Major Red Flags In Women - BE CAREFUL | Explained By Deepika Bhardwaj | Raj Shamani Clips

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[@aayushibirla2590]

watching this to check If I am a red flag 🥲🥲

[@kunalkashyap6382]

So r u a red flag?

[@aayushibirla2590]

no

[@Ayushiiing]

Same

[@lakshmisubramanian9233]

Yeah to improvise your game to deceive the men available better.

[@kunalkashyap6382]

@@aayushibirla2590 good

[@ChintanCG]

hope the scammers dont watch this and improve their techniques 🤣

[@musicEnergy-r5b]

😂😂

[@Blue__Strawberries]

😆

[@Smiranshashirajkumarisingh]

😂

[@Amrikhalder]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@tigerjeetsingh8440]

😂😂

[@Aries32]

One thing i disagree ..." koi kitna bhi introvert ho friends toh hote hi hai"... i think only an introvert understand how untrue that is ... i live alone in my apartment paying double rent ... but still dont want to have roommate just for having a peace at home ... why cant we normalise not having friends .. not everybody like to enjoy company of others .. I never had any romantic relationship in my life and i am 27 years old with zero friends ... at my workplace also i dont talk much and just do my everyday tasks and come back home where i live alone ... i dont complain about not having friends because i am not putting any efforts in making one ... with more people in your life you attract more drama too .. if any guy think that is a red flag .. i am better off alone than involving myself with a mindset which is simply not aware of the peace you can have by being alone ..

[@exploringmyselfmore8910]

Same, when she said ki introvert logo le bhi dost hote h i disagree, kyunki main bhi intro hun or mera koi dost ni hai, hm yr nhi ho pate comfortable, iska mtlb hm red flag hue wow😀, mtlb jo bakwas krte hai fake bnke ghte h, ya logo ki jaan ke tarif krte h wo real, or jo real h unko dba do or hslo unpe, hm red flag hi ache h

[@Aries32]

@@exploringmyselfmore8910 exactly .. anybody who thinks that having less friends is a red flag .. they themselves are big red flag for me ..

[@Innocentabhi12]

She is right. You must be a psycho

[@subhampal8477]

I think you should atleast have 1-2 real people with whom you can connect. It makes you a better person.

[@Manobalan7]

@@subhampal8477 not everyone gets that so called REAL people...

[@nashwararai8110]

Men or Women : Not respecting each other is a big red flag, Not accepting a mistakes,,.. There are so many signs you will feel it's not right but still we think it's a small thing let's ignore but Never ignore red flags it will become biggest thing in future

[@thecontrarycontrarian4230]

We need to educate men about female mentality

[@vikashmaurya7033]

​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230right

[@drnaishadhpatel4399]

Respect should always be above love

[@anindian6557]

​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230same to men

[@tushardahlan5196]

Same to women also​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230

[@mememan6111]

As a single guy who never dated women, can relate and confirm that every flag is red 🗿👍

[@omanajz]

You have conjunctivitis my friend Jk 😜

[@ankushpaul3671]

😂😂😂

[@rahuldeovatsa]

Your hand has also became red

[@roshnirajvansh2012]

😂😂😂

[@abhinandankainth4127]

Hum bhai hum

[@KrishnaKhandelwal15]

Raj is noting down all the points , and He is like "ye to mere sath bhi ho raha ".. 😂

[@danCK1990]

Dude I wish I could super like this comment 😂😂😂😂

[@sizzlingschumi9005]

Ya ho chuka hai

[@Vighnesh92]

You are funny 😂

[@Dr.SwarnimaSrivastava]

Green flags in women- 1) she feels sad that you didn't call or text. 2) she talks about future too, not just waiting for proposal. She keeps you in her future. 3) listens to you, not just hears. 4) she remembers details about your likes and dislikes. 5) asks about your family, shows involvement in your family problems. 6) spends money at times, stops you from spending if you are overdoing for her. 7) she talks about having children, about having a home with you, not just house. 8) she is career oriented girl, takes intellectual decision and not an emotional fool because in long run, her decision making power will impact your life a lot, so think wisely. 9) she gets uncomfortable if you get cosy with some girl and maintains physical distance with her colleagues and male friends. 10) she let's you take the lead but also guides you if you are going wrong 11) doesn't belittle you if you are earning less than her. 12) talks about her family, about the details. 13) is able to cry and be vulnerable infront of you 14) takes active participation in your problems and tries to solve them. 15) last but not the least, your intuition will tell you if she is the right one. Trust your intuition, same applies for girls. Ek feeling toh aati hai yaar andar se if she really loves you or not. Pata chalta hai yaar bus hum uss feeling ko ignore karte hein.

[@utsavgupta5781]

Nice

[@gauravsharma-eh7sz]

hume dono hi nahi chahiye na red na green . Its better to be alone for good . Itna dimaag lagane ki zarurat hi padegi

[@GTH4121]

Such women exist in Utopia, not in reality.

[@Heredocumentingmylife]

Great points will remember ✌

[@tiyasabhattacharjee9279]

​@@GTH4121 they do exist. But now a days most men want party going girls. They will tag a loyal girl as "bahenji". Aur baad mei jab wo 10 laundo k saath ghumne wali ladki emotional blackmail karna start karein then men say that all girls r like this. Aise kaise chalega?

[@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls]

Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy.

