Rapid Ejaculation

[@lalobee]

"There's plenty of time to answer these questions, you know ... cause you already came" - it's this adoreable sense of humor that you transport even with topics that people consider sensitive that makes your channel absolutely worth watching. Thanks once again for a great episode. :)

[@patrickdallaire5972]

Wow I never thought of it that way. It's like someone turned on the lights. I've always been ashamed of this, like I couldn't master something essential and you're saying I'm normal? Like 33% of the population has it normal? Like evolutionary science might explain it normal? I can satisfy my partner with other methods and not be ashamed. As long as we're both satisfied, no matter how we achieved it or how long it took, I don't have to be ashamed. It should have been so obvious given my experiences. I was ashamed when I had no reason to be. Thank you so much Doc.

[@mattrodgers4878]

“What do you mean, your not finished????? We started at the same time!!!!!”

[@seanpatrick7497]

I’ve always been a premature/rapid ejactulator and this video was so reassuring. My wife and I will spend 15-20 minutes on foreplay to fulfill her needs. At that point, penetration lasts 30 seconds to one minute and we’re done. I feel no guilt, regret or shame. It’s what I am and I’m cool with it. 😊

[@rajadey4919]

I have the same thing. Premature ejaculate, this happens when you become too excited to control the situation.

[@sawgod33]

L

[@samstits8982]

Pathetic prejac :)

[@seanpatrick7497]

@Sam Stits Ouch! Cut me right to the quick Sam. 😉

[@adamtoth1956]

Great, that you are accepting yourself and adapting, so both of you can relax and enjoy sex. :)

[@hillcresthiker]

I hope everyone watching. realizes how talented, brilliant and personable this lady is- very few people- even intelligent ones- would have the ability to do these kind of videos.

[@demianhaki7598]

Great video! As soon as you get away from the idea of having to act out a certain script, everything becomes so much more relaxed and you just go with whatever is the case, with whatever is possible in that moment and with whatever feels good.

[@donfitzsimons6673]

Another round! Another round! No truer words were ever spoken: Anything you can do at all will get better with practice. So, practice, practice, practice.

[@demianhaki7598]

The "balance of power dynamics" really rings true. I found that the anxiety of being eager to please was a main reason for overexcitement etc. Obviously, since it's about power balance(!), one should not move into the opposite extreme.

[@Erikssmaria]

I would love to see a video about the pressure of orgasm. The norms that leads to people compromise with their sexuality by feeling that they have to fake it, or dont know how to/are unsure how communicate to make sure that you once in a while can take charge of your own orgasm with another person. Or that orgasm isnt somthing that is important and get a partner to stop trying to make you get there. And so on!

[@steffsquest2054]

Erikssmaria Agreed! That would be cool.

[@anythinggoesguy]

Erikssmaria Very true. There's a lot of pressure to have an orgasm as if that's the sign of good sex.

[@mjag2834]

come twice? She must be taking a piss!!

[@edwardthomas3592]

Erikssmaria

[@sebastiangruffudd2100]

Finally! A person actually using logic and reason conserning sex, instead of some ever-transient social fad. BRAVO ma'am!

[@ImPrather]

holy crap Dr. doe got deep into life in this video "disappointment is a result of having expectations"

[@riccardoolivieri1159]

I am now rewatching your videos to try and address a mountain of issues I have with sex, and all I can say is: thank you for your hard work and dedication!

[@NowanInparticular]

You are really good at making someone comfortable with uncomfortable topics. & you're enthusiasm is about as cute as I've seen, if you don't mind a dirty old man saying so

[@2112chuck]

She's got a book on the shelf behind her called "Working Stiff" LMAO!!

[@Butcherscut]

this actually made me feel better, thank you so much

[@pandabnd2037]

I'm here because she is so down to earth with a great personality and very informative but fun video. 👍

[@Jimbojam]

I really enjoy these videos and how you break down the seriousness of sex. Way to go, thanks and keep making them, please!

[@charlesayers3188]

Thank you for this very educational video, I suffered with this problem for years, I had a very dominant mother, now I feel better about myself thank you

[@Tituspuppet]

Like that fact you use humour with education to give solid facts. Never stop!!!!!

[@TimDyck]

Careful what you wish for. As a young man being able to go for hours was great, as my wife and I age we wish there was a thing called a quicky in our lives.

