8 Uncomfortable Signs You Are Becoming A Better Person

Are you trying to become a better person? The self improvement road can be daunting and seemingly never-ending. Have you ever felt as if you’re making no progress in becoming the best version of yourself possible? In reality, making yourself better is a slow and sometimes both frustrating and uncomfortable journey. Whether it happens naturally over time as you get more mature, or you make a conscious effort to improve, the results can go unnoticed. They can be subtle, which might make you feel as if all your efforts are going to waste. However, seemingly small changes both matter and add up to make a large difference. Curious as to signs you’re really improving yourself? Watch this video to find out!
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Writer: Lily Metrinko
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Ceechan
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[@Demonetization_Symbol]

I used to be a toxic person, and I always am scared of becoming that person again.

[@dashaa6174]

I'm still a little toxic but I'm trying to be better 👍

[@labudig5022]

If this is joke about your name then haha If nit then Im sorry :))

[@Demonetization_Symbol]

@@labudig5022 it's not

[@Vapor_ze_floof_]

That is awesome so you’re aware of that and that you’re trying to improve because the thing is most toxic people would not like to improve and not recognize they were being toxic and the reality is we can all be toxic but what’s important is we recognize that I’m so glad to hear that you recognized that😁😁

[@piccadilyroad66]

I'm proud of you, at least now you're a better person 👌

[@waffledoesstuff2145]

Parents, teachers, adults: KZbin isnt good for your mental health KZbin: *laughs in Psych2Go

[@romany8125]

It is bad for your mental health. Imagine how many naive kids are now under impression that they know a lot about psychology just because they watched some of this stuff.

[@iliveinsideyourhouse3943]

@@romany8125 That's those kid fault. This video is meant to makes you understand yourself, not to teach you psychology.

[@billywong7775]

KZbin is the best thing happened to me during lockdown

[@goldenlightfr6380]

Haha yeah that's right😅

[@KarateLauren]

@MAK gaming you can't trust *everything* on the internet, but you can know which sources to trust with research. The internet is an infinite bank of knowledge, correct knowledge mind you, if only used correctly.

[@maijas_music]

Maybe KZbin is telling me I’m becoming a better person with these recommendations

[@myfriendscallmek2745]

Haha true

[@andretoliver6108]

Yeah

[@xevaheaton]

Yes✨

[@annmorgan2020]

We love that for you 😊❤

[@cliffordseat3342]

Me too☺️☺️☺️

[@fake_kelly]

They really called me out when they said "nor is your life a k-drama 😂😭

[@ifrahjama2215]

Lol same

[@gnabnahc948]

Me too!!!

[@kimdaechwita4856]

and that yoonji-???

[@none3091]

Me too HAHAHHA

[@aditisrivastava3202]

Lmao I also felt called out! 😂😅

[@DrLizListens]

Get comfortable getting uncomfortable. Caterpillars literally breakdown into liquid to be transformed into butterflies. Growth is a painful yet beautiful process. Change is coming. You got this. 💗 Dr. Liz

[@rojejemo7830]

Thank you so much beautiful :) That was a wonderful description..

[@doloresdelcastillo252]

Beautiful idea.

[@Jimmyeatshrimp]

brb gonna break down into liquid

[@DrLizListens]

@@Jimmyeatshrimphaha it'll be worth it!

[@matteospera8427]

well, gotta go sulfuric acid shopping then, brb

[@JTZombiE]

2020 has been the BIGGEST “character-growth” for me lol I haven’t been the same since this year had started, I think I’m a slightly different person now; whether that be for the better or worse.

[@pontanoscharlottejamillacr4516]

I'm happy for you bro

[@streamepiphany9932]

Same

[@youtubelover2613]

Good to hear! I made it 100 likes...Idk why but I feel proud

[@youtubelover2613]

@@streamepiphany9932 I'm streaming epiphany 😤

[@streamepiphany9932]

@@youtubelover2613 YOU A REAL ONE THEN haha lol 😂🤭💜

[@xxkitsune_kidxx1788]

Thank you, I’ve noticed I’m a toxic person and I’m trying to better myself. Three of my friends left me bc they got sick of my bs, it was a huge wake up call.

[@jaspernguyen8674]

It may sound crazy guys, but clean your room if it’s messy, and organize it! Don’t just shove things in drawers. The process of dedicating time to do it, committing to it, and recycling/donating what you don’t need anymore, is not also peaceful, but extremely cathartic. I felt so good about myself after doing it. And it made me want to find balance with areas of my life. It’s a great first step towards bettering yourself.

