Q&A | Marriage, self-respect, owning yourself, friends | Malvika Sitlani Aryan

[@patelritu5512]

She cried on light ring 💡 2016 Now she own Gucci 👜 2021 Hard work ::) you are inspiration 😇

[@taru8119]

both those things were purchased by Akhil, so as much as I appreciate her hard work it was his money that bought her that :) can't argue because what I said is the fact.

[@saswatighoshbose37]

@@taru8119 she won a cosmopolitan blogger of the year award babe!

[@komalparikh5616]

@@taru8119 so what? Your parents and husband will gift you things too !! But what about the things she bought for herself?? The financial help that she provides to her family !! Isn’t it valuable too!! What she is trying to saying/ explain through this video is try to build yourself... do something in life... so you don’t have to be dependent on someone to take care of you...!!! I think you missed the whole point of the video!..The fact that her husband/ boyfriend gifted something to her doesn’t maker her less powerful... i am sure she can buy all the expensive things now.. that’s her choice.. and the fact that she is putting her life out there doesn’t give you the power to judge her.. you misunderstood the part clearly!! She was trying to explain it out loud that how imp it is for your partner to be supportive and most importantly on same page! Lol .. You go girl ❤️❤️ Malzz🥰

[@taru8119]

@@komalparikh5616 absolutely. I agree with you. I'm merely pointing out how evaluating her success based on the ring light or Gucci bag isnt the best measure of things, considering they weren't her personal purchases. :) Not trying to prove anyone wrong or unworthy. if you take it personally i pity u

[@komalparikh5616]

@@taru8119 I don’t think there was any need to point out what you said! Well you agreed with me ... so that’s all from my side.. I pity you 2 for saying or writing such things out there peace out✌🏻

[@dikshitahate7688]

Mal's one suggestion: can u have akhil on your chanel for one video where he talks to us about ambition and just motivate us. ps: if he is not busy then

[@raaga9382]

yess akhils career and his journey

[@pripri8814]

And also about his entrepreneurship journey and challenges along the way.

[@bhargavisawantt]

Just a reminder that whatever she said makes perfect sense about value friendships and it’s okay if you don’t find your people, it’s better to be alone than be w people who constantly pull you down, or discourage you into pursuing your dreams! Spend time w yourself, you will eventually attract the right kinda people!!

[@divyatalreja8361]

Ladies, In a world of Hookups! Find your Akhil❤️

[@Appy21]

So true...❤️

[@akansha8903]

Love this!

[@rachealzane9459]

Yes

[@pruthakalangutkar4805]

So true ya!

[@ankitadutta9506]

Oh yeah!!!!! I just needed to hear this

[@TheDivyaSawant]

Akhil is definitely such a true partner to you. I saw in one of your older vlogs where you were getting ready in front of your camera and he was on his laptop working. He saw you and had such a proud smile on his face. I still remember that moment. God bless!!!

[@smn4481]

Which video is that?? Before or after marriage??

[@dikshakerkar7213]

Malz in the first kiss video you mentioned you'll be soon doing the part two of it which will be going to the hardships you guys faced in the initial years... Please do that soon! Can't wait!

[@shrutiagarwal9080]

Yesss even I am so eagerly waiting 🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@divyanshipanwar3765]

Yesss Malzzz😍😚

[@khushbuwadhi6607]

Yesss pleasee🥺🥺

[@vrindakrishna9693]

Me tooooooo!!

[@cherrysharmaa]

Yess malz

[@shrutiagarwal9080]

Everyone has their own pace in life, i feel we should not pester her by asking questions about babies everytime. That's altogether her personal decision, and we should appreciate her to be lucky to see more of her and the amazing content she creates for us. She shares everything that she feels we should know about her, and whatever she feels important, she will definitely share. Everyone has a privacy and some boundaries which we should never cross. Not pestering her is a gesture that we care for her and not tryna exploit her privacy.❤❤ love you mals.

