Ranking weirdly specific red flags in men (aka my fiance)

[@MissMangoButt]

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[@Tropihearts]

Who checks notifications everyday to see if she's posted 🖐

[@ephinyus]

I'm a 40 something Ajumma, who LOVES her Samsung. 🤣🤣

[@ロレッタウォーレン]

Hey MissMangoButt or Stephanie Is it a red flag if a guy who just started being friends with you six days ago keep asking to date you?

[@khadija5893]

We NEED a part 2!!

[@miyi_11]

​@@ロレッタウォーレン SIX DAYS?? DANGG

[@y2m3e.45]

A big red flag for me is when a guy acts different when it's just the two of you from when it's a group setting.

[@iloveicecream127]

Oh my gawwdddd YES GIRL AMEEENNNNNN

[@iwasneverreal4314]

It would depend on how different he acts like if he acts disrespectful in a group and not when it's just us then yeah 🚩 but if it's just me different personality around others then around me it's not that bad

[@faitodeyo7019]

As long as the two personalities don’t contradict each other I’m fine with it because I mean if I’m the partner I hope I’m not being treated like literally anyone else.

[@faithschwartz8619]

Aka Complicated by Avril Lavigne

[@zontzooit2415]

This only seems like a red flag if the way they act is toxic/bad… if they get nervous or more extroverted then who cares fr

[@ze__nan___de]

We all need stephanie and her family in our lives

[@zkcitap]

Stephanie is so naturally funny and that why I love her channel

[@tuxedo_ri]

to me she’s walking definition of social butterfly 🧚🏽‍♀️

[@nilsaximena8014]

dandan’s perm hair still gets me every time

[@charlieg3041]

Looking like a f boy

[@akailahsalazar6757]

he looks handsome tho

[@DARIMDARIMDA]

RIGHT😭it’s so cute

[@ThankU4Existing]

Rightt

[@farzaneh163]

As a Samsung user I was not ready for the attack 😭😂😂😂😂 You should definitely do the girls version this was so fun

[@laurennieee]

Same😭 i am sensitive so that lowkey offended me... pls don't judge lol.

[@millimilli8]

ikr even i have an android

[@nahimgood4]

I used to be an android user and not the ones people usually have, I had a SHITTY one and I was pretty much fine w it, now I have an iPhone and still don’t understand all the judgment android users get, I think it’s mostly an ongoing joke tbh

[@DinamitaLife]

right!! iphones are pretty but are so expensive here, samsung has expensive phones but also affordable ones that work pretty great!

[@Zombina638]

@@DinamitaLife 😬

[@zaink.7243]

y'all are so fun! a general red flag: men who have never given a single thought to questioning how/what they've been taught growing up/as adults.

[@brakattack3824]

That's 100% a red flag for me for all humans lol

[@pandehoe984]

Yesss and then defending themselves with “this is how i’ve been taught. I’m sorry you cant accept that” 🖕🏼

[@iloveicecream127]

Isnt this true for everyone regardless of gender? Lol

[@zaink.7243]

@@iloveicecream127 true but for example, historically biased systems like white supremacy(racism) & patriarchy(sexism, queerphobia, misogyny, rigid gender roles, etc) means that some people need to reflect on more than others but yeah... everyone should do it.

[@iloveicecream127]

@@zaink.7243 I think white supremacy only applies to certain countries/society... And as a poc ive seen white people who are allies have a savior complex (due to white superiority) and therefore exhibit more racism than outright ignorant people. As for patriarchy that also applies to most but not all society. I guess in a matriarchy women should think more then. But yes I agree with you. It's generally a good idea to reflect on what ones learned.

[@jimenadelgado7207]

men who claim they're "alpha males" 💀💀

[@deaddumplings5565]

😩🤚

[@zara_2403]

BIG RED FLAG!🚩🚩🚩

[@hadrianhexe9603]

That aint a alpha, that's a would be r*apist

[@ychansluvv]

10 RED FLAGS!!!

[@the.anxious.girlboss]

I really don’t understand how DanDan doesn’t have a girlfriend he’s literally so sweet and funny and handsome and his laugh is adorable❤️

[@zaink.7243]

Maybe it’s the quizzing girls for no reason thing. he’s sweet but 👀

[@swhxradraws3397]

I feel like he’s just not rlly trying to get a girlfriend rn idk

[@tiny.jk97]

One of the world’s mysteries I guess? 👀

[@Potater95]

Not saying he's a bad person but you only get a snippet of personality. We personally don't know his faults or likenesses.