[@redpanda7914]

I've realized I'm becoming a manipulative person for either better or worst

[@certifiedsirius]

Being a Manipulative person doesn’t sound good ngl

[@erikeippel]

At least you are accepting it - that’s like the next to last step in changing 180 degrees! ❤️❤️❤️

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

Maybe EVERYBODY uses some manipulative techniques to get a little more in life to go their own way. Maybe they (most of them anyway) just don't realize it, or even they hide from it. Maybe the worst and most destructive lies are the lies we tell ourselves to avoid our own responsibilities. AND maybe, just maybe, you're becoming more and more aware of all the moments you've used some technique or other to manipulate situations for your advantage. Maybe there really isn't an escape from being able to manipulate someone at some point, pretty much everywhere in life. SO what do we do about it? Maybe instead of the knee-jerk "Manipulation bad" response, we stop for a moment and ask ourselves "Why should I manipulate this situation or this person?"... If we think about it in terms of what we can get them to do for themselves, then maybe it's NOT so bad that we manipulated them. Maybe this power of manipulation CAN be used for someone else's good, too. Sometimes, it's not an act of pure evil that you manipulate someone. Just becoming self-aware enough to realize it's what you do, you've come farther than most. Accepting this about yourself also makes it become a part of you, and like your own hand is a part of you, YOU can now learn to control it. I'd hazard that there's still responsibility to be undertaken with it, but that this isn't for the worst. The fact you find it important enough to type out in the Comments and make an accountenance of it says you're better than that. ;o)

[@YingLing]

I’ve learned to use my manipulation on ppl who decide to be rude and hurt others don’t know if I’m still a terrible person

[@redpanda7914]

@@YingLing that's pretty much my situation

[@VerenaSatriani]

It's interesting how growth takes some uncomfortable feelings. Good thing is away from our comfort zone.

[@penciltamaraart]

I am always on my way to becoming a better person. But the outside world doesn't seem to care. In fact, the better I try to behave, the worse people behave towards me. The people I meet when I leave the house make it very difficult and frustrating for me to try to be a nice person. It's like they respect me more when I don't care about them.

[@sheepisfortheweak6164]

I'm trying to overcome my social anxiety and try to deal with autism. It takes bitter effort, but the results are always worth it.

[@pamelatorres156]

When you are stuck in a world that always make you feel like you're not good enough, even if you do your best to change, in the end you just want to be loved and appreciated just as you are.

[@mia1530]

Even through all the stuff that’s happened this year, I think I’ve become a slightly better person in a lot of ways. I’ve learned a lot about myself and others around me. I’m hoping I’ll be able to take this knowledge for when life has become a bit less... chaotic.

[@Missy-vc3mz]

You will 👍🏾

[@lc9381]

Thank goodness... I feel so touched... I am actually becoming a better person... 😭 😭 😭

[@CertifiedUser14]

I relate to some of these signs, still working on vulnerability around others and asking more questions or being curious. I find myself still leaning back and hiding myself in a corner in my chest. I've got further steps to make, and the process isn't linear but it's a process. If you're reading this far, rememebr it's a process. Be gentle, take care

[@katelynbrown98]

I don't know if I'll ever stop loving this channel's videos. I just love how calming you are. And I really do want to become a better person -- more empathetic & loving. Less judgemental towards others & myself. More kind and understanding of why others make the choices they do. But also more diligent about where I want my life to go.

[@jeffreyphillips4182]

I'm 72 years old and where I am is fine with me. Don't need much in the way of contentment. Just be yourself and you'll be okay

[@themoonisbeautifulisntit2860]

i’ve hurt a lot of people, and i’ve just now become aware of all of the people. i’m working on coming to them and holding myself accountable and apologizing to them so i can help give them closure as well myself, the guilt has been really eating at me and i feel terrible. all i know is that i don’t want to hurt anymore people and i’m going to heal so it never happens again.

