RIHANNA'S REGRETS, CHLOE BAILEY HATE, RUSSELL WILSON IS A SQUARE | Random Opinions

[@QueenChioma]

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[@Her-p1b]

queen ur music is so good😇

[@sheysmith98]

A lot of black men don’t like Russell because it reminds them of the masculine figures they never had

[@QwonDrea]

That’s the check💯💯💯

[@stilljocelyn_]

THIS!!!

[@arcayalove2526]

True.

[@victoriaaa4865]

clock it bbyyyyy

[@lookatyou5809]

Clocked!

[@keshanichele750]

I love the Russell segment, Nothing is square about Russell. Future should be happy that his son has someone else in his life that loves him. That is a blessing, more love

[@yahainHotPink]

💯💯 Well said. If Russell ever changes, I just hope it's only up. He seems amazing. Love a good man. ❤

[@julesa1754]

Word, he's one of Hollywood's gems. Hope he maintains it

[@Electra9797]

Future is an immature man-child so it’ll probably be awhile before that happens

[@sagemorgan983]

All that is.. is other men hating on him because he’s successful and happy.. all he does is mind his business and he is non problematic. If that makes him square then there’s nothing wrong with it.

[@dominqueb10]

He is square but I don’t understand why that’s negative. Tbh I view it more as some black man attempting to question his blackness bc he isn’t street.

[@vn9933]

The Russel hate I will NEVER understand and I refuse to understand it.

[@peripheralhandshaker]

As a man, I can tell you it's jealousy. For years, other men have excused and gave excuses for our shortcomings, but men like Russell don't conform to that, and it urks men like Future and Gilbert Arenas. It's a battle men like Russell have to fight, not like we care lool but it is what it is.

[@mariabrown6926]

Jealousy

[@levelupgoddess9289]

Black males can’t relate that’s why.

[@nubieblack886]

​@@peripheralhandshaker For them Russell should have choose someone else because Ciara was Future's babymomma

[@peripheralhandshaker]

@nubieblack886 Ciara wasn't even that bad, if it was suhki Hana them maybe I would join them looool

[@itsyagirlsoso8277]

As a woman, who wouldn't want a MAN/HUSBAND like Russell? God fearing, millionaire athlete/businessman. Imagine had Ciara would've stayed with her BD 😩 Because Russell is an all-around good man, people are just making up negative shit at this point, and it's WACK!!!!

[@OnCode101]

Clock it!!! We want LLC's not EBT 😂

[@dynastyandrews2416]

If Russell is a square then a square is exactly what I want 😭😭

[@amcmee_]

Exactly what I want.

[@yahainHotPink]

Rihanna's comments would only be hypocritical if she still dressed that way and told others or her own children to not dress provocatively. She is owning her past and doing differently for herself. Love that. ❤💖

[@mmck2565]

You don’t “own your past” by punching down. Now- did she mean to? No I don’t think so probably not. But none the less her choice of words ostracized a few catagories of women that “if you are her age and aren’t where she is in life in taste (which is relative), then you’re tacky. It’s how she said what she said that’s a bit concerning. If she’d made that comment solely for herself (note her choice of words) then everything would be no problem.

[@rurrox7597]

​@mmck2565 any way she said it would bother you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cyna866]

@@rurrox7597lmaooo 😂😂😂

[@mariabrown6926]

​@@mmck2565who was she punching down to though? 😂 She just said that SHE wouldn't rewear HER old looks, she wasn't judging anyone else.

[@ivoriandoll8532]

@@mmck2565sounds like projection…

[@Teexytee777]

Having a partner is beneficial if its HEALTHY. Most women desire a healthy relationship , we need to be honest to women, not everyone is going to find their prince charming. And thats ok. Some women want to be alone. And thats OK too. Life is not a one size fits all.

[@neliasanca]

Most definitely! It’s like I’m getting to a point where love might not be for me and I’m learning to accept that 👍🏾

[@JB-bl6qo]

Exactly

[@gailainsley6939]

Right. Women are finding value outside of that and I’m soo glad. This whole notion of ‘can’t keep a man’ dosent even make sense since women leave guys more. So why aren’t we asking why they cannot ‘keep’ women? 👀 it’s the internalised misog¥ny for me 😂😴

[@christinem8799]

I’m learning to accept that “not everyone will find their Prince Charming.” It’s a rude reality but it does happened. I’m already fine with being alone though. J

[@camarathomas6552]

Chloe and Halle split up too soon before they hit their peak.

[@christinem8799]

Agreeed.

[@Electra9797]

Idk if they’ve officially split up but I definitely think that we should’ve gotten a few more albums from them as a duo.

[@titlepending1302]

She to focus on my homegirl as competition

[@christinem8799]

@@titlepending1302 No she isn’t weirdo.

[@titlepending1302]

@@christinem8799 weird is Chloéheaux lmfao and you inownit

[@thaliasreality]

With the Rihanna shit. I completely understand her viewpoint. Being a mom literally changes your brain and the same thing happened to me. I literally would never wear some of the shit that I used to wear when I was younger and I look back and cringe. Motherhood really changes you , (sometimes) it is hypocritical, but we're human and we grow.

[@KDBetter]

I love that Rihanna spoke up and said that she made fashion decisions she would never do today. I agree that some of OUR personalities don’t align with that but I don’t think it’s hypocrisy. I think it’s growth and evolution.

[@se2664]

Yeah I don’t see a problem with what she said

[@crystalcastillo7575]

I don’t think Rihanna changing her opinion is hypocritical. I don’t understand why people force such a. Fixed mindset. Humans are wired to change their opinions once they get more information about something. It’s normal. It would be hypocritical if she started shaming others for it. But she’s not doing that, she’s only speaking about herself .

