Q&A | ARE WE PREGNANT AGAIN? DO WE FIGHT? | LAUREN AND ARIE

Hi everyone! So a lot has changed in the last few weeks and we thought it would new a great time to catch up with all of you! Drop a comment and make sure to subscribe... we are SO CLOSE TO 100k.
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-Lauren and Arie Luyendyk

[@KathyFors]

Dear Lauren and Aire, As an only child, when I had my first baby I loved her so much that I couldn’t possibly imagine how I would ever have enough love to give a second baby! I had already given all my love to my first child. I had no more love to give! But, when my 2nd child was born I had the best experience... I learned when you have the 2nd child, your love is NOT divided between the two. It is DOUBLED!! Yes!! It doubles, then triples, and no matter how many children you have, you just keep just keep loving more and more!! So, I promise, it will just appear when you see that precious face and all your fears will be gone. Besides, when the 2nd baby comes it will be time for Alessie to start growing up and separating from you. (Sad but true). It is life’s natural developmental process! And, it is a joy to see how much she will love the new baby!! You are going to be fine #trusttheprocess Love you guys, Kathy from Kansas

[@livinnparadise]

True words!!! Every good mamma worries about the same thing. I remember I was in my last trimester and I was out shopping. I all of a sudden started crying. A middle aged woman came over and gently talked to me. I told her a few things that was bothering me but I remember one of them was wondering how I was possibly going to love another baby as much as I do my first. I felt so guilty and sad for the next child in my stomach. She gave me the same advice as above...our love doubles then triples and on. It’s true. God created us to love multiple and numerous and it’s perfect!!! Trust me Lauren....you’re going to burst with so much love with each child you have BTW-I have 3 adult sons and 5 grandchildren now and that love has just continued to grow. 💖

[@benjaminlafrance3659]

Yes we definitely want to see the house with all of the furniture! And Lauren’s pantry 🤣

[@chelzilynn828]

Plant a tree or flowering bush in your babies honor. I’ve done that with both our miscarriages. 💗

[@missdagmara]

I love this idea 💞

[@stephaniestack1770]

We planted flowers in honor of our two losses ❤

[@mrsljames1]

I did that too with a miscarriage 💛

[@marleneayala5249]

I want to see all the organization things!!! I can’t wait 💗

[@cg.iverson1097]

That's a beautiful idea

[@jyn88]

They have great chemistry and communication! So many couples fight to talk, hog the question, or someone talks over the other in interviews or home videos. With them it's like 50-50. Your videos are always chill and enjoyable to watch.

[@esmeambrose7373]

I'm SO glad you started a KZbin channel, it's now one of my absolute faves. The Bachelor editing didn't bring your amazing personalities into the picture even a fraction enough, especially ATFR, so it's incredible and beautiful to now be invited to get to know you guys

[@Notyourmom0819]

I was not the biggest Lauren and Arie fan since everything that happened on the show, but I just love them now I watch all the youtube videos and they are def. one of my fav channels

[@LindsayPuggleGirl]

@Brian And Jaime Groff agree about the children thing lol, i don't get why she thinks her next child will be inferior to her first, it's going to have the same parents and same DNA

[@michellerussell8910]

Honestly I watched the show....but all I recall is my thought that Lauren&Arie belonged together&didn’t understand Why he let her go home& was so happy when He came to his senses&got her back. Now, years later, it seems their love is Real. They are such a cute couple and their little girl is just angelic💕💕 Can’t decide which one of you she resembles more!??!! 💕 You are both in for the time of your life’s w/HER.....Don’t Blink too much, as she will be growing up Quickly, right in front of your eyes. God Bless you Lauren, Arie&family.💕

[@michellerussell8910]

Lindsay McBride I don’t think that Lauren is thinking that her 2nd child will be “Inferior” to her daughter!?!! I think she’s just feeling a mother’s love FOR THE 1st TIME ,with her 1st child, and cannot imagine having “enough or that much more” Love left for another!! (More about her doubting herself than her thinking her 2nd baby would somehow not be as perfect as Elessee!) Pretty normal feeling I think.

