages of relief in 1 face 😭😭🙏🏻
@missingsumn10 ай бұрын
@@eceey_LMAOOOOO
@BlossomSophie23510 ай бұрын
@@eceey_LOL 😂
@FriceBuns10 ай бұрын
HELP REAL.💀
@iixuiq10 ай бұрын
GELP FR
@thehalfsisters-e4k3 ай бұрын
“I’ll see you later, hunnay bunnay “ 😂😂
@MilesPackard10 ай бұрын
those girls are bullying her when its literally the mom's fault. Honestly the worst mom i've ever seen
@NikkiScatch8410 ай бұрын
Yeah she’s way overboard!
@jsthatrandomguy10 ай бұрын
good intentions, bad outcomes.
@genesisISjustgeneis10 ай бұрын
Ntm on the mom she didn’t know
@jadevalentin13610 ай бұрын
At least she learn her lessons
@AyandaShange-i6f10 ай бұрын
She thinks she can handle it while nope my brother is like her so I understand what she needs and you are right girly pops
@rockydavis948 ай бұрын
I’m a 30 year old autistic who’s struggled with depression and anxiety for six years, but I have a job, a bus pass, a bank account, I know how to cook, clean, tidy up, do chores and everything by myself, but I have never been mollycoddled in my life. But I often have my own dreams too, but most of them died with covid and the loss of my grandfather and other friends. I struggle to hold myself together, but o have friends and family to help me. I feel sorry for you in every way, Lauren, I know what it feels like. Besides, that dummy who badmouthed should have gotten a kick up the backside.
@Bird19647 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. I'm sure you still have dreams, maybe different ones but dreams. Keep the faith and pursue them. Wishing you blessings and happiness 😊
@KARanngem81wof6 ай бұрын
Strengths and abilities are always the hardest to reinforce for sure.
@zoidcorex5 ай бұрын
uhm its cause youre 30
@rachaelford552510 ай бұрын
Being autistic doesnt mean parents need to be so overbearing. If they treat you like any other child you easily become independent
@tamarastevens79815 ай бұрын
@@rachaelford5525 EXACTLY 100%
@yaepopz10 ай бұрын
THE REACTION ON HER FACE EVERYTIME SHES AROUND HER MOM😭😭😭
@Sienna_Ella7579 ай бұрын
SHE LOOKS SO TRAUMATIZED😭
@yaepopz9 ай бұрын
@@Sienna_Ella757 IKR
@anon221810 ай бұрын
I’m autistic and my mom is protective of me. She refused to let me to go university cause she thought people would take advantage of me which wasn’t the case. Now I’m older and do things on my own. I proved her wrong. For all the autism parents: you’re doing a lot more damage than good when coddling your special need kids.
@RyantheMVP4510 ай бұрын
i love you
@anon221810 ай бұрын
@@RyantheMVP45 thank you soo much!
@anonymous-s5y310 ай бұрын
I am lucky that my dad did let me go to university and I start my last year of University tomorrow even if I am autistic
@anon221810 ай бұрын
@@anonymous-s5y3 good! I’m glad he didn’t hold you back from pursing your dreams. You can do whatever you want to do, if not better than anyone else. Remember that.
@rananashi675510 ай бұрын
As a person with autism, I know what you're saying. In my childhood days, the lab scientists said that I couldn't make it to education, but I proved them wrong. I'm an adult and able to learn and work hard.
@GoLdCLaV10 ай бұрын
23:14 "I need to tell you something first." *"You have a boyfriend?"* That cracked me up 😂😂😂
@Mary43410 ай бұрын
Fr
@Skylar-lh5np4 ай бұрын
Okay can I just say how pretty Lauren is like ❤❤she’s just so pretty 🤩😍
@traceyhaviland487010 ай бұрын
Literally manipulated her daughter. What a physco. She didn't give up I cant believe I'm so mad over acting but yea this was an amazing message and video I'm glad everything worked out cuz she and many other autistic ppl are capable of so many things and their dreams ❤
@KARanngem81wof6 ай бұрын
My parents were the same way and my step parents too.