[@shatakshichaturvedi8117]

we definitely need more people like you, you amazing human.

[@shrutiagarwal9080]

@@shatakshichaturvedi8117 thank you so much. This is so sweet 💗💖

[@shatakshichaturvedi8117]

@@shrutiagarwal9080 ❤️❤️

[@namrata9235]

This may not be a long storytime kind of video but I have a video idea that you could use: things you learnt once you moved out that you wish you'd learnt earlier. Could be handling expenses, cooking, anything. Basically how you've rediscovered yourself and the world around you after becoming this independent.

[@saumyatasingh1845]

Malz you are that virtual positive friend we all need in our lives🤗❤

[@mustard8]

What you said is absolutely correct, why all the pressure of finances on men. But then nobody really puts the pressure on men to be the sole breadearners. It's usually men who stop their wives from working. It's families who don't let their daughters study or develop their talents. And above all just having a job doesn't really ensures that the woman is empowered. I have personally seen working women with abusive husbands who control their finances. I have seen women on good posts who had to go through arranged marriage with dowry, working women who are forced to have babies, even if they aren't ready.

[@gauriharshe852]

that footage of mals getting her first ring light just melted my heart my lorddd this girl deserves all good things in lifeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@ashutoshkarve698]

My girlfriend always suggests watching your videos. You have such a spark within yourself. We both always get inspired by you, And I see myself and her in you and Akhil. I always and will support her to all extent.

[@ThatGirlInVogue]

Wow thank you for watching! I appreciate it 😘

[@Ishasingh19]

Such important things you've said Mals, in this topic. So so important for young girls and early adult women like me. Truly appreciate it. 🤍☁️

[@thebluemisss]

Your are so motivating,and an inspiration to all the young people. You are always so consistent with your content. The day I started to saw your videos I couldn’t stop. Just love your channel. Most of the people will agree with me about loving your channel. Keep going ❤️

[@yashaswita05]

Just a video request. Can you do a talk video with Akhil about career. I think he’ll have lots of good suggestions to give to someone starting a business or getting into corporate world.

[@janhaviyashwantrao4830]

7:30 - 12:00 WELL SAID MALS! I CANNOT AGREE MORE. THAT'S THE MANTRA OF MY LIFE! I MYSELF KEEP TELLING MY BROTHER TO VALUE QUALITY OVER QUANTITY. It's so so so important to value people for who they are. The four and half minutes you talked is what I believe in. Very well said mals. I hope everyone listens to this.

[@yaramuni1427]

apart from H&M and Zara the best clothes are in Bandra and hill road if u r on a budget....they are of really good quality my 80% of my closet is from street shopping 🤭

[@nishatpolook315]

i love how you said you are only 28 ..like that's what i need to hear ..trust me i am 23 and i freakout everytime i think of my future..

[@mustard8]

Yes. Same. I am also 28 and just before this video I was feeling low ki it's too late. This gave me so much motivation. 💜

[@priyatiwari7895]

So far i have seen quite few video of yours just one thing would like to share that u r so genuine no fakeness, unlike other well known youtubers or instagramer....from past till present u have enhanced in ur skills but not changed ur nature, connectivity with ur viewers..luv u malzz for this.

[@kavitha4524]

Ur such a inspiration to young gals out there keep rocking mals 😍🥰

[@deadlybishh6734]

dude my college life sucked because of people I surrounded myself with..I am so glad that I haven't seen them since a year and I am graduating soon and my boyfriend's friends are now my closest now.

[@r.gajendergogna3238]

please have some of your own friends also whom you're close to otherwise if in case anything anything happens between you and your bf, you'll be in trouble because at the end of the day they're his friends first. believe me, i've been through this.

[@basusandipa]

@@r.gajendergogna3238 so true.

