r/Bestof Stories That Belong In r/AmITheDevil...

[@ElisaSarah]

14:40 Nope... she's done.. No one in that room will ever wanna talk to her again. That is not being competetive. that's is being EVIL.

[@ThePokemonPrinceYT]

Frr I'm really competitive too but this is just psychotic

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Dude I've unfortunately lived through that. If someone said thst to me I wouldn't have been strong enough to resist punching them in the face. She blamed op for crimes against them as a child. Poor o OP😢

[@Dragons4Dummies]

Right? Like dude, she could have smashed 16 controllers in 4 months and even THAT would be less of a red flag than what she did to win a pointless game.

[@Branwhin]

NO. No no no. One does not do something that awful. EVER. Hell, you don't do that to your enemies unless you're in imminent danger (no, not in danger of losing a game of effing Mario Kart). That was disgusting.

[@lucreciacetra69]

Read a few comments at the beginning of the video while waiting for stories to start and yeah, your comment made an unfortunate amount of sense after hearing the full scope of that story. If this were a House episode she'd have some insane rare brain tumor pressing on the empathy part of the brain, shit she might even in real life cause I don't wanna believe anyone could be so heartless to hold you while you cried for days and months then turn around and use your worst moment to win EFFING MARIO KART?! Gotta be a tumor.

[@cielbyrne9921]

Story 2 was insane. The fact that thought came to her mind to bring up. DURING MARIO KART

[@beingrel4439]

The fact that she planned it ahead of time is crazy insane. Yikes

[@mingiinimene3335]

@@beingrel4439 That makes the story unbelievable. Only a psychopath would plan this and yes, she might be one. But nobody would admit this. Even to themselves. Even if they had kind of thought of bringing this up this way, they would still claim it was an accident and they just got carried away in the heat of the moment. Especially if she was trying to win him back. I think OP just made this part up to make the girlfriend even more awful but there was no need. She was already awful. The way she brought SA up like it was OP's fault shows what a scum she is.

[@azureenby397]

@@mingiinimene3335 Victim blaming much? Some people are seriously the worst. It shouldn't shock that much. It may be improbable but not impossible.

[@Zzecoraa]

The last story is ai confirmed. Whenever the story is detailed like that, using the same ai generated words, it’s ai. I generated my own Reddit stories by just putting “write a Reddit story about cheating” and it gave me updates, comments, and everything with the same exact type of story telling.

[@lulolie]

Especially literally quoting the "fell for him slowly, and then all at once" 😂 ai can't help but copy paste

[@roselynholly]

You do know you can give AI a story to fix, right? It could still be real, just embellished by AI.

[@jijitters]

@@roselynholly That really isn't better. AI should never, ever be used to replace the human experience.

[@roselynholly]

@jijitters it's not replacing it? It's just wording it better.

[@jijitters]

@@roselynholly lol look at this pathetic creature who can't even use their own imagination and isn't intelligent enough to type a story without asking a robot to do it. No one will ever love someone like this.

[@heathersherr3904]

I had a friend that knew I was SAed and when I started dating again after he told me he hoped the next one did do what the last one did. They named the specific act that was inflicted on me, too. I was told it was just a joke and that he was high so he couldn’t control himself. People that joke like that are evil.

[@beingrel4439]

Hmmm I don't know if I'd call him a friend, a fiend maybe but.....no friend! Sorry that happened to you (the reply/joke & the SA) Take care

[@Bee-ys6kt]

Jeeeeez I'm so sorry that anyone would ever say something that evil to you holyyy shit ❤❤ you are strong asf

[@dommuka7008]

That's not a friend...

[@sammiwastaken]

you know its a good day when your fav small reddit twitch streamer posts an hour long video

[@atomiclov]

Highlights of the week, tbh

[@ApatheticBlogger]

Samesies x2 ​@@atomiclov

[@g4uzy]

hell yea

[@disimmanti5375]

If you are the type of person that will do anything to win- at the cost of friendships, family relationships, jobs, and romantic relationships- you may have sociopathic tendencies. That’s genuinely insane to drop trauma that isn’t yours in public just to win a game.

