Do circumstances matter? No they fucking don’t! 😂😂 Love it!! ❤️❤️
@Iris11music Жыл бұрын
This was like a SLAP in the face. But was SO NEEDED. "LOVE YOURSELF FIRST." That's the 'secret' of it all. ... Thank you Natalie.
@ItsVarezen Жыл бұрын
I’m seeing a trend of coaches just being bluntly honest to the point of even using curse words which I absolutely love because for me those words drive home points. It means you’re not screwing around anymore and you’re not trying to pacify people and you’re not trying to stroke their hair and tell them they’re pretty. It is you doling out tough love. You are spot on and it’s funny because just before I watched your video I was saying to myself, “I don’t appreciate the behavior that I’m getting from my person. I have been focusing very hard on myself and my children and if he wants to show up, he better show up right or he better not show up at all.” I put boundaries up on our last phone call and I’m not tolerating anymore garbage. And the first thing I did after I told myself that was a watched your video of you, saying the exact same thing. Some people have the belief that they have to “love” themselves by bubble baths and shopping trips, or be romantically in love with themselves and to some that is seen as being selfish. And well sure those things I mentioned were nice that’s not quite what that means but it’s more like respecting yourself. Do you respect yourself enough to leave a situation that is no longer serving you are you respecting yourself enough to not tolerate the bullshit. And people need to learn how to respect themselves first. I have friends that are in the mindset that they have to be enamored with themselves in order to have what they want and they don’t think that’s fair and I’m trying to explain to them it’s not hearts and love and roses to yourself… it’s do you respect yourself and the respect is what you need and that makes people go. “Oh I get it.” And it’s been a hard lesson for me too because there is one person that I truly love and we keep getting drawn towards each other and I do love this human being very much very deeply, but so long as he continues to treat me like a I’m around to fill in the gaps and nothing more then I am not really valued and he can go scratch his ass as far as I’m concerned.
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Wow! Michelle lovely thank you for your words! Let’s inspire everyone and yes it’s time for some tough love at times! And i don’t just do that on KZbin it’s with clients and why? Because I like the other coaches want you all to win! Sending love and hugs to you gorgeous inspiration xxxx
@christinamantelmusic503 ай бұрын
As always: you are amazing! And it works incredibly well ❤
@jenniferalbrecht2967 Жыл бұрын
You’re ABSOLUTELY right Natalie!! We’ve got to quit wavering!! Know OUR worth! Thank you for the rant! As ALWAYS, You’re AWESOME!! ❤
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Thank you xxxxx
@talithakehoe7633 Жыл бұрын
Great great great thank you. ❤️
@ckcksunsun Жыл бұрын
Dear Natalie, this is one of your absolute greatest videos!! Super clear and to the point!!
@roszannakarunaratne443 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I really needed this ❤
@michelledehaen8997 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Natalie I needed to hear this 👍💥💯👌
@LilyGrist Жыл бұрын
Please start putting meditations/affirmations/rampages on Spotify! I would love to be able to listen to you whilst driving/in the background etc🙏🏼🙏🏼
@jesscogger5096 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Natalie I need this right now
@luc9658 Жыл бұрын
❤❤ thank you 🙏✨😘
@annadrawsnow Жыл бұрын
Wow so helpful! If you notice that you are wavering or doubting your manifestation drop it & go back to selflove! ❤Thank you so much Natalie ❤
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome lovely xxx
@nataliak8106 Жыл бұрын
I’m manifesting my visa for 12 months and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong 😢 I’m focused, praying, visualizing… etc
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Let it go now! Focus on where you want to be with the visa and let it go
@richparker9968 Жыл бұрын
I'm having trouble getting off the rollercoaster! 🎢
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
It’s all a practice start to put the focus on you lovely xx
@katelynnotero3068 Жыл бұрын
Have faith in yourself and stay consistent
@talithakehoe7633 Жыл бұрын
Start by writing letters to yourself everyday telling yourself how loving lovable you are and how highly you regard yourself.. Keep going until it hardens into fact. Because it is fact!
