People betray and invalidate and unreact and attack at attempts of kindness or exposed weakness. Like weakness is immoral, rotten, intolerable. To confess needing kindness is to change it to a need to be hurt. Sorting out bad genetics and undesirable black sheep isn't immoral, its just better left out of sloppy institutions and within the hands of people. I know much more on why i am lonely now than i did a year ago.