Major Red Flags In Women - BE CAREFUL | Explained By Deepika Bhardwaj | Raj Shamani Clips

[@nashwararai8110]

Men or Women : Not respecting each other is a big red flag, Not accepting a mistakes,,.. There are so many signs you will feel it's not right but still we think it's a small thing let's ignore but Never ignore red flags it will become biggest thing in future

[@thecontrarycontrarian4230]

We need to educate men about female mentality

[@vikashmaurya7033]

​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230right

[@drnaishadhpatel4399]

Respect should always be above love

[@anindian6557]

​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230same to men

[@Carziest_guy]

Same to women also​@@thecontrarycontrarian4230

[@ChintanCG]

hope the scammers dont watch this and improve their techniques 🤣

[@musicEnergy-r5b]

😂😂

[@Blue__Strawberries]

😆

[@MaxCSEprep2406]

😂

[@Amrikhalder]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@tigerjeetsingh8440]

😂😂

[@mememan6111]

As a single guy who never dated women, can relate and confirm that every flag is red 🗿👍

[@omanajz]

You have conjunctivitis my friend Jk 😜

[@ankushpaul3671]

😂😂😂

[@rahuldeovatsa]

Your hand has also became red

[@roshnirajvansh2012]

😂😂😂

[@abhinandankainth4127]

Hum bhai hum

[@aayushibirla2590]

watching this to check If I am a red flag 🥲🥲

[@kunalkashyap6382]

So r u a red flag?

[@aayushibirla2590]

no

[@Ayushiiing]

Same

[@lakshmisubramanian9233]

Yeah to improvise your game to deceive the men available better.

[@kunalkashyap6382]

@@aayushibirla2590 good

[@MessiahManiac]

This lady is doing god's work 💪🙏

[@Aries32]

One thing i disagree ..." koi kitna bhi introvert ho friends toh hote hi hai"... i think only an introvert understand how untrue that is ... i live alone in my apartment paying double rent ... but still dont want to have roommate just for having a peace at home ... why cant we normalise not having friends .. not everybody like to enjoy company of others .. I never had any romantic relationship in my life and i am 27 years old with zero friends ... at my workplace also i dont talk much and just do my everyday tasks and come back home where i live alone ... i dont complain about not having friends because i am not putting any efforts in making one ... with more people in your life you attract more drama too .. if any guy think that is a red flag .. i am better off alone than involving myself with a mindset which is simply not aware of the peace you can have by being alone ..

[@exploringmyselfmore8910]

Same, when she said ki introvert logo le bhi dost hote h i disagree, kyunki main bhi intro hun or mera koi dost ni hai, hm yr nhi ho pate comfortable, iska mtlb hm red flag hue wow😀, mtlb jo bakwas krte hai fake bnke ghte h, ya logo ki jaan ke tarif krte h wo real, or jo real h unko dba do or hslo unpe, hm red flag hi ache h

[@Aries32]

@@exploringmyselfmore8910 exactly .. anybody who thinks that having less friends is a red flag .. they themselves are big red flag for me ..

[@Innocentabhi12]

She is right. You must be a psycho

[@subhampal8477]

I think you should atleast have 1-2 real people with whom you can connect. It makes you a better person.

[@Manobalan7]

@@subhampal8477 not everyone gets that so called REAL people...

[@Dr.SwarnimaSrivastava]

Green flags in women- 1) she feels sad that you didn't call or text. 2) she talks about future too, not just waiting for proposal. She keeps you in her future. 3) listens to you, not just hears. 4) she remembers details about your likes and dislikes. 5) asks about your family, shows involvement in your family problems. 6) spends money at times, stops you from spending if you are overdoing for her. 7) she talks about having children, about having a home with you, not just house. 8) she is career oriented girl, takes intellectual decision and not an emotional fool because in long run, her decision making power will impact your life a lot, so think wisely. 9) she gets uncomfortable if you get cosy with some girl and maintains physical distance with her colleagues and male friends. 10) she let's you take the lead but also guides you if you are going wrong 11) doesn't belittle you if you are earning less than her. 12) talks about her family, about the details. 13) is able to cry and be vulnerable infront of you 14) takes active participation in your problems and tries to solve them. 15) last but not the least, your intuition will tell you if she is the right one. Trust your intuition, same applies for girls. Ek feeling toh aati hai yaar andar se if she really loves you or not. Pata chalta hai yaar bus hum uss feeling ko ignore karte hein.

[@utsavgupta5781]

Nice

[@gauravsharma-eh7sz]

hume dono hi nahi chahiye na red na green . Its better to be alone for good . Itna dimaag lagane ki zarurat hi padegi

[@GTH4121]

Such women exist in Utopia, not in reality.

[@Heredocumentingmylife]

Great points will remember ✌

[@tiyasabhattacharjee9279]

​@@GTH4121 they do exist. But now a days most men want party going girls. They will tag a loyal girl as "bahenji". Aur baad mei jab wo 10 laundo k saath ghumne wali ladki emotional blackmail karna start karein then men say that all girls r like this. Aise kaise chalega?