[@Sira-jp2to]

!!!!

[@QueenChioma]

As a grown women, what more information do you need about showing your nipples in public? Lol come on yall. It is hypocritical. If I sit here and make videos talking about how I don’t want to promote an imagery like Sexyy Red and make music like pound town, … and then turn around and make that same type of music, yall would call me a hypocrite. And vice versa. And I can’t just say “well I change my mind “. It’s still hypocritical. People gotta stop giving your faves excuses. I said it’s understandable as why she’s changing her mind, but even Rihanna her self said it sounds hypocritical for her to essentially condemn or feel yucky about showing her privates or her underwear when before, she was so unapologetic about. I get the change especially now that she’s older and mother. I just say you live and you learn!

[@Pullupinnatouii]

@@QueenChiomabut she was young though. I could see if she was the age she was now but she wasn’t. And you’re a grown woman yet you still have learning to do. You haven’t lived your entire life yet and neither has she. I don’t see it as hypocritical because she’s not really showing her body anymore. But now that she’s a mom and now that she’s older than she was years ago I do think her mindset has grown. Just like how all of us other people do as time goes on. Seems like people who have this opinion on celebrities are picking and choosing also because if it was anyone else you wouldn’t really be saying the same.

[@QueenChioma]

@@Pullupinnatouii young? In 2014, Rihanna was 26… I’m 26 right now. Yall love yalls faves. I gave her understanding in my commentary, I even showed my own example of something similar, but people called me hypocritical for what I wore even when I was covered and not nude. I just hope yall give me the same grace for whatever I may change about myself in the future.

[@taybhoney5434]

@@QueenChiomathat’s was literally rihannas point in reflecting on herself and past decisions. Furthermore, with the Knowledge of the industry and how things work- Why is none of that taken into Consideration and as a Major Factor in your analysis? Rihanna was 15/16 when introduced to JZay, later soon signed. So, I’m sure she was once Violated, and Been put on display for Play- So, by the time she’s 26 She’s Tapped bro, and showing a nipple after she’s Been ridiculed and judged by the Whole World in the Industry she’s in is Nothing to her at the time. She’s making her money, and she’s promoting Whatever Fashion Her Designers and Leaders Around her suggest- They pay her bills. In lamest terms- I believe we Know for Certain that the Game These Successful Entertainers Are Forced to Play When Winning to Keep Winning are Not the Same or comparing to Our Daily Decisions that We Make for Ourselves. They are playing a Bigger Game or Evil and Higher powers.. so to condemn her for speaking strictly on her pass fashion moments is too shallow if we Really want to talk about the Fashion Industry.

[@pynkbymbo]

The only men calling Russell Wilson lame and a square are blk men, shocking!!!! I would never get mad at my man for dancing on or allowing a celebrity to dance on him, it’s a once in a lifetime situation that will prolly never happen again. Everyone has wished to be close to their fav celeb, I personally don’t think it’s a big deal 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@se2664]

Same. I’d rather just not witness it 😂

[@kenishajohnson9042]

If Russell Wilson is a square...point me in the direction of the squares baby...i want one

[@crystalcastillo7575]

Regarding Chloe , yes having a good song is a part of stardom but people underestimate what a good reputation / image adds to the “whole package” . Because of her pst actions , people already see Chloe as a try hard and corny thus refusing to give her new music a chance . Yeah being talented and having a good song is one thing but how you present yourself to the world is a big part of “being a star” . The public is finicky and once you have a set image , they will judge you based on that. Her transition from “cute church girl “ to s3x kitten was way too abrupt and not a “smooth” transition . She alienated her fanbase by going full s3x pot and collating with abusers. That’s why labels make artists chose a path and stay on it till they’re able to build a consistent fanbase , she deviated from her image way too quickly and is now .. “finding out” . Personally I think it’s unfair that you can’t explore the different parts of you as an artist so soon but being a musician .. you have to somewhat cater to the fans and their perception of you. It’s a part of the job. 🤷🏽‍♀️ and like I said she did “way too much way TOO SOON” , now she’s attempting to “go back” but she can’t .. reputation is EVERYTHING

[@kuntakinte112]

BINGO! You nailed it. I personally preferred that “cute girl” aura she had and still has. It made her stand out in a beautiful and unique way. Based on my opinion, she would have gone further if she maintained that aesthetic for a while. Unfortunately for her and her sister (baby out of wedlock and “DDG’s reputation ”) their wholesome image has taken a downward trajectory.

[@kindredspirit33]

I agree with this comment but also feel like she could dial it back so we can focus on the music. I love her personality and music but sometimes the s*x appeal doesn’t even fit the song. She’s beautiful and I think her fans just want her to throw on some clothes and sang! I still support her to point where I’m subscribed and listen to all her music at midnight when it drops. But I would like her to show diversity in her looks cause it’s distracting from her talent because she is VERY TALENTED!

[@c-anime23]

Perfectly said

[@tta1390]

Exactly. Ppl love to forget how Olivia Rodrigo blew up. Her career took off exponentially after the whole breakup incident where she was shown as the hurt innocent little girl. Sabrina’s career suffered a bit because of that

[@rosebud02]

No it's just people are controlling idiots. I'm so thankful Chlöe does what she wants. Her major success is coming and no hateful idiots will stop it. She's a FUTURE LEGEND

[@Black2bProud]

Don't think RiRi is being hypocritical, i think she's just being more self aware of her fashion choices ... in my humble opinion we all will get old , our bodies will change or sag so why not wear all the risqué clothes while we're young and hot . We may regret it later when were old and wrinkly but atleast we can look back and laugh or cringe. 😅 30 year old me wont be caught dead wearing 16 year old me outfits but thats growth and mindset change..nothing wrong with that.

