Racist Sis Got Drunk & Ruined Son's Birthday While Parents Just Stook & Laughed On Her Racist Joke

[@christinamurphy1639]

I feel bad for the husband, OP continued to expose him to racist family members again and again and then seemed surprised the terrible treatment also applied to her child. She should have cut contact a long time ago.

[@ms.honiqualisha4529]

Yeah this story is some weird fetish pornt tbh

[@Nebulasclowniest]

Sometimes it's hard to get rid of family, mostly due to feeling like you owe to be close to them, even if they hurt you. Certainly has happened to me.

[@queenkamie1743]

She was part of the problem and it’s a real problem that those that dare interracially constantly complain about.

[@queenkamie1743]

@@Nebulasclowniestwell you stay with you’re family and keep your significant other out of it; Including children ! It’s disgusting and disrespectful to have to deal with that because you feel like you own your family that disrespecting you some sort of “respect”. Set that person free or keep them away from your horrible family !

[@ADR-xn6dg]

@@Nebulasclowniestso watching your spouse and child be abused in real time is less important than family?

[@silenceisg4903]

wow some of these people that want OP to just forgive and forget have never known the pain of having your child go through what she did.

[@soralinklokidottirprincess10]

We’re you to thinking? “These people are delusional.” They were obviously Karen’s and Ken’s.

[@PrincessGalaxia9]

Right??? The absolute gall to call her a bad and hateful person. Ok, bitch. Let's have a close family member harrass your disabled, mixed race baby and non white husband. She deserves every bit of shame and more. It would be neat to see the video.

[@PrincessGalaxia9]

​@@soralinklokidottirprincess10 my first thought was "Ok, you clearly have never experienced or seen discrimination before."

[@anthonyramirez9925]

I don’t have kids and probably won’t, but my first thought when she was being racist and grabbing the kid was “take her out”

[@patricemclaurin7554]

​@@soralinklokidottirprincess10p😊pl

[@DMobi]

This is why you should record a person's racist actions so they can't lie their way out of the consequences.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

Exactly. I wish I recorded all the times people were racist towards me.

[@autumn557]

Agreed. But on a side note don’t fake revisit videos. Too many people are doing that now. Will just call an interaction racist when their actually started the situation in the first place and are just getting a normal reaction to it.

[@tkizzle8174]

Grow up

[@colbylawson5331]

​@@tkizzle8174Recording a person's vile actions and exposing them to the world is growing up. You need to go back to school.

[@MiraTheWarlock]

OPs first mistake was to let her come, after going no contact. Like lady, you cut her out for a reason.

[@kmon1324]

Trust me if the OP'S parents were at the party they either did the inviting or gave the ultimatum of "If she goes we go" or our all time favorite to loathe " she's family" cuz she's always usually used as an excuse. I'm amused to see how it was handled though.

[@savannahhague4989]

The only one who made the mistake is her sister and her family. OP did nothing wrong in this situation by inviting them. Her entire family need to repent for their sins. And revenge isn’t an option because usually Jesus should have the last laugh because vengeance is his.

[@t123tina]

It a fake story from pocket FM

[@colbylawson5331]

​@@t123tinaYou have any proof?

[@jeanannd]

Lindsey and her parents didn't make just ONE mistake. They constantly made racists and anti disabled comments, on their OWN family. The fact that Lindsey then pretends to be a good person on media makes it worse.

[@bethmoran8714]

Bullying and racism is never acceptable or excusable

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

ESPECIALLY when the racist bully is in a position of power over minorities with disabilities. 😢

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

Lucy's consequences of being embarrassed and losing her job are nothing compared to mental and emotional trauma and anguish because of the things Lucy did and said to Jason.

[@teddyfoxx]

she will never get a job in her field her career is over, the child is young he will heal.

[@lavernalashawn1098]

@@teddyfoxx uve obviously never been on the flip side of a racist attack. Let me assure u we dont heal we just learn that this is what life deals for us. But the hurt and bitterness never goes away.