@NostalgicNathan Жыл бұрын
2:47 💩 got real when Natalie curses 🤬 I FELT that to the CORE! Thanks for the rampage reminder, you help me believe that it’s possible!!! I’m getting my man back!
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Nathan xx
@tanyajapel88 Жыл бұрын
This video has kicked me up the arse!! The way you delivered this with a healthy punch has made me take more accountability of my self concept and I WILL have what I desire and manifest ❤
@rozendahendrickse7962 Жыл бұрын
Awesome! You are so right! Thanks so much! ❤️💚🇿🇦🥰
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Always beautiful xxxx
@jo-justjo Жыл бұрын
Heard it 5 times .❤️❤️❤️
@johntcooke95 Жыл бұрын
Natalie, you needed to give your rant, I needed to hear your rant. Win-win 😊 Thank you for your energy and time 🙏
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!
@phynekat Жыл бұрын
Loving yourself first completely without reservation brings the love, manifestation abundance that you desire/deserve! Hold yourself accountable ,do the work ,no more excuses! You have the power to achieve anything when you focus on you. Know your worth!! Thank you Natalie ❤️
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Woooohooo! Love this Mark
@ElizabethAClark Жыл бұрын
This was well needed for me!! Thank you Natalie!!!
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Always xxxxxx
@radiatepositivity3643 Жыл бұрын
So true! For the past 1 month trying to manifest my SP but my faith keeps wavering between yes he will come no he won't come. This unwavering faith is what is keeping him away from me I guess. Key is to have unwavering faith and absolute certainty!
@asia11118 Жыл бұрын
You are just absolutely amazing ❤️ Thank you!🙏🏼
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
❤️
@asia11118 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Honestly you are 🙏🏼💖
@starsilvia Жыл бұрын
Thank you Natalie, this gaves me so much Energy ...back to myself!! 🙏🏾💖💃🏽
@RandomthoughtswithKay Жыл бұрын
This appeared in the most divine time!🙏🏾 Thank you!
@jc27790 Жыл бұрын
This video is lifesaver!! ❤
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@jc27790 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing!!
@chasemckay9090 Жыл бұрын
You know I needed to hear this exactly the way you’ve explained. Thank you!
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
❤️
@sp-nh7rf Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@sarit_36 Жыл бұрын
That's what I decided ,I am thaking abreak from my sp and foucing on myself.Thank you natalie for the remainder .💖
@Jelly1986. Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am so much better than a year ago when I didn’t have any self love anymore… but I am getting back on track ❤
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Well done you xxx
@Iris11music Жыл бұрын
... this has become one of my favorite videos ever.
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@saksami11 ай бұрын
@natalie: Natalie, I just have to tell you this..! 😄 I'd only come across this video of yours and as I listened through it, I knew.. As I did briefly mentioned 2 months ago that I think we could be good friends/travel buddies.. 😃 Out of every one, any one, you had to mention *Michael Jordan ! Perfect Example! He is truly my Role Model.. 💗
@andrewlendrum3466 Жыл бұрын
Love it Natalie!
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Ha ha I knew you would! Ha ha see you Thursday!
@andrewlendrum3466 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop MJ FOREVER! ❤️
@mikeslim7599 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Natalie 👌
@grahamanderson7717 Жыл бұрын
I Love this. I’m so glad I found your Chanel. This is the advice I need Btw you are very pretty. I figured it doesn’t hurt to pay a compliment .
