Some Unintentional Mistakes of Parents - Parenting Tips in Urdu/Hindi - Qasim Ali Shah

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ap ko khuda slamt rky ap kitny achy hn dil sy hath uta kr dua di aj ap . ap ky pyan na mri zindagi chang kr di

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Bahut khoob soorat, Allah apko hamesha khush rakhe aap logon ke liye mashale raah bane rahen, Aameen

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Ma sha Allah Bhout he acha topic our bhout hi achi Tips di hai ln sha g salute to you .

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Sir MashAllah boht acha boht se logon ko pata he ni kch MERI Tarah ap naimat Han such main Allah sehat wali Zindagi de apko

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Alllah salamat rak emaan taza media

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Bilkul Sahi bat ki hai . Buht cheezen esi hen Jo hamaray baro nay ki hai or hamaray ird gird Kay logo me buht cheezen buri aai hen is vjasay. Allah pak sabko hidayat den

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Sir ap bahut achay hain ap ny MA sha Allah be shuar logon ko raahe Rast pe laya hy Allah karim ap lambi zindgi. Dey. Sehat Aeman wali. ......sir ye jo pairetns k baray main taalim ye meharbani ap fermaain zror shuru karin must hy hm logon k liye ye Matrik main lazmi honi chahye q k ziyada tar bachay Matrik tak hi taalim. Hasil kartay. Hain. Yeh NISAB. . main must. Hona. Chahye. ....

[@fatimamubasher7228]

Thanks a lot sir apky lectures boht hopefully ha again thanks muje boht help hoti ha apni problems ko solve krne ma

[@ambreenmahmood327]

Very nice. Great suggestions for parents. Well done.

[@khanmehak3227]

apny bht deep bt ki hum ya bt khud sy maa baap ko kah b ni sakty agr kah b dy tu wo khud alfaz ko zarorri ni samjaty

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Bht khoobsurat lajawaab lecture hai

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Shuker Allah pak ka.....hmy ulad jaisi nemat ata ki....ya Allah karam kerna ....zindagi kay her mor pe hmri rehnamai kerna ameen sum ameen

[@yasmeenkhanum4144]

Excellent thankyou koie lafz nahi aap kai liye Allaha aap ko zindige ata karai Ameen

[@aamrissai]

MashaAllah very Nice. Parenting is improving in Pakistan because of Qasim Ali Shah Sb

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Aslamoalikom sar me Ap ka program suntiy hu bohot hubsurat bte he he jo zendgiy le kar Age clniy che lekin Aufsos ke shat Alha Salamat rake Ali

[@saemamughal7824]

بہت شکريہ سر۔ آپ نے بہت زبردست والدين پر جو يہ بات کی ہے۔ کيونکہ ہماری آنکھوں کے سامنے کی بات ہے بہت سارے ايسے والدېن ہيں جو اپنے آپ کو فرشتہ سمجھتے ہيں اور اپنی اچھی اور بہت ہی فرمانبردار اولاد کو جہنم اور کفر اور نہ بخشنے پر بليک ميل کيا جاتا ہے۔ اور خود يہی ماں باپ سر سے ليکر پاؤں تک چلے پھرتے غلطيوں سے بھرے ہوئے ہوتے ہيں اور بہت ساروں کی زندگيوں پر بُرےہی اثر انداز ہوتے ہيں۔ ماں باپ کہ پاؤں کی جنت تو سب نے بتائی مگر آج تک کسی نے يہ بات نہی کی کہ بھئی وہ بھی انسان ہيں اور غلط بھی ہو سکتے ہيں گنہگار بھی ہو سکتے ہيں اُن کے بھی بہت سارے اپنی اولادوں پر اور دوسروں کے لئے حقوق ہيں۔ کوئی فرشتے نہيں ہيں کہ وہ غلطياں نہی کرتے ہو گے۔ ميں بھی ماں ہوں ليکن ماں ہی رہوں نہ کہ بليک ميلر بن جاؤں اور اپنی اولاد کو جنت کے بجائے خود ہی اُنکی زندگی کو جہنم کر دوں۔ خدا کی قسم ايسے بہت سے ماں باپ کو ديکھا ہے

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Buht zabardast bat ki hai aapnay. Baray apnay Apko galat smjhtay hi nhi . Hr bat me Sahi smjhtay hen or baccho ko gunahgar or nafarmaan kehkar blackmail krtay hen

[@hakimdiwan5101]