[@QUEERVEEART]

i was SAd by my cousin when i was 12. im 32. im still deeply fucked up and traumatized (yes i'm in therapy) and dissociate sometimes. op dissociated. there is no way back from that. if anyone in my life did that to me, it would destroy me. emily works harder than the devil. god i wish i could laugh like sarby did at that live chat comment. its a good one, and accurate. im kinda shook. slightly dissociating myself as i have a tendency to put myself in their shoes when i relate. dear god id prolly have become nonverbal and unable to move in that situation. healing energy and good vibes to op. im about to cry

[@AB-ip2ct]

Yeah the “she said in a low pitched voice” or whatever that line was in the last story confirms that it’s a fake story. No one writes like that lol

[@MarleneMorawez]

Story 2: that is 🦆-ing EVIL what in the flabbergast?????? why did she think ANYTHING could be fixed after using his SA as amunitioun to win a stupid video game? Thats messed up in ways not comprehensible to me …

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

25:24 I’d call it disordered eating and I think it happens with people who grew up hearing that. I hate taking food offered to me because I feel greedy, I feel great when I make a combo meal last a whole day, I fight not to continue eating when I’m full because I need to finish my plate. It took a lot of unlearning to recognize my bad relationship with food and how not to let it control me.

[@thesaltycat9493]

I don't have connections to the second thing you mentioned, but I definitely do the first and the last thing (feeling greedy and needing to finish the plate. And I definitely agree with you that it comes a large part from being told you "have" to finish things as a kid (along with other stuff). I didn't have a lack of food growing up (at least as far as my parents have let me know), but both of my parents did and it definitely contributed to how I feel about food today. They never made me sit at the table for hours like the storyteller, but there have been many core instances of my life involving food, needing to finish my food, needing to be overly careful how much I take from others (to the point where the others get offended), etc.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

@ Yeah, the last one is also cuz I was always overweight, so I was also told not to overeat. Very confusing messaging tbh

[@IIShardII]

"can you imagine the two people in your life breaking your trust..?" yeah. sadly i can i think there are way more lonely betrayed people on the planet than you would think....

[@hershy1594]

So glad OP had friends that weren't like his girlfriend in the mario kart story. That could've been so much worse

[@jlshootingstar333]

I'm so glad the third story had such a happy ending!!! As a woman who has been overweight for the majority of my life i have so much empathy for OP and just wanna say to anyone that struggles like that- it gets better even if you don't lose weight!!! You just have to distance yourself from anyone that puts you down and media that makes you more self conscious. Find little things about yourself that you like! For instance i love my hair and nails so i give them extra attention and it makes me feel good about myself. I also like most of my face generally so i focus on the parts i like when i look in the mirror. I also just don't look at my body in the mirror every day and only weigh myself when I'm concerned about my health, not my looks! You also do have to figure out how to stop caring SO much about what STRANGERS think of you when you go out. I promise must ppl are not paying that much attention to you and if they are, THEY are the weird one!!! If someone says something mean about your body THEY ARE AN ASS and you don't want to associate with them anyways!!! Find friends that will hype you up and body positive communities (but be careful bc some do take it to a toxic point). Wear clothes and accessories and maybe makeup that you like!!! Be kind to yourself and it will make you a better person bc if you can be kind to yourself it's easier to be kind to others too! Just take things at your own pace, no matter how slow it may be. Every step forward counts, ESPECIALLY after a step back, and it's okay to stop for a break if you need to! If you fumble it's okay! You don't have to catch back up all at once! You still have made progress even if it sometimes doesn't feel like it. If doing something a certain way (like eating or exercising) makes you feel BAD, then you need to figure out a different way to do it! If a diet makes you miserable or makes you think about food TOO MUCH, then it is not sustainable!!! Focus less on taking away any kinds of food and more on ADDING healthier food! You will find love ❤️ PLENTY of people love a squishy body ❤

[@nexumie]

Good lord. That second one had my jaw on the floor! Who does something like that????