[@brakattack3824]

@@zaink.7243 what you mean

[@BTSChristineBonbon]

“You look like jungkook” “That’s a GREEN GREEN FLAG” LMAOOO NO CAP ✋

[@doremifasolalalaland]

I love how there’s a couch but Steph and DanDan always be sitting on the floor 😂

[@ashley_1898]

i sit on the floor too tho, its more comfortable for me tbh

[@herdiary7255]

The sofa was for background purposes HAHA

[@ly_sea]

It's an Asian thing haha 😭 the couch becomes a backrest

[@shah-nh7yo]

Just asian thing 😂😂

[@jinnychoi]

Sometimes I like to guess who the sponsor is before Stephanie announces it. Tell me why I was 100% confident that she was gonna say “The biggest red flag is…. NOT GOING TO THERAPY WITH BETTERHELP!” ☠️☠️

[@CuppycakeWillow]

I do this too, Stephanie has the best sponsor intros ever!

[@ado_dreams8576]

I do too but i pretty much fail everytime😅

[@TubeDeviant]

Red Flags: When people treat service and hospitality staff like shit. When people show a lack of or no empathy towards others or animals. Psychopathic/sociopathic behavior. People who have no problem hurting others in any and every way. Controlling behavior. People who cannot admit that they are wrong, who keep arguing even when they know they are wrong. Pathological liars. Gas lighting. Arrogance combined with ignorance. Egotism and narcissism. Selfishness, being self centered. Alcohol and drug addictions, along with addictions to other vices. Smoking, other obvious self destructive, time and money wasting habits.. (That also affect others around them..) People who virtue signal for the specific purpose of notoriety. People who flaunt their possessions because they feel that it defines who they are. Bad parents. (subjective, but I feel you can tell when a parent has no clue what they are doing.. Not that it's easy or simple) People who watch copious amounts of television and think that is reality. People who don't know how or are incapable of communicating openly and honestly. Stephanie, when she has been baaaadd... and needs to be punished.. O_O Politicians. People who value superficial aesthetics over actual substance. People who don't drive safely. People who have promiscuous sex to the point of getting/spreading disease(s), and getting unwanted pregnancies, and don't see anything wrong. Bad with finances and aren't trying to improve. People who don't try to change or aren't willing to change bad habits. People who constantly talk about others. People who don't tip because they are entitled. Toxic feminism/masculinity. Uncontrolled emotional outbursts. Lack of critical thinking. Animal abusers. Domestic abusers. People who burn 500 calories at 2:00am in a hotel with someone other than their significant other, otherwise known as.. cheaters.. And a whole lot more.. A lot of these are way past red flags, but.. haha

[@VidV]

even if my world is crumbling rn, you make me smile. Thank you Stephanie, ily

[@KL-eg9ou]

Smoking is a definite red flag. If my dude, gal, non binary love or friend can't stop smoking AROUND me, it's game over.

[@deaddumplings5565]

Yesssssssss😩🤌

[@gensbad98]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TK-cg4ks]

Exactly, considering more ppl die from second hand smoking than the smokers themselves.

[@coco-rn7vt]

i agree, that shit makes me unreasonably angry

[@V7sproperty]

This...if you want to smoke so badly then don't do it around me

[@monstaxbp5168]

talking about red flags my sisters long distance fiancé is ignoring her until she looses weight. Yet my sister is at a healthy weight and looks perfectly fine...

[@aliciaroelens2630]

i hope that fiancé is an EX fiancé now...

[@TheMaria232]

Yikes... Hope she reconsiders getting married to this guy 😬

[@brakattack3824]

I think she's been brain washed by him into liking him jeez

[@deaddumplings5565]

Oh no 🥺 hopefully things get better

[@janam2860]

ugh men are so entitled sometimes. your sister is so beautiful and she deserves better!

[@sydneym-y]

The biggest red flag I've ever seen is when people say "Just to play devil's advocate" in regards to any kind of human rights. Like no. There is no devils' advocate in human rights. You can see yourself out the door

[@naomiegoh3560]

dandan kills me 🤣 Stephanie: are you gay? Dandan: i'm not, but... Stephanie: no, you're doing too much

[@xinrann]

Thank you for covering the Kitty Genovese case. I was able to talk to my Psychology professor and hopefully our department can correct it in future curriculum. It has been used as a textbook example of bystander effect except the case itself was full of misinformation!

[@muniray3912]

Where did she cover it?