@jacksonhall112910 ай бұрын
Even though I don’t have this exact autism, I can definitely relate to Lauren’s struggles and difficulties adjusting to new things throughout this video. But the important thing is that no matter how difficult it was, she never gave up, and she developed new skills as well as handle stressful situations with ease. This has to be one of my favorite videos from Dhar Mann so far. Awesome job on this one Dhar Mann Studios!
@jennakaplan228210 ай бұрын
The actress who plays Lauren is amazing!!
@TheStrawberryGurl10 ай бұрын
The actress who plays Lauren is amazing!!
@marywood627010 ай бұрын
I really hope we get to see more of her.. she is a fantastic actress.
@v1oletteandjet5Ай бұрын
28:28 HIS REACTION HELP 😭 This mom reminds me of mother gothel.
@meowsickles2210 ай бұрын
This isnt a protective mum, this is a manipulative and abuseful mum
@leonghongling984210 ай бұрын
Narcissistic as well, she tries to cut off her daughter’s resources and connections so she can stay in control
@meowsickles2210 ай бұрын
@@leonghongling9842 yeah
@ItzStormyTheFairy10 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure the word is “abusive”, not “abuseful”.
@meowsickles2210 ай бұрын
@@ItzStormyTheFairy it got the same point across
@stevenwagner-rx7ew9 ай бұрын
@@leonghongling9842and she's an abelist
@RocketIsHereVR10 ай бұрын
This mom is extremely manipulative. She was telling her daughter she can’t live a normal life because of the autism. And tbh, autism makes life better in some cases. It’s not always a downside. I’m glad the daughter came to her senses and decided to spread out her wings and not stay cocooned.
@Jt__Jr710 ай бұрын
1minute
@jonathannevarezresendiz43278 ай бұрын
Why didn’t the mom worry about herself? Focus on yourself!
@maplemusic88517 ай бұрын
That is the PROBLEM. And we can thank propaganda for that. Propaganda is what tells us that people with autism/ADHD are less mature and prone to making bad decisions. This is the problem.
@tamarastevens79817 ай бұрын
That's not right
@imsingelandreadytomingle10 ай бұрын
“Wow, you’re really good at your job…” “Thank you!” 😭😭😭
@angrybudgie964 ай бұрын
This one really resonates with me because my mother is the same exact way. It's why I had to get a lock on my door just to keep her out of my room. Before, she would throw my stuff out, including my artwork and things that I bought like small plushies and books, thinking they were all pointless. She would also coddle me when I was younger and shelter me. Wouldn't let me hang out with my friends or go to sleepovers. It's very overprotective indeed. Mothers like these really do need an eye opener. I remember when I was a teen, I felt so suffocated and I kept all my emotions bottled up inside until I burst. That's how my mental illnesses were born. That's why it's important to keep your children happy and let them make their own decisions provided that they are good ones. If it doesn't do any harm, why should you take away the things that they enjoy? There are mothers out there that let their children do anything they want, which is no better than an overprotective one. But the ones that know what to teach their kids and how to raise them with proper care know that kids need enrichment and stimulation in their lives to grow healthy. Taking that away from them and alienating their flaws is going to negatively impact them.
@gwenmloveskpopandmoreАй бұрын
Your mom is abusive. I would suggest running away and call the cops. Or secretly escape and don’t look back
@MirandaDoughty-qy9tv10 ай бұрын
I can’t believe her mom controlled her life like that. I have autism too my mom never did anything like she did to Lauren. I bet she was the one that found away to reject her from the art college. I can’t believe she talked to Bradley and told him and Lauren to go their separate ways. All because of Autism?! I have autism and everyone treats me the same way as they do everyone else. So yeah Lauren is like everyone else we all are. Disability or not we are like everyone else everyone of us. If her mom was that upset about Lauren leaving her after her father died because she felt like she was going to be alone why didn’t she tell her that before? You should always talk with your kids if you feel that way but don’t keep them back from their dreams. Kids will always visit their parents and never be gone forever when they leave. At least they were able to talk and forgive each other.
@rananashi675510 ай бұрын
I can't agree more than what you say.