[@sarahsant6248]

THANK YOU for showing that rapid ejaculation (or slower ejaculation, for that matter) is just as fine and normal as any other speed of ejaculation. Also: "Become aware of your expectations!" YES YES YES YES YESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYES

[@rlicano848]

Sarah Sant huh

[@mutevosburg9800]

This hit home was always told something was wrong with me. Men last longer. On and on. Thanks makes sense

[@simonkerr1899]

Same here 30 seconds to a minute, but after 20 minutes or so of foreplay she is done, and then it's me, been with my misses for nearly 15 years

[@samstits8982]

Pathetic prejac :)

[@Last_Chance.]

That's great. I'm glad it works for y'all

[@DarthCanon]

About your question "why do they need to slow down?" Why you ask? How about just one reason being what you stated, "sometimes maybe a few thrusts, but not always enough to please a partner." This whole pleasing a partner would be my primary reason. And then how about pleasing myself. I was once asked by someone “Don’t you want to last longer? Don’t you like having sex?” Well of course I do, on both counts. To be clear, I have never wanted to go for hours, but simply longer than 30-60 seconds. To be further clear, I am not talking about the opposite either where it’s hard, if not impossible, to orgasm. The subject here is about PE. Regarding you saying "ashamed of their unique sexual expression." I fail to see how this behavior expresses anything. It's not like BDSM or some Spandex fetish which can clearly be identified as expressing one self. When you say one-third of males experience PE and therefor it’s normal, does this mean that since one-third of the population is obese that obesity is normal much less should be promoted to boot? Sure, considering a post-apocalyptic world scenario, where repopulating the Earth is the primary objective, PE could possibly be considered a benefit. But I think if you take a random survey of women, you will find virtually every one of them will say this would be a serious issue in a relationship. Especially with a long term relationship where it happens every single time and is the expected behavior and not just the occasional "quickie." And those that don’t say this would be a serious issue have either not been with someone experiencing PE or have not thought seriously enough about the question. Look, I appreciate your attempt to make it seem like this affliction is an okay thing. The classic "it's okay honey, there's nothing wrong or bad" where you try to have someone shed an undue burden they place on themselves. But near the end of your video where you actually give good suggestions (e.g. acting more dominant and start-stop technique), I think stating these reinforces that this is an actual problem needing to be dealt with and not an attribute to be “celebrated” or nurtured.

[@aquabot]

I like you way of approaching sexuality and the way you express it.

[@cowsagainstcapitalism347]

I didn't need to see this. But I'm glad I did. You're helping people. Thank you.

[@Mordred478]

You are the best, funniest and, let's face it, hottest sexologist of them all. And "Celebrate your quickdraw"? Waaa ha ha! ;-)

[@johnnyyt4461]

Appreciate Video clip! Forgive me for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Mackorny Ejaculation Remedy Blueprint (just google it)? It is a good one off product for Curing Premature Ejaculation without the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my work colleague finally got astronomical results with it.

[@adamdanielmadrid1297]

Balance the power dynamics with your mother. That can be extremely helpful.

[@needmorelighteverywayimagi9868]

I think if you lessen the intensity of the Quick Draw round you're less likely to need a nap and lose your partner's interest before round 2! lol you're crazy cool and super fun love your videos!

[@Lewisraphel]

I love the colour coordinations of the books in the background, makes a perfect video even perfecter

[@laurenplummer2306]

Clear communication can seriously level up your relationship and your sexual experience.

[@robmckennie4203]

I have fairly quick ejaculation while having intercourse (maybe 2-3 minutes from penetration), and i don't find it humiliating or really very negative, I just wish that I could have more intercourse before ejaculating.

[@mikeoxsmal8022]

Cerny you have good time

[@nixonsutton5312]

It is called premature ejaculation when us males have a weak PC muscle

[@scorpian6013]

+Cerny My case is opposite. My woman gets wet before penetration. Then I rub the tip of penis on clitoris 10 to 15 times up and down and she finishes. Still I enter inside her for 15 to 20 minutes till she pushes me out crying.

[@befrnigel]

@@nixonsutton5312 PC muscles don't do shit. Training them since 16, i'm 22 and nothing changed..

[@keithpayne9776]

Switching positions can provide a surprising amount of "cool down" that can help. Plus it keeps this interesting

[@anythinggoesguy]

I think the less talked about delayed ejaculation is also stressing. For those men who have delayed elaculation, people assume we are bragging that we can last long, but the reality is the our sexual partners get distressed from our lack of orgasm (thinking we are not interested) or tired out from the length it takes. Most advice I have heard to deal with delayed ejaculation is not to squeeze the penis too hard during masterbation, but for a good number of us, it is psychological or biological, not environmentally induced.

