Racism Muslim Converts Face When Trying To Get Married

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[@Moses562]

This is happening to my bro right now. The family is Pakistani and they’re racist as fuck. They’re even threatening to disown their daughter if she proceeds with the marriage

[@user-cz1iq5un1y]

Then don't marry her then since her family are racist as you say.

[@Wolffee]

If I’m honest with you with Pakistanis the parents are usually old school backwards so they only want there kids to marry people from the same cast as myself I’m mix race Irish English Pakistani my mom doesn’t mind who I marry since she married who she wanted it just really depends on the family it’s not them being racist a lot of them sadly care about pride which is haram they care about what people will say which Is stupid in my opinion if your son/daughter is happy marrying who she wants and there happy together so be it

[@AK-dj5su]

If he’s Muslim a true Muslim nothing is wrong

[@swiftb.shorts]

Pakistanis are mostly influenced by culture not Islam, I am a Pakistan and I know that sadly people do things that Islam don't allow but it's a part of culture 😢.

[@unicorn1620]

@@AK-dj5su It should still be fine no matter what the religion! End 4rab Islamic apartheid!

[@hayaq9991]

Its funny how north africans and East Africans talk about the racism in islam but let an African American walk in.. and those same groups dont want to pray w us..😂 but ok.. you said what?i never felt so much racism until I converted

[@GeeljirePower]

Wtf are you not 7 years old?????

[@wadysawsikorski1967]

Racism is haram, Islam is perfect Muslims are not. May Allah Subhana Wa Taa'ala guide them

[@dontTalkBullshit]

The only problem is the misconception that there is no racism in islam infact islam is full of racism against non Muslims, womens, LGBTQ, Non Arabs and others.

[@famepearsonpinadancy]

Talk more pls

[@asiatic_black]

100 percent especially Somalis do all that crying about racism in Islam but get us the same treatment they cry about

[@t.n.tforever3400]

I want to 3 different mosques out here in Arizona and each one of them sat in my face and told me everything else in the book other than the fact that I was not allowed to marry none of their daughters are they wouldn't tell any of the other men in the community that I was looking for a wife because I was black. And I've Been Muslim my whole life

[@NightWarrior972]

Actually, wow im so sorry man 😢 Im muslim from Africa and I never experienced this you don’t deserve that man your one of us

[@t.n.tforever3400]

@@NightWarrior972 Yeah thank you brother I appreciate your words you know I even told the shieks at the mosque's that I literally only have non Muslim women who im able to talk to. And it's unfortunate that we have such a large diverse community and nobody wants to help me get married. As if they don't know who to ask or where to go. So they were basically just like I need to find her on my own.

[@anxskhxn]

Not only black muslims bruh even we indian muslims are discriminated by our faithful "brothers" and it's so heartbreaking :(

[@t.n.tforever3400]

@@anxskhxn Oh wow sorry to hear that brother I didn't even realize

[@Fatma-mx6cc]

So sorry brother to hear this. I am a white Muslim woman married to a very dark skinned Egyptian, part Sundanese and part Arab. My husband is a beautiful human being and we have been married 17 years now. Some people do not practice their faith, the world will always be imperfect, but you stay on your path to good and don’t let these people bring you down. Allah loves you and all his people no matter their color.

[@LineLine6766]

When you marry a woman , you literally marrying into their family. Why would anyone marry into a family that feel that way. Sometimes religion to some people is not a togetherness. Even in religion there's separation when it comes to race. So sad

[@laminbaji7749]

Is very sad they will call you brother but when its come to marriage they see you different

[@7b24md.farhanjaved9]

Sad reality 🥺😭

[@jaycee4504]

Don't let any man's words get you down, do what you feel as long as you have Ritchous intentions

[@aliadanabdi8602]

It is hurting day in day out there .

[@NEOGEO1966]

This is sad. Love to all the Muslim Brothers and Sisters.

[@MusculaRMinD]

Prophet Muhammad married off his cousin,to a freed Ethiopian slave! So she was a Hashemite (from the most noble clan in Quraysh), but in the sight of a Allah at His Messenger, she was compatible to marry him.

[@Shkasad95]

Its false information. You cannot just say anything regarding The Prophet's (PBUH) life without providing any reference to Quran or Sunnah (Hadees). There is no such information available in the scriptures which verifies your false claim. The Prophet (SAWW) had 4 daughters. All 4 of them were married to Arabs. His most beloved daughter Fatima was married to Ali who was the first cousin of prophet. (Now you can do your research on that, and you will definitely find that this is true).