[@KrishnaKhandelwal15]

Raj is noting down all the points , and He is like "ye to mere sath bhi ho raha ".. 😂

[@danCK1990]

Dude I wish I could super like this comment 😂😂😂😂

[@sizzlingschumi9005]

Ya ho chuka hai

[@Vighnesh92]

You are funny 😂

[@rohanroy3602]

i want to include one thing that if a girl is fake means her character is not real , she change her personality at every moment that means it's a red flag .

[@gautamanant380]

If you want to date Give her time for change.if you fell changes in her that fine if you fell same as previous then she is lier

[@rajatchakraborty6381]

U have got this bro

[@Potato-me4wu]

Character is different thing personality is different first tell what u wanna say 💀

[@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls]

Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy.

[@fishnchips9541]

It was always like this . Saree gehne ki demand lalchi Chachi mami,Tai log humesha bhi karti thi. Bas ab cheezein badh gayi hai. Aj kal sabko chahiye foreign vacations ,mehenga phone ,gold and diamond ,fancy dates ,anniversary ,birthday ,dhanteras Mai mehenge gifts

[@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls]

@@fishnchips9541 True. 💯✅ Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+ all never married and we all are very happy. 🙏

[@PureRythm]

@@fishnchips9541 lekin pehle agar hum woh Pura na kar paye Kisi Karan ki wajah se, toh chalta tha. Aaj agar hum woh Pura na kar paye, toh hamare against case ho sakte hai...that's the main concern.

[@Vaishnav5880]

Ekdam​@@fishnchips9541

[@sameerkapadia3709]

Tho apna paani kaha nikaal na if we have to stay single

[@prakastha1111]

Dont get married dont enter in any kind of relationships Live for your parents and fulfill your own and their dreams Thats it you will be happy 😄

[@mayur5860]

But at certain point will be alone and that will kill you..... everyone gets busy in their job and work

[@maddy5838]

I think there is a concept called Death which happened to our grandparents and which will happen to our parents also, So keep struggling and keep surviving.

[@Obitothesimp]

Pretty narrow view.

[@sm5467]

Still it is risky, even your new neighbour (female) can file a false rape case against u to steal your wealth & property.

[@Itachi-no5xf]

"You have become what you are fighting against."

[@YoursAman...]

Being a Man, I agree with Deepika Bhardwaj that having well balanced respect , opportunities and etc ; in both the genders are equal rights for all 😊...

[@Ishhha_4_]

Introverts with no friends are not red flags 🙂 I usually don't comment but mujhe point kafi ajib laga...kuyki main personally intro huu...aur koi friends mere hain nahi....pehle 3,4 the ...but because of them life me bohut sare drama and all start ho gaya...and mujhe kahina kahi feel huya...mai unke sath baat to kar rahi hu lekin koi mujhe bariki se sun nahi raha samjh nahi raha..... I am a geek now with no social media... no friends...nothing... kabhi kabhi desires hote hain...hangout karna bahar jake...but then i remembered k those toxic friends who used to treat me like a shit....😔 Main ne sath diye unka but unhone mereko blame karke block kar diye k ...mai time to time unka halat nahi puchthi...

[@gsk523]

agreed

[@ManishKothi]

Mujhe lgta h To some period of extent introvert are giving up in every conversation that they can sensible handle...pretty easily.. like 'yeah yeah u r right' the end.....not every conversation creates conflict I guess.. Introvert ka deep connection kisi se itna ban hi nhi pata zyada tar...less explorative, less expressive, weakness in one on one convo....

[@Ishhha_4_]

@@ManishKothi mmmm agreed 👍

[@purisrariyat1049]

Absolutely same condition.... but tragedy is....iam a boy..

[@dannystark7668]

Hi👋​@@Ishhha_4_

[@iamitabh]

Never have i ever seen a woman this balanced with her opinions!! Queen talks only, no bullshit whatsoever.

[@user-rb4lv4if9q]

Got very frustrated when my in laws and husband tried to make me cut ties with my parents being the single child

[@humansgonnadiesooner]

You know what to cut if they don't understand that parents sabke hote hai. Wish you strength 🙏

[@mohan555p3s]

Just move on!! it's not too late so divorce him and find a true partner with supportive in laws 😊 don't forget to take share of property and demand huge alimony just enjoy and live for yourself and not to please others

[@nancysingh1928]

Being single child you obviously cannot cut ties with your parents.... that's so wrong! But these things should be addressed at the time of marriage only....not after that...

[@AshishPanthee62]

Noone force to totally cut ur relationship with parents Aurato ka victim card kabhi khatam nahi hota

[@afrozairin8438]

​@@AshishPanthee62who told you this?

[@gurunguns06]

She is Rockstar and doing good work. 🎉

[@prakastha1111]

The biggest red flag is that any person doesn't want to meet your friends siblings or loved one They are afraid of introducing themselves as your person

[@thuptenene9606]

It important to know how ur GF/Fiancee/Wife treats her own father ..Not from perspective of Love but from perspective of Respect.

[@drnaishadhpatel4399]

Yes .valid point how she behaves with her own parents tells so much about her

[@Nitya-r86]

Nope it isn't. What if the woman's father has mistreated her/abused her? You expect a woman like that to show respect to her father? Do you even realize what you're saying? There are MANY fathers out there who sexually objectify/ abuse their daughters! You know, just because you cannot relate to something, does not mean it does not happen. I'd strongly suggest getting out of that 'frog in the well' mentality.

