8 Toxic Things Parents Say To their Children

[@LeighCope-vw4yx]

Wow, this hit home for me. I was also verbally abused as a child and adult. My mother always said she wished she never had children. She passed last year, and even at the end, I asked her if she regretted having us 4 kids, her response, yes. I was told I was stupid, fat(ended up being anorexic)in high school, and stopped having my monthly cycle. I didn't have a winter coat, walked to school every day, and got pneumonia. I was told I was going to hell.I could write a book.. maybe that's why I never had children, afraid I would be like her. I'm 61 years old. You never forget those words....

[@joannstonebarger3545]

I'm so sorry

[@LeighCope-vw4yx]

Thank you so much. It felt good to share this with people I don't even know. The old saying (sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me), so not true.

[@joannstonebarger3545]

@@LeighCope-vw4yx So not true. Especially from those we love

[@floralcantar1822]

I know what u mean. I thinking a long time ago that I don't want 2 go to my mom's funeral. When the time comes. I know she my mom, but so what? My sister and boyfriend tells me go to funeral to give me peace. I have my mind set of not going cuz she put me in shame. So I know exactly how u feel. Sometimes I wonder what it b like having a mom who is loving, caring, understanding, always b there, and supportive like a mom supposed 2 b? I wonder how would turn out?

[@LeighCope-vw4yx]

@floralcantar1822 The day of my mother's service, it started at 10:00 am. I sat in my car until almost 10:00 .I didn't want to go in.I think that I realized she could not hurt me anymore with her words. I felt numb. Some people may not understand that, and I didn't share it with anyone like all the years of verbal abuse. All I wanted was for her to love me... whatever you choose to do is okay, remember that they are your feelings. I wish you the best...

[@carrots3865]

it’s always “Say sorry” but never “I’m sorry”

[@zainabqamar3465]

Such true words I heard today. Cause it's always like this. Everytime

[@isabellareiter-kocher3535]

I know what you mean always being forced to say sorry even when you did nothing wrong.

[@carrots3865]

@@isabellareiter-kocher3535 - this goes on the bloody brother/sister list too. it’s the worst feeling when they tell u to say sorry or to stop lying when you haven’t done anything.

[@lenasnyder8595]

Why doesnt this have more likes? 😓

[@grantwalsh7990]

i find this relatable i have great parents but when i fight with them they expect me to say sorry but they never actually say sorry to me and it really hurts

[@skyslife5670]

parent : “ talk to me when you have problems” me : *talks about problems* parents: “ you’re so dramatic”

[@m4ttd0tc0m]

that and when they tell you to and when you do they just say that I don't have a reason to be depressed🤷

[@ashleymarielgruta866]

And sensitive 🙂

[@aliciahernandez1916]

i fucking hate when my parents say this. she always it’s just in your head. or they say stop saying these things for attention. i remember when i was deeply depressed in my middle school years, sadly i was cutting myself and when i got caught with so many scars on my hand they hit me with belts, sandals and metal spoons. they took my ipod away, my tablet and anything that was sharp. they yelled at me saying what are you doing this for, it’s attention that you want is it. after a year of having no help at all from my parents i became worse. one of the guidance counselor had to tell and basically yell at my parents to take me to therapy or to a psychiatrist and they did but it took them a while because they didn’t feel like i needed it and that they are over exaggerating. to this day i’ve gotten better but the one who mentally and emotionally abuses me now is my dad and sometimes my mom

[@xoMrsWentzxo]

Or dismissing your problems as invalid or of no importance. “You think you have problems. I have problems, not you. I wish I had your problems.” Yeah, sure...

[@rishavsharma8631]

Fact

[@KurtisHere_91]

My dad was abused as a kid, he was hit, shouted at and abandoned, but instead of continuing the horrible cycle gave me the best childhood he possibly could and he succeeded, I had an absolutely amazing childhood, I couldn't have asked for a better dad

[@greodorehch4006]

That's like saying i have a perfect dad to an orphan....

[@ebonypresent]

same with my dad

[@yohaha]

That's my dad bro. I sometimes don't appreciate what parents do for us and I have to. All the stuff my dad went through I have to respect

[@Kasikerim]

Wish i had one

[@Flowey_Dreemur]

Good for you , my only cares about grades

[@Stanskzzzysl]

Signs you have horrible,strict or abusive parents. -feeling the need to hide everything -feeling scared to tell your parents things -they compare you -they hit you -they always say “but I love you❤”

[@notes-rj3eg]

my mom those that

[@yoro.jojjowi]

My parents do always say "I love u so much"

[@nanimonaiGACHALIFE]

Um... I relate to all of this.

[@riiyya_0]

They never said i love u tho

[@teun3526]

@@yoro.jojjowiThats a good thing

[@elektrikokapi8952]

My parents after watching this: "I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that"

[@Yuilyxlyy]

well were both the same..

[@47thspy33]

Arent we all

[@caroll5706]

Facts

[@azlinaibrahim9552]

oof, am i the only one that my parents did all of this to me? I got so stressed i cut myself just for their care. but they got mad, i know they will be mad but they said things like " your so stupid and dumb!" "What the hell is wrong with you!" It eventually led to suicidal thoughts and attempts. like i tried cutting myself deeper, choking my self with a rope, falling down the stairs. Tbh the internet felt like more of a family to me. The person i love the most is my best friend, she understands me so well than my real family. Idk i just want to open up my fellings to the world. It made me feel cormftable. Sorry for wasting your time! :)

[@elmocola]

Yeah...

[@okuhm9577]

*“You talk too much. Learn how to shut your mouth.”* *“You're always so quiet. Why don't you try to talk more?”*

[@maruwithcreepers8966]

"You talk too much" makes me hurt so much, almost I say repeatedly just make sure they listened to me

[@h4che]

Wtf it's so me

[@inversedfox9471]

"Answer the question when I ask you! When your parents ask you a question, it's rude and disrespectful if you don't respond!" "Stop talking back to me, that is rude and disrespectful." Like one second they demand you to talk, and the next they tell you to shut up. It's so tiring. They only want to hear what they want to hear. They never listen to your opinion. It's so unjust.

[@victorrain]

InversedFox I hear you!! You grow up being told to “Shut the fuck up!” But when you’re out in public and other adults ask you questions, you have a hard time answering then your parent jumps in and says you’re shy. In the car you’re being scolded, “Why don’t you speak up when people talk to you? You’re embarrassing!”

[@sbtopzzzlg7098]

Second option

[@BRITTISH.BXTCH999]

"All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children"

[@kiyokomiyazaki]

Chapters ♡ 1:15 offensive words towards their appearance 1:43 provocative questions towards actions 2:15 selfish wishes 2:50 making the child feel like a burden 3:22 unhealthy comparisons 3:54 verbally abusive words are statements 4:12 threatening abandonment 4:37 empty promises

[@frostythesnowman6151]

Thanks!

