Is Joshua Fabia a cult leader? How do I not get caught up?? (or: Signs to look for in a GOOD leader)

Ok, this isn't meant to be ANOTHER video about Joshua Fabia. Lord knows there are plenty of those. Honestly, I wanted to do a video talking about the things to look for in a GOOD leader, for those people who may be looking for a gym or team to join. Especially with things opening back up.
#JoshuaFabia #martialarts #cults #leadership

[@bwernard]

This episode's drink of choice could have been the kool-aid. Great video as usual, thanks for the work!

[@QoSBaszler]

Why didn't I think of that?? Lol

[@devinsantiago5357]

@@QoSBaszler your awesome shayna baszler good luck this monday against reginald i'll be cheering you on from Home

[@jakedull2553]

Are you referring to Jim Jones and the followers drink cool aid?? And comparing fabia to Jim Jones??

[@walsh_9101]

The successful cults are the ones that don't call themselves cults. A lot of important life advice in this video and I'm really glad you made it 👍

[@parksinrecreation2886]

I know social media is a scourge in many ways, but one of the ways in which I appreciate it is that it allows me to see sides of some wrestlers and other personalities that I previously wouldn't get to see. I always thought you were good at what you do, but seeing that you're a good *person* (and funny, insightful, contemplative, multifaceted...) made me start to root for you over others. So, I love that for people like you! Enjoying going through all these videos.

[@madmaxrockatansky]

Never heard of this guy before but I have been saying this about martial arts for years. We don’t talk enough about martial arts leaders dating students either. Not necessarily a bad thing but definitely a way leaders can exploit their influence over others. Most of the places I’ve trained were good, positive places of learning, but I have seen shady things from other schools. Respect and love to you Shayna, teaching us to protect ourselves from leg kicks, headlocks and bad leaders! 💪🤼‍♀️🥋

[@KingDIEAHBEATUS]

1st: THAT FACE @ 2:45, WAS PERFECT!!! 2nd: Thank you for saying that people should always communicate with each other and question the way things are not to pass judgment but to learn. I'm that type of person that questions EVERYTHING and always get crapped on for doing so.

[@TheSinsOfAvarice97]

Dogs like "AY FUCK YO INTRO BALLLLLL"

[@sharonfarrell1338]

I love u Shayna i've got mad respect for ya so glad i found your channel you are sooooo AWESOME

[@Jasmine-xw3sg]

I agree she is awesome 😁

[@kaz5150619]

Super Shayna Bazler

[@charlenenewbill5528]

I love how Puppy steals the show at the beginning 😂😂😂😂 As always though, great video Shayna !

[@JayZumOwner]

This was very useful 👍 I've seen this cult-like behavior first hand from different martial arts schools, traditional and modern. Cults can be profitable businesses 🤷🏼‍♂️ "Social Media is designed to be negative" and "Judge a tree by its fruit" is also excellent advice. Thanks, Shayna!

[@nathanjacquart4395]

This is actually my favorite video of yours so far. I’ve worked in the church for about ten years now, most of which is on charismatic side, so the kinds of people you’re talking about are people who...I may have a bit of experience with... The kinds who create outright cults around themselves or even those who incidentally create cults of personality around themselves; in other words they do it but are not expressly aware that they are doing it. I’ve seen it firsthand in some churches and especially in smaller groups like Bible studies and the like; but also in spiritual leaders, martial arts masters, health gurus, body builders, and even a personal trainer or two. It seems to be the shadow cast by those who have any insight into finding a “better” way in life. As such, more than anything though with this video, I appreciate you offering your insights on warning signs for people that carry this disposition. I think that’s very important for people to be aware of. Both in the context of people looking for a way, but also as a gut check for those offering a way. If you are teaching people and you catch yourself redirecting everything to be about you and how you are perceived or feeling insecure enough about people leaving to try to diminish them to sate your ego...you need to stop and reconsider your present trajectory. It’s a good message to be giving out.