[@Nitya-r86]

@@drnaishadhpatel4399 No it does not. Sure there could be entitled /badly behaved ones out there who ill-treat their parents, but it does not ALWAYS have to be that way. How she treats her parents could in a lot of cases, tell more about how she has been treated by her parents than about her as a person. Stop being so judgemental.

[@GalaxyImpact200]

​@@Nitya-r86no mam that's not a general case ...there have been a lot of cases where narcissistic or abusive women treat their parents very badly ...yes I am not denying that many fathers abuse their daughters ..that's true ..but here we are talking in a general sense ...deepika mam has dealt with a lot of cases and she is telling all of this from her experience and has seen things like this ....and also just because you got abused by someone ..that does not give you the license to abuse another person ..for both boys and girls

[@Lilomen_AD]

​​@@Nitya-r86you think my father was toxic? He was a army colonel put me and my brother into a strong discipline life and soclded me sometimes for my mistake but he also praised me at the same time. This is not a mistreatment this is teaching you about real life because no father would ever want their daughter to suffer

[@RB09X]

Kudos to her for standing up for men.

[@adiroxlife]

Not having a friend is not a red flag . Sometimes those u trust break your trust or u loose friends.

[@aastham8782]

Agreed with her for like 98%. Just in the beginning when she said ki 'When a girl asks you to meet, or is forthcoming then it's a red flag'. I don't find this thing to be a red flag. Why can't a girl take a first move and ask to meet if she is interested in him? Also if she is asking you to meet in a specific place, can't that specific place be a peaceful cafe or restaurant?

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

When a woman approaches a man, the first thing a man does is check for the cameras. Because lets be honest, women do NOT approach men due to their preconceived notions that "men don't like easy women", "men like to chase", or due to losing the power in the relaitonship by initiating.

[@a.r.2006]

I think what she meant is like you know each for like a week or less,you want to have a meeting.

[@riscnx]

Because girls usually don't do that. And when they do that there is usually bad intentions. To be precise it's not a red-flag it's a safety precaution. But there is also one more angle, maybe she is doing it with multiple guys, so she wants to maintain her schedule with precision.

[@a.r.2006]

@@riscnx Maybe it's your experience which formed this opinion. I don't blame you. Our Legal framework is bias towards women(those who know abused it)

[@karmthakkar8475]

She is saying for fake rape angle and not dating in general

[@MonikaD________l]

such a well spoken woman. so thoughtful and calm.

[@pratikbhaumik2748]

shaddi ke baad red flag dhundke kya faida.

[@ollyvidic8912]

😂😂😂

[@corporate.hitman]

Zindagi hi red zone me chala gaya fir toh

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

bachke raho bhai, Tigers ke bad married men are the most endangered species on Earth.

[@himanshuutube]

Exactly. Ye sari cheezo pe research shadi se pehle honi chahiye

[@pavanjoshi6732]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kunalbanerjee5562]

If someone wants to follow these red flags, he will remain single forever. But yes, Madam said every point correct.

[@big0561]

*সহমত 😂*

[@RudraStorm34]

its better to be single then going for such partner

[@rayrwyr]

When a woman (with some red flags) gets married to a strong dominating (but fair, competent, and kind) husband who puts boundaries for her and he does not tolerate any of her BS, then the same woman falls in line. She starts to respect the husband and starts to obey him. Marriage becomes happy for both. Keyword is strength. He must be strong. She must know and believe that if she does not obey him, he will divorce her without delay, no matter the cost.

[@mohan555p3s]

​@@rayrwyrbro such girls will be waiting for divorce man they are gonna get half property and will demand huge alimony and even can file domestic violence(498a) fake rape cases on you guys and demand more money 😢

[@poovanna4284]

​@@RudraStorm34like Salman khan

[@maitreyeechakimoi8501]

Agree with all points.... that's a very transparent video about Red flags

[@Devra380]

Apka casual relationships par kya opinion hai?.. No insult intended just want to know the opinion of girls

[@shutkirti]

I'm a girl and I'll tell u my pov. See casual relationships are okay if it is casual from both the sides, not like one is deepmin love n wants a long time relationship n a future n the other does not and just casual and enjoying the current relationship. I personally am not into casual because I date to marry, casual is just timepass what's the point of dating casually if u do not want something with them in the future? Explore but not like ki ek Jan ke saath itne din the u got bored broke up and dusre ke saath chale gaye​@@Devra380

[@rohanmatts3076]

It is like main hoon na moment Madam- friends sbke hote Me (extreme introvert & don't like fake person)- sabke ni hote😅😅😅😅😅

[@keerthynair5961]

😂

[@niveditapathak6513]

This is not true for the golden child of narcissistic parents. Most men have raja beta syndrome and they dont see the red flags in their own parents and siblings. Basic needs of the bahu are projected as demands. It gets really messy. What they want is a codependent female who has really put up with anything for the sake of being accepted as achi bahu. Atleast by Indian standards an achi bahu is someone who lets you walk on her with a smile. Dont let that happen. If you see signs of abuse its ok to leave. Be the red flag there. Its fine.

[@blue_7008]

Agreed sis 👍🏻

[@Devra380]

​@@blue_7008 itna bhi nhi ki walk on.. Bas video me jitna hai utna hi.. Usse jyada expected nhi.