[@TK-cg4ks]

@@muniray3912 in a mukbang from a few months ago

[@muniray3912]

@@TK-cg4ks can you give me the title if you don’t mind please

[@xinrann]

@@muniray3912 kzbin.info/www/bejne/javap5qipJ6onNk

[@xinrann]

@@muniray3912 Fufu Mukbang| The Real Case of KITTY GENOVESE| "38 People Witnessed Her Murder & Didn't Do Anything"

[@violett874]

I love it when Stephanie acts like every male podcaster. It's so accurate😂

[@HorangiTae]

11:14 this is a damn red flag and if not then it is plain disrespectful. I experienced it before. I used to be a huge football fan from 2010-2014 but after that i kinda drifted off. So when I got into uni and once told two of my friends that i like football they aggressively started to ask me questions "who is real Madrid's coach" "how many laliga title they have" "name ten players". At first i started to answer and suddenly they ask me "tell me know scored the winning goal for el classico 2012-13 season" and i stopped. First of all, i didnt remember and second i felt like i was going through the whole university admission test process again. I was like are they trying to validate if what i said is true!!! And i told them off. I said something along the line "why should i answer these questions? I used to like football and i sometimes watch it now. I dont have to prove it to you. If you dont believe then dont." One of them immediately stopped and the other one tried to come up with excuses lol. Well he still is a red flag bcz he recently said that i got better marks from a male teacher bc im a girl and also said he believes im destined to be a housewife ( he said it in an offensive way and for reference i have completed my BA degree and about to get my MA degree so im qualified to have a job but not to him lol)

[@055sharmabhumi7]

No one: Absolutely no one: Not even Sophie: KZbin subtitles: "I got dan dan, Tiffany and my Beyonce"

[@karmalyn2954]

Stephanie has the smoothest transitions for her sponsorships

[@4starnoob]

OH heck nah, 3 Huge red flags for anyone who praises iPhones and apple products! Why do apple owners always have to bash and dog on android owners like bruhhh

[@fishtick]

no the "you're prettier" thing is a HUGE red flag! im trying to compliment another person, not test you! in fact, bringing up my looks when im not even talking abt it makes me feel kinda icky.

[@lee_yuhhh]

right!! it’s the inherent assumption that complimenting another woman means that you’re suddenly insecure and need to reassured. like, no

[@rrahoel]

We need more of these videos. Thanks for always bringing out our smiles. Love ya guys

[@mariachristian5842]

Did you get a new camera? The quality is so good on this video!!! The energy the four of you gives is what I need to get through the day☺️❤️

[@EpicKieran]

She’s using a different camera. 😊 She uses this one for her mukbungs and baking a mystery.

[@mariachristian5842]

@@EpicKieran oh i didn’t even realize that lol. but now that you mentioned it, i see it. thank you☺️

[@lerizzus]

i think they misunderstood the basketball thing, he’s just excited to know that they also like the sport so he starts asking them questions! just like how if i found out someone listens to kpop i’d start asking them questions to see if we have the same interests

[@zoe4481]

he said he also does the 'name the players' thing- although from the video it looks like he's willing to learn so he might be more conscious the next time he has a convo like that

[@katbland9149]

i met my current BF 6 years ago almost 7 years ago, we started dating about 5 almost 6 years ago. With that being said we both waiting over a year of actually dating before we said the words "i love you." we are both older though and both had relationships before where those words were used as manipulation. I would advocate for people waiting a year to say i love you. those are powerful words and you have you whole life to say them. Just wait, is my opinion.

[@yuli7458]

Thank you, right now I've been stressing about this because I'm dating someone and I can feel everything getting super intense very quickly. So I'm nervous is gonna just spill out of my mouth in a random moment because I don't wanna rush anything lol but yeah I should probably wait to see his bad parts before and how we are when we fight (because that hasn't happened yet)

[@maryn3606]

​@@yuli7458it's been a year on this comment. How did it go did u say the words?

[@zettesotero7879]

Thank you for making my day so much brighter! It's so hard to find comfort in dark times 🥺💕☺️

[@LuckyInWays]

Thank you for making my day brighter, Soo family! 🥰

[@ewjkn]

when you ask him what he likes about you and he just lists things that you do for him, always me me me and nothing about your personality etc.

[@bonezybonee]

The captions one is literally ableist ?!? Some people are hard of hearing or they’re like me and can’t understand what the people are saying without captions 😭😭

[@karmalyn2954]

Dandan's perm is a red flag..Boi out here looking like the pen pineapple apple pen man fr

[@gongtangjeu6673]

i agree with men quizzing women on her interests and getting very weird while quizzing her like i consider that a huge red flag lol

[@Sozzzled]

My ex bf asked me if i thought i was going to be famous, I said no, I asked him in return if he thought he would be, he pondered it and said "yeah, i think so".... OKAYYYY. And then maybe two weeks after he basically cheated (not quite, but he intended to) he asked me if he was a good boyfriend... this man was a stone cold narcissist...