[@kiyokomiyazaki]

@@frostythesnowman6151 you're welcome!

[@Flowey_Dreemur]

6/8😞

[@user-iy6xs9sr1s]

I knew my mother hates me and would happily drag me in hell along with her and I didn't doubt that all these checkpoints align with me. No wonder I've got depression, declining mental health, depriving myself of all social interaction, am obese, and suffering from addiction to cope with little emotional intimacy as I have no friends. I've been fatshamed, and told and reminded everyday that I ruined her life and made me feel like a burden and she would occasionally hit me. I also have ASD (Autism) and she didn't do anything to help me and I am very high on the spectrum. She was never gentle and would scold me for stimming or having a negative response to loud noise. She also forced me to have physical interaction with strangers which made me really uncomfortable. She would leave me if I had a meltdown in public. I hope nobody else has to go through with this

[@grawakendream8980]

pin!!

[@petrichorz_1861]

It's funny how the internet is more supportive than my mother.

[@Kris-eg3sg]

Grecella Pm because all we do is to talk. We don’t have to do the heavy lifting. We don’t live with you, we don’t pay for you, and we don’t have to be responsible for you. There’s virtually no cost on us to simply say the pretty words.

[@nmuniz2]

Xu Yue jeez calm down.

[@raccoonguy21]

@@Kris-eg3sg that's kinda true but calm down man

[@chelsymancilla7800]

Fr😔

[@Kris-eg3sg]

RaccoonHunter21 why do you think I need to calm down? I’m not mad or anything.

[@yogurrrttt7580]

"your too young to be depressed" Your too absent minded to understand that words can hurt.

[@thisisauniquename]

YES

[@ajjdnedhsknwsksnn2973]

I told my mom I have social anxiety, which I do, and she's like "lol no u don't"

[@fairyjuggalo8368]

@@ajjdnedhsknwsksnn2973 i told my mom i have social anxiety too but then she told me that its just shyness and i should go and socialize then. Like bitch no-

[@pjisnotok4146]

I understand this soooo much. Depression hit me HARD in 4th grade. Developed into suicidal actions, actually. In 4th grade I tried to die 17 times, the count growing each year. A child is never too young to be depressed.

[@sotara744]

@@ajjdnedhsknwsksnn2973 same

[@wbien6994]

I had emotional, physical, sexual, mental and verbal abuse. No kid needs to go through that. I finally (at 60 years old) went to a rohun therapist who brought me back through all the abuse and helped me to be free of the trauma. My advice is don't wait as long as I did because the trauma affects health. My Dr. kept telling me I needed therapy but didn't believe him. He was right. My health and mind has been amazing since. Thank you for bringing up the subject so kids and adults don't think it was their fault. It is toxic parents.I don't even think about what I went through and never talk about it either and just say my childhood wasn't the best but it made me what I am today.

[@roberta9833]

Big hugs 🤗

[@kiendra]

Those lifeforms that called themselves parents should be abolished from this very world

[@cc1k435]

I swear that adult life is really about trying to deal with one's childhood. Mine has been so far, anyway. It certainly motivates me to try to put something better back into the world than that. I'm glad you're finding some peace. ❤

[@Iam.Saturnn]

I’m still a kid, 14, every single day I go through this, my mother is a single parent, and I understand having three kids is hard, But telling us you’ll leave us, you’ll kill yourself, that I don’t look how I’m supposed to, acting how I’m supposed to, do what I’m ‘supposed’ to, why do you think I avoid you everyday? I avoid telling you how I feel or how I am? It’s because everyone I do, you hurt me or try to do thing to me, I wish she’d understand.

[@MOh-pc3xn]

I'm sorry to hear that dear you don't deserve this:(

[@itszu6836]

Be selfish your parents don't deserve your sympathy

[@masumaayesha7384]

"I will give my future children a life my parents couldn’t give me"

[@svajunezubaviciene3899]

Haha relatable i think about it alot

[@mixderman2461]

I am still young (turning 15 at coming Monday) I have toxic parents and if I will have children I will do everything to give them normal childhood but on the other hand... IDK if I would ever go this far and I don't want to have anything in common with my parents, being such monsters. So IDK if I would be also like them... I really wish I won't.

[@SH4KE_ZULAAA]

Masuma Ayesha I will to

[@aryantuntune9319]

Yes me tooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@tetriscat135]

Well unfortunately most parents say this and do other or similar mistakes without realising it

[@carmenonea3800]

lots of people are not fit to be parents

[@totallycrazystudios1801]

And lots of people who are can't have children

[@carmenonea3800]

@@totallycrazystudios1801 Adopt and help

[@totallycrazystudios1801]

@@carmenonea3800 I'm 15 I think I can have kids, or at least I haven't been told otherwise. But yeah adoption is great too bad it's so hard to do.

[@robynwhelan_]

Some people don't deserve to be parents.

[@dumblehades]

My question is why you need to go through such extensive stuff to adopt, but anyone can give birth to a child. Shouldn’t they go through the same thing to make sure they’re capable of having a child?

[@leslieee_33]

Threatening abandonment, Comparing to other people, and threatening wishes was a part of my late childhood.

[@ladychatelaine697]

Being sent away to boarding school at age 11, says it all! No longer part of the family unit and made to feel like an intruder during the holidays, that I actually came to dread!

[@prod3kero]

My parents threaten to send me to a special education school over the dumbest reasons. I could speak in a slightly loud voice and they would say “I will send you to a school of retarded people with saliva dripping from their mouth”

[@madelynscreations9522]

Oh dang! I’m very sorry that happened to you. Being sent away to a boarding school or just anywhere outside of home sounds very painful, especially if it’s the parents that are being toxic. Take care and be safe

[@Banana-el5dh]

“You’re only crying because you want attention” no I’m crying because you don’t let me speak or have an opinion so crying is the only way to let out emotion

[@cubeguy2844]

Sometimes, people also crying for help, not to get attention

[@purplehorseneigh]

"Stop crying! You have no good reason to cry." Woman, you're screaming at me and you just spanked me skgjhsdgkdshjksdhg

[@alizlecamacho6144]

I feel you all I can do is cry...

[@ririjael3662]

Yea I cry to let my emotions out

[@vivicreature]

Words do hurt

[@jayceeashleycastro1687]

Strict parents: "I'm just protecting you" Congratulations now you have a kid that lies to you 24/7, never open up, and anxious all the time about wrong things they do and scared that it'll never be fixed and forgiven.