[@mirroroffthewall5932]

Lauren talking about how she was treated in past relationships made me sad :( I'm glad she has Arie now!

[@carolismyname333]

Love that you guys made a KZbin channel, your personalities really shine and y’all have quickly become one of my favorite channel to watch. Haven’t missed a video since I started subscribing. And yes Arie, keep the hair!

[@Ashley-rc7vu]

My youngest turns 6 months old on the 5th and I remember being so scared my whole pregnancy I wouldnt love my new son as much as my 2 year old son. I also experienced 3 miscarriages so it was hard on me to bond during my second son's pregnancy. But the moment I had him in my arms my heart grew!! Now I can't even imagine life without both my sweet boys! Also Arie keep the blonde!!!

[@lulababe69]

It's so lovely seeing you so happy together. When Arie initially chose Becca it really surprised me because I could 100% tell that the two of you were soul mates. Although you've all been through a lot, it's so great to see the two of you happy and building your life together

[@rachelcarey6995]

Lauren, would honestly love a pantry organizing video! Also, you're amazing for sharing your experience with having a miscarriage. It can be a really isolating experience, and your kind heart really shows through in how you have such a drive to help others going through the same thing.

[@darlenewebber7706]

I like Arie with hair dark like when he first started on the bachelor. Maybe highlight your grey hair with a ton of dark highlights. It will bring out your eyes more and give your face color. You will look more distinguished and professional for your job and age.

[@livinnparadise]

I agree. I’m not in the real estate business but I wonder whether this blonde look may be just not professional appearing enough? It looks like he’s trying to hard to be young and hip. I like it for a weekend or vacation look but not professionally. I think he should rethink it or ask his colleagues what they think and encourage honesty...not just tell him what they think he wants to hear.

[@kristenlohbeck2015]

I agree. I like the salt & pepper look better.

[@harriettedawson7072]

Darlene Webber Oh yes! I agree. I like the blonde Arie for a short time but love the darker Arie, is much better for work and everyday in my opinion.💙♥️

[@kimhorn4233]

When I got pregnant with my second daughter I thought I couldn’t love her as much as my first.... wrong!!! You will love each of your kids so much and you learn to “spread” yourself between them!!! You just do!!! ❤️

[@razone4317]

"I'm a cool dad. I'm not like a regular dad." Wait, was this a Mean Girls reference?

[@mrsburnett1158]

I can’t thank you enough for putting that miscarriage video out. I too just went through one and with all the covid stuff going on feel like it was pushed under the rug and forgot about. It helps to know the “famous/perfect/bachelor” couple has went though the same struggle.💙😢

[@courtney5250]

Super interested to see your pantry organization, Lauren! Yall are my fav! I look forward to all of yalls KZbin videos and Instagram stories/posts. You two are a breath of fresh air during this pandemic! Thanks so much!

[@mjduffy618]

You guys are so cute together. I always wanted you to choose Lauren. I’m so glad she was open to taking you back.

[@char124eve]

Both of you have gone through a glow up!!! That's what a good relationship/marriage does to you!!

[@shannonomelia3535]

I love watching your videos. You both seem so humble and real unlike a lot of the other people from the bachelor. I’m excited for your clothing line to come out Lauren. Congratulations 😀!

[@floramendes5542]

Yes to pantry tour, yes to how your furniture looks in your new house, yes to the blonde, as platinum as possible! Yes to lauren’s hair skills, Arie had a post bachelor glow up! You two are real, thanks for sharing, love your videos!