[@titlepending1302]

Well not everyone going to decline when we get older some ppl get better as they age

[@victoriafrasure148]

​@@titlepending1302yep 🥰

[@piecesoflyric5945]

A lot of men are showing their daddy issues through Russell.

[@laialuvv]

the world will NEVERR make me hate Chloe i hate seeing people say shes "doing too much" let the girl liveee

[@SideEyeee_]

She is doing too much and that’s why people don’t like her. And her song “Pray It Away” or whatever it’s called is so disrespectful and i’m glad people don’t mess with her. Ain’t nobody disrespecting God and get away with it.

[@se2664]

@@SideEyeee_I mean if she disrespected god that would only bother Christian fans

[@ashleetyler429]

WHY is NO ONE TALKING about how USHER was ALSO IN A WHOLE RELATIONSHIP with his FIANCEE now WIFE. CHOIMA ALSO brought up the Keke Palmer incident without acknowledging Ushers relationship

[@mariabrown6926]

I mean hes a performer and putting on a show. Kind of like actors that do sex scenes even though they're married, its a part of the job

[@prinprin3324]

It’s part of his job not the same imo

[@taybhoney5434]

& they are Two Performers- not just a random girl.. and after hearing what he was doing behind doors- hell nah, she’s SINGLE until Married!

[@norah4892]

Saweeti kept to herself and never engaged with Usher. She also had a boyfriend.

[@Sasukeluvzme13]

He didn’t kiss her or anything… keke got up and danced… usher does the same thing at all his residency performances and came up to someone in the audience. He’s known her prior and it looked like a basic interaction considering the entertainment.

[@TheNutCaseNetwork]

See, men have an issue with the ones that highlight their negativity. I feel there are men out there who want to be a different type of dad than THEIR dad. There are men who choose to repeat cycles, but being mad and dissing him is lame…

[@suncrestt4839]

those types of men love to make jokes about women being unable to take accountability but can never see the big ass redwood tree in their own eyes lol. and then when you confront them on it, they just start deflecting and hurling personal attacks like oh but i thought we were the illogical and over emotional gender? 😂

[@twnkll]

heavy on the pay/ support your friends! my girl has a whole hair business & does installs. she always tries to give it to me for free/ discounted. like girl take this money!

[@amarismiller3905]

I just told my friend this a couple days ago. She's starting a hair business as well and I told her that I hope she doesn't think I'm getting anything for free

[@audreyagbodjan5338]

3:16 kiki n the ohmal lay girl arent comparable. Kiki swayed side to side with usher. Ive seen many african people dance like that at weddings while thats their spouses mother or big aunty. The omalay girl gave that dude a whole strptease. We truly cannot compare the 2.

[@karenayuketah5099]

I agree, it’s like comparing a BB gun to a rifle. Yes they are in the same realm/category but those two guns are not the same.

[@mariabrown6926]

Keke was more tasteful in behavior but i think the main issue was her sheer outfit

[@LaiLai..]

Yea, I also think we have to realize KeKe’s ex boyfriend was more mad about what she was wearing . And most people disagreed with him because he brought it on social media instead of talking to her privately.

[@hubbthepoet612]

Men don’t like Russell Wilson because they view step father as a weak position. For Russell to be a rich man, regular men think there’s no way they would have chosen that for themselves.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Natalie Nunn is definitely transitioning into a bad boy Nathan Nunn.

[@peripheralhandshaker]

This is wild 😂😂😂

[@Mimi-kj7yo]

HUH?😂

[@naimalee1046]

Mammm😂😂😂😂😂

[@millymilly8264]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@apRN1993]

You came out swinging 😂🤣 I’m here for it!

[@themanyphases]

You kinda answered your own question with the chloe/sza comparison...people believe Sza, wheras there is something about chloe I just dont think people believe and the constant genre or sound switching adds to that. Of course she shouldn't be boxed in but most artists have distinct sounds especially when trying to build a fan base. I genuinely think people want Chloe to win but struggle to connect.

[@sedi2066]

Idk guys i actually really liked Rihannas see through look. I dont find it tacky and i think theres a difference between how celebrities dress and how we dress. Shes a pop star this is par for the course but hey to each his own. In this house.... me and my homegirls looooved that look even the makeup ate

[@QueenChioma]

Nah because when Lizzo had her booty out at that basketball game , people drug her, rightfully so. Maybe more for her twerking but definitely because of what she was wearing. It’s tacky. Rihanna is more palatable so excuses will be given. There is never a reason to show your nipples to the public, celebrity or not.

[@shakeykirkir]

That Russell Wilson story is honestly adorable. I will NEVER understand BM who think he’s wrong. I don’t understand. They’re projecting. Their kids are surrounded by so much love❤️

[@themanyphases]

Russell is a square and thats ok. Isnt a square just an ordinary person? He works, looks after his wife and kids and minds his business... that's ok to me

[@bubblesactivated]

And it’s like why is that considered a square? You know. I think that’s why it’s crazy to say about him

[@SideEyeee_]

He’s not.

[@lookatyou5809]

What exactly makes him a square? To me he's not, you think he was a nerd in HS or a popular jock? I bet the latter cause he played sports all his life and those guys are never a "square". He's just the extreme opposite of Future, that doesn't make him square.

[@ms.x1669]

I think we live in a society that makes fun of functional adults. Be it calling a decent woman a church girl or calling a decent man a square. The standard for entertainers today is p*rnstar, crackhead, dead beat dad etc.