[@randomgirlinthetrees1954]

Well I can't even tell them I'm pansexual

[@ixa-3140]

@@randomgirlinthetrees1954 If people cant handle personal information that you are willing to give then you keep it to yourself. You'll deal with it your whole life theres just some things you can't tell everyone. If they see you dating men or women or whatever pronoun you want to use they'll see and get it. Regardless if they like it or not.

[@ixa-3140]

@@randomgirlinthetrees1954 I believe theres actually a correct way God made things to function. Call it what you will. I have seen God heal people and stuff that dont make sense scientifically. All those miracles were done in the name of Jesus. You can have a relationship with the same sex if you want but it comes with its burdens. Such as not being able to have kids etc. God still loves every pansexual person, and everything else you can think of. It doesnt matter where all imperfect and need Jesus. Only He saves not our good or bad. But that's my beliefs sorry if it ain't yours. God is so real I wish I could show you. And it's ok that you are pansexual just remember lifestyles effect every area.

[@ixa-3140]

@@randomgirlinthetrees1954 I hope your parents mature and you can express your feelings to them. The fact is if you want a family and you dont want to or adopt do any other methods. You'll need a man otherwise it wont be the same. And it can effect kids alot.

[@ixa-3140]

@@randomgirlinthetrees1954 I dont know how old you are but the reason these things are is because humans deny themselves no pleasure in their fallen nature. We set no limitations and let our hearts be carried by the wind. This leads to much suffering and pain in our souls because we are connecting with eachother on a spiritual level. And it hurts to be pulled apart. Weither people choose to realize it or not.

[@flameedits1]

i told this to my mom, who had been doing all of these things to me. and she replied “What the hell you talking about? I work everyday and feed you and i feel so tired. I raised you just so you would say this? I could’ve never made you!” she doesn’t really know how to speak really, but it still hurt, because i knew she meant it.

[@yuckyhamsandwich]

I was the child you mentioned in the video and I had all of the experiences you described. I was constantly being compared to my cousins who were much smarter and more talented than me in all areas, including academics, music, and sports. When I was young, I tried so hard to keep up but I could never compare. I felt like a burden to my grandparents who raised me, because they unconsciously said things like "If we didn’t have you we got have done this or we could of been that….” As a small child it ingrain into my mind. Eventually, my mother left me behind. As I grew up and became an adult, I had to pick up the pieces and try to become whole again. Now that I am a mother, I try to raise my kids the way I wish I had been raised - with love and support. Yet, even as an adult, most days I still feel broken and lost, uncertain of what I want to do with my life.

[@generalsheperd5864]

You're a great parent. Always remember that

[@kaijukirinuma9387]

Some parents demand respect but they can't respect their own child. So respect is only one-sided then? They'll even criticize you on your adult lifestyle, as if like they're not part of the blame on why you're living like that. *sigh*

[@boobies9391]

That's such a mood and it's pretty sad.

[@dustinkrejci6142]

Why did you stop preaching? I thought you were just getting started.

[@evajoanna3952]

my mother once told me that i should always respect them because they're older than me and that they raised me. i can't voice anything out at home or they'll call me a spoiled brat.

[@thatonebirdgirl1864]

Sigh... my mum and dad

[@saschaveloso6369]

*sigh*

[@user-nu7ir9du5q]

Parents once said: "If the parents are strict, it's for their child's goodness." Without knowing it's sometimes ruined their childs happiness.

[@user-jv5go3gu7p]

True....

[@brielovesarts9589]

Yes

[@KBMoonlight]

True.

[@halimaalhasan6836]

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[@halimaalhasan6836]

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[@therealzemoku]

My parents would say when i did something wrong like “if you do that again, ill throw you down the window” and my dad tried to hurt my 5 year old brother upside down. And my mom would literally care about the younger children more than me. My dad would literally care about grades(even if its a little low) more than my “personality “ This lead to sucide thoughts and crying at my room. Some of my friends knew my story and was telling me advice. You’re parents can’t treat you like this. Idk why ppl have a pain nowadays…

[@donnalindsay3731]

I’m in a Twelve Step Program due to my growing up in a dysfunctional home-middle child, unwanted, unloved, yet my sisters were loved. Keep spreading the word that what looks good on the outside hides what happens behind closed doors! Thank you

[@user-yi7ub5jv8p]

Reminds me of cinderella

[@potato.enjoyer]

i would add one more thing: When you grow up, toxic parents tend to neglect that any of these things ever happened, they say "i dont remember doing such things", "you are lying, this never happened" and when you actually accomplish something, they say its due to their "excellent parenthood" and nothing can convince them, that they actually were horrible.

[@toshafromt3548]

Oh God

[@boredd4468]

You're so right

[@soapgirlsrule]

omg this is so right! mine deny all the things they did.

[@type_Kizuna]

Sadly, you're right :o It's because people tend to forget bad things and remember good ones more often. That's what ppl say: 'when I was younger everything was much better.. '

[@adamp8309]

Lol you don’t have to be grown up for them to be like this. I straight up told my parents that they were the reason I was suicidal, they didn’t even register what I said, basically wrote a su¡cide letter for an English paper less than a week later, counselor called my mom, and my mom said she thought I was just “tired”.

[@kendalltompkins1544]

“She's just crying for attention” that hurts bad

[@bloomdoom13]

Same. The only "attention" I want is them to hug me and ask me what is wrong. I never got closure for so much bs my mom and dad have done.

[@CrazyOkuuProductions]

I started self harming myself in class because I was angry and stressed one time, and my teacher said to the entire class, “Ignore her, she wants attention.”

[@bloomdoom13]

@@CrazyOkuuProductions geez that hurts to hear. I felt that pang in my heart. I told the only man I trusted, my middle school orchestra teacher and he told the counselor. She had me in her office and told me to knock these attention seeking actions off. She called my mother and things went to shit. Why do all these boomers assume all self-harm is attention seeking?

[@quinn__9872]

that's is honestly the worst thing someone could say to you (or anyone for that matter) i mean love is just the one thing we want, no, need. i honestly just wanna give everyone here a giant hug (yea i shouldn't be joking around about this soz) and reassure them it's alright...

[@bloomdoom13]

@@quinn__9872 I need a hug so bad haha. *virtual hug*

[@I_see-feel_the-light]

Thanks. I watch these to figure out if I still have any toxic traits to fix. My mom broke some of these cycles because of her mom. Just as I'm breaking the rest for my children. I love that people are speaking out about this stuff.

[@Hayushi_sagi]

My mom always said this one sentence whenever she's mad at me for quite small mistakes.. "Why cant I be like your auntie!?.. Your auntie always put her children in your grandma's house (My grandma is very picky) and went travelling alone! Even so, your cousins are still very smart and Independent.... I wish my children were like your cousins.." 😭😭😭😭 She also said like, "I wish I could just get out of this house, escape, and never come back.." Like, she said that a thousand times already.. Since I was maybe 5 or 6 years old

[@kj9219]

"I hope you have kids someday. And they're just like you." Well, I did. And they weren't. Because I didn't parent the way you did mom...