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Thank you on both accounts xx
@grahamanderson7717 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop I’ve wrote out what I want I’m Feeling very empowered these days Thank you. 👍
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
❤️
@grahamanderson7717 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️💪🏻
@silverlionstrengthfitness1072 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣HELL YEA!!! I love you! 😉🌈❤
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Love you back and your mojo ❤️
@silverlionstrengthfitness1072 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop 😉
@debracausey7375 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for another great video ❤
@sinaoscar9881 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful Natalie, this is exactly what I need. Working on my self- concept. I again let my insecurities ruin another relationship. He was so into me but I kept having self-limiting beliefs and pushed him away. I desperately need your self-worth workshop but I’m a single mum of two and can’t not afford it right now. Waiting for your courses to go on sale so I can finally work on myself. Much love ❤thank you for sharing your knowledge. You have helped me so much and can’t wait to work with you xxx
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Check it out Thursday ❤️
@sinaoscar9881 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop can’t wait, thank you ♥️
@thehappychakra2579 Жыл бұрын
It’s already mine! 🤗
@katepowell3624 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@katepowell3624 Жыл бұрын
I needed that pep talk!
@user-sq3hs5su6l Жыл бұрын
I have no doubts I can have what I want, but apart from that I am not really clear what does it mean to “be what you want to have”.
I have a question. I have a SP, who I know I want. However, I also know for a fact she has mental health issues which has meant she has treated me very badly. Should I manifest a person who is a potential narcissist and who may hurt me?
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop7 ай бұрын
I would focus on a self love healing practice first the. Make the decision!
@interviewacceleratorcoach8268 Жыл бұрын
The problem is none of the coaches you mentioned talk about the fact that self concept is about feeling safe in our body , nobody talks about it
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Self love is knowing your worth and therefore feeling safe in who you are. Knowing that who you are and what you think of you matters more than what anyone thinks
@interviewacceleratorcoach8268 Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop yes this is true yet I am curious what do you think about the idea that we all have stored trauma in our body which is what creates the illusion of feeling unworthy in the first place. The trauma needs to be released from the body (through sitting in the feelings and sensations in our body and releasing stored trauma) ?
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Totally! You have to revisit to release it! That’s exactly what I guide people with my transformation therapy. It’s hard at times but the end result so bloody rewarding
@chrissodora6457 Жыл бұрын
What about if the sp i attracted is a narcissist? I've leveled up with my SC and when I did he has been no contact for 10 weeks .
@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Жыл бұрын
Listen to the video over and over again
@Sportsguyshow Жыл бұрын
Hi Natalie, great video as always. In the post on your channel and other law of attraction coaches KZbin channel I would comment and post about my journey of manifesting SP which is taking 3+ to become a reality. She works in a restaurant where I do delivery driving which is not my career choice. I am in no contact with her I am blocked on social media by her before in the past we would have a great conversation between us but she put me 2nd since she was with a crazy evil 3P whom she told me she was living my whole intention was really to help her out get out of horrible abusive relationship. Now I know that circumstance doesn't matter I am just writing it in this comment to put everything in proactive. From her I never received the love that I deserve from her in public In private she was open with her feelings towards me telling me that she loves me and wants to be with we were more like very good then in a relationship since she was with that abusive SP at the time. Recently I decided to really focus on myself and do less manifesting with being with her. And really working on my own self concept. I've decided even though I like this SP and I believe she and that evil 3P are no longer together. Instead of going to try and go to see her she needs to reach out to me. I've decided That I am no longer ever going to be accepted as a 2nd choice not receiving the love that I deserve being lie to and not receiving the love and attention that I deserve in public. This SP even though I have feelings for her I am absolutely done accepting anything less then what I deserve either her very best version show up to me treating me like the number one choice and only number one giving me the love and respect that I deserve putting me first. And if she isn't willing or capable of doing that is totally fine. As by my working on my self concept being my very best version I open the door to truly receive the deep love and attention that I deserve. I used to tell my family I only want to be this SP but instead i tell them I am only willing to accept what I deserve and besides my life is very important I have dreams and goals that I want to accomplish I am done waiting for this SP she shows up like I expect her to great otherwise I will end up with a,different great lady. As I am truly becoming magnetic and irresistible which very beautifully I'm starting to see it in my dreams.