[@MusculaRMinD]

@@Shkasad95 I said his “cousin” married an Ethiopian, NOT his daughter. Read carefully.

[@Shkasad95]

You need to read carefully, I said you cant just say anything regarding The Prophet's (PBUH) life without providing any reference. Give reference to your claim which cousin married which Ethiopian slave ? What's the name of Cousin, and the name of the Ethiopian? I brought His (PBUH) daughters because its common knowledge (anyone who has been through Islamic studies at primary school knows this), and to prove a point which went on top of your head. The point was that the Prophet (SAWW) honored his daughters to the best He (PBUH) could by marrying them with people of his Family/tribe/ethnic background. Similarly, every father, brother wants to honor their daughter/sister to the best they can which is why you have tribal marriages throughout the Muslim world whether its Arabia, Pakistan, Bangladesh. You can happily take this risk to marry your sister/daughter to a white/black convert or a Muslim who doesn't share your ethnocultural background etc., but please don't give false claims regarding the life of our beloved Prophet (PBUH). @@MusculaRMinD

[@adetolaayodele3425]

Who knows why he married her off to an Ethiopian slave. Middle-Easterners, including him, are not the most open towards marrying Black people.

[@richardsheffield2823]

Islam is a Hegemonic system of domination.

[@markpitt2474]

I'm only interested in a Black Muslim Woman. If a non Black Muslim Woman had a interest in me...I might say,C😎😎L. I would not look for it though. I take pride in my ethnicity and my own. No one can make feel lower, because I'm The Most High's Creation! Take pride, and Respect in Your Own........ Assalamualaikum.

[@billybarz8724]

Did he say Islam is against racism? Do muslims even read their own books? Momo was a big racist.

[@Think_pls]

Agree with you brother, your right Muslims should not be discriminated But Don't you know, that Muslim women are not allowed to marry non muslims, even if he is nice person Most scholars call this haram even Don't you think that's even worse than racism

[@WestSideBarson]

No that's not worse than racism. What???

[@Think_pls]

@@WestSideBarson So you mean it's ok for Muslims to that Most religions don't do that , or at least not to Muslim level

[@WestSideBarson]

@@Think_pls you don't have to be muslim. Racism is based off something that can't be changed. Is this a real conversation?

[@t.n.tforever3400]

I don't understand your comment the better just said that hes a Muslim

[@Daron7181]

I was of the impression that he is a new convert to Islam and that his intended’s family had an issue because of his race.

[@tamara_abran]

I’m so sorry for this specific guy and anyone that’s going through and please don’t look at us non-practicing fake Muslims who are Muslim by name and by tongue, instead look at Islam and judge Islam for what it is cuz like he said, “ISLAM forbids that” and Islam is very perfect with no ounce of racism and also forbids the act of and being racist and whoever is racist, has a sever punishment and will never enter paradise cuz THEIR PRIDEFUL , only Allah swt can be prideful and extremely prideful cuz he created us. We’re all food for the worms, all came from prophet Adam and his wife Eva *(pbuth) that were both made from all different colour mud and clay to unite us and also scientifically, not everyone can take the heat or the cold depending the worlds equator and temp locations all over as the dark skinned people can take the heat not like a paler or whiter or lighter tone complexion and vice versa about the cold, real Caucasians can take the freezing cold while the dark tone or fair complexion can’t!! Allah swt is very fair, perfect and he made us differently for a reason, for survival in our natural environment that we came from, to unite, and to not be broad if we were all the same colour, identities, etc, so we can learn something and like new things cuz Allah swt kept creating us always evolving!!

[@sandycheeks1580]

Then, He should Marry a muslimah from his own ethnicity/race! What’s wrong with the man that he doesn’t see his own ethnicity of women as desirable? 🧐🤨 His reputation, personality, and finances are also Serious Factors to parents. People don’t want their daughters to suffer with a broken man-child.

[@amberkhalil3118]

So true. When I converted to Islam my eyes opened up to cultural and tribal expectations with prejudice. And some racial stereotypes. Alhamdulillah though we see that and hope to open their eyes and may Allah protect us from hypocrisy, ameen

[@jeffbillings-el6110]

The Arabs practice Racial Bigotry Racism and Racist are two different things, Racist and Racism only mean having and showing support for your Race without hating 😡, harming, or hindering others from making progress. It's Racial Bigotry that is being demonstrated! Not Racism. They are not better than the Christians. They are Hippocrates like anybody else has been.

[@alifofana4974]

Ameen

[@Ali99883]

I am also reverted searching reverted Muslim for marriage

[@sandycheeks1580]

Then, He should Marry a muslimah from his own ethnicity/race! What’s wrong with the man that he doesn’t see his own ethnicity of women as desirable? 🧐🤨 His reputation, personality, and finances are also Serious Factors to parents. People don’t want their daughters to suffer with a broken man-child.