[@Psych2go]

Good job! What did you do differently? Do you want to share with us future parents?

[@zippityzoop7937]

Omg my mom always says that

[@byme1998]

Maybe they are, but are able to flourish in a loving environment

[@LadyLazarus1027]

my mom says that to me way too often... at least i know that if i do end up having kids i’m gonna be able to raise them so much better than she did with me. it took me 19 years to realize that unfortunately she’s toxic as hell.

[@mixie.reverie]

My mom keeps saying that to me.

[@addiii4444]

the worst feeling is being called a liar when you’re not lying.

[@theasianman6641]

That’s me thank you 😭😭😭

[@annabellamurad2425]

its very rude bc they don't know feel what your feeling

[@elainejuquiana1712]

YES. I hated that so much.

[@user-ck1tm3ht5l]

Omg yes

[@wthistreasureisummon]

IKRR

[@jeggzzzz]

As the youngest and the only son, I was brainwashed and gaslit to believe I had to be here for my mom who had no one else and that I had no options. My siblings all left in their teens and won't even give me advice since their childhood was perceptively worse (which I believe) and that whatever I'm doing up to this point is satisfactory since I'm still around mom at my age. I've come to realize there is a reason everyone in my mom's life leaves her, but it's rather difficult to confront since it's literally behind closed doors where it is just her and I. So the lack of a mediator is often a problem. Because of certain circumstances I won't divulge, it is what it is. And despite being an adult setting boundaries, the agreements become null and void the next time it comes around. It's a never ending cycle. I've been trying to look for my own ways to cope around this but I'm becoming bitter and angry around her more and more. Debilitating even. "I just want to spend 5 mins with you and you just walk out. I get you don't want to be around anyone right now (do you?), but you don't even want to be with me either (I don't want to be with you, correct)! You talk about respect but you can't even show me some respect (you're asking me to stop my life for you, I'm asking you to leave me be)!" Very different versions of respect here. I'm losing my mind and leaving isn't an option at the moment so I'm trying to really hold on and heal from losing my dog, wife, job and stepdad all within 5 months last year. Typing this up alone makes me feel so guilty and afraid. lol I guess I'm being oversensitive again, right?

[@chilledolay4065]

Can't believe people would be like this to their own children. Sickening

[@V1rando_DIO]

Its both disgusting and interesting. I honestly wanna know the psychology behind these toxic people.

[@charcoalgaming5791]

**does something slightly wrong** Parent: **tsunami of insults** Also parent: “why are you crying? Stop being such a baby!”

[@lageleayti5533]

ThatOneGuy ikr I hate my mom

[@tanbegum5002]

I know right I’m about to become 11 in March and my mum always says that only reason I stay quiet is because I love her because I know she loves me and I’m honestly kinda scared of what she’ll think (I’m also Asian)

[@tanbegum5002]

Monkey Crocs my entire family on my mums side is a emotional abuser and they don’t even know it

[@reponzel16]

That explains my mother in so many ways

[@tanbegum5002]

ೋSαιlσя Flυττєяsнуೋ and what’s worst is they do it unintentionally well for my family that is

[@chloelarson1091]

“you’re not trying” or “you’re not trying hard enough” that one hurts especially when you’re trying your hardest :/

[@eris5688]

Chloe Larson I know.

[@sporeham1674]

I'm autistic, is often I'd literally not be able to understand. My mum would scream "you're not trying!!" Whenever I said I couldn't understand something.

[@V-False]

Same here they say it alot I know I should but no matter how hard I try it never seems good enough.

[@xXmillionairesFan13Xx]

True that

[@jenniesswagglasses3264]

My parents told me that when I got average grades for humanities and it really hurt.

[@zephyrkhambatta]

Omg, just described my whole childhood. I'm literally feeling like puking now.

[@user-dm1en6fo5c]

i don’t even feel comfortable crying infront of my mom knowing she will just yell at me. im 10 and i started having suicidal thoughts at 7 because of my mom, “your so chubby” “look at the difference between julia and emily” it hurts knowing some mothers do worse.

[@eccedentesiast2725]

It sucks when your parents are toxic but you can’t do anything about it because when you talk to them about it your being “disrespectful” or “just don’t know because your a teenager”

[@zoespoetryandthings9791]

And you're stuck with them because quarantine

[@Evakwood]

Well I found a way that my mother respects me because she is toxic so I just stand up for myself a few years ago i couldn't have done that but You have to find you courge I found it with music manly BTS and things I appreciate in my life like my Friends who are closer to me then my actul Family! I bilieve in you! :)) ;)

[@eccedentesiast2725]

Ally Larry oh yeah my dads threatened to leave like 12 times in the past two weeks and there’s been alotttt of yelling hope your doing ok though

[@Evakwood]

@@eccedentesiast2725 my father is in Amerika because of work and i life in Germany and my mother hates me lol

[@myleswashere6636]

Unless your under a teen 😶 like me

[@OkayLor]

The 90% of the parenting population who think that our generation is screwed up also refuses to realize that they raised us. *shrugs*

[@MrDominic600]

And if they say they’re not responsible for the way we turn out, they still lose because that means the messages they tried to instil in us weren’t affective

[@victorrain]

Or realize this is the world they gave us

[@pigeon.shr00m]

Apparently,

[@skyhime]

What is wrong with you?!? Do u really want to kno?

[@gttonero]

I'm always quiet, shy, addicted to my phone because my mom never allows me to go out and i got addicted to my phone because it's the only thing i can interact with everyday 😔

[@-Purple-turtle-28]

As a youngest child, i almost started crying when my dad was scolding my sister. I love my sis so much, i think she didnt deserve that, she moved to an other house. I hope the best for her. She gets the love she deserves

[@venerasediaboros2000]

All youngest kids should be like this lol

[@Wk-is8eh]

My parents had their share of things they said to me growing up that were less than savory, but after seeing what many commenters have experienced I feel grateful that I didn’t have it as bad as they did. I would be beyond livid/depressed if either of my parents told me they wish they never had me.

[@moaydm3786]

My old friend said to me "not all parents deserve a child, but every child deserves loving parents"

[@browniepee6555]

Anyone who are not ready to be a parent can make a hell and then end up destroying yourself and not a good parenthood and for the sake of children, they all deserved better to grow up into a proper environment humble kind and useful human beings in the society! Riches are not everything to spoil the children, and that's my opinion.. Take it or leave it or hate me

[@lilachristy4657]

That is so true.