[@kylap.3358]

I admire that you guys film with the intent of being able looking back at your memories one day and show these videos to your daughter :”)

[@suheleneguerrero8282]

I had my kids 2 years apart and it’s the best thing I could of done. They are best friends, play together, protect each other as well. Somehow it all works out where every child gets attention. Moms have super powers 😂

[@vanessab.1873]

You guys are so sweet together :) I love watching you talk together and about your relationship. It's inspiring that even when you talk about things that make you mad about each other, you never put the other one down or make them look bad, that's really nice ❤️

[@kalidevi26]

actually the point about wanting to have your control on your own story is so on point... I remember thinking Lauren was quiet and vanilla type person and she is so goofi and hilarious... I love to see you guys in your element!!!

[@jascrowell]

Love how consistent you guys have been with uploading! :) Thanks!!

[@emmawehling8823]

I would love to see your house with the furniture! I am obsessed with seeing the way people decorate the interior and exterior of their house

[@taylorwelty4767]

Loved that! Lauren lights up talking about Alessi!!! Thank you guys for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

[@jerusalemsousa4263]

I love how real and normal you two love birds are. Just watching you makes me happy. Keep posting and I will watch every time 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@ocgal80]

I'm split.. I've always liked the grey, but you wear the blond well.. Also, I think you should start a series on the house renovations; so many videos with that aspect.

[@deborahmuse9929]

Being the mom of three & my oldest now being 27 years old, I will NEVER forget when I was pregnant with our 2nd (& we too had a miscarriage before 😐. I’m so sorry), I couldn’t imagine loving another child as much as our son but you will be so surprised with how much love you have and how you will love them SO much equally. It’s crazy & amazing! Excited for you guys!

[@mikaylaspring386]

Answering all the questions so I've gotta bullet point this: - I love the blonde in Arie's hair! It looks so so good! - Yesss to updated house tour with furniture. House tours and videos have been my knew favorite thing to do during quarantine so I'm all for it! - Yes to the pantry organization videos! I really really love yall's channel!

[@lexi5092]

Dying to see this clothing collection!!!!!! When will we hear more about this??? Love you two and Alessi! 💓💓💓 And btw LOVE the blonde hair for Arie.

[@janea8111]

I would love for you guys to do a furnished house tour! Your house is beautiful. Also I would also like to see Lauren's pantry organization video!!

[@MaryScarpati]

They say the best gift you can give your child is a sibling. From my experience that’s true. I absolutely love my siblings. Praying for your health and family! 💜🙏🏻

[@Rocyyyyyyy]

I'd love to see a full video like Updated Furnished House Tour & Renovation Plans. It'll definitely be easier to visualize your reno plans with furniture in place and spaces set up so it'd be cool to have it in one video. I'm absolutely stunned by your house and I'm really excited to see how you guys plan to elevate this space even more after seeing pics of your previous flips. I love watching renovation videos, so maybe in the future if you guys are interested you can do a before & after video of a property flip!

[@christinescorner8368]

Once again, you guys are so endearing! It makes me very happy seeing the dynamic between you two because it just proves time and time again that you guys are meant for each other. It makes me happy to see you two be in a place where you guys are relatively happy. I acknowledge that it's not all the time, but it brings a lot of reassurance that two amazing people are living lives together and being a solid support system for one another. That, to me, is so beautiful and I am wishing the best for your future endeavors (even for Alessi!). 💛 PS// Will definitely watch Lauren's pantry organizational video 😊💛

[@sharondingle1607]

I just found out that a girl from my school got in a car accident last night, and passed away. Where I live there are these cars called micro cars and they aren't the safest. I dont know her personally, but it was still sad because she was a part of our community. This video made me a lot happier and it made me laugh. Thanks for being awesome. Love you guys. - Ilyssa ❤

[@rachaelnelson8270]

Sharon Dingle Sorry 🙏🏻

[@manda19982]

RIP ❤️

[@alysemeents9681]

I am so sorry. Just remember God loves you and you have a purpose 😉

[@ShelleyFayles]

Awww, sending you love! Yes, their videos put a smile on my face as well!

