Q&A, Advice for marrying young. How did you start wearing Hijab.

Hey everyone! This video is answering all the questions that were asked to me via social media. Hope they are all answered well and if there are any more questions, drop a comment below. Thank you for watching ❤️
** PLEASE KNOW OUR AUDIO IS VERY BAD **
Please if you can use headphones or listen on full volume Inshallah we will be able to get a mic for better audio.

[@mad4raisins]

Totally agree about getting married young and being old and having your own way ect

[@TotalSchoolJunkie]

Love that you brought up learning about their mental issues at the beginning, so you can be better equipped to help them. So important but frequently overlooked until the issues arise.

[@mahfuzahmed9133]

I think the good age for a girl to get married is from 18-26 years old but also if you feel ready for it...

[@ebrub6440]

Sorry the idea of getting married at a young age is so weird. Getting married is about becoming a team. You will spend the rest of your life learning about each other, and every now and then things come out of the blue. But the beauty of marriage is that if you choose the right person and you both love each other, you will always find a way to get through it. P.s. at a young age you have other things on your mind and you are not busy getting married and starting a family. This is also why so many divorces arise.

[@aminabousba886]

It's a habit in my culture and it's a traditions to marry young even in age 16 years old (girls),,, many of them in age of 25 years they'll have at list 3 children

[@ayshh_____97]

Not necessarily. I think it’s very much about maturity. With maturity comes the willingness to compromise which is key in any form of human interaction. Maturity doesn’t necessarily come with age, so I think if someone is mature at the age of 18, go for it!

[@shiinohassan1835]

I just started watching your videos as beautiful young muslim woman a lot of girls can learn from you because you have good advice for them Iam happy for you guys keep doing what you doing keep shining

[@ashandpai]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@aqleemarida8936]

I just saw this video it's amazing and inspiring for young couples ❤️ and I am happy to see uh happy and live happy always and keep making more vids

[@AA-ek5kz]

You are such a beautiful person and love your openness and I love how you changed the course of your life and the fact that in the end you chose happiness and health for you and your child. You and your man really come across a perfect fit.

[@ashandpai]

Awww Thank you so much we appreciate your love and support ❤️

[@Dayss856]

I’m so happy for you both, be blessed and happy 😆 make more videos

[@babyblueskies9462]

I hope you save enough to travel to all the places you both wish to, in shaa Allah ❤️

[@discreet7867]

Aslamu alaykum Sister and brother. Firstly, I just wanted to stay Ramadan Mubarak to you and your family. May Allah (SWT) bless all of us this on this holy month Ameen, and may he accept our deeds. Second of all, you guys don't know how happy I am for you. I'm sorry sister about your past, but Alhumdulillah your husband is so kind and caring and I hope Allah (SWT) blesses your family forever and protects you and family from any evilness. Please make more videos and also, you deserve way more subscribers. Aslamu alaykum.

[@mannagurung8449]

May God bless both of you Always ' Both of you are positive' genuine ppl Beautiful couple ❤❤

[@Muskan-de5jy]

Yeyyy m the 6th to comment btw wish everyone a Happy Ramadan and please don’t forget to give charity to the poor and love ur channel😊

[@ashandpai]

JazakAllah, Ramadan Mubarak!! Happy to see your love and support for our channel and yes everyone please donate to those in need this Ramadan.

[@saiqamanawar7790]

Love you guys so much. You both look so good together so happy for you ❤️

[@ashandpai]

Love you too❤️

[@kimberlyhashi5672]

Very articulate, intelligent and great head on your shoulders. I love hearing that your very understanding and open and appreciate your respect you show especially for your family, husband and the people in your past. Living positive as you do is always the answer. Wish you success with your 5 - 10 year plans 💖

[@ashandpai]

Thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️

[@sajeda_.x1302]

So gassed I stumbled across your channel truly love your videos 🥰

[@ashandpai]

Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

[@jasmineflower2122]

You are sO Beautiful and you are very wise so happy tht ur in a happy relationship/ marriage

[@shiinohassan1835]

Thank you for the reply ❤️

[@iqraa3725]

Love you guysss💕. Thanks for the advice💙

[@ashandpai]

Iqra Ahmed We love you to and Your welcome if you have any more questions feel free to ask😁

[@iqraa3725]

Ash & Pai subhanAllah i havent got any more questions just wanna say Ramadan Mubarak. May this month bring you peace and blessings in shaa Allah.