[@zoyasharma5132]

umm i own 8 dogs and i travel alot believe me it such a responsibility but it is all worth it like i used to feel so depressed but after having it was like the best feeling ever and it has been 8 yrs now and i still live with my pets

[@blessysheba4822]

How life can change so fast More power and prayers❤

[@hellothere1133]

I was not in a very good mood and unable to sleep when i thought I'll watch this video.. 1. Thank you for existing 2. I love your positivity. Please continue doing what you do 3. I like how you have accepted that you are not someone who is comfortable doing very different kind of makeup looks and are looking at alternate content ideas. With this kind of acceptance, self belief and confidence, you will go far Mals, all the best! 4. I'm surprised how mature you are in your thoughts at this young age and really appreciate that. Maybe it's the difficult times that you have faced that have taught you some valuable life lessons Much love and God bless you ❤️

[@meghoneel1780]

Just got done with my admission test and was freaking out. This is the best solution❤ Thank you Mals

[@darshchowdary5272]

Malzz it would be bomb if u do a podcasts ....we can listen u talk all day.....sooooo motivating and positive❤️❤️. U chose to empower us and bring positivity in life rather than just creating content..!!no matter what u go through we will and should,must stay by u when u spreading such positivity ❤️❤️❤️

[@gauravibendre]

The Kweeeen !! You're an inspiration Mals..and it's really awesome to have been following for your the past 5 years.. It really feels like your graph, the content and the vibe of the channel is so phenomenal!🌻 Dayum Gurrrl, we've got a long way to go!! ❤

[@adiitiii]

17:44 basic “MASIC” makeup! you did it and it’s been more than one year to your brand! kudos

[@vaibhaviarya8242]

Hey mals!💗 You are literally the only youtuber to whom I feel so connected and whenever I see any of your video it just feels that one of my friend is sharing all the things with me😌💗...You are such a gem💎

[@krishnasain3021]

You are always a bliss to watch.. the way you just talk about breaking the stereotypes is commendable.. ❤️❤️❤️ couldn't agree more to the fact that relying on your partner for all your wishes and needs is UNREALISTIC. Much respect and love to you Malz ❤️❤️❤️

[@tanvibothra6915]

You are exactly the kind of woman I want to be when I’m older. Kind, empathetic, self sufficient, confident & beautiful! More power to you x Hope the universe gives you everything you aspire for cuz you deserve all of it! Can’t wait for the next video. Bear hug 💗☺️

[@ThatGirlInVogue]

You touched my heart 🥺🙏🏻♥️

[@ekthaveeranki1533]

that old footage was so overwhelming i love you tons girls. will always will be my inspiration.

[@simplybhagyashree8234]

Wowwww❤️ The way you put things here , not for a single sec I felt like m watching some video!! Rather I felt like my best friend is sitting right in front of me and talking to me about relationships and motivation. You are so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ inside out 🤗😊 This video is going to help me in many ways 💓💓 #ThankYou for making this Video😍🌻

[@ashimachadha5391]

The vibe of ur channel is so freaggin' positive. Oh my god you are THE best!!!😩❤

[@moonlight-mm3iw]

The journey of how far you have come has been great, kudos to you ❤️ However, I would like to say one thing. Because of coming from a broken family, you may naturally feel the need to refrain from having a baby or growing your own family. Don't let your trauma make your decisions for you. I barely know you, but it's probable that you might be going through such a thing, so just felt like putting it out there.

[@vaishnavi2452]

Mals.....u posted this video on the point where I was feeling bad n low....thank u mals

[@shatakshichaturvedi8117]

You have no idea how much you have helped me grow. Thankyou for being YOU!