[@smolkitti8147]

So true

[@Nitya-r86]

100% true. I'm particularly impressed by the last line. 'Be the red flag'. These men who expect 'perfection' from women must first be ready to show what they're bringing to the table.

[@GalaxyImpact200]

Ye toh Alag hi topic hai ....and where do you get this thing that men have raja beta syndrome ....may be you have some anecdotal evidence but that may not be the objective reality

[@BiprajitBose-qg3qm]

Maine 3 girls ko date kia hain or mein itna tou batahi saktahu ki ACHI LADKI MILNA BOHOT MUSHKIL HAIN..💔

[@vlogtypea3201]

Dating 3 Girls really proves nothing about all girls

[@Nitya-r86]

Agar aapne 3 girls ko date kiya aur kisi ko bhi aap pasand nahi aaye toh shayad aap achche ladke nahi hain :D Angoor khatte hain waali story suni hi hogi na? Aapka wahi case lag raha hai. Ladkiyon ke baare me kisi nishkarsh par pohochne ke pehle ek baar ye zaroor jaach le ki aapka kya contribution tha us dynamic me.

[@kalintripathi4769]

​​@@Nitya-r86aunty ji aapko kaise pta ki problem usme hai ladki me nhi kuch me irrationally defend na kro....how could you conclude it...

[@Nitya-r86]

@@kalintripathi4769 Uncle ji aapko kaise pata ki problem ladki me hi hai, ladke me nahi? Aapne kaise assume kiya ki ladka masoom hi hoga?

[@kalintripathi4769]

@@Nitya-r86 ladke ne bataya. Aur aapke paas koi bhi valid reason nhi ladke ki baat ko jhoot manne ka.. Agr prejudice ho tb baat alg hai...

[@reshamp7282]

1. If she did not respect parents since start, or just as a part of her nature then its a red flag, but if there were many many attempts from her side but in laws troubled her got hurt and felt disrespected and she stopped talking to them then its obviously acceptable. 2. If both of you are earning and both are helping out in household chores, even then if she makes you take expenses, its a big red flat, but if she is responsible for household chores without much help from husband, then he tales financial responsibilities then it's normal. 3. If she threatens for filing fale case just bcoz her luxurious demands or gifts are not met, then big red flag. 4. If she threatens for suicide, big red flag and she genuinely needs medical help too. Involve both side families and handle this issue asap.

[@Suhanyy8]

A sensible comment indeed

[@Lilomen_AD]

My dad is a commandore in IAF He always gave me freedom but also put me in a strict discipline life style Did MMA, learn cooking, how to polish my shoes Focus on my studies Scolded and punished me when I did something wrong same with my brother but awarded me like when I did something good not always academics but like there was a girl who used to get bullied because she has a huge birthmark on her face and I stood up for her my teachers complain a lot but didn't get angry Instead he bought me a new gloves which I wanted for birthday for mma and his lines were I love you really how use your power to save a victim instead of joining oppressors. You did a good job. My father also loved my mother to bits she also they have fights but knew how to talk it out and discuss it. My brother used to make fun of me but when I was in trouble he always stood up like a wall to protect me. I love and respect my brother and dad And I also expect the man to love his parents and respect them.

[@thuptenene9606]

My wife of 5 years left me…Now I m scared to start a relationship with opposite sex.

[@rayrwyr]

You should be scared of marrying. Have relationship but always watch for all red flags.

[@raghavnamasivayam8706]

​@@rayrwyr relationsip is for marriage stop justifying casual relationships

[@daviddexter25]

toh kya same sex ke sath sex karga lol🤣🤣🤣

[@milas615]

Ldkiya to dhokebaz hoti h ap Boyfriend bna lo

[@Rahul-lv3ft]

true bro i too been with decent girls around but its scary to observe how they run things in ur absence an every other girls is doing the same thing from the girls i came across now its really challenging to think of marriage an have a peaceful life with the girls of these days not having integirity with the one partner they have an love them idk why do they want all them they know or dont know want to give a damn to them ! there is no peace at all these days after a few months of travel together an comming to know that they are dating multiple men an the other men talking to the girl sexually with whom we r an she is enjoying it lol what is this great depression has this advancement in technology an communication an mobiles have got us in to in this modern 21 century ,i felt theres no love its all calculaion going in the society the love comes only after the calculations equates for the girl over boy but the only love i seen an observed was of no calculations was from animals an pets an stray animals which we feed occasionally an the love of the parents where we dont see much of calculations over their love on the kids

[@daisylakra5141]

For the family part I feel m red flag.. But I tried to maintain but.. I failed😅

[@rohitraghavan7552]

Beware of narcissists. They seem perfect at the beginning but things go downhill within a couple of months. Don't share a lot of information too early.

[@poonam2352]

1. She doesn’t wanna bond with parents - no woman is mad to not want to bond with his parents for no reason. There must be some disrespect and crossing of boundaries. She has all the right to chose to keep her mental health intact 2. Not pitching in equally with finances - we expect women to uphold such high standards, while men are not taught to deal with women with such high standards. When will you talk about men having to pitch in equally with household chores? When you discuss a topic, have a 360 degree view on the same. Don’t make generic statements like a moron

[@mad_titanthanos]

She's absolutely level headed and balanced

[@rashisahu0311]

By the way feminism was never about women against men. It was about a battle against patriarchy and stereotypes. Feminism advocate rights of so-called weaker sex that patriarchy tried to suppress.