[@safwansalehjee7961]

"You have time: you already came" Haha

[@ariannemaskey9371]

All of my this. I wish the world would embrace this line of thinking in all areas of life. This is my passion. I want this thinking for everything not only for sex... for life in general...

[@rlicano848]

Arianne Maskey huh

[@Tituspuppet]

Also . male kegels exercise practices also works. Especially learning how to squeeze and how your pee gland

[@sethdouds101]

Dr. Doe, I have been a fan since last year in April! I drew a picture that contrary to popular belief, is not sexual! I would love to send the picture to you guys! I love you cause you are always sex and gender neutral! I don't like sex vs sex. it's great to see an amazing channel that explores having both genders represented equally! I hope you see this! Not to be creepy but I'm next doors to you guys! Oil feild, born and raised, Western North Dakota! There would be so much to talk about! I hope yall have a good Sunday!

[@SnailMan63]

'You have a lot of time to talk about these things because you already came' GOD DAMN

[@rthmjohn]

Please, more videos to help men with feelings of sexual inadequacy!

[@SidheKnight]

Excellent video. I never thought about it that way.

[@loganshotrod4x464]

The squeeze technique only makes it shoot out with more force & distance... which is cool!

[@jamest.5001]

If it happens too early, heck, i just always waited 5 minuted and have at it again!

[@spacesandshark2418]

Damn, I'm surprised by the amount of people in the comments who have the opposite problem of lasting too long. I hope she does a video about it at some point.

[@MJW238]

It's a mistake to think that ejaculating quickly is a successful evolutionary strategy. For humans, most sex isn't about procreation, and most sex doesn't lead to procreation (even without using contraception). But it might help for bonds between partners. Someone who lasts longer might be better at doing this, and might therefore have more sex in the future, increasing opportunities to impregnate, and well as to form bonds and thus better provide for a child.

[@InvectivePleasure]

I've been with 3 males who each had this problem (not all at once). Guy 1 didn't care, bc as far as he was concerned, it was mostly about his pleasure (only), so this was a very sexually frustrating time for me. He also mocked me the one and only time we tried a new position bc I did it wrong, and bc he's a condescending jerk, so needless to say our sex life was awful, but thankfully brief. The second guy - well that ended poorly too. The problem? Communication. I just wanted good sex, and for me (and most people I think), that just means sexually satisfying and fun for all involved. The 3rd one was SO VERY ASHAMED. However, our sex life turned out fantastic. The difference was just in how we communicated. Sex was put off for far too long, he had a few hangups that he was too embarrassed to talk about, and I had my own insecurities after having had a baby. When we finally got there the first time, it happened, and then he just shut down. He felt humiliated. Meanwhile, I was on cloud 9. He is sitting over there with all of these feelings of inadequacy, after causing me to have 6 orgasms, 5 back to back and an extra right when he came. That's extremely unusual for me. This is what started the routine of talking about our sex after every sexual encounter. What we liked, disliked, complimenting anything new that one of us did that was a winner, etc. I had to explain to him that despite whatever 'society' says, that first time was SO WONDERFUL for me, and him coming early did NOT cause any negative issues for me at ALL. We've been together for about 18 years now, we're married, and we have a pretty fantastic sex life. He doesn't ALWAYS have this problem. We've had a few times one of us or both of us may not have an orgasm, and other times where I'll have MANY orgasms, but we ALWAYS talk after sex now, no matter what, and it makes most of our experiences amazing. I had my own hangups and even some abuse to overcome, so we'd never have gotten anywhere without communicating really well. Side note, we'd have never tried new things without communication. Being able to write to him some of the things I was too embarrassed to admit, it made a HUGE difference, and have me the chance to experience the most satisfying sex I've ever had, no joke. I wish more people had that! They're is so much of a stigma around sex, sexual pleasure (for different reasons depending on your biological sex at birth, and what "everyone" supposedly is saying about what your experience SHOULD be like), masturbation, etc. It makes talking about it awkward. I promise you though, if you find SOME way to communicate (want/will/won't list, emails, notes, voice mail, texts, talking, being more vocal via moaning, moving your partner or partners hands, mouth, or penis to where you want it, etc )it WILL improve your sex life, and the more communication, the bigger the opportunity for improvement! Best of luck to all!