[@fishnchips9541]

It was always like this . Saree gehne ki demand lalchi Chachi mami,Tai log humesha bhi karti thi. Bas ab cheezein badh gayi hai. Aj kal sabko chahiye foreign vacations ,mehenga phone ,gold and diamond ,fancy dates ,anniversary ,birthday ,dhanteras Mai mehenge gifts

[@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls]

@@fishnchips9541 True. 💯✅ Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+ all never married and we all are very happy. 🙏

[@PureRythm]

@@fishnchips9541 lekin pehle agar hum woh Pura na kar paye Kisi Karan ki wajah se, toh chalta tha. Aaj agar hum woh Pura na kar paye, toh hamare against case ho sakte hai...that's the main concern.

[@Vaishnav5880]

Ekdam​@@fishnchips9541

[@sameerkapadia3709]

Tho apna paani kaha nikaal na if we have to stay single

[@prakastha1111]

Dont get married dont enter in any kind of relationships Live for your parents and fulfill your own and their dreams Thats it you will be happy 😄

[@mayur5860]

But at certain point will be alone and that will kill you..... everyone gets busy in their job and work

[@maddy5838]

I think there is a concept called Death which happened to our grandparents and which will happen to our parents also, So keep struggling and keep surviving.

[@rohanroy3602]

i want to include one thing that if a girl is fake means her character is not real , she change her personality at every moment that means it's a red flag .

[@gautamanant380]

If you want to date Give her time for change.if you fell changes in her that fine if you fell same as previous then she is lier

[@rajatchakraborty6381]

U have got this bro

[@Potato-me4wu]

Character is different thing personality is different first tell what u wanna say 💀

[@MessiahManiac]

This lady is doing god's work 💪🙏

[@user-rb4lv4if9q]

Got very frustrated when my in laws and husband tried to make me cut ties with my parents being the single child

[@humansgonnadiesooner]

You know what to cut if they don't understand that parents sabke hote hai. Wish you strength 🙏

[@mohan555p3s]

Just move on!! it's not too late so divorce him and find a true partner with supportive in laws 😊 don't forget to take share of property and demand huge alimony just enjoy and live for yourself and not to please others

[@nancysingh1928]

Being single child you obviously cannot cut ties with your parents.... that's so wrong! But these things should be addressed at the time of marriage only....not after that...

[@AshishPanthee62]

Noone force to totally cut ur relationship with parents Aurato ka victim card kabhi khatam nahi hota

[@afrozairin8438]

​@@AshishPanthee62who told you this?

[@Itachi-no5xf]

"You have become what you are fighting against."

[@thuptenene9606]

It important to know how ur GF/Fiancee/Wife treats her own father ..Not from perspective of Love but from perspective of Respect.

[@drnaishadhpatel4399]

Yes .valid point how she behaves with her own parents tells so much about her

[@Nitya-r86]

Nope it isn't. What if the woman's father has mistreated her/abused her? You expect a woman like that to show respect to her father? Do you even realize what you're saying? There are MANY fathers out there who sexually objectify/ abuse their daughters! You know, just because you cannot relate to something, does not mean it does not happen. I'd strongly suggest getting out of that 'frog in the well' mentality.

[@Nitya-r86]

@@drnaishadhpatel4399 No it does not. Sure there could be entitled /badly behaved ones out there who ill-treat their parents, but it does not ALWAYS have to be that way. How she treats her parents could in a lot of cases, tell more about how she has been treated by her parents than about her as a person. Stop being so judgemental.

[@GalaxyImpact200]

​@@Nitya-r86no mam that's not a general case ...there have been a lot of cases where narcissistic or abusive women treat their parents very badly ...yes I am not denying that many fathers abuse their daughters ..that's true ..but here we are talking in a general sense ...deepika mam has dealt with a lot of cases and she is telling all of this from her experience and has seen things like this ....and also just because you got abused by someone ..that does not give you the license to abuse another person ..for both boys and girls

[@Lilomen_RD]

​​@@Nitya-r86you think my father was toxic? He was a army colonel put me and my brother into a strong discipline life and soclded me sometimes for my mistake but he also praised me at the same time. This is not a mistreatment this is teaching you about real life because no father would ever want their daughter to suffer

[@devdhingra390]

She is Rockstar and doing good work. 🎉

[@aastham8782]

Agreed with her for like 98%. Just in the beginning when she said ki 'When a girl asks you to meet, or is forthcoming then it's a red flag'. I don't find this thing to be a red flag. Why can't a girl take a first move and ask to meet if she is interested in him? Also if she is asking you to meet in a specific place, can't that specific place be a peaceful cafe or restaurant?

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

When a woman approaches a man, the first thing a man does is check for the cameras. Because lets be honest, women do NOT approach men due to their preconceived notions that "men don't like easy women", "men like to chase", or due to losing the power in the relaitonship by initiating.

[@a.r.2006]

I think what she meant is like you know each for like a week or less,you want to have a meeting.

[@riscnx]

Because girls usually don't do that. And when they do that there is usually bad intentions. To be precise it's not a red-flag it's a safety precaution. But there is also one more angle, maybe she is doing it with multiple guys, so she wants to maintain her schedule with precision.