[@Axol9934]

@Im Married To Sugawara AHAHAHAHAHAJHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAH '''uGh YoU cAn TaKe cArE oF YoUrsElv''yes child yes whe can

[@umamazehra2319]

After failed in an entrance exam my father continuously taunt me and I feel like trash. How can I overcome..please dad it's enough now I don't have power to endure this. I did my best in exam but I am fail unfortunately😔

[@lilachristy4657]

@@umamazehra2319 You are NOT A FAILURE!!!!!!! YOU are enough!

[@sl6pt]

“You’re young you don’t have a reason to be depressed.” “Even the dog listens more than you.”

[@benjaminchartier6458]

"Even the Dog listens more than you!" Said a parent who believes that the child exists to meet their needs,without leading by example

[@thezazzy4294]

Normal Doggo “It feels like I’m talking to a wall”

[@dimitriskarydakis7673]

"You're young you don't have a reason to be depressed" . Yeah sure thing mum. Tell that to a whole year of anxiety and stress caused by HOCD. Tell that to my need for acceptance and my desperate attempts to be calm while im on the verge of fucking collapsing due to hypertension and anxiety. I dare you mum!

[@Mariajvbrown.atinyzen]

Normal Doggo my mom once said to me PTSD doesn’t exist it’s all in your head, get some air...

[@alexissimone9220]

I felt this one

[@IHAVENOGENDERONLYRAGE]

I relate to a lot of the things said in this video. A few other things that at least happened to me that I think are toxic are saying stuff like, "One day you're going to stop loving me, even after everything I've done for you." or "Why don't you want to hang out with me? You're becoming such a teenager." This makes someone feel like they are the one in the wrong if they ever think that their parents are toxic. Another one is saying stuff like "That never happened," "You never told me that," or "You're just doing that for attention." This can make someone feel distrustful of themselves and doubt all their bad feelings and memories of that person, even if it seems relatively harmless. Another thing is telling the child how much the other parent sucks and how the child should choose between them, for example, "Your father drinks too much alcohol," or "Your mother is too competitive." Even if they seem small, stuff like that happening constantly when you have no escape can mess someone up.

[@dag118]

All of us that experienced these, but did not repeat ....you are incredible! Job well done.

[@ISLAnd-gyal]

"I wish I never had kids" Me: "I wish you never had me too"

[@jocelyn3503]

Felt...😞

[@clownz8314]

I feel this on a very personal level.

[@yournamegoeshere7584]

Thats a defense not even my brother (who is lvl 2512 in basketball) can comprehend

[@lavenderhexx]

Same...

[@sabrinarobert9623]

I was 12 when my mother said this to me and I said the exact same thing back and she hit me for it

[@legaru9790]

Something that I never hear my parents say: "I'm sorry."

[@huriking7234]

Mine just believe that they are never wrong.they say: "It'S FoR YouR BeTtErMeNt!!"

[@aminm3470]

No parents say that...

[@lex3150]

My dad would be screaming at us and threatening us if we lost something that’s his (ik he won’t actually hurt us) and find out it’s his fault and we didn’t do anything he won’t even say sorry or I didn’t mean it I think that’s why I have a hard time saying sorry is well and showing affection since I can’t remember when he even hugged me and he never said I love you before (ik he love us)like I’m so scared off him but ik this is all because off his childhood and parents but can he please think that’s this could have some emotional scarring and actually effect us like parents think nothing can affect me bc “I wasn’t brought up like that” ugh

[@elizabethaftonstan]

Amin .M my mom often apologizes to me.

[@orangechef]

my parents legit just say “i’m sorry you feel that way” “but all i did was-“ they make themselves look like they did nothing and ultimately blame it on me it’s really upsetting

[@YOURBAEQUIN]

When i joined college i chose animation and multimedia and the first ever 3D thing I made was a Lamp and I was really proud of it because I was thr first one in the class to finish it and even learned to render it. I was so happy when my teacher praised me for having innate skill that I sent a picture of that lamp to my Father and told him that I made this today. He then said that "You can't make something like this. You stole it from someone else and sent it to me right? I'm your "FATHER"! don't even try to take me for a fool" I don't think I'll ever forget this in my life along with a mountain of other similar things. No wonder i fell into depression and ruined my life.

[@ArrodiPratama_]

I'm sorry to hear that I know what u feel indeed! But maybe there's some misconception towards your father, sometimes we need to approach and communicating in right way, But I'm proud of you keep up with the good work!

[@crystallized1565]

When my parents say that ur worthless and something like that I first go to the bathroom and cry and cuss god for bringing me in this world. A line I heard from a serial in 2016 when I was a kid is really becoming true that "Sometimes the love that parents can't give a friend can". I love my friends more than my parents Like or reply if u agree

[@PuffyNutty]

Child: *Gets depression from being emotionally abused* Parents: It’s confirmed. Video games are the next Satan!

[@Yennas]

Same

[@Ailgadem]

And they also blame everything on my phone because i spend a lot of time on it, but that's a way to cope for me.

[@meowmoon1799]

TheRedFox yeah, they often take my phone of me or shout at me because I’m spending a lot of time on it... I watch KZbin to take my mind of things! It’s the only way I can cope with it all!!

[@yukadiangelo]

They blame everything on phone. They won't even take their children to a psychologist, ugh worst parents ever. (Most of them are religious parents)

[@hello-sx7jo]

Video games can be our best friends. I only have friends on video games,

[@aneesaranii]

The worst thing is when they compare you to someone else.

[@justablackguy4701]

Yeah

[@oli_unicorn_loverhydzik8903]

Yeah, like I don't care what other people are like. This is who I am, they can just give me up for adoption if they don't like me

[@btsxjikook5693]

Exactly

[@revemooaena]

same my dad compared me to my friend :(

[@revemooaena]

he got A's and at least 1 A+ i think (idk i havent seen his card) and i got at least 2 B+ but at least i got 2 A+

[@laurrxd]

my mother heavily criticized me, she still continues to do so. she contributes to my insecurities, she'd make comments about my clothes, the way i dressed, how much i ate, my teeth (i used to suck on my thumb, as a coping mechanism to deal with my anxiety, it comforted me), and and my acne (im thirteen and going thru puberty). she constantly compares to my siblings. i used to think it was a "break you down, build you up" type of thing. i hate smiling, i smile with my mouth closed, i only sweaters and long sleeved shirts, i dont shorts anymore, just oversized jeans and pants. i often think about running away, saving up enough money to buy a bus ticket, then i worry about my little sister. im basically her mother, i feed her, give her a bath, she calls me "sissy" and i know if i leave, it'll break her heart. shes the only thing keeping me from ending it. finally recognizing have toxic my mother is. thanks

[@MinSaraWFC]

I experienced verbal abuse as a kid. I was very insecure growing up. Never felt good enough.. I always had to prove myself and perform to "feel" worth being loved. Then at 17 years ,I had such a personal experience with God that changed my life. I was in a dark place at the time and was invited to my Aunts Church. Well when I went there was a nice pastor and others who prayed for me and began to tell me "about me". They saw where I was and didn't judge me. I felt the presence of God fill the room. For the first time, I knew that God really saw me and cared about while I was a broken mess. They told me what God told them to say, and it was everything in my heart. I was blown away by the love of God. From that time on, I was on a personal hunt to know God and figure out who God made me to be. He turned my life around, heal my broken 💔 heart. Years later sent me an amazing husband. God loves you no matter where you are in life. Give Him a chance to show you how much He loves you. His love changed me... hope this encourages someone..😊

[@madelynscreations9522]

That’s beautiful that God does such great things!