[@afsheenqureshi7957]

This actually really made me feel good about myself.... I've been trying really hard to overcome my depression and improve my mental health....,❤️❤️

[@rojejemo7830]

I am so glad to hear that sweetie :)

[@kirtu9035]

Who else is becoming a better person

[@TinthiaClemant]

Let go of past mistakes, forgive yourself, and learn from past mistakes-and love yourself. 🌺

[@octograndma8330]

I was honestly a big headed, had a big ego and also aggressive back then! I did mistakes and probably cause lots of problems to people and my teachers who i really want to apologize.... Its good to know that i kinda change.... Though i still can't say my feelings out loud and make some decisions on my own that depends on the situation......Well I'm still learning and changing... So who ever who's trying to change.... Remember that your past isn't who you are even if other people are looking or comparing you to your past! I know that it's hard to come out from addiction and other things.... But don't give up!, 🐙

[@swanaraj1653]

A year like 2020 really needed a channel like this for people to actually be mentally healthy. Thank u so much psych2go

[@bethanyfisher532]

Learning to be the best version of yourself is one of the hardest journeys that can last a life time. One thing that has help me to become the best person i can be is learning about myself, what works for me and what doesnt, what i like and what i dont like, what i need and what i dont need, how i learn, how i express myslef, How I act, How i think, how I cope, how I react in situations. My strengths and weaknesses, my insecurties and the things I am most proud of. These are some questions I have asked my self and leanred about my self. Self discovery has been one of the most helpful coping skills for my depression (yes I was properly diagnosed). Anyways even trying to answer one of these questiosn about your slef is progress!

[@omfg992]

video: do you avoid problems? jeff with 256 homeworks and 45 presentations for next week: no i dont

[@najrenchelf2751]

Having loving people in your life does WONDERS for your mental health! I had to go with my back up plan for my 3rd year internship at Uni because of COVID (something local) - but the group of people is so wholesome that I’m gonna stay at that place for my Graduation internship as well! I love my friends! 🥺☺️😭🥰

[@theshoobananamaster8245]

I've been trying to become a better person, and this proves that I actually am, I relate to almost all of these signs, and I think I know why it's been happening so suddenly. I believe why I've suddenly realised these signs and that I've supposedly started to become a 'better person' is because, about a week or 2 ago, I let go of my crush, since then I've felt a lot better and my anxiety has dramatically reduced. I personally want to become a Psychologist when I can as I love to help others with their problems, that's why I subscribed to this channel, I actually first found this channel because I was trying to figure out if they had a crush on me back (back when I had a crush on them). also, sorry for the essay, I know that you most likely won't care, but still, sorry about the long paragraph. : )

[@k-onenthusiast5234]

Though it definitely is uncomfortable, change comes and goes, and in the end, it always is that. Uncomfortable. In an ever changing environment, we try to find something controllable. Let's strive to change together! :)

[@TobyDelt]

I'm trying very hard to be a better person and I actually get all of the signs!!! I am so happy!!!!

[@brianschuetz2614]

Life is a journey of learning and growing. From my teenage years and beyond I've been continuously searching for understanding of who and what I am. We each go at our own pace, and face our own failings and challenges. We each experience our dark times. I have bipolar mood disorder. I have had to deal with depression since my teen years. I was a teenager when I first thought about suicide. I only considered it momentarily, then I rejected it entirely. I promised myself and my God that no matter how bad I feel, or how terrible my life may look or feel, I would never deliberately end my life. I've experienced dark enough times that I fully understand and empathize with those who have committed suicide, or attempted it. I'm not sure how I got through some of those days and actually still did my job. I am currently doing well, and my moods are stable. I have also recently successfully dealt with the last of my emotional baggage. I'm now seeking my next goal or direction I need to pursue. Even though I'm 54 now, I'm still growing as a person. We should never stop learning. If you aren't learning and growing, then you're cheating yourself. No mater how much you hurt, no matter how terrible your life may seem, never give up. Fight to the bitter end if you have to. Life doesn't just suck, it is horrible, sometimes. Make something good of it. You can succeed. You can become a better person than you were before. You can look despair in the eyes and not blink. When you are at your weakest, you can find strength. Strive for it; fight for it.

[@BellaHRayne]

I thought of my incredible husband the entire time I watched this video 🥰 I have watched him grow and become a truly amazing individual.

[@tj921able]

These are great signs. I go on walks and think about things quite a bit. That is actually another benefit of walking, you get to think about your life and what changes you might need to make.

[@eshamary3449]

When I joined to my new school it became online class and in online class, students are only interacting only with teacher and not other students.it was terrifying

[@ejletsgo1650]

I got heartbroken not too long ago but there were alot of things that I changed 1. I gained peoples respect because of how I changed from grd 7 to now 2. despite people hating me especially someone I have affection for I dont dwell too much on things that happend even tho if I do sometimes I still remember who stayed nothing lasts forever they say

[@naseemashfaq7574]

Always try to improve yourself. And do things that help you in the long run. Self care is so important. Make time for yourself.