Parenting mistakes 1. Offensive words - Speaking badly or making fun of kids can result into self hatred. Self hate can lead to suicide or self harm. Parents should not make fun of physical attributes of child. 2. Questioning - Asking excessive useless and unimportant questions can lead to low self confidence and doubt. Such children can develop trust issues towards themselves. 3. Selfish (toxic) wishes - Wishing that child should not have existed or died. This can make children feel like unwanted and unimportant. 4. You are a burden - Making child feel that they are a cause of problem for their parents and made their life difficult. Children who are made to feel this way wish to stay away or leave their parents. 5. Unhealthy comparisons - Comparing child with other children who are performing better instead of comparing with their past performance can create jealousy and hate for others. 6. Abusing statements - Saying abusive negative affirmations or giving defined statements such as "You are idiot", "You will never be successful", etc can make child have low self-esteem. 7. Emotional abuse - Saying words like "We will leave you", "When we will die you will understand", etc. Using such emotional words to manipulate can make child feel lonely, depressed and hopeless. 8. False promises - Parents make promises but doesn't fulfil them. Children feel cheated and think that they are not someone with whom others will keep their promises. This can create trust issues towards others.

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Jazaak Allah on your hard work

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JazakAllah for listing key points of the lecture

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@@sidrecreats Thank you.

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Jazak Allah

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Allah pak zindgi or sahat dy ap ko sir

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Very very importent speech 💯💯💯💐💐💐 bilkul sahi kaha apne 💐💐

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Uffff,ap ne bht bary nuqsan se bacha lia,hamein to pata hi ni tha k hm jo kah rahy hn us ka asar kia ho ga.ALLAH khush rakhy sir ap ko

[@ranimani133]

شکر ہے پتہ چل گیا ہے

[@iqrapatel1648]

kia batain boltay hain aap. MashaAllah. Kash k sub parents isko smjhain or apka lecture sunain

[@monisedits1332]

الحمد للہ میرے والدین نے کبھی کوئی ایسی بات نہیں کی. مجھے آج بہت proud feel ھو رہا ہے. یار کنتے بہترین والدین ہیں میرے الحمد للہ الحمد للہ ثم الحمد

[@ranimani133]

ماشاءاللہ میرے والدین میں یہ آٹھ کی آٹھ غلطیاں پائی جاتی ہیں جو وقت کے ساتھ ساتھ بونس کی شکل اختیار کر رہی ہیں کہ بددعائیں بھی اونچی اونچی آواز میں دی جاتی ہیں کبھی مرنے کی تو کبھی اجڑنے کی میں یہ ویڈیو دیکھ کر بہت دکھ اور شرمندگی محسوس کر رہی ہوں

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I will show this lecture to my parents,Thank you soo much sir for such an amazing video,And this Video will help us very much.😊

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JAZAKALLAH ALLAH apko khush rakhe bhot shukriya ❤❤❤❤

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Masha Allah Wow very amazing video 👌👍👍👌👌👌👌 ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی خوبصورت اور بہت ہی قیمتی باتیں ہیں،، ماں باپ کو ان باتوں کو ہمیشہ یاد رکھنی چاہئے،،،

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Aslamoalykum men aap ki buhat shukar guzaar hon jazak Allah

[@waheedkayani6226]

Improve krny Ki koshish kry gy inshallah

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Zabrdast.khosh rahen abad rahen

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Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko sehat izat Dolat or jo jo hum apnay parents ko jo bhi khushi dena chahtay hain us main hamain kamyabi ata farma Ameen.

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jazak allah shah g:)) aap ki sari ki sari atain sach hain. meray ghar me yeh sari 8 ghaltyan thi. :(((

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Jazakallah khir

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Excellent Sir. Allah pak aap ko is ka bohat acha ajar ata farmay. Ameen Summa Ameen Ya Rabbul Alamin

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Mashaallah zbdast baty ki hy thanks jazakallah kher.