@maplemusic88517 ай бұрын
Exactly! And such a mother is a control freak. SHE wants to be the one in control of Lauren's life and SHE wants to be the only one in charge. She is a possessive mother who thinks of Lauren has her extension and this is HORRIBLE. I would rather that we drop the autism label except for severe cases (we can call that mental retardation if you want). Bring back the R word and stop the PC junk.
@Just_a_gurly200910 ай бұрын
13:06 That stare caught me off guard
@mimibrown759710 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@braimadjwithsismanija408510 ай бұрын
frrrrrrrrr
@Subingtoanyoneyhatsubstome10 ай бұрын
Read ma name
@Rosie2016BP10 ай бұрын
Frr 😂
@aishadavis18010 ай бұрын
FR 😂
@johnekunode10 ай бұрын
This is literally how narcissistic moms be, just straight up demons, don't wanna see anyone else happy and just care about nothing but dragging others into darkness with them. I may not relate to having autism but ik what it's like growing up with a controlling mom(especially when they take advantage of their disabled children) I can go on and on but this video is merely scratching the surface, super relatable.
@juliebrickley25628 ай бұрын
It's bad enough to be unlucky enough to date a controlling partner , & worse still if it happens to be one of your family members. Unfortunately, even your family members can be controlling, Isolate you, Treat you like a child, Doesn't let you have any freedom & independence, Controls the purse strings, I've got some of my own to add , Yep, Controls who you associate with, & the kind of people to associate with, Controls your hobbies, (eg sketching, like, dictate what kind of people you have in your artwork), Controls what you buy, (e.g. your family member or partner gets mad when you buy , say a 100th pair of shoes for example), Checks your phone or emails, Tells you what to eat, wear, & when to eat, wear, bathe, & sleep, & wake up, With a toxic family member/partner , you're way better off without them. All they do is make you miserable, & drag you down in to their toxic little world. That's what Lauren's mom did to her in that storyline.
@johnekunode8 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562 straight truth.
@gwenmloveskpopandmoreАй бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562and it turns out you live in an abusive home
@yourstruly_brayАй бұрын
0:42 awe, did your mom not care for you?
@M-ou4fmАй бұрын
Damn bro got roasted 🔥🔥🔥
@yourstruly_brayАй бұрын
@ 😭
@DaisyxCloudy10 ай бұрын
The *HONEY BUNNY* gets me everytime 😂😂😂
@BryanLopez-rc2eg10 ай бұрын
Change pfp💀💀
@RTrobloxian10 ай бұрын
Crazy af
@Light-Bulb_10 ай бұрын
I really wish teachers were more like the ones in dhar mann vids. Honestly the school system is so bad.
@shelleyvojtush267110 ай бұрын
Fr like some of my school lunches in elementary school looked liked vomit🤮
@GreyBeltDragon10 ай бұрын
you might wanna watch some more dhar mann videos before saying this
@dog-f5810 ай бұрын
@@GreyBeltDragon fax
@RocketIsHereVR10 ай бұрын
Frrrrrr
@princess-y7p10 ай бұрын
Fr. My school lunches are actually pretty good. But it’s the fact that we only get like 22 min to eat. PLUS, they almost NEVER shut up in those mics at lunch.
@S1zenn010 ай бұрын
"If you always keep a bird in a cage, it'll never learn to fly." Is the best quote ive heard in a while thank you for motivating me more Dhar!
@Annalise571210 ай бұрын
❤SAME❤
@Ki4d_person10 ай бұрын
Bro u said that as soon as the video did😮😮😮😮😮😮 nice😊😊
@ilovjayferforever10 ай бұрын
It's actually true tho😊❤😂
@ChrisTheDoge10 ай бұрын
The meatriding is crazy 💀
@S1zenn010 ай бұрын
@@ChrisTheDoge ???
@AriaHuguely5 ай бұрын
Her mom is really overprotective!!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 And she is heartless!!!!
@HakeemJohnson-yr6sd10 ай бұрын
Her mom shouldn't be shutting her in like that, and the girl should make her own choices. (Edit) ty for 88 likes yall didnt really need to do that but ty.