[@Riventhesun]

The video just started but I can all really tell that its going to be a good video. Thank you for the upload Stephanie hope you all stay safe and take care.💜💜💜💜

[@himawarichan1141]

It instantly puts a smile on my face when I recieve notifications that you uploaded before my work shift, cuz I know that I won't be bored to start the day and you just spread joy to everyone and I won't feel lonely at all. I love the Soo Family. Thank you for existing and making every regular day special.

[@tiamelancholyjeoncockity]

‘your NOSE is my CHAIR’ it took me a while to understand what that meant cuz I misread it as ‘nose hair’ 💀

[@itsnoterica]

Your sun & moon pillows are so cute!!! 😩😩 giiirl we need an updated house tour esp the behind the scenes for your all of your backgrounds!

[@annejia5382]

14:03 Stephanie's impersonation is WAY TOO ACCURATE 😂😂😂

[@thewst1339]

her video ideas are never dry

[@omnikigai]

DanDan looks like he's learning so much and just happy to be there, always. Love all four of your energies, especially together!

[@InvisibleRen]

Asking me a question and then interrupting even I answer. Related to the “it’s a yes or no question” interruption. Giving Chad energy. AssUme energy. “I don’t care about nuance I just want to judge people on their identity and philosophy and likes” energy.

[@pinkywinky8121]

Another hilarious vlog. This squad never disappoints

[@rose_ugh]

I'm gonna need that couch's social security number and blood type.

[@artsyhyd]

MMB: “Ignorance is confidence!” 😂😂😂

[@morklee5759]

Your channel is getting more and more iconic

[@danieladalde2965]

Hii miss Stephanie. I'm binge watching all your old videos and I realized that I kinda miss your cooking challenges. Hope to see cooking videos in your new kitchen soon. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@alucio545]

Not the video we asked for, but the video we needed!😂

[@fairy.015]

23:37 fuuuuck i had this guy who i rejected flat out when he was tryna suggest we had more than what we had i said no, we're friends, i SEE YOU as a FRIEND and then he said "ok ur gonna think this is abt u but it's not.." THEN HE PROCEEDS TO GO ON A SPIEL ABT HOW ALL THE GIRL FRIENDS HE HAS HAD ONLY TREAT HIM AS A FRIEND !!!! I CANT ;A;

[@arianazaugg4480]

THAT COUCH BEHIND YOU IS UNREAL. WHERE CAN I GET ONE OF THOSE.

[@yenyen6752]

A guy called me wifey in the first few hours 💀✋🏼

[@trudelulu]

THE QUIZZING ONE GETS ON MY NERVES!! WHY YOU QUIZZING ME BRO? I said I like watching anime, why you mad I don't know about every anime in existence??? Also, the billionaire thing gets on my nerves bc again, men are predictable. If they want to be a billionaire, they're either: really into Elon Musk, really into stocks, or want to be Jay-Z and I don't have time for that.

[@yeji_]

stephanie: "just a disclaimer. i love men. not all men. .. just one man." LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@mare_bear9044]

Me trembling with my samsung in hand. 💀

[@LilGhostFan]

17:23 Those ripped jeans gave me flashbacks. It's so true, guys that wear these are definitely walking red flags. The guy was sliding into all of my best friends DMs. Such a loser.

[@aiaaia1624]

OMG EXCITED FOR THIS! WILL BE WATCHING AFTER MY QUIZ 🥰

[@rebeccaroxx9482]

Dan-Dans perm is loosening up, looks really good! I love these videos, and the baking a mystery is EVERYTHING! Please do more, I love the longer videos.❤️🤍❤️🤍

[@atimidbirb]

NOBODY SAID THE ULTIMATE RED FLAG When he unironically calls himself an ´alpha male´

[@NickySatiZaizen]

Yes!! The laughs we don’t know we need.

[@amyxuan]

i’m backing up dandan about the snapchat thing. snapchat was so popular back then and was normalized so it wasn’t weird lol

[@zandi_kwezi]

I'm glad I'm in the first few people to see this. Love from SA.❤️🇿🇦💯

[@lyna7125]

I GOT ONE OF THE BOOKS YOU DID FOR A BAM AND I LOVE IT❤️❤️❤️

[@BXNNYXK00K]

Even tho it’s an old vid it still makes me laugh we all need a Stephanie in our life frfr

[@erzascarletheartfilia6481]

Red flag for me when a guy likes you for years n u keep saying no but man won’t just won’t give up and when u don’t answer he’s text immediately n he hits up ur sister with “why is ur sister not answering the phone” that’s an immediate 📞 hello 911 for me

[@Gemd8]

In high school calling women females was literally the only way guys would refer to girls and it would truly get on my nerves!