[@xpnn]

BM are always telling BW to choose better, and when we do, it's a problem. Russell seems to be a great husband and father

[@AmandaCC88]

Queen, I think Riri’s point is that she wouldn’t do that NOW. She doesn’t regret anything. Also I realize I’m much older than you so it was a different time 10 years ago and beyond in terms of social media. She was groundbreaking in fashion and pushing the envelope and she had the body and image for it. Most people didn’t have a problem with it. Most kids weren’t on the internet and socials as they are now and these were adult only, celebrity and high fashion events. Not necessarily “public.” ❤

[@bubblesactivated]

Russell is so sweet for that message. It was instilled in God. I pray a lot of women receive that level of a blessing in a man.

[@heylacy3563]

HYPOCRITE. [count] disapproving. : a person who claims or pretends to have certain beliefs about what is right but who behaves in a way that disagrees with those beliefs. Rihanna said that as a mother and a EVOLVED young lady there are things she currently would never do or can’t believe she did. How is she a hypocrite when she is just acknowledging how she has personally changed/grown. If she was still dressing half naked and calling out other women, then that would be hypocritical.

[@chump315]

Maybe I missed the part where Rihanna condemned women who wear revealing clothing as moms, but I only heard her say that she now looks back and views her decisions differently

[@TheGlamourBOXinc]

Rihanna is in a different phase in life. And that’s ok😊 She didn’t mention other moms not one time! Shes speaking of herself. It’s called growth.

[@Kholmi.28]

I agree with most of these opinions. On the Russell Wilson point; I think the worst is the hype the most toxic black couples get praised. Your favs Jay Z has two adult children that literally look like him and their mothers were both teens/minors. I also don't believe in free services for family/friends; we need to grow and support each other in full.

[@KDBetter]

I’m still rooting for Chloe. I think the issue with her is everything isn’t authentic. The personality that comes off during interviews and on her lives isn’t the same energy as her music and videos. I think people can’t connect with her because it’s not authentic. She would fair better if she didn’t show so much of her true self and just gave us the music to go off of. Her new song is a better look for her imo.

[@suncrestt4839]

bingo! ppl aren’t stupid and can tell when they’re being duped

[@victoriafrasure148]

How do people know she's not authentic 🥴 that's her personality Beyonce quiet as a mouse her music don't match

[@KDBetter]

@@victoriafrasure148 Some of us saw Beyoncé since Destiny’s Child. There’s enough material in the world that displays Bey and her competitive nature, her silliness and business acumen. How serious she’s always been about her music, videos, etc. Her music matches the evolution of her artistry over 20+ years. Chloe doesn’t have the same time and equity into the industry. Her personality comes out in every live and interview she does. She’s also super young for real, so she’ll melt into the woman she aspires to be. It’s just obvious she’s not there yet.

[@kimarinailah]

I love Chloe. I really hopes she thrives and that her music career becomes successful❤they even hated on Jesus! Her hate train will die off. It’s unnecessary

[@kuntakinte112]

You compared her to Jesus? Really ? Wow.

[@kimarinailah]

@@kuntakinte112 lmao just saying everybody has haters. No comparison

[@christinem8799]

I love Chloe too. The hate train she has is disgusting and nerve wracking.

[@SideEyeee_]

Stop bringing Jesus into her nonsense. She ain’t no Jesus and never will.

[@dolphin8766]

Chloe is not in a hate train, nobody is buying her music or streaming it bc it's boring. And she's not authentic ppl can peep that

[@ivythegreat4943]

I think the issue with Chloe, I personally liked her first two singles however I feel like with the rest of the audience. It was kind of like R&B to this sexy pop R&B princess, and they were still looking at her as a little girl trying to be sexy, other than realizing that this is a grown woman finding herself if that makes sense.

[@GratitudeGriot]

You hit the nail on the head with Russel hate. It’s projection. At 1st I was thinking it’s sad that the dudes that criticize Russel has never seen a God fearing man, husband and father. But to your point, they were probably hurt that their dad or stepdad didn’t show up for them or their moms in the same way. Smh

[@SagittariusQueen1980]

Russell Wilson was and still never a square. Guys like Future and people who love him and hate Russell are the real squares. It's just the BM who call him corny because they're not used to having a positive dad or stepdad in their lives and raised by Pookies who disrespect women in the streets.

[@Cheymomof2kings]

I don’t comment enough but watch all your videos but this one shows me how we are so similar in ways lol. Just the way you express your content is exactly what I’m thinking in my head. But as for the Russell content… I am so happy for Ciara it’s great to see a black woman being treated right. We don’t see that enough. Many black people do not understand the power of love and how far it can take you and your family. I pray for this for all. The world just needs more love❤

[@crystalcastillo7575]

Russell is a stand up guy. And anybody that doesn’t agree is an unhealed individual

[@itzallaboutadalia]

Idk about other people but for me as of rn I really like Chloe, she is so talented but I feel like a lot of her music, at least a lot of her singles fall flat for me. I didn't really care for FYS or Boy Bye and I'm not going to force myself to like a song just because I like the artist. Like I feel like she could do better in regards to her music especially seeing how she made music with her sister. It's obvious that Chloe is still trying to find her footing by herself and see what type of music works for her and also her audience. I don't think people are hating on Chloe just to hate on her because like you mentioned in the video Chloe has stopped with the oversexualized antics I just don't think the music she makes connects with audiences and I'm not exactly sure why. Even people I know who are in my close circle all like Chloe and want her to succeed but were just not connecting with the music. Some of Chloe's songs that I do like are: In Pieces, For the Night, Cheatback, Feel Me Cry, How Does it Feel, I Don't Mind and Worried. Not even meaning to compare Halle and Chloe I tend to like Halle's singles more than Chloe's and I notice that the audience tends to receive Halle's music better than Chloe's even though Chloe has been making solo music for longer. I really feel like Chloe leading with her sexuality in the beginning really did a disservice to her career.