@stacysaint-ilma78110 ай бұрын
Lauren does have a point.
@allgamestherandomgamer860810 ай бұрын
Womp womp
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
In that storyline, Lauren's mom was just a manipulative bullying cow! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@lucasabrams46110 ай бұрын
Even the number ‘18’ itself screams responsibilities. The reason why Lauren was so disorganised in the first place was all her mums fault for not letting her do anything. Just because someone is autistic, doesn’t mean they should take any less responsibilities. I’m an autistic 16 year old and my parents have let me make my own decisions for years now and rarely ever hold me back from doing anything, proof that having an autistic son/daughter IS NOT AN EXCUSE
@AARADRAWSHEHEHE10 ай бұрын
Fr!
@wildwildwestfamily655710 ай бұрын
Frfr
@sarahappiah-odame216310 ай бұрын
Real
@aaryanrishi73909 ай бұрын
Frrrrr
@ccreasner610959 ай бұрын
This!! I have 4 on the spectrum and they are not allowed to use it as a crutch. Exceptions but no excuses
@Sparklingpink1239 ай бұрын
as an almost 15-year old, my mom does my hair every morning, my parents cook for me, the other day when i started crying about having 1 pimple on my cheek, my mom helped me put on some kinda cream while i was IN TEARS😭 i really love my parents, sometimes i forget how grateful i should be to have nice parents
@chiefgroot51584 ай бұрын
8:39 british acent in the "After you"😂😂
@nschreck20_49 ай бұрын
Lauren could have just called the cops on Mom for breaking and entering and she wouldn’t have to see her again.
@chad-pro-v1p8 ай бұрын
I agree but she cant call the cops on her own mother
@bella.loveschannie8 ай бұрын
@@chad-pro-v1pno she literally can
@chad-pro-v1p8 ай бұрын
@@bella.loveschannie exactly
@lauren-qb9cf7 ай бұрын
calling the cops would Never be a good idea. they usually side with the parents. In their eyes. a parent is never wrong. cops can also help parents to oppress their own kids. and no one sees anything wrong with it.
@creeperhunterty55567 ай бұрын
@@lauren-qb9cfnot if you have proof of it
@olivabuckhanon122810 ай бұрын
"If you always keep a bird in a cage, it'll never learn to fly." Thank you, Dhar, for this hard-hitting message❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@SIDV-h7w10 ай бұрын
Wow. Good lesson!
@anitkausa10 ай бұрын
@@SIDV-h7w Real :)
@Joeloboe10 ай бұрын
@@SIDV-h7w6 mins
@ChrisTheDoge10 ай бұрын
Stop glazing dhar mann for just a heart bro 💀
@UnOfficial_FunSizedWhitty10 ай бұрын
@@ChrisTheDogeor maybe they’re just giving out some quotes that are actually smart in my opinion
@garlicpepperoni10 ай бұрын
for the first time, i respected how Dharr Mann potrays autism with no typical stereotypes ❤ This video is close to my heart and ease my soul that i am more than my spectrum❤ good job!
@gwenmloveskpopandmoreАй бұрын
Yeah I hope he keeps it up
@Gowri_nakshatra2 ай бұрын
I literally cried because of the moms Manipulativness 😭😭
@fras8910 ай бұрын
'' if you keep a bird 🐦 in a cage it will never learn to fly '' honestly I've never heard that one before but I love it very much 👍🏾 👌🏽
@sleepygurlieexxx10 ай бұрын
ffrrr
@oweniozzi241810 ай бұрын
same
@Bird19647 ай бұрын
Love this ❤😊
@arcTic47510 ай бұрын
22:27 THE WAY HE SAID TANJIRO KAMADO 😭
@EmunahFelix9 ай бұрын
Thank you. you get me🤣
@soehxn9 ай бұрын
same
@NyaShin-gn9zn9 ай бұрын
I agree
@goncalohenriques241910 ай бұрын
The mother's overprotection is what make her be a little desorganized and with lack of experience
@Horacejr200010 ай бұрын
and she broke into her daughter's property which is illegal by the way
@CupcakeplaysRobloxYT3 ай бұрын
That mom is so mean to the girl. I'm not autistic but this was tearing me up 😢😢😢
@amandaoviaesu75199 ай бұрын
Bradley is such an amazing and understanding person 😊😊
@cartergomez53906 ай бұрын
I haven't watched it yet but can you inform me of who Bradley is? I will watch it in the morning because it's almost midnight lol
@averyxnik4 ай бұрын
@@cartergomez5390it’s the waitress
@UrLocalMarioFan0710 ай бұрын
"Wow. You're really good at your job." "Thank you 🙂" "Can we get some help over here? We don't have all day." Super snarky customer.