[@a.r.2006]

@@riscnx Maybe it's your experience which formed this opinion. I don't blame you. Our Legal framework is bias towards women(those who know abused it)

[@niveditapathak6513]

This is not true for the golden child of narcissistic parents. Most men have raja beta syndrome and they dont see the red flags in their own parents and siblings. Basic needs of the bahu are projected as demands. It gets really messy. What they want is a codependent female who has really put up with anything for the sake of being accepted as achi bahu. Atleast by Indian standards an achi bahu is someone who lets you walk on her with a smile. Dont let that happen. If you see signs of abuse its ok to leave. Be the red flag there. Its fine.

[@blue_568]

Agreed sis 👍🏻

[@Devra380]

​@@blue_568 itna bhi nhi ki walk on.. Bas video me jitna hai utna hi.. Usse jyada expected nhi.

[@smolkitti8147]

So true

[@Nitya-r86]

100% true. I'm particularly impressed by the last line. 'Be the red flag'. These men who expect 'perfection' from women must first be ready to show what they're bringing to the table.

[@GalaxyImpact200]

Ye toh Alag hi topic hai ....and where do you get this thing that men have raja beta syndrome ....may be you have some anecdotal evidence but that may not be the objective reality

[@badrinathsahu9771]

Saying from my personal experience I have seem all the red flags in one person and thanks to my luck she left me 😂 Jaan chuti .....Bala tali 😅

[@keerthynair5961]

😂😂

[@rohitraghavan7552]

Beware of narcissists. They seem perfect at the beginning but things go downhill within a couple of months. Don't share a lot of information too early.

[@BiprajitBose-qg3qm]

Maine 3 girls ko date kia hain or mein itna tou batahi saktahu ki ACHI LADKI MILNA BOHOT MUSHKIL HAIN..💔

[@vlogtypea3201]

Dating 3 Girls really proves nothing about all girls

[@Nitya-r86]

Agar aapne 3 girls ko date kiya aur kisi ko bhi aap pasand nahi aaye toh shayad aap achche ladke nahi hain :D Angoor khatte hain waali story suni hi hogi na? Aapka wahi case lag raha hai. Ladkiyon ke baare me kisi nishkarsh par pohochne ke pehle ek baar ye zaroor jaach le ki aapka kya contribution tha us dynamic me.

[@kalintripathi4769]

​​@@Nitya-r86aunty ji aapko kaise pta ki problem usme hai ladki me nhi kuch me irrationally defend na kro....how could you conclude it...

[@Nitya-r86]

@@kalintripathi4769 Uncle ji aapko kaise pata ki problem ladki me hi hai, ladke me nahi? Aapne kaise assume kiya ki ladka masoom hi hoga?

[@kalintripathi4769]

@@Nitya-r86 ladke ne bataya. Aur aapke paas koi bhi valid reason nhi ladke ki baat ko jhoot manne ka.. Agr prejudice ho tb baat alg hai...

[@rashisahu0311]

By the way feminism was never about women against men. It was about a battle against patriarchy and stereotypes. Feminism advocate rights of so-called weaker sex that patriarchy tried to suppress.

[@sourabhkumar3852]

Feminism is a western concept which is not applicable on eastern countries.. it has now become a cult..

[@sourabhkumar3852]

But all women are still searching for rich men for marriage.. Isn't that patriarchy ?

[@VarunTomee-kr6nf]

Feminism was always against men and men hate propoganda which thinks that women should get more and more privileges and women is always victim and cannot be abusers.it was never been about equality it about special treatment.

[@VarunTomee-kr6nf]

If women are oppressed them why women commit heinous crimes?

[@kunalbanerjee5562]

If someone wants to follow these red flags, he will remain single forever. But yes, Madam said every point correct.

[@big0561]

*সহমত 😂*

[@RudraStorm34]

its better to be single then going for such partner

[@rayrwyr]

When a woman (with some red flags) gets married to a strong dominating (but fair, competent, and kind) husband who puts boundaries for her and he does not tolerate any of her BS, then the same woman falls in line. She starts to respect the husband and starts to obey him. Marriage becomes happy for both. Keyword is strength. He must be strong. She must know and believe that if she does not obey him, he will divorce her without delay, no matter the cost.

[@mohan555p3s]

​@@rayrwyrbro such girls will be waiting for divorce man they are gonna get half property and will demand huge alimony and even can file domestic violence(498a) fake rape cases on you guys and demand more money 😢

[@rohanmatts3076]

It is like main hoon na moment Madam- friends sbke hote Me (extreme introvert & don't like fake person)- sabke ni hote😅😅😅😅😅

[@keerthynair5961]

😂

[@thuptenene9606]

My wife of 5 years left me…Now I m scared to start a relationship with opposite sex.

[@rayrwyr]

You should be scared of marrying. Have relationship but always watch for all red flags.