[@snoozydoozy0]

W rizz advice

[@samstits8982]

It’s tough to deal with this as a guy who values your partners pleasure. You feel like your wasting their time kinda.

[@seanpatrick7497]

@Sam Stits That’s why you get her off with an effective fingers/tongue game first Sam. Then, she won’t give a shite if you’re a few quick pumps and 😴

[@Giantcrabz]

3rd times the charm

[@abhiprakash74999]

I can't believe u aren't more popular. I mean damn. What's wrong with ppl ? Wow. I just really adore u dr. Doe , in a respectful manner ofcourse

[@Raymond-rr5iv]

It's all in their head. Realize what you expect and think. Then accept the changes that you will need to have it not be a problem. It's like giving up cigarettes or sugar.... so you have a habit you crave until you realize you don't want to do that any more.

[@Qermaq]

I often have the opposite problem, I go for a long time and I get fatigued, and then I have to stop without a big ejaculation. I actually am not bothered by it, but partners have been worried it was a reflection on them.

[@nickmonks9563]

I'm in my 40s and I'm in the same situation. It is frustrating sometimes, but I've tried to be very open with partners and let them know (and let myself know) that the pleasure is in the play, not necessarily the orgasm. It's no reflection on them, and if anything, by sharing and even exploring the experience you may enrich your entire sexual relationship...and may even surprise yourself with what you find.

[@dvst202]

Same problem, any treatments that work. I've been very open with my Doctor and woman but the Doc thinks its a joke and my woman feels its her.

[@nickmonks9563]

Show her this video!

[@97warlock]

same here. Lost a 13 yr relationship because i could go like 45 minutes with no orgasm, rihht when Im almost there, my leg would cramp or any number of things, truth is.... the play is most of the fun, tried explainig this to my gf but she sees all grey area ........ If you dont cum, your not attracted or excited. . Trouble is I will & do, Im just not a 5-10 guy, and wish I were.

[@acdii]

Guys just need to learn how to use their thumb. Use it on the right place and she wont care if you are already flopping and spent. Use it in the right place and long enough, bring some towels.

[@mbm3155]

omg, ur jokes kill it :-); thank u for opening so many conversations in my head

[@ojb48o]

I have the opposite problem, and I can tell you, the key is talking to your partner. They'll feel like it's their "fault" when in reality, it's just managing the expectations game.

[@dvst202]

frownpouch I'm dealing with the same. Did you get over it ?

[@disneydad2514]

It feels so good I can’t help it

[@MsAquamonkey]

Premature ejaculation happened to my ex. He didn't care about it, I did. He wouldn't speak about what he liked, and wouldn't listen when I told him what I liked. So he'd let me please him, but he'd never please me. It may sound selfish but, after two months of that, I couldn't deal with his vanity and selfishness anymore, so we broke up. Then I found out that he'd cheated, multiple times, and that made me miserable, and added salt to my wound. I wish he would have spoken to me about it, but he just refused. I don't mean that I want sex to go on for hours, I don't. But now, I'm with someone who always listens, is really compassionate and cares about my body, as well as his own. We always talk things over, I think that's one of the reasons why we have been together for almost five years, because we talk, and listen, and if we disagree, we talk it through, instead of ignoring each other.

[@theBROWNbanditP]

@@TowMater603 That wasn't creepy at all bro, way to go!

[@TowMater603]

@@theBROWNbanditP - i am to please ! hahahaha

[@ChloeVilar]

There's a common belief that women can have multiple orgasms and when I say I can't and that I can only have one almost always in the past the men I've been with say "you've just not had the right partner". This sort of behavior/response is incredible frustrating. It physically hurts for someone to continue touching/trying to get me off after my first orgasm.

[@XdgamehackerXd]

Seriously I’m glade your channel exist bec my parent is catholic and sex is basically sin don’t even get started with masturbation mention it and you have no where to live

[@whyyeseyec]

Orrrrrrrrrrrr, it's not that male's come to soon, it's that women take too long - like when they get in the bathroom in the morning and are in there for one hour but look the same when they come out.

[@donald4189]

Although I'm late to the party (inverse pun intended), woohoo, thanks for validating how I've felt about my rapid ejaculation and reframing the topic!! It's never bothered me (nor the majority of women I've been with) despite it seeming like society is determined that it should.