[@QoSBaszler]

You hit the nail on the head with "...those who have any insight into finding a 'better' way in life..." It seems the perfect combo alongside someone needing and seeking something more out of life.

[@zm453]

I've completed all of labias videos and this is the first time I have been recommended yours. this is beautiful. thank you 😢

[@linkin0983]

Also, even tho I know you more from BRE, and a bit from wrestling, I love learning different things from themes I barely know about like MMA. Thanks for that, and your knowledge on it and many other things 😄

[@jojodunn835]

Poor Ms.Jess!! She looked so bewildered. Always eager to learn more. You've become part of my training. Thanks for your time and energy!! 🙏🤟🖤🙃

[@lesliecampbell4099]

Thanks for another educational and well thought out video. The amount of knowledge you share while not coming across as a know it all dickhead is amazing. You truly have a gift for teaching and are well spoken. Thank you for taking the time to do these videos, I enjoy them and look forward to them.

[@macyringlein478]

This was easily one of my favorites of yours. I have known for a while mixed martial arts is what I want to do for a living, but I have been struggling trying to find a mentor and/or school. It is nice to know those things because you really don't think about it in the perspective you were giving. So I really appreciate this whole video. Can't wait to see you and Reginald brawl on Monday! Looking forward to it!

[@crowtears2487]

One of my favorite channels to watch, you're amazing!!🥺 You create such a cool environment to learn about a huge variety of things. So knowledgeable!

[@Cacherpep]

Excellent advice, not just for finding a coach or school but in many other aspects of life. Thank you!

[@futureyankeepg]

Couldn’t help but notice the awesome BRE Start drawing in the background 😍 I’m happy you all like it! 😁

[@matthewjohnson8842]

Thanks, for this, Shayna! This is great stuff and very important for people to hear.

[@ob1jedinite]

Great leadership principles! Glad to have found your channel. As someone who is currently studying martial arts, I love your instructional videos and trying to find unique ways to apply them. Keep up the good work!

[@JaySteel10]

I'm so glad you have a KZbin channel and now I'm a bigger fan of yours in wrestling because of it! So cool to see you outside your character! Thanks for bringing some seriousness back into wrestling during your NXT days and early fued with Becky. I hope they bring that back, awesome to see your such a real star wars fan! You have my respect and I hope for your success, much love from Buffalo NY

[@forgotaboutdrea]

I really loved your point about "judge a tree by its fruit"; very important in any mentor relationship. As a teacher, I always want to leave my students better and more prepared than they were when they started, and it seems like Fabia isn't even considering Diego or his other students at all. Thanks for this video, must have been a total monster to deal with considering all the info and videos out there on cults and cult leadership. IsysPuppy in the beginning getting in her contractually-required appearance haha!

[@QoSBaszler]

The subject of cults could really be an entire channel all on its own.

[@BDragon67]

Awesome video. Haven't studied cults but have studied leadership and been a coach for years and i could not agree more on the negative traits to look out for and I'm stealing "judge a tree by it's fruits" great line. Thanks

[@faithjohnson1722]

Another great video! It's a bonus every time puppy is in the video! It's interesting hearing your view on Josh Fabia and how he is a bad leader. It's really important to understand that no matter how much you think you may know, there is always more to help you improve. That's one reason why I look up to you. Even though you are very knowledgeable and are an extremely talented fighter and wrestler, you still strive to do better and learn more. Seriously though, how did you and Jess get through that training technique clip without laughing until the end? 🤣🤣🤣

[@cherixxx9136]

Shayna just actively being a good person. So glad you're my favorite wrestler, I really made a good choice. :D

[@the10thStep]

Loved this, thanks! I always appreciate the longer ones. And after that intro, I'll just assume any upload delay from now on is the dogs fault 😂😂

[@alecarcane5035]

Recently found your channel, glad I did. Good info and great delivery..

[@xkaylax747]

Looks like the doggy just wanted to enjoy a pool day haha! Also, fascinating video!