[@rreviewblog]

Makeup tutorials please 😍

[@wonderseeker9771]

As-salāmu ʿalaykum sister. As brand new muslimah (taking my Shahada 24.may), I would love to see a hijab tutorial from you. I love your style, very pretty. Ramadan Mubarak

[@ashandpai]

In sha Allah sis! And so happy for you welcome to the family ❤️❤️❤️

[@sajihaaskar8364]

I love your hijab style! You should do a hijab tutorial of this “side turban”

[@ashandpai]

Thank you!! I will definitely ❤️

[@cheeryhuzzgreatpersonrose6186]

That is not hijab

[@fozia4651]

So pretty Ma’sha’allah 💘💘 Didn’t realise you are from Rochdale. Kinda local then 🙇🏽‍♀️♥️

[@ashandpai]

JazakAllah ❤️

[@hansaazam2285]

You guys are so inspiring

[@ashandpai]

Hansa Azam Thank You! We do hope to keep you inspired and entertaining😊❤️

[@lolstudio1947]

Please make dua form me guys, to live a happy life with the one that I want 💛❤️

[@TheSublimeFactor]

You are so beautiful 😍❤️and the hijab looks very elegant on you.

[@shiinohassan1835]

You welcome 🙏

[@readlisten7298]

May you have a blessed Ramadan, sister.

[@ashandpai]

You too 🙏🏼

[@skreemsama850]

You are such sweet articulate person so much love to you😘😘😘😘

[@bellamuhammad5333]

Do you have video for your first time seeing each other?? What you felt when you saw each other?!!!

[@najmabegum5876]

U look stunning xox

[@ayan6985]

Thank you

[@foryouea]

You are so lovely and very smart. Usually girls who are pretty are dump. You have both and looks that u have great personality. Please when u have time learn us how you style hijabs, if u can three or four ways, with hijabs that u have bcs they look so nice on you, they show pretty face.

[@faithfullyfearfully2809]

I freaking wuvvv thiss

[@afeisha1522]

It's a good idea to marry young, once you have some degree of financial independence. But at 18 or 19 I feel that a woman's focus should be herself.. Education, learning a trade.

[@asmairachaudhry4658]

Your husband is so caring

[@gulziwar8591]

Mashallah beautiful couple🥰🥰

[@ubahrashid3722]

❤❤❤

[@SB.Empowerment]

😍😍😍

[@FahmidaAnika]

U look like the indian actress Esha Gupta

[@rehanarashid6]

did you date your partner before you married him.or did you just chat on phone???

[@aliciaallt5607]

You are so courageous ❤️🤗😘

[@ashandpai]

Thank you hunn ❤️

[@aliciaallt5607]

You are welcome 🤗

[@jakia2020]

Hi Ayesha, i dont have instagram so i’d like to post my question on here 😊, what advice would you give to someone who is struggling to get married or find the right one ? Im in this situation myself aswell.

[@jakia2020]

Also im 23 now its making me think a lot to settle down aha x

[@ashandpai]

Jakia Khatun I don’t think there’s ever a right time to settle down. If you feel like you’re ready just keep praying and wait for the right person to come along. I think when you try too hard then you can end up with the wrong person. So just go with the flow❤️

[@HDY0903]

I live in Bolton! Moving to London next year iA. Will miss the nice slow life here

[@abdulmumin6251]

Omg busy busy london busy roads cramped tube and millions of people out n about day night dawn lol good luck

[@ashandpai]

HDY yeah it’s very different if you compare the two. Having lived most my life in London and now I’m in Manchester. I can say that London is a good place if you don’t have little kids as it’s too packed and busy. I do wanna move back but once my kids are older maybe

[@ucbysarrah]

Hijab does not include the neck?

[@kuliiabrahams5931]

Aspire to be like you one day IA💯❤❤❤🙏

[@ashandpai]

KULII ABRAHAMS Awwee that really means a lot love, I’m sure your an amazing and beautiful soul. May Allah bless you☺️💗

[@kuliiabrahams5931]

Ash & Pai you too and your family❤

[@foreignbxtchvv8009]

I have a new born baby, and my partner abuses me. I don't want to be with my anymore as he harms me. However Im scared on where to go and how will we Co parent, he once said if we break up I have him 4 days he has them 3. I don't really liek that, I' don't want to be with out my newborn for 3 days however I don't knwo what to do he shouts at me

[@ashandpai]

Can’t you go through court?