[@sourabhkumar3852]

Feminism is a western concept which is not applicable on eastern countries.. it has now become a cult..

[@sourabhkumar3852]

But all women are still searching for rich men for marriage.. Isn't that patriarchy ?

[@VarunTomee-kr6nf]

Feminism was always against men and men hate propoganda which thinks that women should get more and more privileges and women is always victim and cannot be abusers.it was never been about equality it about special treatment.

[@VarunTomee-kr6nf]

If women are oppressed them why women commit heinous crimes?

[@Obitothesimp]

Didi yaha feminism ki toh baat hi nahi ho rahi yaha red flags ki ho rahi hai

[@Nithin-kumar-N]

When you are in relationship. You will be blind which you should not be.

[@Legendineous]

Completely wrong. Lot of people from both the genders don't have friends nor they have ideal parents. Lot of Indians are depressed coz of no real connection with anyone. You will ruminate and remain single forever, not all points are correct. Now before you look for love - 1. Keep your aura and energies clean and protected. Raise your instinct and awareness. Be highly conscious and self aware. Don't engage in causal s*x and protect your core. (All this will help when your relationship has started) 2. Don't look for love. When your karma is clear, you are ready and destined, you may meet the person unexpectedly. (The instincts that you raised will help you in understanding if the person is destined for you or not) 3. Keep yourself first to retain self-love but have love, respect, kindness and the heart to choose each other everyday over all your friends, family and kids. That's the only way love will last long till old age. (Small sacrifices everyday but you don't feel regret in your heart, probably you aren't doing anything wrong and that's the right person) Lastly give it enough time to test the equation, dynamics of two personalities coming together, values, vibe around the person before saying 'Yes'. I gave it 1 year. (Remember, the slower it starts, the longer it lasts) ❤

[@mujahidhasan4720]

दीपिका जी,आपने महनत तो की ही है आप तो एकदम प्रैक्टिकल है | सच्चा इनसान ही यह सब बोल सकता है | यह सच ही है कि लडकी कमाते हुए भी सब जिम्मेदारी लडको पर रखती है | यह बिगाड में बडा रोल अदा करती है|

[@bikashnayak9311]

Yaha log Red flag , Green flag kar rahe hai - meri zindagi black flag pe hai 😂

[@kingkunal5294]

Same here❤

[@sohelsk3553n]

Congratulations 😂

[@veenajinandra7192]

😂😂 very well said

[@afrozairin8438]

😂😂😂

[@debdutta9234]

Assassin's Creed

[@GabbarKooner]

Video to dekhli maine🤗 ab to leader bn jaunga na pakka 👍

[@rajnimurmu3047]

😂😂

[@GabbarKooner]

@rajnimurmu3047 you also became leader ?

[@RajanOverseas]

Raj - You are a star. Much much better than others. I truly like your podcasts.

[@Starwar99421]

The biggest red flag is having male or female best friends ho skta ha wo apko uske bare me bhai ya behen bolke btaye

[@khushboobhardwaj-sp8wp]

some do have male friends who she actually considers as brothers and the other side as sister as well so that a boundary is created.

[@mayank64723]

Plot-twist of *HUM TUMHARE HAIN SANAM* Srk-madhuri-salman trio. Sallu, madhuri's best friend will give srk testimony, that how their friendship is so pure. And being srk, the husband has to believe sallu's words. Otherwise, he may lose his wife madhuri.

[@anirbanroy8601]

Forget scammers the one sided laws in Indian Judicial system needs to change. It needs to be balanced not one sided. Asking for equality while keeping the law imbalanced cannot work, which is the basis of judiciary, one of the prime pillars of Indian democratic societal system.

[@ashishgurjar8681]

Shamani bhai note kr rhe hai khud ke liye 😂😂😂

[@AounGujjar2005]

😂😂😂😂

[@dharmeshkumar2916]

Most importantly..there should be love for each other...then all issues can be resolved

[@pallavisaini4121]

Being a girl i completely relate and agree with each and everything she said ❤

[@parnikabhatnagar8666]

I just realised I'm a red flag myself in my relationship with my husband. I have a bad equation with his parents but it wasn't intentional. I am in a cross cultural marriage. They had high expectations from me.

[@kunalloveful]

Pehle kyun nhi release kiya ye video. Already with a Red flag nhi but red carpet hai

[@rayrwyr]

Sorry to know. Be strong. Women respect strength and they punish weakness. She must respect you. Otherwise both of you will be unhappy.

[@Nitya-r86]

Koi baat nahi...agar shaadi nahi hui hai toh samjha bujha ke pind chudwa lo. There are plenty of good women out there too. Focus on living you best life and improving yourself, and the right one will come along.

[@AshTheDuke]

2:27 dear men, just avoid your girl from meeting your friends, who knows your guy friends might steal her from you (bitter truth) as soon as they find out they will follow her on instagram and starts to text her

[@GyaanaNayak]

Then mera friend bura nehi kyon ki jab tak tum ganda nehi dikhaoge tab tak koi bi ladka ganda nehi mara sakta bf se pucha ke baat kiya tha bf ke friends se ye to bhota bada red flag hai😂😂

[@kama10073]

She is an admirable women.