[@mellymel766]

Yes everyday I try to battle myself and learn more about myself in the world that I'm surrounded by a life without growth is a waste good video knowledge is power keep it coming ☺️💪

[@kiwitartss]

This made me cry a little bit, because I do want to become a better person and i can see progress.

[@BetterDayz55]

Well, I think it's safe to say I'm stressing waaaaaay too much about being a better person considering there wasn't a singular thing in this video that I couldn't relate to. Thank you so much for pointing out my unnecessary stress to me!!

[@amiliajane1059]

Your voice is so calming, we can literally understand everything so clearly, you wud be a really good teacher!

[@var8510]

Life is not a Kdrama The korean Weaboos: 😳

[@puffichick1379]

I love this animation style!! It’s so cute

[@gemsimagine8486]

i just wanna say thank you because ever since i discover your channel it really helped me improve alot. like now, with this topic, i found myself that all of this almost applied to me. Because of u i now know how to handle myself so thank you very much for helping me.

[@Mangotasty]

Back in elementary I used to bully people to seem cooler but now that I'm in middle school I'm learning to change to the person I always wanted to be dee inside

[@iceclouds]

It’s time to time travel :)

[@JustACandyy]

WoAhhhH

[@jenniferlindsey2015]

Since joining a 12 step program, I realize that the program is designed to increase the emotional maturity of those that choose to work at it. It’s not an easy path, but you are never alone on it.

[@hooft747]

Hi everyone, I’m from the future!

[@jenasis3872]

Ok

[@pencilRC1]

Lies

[@randompersonontheinternet3798]

Wth-

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

Don't you mean past

[@Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm]

Wut-

[@MagneticUnicornVlogs]

Thanks for making this! I definitely relate to having closer friendships and asking more questions

[@astraeusgodofthestars676]

This is just a perfect timing with this solar eclipse in Scorpio (sidereal). What a wonderful time to be alive! Thank you Psych2Go. Blessings!

[@ancalagonite434]

I relate to most of these signs . I’m happy now

[@cheshiremare]

I want to think i’m becoming a better person than i was in the past but several people told me how i become ignorant now or apathy(?) towards them ... I can’t really judge myself so i’m not sure if i am becoming a better person or worse .. I cross check everything in the video but their words of “You’ve become apathy now, you no longer care about other” always echoes in my head and it’s scary ... I only have one person i trust about opening up myself and she know everything about my side of story and reason, she did mention the people who told me i’m apathy now is toxic people who can no longer take advantage of me ... I want to believe her but doubt inside my mind often louder than her voice ..

[@pooja1807patel]

I m happy wid ur channels growth ....u r jst telling about signs of a certain stuff plz upload its solutions... Also recommendation for u..hope u like... Fear Jealousy Social Also students r following ur channel ...keep respect... Thank you... Hope miles of success for u...all d best

[@mrfanpl]

I can relate to only like 1 or 2 of them. No way I'll ever be a better person, I'm giving up.

[@rojejemo7830]

Don't give up! Spend time with yourself, read books, go to your very depth... You will find yourself... The person you are meant to be! I care about you :)

[@Powerfullmoon]

Yay!! All....it’s comforting to know at a very challenging time

[@pashmina1619]

ok but can we talk about her voice? its so calming

[@mazensakr3928]

1:42 I was literally just thinking that the other day .

[@Ultimate23Dragon]

3:00 Thanks for putting me in the video. :)

[@clevergirl3264]

This video was very interesting to say the least. I have been told by my therapist many times over these things, but in a more subtle way(I thought she was just being nice....) It's hard for me to recognize my achievements. Being on a self healing and becoming a better person goal has made me feel oftentimes that I am making no progress. I still get the old thoughts and feelings which make me feel as if I'm not really going in the direction I need to be going. With all that being said, I am glad I came across this video. Even though, I am still a bit apprehensive regarding my achievements, this list does provide a sense of, okay I must be doing something right. I meet most if not all of the criteria 😊 Thank you and my apologies for the long comment

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

The intro with so much plants in the background that was so cute I hope the keep it or similar drawings for other videos

[@Michaelangelo.1]

I’m definitely becoming a better person 💯💫

[@madelinerae3234]

I do most of these things, but I still feel like I have a long way to go towards self-improvement... I tend to be very hard on myself.