[@coreymay918]

I expect to see a drastic change in the ads I see on youtube for watching this

[@lilliankeenan9282]

Yes! First comment! Thanks for the brilliant video

[@WarlandWriter]

"Wow, I know this is the first time and I've significantly lowered my expectations as a result, but that was surprisingly short." - My now ex, the first time we had sex (both of us losing our virginity). Way to burst my bubble and annihilate my confindence there, C.

[@freshrockpapa-e7799]

"Wow, I know this is the first time and I'm being significantly more understanding as a result, but that was surprisingly rude and counter productive"

[@coreyfro]

Some of my partners didn't like alternatives to coitus. As someone who has been challenged, I, of course, favored alternatives. This lead to me having to be conscious about exploring what I could do. What I found was, I was too receptive to the rhythms of my partner, and if I worked against her rhythms (call it syncopation) then I could both prolong my stamina and increase her natural tensions until her tensions were to the point where release was eminent. Then synchronize and high five! I think a woman's natural coital rhythm has something to do with the woman's body favoring quick exchange of DNA, like the male. For instance, in a chimp tribe, females mate with interlopers when there are a scant few seconds that the alpha isn't watching his harem (not a word I want to use, but there it is.) Thus, her body works in concert with the interloper to speed things along. My theory is that an alpha male needs to occupy his harem, sexually, to reduce the time that interlopers have to encroach upon his mates so it is a good characteristic for them to have greater stamina. Because an alpha with this ability to do so is a favorable survival trait, this is a characteristic that is attractive, and may have had an effect on the evolution of rewards in female sexuality. And I believe that females select for this behavior, too. Maybe being more passive sexually, maybe moving as vigorously but in less rhythmic ways. Or greater impulses for a moment, followed by a slowing. It is like a sexual body language. So we have two differing strategies from the males, and both receptive strategies for females. But I don't think it is 100% set in stone for the males. I think the behavioral characteristics of an alpha vs. a normal (such as confidence and continuing relations with a partner) probably allow males to experience, involuntarily, differing strategies. It seems counter intuitive to work at a different rhythm than your partner, which is why I have put the above thought in to it. Until I really experimented with this, I didn't even THINK to do anything but listen to her body. Now I've learned to lead more that follow, and that adding tension is a good thing. Maybe I am experiencing placebo effect, but I have had enough partners to at least notice that my own performance has dramatically improved since adopting the syncopation strategy, myself. I am hoping this is useful to you.

[@miltonPmilkwood]

Ummm that's why condoms come in packs of more than 1. If I climax prematurely it's because I'm overly excited. Feel the wetness, a lil more foreplay and bam on to round 2. There is purpose in the 3 pack! Use them all

[@PFCAutostart]

To combat this, I challenge myself to edge as long as I can

[@scorpian6013]

Exactly a good idea.

[@shankardas6938]

I hope all the world sees it

[@kujmous]

Taking this to heart. Thank you.

[@DonnaBorooah]

Hey Dr Doe, what about an anxiety of my partner when engaging in penetrative intercourse? I believe that it is the trigger when applying male protection to perform. It is not that he is trying to avoid using condoms. Instead, we often don't engage in penetration at all because it cuts off the 'flow' of our play. I have a theory that using female condoms for me might remove the trigger that makes him nervous and make it something non-threatening and fun. Issue there is that female condoms are hard to find in Canada. The fact that they are a bit pricy and difficult to seek out might maintain the pressure to perform well, just as the male condom does. What the heck can we do? I anticipate the answer will be to talk to someone and really open up the conversation with a sexologist, but any tips would help ease my mind.

[@khisus20]

Dr. would you be so kind to put subtitles for your videos? It's for the people like me who don't speak english and still want to learn with you. The automatic subtitles always have errors and sometimes i can't understand what you mean. If you put the subtitles i could possibly translate them correctly so i'll be really greatfull if you do it.

[@thebeesknees5850]

Ever think about doing Crash course sex ed? Like sexplanations but for young (like really young) kids! Could be good for kids in sex Ed but who are receiving biased or scientifically inaccurate education. I understand that's basically what this channel is but for introducing the topic to people entering puberty!

[@flufferoftheapocalypse4162]

You do a lot of videos about accepting things & that's fine but this really can be a problem for some men. It's a problem if they want to have sex & basically can not do it. Opioid drugs help this & so does morning sex. It's not all about accepting yourself, some people want better sex.