[@chrislynl.9395]

I agree on what you said about Chloe going overtly sexually the time she went solo. After she went solo, Chloe was this Sasha Fierce, aggressively-sexual vixen that came off too much too early in her career. And I think that turned people off bc it seemed unnatural. That vma performance on Have mercy showed that. Chloe just need to find her own lane that works for her, the rnb bad b vixen isnt it because that’s what almost every rnb are nowadays and people want something original and different.

[@Electra9797]

I feel the exact same way and I’ve been a fan of hers since 2016. The music just doesn’t resonate with me 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@christinem8799]

Your last sentence. I agree with that too. I think that lollipop video she did rubbed people the wrong way big time. I didn’t like have mercy either but I stuck around to see what else she got and I do like her as an artist. But many people do unnecessarily trash on her really badly.

[@janeg725]

@@christinem8799 that lollipop video was atrocious and CRINGE AF. I agree that it turned off so many people and now she can’t undo the damage she’s done with her image. This aggressive sexy vixen looks very unnatural on her, and this is coming from a fan that watches her snaps and lives where her persona is completely different compared to the sexy vixen she attempts to portray. People like Megan Thee Stallion, City Girls, Doja Cat, Latto, and most of the rap girlies their music and stage presence is on brand with who they are. With Chloe there’s a disconnect

[@montajahhhh]

I understand the Rihanna part, but how is she hypocritical if she’s referring to herself and her choices.

[@QueenChioma]

She even said it’s hypocritical. If I said that I’m a rap artist who doesn’t want to lead with overt sexuality, and then I start making songs like Sexy Red Pound Town, I would be a hypocrite. Even though I’m referring to myself. It’s hypocritical. Of course RiRi is being selfaware and she’s growing, but it’s still hypocritical.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@montajahhhh]

@@QueenChioma Yeah you snapped on that last part!! Self aware was what I was trying to get out. I overlooked the hypocrisy because she was holding herself accountable. I definitely see what you’re saying.

[@christinem8799]

People don't like Chloe Bailey. Unfortunate to see. She can't grasp the GP to stick for some reason. I'm so obsessed with FYS but it probably won't be cherished until years later. I consider her an acquired taste these days.

[@SideEyeee_]

Because she’s too sexual, her songs are a bunch of nothing and she disrespected Christianity. It’s not because she “calls” herself a “christian” that she’s one. Let’s not forget that she’s a Beyoncé artist and they both sold their souls.

[@Dunnygirl21]

I pray that one day the terms masculine and feminine are removed from the English language. Truly over it.

[@shanika8]

I agree growing up I was both but really I was just being myself there's no true definition to it technically like nor everything is masculine not everything is feminine its just people being themselves

[@crystalcastillo7575]

!!!!

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Add femininity, soft girl era, independent, drizzle drizzle, all this stupid shit. I wish people would get offline and shut up.

[@SideEyeee_]

Uhm, no.

[@Dunnygirl21]

@@shanika8 this! Also I feel like today’s dating culture has made those words toxic and use them as a way to insult others. Just like you said not everything is masculine nor feminine some things are just what they are.

[@crystalcastillo7575]

Of course we can’t say “that” (an example of healthy love) with Beyoncé and Jay z. Jay met Beyoncé at 16 when he was Approaching/ in his 30’s and groomed her. Have y’all seen the way Beyoncé talks about Jay , saying “he taught me how to be a woman” or “I raised that man, I raised his kids” HUH 💀 that is NOT the way you should be talking about your partner. Jay clearly doesn’t see Beyoncé as an equal partner hence why he courted her as a teenager and continues to cheat on her till this day. He sees her as an opportunity to project this black love facade , stronger together image. Y’all ain’t gone convince me that somebody that has a history with sleeping with teenagers (cough cough foxy brown at 15?!?! Etc etc) knows how to love a woman. 🤦🏽‍♀️ But anyways , his day will come . God willing !!

[@christinem8799]

I agree. And because Beyoncé was taken out the market at an early age, she didn’t have much opportunities to date and be courted by other men. To find someone who actually compliments her and is right for her. Jay z isn’t even attractive and gives handler vibes.

[@victoriafrasure148]

Idk why people so obsessed with B and Jay 😕 Beyonce is so robotic to me

[@victoriafrasure148]

​@@christinem8799agree 💯

[@crystalcastillo7575]

Candace owens is a grifter (and will say anything to fit in with the group she’s trying to pander to) and for that .. she will NEVER get my respect.

[@se2664]

Exactly. Because the breakfast club is considered low budget and ghetto in her eyes. So why go on the show

[@tetelestai2891]

Chloe baileys time is coming, I can just feel it. In due time she will be greatly loved and admired and praised. Rn it’s just weird for her but in due time she will be okay

[@karihollingsworth901]

Heyyy Chiomaaa 🫶🏽 ..... Really good topics for tonight.. I agree with all your points you made.... How can someone be mad that a black child has a positive father figure in his life??.... And ppl definitely don't deserve a discount just because they know you... Because No.....

[@imParisthoee]

Rihanna was half naked through both of her pregnancies??? Like it’s not even like years ago…this was yesterday Rihanna

[@nafola7617]

A lot of things could’ve affected her perspective, her body changed , she’s also embracing her body without being pregnant after giving birth . Her kids aren’t that far apart from one another. people grow whether it takes them a decade or several months and there’s nothing wrong with that .

[@sedi2066]

😂😂😂

[@Sira-jp2to]

Yes but she talking about "nipples out , transparent dress , and no she was not naked , she was just showing her belly , and if you're talking about the first pregnancy then l understand but she was not half naked , but the second one she was all covered up .