@al3enna_yt6 ай бұрын
It was sarcasm when he said the first line
@haleighh.baileyy8 ай бұрын
bro i swear if she says “oH mY LiTtle hOnEy bOnnY!” one more time i’m going to crash out 😭
@nadaakol40984 ай бұрын
Fr😭😭😭😭
@jlhorne24 ай бұрын
Wow. This did NOT feel like almost an hour, this felt like 20 minutes. I guess time flies when you’re watching a good story!😊
@StarlingGoesCrazy10 ай бұрын
32:29, that’s literally breaking and entering sweetheart. Also can I just say how relatable Lauren is in this? Like I have autism and the mood swings, miniature “panic” attacks, negative thinking & isolation are just some of the things that people, especially me, can relate to.
@FreshwaterHour10 ай бұрын
Finally someone points out that she broke into her home (twice). Gotta love that she also tracks her phone without her consent too :D
@davidmunson115410 ай бұрын
Me too.
@NikkiScatch8410 ай бұрын
Same here!
@AmandaIngalls-b6h10 ай бұрын
Same! I feel like one thing goes wrong, and I feel like there's a curse over my head. It makes me want to sink into full on meltdown mode. Spending time in nature really helps to keep me grounded.
@AylaPerez-hh4yw10 ай бұрын
Same I have autism too and I always want to do things and I'm always hyper
@ophelie.lesueur10 ай бұрын
That mom irrated me SO MUCH 💀
@Stopgreenscreenkids10310 ай бұрын
Fr
@ImthatgurlMelie10 ай бұрын
She went on my last nerve💀
@Imadevideos78510 ай бұрын
Same
@leeberryis4ever10 ай бұрын
I’m so sick of her fr
@detmstr34110 ай бұрын
I could relate. Whenever my family has a social gathering, I couldn't mingle with 1 person without my mother looking over my shoulder, at dinner, she's always staring at my plate, and when I accidentally burp and say excuse me, she always gives me that dirty look.
@TheMiracleFamily31510 ай бұрын
I have Autism and my parents have taken care of me since day one. My dream is to start a family and one-day start a business and have a future in life. I always hope to have my own place but with everything going on in the world. It's pretty much impossible to live where there is danger around you. I Always believe that if you keep trusting in God for guidance and protection It will eventually lead to hope and success. Thank y'all so much for all that Likes I am very much surprised about How y'all subscribe I didn't expect this many subs
@Sadepurple10 ай бұрын
Same, one person told me that they see me as an inspiration when it comes to my hopes, dreams, and ambitions.
@bulletfreak22410 ай бұрын
Same with me..
@Shreksswag10 ай бұрын
Same here
@MatthewMoore-w9b10 ай бұрын
same here
@RyantheMVP4510 ай бұрын
i love you
@dylanm667883 ай бұрын
8:37 did she just try and do a British accent 😂
@PAK15TAN10 ай бұрын
40:55 that hair had me dying 😂😂💀🔫😭😭
@rajwinderbahia144410 ай бұрын
I know😂😂😂
@MyMumHasEpilepsy10 ай бұрын
Yes… it’s terrible 😂😂😂
@Girly_gurl0010 ай бұрын
Ikr
@thusithachithra38010 ай бұрын
IKR
@Someone2123410 ай бұрын
Ikr ikr 😂😂😂😂😂
@antoniogirgenti973810 ай бұрын
That was beautiful. It's nice to see the mom FINALLY gets the message of everything she's done.