[@ekgrce6219]

"why are you crying for no reason" " why are you acting like a spoiled child"

[@galaxydragons6244]

Or “ Stop or I’ll give you something to cry about” “ I’ll throw all your stuff away”

[@your986]

Yep

[@thetfl8539]

@Smudge The Cat ok

[@Triatan_at_war]

@@thetfl8539 ok

[@spencerballs8018]

Galaxy Dragons hold up my mom says that every time i cry?

[@amberyezek401]

“You’re so sensitive” “Why can’t you be more like the other kids” “You’re too loud” “You shouldn’t do that it’ll embarrass me” “Why do you always stay in your room”

[@maskytheboarderjumper1402]

Or "Why can't you be normal?"

[@buihaiang987]

1,2,5 really hits hard

[@goodbye8515]

This really is relatable

[@starsonsaturn7618]

the things in your comment my dad have said to me:1,2,3,and 5

[@twxlightmxst6963]

And " Why are you so dumb? " Maybe I'm just sensitive..? I don't know but it makes me sad..

[@graceogden1562]

It hits harder when its you're parents because their job is to love and take care of you and most people have parents who do that and it hits even harder because they have better treatment than you do

[@abelstrd]

There are some "parents" who see absolutely nothing wrong with this. They believe in their warped minds that this is to make their child strong or tough. I was told the majority of these things growing up plus physical abuse. All it did was turn my heart into stone, made me paranoid, insecure, and disdain for people in general. I don't want to feel like this anymore, which is why I am seeking counseling before it's too late.

[@frida42]

"i gave you clothes, fed you and raised you" as you should

[@TobeEvans]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 congrats for doing your obligatory duties of being a decent fucking parent.

[@pretty948]

You also gave birth to me which I DID NOT ASK FOR YOU TO DO

[@amandab9200]

@@pretty948 EXACTLY I SAID THAT THO AND I GOT WHOOPED

[@MsOrangeSoul]

“I used up most of my money to send you to a good school.” I actually hear this from my Mom 😞

[@Idkwhattoputhere641]

Just say, “A dog can do that”

[@mochimmyloveyall9310]

Random abusive parent: *"You're a mistake"* Me: *And you're a regret*

[@ayab828]

MoChimmy LoveY’all armyy

[@mochimmyloveyall9310]

Aya 03 Wasssssup! :B :D

[@violamancini]

hey army 😔💜✌🏻

[@sajjansingh4022]

Army?

[@cherubi5105]

Army

[@Ace44479]

There was a period of time when my mom talked $hit about my dad every single day, for days on end, like clockwork. I am one of my moms and dads children who speak to my father willingly, unlike two of my siblings (who were always present during her sessions) and one day I finally told her I didn’t want to hear it anymore, it was negative and not healthy for me or my siblings as his children. (They’re divorced if you haven’t gathered that) She seemed supportive but quiet. Later that day, when me and my other siblings were present, something had happened between her and my father again and her words in the car were “I would talk about it, but it’ll upset ___” (me) and my siblings all turned and looked at me like… fr? And I was emotionally manipulated / peer pressured into lowering a boundary I set, so she could say what she wanted and $hit talk my dad. This is still a problem to this day. Keep spreading awareness.

[@Deeeeeepwaves]

One of the worst things I've had said to my by my parents was being called a worthless f**k... its been bothering me ever since and I cant get it off my mind...

[@notzeinak]

I'll give my children a life that my parents never gave me..

[@kittyrangshorts1209]

Me to

[@simpon9039]

Yea me to

[@liatheshadow5821]

Oh my lord stop , I've already cried so much today your making me cry even more..

[@treetops2203]

I'm sure that's every parents goal.

[@zawhtedum]

No matter what. Nothing will ever be enough for your kids too.

[@breannaramos4127]

“All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children”

[@mikehancock6103]

Like that bcuz it's true! Thanks for sharing! Someone with a 💔

[@michaelblacktree]

This is very true.

[@ommzi6428]

Holy shit...

[@ImVeryBrad]

It does bug me that any 2 shit heads can get together and start having kids

[@timberkrev7978]

@@ImVeryBrad I know my parents. They are good people. Still, I wonder

[@mmcrafter7824]

Wasnt sure what i was expecting from this but it was really good, excellent points and showing unconditional love is important. I liked it.

[@user-dv5cp9wk5s]

I would always remember that one day my brother made a sculpture my parents would say” he might get better than you” and I would feel like I always needed to one-up my brother all the time, and if I didn’t they wouldn’t help or give the attention I need as an extrovert. This has happened multiple times with multiple things and makes me need to be very productive day.

[@sadiaafrinsnaha]

It 100% true that : " Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"

[@nandagopalr8246]

99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% true - a child having parent

[@medhajha8578]

yesssss🙂

[@ii_gabrielle2391]

Then how are they a parent?

[@critter_core]

@@ii_gabrielle2391 besides the point I suppose

[@okkgoatsu]

Hmm.... I guess your right.

[@bethany-b2pkfilms792]

Oof some of this hits. Didn't realized it as being abusive. Just thought I was sensitive

[@shortgiraffe9570]

I am realizing this, too

[@shilohscosycandyshop8158]

Same

[@ksjwnt3993]

I thought that too I thought I was over reacting and being sensitive about it but now I realized that I wasn't overreacting

[@hierophantmeme6578]

Bethany - B2pk films same

[@samgourhan207]

Part of me thinks that this is abuse. The other part thinks i am a lil bitch & need to nut up. There are starving kids in africa who have no parents & people are worried about mental health. It really doesnt matter

[@kevinmlevites8429]

Brilliant and very informative. In my childhood, verbal abuse was to toughen you up because the world won't cut you any slack. Our job as parents is to get you used to it. This is because the world is not all chocolates and roses. I am 57 years old, and have never had children because I'm terrified that I would be abusive to them. Great video.