[@teddyfoxx]

@@lavernalashawn1098 too bad for you yes I have already been the victim of racist insults then it's a choice we are a victim or not. You choose to be a victim

[@lavernalashawn1098]

@@teddyfoxx well good for u cupcake

[@sakeenahmustafa5739]

@@teddyfoxx so being hurt by racist attitude means one "chooses" to be a victim?? You lack sense. Go and hug a transformer.

[@annadevore1210]

How does hurting a child make anyone feel good, unbelievable. There’s a special place in hell for people like OP’s sister and parents 😢

[@deliveryguy7402]

Nope. Hell is hell. No special place for people you feel deserve it. Hell is horrifying for everyone regardless of their sins. Most people that say that have no idea what hell is and who it is for.

[@evrm0re916]

So, the sister keeps being cruel to a literal child, but OP's going too far?! "Oh, yeah, your sister keeps making your son cry for years, shows no sign of changing, and is obviously getting some sick entertainment out of him. But showing people the exact person she is is a bit much for 'a mistake.'" I mean JFC, she has a history of being a pos, and arguably got worse when a child got involved. We're long past "mistake".

[@syrusorelio2309]

If it happened once it's night be a mistake twice is intentional and such repeated actions are deliberate. The only way op would be going to far IMHO is if she did something to seriously harm maim or endanger life. All else is fair in love and war. I wouldn't blame op is she slapped her sister.

[@delorescannon455]

You let those parasites make child cry that's putting a child in harms way, That couldn't be me I would be in jail for a hate crime of beating their A.....

[@teddyfoxx]

the two sister are evil psychopath

[@SMITT359]

@#$! up OP sister! @#$! up her up real bad!

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I noticed some people hate it when other people defend themselves.

[@itzlexxii]

Why let your son deal with any of these for any amount of time. The first time the sister called him any names should have been the last

[@TsukiGuardian]

Some of the comments in the story make me so freaking mad. I had suffered at the hands of being bullied and having family bully me too. It took my family 20+ years to finally realized how awful and toxic the bullying relative was. My own mother cried for me because of how awful I was treated by this so called family member. It took me years to finally be able to have confidence in myself

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

You did not deserve the bullying, ever. I'm so sorry they put you through hell, and I hope your days are filled with extra joy to make up for the happiness they stole from you.

[@daniellefunderburg9277]

Yes they pissed me off.

[@lh8167]

I have them as well & when you speak up, the reply "why you so serious?" 😑

[@kellibrenneke2253]

I'm so sorry you went through that. I think when you are singled out and bullied by a member of your own family the trauma of it is far worse. Unfortunately, it happened to me as well. I was told, "You know family just picks on each other."

[@brandypebler2054]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. My sister took her own life because of a bully making her life miserable.

[@Letha-AnnCooper]

Racist & bullies need to be exposed. No matter the sexual orientation, religion or race. Every race of humans have racist bullies, ableist bullies, sexual orientation bullies. If they are not regularly exposed. They will not be stopped.

[@yolandabranner6200]

To many children are committing suicide from being bullied. Racism is terrible we smile and act a certain way in front of people but when there backs are turned we talk about them but to talk about a child at there birthday party was gone to far. OP son didn't want to go to school for 2 weeks. That's why this world is so screwed up. People need to accept people for who they are. There will be no change if people don't start standing up for what is right. Starting with there own family. Don't teach children to hate.

[@Digitalfairy]

Yeah, I bet those idiots who say OP went to far support the zero tolerance BS and that talking it out witha bullie works too.

[@jessicawelch7755]

I’m physically disabled and occasionally had trouble with bullying as a child but None of my relatives has acted like OP’s parents and sister, in fact when necessary they were there for us; both sides meaning mom’s and dad’s

[@noneya3427]

That’s because this story is obviously fake

[@itsjustme7487]

​@@noneya3427Not necessarily. My MIL was a lot like this sister .

[@colbylawson5331]

​@@noneya3427Cease your lying tongue.