[@Sira-jp2to]

​@@nafola7617!!!

[@SideEyeee_]

@@nafola7617We don’t care.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

Now Chioma did we watch the same Keke video? Like usher said in lay you down “this ain’t no bump and grind” KEKE wasn’t bumping and grinding on usher. These 2 situations are not comparable. The reason why the internet dragged her baby daddy was because he chose to come to the internet and drag her as a mother. Again 2 very different situations

[@lanid4B]

Agreed! Keke and Usher were playful and both are professional entertainers who were giving a lighthearted, flirty show.

[@QueenChioma]

It’s about them being in relationships lol it has less to do with the action,

[@a.h.2667]

Keke's ex specifically mentioned he had a problem with what she was wearing.

[@taybhoney5434]

And she’s not married- was out finding her freedom: mist of leaving an abusive relationship

[@taybhoney5434]

@@a.h.2667not because of their Relationship Status is Specifically said because she’s a Mother- All based in control from a man that never asked her to marry him!

[@serenatsukino5252]

I think when it comes to relationships, people have to be interdependent on one another. Women have to be dependent on men for the reasons you stated, but you have to be independent in case you can no longer depend on the man for whatever reason.

[@mmck2565]

Honestly if having an innocent good time at a dang concert is wrong then so is a man’s topical bachelor party before marriage 🤷🏽‍♀️😂 it’s a matter of mutual trust and said relationships emotional security.

[@QueenChioma]

lol my man and I agree that we are not interested in bachelor/bachelorette parties. I don’t even get the point of them.

[@mmck2565]

@@QueenChioma see that’s bomb! Exactly: mutual trust and emotional security between you both 🤍 that’s wassup fr. I feel like all relationships will look different but at the root of each relationship should be just that!👏🏽

[@CG-uy8dk]

People don’t like Chloe because she has desperate energy. She needs to get new fans. She needs to do what SZA did with SOS. They also don’t like her because she didn’t grow up poor.

[@lencivargas]

Chioma, if you want more subscribers then you need to self reflection about the reason you've lost subscribers. You're allowed to have your opinions but people are also allowed to react. From my persoective, some of your comments are misogynistic. When you were talking about how women criticize others for asking for their man's opinion, making their lunch, etc. you said that a lot of them don't have a man. Not having a man is not negative. There's nothing wrong with being single, especially if the alternative is being with someone who is not prioritizing you the way you are prioritizing them. Using someone not having a man as an insult is assuming having any man at all, even if he treats you poorly, is better than being single. When you said women just want someone to take care of them and make them a stay at home wife, it was obtuse. You're ignoring statistics that show women do overwhelmingly more of the labor at home, including the mental labor. Even when partners split bills, women typically clean more, cook more, and keep track of both partners' social engagements. People are tired. Women deserve equal partners. I think a lot of your points come from the manosphere. Their main audience is men of all races. Your main audience is black women so you can't get away with being dismissive toward POC and women. Your vids are definitely entertaining. Hopefully you continue to grow as an artist and youtuber.

[@QueenChioma]

I lose subscribers but always gain subscribers too. KZbin shows me how many people unsubscribe and subscribe for each video. I gained 30 subscribers from this video. And it’s been up for about 12 hours. Also, I never said not having a man is negative. I was single for 3/4 years before my newest relationship and I gained a lot of self respect and happiness once I was healed and loving myself. I have ALWAYS to women to choose themselves over a man that is toxic, abusive, and disrespectful. Also, I wasn’t implying that women who criticize women who pack a lunch for their man don’t have a man. I did say that some women can’t keep a man because they are too deep in their masculine energy, which has nothing to do with packing a lunch. Like come on lol I think it has a lot to do with not allowing someone to be your partner, and equally contribute to you. And I really emphasize the word healthy, because I’m only speaking about healthy relationships. I think it’s silly to assume that I would ever promote having a man who is useless or just not a good man, just so that you have a man. I would never and have never. I actually don’t think I have manosphee views. I just address women because this is a woman’s channel. I could make a whole video, dragging men for their lack of contribution to women’s lives, and many of their tendencies that place women in a deep, masculine role, or explain why many women are single. I even talked about men who have negative views on Russell Wilson, who, in my opinion, is an example of a man who promotes positive values, the correct structure, what a woman deserves in a husband and a father, and overall healthy relationship. Lastly, I’ve never insulted anyone that doesn’t have a man. Because again, I didn’t have one for so long, and all of my subscribers knew that. And I explained why, my bad decisions, the lack of respect I had for myself, and also, taking on too much of a masculine role with men who wouldn’t spit on me if I was on fire. In my masculine role, I mean going over and beyond to cater to a man who did not also cater back to me. There was no partnership in a lot of my past relationships, just me overcompensating for my role and his. People are definitely free to react to my opinions, however, a lot of times people are reacting to things I never said, or implied.

[@suncrestt4839]

telling it like it is without any sugar on top isn’t misogyny or dismissal. just bc it’s not a traditional viewpoint for a woman to have doesn’t mean it automatically comes from misogyny or envy. having a differing opinion ≠ hate. Chioma holds women accountable to a certain standard unlike most other female creators who will just heap praise onto women for just being women regardless of their character or behavior. of course it doesn’t apply to every woman but if we’re being so fr here, a lotttt of women are like the ones that chioma described in the video. if the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it.

[@kadinelindsayart]

The first opinion, I definitely think that this is informed by your very traditional and mysoginistic culture. I think people should be able to choose the reality they want And for ALOT of women, dating men has been their downfall and source of anguish . Because the way men are cultured in our society , is to take and receive. Me personally as a person that is attracted to both men and women, since I’ve decided to date women mainly, my quality of life has improved in ways I couldn’t dream off. Girls if you don’t want a man, you don’t need one. And if you have a man, and your life is shity…it’s probably that man.