[@patelritu5512]

You deserve 1 million subscribers 💖

[@wafflesislive]

Your words makes a huge impact on me di every word every line means alot thanku so much for being an inspiration I feel like crying Tysm❤️❤️❤️

[@tiyakewalramani3768]

5 FREAKING LONG VIDEOS in a row😍😍😍 we are loving it!! ❤️

[@simranbabra8260]

Girl! You're unrealistically supportive to each viewer.. god bless you malz

[@moshinamaideen]

You are a true gem. Lots of love. So much motivation and happy mind after watching this mind. All girls please watch this. Be this same mals ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@muskaanfathima8183]

Did someone noticed Mals changed her mirror the blue one🤪

[@sincerelysanskriti6805]

She's the best advicer in this world

[@paritamehta7091]

Your personal and professional growth mesmerize me and I get encouraged to do stuff what I want. In our society we are expected to blend in there norms but it makes me feel very uncomfortable. People get really judgemental and talk about our life without fully knowing the backstory. My only goal is to prove that this so called society is not going to come and pay your electricity bills. I'll make sure to break all stereotypes and come out as a strong woman, and do you know what will drive me to reach this goal.... It is my mom's support and your videos. I am so grateful that God has given me 2 M letters. First my MOM and second Malz I love you and I'll make sure to stick around through your KZbin career. Love uuuuu❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mubimuthu9392]

Am i the only one who is wondering about why is she not already on TEDx Talks...?? I NEED to see her talking there 🥺🥺

[@ipsitabeuria4330]

Thank you for the advice for young girls, Mals. It really is motivating. Was feeling very low lately but hearing this makes me feel so much better. Wish to meet you sometime in person, someday for sure. All the best!❤️

[@rujulpatil5994]

Ur the inspiration behind why i actually started learning makeup or appreciating how it feels to put makeup on my face. Thank you for making me love myself and making me confident enough to embrace my flaws!❤😇 Lots of love and blessings!🧚‍♀

[@kidshealthbydrarpita]

I agree with you, nice video.Being self sufficient is very important for a woman so you can stand on your ground and don't have to depend on others for your happiness. Also it's important to be firm about your beliefs and faiths just because u r married you don't have to completely forget your roots and be a new person . A supporting partner is a blessing. My husband is also very supportive , I did my MD after marriage and cleared the exam when my baby was little and it was not possible without his and family s support.

[@shrutisrivastava1855]

You're such an inspiration. I grow with you everyday ❤️ thanks for all the reminders , they were much needed. More power to you gurrllll❤️❤️🔥

[@zainabrangwala7110]

Your sooooo inspiring !!!Honestly looking at ur videos has made me such a different person and my thinking towards people also.... ALSO SORRY FOR ASKING U ABT UR FATHER ... Love you 😘

[@aparnaabi1926]

Aww! I'm literally crying I donno why but yeah Mals the things you said in this video are some important life lessons which I needed and nobody tells me. Thanks for being there❤️

[@preety8139]

You are an amazing person.......sorted...positive and independent.....perfect lady of this era!!!!!!

[@ankitadutta9506]

You have changed my life girl... couldn't be more grateful 🙏❤️

[@shifamusthafa3109]

I Love the relationship you have with us!!🥰♥️I have Never ever seen a influencer or content creator have such a relationship with their audience!! You treat us as Family and We Love youuuuu😘😘♥️♥️😍💞✨

[@deepaadvani5955]

Mals you r soo honest & positive all the time .. & uhh bring soo much positivity in my life 🙌🙌

[@aarushisharma6916]

Malvika I don't know if I ever felt this much likeness before but with you it's like I'm looking myself into the mirror, I 1000% relate to each and every word you say. You're a lovely human being. Love always ❤❤

[@rebeccafelsciaofficial]

Mals you have a great experience in life which proves it all with your practical advices! I really appreciate your thought process and views about life and relationships. Very relatable! Thanks 😊

[@izscararmy1279]

Mals is back with a long ass video and we're so happy ....🥰😍🤩

[@husnasyed1428]

Thank you malz for being here😊🙂thnk u frm d bottoms of my heart 💜

[@shrishtysinha9640]

Love you Mals❤💕You have always taught the right thing to girls out there. I feel so much of warmth watching you, listening to you. I have never felt this kind of connect with any KZbinr. You are my girl!!! Wish you always get 100 times of love , care and success which you give to all of us. You add value to your subscribers.