[@centurycountess4949]

o.p, im cheering her on! what she did to that nasty sister and her parents was well deserved, hell if she wanted to do more i'd be telling her to go for it. especially after how the sisters remarks have hurt her son's self respect. in all honesty the parents dont deserve any form of reconciliation even if they open the idea. in my opinion o.p should post thei videos of them again and images of their little ice cream buisness and destroy their little dream for laughing at the racists jokes. people like that dont deserve any mercy. so good for o.p for not letting the sister stay with them when she begged for a place to stay. the best thing she can do is use that money she offered get cosmetic surgery because she's going to need it and a new name if she wants to get a decent job.

[@BralinciaMeadows-yz5gs]

I agree

[@Sevness]

The OP actually went real light, all she did was record things and expose her parents and sister, there is worse she could have done. The people that were arguing against OP and her actions are idiots, she didn't do anything wrong as it was the words and actions of her family that got them in trouble. She didn't doctor anything, she didn't make stuff up, she just played recordings that were edited down to showcase the terrible things being done. As for the OP's husband being upset, it makes sense he'd be upset, given he is used to being the victim and in his mind fighting back is worse than just ignoring it and letting a racist be racist. But outing someone for their abelist and racist behavior, is better because it lets people know who and what they are. Like how many racist people came out of the wood work in the last 8 years, and how they are being held accountable.

[@teddyfoxx]

her actions are not idiots they evil, this is not justice but vengeance

[@crystalh4016]

​@@teddyfoxxthe ops sister, as a 33 year old woman, was a racist hot mess who decided to target, and tear down her Nephew with special needs. All before he could even reach double digits in age. She did this while working for a a boss who deeply cared about, and had a vested interest in supporting the disabled- making gross comments about the disabled whenever having to attend an event to support them. She also wanted to use the Nephew she bent over backwards trying to destroy, to try and built her image in the media.... but op making sure she can never hurt her son, or anyone like her son is evil??? Explain.

[@colbylawson5331]

​@@teddyfoxxThou shall not lie. Judge and you shall be judged. I'd prefer you shut up, because you're definitely not getting into heaven with that mouth of yours.

[@lindasoohoo8672]

The Internet is forever, I wish your sister and Parents everything you gave them and more!

[@annewilliams5527]

“Judging her for a few mistakes “…hmmmm. This appears to be going on for what feels like most of her life! So, it’s quite alright to pass disgusting, vile ,evil,crass abuse about an EIGHT YEAR OLD child, because it was one of a few mistakes? She honestly does NOT deserve all the great things karma has bestowed on her, rather, karma should be revoking her pressies!!!!

[@LololoriShow]

Be safe. Your psycho sister has alot of free time to plan revenge. Protect your son especially since she has threatened him directly. 😮

[@SteganDaMallion]

She is lucky thats all she got. Don’t mess with a mother and her child.

[@foxcomix]

cant believe so many people defended Lucy and her parents smh

[@thiccredgyal3404]

They're probably racist themselves

[@neisci]

I think because many people are jerks. They emphatize with Lindsay because they see themselves in her. What if someone exposes the things they day in private!

[@anonymizzle]

It’s crazy how more people attacked the OP more than her evil sister. Just goes to show how ass backward this society is. We are seriously living in the upside down.

[@michellekinder3051]

For the person who said to forgive as it is in the bible, the bible also says to stay away from that toxic person. If you lay down with a hog you rise up with one. And do not cast pearls to a hog least they be trampled. So to OP more power to you for protecting your cub and for anyone else she has let her bulling come to fore. Way to go mother bear.

[@sarahgroot5394]

Good for you OP! Know at least one person is cheering for and your beautiful family! Best of luck in your future.

[@hedyvahabzadeh2037]

Also, women in general are taught to be the care givers, turn the other cheek, keep the peace. Screw that. Sometimes we need to roar.

[@hedyvahabzadeh2037]

Prejudice is so ingrained in people that they don't know it's wrong. I have brown babies in a lily white family. You could tell my mother was mortified and called them brownies. I cut off contact with her.

[@michellerussell-rm9im]

My sister is the same way. She would call those with Downs Syndrome "certain faces" I was born with Cerebral Palsy albeit mild. I was very uncoordinated. My sister has mean to me. She is vile. I disowned her.