[@livinnparadise]

I’m so very sorry. My heart goes out to her family, friends and your community. Losing a young one so tragically and suddenly effects everyone within the community. Continue to reach out for things and people that make you happy and laugh or put a smile on your face sometimes it’s so difficult just to smile...so seek it out. Maybe you can search your heart or God and think of something you can do for the family and/or community. Acts from the heart always lifts the spirit. Car wash, dog walks, any outdoor activities that you can keep social distance but have fun and donate proceeds to the family or a charity/organization she loved would be wonderful. Anyway, sorry to go on, it was just on my heart to reach out to you and offer you some encouragement. I hope I helped ☺️🙏🏻💖

[@Sam-yo7nh]

Baby is down for a nap! Perfect timing 👌 love watching you guys! Lauren i would love to see more what I eat in a day and workouts. Definitely motivating! Do you try and take time for yourself during the week? I find it hard as a stay at home mom.. arie keep the blonde!

[@DeborahChapman902]

Love you guys! You are just as sweet in person as in your videos - the real deal ♥️ Don’t worry about adding another baby, your heart grows and there’s lots of room for everyone!!

[@samaradp]

I love the blonde, Arie! Keep it! I like seeing all the big and little projects you guys are doing all the time too. Such an inspiring couple.

[@itsels7894]

Lauren do that video cuz u are so excited about it and I will watch anything it’s interesting how people organised thing differently

[@christineshaw1034]

Arie: natural color or darker. House: yes furnished pics and updates as you make changes

[@vanessavanetten3372]

So happy you made a channel together and consistently post new videos, love you both so much ❤️

[@kellyward1031]

Your concerns about sharing your heart with another baby are universal. I think all good moms have this worry. All I can tell you is, your heart expands 100 fold for each new child and it’s amazing how there is enough love to go around...not to mention the love those siblings will share. Take the leap!!!! Frankly, I think kids should be spared 2 years apart!

[@patmoore6365]

Your little girl is so blessed to have you as parents.

[@charlie4542]

Looks like they're spoiling her wich is not good

[@allie84]

Yes! I would love to see more of the house and Lauren’s pantry organization skills!!!!

[@dorisdepinar21]

so glad you have this channel! You too are my fav couple that came out of Bachelor World! I loved Arie since Emily's season. I will love to see a decor and organization video... and it's not nerdy... LOL

[@Emmalee3501]

Lauren, I just had my second baby a month ago and my now oldest is 3. Your heart literally grows the love. It doesn’t take away. You feel way more full! Don’t worry you’ll love a new baby just the same. I had the same worry. 💕

[@renecates9871]

Grey for sure... you two are so cute and I'm so glad Arie changed his mind and went with his heart. Did you guys have to buy more furniture for the new place?

[@CC12203]

Re: hair - return to gray or dye it a darker color that looks natural and matches your facial hair. I know Lauren likes the blonde though.

[@laurendrane8662]

I love the blonde though. But my name is also Lauren so....

[@Jswmx260]

Agreed. I think maybe replacing the blonde with a darker brown that matches his facial hair would work well! It'd make his blue eyes pop haha

[@ptulip]

Die it just a little bit darker. The blond, grey and brown doesn't work.

[@angryyhelen]

At first, I wasn’t too sure of the blonde on Arie but I like it now 😬 And yes yes yes, please show us your home being furnished & the process of your renovations when it starts and Lauren’s Pantry organization. I love seeing those!

[@catherinesmith3830]

Really love seeing your content, especially all the home decor/refurb ideas!! Please do an updated house tour (and pantry organising!) Xx

[@anniebanana3698]

Honestly the whole, "you seem like you're in a bad mood today" comment took me from zero to 1000 in two seconds. There is nothing more insulting to me than when a boyfriend says that to me. My ex used to love to say it and it drove me insane. All of this to say that I completely relate to Lauren in that regard. edit: YES, to updated house tour with furniture in it and YES to pantry organization. I don't have a house or pantry but I love watching both. Technically I do have an apartment though... my mom is a realtor and really wanted me to get into the real estate market as soon as possible rather than renting. Sadly, still can't quite afford to move to a house.