[@marshahussain8309]

Malvika, your words are 100% true and correct and I totally agree with what you said but I feel that it's easier said than done..Because we still live in narrow minded societies and not everyone has broad minded families.

[@vaishnaviprasadrao6117]

You're soooo inspiring malz... Like I can legit lean on you for inspirational talks and motivating talks... It just makes me more ambitious and keeps me up in the race

[@shrutiagarwal9080]

There should never be a time bound like we need to get married by 30, baby by 35, everyone has their own personal goals, everyone has their own pace in life, i feel we should not pester her by asking questions about babies everytime. That's her altogether personal decisions, and we should appreciate her to be lucky to see more of her and the amazing content she creates for us. She shares everything that she feels we should know about her, and whatever she feels important, she will definitely share. Everyone has a privacy and some boundaries which we should never cross. Not pestering her is a gesture that we care for her and not tryna exploit her privacy.❤❤ love you mals.

[@tanishasaha8634]

Malvika deserved the 2019 award but this time mrunu deserved the 2020 award Really love the way you recognized other creators who are doing better💜💜🌈🌈🌈🧡🧡

[@northeasterngirl782]

I can watch you talking the whole day 💖 Positive vibes always ♥️

[@divyajadhav7310]

You always inspire us with your incredible thoughts and positivity around. God bless you mals ✨❣️

[@sanjanabalakrishnan4214]

Omg Malavika, you pop up in my feed often and I have watched a few videos but you just helped my depressed ass get up and start my day at 4:50pm on a Monday. Life is not a joy ride for me and you brought me that positivity I needed today. Thank you, @Malavika. I just subscribed ❤️ I love everything you said about how a partner should be and what kind of friends to have in life. Here is me trying to become a person who someone might wanna befriend. Also, guys it's really stupid to ask extremely personal questions to youtubers. They don't owe your their personal information. Just enjoy what she wants to put out there.

[@zebaamroliwala]

Girl I could listen to you on and on. The energy, the vibe that I get from you is something else ✨

[@shellybothra]

I absolutely adore your conversations. You feel like a big sister to me who gives advices not everyone would give. ❤️

[@vaishanaviwadhawan5489]

You are such an inspiration . You just sometimes say things which are so so meaningful . Just keep going. Lots of Love :)

[@KR_vlogs21]

This girl is amazing 💖😍 i just love the way she is. Like no one will give you so many advices neither your friends. I always learn from her. She really makes you understand what is good and what is bad. I have watched so many influencer but she's the best amoung all of them. Keep growing girl...❤️💕😙💖💟

[@asneetkaur9220]

Mals do a video on how you both (Akhil and you) as a couple has faced challenges......your journey through downs and what went you going....love❤️

[@neelamrai6557]

Trust me I can hear you a whole day, you are such a motivational speaker mals 🥰🥰

[@MerylJoseph]

I really like such kind of videos especially coming from you because I think that I can learn a lot from you ,and one more thing like for you when you say that how much you love and look up to Patrick star it's the same for me like I look up to you and you are my true true inspiration love you loads❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TheKoonmoon]

Hey Malz I started following you when I was a teenager and I that time I was amazed by the makeup and the products that you used, I was very much material driven that time. But today when I'm at my early 20s, and have a taste of this adult life and I opened this video I felt may be I'm not just here for the makeup, mean I love it but now it's more of your words that help me. I feel so good that I have inculcated a lot of your thoughts into my life and today when you spoke I saw a reflection of my thoughts, obviously which I've learnt from you and automatically I felt I'm a better and beautiful person with all these values that you've put into my life with your videos. Your a blessing to my life. May you be blessed equally and more !! 💜

[@simarwadhwa3809]