[@kellibrenneke2253]

I'm glad you got away from your sister but I'm sorry that's how it went down for you. 😢

[@jeanninelockridge5235]

Honestly, after the way OPs family treated her son from the start, OP should have gone no contact with them. There is absolutely no excuse for the way they treated a child. There is no forgiving that type of toxic behavior .Eric is a saint. The fact he took so much crap from the family and kept trying to get along with them is amazing. I hope Jason is able to get past this quickly and realize he is a brave and amazing young man. Good luck.

[@jackiehenry3372]

Cowards always attack those they consider weak. Racist are cowards. They are illogical and lack common sense. Who attacks a child, who attacks a person who has done nothing to them. Do what you must to protect your child.

[@juleenlees9667]

This story brought out the mama bear in me. OP's sister deserves everything she got. As far as I am concerned both sister and parents need to be exposed to their racial slurs. How dare a person be racist to a child.!.

[@eileenstewart9866]

Yeah well I’d prolly be in jail had my sister insulted my baby like this story

[@harleyshaffer6253]

They got what they deserved. To treat your own family that way is disgusting, especially when you call them names in front of them. It's a life time of mental trauma and no child deserves to have that in their lives.

[@Vikashar]

I love how Mr. Reddito narrates. He sounds like the good hearted uncle who calls out bad behavior and gets the kids in line with wisdom

[@robertneitzel8348]

Anyone who's discriminating against others because of race religion or sex is despicable

[@joshshapiro7984]

People who say forgive her because she is family are idiots. They probably have good families. Those that say god will forgive her. He won’t. He will send her straight to hell.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

They're the first ones to say but that's your sister

[@rugr82day]

True. Not accepting bad behavior just because someone is a family member or friend is addressed in the Bible. "If your right hand offends you, cut it off." You have to family even if they are toxic.

[@Killahbee168]

If you hang around racist people or have racist family members please rethink your life choices

[@Spartan3D213]

That first commenter is such a naive christian, you cant change someone by trying to set a godly example if they belive themselves completely in the right with back up from their upbringing.

[@flavioilda1]

People who say that OP went too far don't understand that one way or another, a person's true character will come to light. So even if OP did nothing to sabotage her sister's career, the sister was going to get caught one way or another. Imagine if the sister had stayed in her new job position; she was going to slip up one way or another that would call her out as a hypocrite and a liar. And let's not forget what happenes when a person with ill intentions has a managerial-type job position; they can, and have, reached out to unsavory people will do absolutely any type of favor just for money. So imagine if she upset the wrong people; she would've ended up in a much worse situation than she is now (like jail time, or even killed). The sister got off real easy and I think OP did right by exposing her while she could.

[@rockygreen240]

As a man, if my brother said that about my child, there would be some furniture moving going on and a police response.

[@TygR3]

I cant believe there were comments saying OP went too far. All she did was expose exactly what her sister did and everything else just followed. The sister fell by her own hand

[@barbaraunderwood1762]

She got want she deserves. An aunt is supposed to love their neices & nephews not bully them. Her parents r at fault for raising her that way.

[@loismiller7345]

Your anger is totally understandable. Children cannot fight for themselves and we must be their protectors. I don’t think your sister would’ve learned anything by letting it go. I appreciate the courage that you showed and letting your family know the error in their ways.

[@katcapuano1601]