[@cuzicantstop82]

I didn’t even know about Fabia’s videos hahaha as soon as you did that wrist thing I thought of Napoleon Dynamite immediately. Also, props to Duke for the dramatic flair. That looked legit 😂😂😂

[@davi0121]

Jess must gulp everytime there's a camera near the mat. But, in all seriousness, great video, very informative, well-reasoned and delivered in clarity. Keep it up, Ace! *_P.S. If you see that doll again, rip it's head off._*

[@Dave_ja_vu]

The Christian Blauvelt book in the background popped me. I got that for Xmas and never noticed it before now in your vids.

[@fanficrocks]

@BAEz. I know this might sound odd, but I would like to see anything you have written or read in your college days, in regards to this topic. As it would be interesting to see you in a different light, that isn't MMA or on tv. I have a feeling that you are incredibly bright in this space and have a lot to teach. Please keep on being awesome.

[@afimaniac1]

I actually wanted to go to school to study religions but ended up graduating in logistics management but I still study religions on the side. This was a good informative vlog!

[@dinahraven]

OMG is that Nightmare on the shelf behind you? Yoooooo that game was amazing! I have no idea what ever happened to my copy. I likely stupidly threw it out in a move in the early 2000's.

[@QoSBaszler]

Yeah, same. Got this one off ebay. The video is up on youtube

[@fakes56]

Event though I'm know nothing about combat sports I really watch and love all your videos and this one is probably your best. I really enjoyed how you combined your knowledge of psychology and mma. Keep up the good work!

[@timrichards6761]

Very good advice. The more I listen, the more I like & appreciate 'the BAEz'. 👍✌❤

[@vampman87]

What you said about martial arts clubs being cult-ish... I took Tae Kwon Do for five years in Elkhorn, WI, and the club was part of a branch managed by a Master who lived in Madison. That Master was one of 20 Masters who lived in the United States and all answered to a Grandmaster, who literally wrote the book on techniques that the Masters taught to their students. Interestingly enough, the Grandmaster died in the early 2010s and the Madison Master was promoted to Grandmaster himself. Now, I never met the Grandmaster, but my school almost idolized the Madison Master, and by the way he would talk about the Grandmaster and his accomplishments, it was almost as if the Grandmaster was some sort of god. I do hold both men in high regard, since I have a physical disability on my left side and the Madison Master taught me some tricks to working around that that even my normal instructor never knew about, but I see your point on martial arts schools having a cult-like mentality toward their founders. It's interesting in hindsight.

[@Shay.21]

This is really great advice that can be used in so many different aspects of life. Also, I love Puppy trying to steal the show at the beginning! She's too cute!

[@thailog1221]

Awesome vid! I feel like alot of the advice about these types of gyms and trainers also work for other aspects of life like cults or pyramid schemes or MLMs. Keep up the great work!

[@heyzeushoards1405]

I've known about Diego since tuf 1 and could tell there was something off about Diego's thinking. Doesn't surprise me how easily he was tricked by Fabia. Not to take away from Diego's hall of fame career but I'm just being honest. This is the same dude who marched to the octagon wielding a cross. I'd expect someone who hasn't had many years of mma experience like Diego, to be tricked. Anyway, happy it's over between those two despite Fabia now using character assassination against Diego and that most mma fighters are exposing that fraud. We've already dealt with a charismatic cult leader and the dangers of a narcissist telling lies for a living. Thanks for putting out this video.

[@QoSBaszler]

I agree with you on Diego always being a little bit wacky, but he's had MANY years of MMA experience. That's part of what bothered me about it, at first. Diego has trained and fought extensively.....FOR REAL. Wacky as he may be, he is educated enough in the combat arts that he should have been able to easily see this for the BS it was. Thinking like a cult recruitment mindset, however, I can see that Diego was likely lost. Having coaches and friends start talking about the end of his career and how he should probably think about a future like that.....that's hard to hear for someone that has spent their entire adult life doing nothing but that. It hurts to think about that, you see it in every sport. And here stepped Fabia, the one guy that claimed to tell him he could continue to make him be the monster he was. Classic blueprint for that sort of thing to happen.