[@Zaza-qn9wl]

When you are early but dont know what to say

[@AnnzzLyfe]

Trust me😂

[@ashandpai]

Heyyy, We’re so happy to see your support and love for our channel we really appreciate it Thank You❤️❤️❤️

[@Zaza-qn9wl]

@@ashandpai Awwwhhh this is so sweeet!! You're welcome!! :D ♥ Ilygsm!! and Great video btw

[@iqrashabbir539]

You are so postive about your life which is vary impressive ♥♥♥ god bless u ... u r soo cute mashaAllha .... plz come pakistan and visit my city (islamabad) ♥♥♥♥

[@ashandpai]

In sha Allah I can’t wait until I have enough to come visit ❤️

[@shiinohassan1835]

Ramadaam Mubarak both of you

[@ashandpai]

Ramadan Mubarak to you too❤️

[@purplebear445]

Can u do a hijab and makeup tutorial

[@ashandpai]

Will do x

[@nihaalkeey7375]

Love from Somalia

[@ashandpai]

Lots of love to you❤️

[@ambrinislam8442]

Can you do a story time about your divorce plz

[@emilythan3701]

are you going to introduce your kids to the channel?☺️☺️

[@ashandpai]

Not yet. Maybe our son in the near future but baby girl is too small haha

[@asmairachaudhry4658]

I really want to get marry Bec I want peace in my life but my parents won't 😢

[@mariumfatima3732]

When you will come to Pakistan . Hijab suits your a lot ... 😍❤

[@purplebear445]

I have a question... how do u get a guy to commit at such young age? What did u do 😹 i just find nowadays guys are too afraid to commit and even tho they like me they dont wana marry consequently end up leaving them 🙄

[@ashandpai]

You just have to find the right guy. My husband wanted to commit and start a family haha so I didn’t have to convince him much x

[@purplebear445]

@@ashandpai ahhh i see 😅 when its meant to be it will be i suppose

[@thf_]

Muslim wants normally to commit. Because there is no girlfriend in Islam and there is no better thing than raising a family and Muslims to be honest

[@theemodoctor]

How do you guys support yourselves financially?

[@ashandpai]

We both work ☺️

[@aysatogi6503]

@@ashandpai can you make a video on how you keep balance between work and household because as a women your prime purpose is to take care of children hmmmm it will be a nice video can you make it please

[@ashandpai]

aysa togi will do ❤️

[@aysatogi6503]

i think its boring to get married young what ifs never end can you give some advice how to get rid of this thought

[@AA-ek5kz]

It is not boring if you find the right person, just live your life and what is meant for you will be there for you.

[@emonhasan8776]

@@AA-ek5kz Right

[@ashandpai]

Just think about all the things you can do together. Holidays, movie nights, arcades etc

[@abdulmumin6251]

Aysa your so wrong so so so wrong. Getting married early makes you streaks ahead of the rest plant your seeds early avoid any haram relationships having kids early is better than having them late. I know people who got married early 20s mid 20s there kids can look after themselves look after them now. Getting married to late is not good Imagine getting married at 30 having a child at 35 then the 2nd at 40 then 45 will you be alive to see there graduation marriage or you gran kids

[@kuliiabrahams5931]

As a muslim girl, I know we not supposed to date or be with someone of other religion but what happens if I fall for a Christian guy. How do I go about it?

[@AA-ek5kz]

Get to know the person, I know plenty of friends who met a Christian and they converted for them. My Grandmother was Christian and she converted for my Grandfather. Love should not have barriers

[@kuliiabrahams5931]

A A my mom is against it😶...he is my friend his a really nice guy but yeah

[@ashandpai]

Yes definitely try to introduce them to Islam first and see how they would go about it or if they would be open to study and revert. If not then research on the rulings of marriage in Islam. I don’t think you should do anything against what says but I might not be right as far as I know you can marry the people of the books

[@kuliiabrahams5931]

Ash & Pai Shukraan❤

[@AA-ek5kz]

@@kuliiabrahams5931 You are an adult I am assuming? You have to make decision right for yourself, we are not in your life. You have to decide for yourself, your mother is not going to live your life for you, you have to know what is important for you. For me my religion is non negotiable therefore, I married someone with the same faith.

[@munaobsiye3378]

Hi

[@ashandpai]

Hey

[@safiahamed6747]

I love you💖💖💖💖

[@ashandpai]

Love you too ❤️

[@shacniomer5408]

ماشاءاللہ you beuatiful but cover your neck to complete hijab im your fan and i love you for the sake of allah

[@shanalitlp5114]

Appi ka accident ho hai

[@nash5140]

Your videos are so low.

[@ashandpai]

If it’s the volume you’re talking about, working on getting a mic

[@Angelinapetrovaaa]

Do u have somewhere I can't contact u on, I'm get abused by my partner and I have young child. Do u have twitter wil it be OK to message you