[@CrueSader73]

I experienced all this. Especially the body shaming. I was an overweight kid. I had a gastric bypass at 25 and lost weight and then got criticism for being too thin. I am now 50, and my mother still says awful things about how I look or wear my hair or decorate my house or even what my partner looks like. I even moved 1500 miles away, and she still tries to criticize my choices. She does the same to my brother and my kids, but they are a lot stronger minded than I ever was...😢

[@yumekko4769]

me: **genuinely sad and stressed about school** my parents: *peace was never an option-*

[@anvion1161]

Katsukii Milkki yeah my mam threatened me when she saw my marks 😅

[@Houchurchill77]

Katsukii Milkki haha yes

[@muella9938]

Parents when they are in bad mood be like: *"Let me shout at my children so they in bad mood too"*

[@gdemirhazeemistrash2082]

lol

[@monicapetitebonita218]

and then they get MORE angry when we're in a bad mood

[@sacredpotato2966]

Ye, parent logic in a nutshell

[@_fjxp_]

*Cheers, ill drink to that scared potato*

[@toruoikawa1011]

I know right? Like d u d e

[@KaYan9393]

This is super meaningful to know!!! What your parents did changes your child's entire life!!! thanks for sharing~

[@ninjanoh7014]

This video should be shown to every parents who are being toxic.

[@mitzi3851]

“No one feels bad for you.” “You’re such a crybaby.” “What is wrong with you?” “You’re faking it.” “I’ll give you something to cry about.” “You’re *fine.”*

[@godsgood9030]

My life story......

[@rxverb5495]

"Idiot." "Stop being a pussy." "I hate you." "Stupid."

[@kovitreality3443]

"You can't do anything." "Why did I get you as a kid."

[@arieatscurry1138]

“You’re ugly” “You’re fat” “You were a mistake” “I wish you were like that kid” “You’re exaggerating”

[@mediocreskullx84]

Heard that once or twice.. Reasons why only my close friends know things about me and not my parents

[@electricc_chair]

“you’re too skinny” “your teeth are too yellow” “why aren’t you eating? do you think you’re gonna get skinny?” “you’re too young to be depressed” “i bought you something yesterday. you can’t be anxious or depressed.” “why can’t you be like (friends name)?”

[@surfluxc4918]

GalaxySpoon literally😔

[@MlkMeow]

I feel you, my mum used to yell at me because my collarbones was visible as if I was responsible for my bones structure

[@Mel-bp9qi]

they act like we cant be depressed

[@waterunder3718]

GalaxySpoon Ok doctor

[@Shurizzler]

...true

[@nordicmagpie]

Most people focus on “why can’t you be like so-and-so with comparison comments, but another one that can actually prove quite damaging, as well, which I don’t know the proper name for, is when they complain about rude, disrespectful behavior or annoying habits to you about or other relative behind their back, especially if they are also pairing it with pointing out any signs of being annoyed or irritated by other relatives or people present, and then either saying “don’t ever let me catch you doing that “or “that’s why they let you do XYZ but don’t let so-and-so do it, because nobody can stand so-and-so and their ” It makes you paranoid about so many things.

[@glamourguide1011]

*Being compared to others, is the Worst feeling in the world..*

[@vi2751]

Which is why so many of us who were broken slowly healed over time, thanks to Love Yourself. BTS really did save some of us didn't they

[@moatydaddy]

Vivi you’re so right, plus the community as a whole is just such a nice place, army are the sweetest group of people I’ve ever met. we’re all in it together, we’ll make it through whatever’s troubling us💜💗

[@user-on6mr6dv6z]

You're right. My whole family compare me to everyone around me. To my friends, sibling and anyone else, it really hurts.

[@vi2751]

@UCyudNh7AilSQcQUBSN4vxNQ if you want something so badly, you can't live without it, you will look for ways to achieve your dream. Bangtan did it didn't they? The only validation you need is yourself. Opinions from others could but won't absolutely control your life unless you allow it to. You cannot force people to understand when they don't want to understand. You can lead a horse to the watering hole but you can't make it drink. I think Bangtan would be proud if you stuck to your own dreams and used others' disbelief as fuel don't you think?

[@vi2751]

@@imasimp3994 sorry my laptop did something weird but it was you

[@vanessashirazi9572]

when ur parents did all of these check

[@elmolong8102]

For me it’s just my mom

[@simplyxviolet6705]

Save the turtles Sksksk same here

[@kattkaufman6132]

my mom does all of them but my dad does a few

[@devilishvampire995]

And many more😂

[@samanthaerinvelasco2698]

i feel like moms mostly do this :/

[@Super-bs7og]

Child’s life. This feels like I really want to cry so much. Here this video is about the tips for how to parent your child. While others are collecting their children’s body parts in plastic bags. This makes me feel so sad that my tears had dried up. Now I don’t want to see anything but peace.

[@ricerice9486]

This video made me feel happy and grateful about how I was treated well, and made me realise some people could be going through this in their childhood.

[@slowedsongs8444]

I’m definitely not going to raise my children the way my parents raised me.

[@nickymagut7316]

Me too

[@azizaaman4290]

that’s litterly why i want children

[@blueberryhehe8133]

bubble Same And my mom says kids can’t be depressed

[@-Yosei-]

Same

[@anonymousentity4660]

I don't want any children. Not anywhere near my grandpa. Not in a dirty apartment.. He says mean things to me like: "PICK UP THE TRASH STUPID." "Take this and sweep the floor. NOW." "You look so ugly." "Who gives a s#### about you huh?" I dont want my kids to hear that.. I'm never having children if I dont move out quicky..

[@saood9371]

When a child falls in trouble, their first thought should be, "i should call dad or mom", but the mentality today has become such because of parent's toxic behaviour that their first thought is "i hope dad and mom don't find out" it's all because of parents never supporting their child

[@apocalypse5228]

@Guy with a wand alot of people, like me too can as well. parents are there to support you not supposed to scare you

[@yungmo1599]

Very hard to gain respect completely that way. sometimes ya gotta be tough; meaner than you wish to be. but then be chill and having your child like you but know that ass will still get beat if you do something you know you're not supposed to do. if they break something i want them to tell me so that they dont get hurt by whatever is broken. so i tell them that they can tell me anything, because i wont stop loving them, or hate them just because a inanimate object was destroyed. im 17, but i think about how im gonna raise my children based off how i was raised. I wont lie my mom and dad are semi toxic. it messed me up for a good while so i decided to raise myself mostly; to learn mostly on my own and i made a good decision. now i am somebody who i would want to be to raise children when i have them.

[@Sanjana_green]

Couldn't agree more

[@Orangeez]

This is so relatable! If my mom found out about something I did/forgot to do I’d get a mouthful of threats, comparisons, etc. Nowadays I don’t enjoy weekends as much as I did before because that’s when my mom is home the entire day.