[@sammycinnamon7300]

One good thing I got from this a-hole. Through my macabre fascination with this story I've found some great new channels. You're a great girl, looking forward to watching your content.

[@StoningXStephen]

Sick T-shirt but, that pool intro was a tease. 😄

[@tiffanyduncan9980]

U have this way of making me want to hear whatever u are talking about. It could probably be any subject and u could make it interesting. Having people want to hear u speak is a good quality and u have that. It's so awesome u have this channel because even if it's not in person, I still get listen to u and just be so fascinated yr life. I know I probably sound crazy lol and I swear I'm not a stocker, but it just always cheers me up to watch stuff on yr channel. I know I don't know u personally but it's just seems like yr an awesome person, and the people who get to hang out with u and be friends with u, I bet are very lucky. I really hope I'm not creeping u out, just trying to compliment u. Like I said I think yr awesome and thank u for sharing atleast a little bit of yr life with us. Thank u for making me laugh when I need it and for just being all around entertaining. I cant wait to see what the future holds for u, I bet its gonna be nothing but awesomeness

[@moshedimawalaadormeo]

The dog keeps stealing your scenes... Seriously thanks for this and I hope a lot of people listen or understand what you said

[@gingeta5961]

This is a really good video to watch for someone who is interested in martial arts or haven't gone to a martial art school yet, to keep that in mind that's good advice 👍

[@Redheadkingpin27]

I m sorry shayna I know ya channel has nothing to do with wwe but girl you deserve so much better I just wanted to say thank you for what you do you deserve way better thanks

[@carolynbuckley8733]

My favorite mma fighter turned into my fav wwe superstar is now my fav youtuber. Ty for the content.

[@kravethedream]

Nia Jax 💜 influences me very very heavily because I remember seeing and hearing her story of what she had to overcome on Total Divas (also some scenes along with a WWE Storyline of when I saw her cry, made my heart melt and cry) and that along with how she dominates, pushed through the stereotypes, how she teaches people to accept one another along with beauty is inside no matter your size or how you look, influenced me (because I'm a big tall guy) to love myself flaws and all and to not care about people's negative opinions.

[@NiccoloMachiavelliii]

Another informative vid as always! Love to see more vids on topics you think is beneficial for the young MMA fans coming up.

[@poojanair1109]

I am looking for a good mma school but I have not been able to decide yet .. But by watching this video of yours today, I have learned a very important lesson that " judge a tree by its fruits" thank you so much for this great advice 😇😇😇😇😇 and I love the intro with the puppy, you have the cutest dog 😘😘😘😘😘😘 love you so much shayna 💜💜💜💜💜#qosbaszler #favoriteyoutuber

[@maryhansi]

The way you threw Jessamyn... Oh my 🤩 I definitely am aiming to train with you... I would be blessed to have you as my leader, Shayna 😊 I highly appreciate everything you're saying in this video, Shayna ✌ All about who and who's not a good leader... Something I've been through in college hazing... Eww, like they are so toxic they want you to cut good people off from your life - ewwy.

[@KalelCreedDB]

Now we need the pieced together video of all the times you did that intro and the good boy kept jumping in the pool living his best life.

[@QoSBaszler]

It was non stop, lol

[@KalelCreedDB]

@@QoSBaszler however long that video is, I will watch it.

[@nickh13263]

My sons coach is excellent and is always learning then passes his knowledge on to my boy and others he teaches.You are expressing great knowledge of your subject and it comes from a Point you care and don’t want to see people sucked into being coached by someone like this guy. I have so much respect for you you are such a genuine decent person. I’ve always been amazed by your wrestling but watching your videos I’m impressed by you as a person. Many famous people become self obsessed but you are down to earth and refreshing in your approach.