[@kb5598]

14:00 "At least i didn't get SA'd by my own family" is diabolical 👹💀

[@The.Mawnster]

Story 2 - I’m autistic and I also have an issue with competition. I’ve never played sports or anything but when any time a competition comes up if I don’t win it can cause severe distress for me. Knowing this I avoid competition any change I have and trick my brain into thinking things are not competitive when I have to do them. (Ex. Leaderboards in games “I’m not here to be the best, this is all for fun”, board games “it’s okay if I lose because in the end I’m bonding with everyone else which is a win.”) I can’t even imagine someone bringing up something so fucked up when 1. She knows he only ever told her 2. Being SA’d is not the victims fault and saying something like she did puts on terrible implications. Not to mention she’s saying this to her partner, the person she’s supposed to love the most in the world… it feels so fake it has to be real which is sickening.

[@idiotically-everything]

Same! I put in a lot of work to not be as competitive anymore. Now I can lose while I play with my friends, but I do get frustrated at games where being competitive is the main goal like counter strike, etc. So, I just don't play them

[@potatopatch4563]

The green one caught me further than off guard- WHAT IS THIS- HUH?!? Also everyone talking about it being morning while me, a russian, is here at 10pm last video before bed style, is really funny 😭 Good morning americans hope you have a nice day!!~

[@silverspire567]

Good night 👋👋

[@thesaltycat9493]

I assume it's day for you now, so have a great day!

[@FERALBIRD]

good night or good morning from america 👋:D

[@LadyMorgaine1976]

Good morning people (9:50 am here!) Nothing like a good Reddit story on the side while having breakfast.

[@Sarbyy]

just wanted to say you're the first member to enjoy an early video, thank you for supporting me (: Hope you enjoyed the video!!

[@SilvrRazorFeather]

Emily needs to be banned from games for her own safety and fpr the safety of others. This is some insanely unhinged behavior.

[@Amai_sakura]

32:00 as a larger woman this story breaks my heart. I was in a similar mindset in highschool. I hated my body and due to my depression I never took care of myself. It once got so bad that people merely glancing at me made me break into tears. Not loving myself was the worst mental torment for me and I hope OP gets help and learns to love herself as a person.

[@vampypunk]

the divorce law in new zealand…that’s actually insane

[@mingiinimene3335]

Who would ever get married there? New zealanders must be either very optimistic or very naive if that law exists.

[@BestYessica]

It's actually quite common in a lot of countries all over the world. It ranges from a few month to several years. If there are special reasons like domestic abuse, it's usually possible to divorce immediately.

[@jijitters]

@@BestYessica This is an important stipulation that was left out. Legally, divorce is usually required to have a "reason." It doesn't have to be a good one, but in many countries they require one to be cited. So in NZ and countries with similar rules, immediate divorce would be allowed if there was a pressing issue, and it's not that no-fault divorce isn't allowed, it's just there has to be proof that you tried to make it work and have chosen to stay away from each other as a result. It's why there are even some countries where couples who no longer want to be divorced will "plan" infidelity (i.e. one will 'cheat' but the other partner will have secretly known the whole time and approved it). Couples who want to separate will sometimes conspire with each other like this because infidelity is one of the reasons divorce is permitted.

[@billcipher8645]

​@@jijittersbut that's just uneccessary. If you can get married no questions asked and no prep needed ypu should be able to do the same with divorce. There's absolutely no reason to put that on people

[@tomfoolery-4444]

40:00 It is widely illegal to reveal any details about a coworker's job at your company, including shift times and specific job duties. Plus, this sounds like a case of wrongful termination. OP's fiancée can absolutely at least try to sue on both of these grounds. Go get you some lawyers!!!

[@tegantalks9612]

Unfortunately when you are in a probationary period at work they can terminate you anytime without a valid reason.

[@ThoughtsonThoughtsandFeelings]

25:39 Note: to get an ED diagnosis, you have to have a low BMI. Doctors routinely put weight before health. Most fat people have lifelong eating disorders just from the constant pressure to diet. This (ideally, but rarely) gets diagnosed as “Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified.”