[@rosebud02]

I love me some Chlöe! She and others who actually know her, have said many times that Chlöe's naturally a shy person. Creating music and performing how she wants is when she truly feels confident and free. As a fellow creative I resonate with her. Art always the artist the ability to truly express themselves. Chlöe is nerdy but she's also sexy. Her art allows her to express the sexy side of herself. I hope she never changes unless she wants to. Anybody being hateful to her for how she chooses to express herself just needs to get their disgusting heads examined. If you choose to not support her because she won't allow you to control her image than you don't deserve to be her fan anyway. Her true fans got her and soon enough she'll get all her well deserved flowers. Btw the woman is steady working so she's going to be just fine without y'all losers 😂

[@ajirababes3378]

Right! Let her find her formula! I feel like she's actively going through trial and error. She is learning to become an artist the organic way and I love that for her! Because if she had of been an immediate star they would have called her an industry plant.

[@Jaysennx3]

keke and that other girl at the concert are not the same in any way. That girl was bending over and everything right in front of her man. Keke was swaying with usher ??? How’s that the same ?

[@jadelovelife]

I was about to say the same thing. If they were together and he didn’t like keel was wrong but doesn’t deserve the same backlash as that woman

[@nethaniapierre8149]

The point is you can't be grinding on someone else when you are in a relationship. There are certain boundaries that shouldn't be crossed when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend.

[@cakefasetv6601]

Some people are choosing to remain single so they don’t end up in a codependent situation, which i think is different then being envious or bitter

[@QueenChioma]

Right. And those are not the woman I’m speaking of. Because I was that woman for so long. Choosing to be single, so I don’t end up in a codependent situation.

[@bresimms1]

Awh Russel segment got me emotional. What a genuine stand up guy. Love this.

[@jam541]

keke palmer is an actress she can show up in a music video if she wants its part of her job

[@UrbanNinja123]

Chloe Bailey hate train makes no sense shes the full package and todays generation just aint ready for that type of artist to bring that type of energy, artistry etc... Russel is not a square hes a stand up dude whos love his wife, takes care of his kids, (as a step dad) took in baby Future to love him unconditionally, and mind his business that deserves respect, props & a salute. Rihanna being a mother now is just doing some reflecting and owning up to her past which she also should give herself some grace understand maybe she did all that crazyness to stand out who knows just my opinion.

[@christinem8799]

About Chloe. I saw a post that had popular female artists before VS now… the ones that are popular now just don’t measure up to the ones before them. Chloe actually does to some degree it’s just people relentlessly don’t like her and can’t connect with her music. It’s sickening.

[@catlady3024]

The Queen is BACK!! 🎉❤❤

[@monst3rtruckbf]

my best friend does nails and she wont let me pay her a dime… its so irritating i have to beg her to let me tip her. her love language is acts of service and gift giving so i try to shut up and just let her be but i def would NEVER expect her to give me the service free, i check with her everytime i get my nails done just to make sure lol she gets really mad considering i get them done once a week but i just be wanting to make sureeee😹😹😹

[@Rayahx3.]

Idk , i could be mistaken about the Keke situation but i thought the issue that was brought up was what she was wearing & not the fact that she went on stage itself. & rewatching both videos , it's not the same AT ALL. She wasn't getting dry humped , clothes burning, grinding, or however people say it. The most Keke did was hug usher and sang with him.

[@Ashley-vu2nj]

Russell is an amazing human 🫶🏾 I love their union. That is admirable, healthy, Godly love.

[@jazdavies2407]

I have to give Queen Chioma her flowers. She did not miss with this one. 10/10 🔥❤️

[@ajfulson123]

Your analysis of the whole Russell Wilson situation is 1000% accurate

[@tyyxx1]

I pray all the grown healed women get their russels ❤ sisters we rise this year

[@brittanytakenaka8411]

I love my husband. He’s a real man and I love him so much. I don’t do 50/50 I understand couples who cannot afford 1 income or 80/20. But in my case I love a man who provides. I have a career I worked hard for, but my husband makes way more and he’s the breadwinner. I prefer to date men who have as much money as I do or more. My husband makes more. And people are haters on Russel because he’s everything they want to be

[@NiaraRenee]

Chloe’s music is just not that great. Idk what she’s missing she’s talented forsure but the songs have been lackluster. I think she needs a re-brand

[@planet-lee]

i agree. the girl can SING but her songs just arent that good

[@micheleadamson9867]

Any man that calls Russell Wilson a square, simp, or whatever is just mad that they could never be half the man that he is.

[@naijagoddesss]

Love you down .. but I 100% disagree with the Keke comparison.. I think the energy was completely different . She wasn’t grinding on Usher, kissing on him , they didn’t hide behind anything .. and you could clearly seee that it wasn’t in that way . Usher didn’t grab her ass , he didn’t do the most . Nor did Keke . The only problem her man had was her outfit not her action. I’m my opinion

[@marquistf1996]

Loved this video. Definitely want people to treat Chloe better and EVERYTHING you Said about Russel was correct. I hope Ciara continues to be happy and in love!

[@angeliquebuissereth1203]

The thing with Keke's BD is that he made it about her dress and her motherhood. He didn't say anything about anything else until it was too late. Even when he did address the actual problem he went the "a woman supposed to follow her man" route when he wasn't leading nothing. He just came off as misogynistic af, causing a lack of symphathy for him.