[@raghavnamasivayam8706]

​@@rayrwyr relationsip is for marriage stop justifying casual relationships

[@daviddexter25]

toh kya same sex ke sath sex karga lol🤣🤣🤣

[@milas615]

Ldkiya to dhokebaz hoti h ap Boyfriend bna lo

[@Rahul-lv3ft]

true bro i too been with decent girls around but its scary to observe how they run things in ur absence an every other girls is doing the same thing from the girls i came across now its really challenging to think of marriage an have a peaceful life with the girls of these days not having integirity with the one partner they have an love them idk why do they want all them they know or dont know want to give a damn to them ! there is no peace at all these days after a few months of travel together an comming to know that they are dating multiple men an the other men talking to the girl sexually with whom we r an she is enjoying it lol what is this great depression has this advancement in technology an communication an mobiles have got us in to in this modern 21 century ,i felt theres no love its all calculaion going in the society the love comes only after the calculations equates for the girl over boy but the only love i seen an observed was of no calculations was from animals an pets an stray animals which we feed occasionally an the love of the parents where we dont see much of calculations over their love on the kids

[@maitreyeechakimoi8501]

Agree with all points.... that's a very transparent video about Red flags

[@Devra380]

Apka casual relationships par kya opinion hai?.. No insult intended just want to know the opinion of girls

[@poonam2352]

1. She doesn’t wanna bond with parents - no woman is mad to not want to bond with his parents for no reason. There must be some disrespect and crossing of boundaries. She has all the right to chose to keep her mental health intact 2. Not pitching in equally with finances - we expect women to uphold such high standards, while men are not taught to deal with women with such high standards. When will you talk about men having to pitch in equally with household chores? When you discuss a topic, have a 360 degree view on the same. Don’t make generic statements like a moron

[@souravbhandari6963]

She is wrong here " if someone is introvert ,koi na koi friend to hoga hi" lol. I have no friend but i can say " Girls would leave you, when they would find better one" i have seen 100+ cases ( even after marriage ) i dont what kind of environment these idiots are setting for their future generation 😂 Good boys and girls are also there but they are either too much reserved or insecure) and some are just too much judgemental. All i would say : be the kind of person first, you want to meet.

[@sanjeebtalukdar2353]

Absolutely.

[@MonikaDaddarwal]

such a well spoken woman. so thoughtful and calm.

[@DD21934]

People call woman like me a red flag and toxic feminist who don't want to live with guys parents.....why?

[@nancysingh1928]

If you don't want to live with your in - law parents, then who would take care of them in the time of need, who will cater to their needs.....do you also want your son to leave you alone and live a separate life after his marriage with his wife..... Think about all the efforts you will have to put into your son while growing him up and then a woman comes and take your son away for life and you are just left alone in your old age....how will you feel ?? Are you even comfortable with your bhai and bhabhi leaving your mother & father alone?? Who will take care of your mom & dad if your brother and sister-in-law leave them alone..... I don't think children should leave parents alone in their old age at any cost because they are the one who have given their time & energy for growing us and now, it is our time to take care of them and give them love, support and care... because old age is itself a curse.....we as youngsters can't even think how things change with our parents when they turn old ....their health....their thinking abilities.... everything changes....we should definitely not leave them alone at such a vulnerable time....❤

[@GabbarKooner]

Video to dekhli maine🤗 ab to leader bn jaunga na pakka 👍

[@ashapriya7240]

Now i understood that i am a complete green flag😂

[@Lohit-u8b]

👏👌

[@Monster-mc8rm]

God knows 💀

[@reshamp7282]

1. If she did not respect parents since start, or just as a part of her nature then its a red flag, but if there were many many attempts from her side but in laws troubled her got hurt and felt disrespected and she stopped talking to them then its obviously acceptable. 2. If both of you are earning and both are helping out in household chores, even then if she makes you take expenses, its a big red flat, but if she is responsible for household chores without much help from husband, then he tales financial responsibilities then it's normal. 3. If she threatens for filing fale case just bcoz her luxurious demands or gifts are not met, then big red flag. 4. If she threatens for suicide, big red flag and she genuinely needs medical help too. Involve both side families and handle this issue asap.

[@Aashu299]

#1. Don’t go for a girl with a past. You don’t fix what you didn’t broke. If she has the right to judge on your income, you have all the right to say no seal, no deal.

[@apurbaghosh5046]

Only solution, just focus on your own life boys, you get this chance to live a human life once, don't waste it

[@Debashis-wb5eg]

Focus on your life and you will get what you deserve

[@ashishgurjar8681]

Shamani bhai note kr rhe hai khud ke liye 😂😂😂

[@AounGujjar2005]

😂😂😂😂

[@mandarp9472]

In Pune wife killed husband for not taking her to Dubai on trip.

[@Nitya-r86]

That's unfortunate and sad, and the woman should be punished. However, I do hope you're also talking about the countless women who are killed by their husbands and in-laws for dowry.

[@terroristrepublicofpakista902]

​@@Nitya-r86and there is countless men who are killed by womens

[@sourabhkumar3852]

@@Nitya-r86 he is talking about a heinous crime done by a woman.. pls do not change the topic.. this is not a saas bahu serial or gossip channel..let's raise our voice for the helpless men who are suffering because of their wives..

[@Nitya-r86]

@@sourabhkumar3852 Well, if you read my comment, I very clearly stated that the girl should be punished. I spoke for the abused men as well as abused women. What did you do? No need to get triggered for no rhyme or reason. It certainly isn't a saas bahu channel, but you are surely working hard to make it one.

[@njfuk888]

Man was weak died in one punch

[@preetikumar8111]

It is common for individuals to have varying perspectives on their in-laws, as not everyone shares the same mindset. It is important to consider that those who have not experienced successful relationships themselves may not be the best sources of relationship advice. Overcoming personal challenges and resolving the issues of others are different endeavours altogether.

[@Khushi_R9]

As a female, I totally agree with her.