[@breadinabox1449]

I'm not improving at all :) ;-;

[@roseeqcat]

Me either ;w;

[@_aiko020]

Same lmao

[@ruoqifang]

I probably still have a long way to go, but I definitely do want to be better. But it's really hard for me to open up as not lots of people want to listen to my problem. I hate the feeling of constantly feeling criticized for everything I do. I wish I could think differently tho

[@naseemashfaq7574]

Hard work and effort. Always pays off

[@vixcov]

Why did this video show up RIGHT when i needed it ? Thank you

[@donaldknapik2706]

The most dangerous thing someone wrote in my senior yearbook: “Don’t ever change.”

[@xo0zombiegirl0ox]

Basically emotional intelligence.

[@ngwh8756]

Thanks very much for sharing this wonderful video. ❤️ It is very helpful indeed. The signs are well described here, with simple descriptions and nice graphics as well as the excellent narrating . The process of improving oneself does take some time, but in the end, it is really worth it, and also a journey worth venturing.

[@mr.d8654]

Well I was always told that I was very mature for my age and that I could do so many things because of how good I was at studying. I was always told that I was special when actually I finished school with just average grades and I was told that if I had pushed a little bit more I would have above average or even just perfect grades. So right now I'm putting that notion to the test. I applied to a school that would give me the necessary knowlegde and title to get a job at informatic engineering when previously all I did in my school was studying and play video games. And informatic was my worst grade with my score being near to the top bottom score on the subject at the end of my school-life. I had usually no one to hang out with and I never applied to get a part time job anywhere. To my eyes, I'm trying the best I can to not become a manchild despite sending big red flags to everyone I get into contact with. Also since getting into that engineering school wasn't the straight logical step after being in the kind of school I was. I had to do a "passage year" where I would learn everything I needed to know in the school for two semesters and that would count like having spent 40 weeks working for a company. It was rough, I was pretty much tested like in an exam with a score and all every week for every work we did. It was pretty much exams during the whole first semester. And the second semester was working for a company or for the school as a company and apparently I nailed it all with unprecedented optimism despite my grades being very VERY average again. And so my goal getting into this school is to besically introduce me to how to work for real while also not having the intimidating factor to have a boss bossing me around and menacing to fire me if I got lazy in the slightest 😅. I know it is still pretty much like school but it's also so different and it was the first time ever I could actually meet people that I could buy a Pokemon Let's Go game with without it being weird or anything. It was so nice! 😊 But then with the pandemic, I became way more isolated than ever and had to struggle a lot for studying despite my grades being very average still. I am seeing a psychiatrist even though the sessions are a bit too far in between for my taste 😅. Also recently I fell in love and the other person told me that they loved me too and that it would be nice to get to know each other more this summer. 🥰 And because of that person, I realized the state I was in: I was a jobless man age 20+ with no real friends or plan to get a job other than continue doing what I have done always since childhood: studying and playing. While my significant other has a job, is very independent and can even drive 😂😅 all while also liking the same things as me. So I'm trying my best to overcome my negative feelings in order to present to my love the best man I can be 🥰 so that when we meet for the first time irl in summer, we could determine if we would want to be together as lovers or just friends. And for that goal, I'm trying to follow for the first time in my life good life practices like going out more, eating healthier, doing anything other than just studying and playing video games and the like 😅😂. It's going to be hard but at worst I will have like the best of friends I could have ever dreamt for or at best my first lover 🥰

[@alvinwong2246]

When you not aware of this sign except just one, "You are no longer the same person you know like yesterday" Because it comes from the people that surround you. They already acknowledge that you're a better person. Never forget it 😉

[@piccadilyroad66]

Excellent motivating video to start these hectic monday, thank you!!👍

[@yourbeomgyu]

I always smile alot and laugh so often. Even if it's a serious situation ( not unless it's something bad ). When I'm alone i always smile and laugh. Sometimes when I'm with ppl that idk i kinda fake (smile) it since I'm uncomfortable. It takes me minutes in order to be comfortable with a person. I also think I've heard of angelman syndrome. As what i have heard, it's a thing that always smile and laugh often..

[@Man_991]

Your videos are absolutely amazing and relatable 🤩👍🏻. I love it.

[@robertluby8220]

This Chanel is such a gem

[@davidallen5776]

Most of these changes don't happen overnight, but they will happen over the passage of time!