[@mahjabeenawan3264]

I'm literally crying 😢... it's very true...this hppend in my childhood

[@ridasheikh4945]

Thanks and god bless u

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Bohot bohot shukriya janab

[@zainabbux3314]

Sir AP ne aj bhot kuch sekha di zaindagi jee ne ka teriqa sekha di ya theak u so much sir

[@hamzalatif9042]

Aapki ye boht zaberdast baat h k parenting ki training before marriage honi chahiay, because baad main to hum essay programs uss waqt daikhtay hain jub hum apna loss ker chukay hotay hum apnay rawaiay say bachay ki personality damage ker chukay hotay parenting ka subject compulsory hona chahiay

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Allah Pak Apko Seht Atta famay Sir .... Mje ap jse leadr hero ki tlash thi aj k time m mre bht se qustions or thnkng ko jnko m bchpan se la k ji rha ta or tlash kr rha tha wo ap tk ponch k ab solve sanwr or mutamn o rhe hn ,,, bta ni skta sir pr m 2sal se apko sun rha hu or dil se apko fllow kr rha hu or is bt pe fkhr mhsos kr rha hu k mre hero, leadr ap hn , mje books readng ka bchpan se bht shoq ta pr jski tlsh ti wo apse a k pori oi , m wo v=bhatka tenka hu jse mnzl ki tlash h or alkhamdulillah ya sfr mra ap asan bna rhe hn ab thnks alot sir Main lahor aya tha apse mlne k lie pchle dinu pr nahi ml saka ,, but inshallah ik dn zroor

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Boht khoob boht hi acha lacture he

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Life ke bahut si pic samne aa jati hai apke is lecture se thank you sir 💞

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😭😭😭😭

[@hinaislam8093]

Exactly,parental lesson is most needed

[@nighatfatima75]

MashaAllah,May Allah bless you and your parents.

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اللہ پاک آپ کو نظر بند سے بچائے آمین ثم آمین آج کے دور میں افسوس کےساتھ کہنا پڑتا ہے کہ تعلیم ھے تربیت نہیں آپ غور کریں تو یہ کام 78 کے بعد کے والدین نے چھوڑ دیا اور دکھ کی بات یہ بھی کہ اساتذہ نے بھی ہاتھ اٹھا لیے زندگی کے 40 سال پہلے آپ جیسے میرے اساتذہ بھی تھے اور اب آپ کو اتنا تربیت کے لئے کھپتے ، ھوے دیکھا ھے آپ ھماری قوم کے بچوں کے معمار ہیں اللہ آپ کو اجر عظیم عطا کرے گا آمین

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Ameen

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Thank you thank you thank you very very much for gaid nees

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Mashallah Allah pak AAP ko salamt rakhy ameen

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Very nice sir. I recpect you. Ap k parents ne yaQeenun apki tarbiyat bht achi ki h. Allah pak apko jaza de

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جزاک اللہ خیرا بھائی

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Thank you 💓 sir mujhe bht zrorat thi es lecture ki

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Hmary haan ye bhot hai ap is trha ki videos share krty raha kren taqy hmary mashry mai in batoon ky hawaly aweress paida ho

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Brilliant lecture for us thank u sir.

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I am happy and healthy and peaceful soul .Thank you God .thank you so much .

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Excellent by Afzal bajwa motivational speaker u tube channel and love for

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Extremely reality based authentic speech.

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Assalam o alaikum Sir different topics py aap k lectures aur mufeed discussions sunay I'm really happy for topic iss ki boht zroorat ha humari society ko. Parents bnany sey pehly guidance ya training as topic aur Subject yaqeenan aap start ker dain gy , jasay aur boht saray positive kaam aap ki foundation say Allah tala ny krway aap ko guidance ka vaseela bnaya ha, aik aur guidance ka topic iss py b rahnumai honi chahiyey k aik couple ko new life start krney sey pehly guide zroor guide kiya jay k zindagi k muamlat ko kysay Handle krna ha , boht saray walidain aala taleem, sahuliat boht kuch dey detay hain new couple ko but nai zindagi ko jeena kysay ha nahi bta patay. Hope k humaray log uljhi hui zindagion sey nikal sakain guidance ly kr

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Yes you are right. Yeh cheezain hamaray moashray main nahi sikhai jati

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Very good lecture

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Sir i feel u are the most attractive and unparallele motivational leader,i think u have made my life enough beneficent for my family

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Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko Izat Dolat or beshumar barkatain Ata farma Ameen

[@waheedkayani6226]

Thanx sir bht achi bat ki ap ny

[@saimakhan7255]

Absolutely right

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Mashallah sir bhot achi bat ki

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Sir u r great leader may u live long...

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Thank you for kind information

[@Zainab_Asad]

The most heart wrenching thing is our parents don't focus on these videos and think that they're right...and we unlucky children watch and feel these words

[@hafizabdurrehmansheikh4606]

Itss really truee just like me....

[@SaqibIrfan]

You are the future parents…. We can’t change the past, let’s develop and build a strong future with you guys in the driving seat!