[@thekormans3582]

I am a huge fan of Arie when he and Sean were the contestants... You, two were my favorites

[@graceecurry1365]

Please post more!!!!!!! (I know you guys have a normal life outside of filming) I’m on here everyday looking for a video to watch ahaha. I love your channel!

[@christinedigioia4766]

Definitely want to see your pantry organization, Lauren. Congratulations on hitting 100K!! :)

[@reginamushi6582]

You guys are so soft spoken it's hard to imagine your fights...love you both 😚😚

[@bukunmiolowu9178]

I know right! 😄

[@EmmaOwen]

Yes I’d love a update house tour also I would LOVE to see the pantry organization video! I’m weird like that 😊💕

[@_alexseidman]

Love the blonde hair Arie! Also would love love love to see the organized pantry and house tour with furniture!❤️

[@alishagarcia11]

I just love you guys together and I look forward to all your videos 😭💛 I’m glad you made this channel!

[@lulubguerrero]

I will literally watch anything you guys post.. so bring on part 2, and Lauren’s pantry video lol

[@nicolettealexander1935]

i literally watch these videos with a big smile on my face.

[@kionaraemeiring7189]

You 2 are such an inspiring couple. I watch your videos & can see you share such a real & genuine connection & it’s definitely something I long for and hope to find. I love that you make videos for Alessi to look back on , I think that is so special aswell as something you can look back on when you are older & relive those moments , it’s beautiful ❤️

[@kristinstrength672]

Love your videos! Please do an updated house tour video with furniture - that would be so fun to see! Best wishes on all the house renovations. 💕

[@morganlarge6632]

PLZ DO A PANTRY VIDEO!!! ❤️ i would loveee that! y’all are so cute! :)

[@katyhoulihan2188]

I LOVE KZbin LAUREN AND ARIE!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ more people should deff be on here. I don’t think they know how much fun you guys really are😂 I legit can’t wait for the new ones to drop😍

[@mizz.c]

Ummm yass to the updated house tour video! You guys are the best couple on yt! Rooting for you Lauren, sending love from Taiwan.

[@kayleewithrow7968]

You guys have got to be one of the greatest couples to come out of the bachelor. I am obsessed with you guys! and your daughter is the cutest💕💕

[@genesisramirez4562]

Lauren I just have to say love your outfit....where is it from?... and Arie I think the blonde has grown on me at first I thought you looked strange but now I think it looks good and goes on you

[@sarahkelly3234]

This is indeed the Breakout BN Couple. One of my favorites. 😍

[@katherinemaycher6627]

Love your channel. Thank you for not trying to push expensive luxury products on your viewers like so many KZbinrs do now. Your videos are so fun and enjoyable to watch.

[@_rachde]

So good to see parents who think through their life choices and how it will affect their kids! 👏🏼👏🏼 the first 18 months of life for a child literally set their attachment up for the rest of their life. So it’s great that you are thinking through it all.

[@_rachde]

Omg an herb garden! Yes!!

[@MissJubeJube]

Yes to pantry organization and yes to a house tour with furniture in it and with the renos:) love your videos❤

[@LaurenAndArie]

Yay! Thank you!

[@miaibarra964]

Love you guys!💜

[@amya2659]

Love you! And would love an updated house tour, and ANY kind of organization videos! (Pantry, bathroom, closet etc) we wanna see that hidden junk!

[@AFFLINK]

You all are the cutest! Yes, please do a part 2 and gray hair for Arie!

[@mrsmadisonhickey]

Whoaaaa I’m never here this early!!

[@elizabethnguyen17107]

I'm so excited for Lauren's clothing line!!!