[@keepingthefabe8754]

Legend BAEz glad I found you're page honest and informative 👍

[@KiannaMoon]

I think it's cool that you studied Religion! I can definitely see the intersection. Those traits you mentioned are some huge signs of cult leaders. Great analysis as always!

[@mikesumrall9233]

I appreciate your videos and honesty in your channel. You seem like a very awesome person and I have mad respect for you and what you bring to the table in Martial Arts.

[@michaelrussell3890]

Thinking about it. The art I study (Capoeira) probably looks like a weird cult with the circle, singing and clapping. Just ordered a copy of Be More Vader after seeing it on your shelf. Looks like it could be a laugh

[@hwongwarrior9387]

Intersting video. Had a long memorial day weekend. Went to Death Valley National Park in CA. and Horseshoe Bend in AZ for the first time. I must say the roads in Death Valley can be pretty confusing and there is no cellphone signal reception.

[@vernskid]

Love Shayna and her videos. Another very informative video and exceptional insight. Awesome information, but what else would you expect from the Queen of Spades.

[@abubakryousuf7781]

Hey shayna hope you are doing good... Don't care what people say, I love your videos and I like how you teach those amazing moves.. I have learned so much from your videos and hope that you will continue to make those (If you're happy doing so). Wish you a good health..! Stay the way you're, love ya..!!

[@jakedull2553]

Love the intro no words just a dog in a pool after a ball. Nice pool I love the privacy you have. 1:35 you got the Nakamura style of entering a ring down didn't think of Napoleon dynamite at all.

[@twinsunpredator7998]

Love your channel and mindset Never follow you on your career to be honest but i would love to have you in our club for a teaching session Peace

[@skywalkerwun]

I was so waiting for cult of personality song to pop up in this video 😂😂😂 awesome vid as usual 👊

[@katiemagliaro9875]

U are so cool. Your my favorite wrestler. I love how u do the joint manipulations to other wrestlers. Sorry if I spelt that wrong.

[@electronicornpartypus3948]

I think this video sits comfortably alongside the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius for its levelheaded insights into what makes a good leader. Timely stuff that extends well beyond combat sports.

[@teamqos]

I’m late to this, but AWESOME video. Tons of good information in this 🤘🏽

[@سعيدحازم-ض4ك]

Shayna may you please do a video about the kirifuda clutch ?

[@CENTOGIORDA]

As the list of things went on of what a leader behavior should be it comes up in my mind Raphael Cordeiro, and the tree-friut example identifies him. That Ali Frazier shirt rematch at MSG is sick

[@JESUSHernandez-ss3tw]

I have my 3rd Degree Black Belt Thru ...Rex Kwon Do ..Fantastic Upload

[@NKTheBowhunterOfficial]

Great video. I always enjoy the content. Also I like that shirt you had on.

[@sarahWWEfan]

Its cuz of you i wanna get more into mma im a second degree brown belt but id love one day to get back into it

[@deankakolewski]

Great video, you have a lot of insight. You’re one of my favorite wrestlers btw!

[@robertnguyen9493]

I don’t think Fabia understands the concept of “freedom of speech” people are allowed to disagree with him and criticize him if they think he’s making bad decisions or giving bad (in his case atrocious) advice! The dude seems to think that literally everyone is against him. Great video!

[@skylahope2869]

This was really great Shayna! Thank you!!

[@christophermora8572]

Hi I live in Sioux Falls South Dakota too

[@whiskeylima4439]

The slow zoom on your bewildered face is a memeable reaction to seeing something absurd!

[@artofdatu]

The "Suddenly Isys" moment is an amazing intro.

[@maryhansi]

I see a Chakra healing bracelet around the top of your microphone, Shayna 🤩🙌

[@uweschwuchow4356]

I'am from Germany but I watch all your Videos 😀

[@Exiles1994]

I really love the way you say "but" and the dog is smart and cute ❤️ Amazing video.

[@freddybell6169]

Great video as always Shayna I gotta ask are you a big fan of Cobra kai if you are who's your favorite character and what do you think of Terry Silver returning for season 4?