@juliebrickley256210 ай бұрын
Yep, but a little late though, she Should've supported her right from "day one" when she was getting in to her teenage years. That's years too late.
@antoniogirgenti973810 ай бұрын
@@juliebrickley2562 That's true.
@Taco_Gremlin219 ай бұрын
Bradley is awesome for sticking up for her and liking her for her. We need more people like Bradley
@scarthelett46007 ай бұрын
John 14:8 - If God is all you have, you have all you need. Psalm 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Romans 8:18 - The Pain You've Been Feeling Can't Compare To The Joy That's Coming. Exodus 14:14 - The Lord Will Fight For You , You Just Need To Be Still. Jesus loves you all✝️💟 May God guide you throughout your whole entire life and lead you to the right path of life‼️
@tamarastevens79815 ай бұрын
@@Taco_Gremlin21 yes indeed
@PierroHarb3 ай бұрын
It pisses me off when she says honey bunny 💀
@Proffesional_YappistАй бұрын
So real though..
@AshTheTransNerd36910 ай бұрын
As someone with autism, my mom fully supports me and my dreams. She doesnt baby me but she also is understanding of my needs. She also recently got diagnosed with autism so i think thats part of it. But it pains me to see that some parents are like this. Disabilities make things tough sure, but that doesnt mean anyone with them are helpless. Theres aton of people who have done great things even while they have disabilities! For anyone who is struggling with parents like this, or just struggling with their disabilities in general; your doing great. Dont think that this will hold you back, if you believe in something, you'll reach your goal!
@Michi_ya10 ай бұрын
Dude I'm scared of that mother...she's like from a horror movie
@hamdiibrahim589810 ай бұрын
Fr she keeps teleporting
@VenusJefferson9 ай бұрын
Yes😅
@Isabella-pr3tty9 ай бұрын
Frrrrr
@EnchantingAmelia9 ай бұрын
Right
@Banna20149 ай бұрын
FR
@AmalaHayaJithra10 ай бұрын
OMG! That mom is getting on my nerves.
@alexandrarosalba5516Ай бұрын
I think people should let autistic people live their life. My best friend is slightly autistic and she's perfectly normal. Thanks Dhar Mann for making this amazing video!!
@ItsEmilyFazz10 ай бұрын
This mother is getting on my nerves
@ateriis10 ай бұрын
What
@fabiohoda749910 ай бұрын
I agree 🤬😤
@paulinadolinskiy10 ай бұрын
Fr
@Saulat_zulfiqar10 ай бұрын
Being a mother, she has an unwavering love for her kids.
@MeganWhamsWakeMeUp10 ай бұрын
My anger when the mum was bullying her daughter↗️↗️↗️😡I don’t like people who think people like Lauren our stupid when they are human too
@ChristopherBingham-xx8xl10 ай бұрын
Thank God for the sister, the dad, the boyfriend, and the people in the art gallery for believing in Lauren and giving her a chance to fulfill her potential. And I'm glad the mom eventually learned her lesson. This is a very wholesome and beautiful video. I only wish we could see how far her relationship with the boyfriend went
@LuisMartinez-km9gi10 ай бұрын
"I like popcorn" great response 😂
@nivedyaabhilash5 ай бұрын
33:24 she walked like robot 😂
@elizabethgergel531710 ай бұрын
As an autistic person, this touched me. Plus, it made me thankful that my strict tiger mother at least gave me some independence. Robbing an autistic person of capability and independence will create lifetime issues.
@TheStrawberryGurl10 ай бұрын
As an autistic person, this touched me. Plus, it made me thankful that my strict tiger mother at least gave me some independence. Robbing an autistic person of capability and independence will create lifetime issues.
@ryanmorejon581310 ай бұрын
I have autism so I completely understand everything that happens in this amazing story Dhar so thank you so much for making this video ❤
@Muniiieatsfood10 ай бұрын
I Dont have autism but i don’t bully them, syndromes r just a superpower💖
@quinnbrown10 ай бұрын
I'D AGREE WITH LAUREN, BECAUSE SHE'S AN ADULT AT 18 & LIVING TO SEE IT, & HER MOM SHOULDN'T TREATED HER IN LIKE A CHILD OK!😢❤
@johnmathews200510 ай бұрын
she should an 18 year old girl is crazy she will get pregnet in a blink shes just making sure here daughter is okay. shes just worried 98% of art grads fail shes a good mom .