[@kaesmithmusic]

Yes, please! for the pantry organization video. We have a small cottage-style home so we're looking for any space-saving ideas. Your videos are always fun, plus they're well thought out and nicely photographed. What camera(s) and mic(s) do you prefer to use?

[@margies4335]

I would love to see an updated house tour with furniture! I would also love to see your Pantry Organization Video Lauren! Coming from someone who has horrible organization skills I could definitely use videos like this 😂. Also can’t wait to see your new clothing line Lauren!

[@luciag.2706]

I love this family so much ❤️

[@bethany2903]

Love u guys so much ♥️

[@JenniGriesmer]

I like the blonde, Arie! I vote keep it. It’s something fun and different. You have plenty of time to be grey. haha I love the answer to the last question. That’s why I subscribed to you guys. It’s fun to see your lives and hear your story from your perspective once you’re in the “real world.” I always get strangely invested in Bachelor couples (those who make it) and wonder what their lives are like. So thank you for all the interesting, raw, real life content and allowing us back into your lives. ❤️

[@SolsticeBeautyByJessica]

Congratulations on 100k!!!!! Here's to many many more!

[@annmarieb987]

I love you both, Arie honestly I wanted to reach into the TV and slap you for sending Lauren home, but it's okay you followed your heart and made the right decision♥️🙏

[@livinnparadise]

Yes!! I forget but why did he chose Becca in the first place when he was so obviously in love with Lauren? I forget the specifics. In all worked out beautifully in the end but the heartache was so preventable if he had only gone with his heart to begin with. I feel like maybe there’s so much pressure on these contestants; making the best choice must be difficult.

[@sherribaldwin2239]

Keep the blonde! Looks good on you! And I would love to see Lauren do some organizing videos :)

[@LadybugLair]

OMG, you mentioned your wedding vid. in this one ---- I had just finished watching your wedding vid. (again!!) before I came on here to see this one. Your wedding was just so beautiful, just like the two of you!!!! ❤ Loooove your vid's. You are both perfect for each other!! :-) Can't wait to see your pantry vid, Lauren! :-)

[@kaitlynpancoast1950]

love you guys so much!! you are both so honest and real with everyone and that inspires me so much. also... Lauren you convinced me to get a BlendJet and I cannot wait for it to come:))❤️❤️

[@ATeam-rq1ux]

I love your channel and your IG. I do prefer your KZbin though :) Keep the blonde! It makes a statement - a good one!

[@sarahsteppling6477]

UPDATED HOUSE TOUR PLEASE!!

[@jessicac3248]

Yes on the pantry organization! There's something so satisfying about a well organized area! And no more blonde on Arie---I like the gray 🙂

[@kristinelson9767]

Go back go grey, Arie! Since you asked ;) Yes, do a pantry tour and more of the house now that it’s furnished! And a Q&A part 2!

[@marshadaniel3754]

I like Arie’s hair gray❣️ Y’all are such a cute family.

[@jenniferfriar5569]

Like it gray better.

[@kathleenrose7998]

Yes Salt N pepper

[@stephaniebragg3081]

Another question: How do you all resolve or get over your arguments? Who talks to who first?

[@debifitz67]

I love watching your podcasts. They are so sincere and I never feel like you guys are just trying to make it an interesting vidio. It just is a good vidio every time. What a nice family you have and you would surely have no trouble loving a second child.

[@leahmooney160]

I would love to see an updated house tour and Lauren organizing the pantry!

[@morganhubert6681]

Lauren was so cute when she got excited about her pantry. You go girl!

[@bribach]

Keep the blonde! Love it

[@barbaratuttle2936]

Arie, Keep The Blonde Hair!!! Makes the two of you look more alike... It’s Fun and Funky!!!

[@katybanahan7695]

Love Arie’s hair blonde! Would also love to see a house tour with your furniture in it🥰

[@marielaquezada5412]

A house tour with the furniture you guys have now would be amazing! Also, the pantry organization video would also be great 😁😁