[@badrinathsahu9771]

Saying from my personal experience I have seem all the red flags in one person and thanks to my luck she left me 😂 Jaan chuti .....Bala tali 😅

[@keerthynair5961]

😂😂

[@mandarp9472]

In Pune wife killed husband for not taking her to Dubai on trip.

[@Nitya-r86]

That's unfortunate and sad, and the woman should be punished. However, I do hope you're also talking about the countless women who are killed by their husbands and in-laws for dowry.

[@terroristrepublicofpakista902]

​@@Nitya-r86and there is countless men who are killed by womens

[@sourabhkumar3852]

@@Nitya-r86 he is talking about a heinous crime done by a woman.. pls do not change the topic.. this is not a saas bahu serial or gossip channel..let's raise our voice for the helpless men who are suffering because of their wives..

[@Nitya-r86]

@@sourabhkumar3852 Well, if you read my comment, I very clearly stated that the girl should be punished. I spoke for the abused men as well as abused women. What did you do? No need to get triggered for no rhyme or reason. It certainly isn't a saas bahu channel, but you are surely working hard to make it one.

[@njfuk888]

Man was weak died in one punch

[@Kevin-xb4zv]

Stay single stay forever happy ❤

[@ashapriya7240]

Now i understood that i am a complete green flag😂

[@Lohit-u8b]

👏👌

[@Monster-mc8rm]

God knows 💀

[@shaikhfarheen8342]

2:39 agreed completely....no doubt about that...I am introvert but still I have close friend like my sister and 1 or 2 friend

[@venktesh6600]

Many red flags mentioned are subjective, they may not be so all the time.

[@nityaneelakantan9203]

True.

[@Nitya-r86]

True. Happy to finally see a 'sane' comment.

[@ridhamatri9447]

Mad respect for Deepika mam 🙏

[@apurbaghosh5046]

Only solution, just focus on your own life boys, you get this chance to live a human life once, don't waste it

[@Debashis-wb5eg]

Focus on your life and you will get what you deserve

[@gentech21]

I completely agree what she said precisely at the end balanced gender neutral law should be made & strictly enforced.....

[@Thenoviceinvestors]

If girl is forthcoming thats red flag? What nonsense... Janne ke liye milna hi padta hai na... Aunty shut up

[@Bhawana7777]

Vo stranger ki baat Kar rahi hai sabse kon milta Hain ?

[@sushantlohani8091]

That was online dates ... and she has seen the harsh realities in Courts. It's up to you to loosen your guard.

[@arakshp]

To add to those points, many women today has 2 lives, one real & other online life where she posts dancing on item songs or vulgar pictures or complaining videos of her ex. This is also a redflag as it remains forever online & anybody can use it in anyway. Also social media mostly favours women as she gets more attention, support, sympathy unlike men. This kind of women don't hesitate to spill their personal life online if some silly fight happens in their relationship.

[@dreamsdesires]

Don't marry these kind of women, simple. You just need one sane women to marry.

[@anurag123B]

As a Retired Boyfriend and a Current Husband, I totally disagree with these red flags. 😂😂😂😂

[@raghavnamasivayam8706]

Wanting sex relationships without knowing isn't a red flag

[@heisenberg9595]

Maybe for you but these are the red flags in most men's eyes

[@nitinengineer]

Pre Nuptial Agreement With both the Parties Dully Signed with Proper Witness in presence of Advocate & Affidavit presented in Court is a Must for Guys willing to get Married Nowadays...

[@Jyoti-Shah4]

My father is also a red flag actually a red carpet 😂...but my mother have to cope up with him every single day 😢

[@avijitroc4518]

Toh chhod apne baap ko tu or Teri maa , mtlb baap ke paiso pe chalna bhi h or red flag bhi bolna h , admi pasand nhi lekin uska Paisa chahiye

[@vishaldoijode219]

Good to see #DeepikaBhardwaj in public space spreading awareness .

[@rohansaini6867]

First and foremost it is utterly a very Personal Choice that a Person introduce his/her family to their Girlfriend or Boyfriend. May be their family is very conservative or may be their is a huge gap between living standard of both of them.

[@shahp84]

2:59 totally agree 💯

[@DD21934]

People call woman like me a red flag and toxic feminist who don't want to live with guys parents.....why?

[@nancysingh1928]

If you don't want to live with your in - law parents, then who would take care of them in the time of need, who will cater to their needs.....do you also want your son to leave you alone and live a separate life after his marriage with his wife..... Think about all the efforts you will have to put into your son while growing him up and then a woman comes and take your son away for life and you are just left alone in your old age....how will you feel ?? Are you even comfortable with your bhai and bhabhi leaving your mother & father alone?? Who will take care of your mom & dad if your brother and sister-in-law leave them alone..... I don't think children should leave parents alone in their old age at any cost because they are the one who have given their time & energy for growing us and now, it is our time to take care of them and give them love, support and care... because old age is itself a curse.....we as youngsters can't even think how things change with our parents when they turn old ....their health....their thinking abilities.... everything changes....we should definitely not leave them alone at such a vulnerable time....❤

[@suryakantapradhan6935]

Thank you sir, this is very informative

[@Omnamahshivay8079]

Great work Raj Shamani. I think you've a new fan with this profound video. It's very rare to see such nuanced podcasts on this platform these days . As far as Deepika ji , goes , she's truly a beacon of equality in today's society. Not for men or women, specifically, but for all genders. It's sad , hearing the cruelty men have been subjected to by women today. A crippled judiciary, failing to come to terms with what's happening in society today. And women and their families who know how to game the system . Sad

[@Khushi_R9]

As a female, I totally agree with her.