[@DK-ns6rm]

@@sandycheeks1580😂😂😂😂 you people are jokes

[@DK-ns6rm]

@@sandycheeks1580tell your sons not to pursue white blondes thenn😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jake-go2lq]

People want to preserve their own kind. Get over it. It is completely in line with the Prophet and his companions how they spread Islam. Lineage is preserved in Islam.

[@erikmorales1004]

Legend i find blacken want anything other than black women even here in the uk i find it disgusting they find yheir own eace ugly. Keave asian women alone we actually dont likw to mix we loke loght skin women also. Understand people like to marry within their own culture and race.

[@slickrick2420]

​​@@erikmorales1004 Thanks for showing your true colors, you're a kafit for promoting racism

[@ssj4goku18825theepic]

Fair point and no problems against this just keep your word too on your end and leave my race and people out of your sight too.

[@misskleokleo7371]

Muslims are one kind so not sure what exactly you mean .

[@SlaveOfAllah1000]

What own kind ? Muslims are not own kind ?

[@NourKLI]

That’s just arrogance and ignorance. I don’t like that as a Muslima. My daughter can marry anyone of any skin color, who is a Muslim and more important who treats her right and she him. My son same story. It’s ridiculous and they are not realizing they are practicing racism instead of Islam.

[@sandycheeks1580]

Then, He should Marry a muslimah from his own ethnicity/race! What’s wrong with the man that he doesn’t see his own ethnicity of women as desirable? 🧐🤨 His reputation, personality, and finances are also Serious Factors to parents. People don’t want their daughters to suffer with a broken man-child.

[@MohamedAli-nf9wm]

And let me guess the man was arab.

[@Youtubeaccount50512]

Or South Asian.

[@LFRSH]

U all jealous of Arabs 😁 that's proves alot

[@erikmorales1004]

Ao what why do we lihht skin good-looking race have to accept abyone into our race we dont have to its personal preference in whom we fins attractive. What if we do not find blakc rave attractive or one which fits in with our cultu. Plz black men you ahve your women why run to others plenty of black Muslim women out there. Unless you think blaxk women are ugly

[@sandycheeks1580]

Then, He should Marry a muslimah from his own ethnicity/race! What’s wrong with the man that he doesn’t see his own ethnicity of women as desirable? 🧐🤨 His reputation, personality, and finances are also Serious Factors to parents. People don’t want their daughters to suffer with a broken man-child.

[@JiggerjoggernoHGer]

@@sandycheeks1580I’m wondering this as well

[@darkvalue505]

Jesus is the Way.

[@misskleokleo7371]

We don’t worship Jesus, we worship God . End of .

[@darkvalue505]

You just said the same thing. 4 = 2 + 2 and 4 = 1+ 3. Both have the same answer.@@misskleokleo7371

[@Nightbot44678]

nice try Mormon also Jesus wasn't even his name according to the Bible it was yeshaway

[@rocCoxxRoco]

​@@Nightbot44678 no is YAHWEH יהוה Praise to the lord

[@NEOGEO1966]

Why does God need a son?

[@theAbilityToSee]

Islam is perfect, muslims are not, they are human beings in the end of the day, so get used to see deeds against islam teaching from them Live with that

[@asalafistudent]

Have husnul Khuluq maybe they perfered someone from their own race, it becomes blameworthy if they support falsehood in that. Piety and practice is the gold standard when selecting a spouse. But thats the weakness of Muslims not Islam

[@nabdul1523]

Oh you will get that even being a different tribe in some cultures

[@kevintaylor9590]

You get that if your skin is black

[@mohammadafkhami]

Muslim is a broad category and it's ignorant to assume that just because you're a muslim you understand the customs of people in Indonesia all the way to Turkey and Morocco. I'm sure her brother would have given the same answer to a white convert.

[@FortyBattletoad]

That doesn't make it right.

[@mohammadafkhami]

​@@FortyBattletoadIt's not about right or wrong...

[@FortyBattletoad]

@@mohammadafkhami yes it is. If you are so concerned about racial purity just put a swastika outside your house.

[@purplehaze3200]

​@@mohammadafkhami well said, freedom to choose, but people always play the race card.