[@sageroberts2004]

I still believe Keke & her man had broken up just before the Usher concert, and that’s why she did that and why he tweeted that shady tweet about her after the fact. So no I don’t believe it’s the same as the other situation

[@indiashante1560]

The subject of Rihanna and the way she dressed before having kids: I dressed differently before and after having kids but I still will send my modest. My mother has always been a very classy yet sexy individual and I think I got blessed with her skills.

[@tajrobinson9438]

Men who hate Russell don’t realize they are exposing themselves and how they think. It’s the bear vs men talk all over again, they miss the entire point lol

[@Melanatedelle9803]

Yall please dont fall for the Candace Owens bs. We cant keep doing things like this and expect to make it out.

[@kadinelindsayart]

Thé Chloe opinion, i think ALOT of us don’t resonate with Chloe because we don’t find her interesting. She’s quite boring artistically, every time Chloe drop it feels like something we already seen. Unfortunately for a lot of us who have been following her career for a while, it feels like she’s regressed.

[@suncrestt4839]

I like her music and have a couple of her singles on repeat but there just seems to be something missing that makes her stand out. i think it’s bc her public persona just seems so manufactured and artificial, people pick up on that and it rubs them the wrong way. she’s never struck me as someone who’s super genuine and i think that’s also why as much as i like some of her singles, i still don’t consider myself a fan.

[@kiarapritchett6896]

i think you shouldnt EXPECT a discount from your friend's service but it could just depend of the friendship

[@Kellyyy44]

Speaking on Russ, I took a tour of the Seahawks stadium where it was widely said by the staff that Ciara was very hard to deal with. Russell also liked a girls picture in a bikini a few years back. I want to believe he’s nice and all but we will never really know!

[@TheKMGOLD]

We need more men with the character of Russell! Especially public figures.

[@Thatcaramelchic]

I have a stepfather who reminds me of the Russell Wilson type and I think that you just don’t come across a lot of men like him and every day life. I do because I’m married my parents are married. My husband’s parents are married and I frequently go to church and a lot of the men at church act and look like Russell. And guess what their wives are happy and they’ve been married for 50+ years lol. People are so concerned with what is considered and not considered cool to people outside of your relationship that’s what keeps you single.

[@OscarAntonio-t4z]

Russell Wilson is both inspirational and intimidating

[@Moonie_MonRozE]

When it comes to Russel and Ciara I think some people are haters on what they can’t stand to see which is a happy successful relationship and I pray they stay blessed 🙏🏻💕

[@christinem8799]

Idk why people ain’t paying their friends. The minute I find out my friend has something going on, I want to support. Full price. Get the experience.

[@niceman727]

Madam, for you to admit that Keke's is worse should clearly show you it's not as bad as the Omahlay girl's case. Don't attempt to obfuscate here.

[@victoriafrasure148]

I feel like ppl envious of Chole... Idk why ppl call her cringe Why y'all mad at how she Acts She didn't gotta act how ppl think she should It's so weird 😕 She's who everyone thinks her sister is , which is so funny

[@rosebud02]

They're so envious of her and it's her own race that's envious. She'll win in the end and there's nothing they can do to stop her.

[@dynastyandrews2416]

Chloe Bailey is extremely talented but a lot of her music sounds like she just threw things at a wall to see what stuck. A lot of her singles are forgettable and have no type of cohesiveness at all. I don’t even know how to accurately describe the way that the teaser for Have Mercy and the full song just don’t fit together. Some of her best singles imo are “freak like me”, which is a cover but her vocal range on that song goes crazy, “for the night” featuring Latto and FYS. Her other stuff is good but it doesn’t match the type of talent she has

[@dynastyandrews2416]

And this is coming from someone who loves her

[@rosebud02]

You obviously never heard Make It Look Easy or even FYS. The woman is musically gifted

[@quincygross3640]

Chloe is 🔥🔥and her music is good

[@rosebud02]

Exactly 💯. People hate on her because she refuses to let them control her! They say the I can't connect bs because deep down they're envious of her which makes them hateful.

[@aliciaarchibald2519]

I love how Russell stay quiet ❤ ...let them talk

[@555ochiblvd]

Thing is the Bailey sisters are insanely talented and have the ability and talents of musical legends. I think it's because their team/label doesn't invest into them as much as they should

[@Jacqt]

9:15 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m glad somebody said it. FYS is a good vibe for you and your man (or that special person).

[@nonnieJ94]

I agree about the Jess Hilarious take. It shouldn’t be taboo for us to say some people don’t have the kind of range for certain conversations. She’s a comedian and adds comedic relief. I wouldn’t look to her for an informed opinion on politics or social issues and that’s ok. Your song the end is 🔥. I hear the growth in lyrical prowess and voice control. Keep going Chioma! #wholelottachiomas

[@ashbash9839]

My cousin does my locs now since my original loctician moved, I pay her full price even tips cause if I can pay stranger full price I can pay my friends and family as well

[@Lesedi_Gololo]

Yessssss interdependence is a thing yk. It’s alright to depend on a man and vice versa, like we need to be there for each other.

[@journeyto657]

I really like FYS and I think Chloe is one of the most talented girls out.

[@christinem8799]

FYS is so so good.

[@issaluv232]

FYS could have been a hit. However, the way in which she sang it is not very appealing, IMO. Or maybe her voice just wasn't made for it. IDK. Edit: A perfect example of a song not really fitting an artist is Dolly Parton's "I will always love you," and Whitney Houston. The song just wasn't meant for Chloe.

[@christinem8799]

@@issaluv232 curious, who you do think should’ve sang FYS 🤔

[@issaluv232]

@@christinem8799 I honestly don't know, I would have to hear different covers of it first.

[@rosebud02]

​No one could have done better than Chlöe