[@RamonaSchnauzevoll]

nope. there is the atypical ana and mia diagnosis. mostly yes but not always.

[@jelly1592]

That is not true. Binge Eating disorder, OSFED, atypical restrictive disorders, etc

[@billcipher8645]

That's true for anorexia (which it shouldn't be since someone being overweight and starving themselves is just as harmful) but not sure if others

[@ukchanak]

Last story, why did he push her to stop using birth control if he didn't want a baby? This is weird. Sounds like he's a sociopath

[@kichikitsu]

because its an AI generated story lol

[@mingiinimene3335]

@@ukchanak would make sense If she insisted on using condoms. I mean it would not be smart, it just that it would be more comfortable for him. But it's probsbly ai.

[@saraht3196]

i've also been overweight my whole life and morbidly obese for maybe the last 10 years. i temporarily lived in germany teaching english and i was definitely nervous about fulfilling the "fat american" stereotype, although not to the same extent as op. thankfully it was never an issue and i enjoyed my time living there, especially the christmas markets just like op! once you said they were german, i kinda knew it would be ok since the boyfriend is so supportive. i'm glad they communicated and are on a path to better health

[@SylentTiger]

32:13 I dont agree that she needs to *love* herself. I think she needs to accept herself, not necessarily love herself. Not liking something about yourself and wanting to improve yourself is positive, as long as you accept yourself for who and what you are at the moment.

[@Mng421]

I went through a period of time where my sweat was turning things blue-greyish. I wasn’t pregnant but I did learn it was hormone thing and the way hormones can react with detergent and cleaning products. It went away.

[@krypto1976]

20:08 emily sounds like she actually has a tumor or something because if literally has no family or friend trauma then this HAS to be a medical situation i dont think this is a therapy only issue if at all its a psychosis or something either way this is not normal at all

[@F00tsie]

The story where the family went to the fiancés work - my parents were like this to my partner. They don't need any REAL reason. My parent's reason was they have an inferiority complex, and my partner simply wearing a dress shirt must mean he thinks he's better than them... SO they didn't like him.

[@uh_logan]

For story 2- I was playing a board game today and I can’t even remember who won. The fact some people care so much about winning is insane

[@MoXenArtCreations]

The 2nd story: It doesn't matter how long you've known someone before you get married tbh. People can hide stuff their whole life and mask personalities. There's arranged marriages where people meet the day of their wedding and decide on the spot whether they are compatible or not on the spot that end up being highly successful and happy, being genuine on the spot with one another. While there is people who been dating 10 years, married for 1, and divorced at the end of the first year for putting to high of expectations on their significant other. Factors that make a successful marriage: -communication -empathy -establish and manage realistic expectations -leeway(some forgiving room for certain behaviors, like white lies) -mutual efforts Bottom line: it's not about finding the right person, it's about learning to love the person you found, if that person invests in efforts in the relationship. (Keep in mind 50/50 is an unrealistic expectation. It's rare in couples to have constant balance, one side will always be investing more at some point, and the other at another point)

[@hershy1594]

Finding out your partner is cheating by everything turning green is WILD

[@sylaisee_bebop]

story 2: emily definitely needs to see a therapist or a hypno-therapist to understand why she’s so competitive. if you’re THAT willing to lose family, friends, jobs, AND MONEY just so you’re in first place is horrid, i hope she can do some self reflection too

[@rawrpopsicles]

i am aggressively competitive and i know this about myself and i am open to my friends about this! i am proud to say that i know when to disengage so that i can still have fun in competitive games before i start getting genuinely upset and by doing that, i’ve been increasing my tolerance to my own frustration and can focus easier on the actual fun we have. it’s not fucking hard to disengage when you realize you’re getting upset and emily is a horrific person

[@lilhedgehog8576]

“ I don’t think this is an update” Proceeds to explain what an update is 😂😂😂😂

[@summerdowlig]

When he found out her own family and friends don't talk to her because she wants to win so bad he should've ended it. Pure evil she is.