Here's the thing, that's not OP doing anything TO them. You didn't use telekinesis to force them to do whatever they've done. She wasn't fired because OP made or presented a video; she was fired for HAVING and vocalizing her very strongly held, hateful discriminatory beliefs, for subjecting others of different races and abilities to abuse and ridicule; all of which demonstrate character traits [defects] that are in direct opposition of not only the companies values, but also the vast majority of societies'. If she had been well behaved in the videos, wasn't consistently being a hateful, racist, ableist, repulsive human being; they would've just been videos, and she'd still have a job. I promise the termination letter doesn't say the word "video", or mention OP anywhere on it. You're accountable for the actions you yourself take, the things you yourself say, and the impact you yourself have. Those words and actions are the fault of NEITHER those who hold you accountable, NOR the people who call you out. Again, OP is not responsible for how the boss, fiance, or anyone else reacted to witnessing the sister on screen being her honest self. They weren't upset by a large video projection appearing on the wall, they weren't upset about the sister having been recorded; they were upset by the content of those recordings, and what it exposed about the character of woman they were either working with, or about to marry. It wasn't staged. The comments made by the sister were of her own volition, and were received by her peers in exactly the context they were intended by their speaker. It's s not OPs fault if they were so repulsed by those comments they were moved to disavow the sister. They're adults with their own reputations and values to protect, allowed to conduct their lives as they see fit, according to what they see and learn. They're allowed to change their opinion of a person after witnessing them do or say something that doesn't align with said values. The sister chose how she wanted to represent herself, at all times. She was always free to reflect and adjust course to be a better person, OP have her multiple opportunities to do exactly that. And they're part the point of blaming a poor upbringing. Seeing as how OP is not the sentient pile of congealed dumpster juice that her sister is, it's safe to say their parents inability to be or raise decent human beings is no longer a valid excuse for the sisters personality, if it ever was. OP figured out morality, the sister works for a damn charity and still spat slurs like she's never heard of ethics. OP didn't do that, the sister did, and that's what she was fired for. She ruined her own life by being a festering pile of dog shit. Stop blaming others for calling you out, and instead focus on not giving anyone any reason or desire to. Want respect? Be respectable. Don't like negative consequences? Don't do fucked up shit. It's really that simple.

[@cathyhall7457]

OP did the right thing!!!

[@erikaarnold4780]

Is this real? This woman really allowed her sister to get away with messing with her son?! It may be already past, but I feel like this woman needed to be way more aggressive about protecting her son. I don’t care if you are family or not, you get ONE chance to be racist to me or my husband and child. ONE! As a Black woman, I don’t understand how the husband EVER allowed the sister around the child. I hope that they have learned a good lesson about boundaries. Sadly, a few of my white friends have racist family members, and they often feel torn on how to react. Would you let your mother accuse your husband of murder? No. Then why should they be able to spew hate? Even covert racism should be met with OVERT consequences. Bystanders are complicit, people!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@KP-hi1om]

Yeah I'm thinking it's fake. Who would allow someone to mess with their kid like that?

[@dkyrisdrake6429]

It’s always so strange how permissive people are of racism/bigotry and willing to ignore it. How does it even make sense, I always feel the need to speak.

[@phihe5083]

Hooray for you, OP!! And kudos to the grandma in the comments!! To everyone trying to defend her sister, we can easily tell what lives in your hearts.

[@gloriabeckley7464]

The parents won’t take Lindsey? Wow!

[@Killahbee168]

In my opinion she got what she deserved that's the problem with evil people they think they do bad things and they're going to have good solace in life

[@user-hr5pc3rt2n]

Expose sister to your boss. Do not even think further about it. She needs to be exposed for the fake she is. Parents also needs to be exposed.

[@latonyalee4730]

Your sister's never gonna change.. once a spade is a spade. Lindsey should be named Karen🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@christiescorner8472]

I’m a parent to two special needs children. There is no gauge big enough for the fury of a parent for their children, but multiply it by one hundred when you’re dealing with a parent of a special needs child. Hell is not deep enough for adults who mistreat children with special needs. This sister absolutely deserved absolute revenge.

[@kananelson5671]

Y would you say she's wrong for getting back at her sister I mean she bullied her nephew and called him racist names I would have done worse if it was me

[@PaulJones202718]

Lindsay ruined her own life!

[@sherlocksteve9109]

I hate to say this.. but OP... you better have a lawyer in your phone numbers. I would be sure that Lindsay will seek legal advice and then strike back. it's not over yet.