[@anabonilla3406]

Men who breath 😂😭😭😭 Dan trying to hold his breath 💀

[@cinthya1521]

You always make my day biss, TYSM for giving us content 💖

[@marsrigger496]

i love watching your videos, i feel like im hanging out with friends for just the right amount of time.

[@bramey9596]

I always love to see dandan and his reactions in your videos 🥰

[@sadafs8627]

Oh this is going to be ✨ ENTERTAINING ✨

[@ojaswinichaudhari9854]

This video deservesssssssss part 2 i mean no seriously.....not only entertaining but educating like dan dan said 🤣🤣🤣

[@titehehe]

the biggest red flag for me is when a guy asks me out cause I prefer ladies

[@karmalyn2954]

The only youtuber I've been watching for yearssss that I just can't get enough of

[@karmalyn2954]

We need a video of you turning Tiffany into an abg

[@SimpIyIvan]

i swear its like stephanie knows what we think, biss rlly just pulled up

[@karmalyn2954]

It's almost 5am here in india and I'm so sleepy but stephanie just posted so sleep can wait!

[@epxsted721]

Omgg same

[@winter3089]

I use samsung... Gurl i feel personally attacked 😭ARE YOU CALLING ME AN AHJUSSI?!?!?! Like I ain't that old 😭 I'm 16 lol

[@jestic7542]

"men who order chicken fingers" why did I immediately think of jake peralta in b99 lmfaooooo

[@yuli8436]

I LOVE THE SUN PILLOW ITS SO CUTE

[@trish9159]

a big red flag for me is when men brag about how much money they have🙄

[@albalina]

please do girls red flag I've never heard of people talking about that, I know us girls are amazing but not all of us hahahah

[@bananaposo]

yea, barely any vids like that since they would get cancelled lmaooo

[@chuukensoop]

been waiting for an upload love you stephanie!!💗

[@dahyunisrice2339]

Is it blows my mind that some people are unfortunate to not know Stephanie like WHO else can provide the best content be at sponsors best podcasts and being personally part of my daily routine 😌 We love Stephanie your the best 💜❤️

[@thechosenpit]

“i love men… i don’t love men, i love one man” me

[@davelewis8270]

Her: I like basketball Me: oh fuck I don't know anything about sports

[@yesmi9001]

11:05 preach, the mnay times I told guys that I like wrestling and they start quizzing me and asking me to name a bunch of wrestlers to see if I recognize them.. or they would question if it was true of I just liked them bc they are hot. I swear major red flag

[@mingan3781]

This was so funny 😂 We definitely need to do the girl version!

[@janay5698]

I'm currently watching this to calm my anxious biss ass down at night. Thanks for your videos lovely, they help me a lot xx btw also moving back home at 25 and I am stressing the fuck out lol

[@yuli7458]

You'll be okay ❤ and things will work out in your favor 💐🥰 I'm also 25 and feel the same way while having moved out and then coming back home to my parents. But hey it's hard times right now for the whole world and if you have that option available might as well take it while you get your life in order💋 you are suuuper young!

[@kimipooh9556]

Sttteeeeephanie!!!!! Why’d you make me love you like this!! “Stephanie: 911 I found him 😂😂😂”

[@aliabdul1331]

Tbh the quizzer red flag is 100% stephiance

[@bloss6277]

omg so excited for the anonymous confessions vid ✨✨✨✨

[@hnyarah9367]

Biss, you always upload at the right time. Thank you for brightening up my day because it do be shitty in the past few days

[@raithebearr]

ONG THE QUEEN POSTED

[@hopevidrio1046]

I use captions but that’s cause my fat ass likes to eat snacks and I can’t hear the tv over the crunchy crunch

[@char6142]

Ppl need to realize that not everyone can afford Apple phones. And if they break it cost a lot to fix 😭😕

[@jjaayyy7]

Thank you Stephanie for introducing hopper to me! I used it to book my hotel room for BTS Land in Vegas and it saved me so much money!💜

[@vidrizzle5315]

WOOHHOOO I LOVE YOUR UPLOAD SCHEDULE SM

[@minieheart]

completely unrelated but i have like the exact same sunshine plushie tht stephanie has in the background loll