[@melancholicvoid4334]

for a moment I thought the second to last green story would be carbon monoxide poisoning or something,, if OP was hallucinating, but the pictures exist-

[@vcutler4735]

As someone who is toxic competitive: I often bow out of situations where there may be a competitive element. I don't really have control of the anger and frustration once I lock into competitive mode, which is why I work to frame things as not competitive as possible. At least I know I am not this toxicly competitive holy crow. And that's instant end of relationship, don't stay with someone who aims to hurt you on purpose.

[@melancholicvoid4334]

3rd story is so heart warming! Love that for OOP!

[@iriscast10]

Leave Emily. Imagine how she would treat your children.

[@RACCOON.RODENTZ]

I really want to join in on the KZbin streams but I get really anxious about feeling like I NEED to be an active chatter, but never know what to say- especially to fit in in this wonderful community

[@strikethatreverseit9108]

What kind of POS runs off with their child's abuser? Who actually abandons their own son just because they're in so much denial about their predator sister? Like wtf?!

[@Pachitaro]

2:50 It's extremely crazy that they had to explain this to redditors 😂

[@jasmineworlds1891]

23:11 at least what she did, though it be horrible and so unnecessary and just disgusting, it was also kind of a blessing in disguise. Now OP has support from his multiple friends and he knows he’s not alone. I just hope this doesn’t destroy his trust for another woman but I shall listen to see I just had to say that because this is so heartbreaking. Just the result of his predator being caught and nothing happening criminally just speaks volumes as to why so many victims do not speak out.

[@quietzest]

The girlfriend using trauma against her bf sounds like my ex. Luckily my ex never came anywhere close to that bad, but everyone knew to just let her win.. wow was she competitive to the point of breakdowns.😮‍💨 I think that girl (in the story) needs to get tested for OCD because it sounds like she didn’t even know that her needing to win might have been a compulsion she couldn’t control very well. If not that then definitely *some*mental help is in order (like you said)

[@jijitters]

You sound like a really empathetic person and I admire you for that. I wouldn't have immediately thought of OCD as a potential cause for this behavior but you're totally onto something. The way she was described in the story, it's clear this is not regular competitiveness (which can get annoying) but rather something she doesn't know how to stop herself from doing. There must be something beneath the surface that is driving that compulsion to always win.

[@EdgarAIlanHoe]

Dude I had a full on VIVID dream about story 4 after falling asleep to this video. Had to rewatch just to make sure I wasn’t imagining things (yes you were narrating the story in my dream irl)

[@jijitters]

omg this has happened to me before because I sometimes use these videos to fall asleep.

[@idiotically-everything]

9:45, Finland also has a similar law, however the two years you need to be living seperated just means you don't have to deal with the court process of immediate seperation. You just hand over a form, proof of seperate addresses and it's done

[@lexxist]

i’m almost 100% sure as someone who’s done every hair color ever that the “green” everywhere is green tinged semi permanent blue hair dye or hair toner. would make sense if the mistress ever had blue hair or obviously toned a natural color. i think it’s unlikely to be fabric dye because it is on the pillows where mine are discolored too

[@anitagoodman4657]

Actually in nz you only have to be apart for 2 years before you can divorce if 1 party wants to divorce and the other party doesn't if both are agreeable and both sign the divorce papers ...

[@annamartin5923]

Experts say that proposal after 1.5 years is best, actually. Mind you, I say this as someone who has been with my partner for 8 years and is not where near engaged (if we get married, that's more for him than for me, anyways).