[@agent47773]

Islam over culture wake up

[@cedricroney1475]

Muslims try to have it both ways

[@ArifToro]

It’s not that deep mate, the father is the guardian of the daughter and not only that everyone can decide for them selves who they want to marry, stop sucking up and pulling on heart strings just for views. There’s a difference between religion and culture, certain cultures have certain ways of thinking and the religion and the pure sunnah from the prophet peace be upon him is clear, the prophet himself spoke against racism no Arab superior to a non Arab no non Arab over an Arab nor a white over a black except in piety (paraphrased) making videos like this is a cheap excuse for views and not only that it gives off a negative image to the average person. Use ur brain. Islam is perfect humans are not. And Allah knows best

[@DK-ns6rm]

I think you don’t know the meaning of sucking up. Which Madrasah did you complete your education in?😂😂😂😂

[@DK-ns6rm]

U r so worried about Islam’s image but not about actual social problems😂😂😂😂 spoken like a true muslim. no wonder people hate you guys

[@Nightbot44678]

it's not really racism its a cultural thing many Arabs and Pakistanis, afghans prefer to marry within there nationalities because of cultural similarities

[@DK-ns6rm]

😂😂😂😂

[@adambulewski165]

It's racism.

[@markscott2151]

so why do you live in the west. Allah will not change a people situation unless they change them self. please leave our lands if you don't accept our value don't bring tribalism hear. stop speaking English. stay in ur land with ur nation then you wont have this problem you can be amongst your own all day.

[@GAMEOVER-hv2li]

Nikah is an islamic word of wedding 😂

[@wiwietwahyuwidhiyanto2277]

😭😭

[@EM-tx3ly]

Brothers Don’t simp Do it for hereafter Culture is stronger than Deen

[@S78977]

What?

[@alifofana4974]

😂 everything sounds ok except for the last sentence

[@hafis4941]

​@@alifofana4974 There's nothing wrong in what he said

[@K55365]

He should marry in his own culture and ethnicity. Problem solved.

[@almukhlabi]

He should do whatever he likes. Islam allows you to marry any Muslim man providing he's of good character. Islam has solved our problems long before you and I have existed.

[@alifofana4974]

@@almukhlabiThank you for answering him

[@JinTheAceStar]

@@almukhlabi and muslim women, may only marry muslim men. Not really "do whatever you like". Hypocrisy is sadly a strong virtue in Islam. May you find peace akhi.

[@Drlethal100]

​​@@JinTheAceStar Muslim women dont marry non-muslim men because the child tend to see his father as a role model and thus following his religion. So I don't see any hypocrisy here except your bull sh*t. Go spread your lies else where "AKHI"

[@THEWORLDROCKSSS]

i agree as a black muslim there is no such thing as a internation ummah or ummah in general its simply an ideal

[@vanterupavith1822]

Because you are a third world convert not first world like saudi arabia hence he is not wrong.

[@Pretti_sundara_]

No Arab is better than a non Arab

[@salimyasini3100]

Insha'Allah would like to Marry from a culture,race different from mine. Would anyone be aware of platforms where a black brother may marry someone white,Arab or Asian? I'm a 25 year old Muslim from Zimbabwe. Would prefer to speak to Wali directly, no useless chit-chat

[@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj]

Why not someone from your own people?

[@salimyasini3100]

@@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj Why not a Different person?

[@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj]

@@salimyasini3100 the large the cultural differences the larger the chance of misunderstandings Especially since 2 families are getting married not just 2 people

[@salimyasini3100]

@@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj That's what we wish too overcome. "Cultural Differences". We're Muslim 1st, Culture or Race 2nd. Differences can bring people together to learn and overcome Ignorance

[@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj]

@@salimyasini3100 others might not see it that way Doesn't mean they're racist They just want to minimise tension and misunderstanding so they'll just get with their own for convenience sake

[@solohabib7]

What film is this from?

[@unicorn1620]

He's fooled to think there isn't racism in the Quran and Hadiths, tho...

[@Ser3456]

There is none and I challenge you bring an evidence supporting your completely and utterly baseless assertion.

[@unicorn1620]

@@Ser3456 Hadith 119 from Abu Darba...

[@Ser3456]

Share the Hadith, from which book it is from, its strength and also share a link where we can find it.

[@unicorn1620]

@@Ser3456 mishkat Al Masabih 119

[@Ser3456]

@@unicorn1620 You are dodging my question!

[@angrylesbo]

Lies

[@MohamedAli-nf9wm]

You Are a liar

[@neilpeters9463]

💯 facts

[@diazcastro7331]

Dude why beg just tell the girl and run away with her that's what I did

[@THEWORLDROCKSSS]

@@TwinkledLimes you made her abondon her family

[@LineLine6766]

She will later complain you made her abandoning her family, during an argument or when things are not well.