[@Orangeez]

Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom but any screwups ruins my entire mood for the day or for quite a while.

[@melissazaid6775]

I literally relate to every single word in this video while shedding a tear it got me crying may god forgive my parents for what they've done ...and I hope I heal from these wounds that exhaust me ❤

[@williamrogersii3390]

Thank you. It helps to feel like you are not alone. And this made me feel that. To my fellow survivors…❤

[@SparkySparks33]

Funny part is everything a parent dislikes in their child actually comes from the parent.

[@tocalunar]

Yesss

[@its_p_j3608]

It's true

[@kysim]

Yeah I don't think that goes for everyone though

[@ninarodriguez8517]

Taking this a step further. This is the only reason humans judge other humans. Based upon the insecurities of themselves.

[@stonkman7878]

When i tell them you’re making the same mistake they say these things: 1) im your parent i can do whatever 2) keep quiet and stop talking back 3) who is the one who has lived longer? I just always get sooo fucking pissed

[@eskatheiceprincess4614]

Me: stand up for myself during an arguement My parents: Don't talk back to an adult!

[@raventide4793]

OMG SAME

[@lilimochifilm3254]

True, even when we’re correct. They just Shut us up

[@paigechew9696]

or dont talk back to a child...-

[@Bluwoo-ct6wz]

ME and now I got no phone and I’m lonely aF

[@arantxaescuderomartinez4528]

I just remain quiet to not make it worse

[@jtfaith]

Its such a pity to see kids be deeply hurt by their parents instead of being deeply loved no matter what... Its a pity, also, when parents behave like this and they don't accept any advice to think about it and seek help to become better.

[@MovingProductions7]

"You're out of line." That one still stings.

[@coffeefrappe8076]

Every child says “I’m sorry” But, I never hear the parents say “I’m sorry”

[@DanielSantos-gl8iz]

My mom only once she waid sorry for slapping me...the thing is that after that all she had did hurts more than the slap,jeez one word is enough and she didnt even care :/

[@arjaycornillez7354]

@@DanielSantos-gl8iz Cheer up bro

[@coollol5277]

@@DanielSantos-gl8iz Same But After That I never heard a sorry

[@coollol5277]

And I honestly thought these things were normal.

[@coollol5277]

That everyone has to go through this

[@fullsun19]

“What’s wrong with you” “You’re so annoying” “Why do you even cry” “You’re just faking it” “Stop being whinny” My parents after I had a mental breakdown...

[@ZomBeeDabadee]

Omg ikr :(

[@hottie5413]

Someday things will be alright !❤️❤️ Just believe in yourself ,even if there is no one

[@chronictheaterkid]

Your parents don't need to say that. That's horrible parenting.. They need to understand that kids have fucking feelings.

[@Joanathefreak]

Full Sun that's what my parents say sometimes

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

@@chronictheaterkid ikr it bugs me so hard they think we can't feel anything at all and that they can hurt as as much as they want cuz we are just "dumb little kids"😞😤

[@_Venus_Eyes_]

I was seggsually and mentally abused by my grandparents and I had a really long struggle before I found this channel, and now I’ve gotten away from them and I’m doing better. I’m not okay yet but I’m better than I was an I want to point out to others who have problems but get away from them, you won’t heal immediately, it will take time but you will be okay one day, and if your not then that’s okay, we all get better at our own pace.

[@nancypatil-]

I literally cried at every part of this video knowing that all of these things have happened to me and more sad thing is that there are many people have many children have many kids who have went through this or might be also going through this right now is just so sad that so many parents can't understand their kid

[@jolisange5658]

"your sister is always better than you" "stop crying for no reason" "gave birth to you is my mistake"..

[@m44n7unu7]

My mom says im a happy mistake tho----

[@jacob-fh3ho]

P.K. P. That’s funny😂😂

[@Keegs06]

@@jacob-fh3ho no it's not

[@mayomibajracharya6039]

Iamjacob no its not

[@mayomibajracharya6039]

The lengendary tool in minecraft haha

[@urmom-qg8ou]

"Why can't you be like her, and get good grades everytime?!" Yea and why cant you be a caring and loving parent like her's

[@d0cgr4y]

Agreed

[@urmom-qg8ou]

@@d0cgr4y Thank you

[@thatonekidwhohasnoideawhat5048]

No then my mom says "Because he obeys his mom"

[@urmom-qg8ou]

@@thatonekidwhohasnoideawhat5048 Exactly

[@urmom-qg8ou]

@Raj Sahu Most parents do it unknowingly

[@russBwright]

The most liberating part of this video, for me personally, is remembering that we are as similar to our parents as they are in their effort to guide us through this mysterious and often time treacherous universe. Life is a lot more than simply surviving. How do we hold our values and why do we allow the influences we do to impact us. We continually need balance, forgiveness of the imperfections of others, and discovering the self through the trial of one's own capability.

[@lj6079]

I recognise most of these behaviours from my childhood to adult life. Do lack confidence which could be a result of my upbringing but i still love my parents and i thank them for giving me a life and making sure there was food on the table, clothes on my back and shelter over my head.❤

[@kirbys_pocket_dimension]

my family: insults my look* my family: insults my weight* my family: insults my friends* my family: insults my interests* also my family: you never spend time with us edit: i am not thanking everyone for the likes, i am thanking everyone for the support, be kind and respectful for each other.

[@royalredbird9717]

lmao

[@an_infamous_icon6313]

Mental Health condition: *Now that’s a lotta damage!*

[@Magikalll]

For a good reason 😎

[@kirbys_pocket_dimension]

@@Magikalll wut

[@Magikalll]

@@kirbys_pocket_dimension they insult your look,friends etc So good that they don't spend time with mean parents And nice comment

[@hopelessmoonlight]

The worst feeling is when deep down, you know that your parents are toxic but don’t want to admit to it.

[@MonicaMains]

Eevee0709 Don’t shame or belittle the victims

[@kaitlynwheeler5057]

Ikr

[@yosemite963]

arianatooorrrrss

[@kalenakelner2775]

Or when your best friend knows and does not know what to do

[@nothanks9478]

I know. It hurts.

[@maheshshahmaheshshah7797]

From growing in abusive environment, neglecting all the things which i loved to the journey of a teenage who accepts himself as who is he capable of

[@heatherstrigens258]

I have just seen an episode on your channel and I just have to say how fantastic what you’re doing really is. And how many people you are reaching, I am very impressed. And grateful. This is so valuable, and it’s necessary, clearly. Keep up this crucial work, please. This gives me a bit of hope. Another bit of hope is what I should say. There are many, many people who pour their utter souls into making just a dent in the hopelessness that is out there. We need each and every single one. Thank you.