[@thecubemasterxiii4209]

I say it depends on the age of the couple

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

​@@thecubemasterxiii4209as someone who got engaged after 2yrs at 19yrs old (something I desperately wanted).... I don't disagree. Back then I definitely would have and did actually with people, but just shy of 10yrs now I have to agree with you. As much as I am the same as when I was back then, I am definitely so much different now and it definitely shows in my relationship. I choose to believe I'm not as shitty as I used to be (not sure that's because I'm older, but because I have two children I wanted to be better for), but my opinions of things, some of my interests, etc..have definitely changed some. I'm only a couple years off of 30yrs, curious how much I'll change between now and then, because the last two years alone I've definitely noticed my own changes and growing to see what I actually like and don't, kinda caused a mental breakdown on my end though 💀 Sometimes things that happen that early on last forever and are amazing, but I can definitely see now how young 20s is too early and just turn out awful too, it's silly because I literally watched that be the case growing up with pretty much every couple I knew/know, but I also remember believing since everyone else got married so early and everyone saying they didn't want to be old parents, it was imbedded in my mind that I had to marry very early and have children young. I don't regret my kids though, I regret what I can't give them because of how young I was/am however.

[@annamartin5923]

@thecubemasterxiii4209 I think it depends on a lot of stuff, for sure. Age, income, maturity, etc., my point was more that being engaged at 1.67 years isn't that weird. To be clear, I'm not supporting ex-fiancé in this story, either. She was insane. I'm just saying that being engaged at 2 years isn't necessarily a red flag.

[@kichikitsu]

... who are these experts youre claiming say this? what are they an "expert" in and what are their qualifications that make them an expert?

[@jijitters]

No one can ever be an "expert" in any relationship but their own. To me, 1.5 years is a crazy short amount of time.

[@abw.2747]

Story 2: my bf is very skinny. I am not. The first time I flew with him to meet his family, I had just lost a substantial amount of weight. I was still heavy, but I was feeling good about myself regardless. His family member (who hadn't even said 1 word to me) felt the need to comment on me being bugger than bf. In front of a party of people. I was humiliated and all the positive feelings I felt around my weight loss flew out the window. I proceeded to lose 9lbs in a week while there because he made me feel so much hate for my body that I just starved it.

[@koditheexhaustedcryptid4193]

You and beans look so much alike it’s crazy lmao

[@Albalannae]

I'm getting the "Cat in the Hat Comes Back" vibes (the pink ring that kept spreading) from the green story. 😂

[@pigking7879]

23:11 This was me throughout the whole first year of me with my bf. Many women will check him out, and some of my friends even said he's attractive. I am an overweight man with 20 years of self confidence issues, so those made me feel want to break up with him, because I do wholeheartedly believe he deserved someone way better. To add on, I lived in a very conservatice country, and both me and my bf is gay, where there's an added anxiety of "I'm not the typical handsome gay men expected by society", and "My bf could've been much better with an attractive girl". I always kept it hidden within myself just in the hope my bf won't notice that he DOES deserve someone better. But, I got drunk once and complain about it to him. Once I sobered up, he quickly sat me down and told me what he needed was just me as is, and I shouldn't care what others think as long as we both make each other happy. Now, I've been going strong with him for 4 years, though both of us are still closeted to each other families 😅 (We've met each other's parents, his parents are the loveliest people I've ever met)

[@CynicalCopycat]

Second story, that girl is a monster, but I'm happy at least he has amazing and caring friends

[@KeyDoesStuff]

That last story was so fake. There wasn’t even a hint of personality in it, nothing to make the way OP narrated come across in the writing, no real resolution, strange actions on the part of the ex fiancé and older sister that don’t really line up with the situation being described, and then the OP needing a lawyer at the end? For someone she wasn’t legally bound to? Damn that sucks, I had not even considered people using AI to garner karma on Reddit. That’s. Really sad lmao

[@joname2505]

currently baking banana bread to this

[@damueyell5656]

LOL I bought my son flannel sheets, they were blue with polar bears on them. We washed them and put them on his bed they next day he woke up and was completely blue. LOL I also had a pair of black pajama pants transfer their dye on to me, it got on my white couch, the toilet seat, and stained my white sheets. It took me awhile to track that one down LOL

[@ellew8599]

commenting @ 45:19 to document my mildly insane, totally off-the-wall guess as to why all OP’s stuff is tinted green: chromohidrosis/pseudochromohidrosis. it’s a medical condition where your sweat is colored bc of either excess pigment in the sweat glands (chronic) or specific bacteria on the skin/dye exposure. all the green things are things OP’s skin would generally come into contact with, which would transfer the pigment. i’m sure it’s probably actually something way more normal than this, but like… now you know that people can sweat colors so that’s something lol🤷🏼‍♀️ edit: omg, y’all kind of talked about it! great minds think alike apparently

[@Ihavedaedits]

As a new Zealander I had no idea about that law 😭😭😭

[@fruithippie]

Four year engagement?? My husband and I were together less than a year before we got married. We're celebrating 13 years this year.