[@Jyoti-Shah4]

My father is also a red flag actually a red carpet 😂...but my mother have to cope up with him every single day 😢

[@avijitroc4518]

Toh chhod apne baap ko tu or Teri maa , mtlb baap ke paiso pe chalna bhi h or red flag bhi bolna h , admi pasand nhi lekin uska Paisa chahiye

[@pallavisaini4121]

Being a girl i completely relate and agree with each and everything she said ❤

[@anuragkumartiwary3825]

This whole conversation i felt they were talking about China😂( Red Flag)

[@RajanOverseas]

Raj - You are a star. Much much better than others. I truly like your podcasts.

[@Lilomen_RD]

My dad is a commandore in IAF He always gave me freedom but also put me in a strict discipline life style Did MMA, learn cooking, how to polish my shoes Focus on my studies Scolded and punished me when I did something wrong same with my brother but awarded me like when I did something good not always academics but like there was a girl who used to get bullied because she has a huge birthmark on her face and I stood up for her my teachers complain a lot but didn't get angry Instead he bought me a new gloves which I wanted for birthday for mma and his lines were I love you really how use your power to save a victim instead of joining oppressors. You did a good job. My father also loved my mother to bits she also they have fights but knew how to talk it out and discuss it. My brother used to make fun of me but when I was in trouble he always stood up like a wall to protect me. I love and respect my brother and dad And I also expect the man to love his parents and respect them.

[@Thenoviceinvestors]

If girl is forthcoming thats red flag? What nonsense... Janne ke liye milna hi padta hai na... Aunty shut up

[@Bhawana7777]

Vo stranger ki baat Kar rahi hai sabse kon milta Hain ?

[@RonnyS.1900]

That's actually so true, my Ex gf used to compare me with her ex and used to say that her ex was not like this or he was caring and stuff when she used to fight 😢 and no wonder why she left me and got a new bf in a month after breaking up 😂. She was such a hoe 😢

[@victoryv116]

She is those pick me girls ..but funny still you will not get male customers 😉😉 she is like pearly things

[@PureRythm]

Here comes the Red flag she's talking about in the video...welcome, Aapka hi intezaar tha. Kitne ladko ka kaat diya hai aaj tak...??🤦😂

[@victoryv116]

@@PureRythm then you should have avoided it , comment karne ki kya jarurat ..? You just need validation for insecurities that's all

[@himantapathak3989]

Found the narcissist here with lack of empathy. You wouldn't have commented here if you don't have insecurities. Clearly projecting.

[@shreyashreya1328]

Then u are too pi k me for feminist awww 😂😂😂😂​@@victoryv116

[@SK-hg3pt]

Disgusting woman spotted. Shame on you!

[@Indianfirstwd]

Phir toh koi bhi ladki pe bharosa nhi kar sakte

[@shaikhfarheen8342]

2:39 agreed completely....no doubt about that...I am introvert but still I have close friend like my sister and 1 or 2 friend

[@daisylakra5141]

For the family part I feel m red flag.. But I tried to maintain but.. I failed😅

[@swapnalibhagwati4578]

Girls are emotional in general , girls like to give it all when they like a guy …then guy think why she is chipku ❤ so chill and do whatever you want and tell him your emotions

[@ChatoriChaman]

Bhai meri trh kon itna modernise nhi hua h 😂😂😂

[@sambitghosh4405]

Main

[@preetsandhu9105]

Ye behanji khud hi bahut badi red flag he... Because humans are not perfect😂😂😂😂 but yes there is something good or bad in them... Things can be sort out

[@cutedevil5518]

I dont agree with introvert not having any friends is a red flag.

[@rayrwyr]

When a woman with some red flags gets married to a strong (who is dominating and yet fair, competent, and kind) husband who puts boundaries for her and he does not tolerate any of her BS, then the same woman falls in line. She starts to respect the husband and starts to obey him. Marriage becomes happy for both. Keyword is strength. He must be strong. She must know and believe that if she crosses the boundaries, he will divorce her without delay, no matter the cost.

[@050138]

Truer words haven't been spoken.... 🙌 Female energy is a bit turbulent and all over the place.... Checks and balances are must and man should assert this

[@student_of_God]

The last line of your comment ,"No matter the cost of divorce" is itself a big red flag. We all know how fake dowry harrasment cases by wives against their innocent husbands ruin them, both financially and mentally. Giving your working ex wife maintenance or alimony after a failed marriage is the biggest loophole women can enjoy. Anyways my point is I'M NOT GOING TO GIVE MY MONEY to any hoe, I would rather remain unmarried

[@PureRythm]

So true. The top comment on this video by some "Nava" is trying to justify Red Flags in favor of women...no wonder men are suffering so much in this country.

[@VC-dz5wl]

"He will divorce her".... Man that's not easy as you say. She doesn't agree for mutual divorce. You have prove her Cruelty if you want to divorce but proving cruelty is very very difficult in our judiciary.

[@rayrwyr]

@@VC-dz5wl -- Ok good point. I left India for US at a young age and India does not allow "no-fault divorce" which is a good thing because in US, wives are divorcing their perfectly good husbands for no reasons (just out of boredom). It seems wives (but not husbands) get bored with their current spouses after 5-10 years of marriage and start cheating and divorcing.

[@kama10073]

She is an admirable women.

[@Foodie419]

Never ask from woman. What are red flag in girls. Always ask from mature man.