[@Zainab_Asad]

@@SaqibIrfan Insha Allah

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[@samsungg456]

So true. Same in my case. But my parents never accepted their mistake. But i don't want to repeat these mistakes with my children. In Shaa Allah

[@sanamjaan5965]

Thank you very much for gaid us

[@zeeshansarfraz6951]

مَّ صَلِّ عَلى مُحَمَّدٍ وَّآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَّ Ya Allah send infinite Darood and Salam on hazrat Muhammad SAWW and their Ahle Bait Recite Holy Quran daily with translation and tafseer

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Sir Allah Talla ap ko mzeed kamyabiyan ata frmay ap hmari qoom k hero hn It is very basic and importan topic ...

[@honeykhan4748]

Thanks you sir.

[@rahatali2301]

MashAallah Shah Sahb behtreen lesson hote hin apke

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I have no words to describe ur amaizing lecture...lovvvv u respect uuu

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Sir you are a great teacher and mentor I am so lucky as your student..

[@hinanayyar6722]

بہت عمدہ جناب اللہ آپ کو صحت اور لمبی عمر عطا کرے اور زندگی میں ایک بار تو ضرور آپ سے مجھے روبرو ہونے کا شرف عطا کرے آمین

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Jazak Allah for sharing. Words of wisdom and gold.

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Mashaa Allah eye opening lecture .jazakallah khair qasim bhai

[@malikabbas6535]

شکر ہے کوئی تو اس ٹاپک پر بولا جس پر بات کرنا گناہ سمجھا جاتاہے اور پورے معاشرے کے بگاڑ کی وجوہات میں سے مین وجہ ہے یہ

[@samsungg456]

Have experienced 7 of these toxic behavior always in my life till now. And these have seriously impacted my life and my relationships

[@Galaxy_moon909]

Jazakallah too much helpfull for me

[@Jabir37]

Masha Allah. Very nice motivational video.

[@sidrazameer9253]

Bohat duaien

[@shahid7006]

Mashallah zabardas lessons for parents.

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MashaAllah very nice video

[@safihameed2054]

Masha Allah Allah Tslaa ki khas rehmat hei jo ap k kahey m taseer hei Allah ap ko behtreen jzaa de aur mazeed barkten dey

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Jazakallah khair sir Allah keep u always happy and health. Aameen

[@khushisheth3832]

Masha Allah Alhamdulillah subhanAllah Dil se aap ko sun k sukar adaa karna aata he Dil me Allah paak aap ko hamesha khush rakhkhe or aap ko hamare liye hidaayat ka zariya banaya he Alhamdulillah sukar Allah ka Allah paak aap ko salaamat rakhkhe aameen

[@benishislam3644]

jazak Allah for your guidance

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How can i meet you sir ..mm

[@shahidakarimullah2485]

May Allah bless you. You have described the real meaning of Sadiqa Jaria. This is called teaching of Allah's laws and regulations. Always remain Blessed AAMIIN

[@thisshalltoopass3267]

Ameen

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This true words kill the next person’s jazak Allah.

[@syedanaziajameel1856]

Boht alaa boht behtreen ap nhi bilkul sahi samjhaiya

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JazakAllah Khair Sir ❣️❣️ May ALLAH bless you so much

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Jazak Allah khair kasira

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JazacAllah khair

[@normasamuel4015]

Very true..Gud job keep it up.Always stay safe healthy happy n blessed 🙏👍

[@daimkhan7139]

respected bro thank you very much

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Allah bless you always sir

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I’m Too much learning this video

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Sfr very nice lecture I am naturally following it and your studies hopefully making me a good father Insha Allah I love my family

[@hmabdullah]

Thank You sir for this valueable lecture.

[@abdulrehmankittur9683]

Assalamualikum Bhai jan aap ne to meri aanken khol di 4 din se block kar diya tha isliye ke us ne mere kam me madat nahi ki thi aur aaj jab aap ki baat suni to laga ke bada zulm kiya us ki to koi galti bhi nahi thi dost ke birthday ko jana tha to us ne mana kar diya a baat mujhe mere nazriye to buri lagi jayse bazriya badala to laga ke mai hi galt hun . Shukriya bhai jan. Khuda aap me barkat de ameen summaameen ya rabbulalmeen.

[@afreenshaikh8437]

Very usefull vedio Shah sir allah apko lambi umar de ameen

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Assalamualaikum Sir I am lucky because my teacher is you

[@desisabor91]

Well said 💚

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Amazing

[@bahmed6587]

شکریہ جناب بہت مؤثر بات