[@Sarajohn.3]

This made me feel a lot better about my progress

[@jayb9967]

I don’t care what others think but opening up or talking about any family just makes mee hurt

[@bauhausbastard]

Yea you see the problem I have with #4 is finding people to open up to that won't take your honesty and feelings and use them against you later, and after many times of having being stabbed in the back by "friends" for what seems to be there own personal gain, I have adopted the philosophy of keeping myself to myself now.

[@dr.rashmisarmah2076]

Yes I am trying hard to improve myself

[@moonchaf]

This gave me a piece of humble pie... gotta work on myself

[@JustTheRat01]

well like i say especially when you can decide who you're working with in school much better to work with those who know what their doing even if you're now slightly looked down upon more rather than working with those who dont know what their doing but are apparently "popular" or whatever

[@laiainautumn-1252]

At least I know I’m making progress. That’s all I need to keep going.

[@farhadshukurov6627]

Thanks for this. Trying to be a better person

[@amaribnrabah4439]

Thanks a lot, very enlightening content and good presentation 😊👍

[@deutschemarkrondina2090]

The voice in the videos of this channel is just ASMR level.✨

[@maggie-mr3sb]

Wow i relate to all of these , and ur voice is so soothing and calming :))

[@libbyhyett6625]

She has the loveliest spoken voice I've ever heard

[@fran-jj8ip]

I was expecting this to be about being a better person as in treating other people better, but I guess these kind of connect?

[@ellipsis-]

Thank you for this. I really needed to hear it.

[@dontsettle4243]

Are you afraid to open up to people? And//or are you afraid of opening up to the wrong people? How to know who is worst trusting and when?? Getting emotional strengths and roots. So that you can be okay with and or without people. Self care. Self love. So that you can then be better okay to be vulnerable with other people too! :)

[@WGPETER]

Suppressing may be not good for mental health. Being vulnerable doesn’t make you weak or inferior. Being a better person is about trusting yourself.

[@mehmetgurdal]

well I dont like bragging but this has been my whole life :D but don't get the wrong idea, even with the constant improvement rate you will be facing difficulties, like inexperience, lack of knowledge about a certain topic or toxic environment. but you can be sure anout one thing: If youre following this channel you're doing something great for your own development. Psychology is often neglected at school and because of our current educational methods it becomes pretty easy for people to be get ignored by their friends or teachers or even by their own family. Psychological and emotional well being is crucial for ones' improvement in life and by following this channel you will be paying extra attention to yourself and your surroundings from psychological and emotional perspective.

[@danirm1171]

I enjoyed the video and can relate, although I'm taking ant steps, I'm working on mentaining positive vibes 🤗😘💜💙👍🏻💯

[@kaustubhpatil4355]

I need a part 2 of this vidoe

[@aadyathakur4422]

well now I know I may be failing my classes but at least I still am becoming a better person

[@alexthesniper1952]

Even thoe I'm considered Alf-right politically I fucking love this channel, I discovered you guys a couple days ago and I can't stop watching it, I guess it's because I have a mental Illness myself, same reason why my Mom was a psychology major too, runs in the family. Anyways please keep me addicted to your content please!

[@bennymations7297]

I like the way the art stile changes

[@jude4400]

ahhhh 😖 i don’t like getting much attention or compliments, i didn’t get them very often growing up as a kid but when i do now i don’t know how to take them. it’s not that have trust issues, i just genuinely don’t know how to react. so, i usually just awkwardly look down at my feet, smile, shrug, look at them and say thank you and very nervously walk away. it’s so uncomfortable for me and the other person. i know it’s easy to just say “thank you! ^^” but then again my mind goes blank and i forget. i kind of, lag, in a way. i don’t like talking about myself either. i don’t know if it’s low self esteem which i don’t think i have but i might due to the fact that when my health teachers ask us to write positive traits about ourselves i just write “social, nice” can somebody please help i’m going crazy wait it’s probably just my hormones

[@oswin5775]

I wish I had a really helpful answer for you. I would say that if you can't accept compliments you probably believe that you're not enough. So I would say, even though it's hard, try to remember that you do deserve love and compliments and good things. I don't know how helpful that is. Stay strong 🤗

[@jude4400]

@@oswin5775 thank you 😊 it’s not that i don’t believe them, it’s just hard to reply 😖

[@Dany-nt6dn]

This looks just like what everyone does everyday. Just the act of thinking.