[@arakshp]

To add to those points, many women today has 2 lives, one real & other online life where she posts dancing on item songs or vulgar pictures or complaining videos of her ex. This is also a redflag as it remains forever online & anybody can use it in anyway. Also social media mostly favours women as she gets more attention, support, sympathy unlike men. This kind of women don't hesitate to spill their personal life online if some silly fight happens in their relationship.

[@dreamsdesires]

Don't marry these kind of women, simple. You just need one sane women to marry.

[@rabbekapp01776]

Biggest redflag of woman is her bodycount, never ever marry someone who’s into casual relationships

[@HiDibakar]

What's Suprising is Now We Need to Listen to These Basic Instincts as an Expert Advice Because Men Have Lowered Their Standards So Much

[@gitawrongtranslation-youtu9701]

1:36 if have past relationships - have someone to compare

[@Shalini7448]

Dating apps p, 90% ldke fake h😂😂😂or red flag, ldkiyo me dhoonde jaa rahe h😂

[@rohitnayak9952]

In dating apps, men are not looking for serious relationship

[@Shalini7448]

@@rohitnayak9952 then why r u blaming women, that women r red flags on dating apps😒mtlb bs orato me kmi nikalni hi h kuch na kuch krke🤡🤡

[@SK-hg3pt]

​@@Shalini7448Mahilaon me kamiyan hoti hi hai aur ye acchi baat hai ki pehle hi purushon ko satark kiya ja raha. Taaki aage khrab rishte ma ban sake.

[@rayrwyr]

Over many decades, I gained lot of knowledge and experience on male-female relationships. My advice to a single man who wants to marry is given here. Any red flag means, do not proceed. Before marrying her, make sure your woman has these qualities if you want a lasting happy marriage, assuming you are going to act like a good husband: 1) She is submissive to you. She has accepted you as the leader of the relationship. She has agreed to join your program to support you. She respects you. She listens to you. She is agreeable and she does not compete with you. If she tries to compete with you or she does not respect your authority, that's a red flag. Do not proceed in that case. 2) You are the primary earner or at least she does not out-earn you on a consistent basis. If she earns more than you, she will develop disrespect for you (a sad fact). So if she is richer or a higher earner, that's a red flag (even though it is her fault). 3) She is feminine and she makes you feel masculine. She boosts your confidence. She shows that she is attracted to you. If she had relationships with men before and some of those men were more attractive than you, then she will miss them during her marriage with you and she will treat with poorly because she will not be attractive to you. That's why it is always better to marry a virgin. If she slept around, that's a red flag. 4) She is truthful and honest with you. She does not try hide anything or act secretive. If she demands privacy (during relationship) if you want to check her phone, that's a red flag. She is hiding something. 5) She and you are on the same page on views about relationship, having children, and how to bring up children. And you two are compatible in eating habits, sleeping habits, politics and religion. Hopefully s*xually compatible too. If you have any serious incompatibility, and it cannot be resolved, that's a red flag. 6) She is financially and life-discipline-wise responsible. Any addiction (such as drinking) is a red flag. If she eats irresponsibly and got fat, then that's a red flag. If she spends her money irresponsibly and does not want to reform, that's a red flag. 7) Make sure she is at least a bit social (has at least 1 close friend). Make sure she has good relationship with both her parents. Observe her family, her siblings, her closest friends. What kind of people are they? Observe how her mother treats her father. Observe her relationship with her father and siblings. If her friends are promiscuous, she was or will be too. Make sure she has no male friends that she must keep contact with during her marriage. You need do a thorough background check on her, and look for red flags. 8) Observe her how she treats your family and friends. Also observe how she treats common people in the service industry (restaurant workers etc). Any disrespect is a red flag. 9) She is emotionally stable. She does not make your life hard with various emotional tactics. You must not feel like you have to talk carefully with her. You should feel like interacting with her is easy and not fraught with risk of conflict. 10) She puts family (i.e. obligations to her husband and kids) above her career. Otherwise its a red flag.

[@fishnchips9541]

All your points are valid ,but a woman wanting to progress in career should not be a red flag. As a spouse you should support your spouses personal ambitions ,provided she is loyal ,helpful and cooperative and understanding wife.

[@fishnchips9541]

No one should have authority and upper hand in relationship. My husband is smarter ,more intelligent than me. He climbed the ladder of success in professional world and makes more money than me. He guides me and advices me . But I never felt insecure or less worthy than him. He always appreciates my efforts and contributions in our marriage. I am good in arts and linguistics ,he always praises my talents. He taught me cooking and now when I recreate his recipes he praises me. We balance out each other and enjoy our companionship. People should learn a thing or two from him

[@rayrwyr]

@@fishnchips9541 -- Your relationship is working because you think he is better than you and you feel safe and content about that. So you accept his leadership.

[@jayasrimanoharanm2976]

Another level confidence to literally post tis online😂

[@priyankamondal1769]

Domination is the biggest red flag for marriage, both the side of male and female. Respect is the key point and also understanding. If you can't respect other one u will be disrespected. Tit for tat. Every human being deserve respect. Stop spreading alpha and beta mentality.

[@vishaldoijode219]

Good to see #DeepikaBhardwaj in public space spreading awareness .