[@Southparkfan598]

Story 2: So uh...I have an experience with this, I'm competitive, but never, NEVER would I be that competitive...but I wouldn't even plan that, I wouldn't even dare to think it, that's a new evil that even Lucifer wouldn't go that far

[@ThePokemonPrinceYT]

I feel really bad for the op of story 3, I also have very low self esteem and a lot of what op was saying was familiar to me, I'm glad it turned out wellw the boyfriend sounds great!

[@pikapika1041]

This is only for the first story. It’s the same in the US as well. It depends on the state you live in but I know in South Carolina you have to go through mandatory mediation for a year before getting a divorce. I know bc my brother in law is going through that rn. So it’s not just New Zealand

[@FluffyLizardMan]

People should have to do mandatory mediation... gotta make sure they really want the divorce and its right for them.

[@TheUnlovely]

16:07 You are not cooking, I'm never waiting four years for a proposal ever again

[@ruffr4bb1t]

I’m competitive and all kinds of stuff. Used to be worse. I never used trauma to win

[@13feralcats]

I love how much you love your cat son ❤

[@Dragons4Dummies]

Omg this is literally amithedevil in reverse. R/aretheythedevil

[@Molly-gx6jf]

That SA story is so messed up. I feel so bad for op. My heart, that’s so awful.

[@whaleofajob]

16:20 "two years isn't enough" (came out within 2 years and 3 months)

[@eerielconstantine5051]

Took 4 years for me and partner to fully realize what we struggle with, and entering year 5 I finally feel we’re almost ready for marriage. Two years is not enough time

[@AceMackOfficial]

Finding a new video again on my lunch break?!? Let's gooooo!!!

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

43:09 I thought it was carbon monoxide until I saw the pictures.

[@SingilDingo]

Bro...that second story, what the actual fuck. There's no going back for the fiance glad OP left her.

[@melle-d9971]

i understand the weight thing, it does take up a lot of your thoughts, especially when you're going to new places. I've always been chubby, even when i lost 60 pounds i was still 20 pounds heavier than the BMI standards (i know they're not really correct but still) I'm perfectly mobile, i work out, love cardio, i eat healthy when i remember too (my adhd meds make me unable to eat a lot) but im still a big girl. I want to go to japan, but I'm not only fat, especially compared to non Americans, but an over 6 foot tall woman. A big concern is just not fitting anywhere, both horizontally and vertically.

[@beatyz2]

What's the story about everything turning green, within the first 30 seconds I was convinced that she was having a psychotic break 😂😂 none of that made any kind of sense.

[@sophia111188]

For Beans!

[@swampcryptid0211]

For that first story I actually HAVE been kicked in the teeth like that and can confirm I was down for the count for 2 years 8:19

[@domj.2406]

Home from work because I'm sick and The Reddit Cat Man posts. It's looking up, boys.

[@Lionwoman]

The green story is the craziest one I've seen.

[@kristinwatson3451]

Dude I adore your channel, easiest subscribe choice ever

[@cluelessclem9353]

First story I PRAY. for everyone (aside for Op of course) in this story's downfall like I don't even know...I'd quite literally crash out

[@ThePokemonPrinceYT]

What did the friend do wrong? 😅

[@probityk]

sarby wearing a PANTHER SHIRT? i'm in riverwest! love your content sending virtual cat treats your way *^*

[@B-zk9bt]

“My cat is turning green.”

[@eightleggedanarchist]

I was so sure the house turning green was from her sweat, but cheating??m Wtf that took a turn

[@sophiacalon3463]

IM LOSING MY HOT MEMBERSHIP IN TWO DAY?!?!