[@RonnyS.1900]

That's actually so true, my Ex gf used to compare me with her ex and used to say that her ex was not like this or he was caring and stuff when she used to fight 😢 and no wonder why she left me and got a new bf in a month after breaking up 😂. She was such a hoe 😢

[@HarshitaPattnayak]

And for marriage expectations are from men How much they are earning? I feel this is wrong too. Some time parents also see overall financial background of groom's family.

[@rinidmoron]

Some women are way too smart though. She said and did everything she said in the 1st half of the video before getting married and then after marriage did and said everything she said in the 2nd half of the video. This is how a lot of men used to scam women back in the day but now a lot of women have started doing this too. So choosing the right person is totally up to you. Women with red flags usually get all the attention by men themselves, while they are ignoring the a women with green flags and when things fall apart they have nowhere left to go.

[@Nitya-r86]

Hmm...true.

[@sourabhkumar3852]

Yeah most of the women are doing these scams and men need to be very careful and investigate properly before entering into a relationship..

[@rinidmoron]

@@sourabhkumar3852 not most, that's not what I said.

[@Nitya-r86]

@@rinidmoron Glad you clarified the 'most' part.

[@Nitya-r86]

@@sourabhkumar3852 You seem to be a woman-hater or at the very least, someone who harbors a lot of resentment against women. Don't twist what others say to suit your convenience. You just exposed yourself with your comment.

[@prathameshjoshi9478]

My wife checks all the boxes. Still happily married for 10 years Happy me and her. You can't judge anybody unless you stay with them for at least six months. Nobody is a constant reg flag. Love changes everything. ❤

[@u1302-s5n]

Great Video 🙂🙂🙂

[@madhugj8645]

we need gender neutral laws asap in india.

[@rayrwyr]

When a woman with some red flags gets married to a strong (who is dominating and yet fair, competent, and kind) husband who puts boundaries for her and he does not tolerate any of her BS, then the same woman falls in line. She starts to respect the husband and starts to obey him. Marriage becomes happy for both. Keyword is strength. He must be strong. She must know and believe that if she crosses the boundaries, he will divorce her without delay, no matter the cost.

[@050138]

Truer words haven't been spoken.... 🙌 Female energy is a bit turbulent and all over the place.... Checks and balances are must and man should assert this

[@daddy-w6o5]

The last line of your comment ,"No matter the cost of divorce" is itself a big red flag. We all know how fake dowry harrasment cases by wives against their innocent husbands ruin them, both financially and mentally. Giving your working ex wife maintenance or alimony after a failed marriage is the biggest loophole women can enjoy. Anyways my point is I'M NOT GOING TO GIVE MY MONEY to any hoe, I would rather remain unmarried

[@PureRythm]

So true. The top comment on this video by some "Nava" is trying to justify Red Flags in favor of women...no wonder men are suffering so much in this country.

[@VC-dz5wl]

"He will divorce her".... Man that's not easy as you say. She doesn't agree for mutual divorce. You have prove her Cruelty if you want to divorce but proving cruelty is very very difficult in our judiciary.

[@rayrwyr]

@@VC-dz5wl -- Ok good point. I left India for US at a young age and India does not allow "no-fault divorce" which is a good thing because in US, wives are divorcing their perfectly good husbands for no reasons (just out of boredom). It seems wives (but not husbands) get bored with their current spouses after 5-10 years of marriage and start cheating and divorcing.

[@devverma_]

Thank you so much ma'am and thank you so much sir...🙏🙏❤️

[@rabbekapp01776]

Biggest redflag of woman is her bodycount, never ever marry someone who’s into casual relationships

[@moinakmazumdar6464]

Mad respect for this lady....So much sensible.

[@MARBLETIMESMAGZINE2024]

Solid Content

[@RohitSharma-on1ye]

Yeh point ke hisab se to 99% girls aa jayengi

[@danielsardar9676]

Very true

[@hi_vishy]

Make divorce laws easier.

[@saketpanigrahi]

I am not an expert in this regard but i can say one thing that if you proceed with auch learned rules its not going to work. Life teaches you so much its not an easy journey and those lessons are important yo have. This rules are like making you lazy to think. We are human and Social beings we have the required skills to identify people. All we need is some bad experience. So get immunity from your personal experience and not through vaccination. 😂

[@theunpredictable6]

Observe the actions don't fall for words 🤞

[@HiDibakar]

What's Suprising is Now We Need to Listen to These Basic Instincts as an Expert Advice Because Men Have Lowered Their Standards So Much

[@govindraut9737]

Yar Kitna sahi points rakhi hai.