[@anukulthakur5679]

Oh this Red flag, green flag sh*it is getting out of hand....😂. Want solution.. Do not hurry for marriage. Take your time with the person you are in love right now. It is really difficult to know how someone's behaviour will change in future, just have a clear conversation about each other's past, what are your priorities now and what are your ambitions. For me an independent woman is never a problem, never..❤ Life is unpredictable, what if anything happens to me after few years of marriage. I don't want her to live a miserable life 💔. So Women should be independent. But here comes a thing "most independent Women wants to run away from their responsibility, responsibility of a woman. I'm not talking about just cooking, ofcourse your husband should and must help you in cooking, doing dishes etc .... Men and women have some predefined roles that we must obey and should never complain...Just like, a man look after his family even after his professional work hour. Just look at your father (say you have a working mother)does he ever complain about going Market, bringing gas cylinder, 20 kg rice bag all by himself (😂 don't laugh), fixing minor electric faults, changing car tyres, or does he ever say no when he has to stay away from house to get the job done (not because of his profession but because of family). Men don't say let's split this 50/50. I know these are small things but don't we men do that. What I'm trying to say is efforts have to be made from both sides, if you (man/woman) are still childish then don't hurry..... Educate yourself about the value of opposite gender in your life. I do believe in love with all my heart ❤. I will try my best to be a good husband. A good woman seek love & respect from her man and guess what, I'm full of love 😂. I will treat her like a queen 👑. When a girl will choose to marry me then that's it, i must become the person she wants in her life. She is leaving her house, her perents, her comfort zone, why??? Because she choose to stay with me, I'm her first priority now and not her parents. What more can i ask??❤ The best thing i can do, i must do is making her realise that she didn't choose the wrong person. I will take stand for her in every situation (when she is not wrong). Why should she suffer for the mistake she never did? I will never cheat on her, never. No one can see their partner in another person's arm....💔..... The one who cheats is going to hell for sure. So being a man i have a request to all the ladies here, don't judge all of us. I know times have changed, woman wants to work, you want to be independent so that no can manipulate you. ❤ But don't you think today's men are also not like their ancestors anymore. What i see on social media is "Women judging today's men for how women had to suffer in the past". This hurts 💔. I mean what can we do now.......If something is stopping you (women) in today's world is your family and no one else. You have all the rights, don't you? You will find bad men/women everywhere. Just don't be judgemental. Don't hate the opposite gender, don't let anyone to ruin your perspective of opposite gender. MEN vs WOMEN mindset will destroy the very essence of life. Please be respectful ❤

[@dharmeshkumar2916]

Most importantly..there should be love for each other...then all issues can be resolved

[@ankit_s]

The biggest red flag when a girl is faking her persona .... behaving like she is cute innocent submissive but that's just a fake personality to get you into the train....if she is not real it's a huge red flag

[@eaglemgtow2789]

ABSOLUTELY MY MAN

[@rayrwyr]

I agree. That's why a man needs to closely observe in many different situations for at least 1 year. check her background in detail. All her past relationships should be known to you. Talk to her ex boyfriends. Women are very good actors.

[@faizaanazam]

what happens then?

[@Nitya-r86]

@@rayrwyr It isn't just the women doing this. Men also do this faking thing. Men are also very good at portraying themselves to be someone they're not. I'm not defending women here, just saying that this behavioral trait isn't gender specific. I know of several matrimonial cases where the men have faked their salary, their property details, crucial info about hereditary disease in their family...so yeah, background checks should happen for both the sexes.

[@Nitya-r86]

Yeah, this is a red flag. I agree.

[@Gatoradeia]

She came prepared with red flags😂

[@tarunmalik301]

See these days most the girls don't want to fall in love What she is talking abt if she is in love with u or not But u wanna have some good time, u gotta spend some money buddy Everything has a price!!!

[@madhugj8645]

we need gender neutral laws asap in india.

[@MARBLETIMESMAGZINE2024]

Solid Content

[@shahp84]

2:59 totally agree 💯

[@anirbanroy8601]

Forget scammers the one sided laws in Indian Judicial system needs to change. It needs to be balanced not one sided. Asking for equality while keeping the law imbalanced cannot work, which is the basis of judiciary, one of the prime pillars of Indian democratic societal system.

[@realm9007]

I am an introvert and also dont have any friends. I call myself a redflag

[@Chandansingh19788]

You are not red flag bro if you are beating your wife this is red flag If you have a lot of anger inside you then you fight with anyone over small things. This is a red flag 1. if you are beating your wife 2. If you have lots of anger inside you fight with anyone over small things.

[@AshTheDuke]

2:27 dear men, just avoid your girl from meeting your friends, who knows your guy friends might steal her from you (bitter truth) as soon as they find out they will follow her on instagram and starts to text her

[@sowmyamurthy5232]

Only solution for this never ending war, ladies, stay single, you live only once, be independent! In today's world, everything is so mechanical. No attention is given to emotions, subtleties, ... Why get caught in this jungle, get married, move to your "matrimonial" home, lose your peace. Let there be a phase where marriage stops happening in this world. No relationships. Only men and women cohabiting without any sort of bond! 😂😅 Best right?!

[@OmPrakash-mn9xr]

That's what the Westerners are following, and have almost lost the concept of a family, and the responsibility towards the upcoming generation. This will significantly reduce the culture and values of human race.

[@rayrwyr]

A women's life's primary purpose in terms of evolution: 1) Find a competent man worthy of her submission 2) Submit to him and get married 3) Support him and boost him in his purpose and work 4) Enjoy his masculine energy. Have ess-e-ex to satisfy his zexual needs. 5) Create a comfortable home for him to come to every day after his hard work for the family. 6) Bear his children and rear the children Women who do that are the ones with lot of happiness and fulfilment. Feminists above age 50 all bitterly regret that did not fulfil their life's primary purpose. They are lonely, depressed and they live a life of regrets.