[@sophiacalon3463]

no im stupid, i got it and it's been 2 days

[@Madjastin]

Sarby did you get the hoodie because you went to UWM, or did you just find it somewhere and like it?

[@yourlocalfatshionista]

@15:00 WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER

[@kennedyn6077]

4 years for a proposal is unreasonable. Most people don’t find the right people first time around and life is too short to spend half a decade on every person

[@unknownnn__]

this plus if it's the right person you just know

[@Ashni1]

4 years is a really long time when you are in your late 20’s or 30’s and want kids, even more so if you want more than 1 or 2. Especially when the risks of pregnancy go up after 35.

[@lakibramble]

HARD disagree. Four years is not a long time to get to know someone at all? It's one presidential term. It's not even 10 percent of your life span. Most people don't even move in together for 10 months to a year, some even longer. To expect someone to want to marry you and make a family with you while only knowing them for two or even three years is insane to me. Plus if you are so sure that this person is the one, why do you care if they ask you to wait to propose? You don't want anyone else, what's the issue? If the issue is that you wnat children, then just have children shortly after marriage. Most people wait for a couple years after marriage to have kids, so either way, even if you propose two years in, you'll most likely not have kids four four years either way. Seeing as half of all marriages end in divorce i see no need for anyone to rush into things, especially if you're worried about wasting time. Being married with kids and then realizing you aren't happy is a nightmare, and a huge waste of time and energy if you want to have children with someone you love. I don't know anyone in my life who would accept a proposal after only two or three years, and if you would thats fine, but it's certainly not unreasonable to want to wait to be wed, especially since you don't have to be married to have children or so anything a married couple does.

[@M.I.N.A.]

....you can break up earlier? What do you mean? He didn't say date every person fo four years then break up. He said if you can make it that far without big red flags that's a good sign that y'all will make it.

[@kennedyn6077]

@ if you’re dating correctly then you know before 4 years. I mean OP themselves said they ignored so many red flags

[@lilhedgehog8576]

It could very well be the bedsheets she got. A few years back I got some blue bedsheets and they leaked and got all over my plushies and pajamas and turned them blue.

[@piratsnygg]

Does green OP live in a copper mine? 🥴 Edit: Ok, this looks more like when I used to dye my hair alpine green (blueish green). Edit2: Oh no.

[@Ali-kf5bd]

In response to what you said about the story where the woman was struggling with her weight. I know you meant well, but saying you're surprised she hasn't "worked on it" is a wierd assumption. Most of us who struggle with weight and body image issues have fought to try to change it our whole lives but it just isn't as simple as most people think. So much comes down to not only psychological issues but also genetics and hormones that drive hunger and impede fat burning. Yes, most people can lose weight in the short term, but there are so many factors that make long term weight loss unlikely. As far as working on the self image issues themselves, I'm not sure anyone has a magic remedy for that. Cognitive behavior therapy can help but it's a long, difficult process.

[@brambleheart]

23:23 that’s the day my childhood cat died

[@mrsoul6825]

If you have really and I mean really good communication. There’s nothing wrong with getting married 2 years in. But just make sure you’ve gotten to know everything about them and yourself

[@eldri7ch]

I'm at 45:32 and I'm guessing that this person never bathes.

[@lionblaze0384]

I’m drunk and early to the video and I just wanna say I absolutely love your content and even if I don’t always agree with your takes your super kind and normal and professional with conversation and opinions and I really appreciate that. You’re an awesome content creator and your streams are also super fun. I love your content and binging it. Loyal viewer for sure. Awesome content tysm for all the entertainment, amazing stuff to listen to while I write and draw

[@BodaciousCNO]

Hol up, you are from the Milwaukee area?

[@F0xym0r0ns]

HOW DARE KZbin HIDE THIS FROM ME FOR 7 MINUTES

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Why do people chest just leave it causes less pain.

[@XxPinkFizzxX]

LOOK AT THE EARS ON THAT WHITE CAT OH MY GOD

[@sophiacalon3463]

as a member, you should be a member!