[@jacobontiveros9041]

Revenge is a dish served cold

[@Colorbrush21]

This story is so unbelievable. What kind of woman lets her sister call her son a cripple and just stand there? OP stood there and felt angry and sad, but never said anything? She should have beat the dog💩 out of her sister. I would be in jail because I would hit her with the hardest or sharpest object I could grab. At least she recorded the party incident and got her revenge. Her sister deserved to have her career ruined. Her sister was extremely cruel to a young, disabled child.

[@ufotheories1173]

By beating her up the sister could have used her reaction to get her arrested further justifying her racism. This way she can get revenge for everyone she caused harm to residual her son and husband. Sometimes psychological damage is much better than physical. Remember that.

[@ovidiuolaru3810]

Whats up with those comments supporting OP's sister and calling OP a bad person ?

[@lestatsgames7426]

I’m angry with both evil witch sister and horrible parents. It was their grandchild! It was her nephew. I’m saying “was” as it’s past tense. Cuz they would all be gone from your son’s life. A parent’s job is to take care of and protect your kid! Good job. Lindsey has a great future running for an elected public position in Republican politics. Not sure, then see 45, the hopefuls running for 47, and most white southern males and a few females from that party. As a white male from the south, I’m terrified and horrified with some of our republican representatives in Congress. Sister could be BFFs with MTG and the Broad Bert.

[@patpaiz5693]

Totally agree dear. I am all for us making sure that racist have to find out what being in a closet is all about. Lets make hate something that is bad again instead of celebrated, promoted, and voted into office.

[@TheBamaani]

You should have had her arrested after assaulting your son a child grabbing his arm mentally abusive behavior.

[@trishallain6503]

Your sister is horrible and cruel. Her behavior is the kind of bullying that can make a kid suicidal. She deserves having her cruel behavior brought into the light, especially since at her job raising money for disabled children. Let her bosses make the discission on what to do with her employment.

[@shannellyman]

I would have went scorched-earth when it comes to my kids Mama Bear will always protect her kids I don't care who you are Opie kudos to you and Grandma tell your son be proud of who he is

[@tracygardner6318]

I’m with OP her sister had to be stopped, and her parents failed both of their daughters, I hope Jason the best he never should’ve had to go through that.

[@catherinetiernan5888]

You go Mamma Bear, bring the idiots to their knees.

[@sarahwoodyard6533]

Destroy her. People who think op is going too far trying to teach sister a lesson, are also the same type who would blame the victim who was brutally s-assaulted.

[@antoinettebates244]

OP..EXPOSE THEM ALL!!

[@catsmeow5566]

I think Lindsey got some karmic justice. OP was clever to use her sister's own words and behavior against her. Poor Jason though. I hope he learns to love himself. With internet these days it is unlikely that Lindsey will be able to get a job in the same field ever again. She will be blacklisted. The story could go viral somewhere & other employers may see her history. One of the notable things was how other employees came forward to say Lindsey made inappropriate remarks passed off as "jokes" and got away with it at work. I think they were afraid to report her to HR for fear of retaliation. So OP saved them from having to put up with her even more and possibly discriminating against employees once she had a position of power. Good for the boss for firing her on the spot and for helping OP with the son. He sounds like a very sweet man. The parents are the ones who got off too easy IMO. They raised Lindsey to be the way she is. But that doesn't excuse her behavior bc she's old enough to know better.

[@jinnieharrison9686]

If you let Lindsey go and not make her stop, she'll get a lot worst, thinking she funny.

[@oblivionsweeper]

That revenge was well deserved like a cold beverage on a hot summer day 😂

[@Mrwillie95]

Op husband needs to tell his wife it is time for her to go no contact with her parents and sister because they are toxic

[@aleksandarvil5718]

The World's Smallest Violins 👌🎻👌🎻👌🎻👌 to Lindsay and _"Parents"_

[@Zminator1986]

Boy there sure are a lot of people wearing white pointy hoods and burning crosses for defending a follow member.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

There are a lot of people like that on Reddit

[@sarahhapka3647]

Sounds to me like Lindsay got exactly what she deserved!

[@FedupAmerican1982]

I remember being called a spaz in the 80s. Seems this woman is just jealous of her sister.