[@itshallpass]

​@@rayrwyrMen ☕

[@PureRythm]

Agar Red Flag wali ladkiyon ko dur rakhne ke Liye mujhe yeh Karne padega...toh Khushi Khushi karunga. You are absolutely right, guys, stay single...stay happy...✌️🙌

[@riyarajan5817]

​@@rayrwyrbhai sahab kya aadmi hai tu🤣🤣🤣

[@PuzzlesForMind]

All of these red flags are also found in males . Infact men want expensive gifts in this age . Their parents want that the girl should handover entire salary then what must be done ?

[@priyarajan5748]

Feminist spotted 😁😁you cant digest truth about women. Ego women

[@utkarshkamthankar]

Great Video 🙂🙂🙂

[@ARUNKUMARVERMA1]

One gives his or her views Not of all Because all are different from each other

[@gentech21]

I completely agree what she said precisely at the end balanced gender neutral law should be made & strictly enforced.....

[@anonybuzz1706]

Ab to relationship me v scammers aa chuke hai, sayad esi ka naam kalyug hai...🤔

[@Shalini7448]

Biggest red flag is..... Men😊

[@terroristrepublicofpakista902]

Thank you 😂

[@chumtuntungkhang7985]

And you , gold digger+ infinite red flag

[@branbro4724]

Exactly Like your father 😁

[@MindsetWithAmit]

Very informative, something which is not being talked generally. Men should also be careful 😊👍🏻

[@achievers7061]

Kash Sushant Singh Rajput kou v rhea ka red flags dikh jata tou sayad aaj woh jinda hota.

[@varij9282]

Now a days Women's are the biggest red flag btw

[@khushigola-ty8en]

When meeting a new person initially, as women, we often feel a sense of fear that the other person might be a kidnapper or take advantage of us. This is why we prefer to arrange meetings with guys in specific places, such as a particular cafe or location. Living in Delhi, known as the "rape capital," I take these precautions to protect myself. How is that considered a red flag?

[@Champ-v9i]

Bhai india aur western ka conditions bahut alag hai andrew tate ne western women ke liye ye sab bola tha so i somewhat agree with andrew tate

[@ShivamKumar-vf1bi]

Hey guys... I am going through a really bad time right now. I had a girlfriend who was getting married; we were both in a living relationship, and suddenly all this happened. I can't do anything because the boy is a software engineer for a good company, so he is an absolutely perfect boy for the family. I also thought about it and then felt that his salary is much more than mine, so 100% he will give her a better future. Right now, there is only struggle in my life. But now I know that talks have started between them, and the families have accepted everything. This is the reason, but now I don't have any friends with whom I can share this because I know there is no benefit in saying it; if I tell my friends, then they will make fun of me. Please, someone talk to me, friend. Being an introvert, typing this message for me is a very big thing. I want to share my feelings because I am feeling very strange alone. I know you might find this funny and immature, but trust me, this is very tough for me. Please, someone talk to me.

[@Viral757_]

omg.. she's so beautiful ☘☘

[@dipeshyadav7952]

Biggest redflag: Never date a girl who has a male best friend

[@sonalim9589]

I am actually dominating and don't listen but I'm a very loving, affectionate and caring girlfriend.

[@priyarajan5748]

Who care😁😁😁??? Men dont you

[@chinmayee1004]

Moral of the conversation ..... Koi green flag nhi hai ...sab red hi hain 🙂🙂

[@renukabhat8014]

Oh mam then men don't do these things on dating apps.You talk only nonsense about women.

[@devverma_]

Thank you so much ma'am and thank you so much sir...🙏🙏❤️

[@ammrutapaalo]

Iss kalyug mein I am looking for Ram. I am the red flag

[@Navaz-j8o]

yaha pe bhi attention seek karna bandh karo, kya matlab.'

[@rayrwyr]

Are you as good as Sita?

[@PureRythm]

SITA kehlane layak ho??

[@ammrutapaalo]

@@PureRythm wo toh ram hi bataenge

[@terroristrepublicofpakista902]

​@@ammrutapaaloSita Nehi ho tum😂I am ram

[@govindraut9737]

Yar Kitna sahi points rakhi hai.

[@ridhamatri9447]

Mad respect for Deepika mam 🙏

[@aspirantexam01234]

ये सारा गुण मेरे मा बाप भाई बहन सभी में है। समाज के हर इंसान मे ये सारा गुण दिख रहा है

[@sandycreates7797]

Another red flag is when you are not having eye contact when someone is talking to you. I hope people understand what I mean.

[@blue_568]

Nah 🤔

[@sandycreates7797]

@@blue_568 Look how Raj is buzy writing down when Deepika is speaking

[@prajaktalulu2055]

The one thing which i found irritating is, why is his head down while she is explaning all these points. Bro if you can't listen/pay attention then please stop doing these podcasts. She is explaining so nicely n i dont know what u r writing or making some bullshit notes.

[@cyberdevils5685]

Big Life Lesson For Me, Who is Bachelor.. 😳😳😳🙆🙆🙆

[@anandsingh4071]

koi bhi friend ni hai ye jada bhut jada friend hai is red flag😂