@evionowighose546210 ай бұрын
@@johnmathews2005 DID YOU WATCH THE VIDEO THAT IS SO OUT OF PROPORTION IF U ACTUALLY WATCHED THE VIDEO YOU WOULD SEE SHE IS A ✨DEMURE✨ YOUNG LADY
@sarinahsultana65110 ай бұрын
It's a video chill
@NoProGamer_BaldZoro10 ай бұрын
@@johnmathews2005 your supposed to let the girl go off the college and this woman literally is breaking into her daughters home and the daughter doesn’t like it if anything the mom needs a restraining order against her!!
@Jeonkookie0T710 ай бұрын
I agree
@KendallElliott03883 ай бұрын
11:29 I’m not crying. you are 😭
@Pasta-k2w2 ай бұрын
OMG FRLL
@AmyMonroy-hf3wjАй бұрын
I’m not crying either you are 😭
@Saraandlexiandriley29 күн бұрын
I am crying 😢
@CINNARELLA2K410 ай бұрын
"If you keep a bird in a cage, you'll never learn to fly." Is the best quotation of all.
@lulujay010910 ай бұрын
24:37 if i was her mom I’d straight away say “IM NOT YOUR HONEY BUNNY” 💀
@MeganWhamsWakeMeUp10 ай бұрын
Me: don’t hunny bunny me
@sigma-alpha-4ever10 ай бұрын
Me: who are you calling hunny bunny
@zWizard-Magolor10 ай бұрын
Same I would say that
@sainguyen-ht7ju10 ай бұрын
You shall honey your final bunny
@LazyStorm_110 ай бұрын
21:40 that guy looks 20 years older than her 💀
@ChrisB071910 ай бұрын
0:53 okay I wouldn’t take that level of disrespect from someone whether if they were a girl or not.
@Willylepro10 ай бұрын
This cringy af
@xsilentcagg25x1110 ай бұрын
@@Willylepro in what way is it cringy af
@evionowighose546210 ай бұрын
Frr
@evionowighose546210 ай бұрын
@@xsilentcagg25x11 in everyway
@DaisyDavies-i2c10 ай бұрын
@@Willyleprofrrrr
@kukumelon231629 күн бұрын
This takes a mother being selfish to the next level
@Liv28_9 ай бұрын
I don’t think I’ve seen a more relatable Dhar Mann video. My name is Olivia, I’m Autistic, I just graduated this year, I have never had a job before, never dated, although.. my mom and dad want me to go back to high school for an extra year instead of college. They think I have so much more to learn. I am dreading going back because my one friend that I had at school got in a fight and she was 2 years behind me. So she’s going to be there. I sobbed yesterday because I just cannot see her or talk to her again… but I really don’t wanna disappoint my parents. I’m stuck between 2 predicaments… and school starts in like a week.. I’m so panicked, I can’t make up my mind, they say it’s fine if I don’t go back, but when they told me that, they sounded very angry/disappointed. I don’t know what to do. I just can’t go back… Any advice please?..
@paradiseandplum64769 ай бұрын
Don't give up yet you'll push through and survive
@MarybethBarges-yp2lt8 ай бұрын
hi i just saw this a month later and, maybe u should go to college!
@brendacarrasco7143Ай бұрын
Follow your heart and try to learn skills in the real world and do not let your parents stop you from following your passion.
@gwenmloveskpopandmoreАй бұрын
Ignore your parents of what they want for you because it’s ur decision not theird
@Danielleoffical610 ай бұрын
The person that acted Lauren is a very good actress, especially with her facial expression, I really hope to see more of her in the other videos☺😅
@gwenniecase281010 ай бұрын
Just because someone has a disability doesn't mean they have a problem. They can learn and do amazing things, just like the Good Doctor television show. He became a doctor, a great doctor!❤😂🎉