I can't tell how much I loved you in this video ! You have grown tremendously Mals !! I loveee you soo much !! Keep shining ALWAYS ! 💫❤️

[@cherrysharmaa]

I lovee youu malvikaa❤❤❤ I am so thankful to youuu , you are like the older sister I never had 😭❤❤

[@radhikav5800]

💃Omg!!! Mals Brand will be always always be my go to product!!! Waiting for it Mals👍👍💃💃 All the very best for that and everything💓😘 Loads of love💓💓💓

[@nehakashyap8963]

Woww..loved every bit of this qna..n great makeup as always♥️

[@shrutisinghal6004]

I don't know how you always give the onlyyyy advices I need to listen.. you're just amazing Mals❤️❤️❤️❤️ you're so empowering!!

[@artipatel9871]

Omg gurl! You are my favourite content creator because there is nobody like you, you are such an inspiration to young and older people in most perfect ways. The advice u share with us are so genuine, practical, realistic and really adding values to our life. Thank you for doing it and I love watching everything you do. ❤️

[@muktanshikadam1511]

Background just hit the right 😍😍💯💯

[@supreetgill415]

I love how you always talk about empowering and uplifting women, how important it is as a woman to push other women! Also how you talk about REAL problems and how genuine your content is. I see you as an influencer coz i can relate to you! that's the kind of content the viewers look upto! Thank you mals😘

[@apoorvadesai2820]

You are such a good speaker, that is one of your major positives girl! just love it! 😍

[@vrutapatel1968]

Ahhh, I just loved the way you talked about everything and uplifting every one through your videos. Lots of respect for you.

[@deekshakataria7113]

Your advice is EXACTLY what I need to hear!! Love you Malzz❤️

[@BhavyaSongara]

I just really love Malvika. she has taught me so much! I learn from her in every aspect of life. you break it down for your audience and give such beautiful answers.

[@sukhmanisharma5929]

Pls keep making such chit chat vidoes! Really lifts me up! 💕💕

[@vrindakrishna9693]

I love you so muchhhh!!!😭❤️ Every time I see your videos, you make me THINK. I really don't think any other KZbinr has had such an influence on me yet. You're so inspirational! And I loved your look!!!❤️ Lots of love, happiness, peace and success to you❤️

[@srishtiramaprasad785]

Very important to have goal oriented people! Magnetic statement!!

[@kanchanbehl9263]

This video feels like.. my best friend has come to visit me and guide me about everything that can help me in my life which I needed the most..love you malvika❤️ You really inspire me..🥰😘

[@alishakapadia6240]

I adore you yaar mals!! You're just so amazing and real!! Lots of love to you!!!!💛💛

[@Viiinnniii]

Whenever i listen to you it feels like you are talking about so real and meaningful things I really appreciate you to be this real and outspoken about all the things🤍❤️

[@imunique_26]

Woow the way she explains things make me wanna embrace life and jump out of my couch and be with my friends right now 😍😌you know what mals you can even open up a podcast talking about anything in general giving us the gyan 😁

[@themedtuber2183]

Mals you're the big sister I never had ;) I love you so much, thank you for these Q&A, it really keeps your girlie going.

[@bishakhakirtania1419]

Giirrrllll..I LOVE YOU..PERIOD🤗🤗😙 In the whole video I was just knodding my head..and agreeing to every point you put up...So relatable and encouraging 😍😍 love love😐😇❤❤❤❤❤

[@Sujitha30]

Malz u really sounded like a elder sister to me. So thankful... The idea of how to choose a person around is just amazing and so helpul for a 19 yr old me. Luv u a lot ❤

[@khadijarahman1067]

Malvika is the person who increase my confidence and make me brave about my insecurity lots of lots of Love for you From me (Khadija) from Bangladesh 🇧🇩💖😌

[@bhavyajain4613]

Can't express how beautiful and wholesome this video is. Love youu Malzz