[@anuragkumartiwary3825]

This whole conversation i felt they were talking about China😂( Red Flag)

[@MindsetWithAmit]

Very informative, something which is not being talked generally. Men should also be careful 😊👍🏻

[@sowmyamurthy5232]

Only solution for this never ending war, ladies, stay single, you live only once, be independent! In today's world, everything is so mechanical. No attention is given to emotions, subtleties, ... Why get caught in this jungle, get married, move to your "matrimonial" home, lose your peace. Let there be a phase where marriage stops happening in this world. No relationships. Only men and women cohabiting without any sort of bond! 😂😅 Best right?!

[@OmPrakash-mn9xr]

That's what the Westerners are following, and have almost lost the concept of a family, and the responsibility towards the upcoming generation. This will significantly reduce the culture and values of human race.

[@rayrwyr]

A women's life's primary purpose in terms of evolution: 1) Find a competent man worthy of her submission 2) Submit to him and get married 3) Support him and boost him in his purpose and work 4) Enjoy his masculine energy. Have ess-e-ex to satisfy his zexual needs. 5) Create a comfortable home for him to come to every day after his hard work for the family. 6) Bear his children and rear the children Women who do that are the ones with lot of happiness and fulfilment. Feminists above age 50 all bitterly regret that did not fulfil their life's primary purpose. They are lonely, depressed and they live a life of regrets.

[@itshallpass]

​@@rayrwyrMen ☕

[@PureRythm]

Agar Red Flag wali ladkiyon ko dur rakhne ke Liye mujhe yeh Karne padega...toh Khushi Khushi karunga. You are absolutely right, guys, stay single...stay happy...✌️🙌

[@riyarajan5817]

​@@rayrwyrbhai sahab kya aadmi hai tu🤣🤣🤣

[@abhishekthakur8657]

She is very very right

[@anukulthakur5679]

Oh this Red flag, green flag sh*it is getting out of hand....😂. Want solution.. Do not hurry for marriage. Take your time with the person you are in love right now. It is really difficult to know how someone's behaviour will change in future, just have a clear conversation about each other's past, what are your priorities now and what are your ambitions. For me an independent woman is never a problem, never..❤ Life is unpredictable, what if anything happens to me after few years of marriage. I don't want her to live a miserable life 💔. So Women should be independent. But here comes a thing "most independent Women wants to run away from their responsibility, responsibility of a woman. I'm not talking about just cooking, ofcourse your husband should and must help you in cooking, doing dishes etc .... Men and women have some predefined roles that we must obey and should never complain...Just like, a man look after his family even after his professional work hour. Just look at your father (say you have a working mother)does he ever complain about going Market, bringing gas cylinder, 20 kg rice bag all by himself (😂 don't laugh), fixing minor electric faults, changing car tyres, or does he ever say no when he has to stay away from house to get the job done (not because of his profession but because of family). Men don't say let's split this 50/50. I know these are small things but don't we men do that. What I'm trying to say is efforts have to be made from both sides, if you (man/woman) are still childish then don't hurry..... Educate yourself about the value of opposite gender in your life. I do believe in love with all my heart ❤. I will try my best to be a good husband. A good woman seek love & respect from her man and guess what, I'm full of love 😂. I will treat her like a queen 👑. When a girl will choose to marry me then that's it, i must become the person she wants in her life. She is leaving her house, her perents, her comfort zone, why??? Because she choose to stay with me, I'm her first priority now and not her parents. What more can i ask??❤ The best thing i can do, i must do is making her realise that she didn't choose the wrong person. I will take stand for her in every situation (when she is not wrong). Why should she suffer for the mistake she never did? I will never cheat on her, never. No one can see their partner in another person's arm....💔..... The one who cheats is going to hell for sure. So being a man i have a request to all the ladies here, don't judge all of us. I know times have changed, woman wants to work, you want to be independent so that no can manipulate you. ❤ But don't you think today's men are also not like their ancestors anymore. What i see on social media is "Women judging today's men for how women had to suffer in the past". This hurts 💔. I mean what can we do now.......If something is stopping you (women) in today's world is your family and no one else. You have all the rights, don't you? You will find bad men/women everywhere. Just don't be judgemental. Don't hate the opposite gender, don't let anyone to ruin your perspective of opposite gender. MEN vs WOMEN mindset will destroy the very essence of life. Please be respectful ❤

[@gitawrongtranslation-youtu9701]

1:36 if have past relationships - have someone to compare

[@SBclasses710]

Biggest one is having male best friend...

[@kundanvasava3073]

😂😂😂

[@ARUNKUMARVERMA1]

One gives his or her views Not of all Because all are different from each other

[@victoryv116]

She is those pick me girls ..but funny still you will not get male customers 😉😉 she is like pearly things

[@PureRythm]

Here comes the Red flag she's talking about in the video...welcome, Aapka hi intezaar tha. Kitne ladko ka kaat diya hai aaj tak...??🤦😂

[@victoryv116]

@@PureRythm then you should have avoided it , comment karne ki kya jarurat ..? You just need validation for insecurities that's all

[@himantapathak3989]

Found the narcissist here with lack of empathy. You wouldn't have commented here if you don't have insecurities. Clearly projecting.

[@shreyashreya1328]

Then u are too pi k me for feminist awww 😂😂😂😂​@@victoryv116

[@SK-hg3pt]

Disgusting woman spotted. Shame on you!

[@sonalim9589]

I am actually dominating and don't listen but I'm a very loving, affectionate and caring girlfriend.

[@priyarajan5748]

Who care😁😁😁??? Men dont you