[@QoSBaszler]

I love Cobra Kai!! Those single shot extended fight scenes are amazing!

[@howstrongis]

Just for the Napoleon Dynamite reference subscribed here. The Baez is the best.

[@ctmdarkonestm]

Your tshirt reminded me of the old man talking about his biggest gambling win ever: betting on Ali to win the title in his first fight against Liston. Also: there's a fun movie about a martial arts instructor as dangerous cult leader, the dark comedy Art of Self Defense

[@QoSBaszler]

I'll check it out!

[@skyclad40]

great clip again Baez , marketing and building brands some people seem like they have an early 90s self help/ marketing book and turned them selves into a self promoting brand , as they see them selves as a brand going out side there comfort limits might be damaging to success . This leads to an over representation of movements flowery nonsense , actually every thing can be explained through human biology and physics there is only hard work , they might well limit themselves by their own financial goals . What looks dramatic reinforces the brand image too, you know like extreme conditioning but it doesnt help if you get punched on the nose so for me always basics over anything else

[@Aglaya_Arcana4]

Great video, beloved Queen. Your passion for martial arts is evident. 🖤♠ I need advice; I feel like my wrists and ankles are very fragile. What can I do to strengthen them? PS: IsysPuppy is always adorable. 🖤

[@QoSBaszler]

All you can do is make the structure around those joints stronger to protect them better. Think calf and foot exercises, and forearm and grip exercises.

[@Aglaya_Arcana4]

@@QoSBaszler Thank you, Queen of Spades. I will really try. 🤔🖤

[@jasonniles9270]

Thank you for sharing this information and about martial arts in choosing the things to look out for when you're choosing to someone to work with in martial arts stay safe

[@Cashraabi]

i want to know the food that the ones who fight at UFC eat? may you please tell me? thank you .

[@BlueRainSoda12]

Very eye opening and informative. Thank you.

[@weds13girl4life]

Loved the start of the video your dog is so cute, loved the video I've definitely learnt a lot from this thank you shayna 👑♠️

[@bendablefigures9070]

Lmao, the Joshua Fabia hashtag on this video took me down such a strange rabbit hole. But I enjoyed your take the most by far. Legit lol'ed at some parts

[@lauraking4917]

I love how you talked about materal arts I love to do that in future and mma catch wrestling your my role model really love you it be a dream come true if was you and Ronda in real life

[@stacielynn3962]

Spades another great video...random question: what is next to your Sith Holocron on the shelf behind you and lastly...Puppy totally stole your thunder lol

[@QoSBaszler]

Sith artifact!

[@JJ_k.102]

Nice Video Shayna ❤️

[@tigwelder4137]

Your vids are entertaining 👍 Thanks

[@c_lee_]

Love the intro with your puppers stealing the spotlight!

[@QoSBaszler]

She's the star of the show

[@c_lee_]

@@QoSBaszler you're a great pup mom to just let her have her moment and shine versus stopping her

[@SidEffecT883]

Yes! Our Queen♠️ is the best!! Damn this was a good one! Fabio is simply no match for the submission magician!💪😏

[@SoFlyBmOr3]

I would like to see you do other videos about cults it's always been an interesting subject to me. I wonder if you could rank the leaders of the cults like who were most evil. For me Jim Jones is the most evil personally but I could be missing someone

[@QoSBaszler]

"Most evil" is such a subjective thing. I could honestly start an entire different channel on cults, the subject is so massive.

[@golden8789]

Baez in a pool talking about MMA would be something different

[@benzillamusic]

Amazing video Shayna, you are awesome and entertaining, much love

[@rudycuyno874]

The belt level knowledge thing is quite wired as with out jigoro kano there wud b no kyu dan ranking. & yes there can sadly b sum cult like actions within certain m.a communitys. Not to mention there r also tons of frauds:/ who sadly also ruin real tma or cma. Wit this said ever since I discovered ur channel im loving it ^^ am also glad u respect all martial arts ^^ .