[@danielharvey2863]

You do what you need to do to OP your sister deserve everything you can give her 🎉🎉

[@rikukiko]

Oh hell no, you make fun of a kid for cerebral palsy you deserve all the bad things i feel no sympathy for that horrible person

[@seshasatyakrishna5016]

That first commentor: why don't you introduce a long iron rod to his as*... both inner and outer treatment

[@Bumula1]

How did this woman allow her sister to get 5 words out of her mouth let alone put her hands on her son. She would be visiting a dentist the next day to be fitted for a full mouth of dentures. Showing the video to her boss may be going too far but sending copies to her sister, sisters fiance and parents may them to realize what a**h*les they are and the behavior they're condoning.

[@CareyBilley]

You get back what you put out into the world especially when children with disabilities are involved, that's how karma works it's magic.

[@KcLee677]

At best is best to recording there's action.. and kept everything in text, tape recording.. if a state allows to shame someone.. open to everyone's eyes.. really hurt there's egos and racist..

[@tammystark6364]

The first comment you had on here has obviously never been bullied if he thinks after the sisters remarks for years she is going to change he is an idiot. As for the comment that God will forgive her, well he may but that doesn't mean OP should. This is her son she is protecting. In fact not only her son but apparently others also. If the sister is this racist and bulling with her own nephew how bad it must be for others

[@jeferrell79]

OP, I'd've instantly gone NC with the toxic parents and sister after your parents voiced their opinions about your intended partner.

[@foryahallums5557]

Gurl Byeee😡😡Get what you give👍🏾👍🏾

[@Sandra-g9u2l]

The person makes no sense when saying that being racist is not cool but ruining your successful sister is wrong. It is like saying it is OK to be racist if you are rich.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I bet that person is a Pisces

[@jedimando9258]

I don't have words for the sister. All I know is is that she will go to a warmer climate in the afterlife

[@Asia-sk8lc]

I truly understand your pain and frustration. Yes she needs to be responsible. And parents really don't care and can make it worst. I know.

[@diehardtoyotafan]

That first comment was infuriating

[@Digitalfairy]

Yeah, they're probably one of those idiots who think talking it out with bullies makes instant peace or claims "Bigotry goes both ways"

[@monteverdi1567]

Boy. That sure took a long time to get where it was going.

[@jamesnolan9953]

She should report her for child abuse and ruin her for this

[@rosaliaday7218]

Why she remained around them? …at the first insult I d cut contact with everyone

[@chrisgionti2766]

The OP in this story is an absolute idiot for letting her racist family be near her and her family. The moment her family said racists stuff about her husband, is the moment she should have gone no contact.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

She's an adult but she not acting like one

[@amandafranks8400]

I’m glad OP exposed her sis and parents. She tired to talk and be civil and gave multiple chances for them to change.

[@chickenman7801]

The sister got off light?! What more do you think she deserves?! She's 33 having to start a new career after losing everything!

[@LoisThiessen]

I would have presented directly to her boss and fiance rather than before the larger group but, perhaps it would not have worked as well. On your comment that she can move to a new city, with social media being what it is, I don't think it will be as easy for her to fly under the radar. Also, given her toxicity, she may not be able to hold that back when she finds an audience.

[@joyceheadlam1909]

You cannot talk to people like those op, i would do exactly what you planned. Go right ahead, i will be cheering for you.

[@erikah830]

Did you know how your parents were before you met Eric?

[@diannshowers9129]

I think bringing racism to light is a good idea. If she is working in an industry where they help for charity then she deserves what she gets

[@PointlessPeachesII]

OP said that this story went viral regarding her sister's embarrassment. Has anyone figured out who it was and did they find the video? I'm curious about it.

[@jackiehenry3372]

Some people have never been on the receiving end of prejudice, so those that expect you to be better than their enemies, when you are on the end of the same, follow your own advice For OP do what you must to protect your son's mental health. That crap is unnecessary and ignorant. If they're giving you their support then let it be suppport.❤

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I agree. They can't relate to her son and they lack empathy. I have people who tell you to be the bigger person when you defend yourself.