[@oddball1612]

I scream I WIN! and go to the kitchen and make a sandwich

[@Peripatetic45]

Delaying - you've also spoken in a previous video about pulling down on the scrotum. Reminds me of a video doing the rounds on Facebook at the moment, of a Bunny mating who comes within about 5 seconds, then collapses exhausted. Just goes to prove the point - it's entirely natural :)

[@BarnibusMaximusMusic]

Since I am not a rapid ejaculator here I got distracted and noticed how you organise your books by colour... This annoys me way more than it should. How do you stay organised. If you have volumes from the same series in different colours do you divide them? I just don't know how to handle this. Also, where did you get so many expired condoms from? Did you have to go to the pharmacy and be like "Hi I'd like some condoms, as many as you have but none that work"? I bet that was a funny conversation.

[@Gears.and.Gadgets]

I've found that the mind is the biggest sex organ. I recall times when I could go for two hours. And now if I've had lots of thoughts about it. It's about ten minutes.

[@Scarfysmom]

How do I show this to my partner without hurting his feelings? He is aware of and embarrassed by his stamina and I'd be lying if I said it didn't annoy me sometimes too and I think that this would be valuable information, especially the part about not being so ashamed of it but I'm afraid as soon as a try to bring it up he'll be consumed by self consciousness and won't retain the information. He's quite emotionally sensitive and I don't want to bruise his ego.

[@thecabal4666]

+Rebecca Carmichael There are ways to fix it

[@ivanlagrossemoule]

+Rebecca Carmichael Hope my comment doesn't come too late (no pun intended). But you should make him feel like you are satisfied in other ways anyway. If he realises that you don't actually care about how exactly you are pleased, as long as it's enjoyable for you, he should worry less. One good thing to do is for you to finish first, meaning you get pleased in another way (whatever you want), then you can focus on just pleasing him, and he doesn't have to worry about lasting longer because it's just about him. Once you've created this atmosphere where he doesn't have to worry, then you can talk to him much easier.

[@Ferien7]

Men shouldn't be sensitive. Just tell him.

[@rlicano848]

Hard To Love ditch that bastard and come to daddy 😎

[@swedbp1]

You really deserve to be satisfied too

[@amandabergkvist1285]

You should have a link to your patreon in the description. :) you know, for us on mobile :D

[@sethapex9670]

While rapid ejaculation may be a method for getting the sperm to the egg sooner, longer intercourse tends to produce more pleasure for the female which can lead to her orgasm, which can further help in the process of impregnation by causing the cervix to suck up the sperm. and if we're talking about anal sex, shorter intercourse has no benefit at all since there is no possibility of impregnation from it.

[@penguinladyface]

the "suck up" theory has been very disproven

[@penguinladyface]

the "suck up" theory has been very disproven

[@sethapex9670]

penguinladyface assertions are nice and all by i like mine with a side of evidence.

[@SomeDudeOnline]

I can vouch for the ejaculation prior to sex method. I don't have a rapid ejaculation issue but I have noticed that if I have sex, then 20 minutes later go for round two, I can last for a very very long time.

[@seamonkey2010]

Condoms are desensitizing! There, she said it, too!!@3:57!!! lolz

[@trulysurprised-bk7cy]

I've always been a long hauler. My first wife used to beg me to finish...lol

[@buckeyebanshee]

What is your experience with men who can ejaculate and maintain erection multiple times often not losing the erection for minutes after sometimes multiple orgasms. Is this normal or common? Basically erection -> ejaculation -> no break or nap or flaccidity from ejaculation.

[@TH3R33LM3]

I love the earrings!

[@NovelNovelist]

Best advice for the partner of a rapid ejaculator: take it as a compliment!

[@x9x9x9x9x9]

What if you have the opposite problem because of medication? 2+ hours might sound awesome but its not. At least most of the time.

[@heyysimone]

The way people are taught about sex is so bad. I didnt have a single sex talk with my parents (whether out of awkwardness or because they thought school would do it, or because they thought id ask them questions) and school was useless. Sex ed for girls: you get periods - this is what a period is (but no information about ovulation, etc) and this is a pad and a tampon, and you can get pregnant if you have sex. For boys im not sure since they seperated us, but they did get a masturbation talk which girls didnt. When i was at high school we were taught how to put a condom on a wooden penis, and shown a birthing video. Thats my entire sex education. Hence why im so afraid of sex.

[@maheshtedlapu1786]

It's all smooth..and suddenly at 2:49 BURN !!!!!

[@Pliskkenn]

2:15. We... I err, mean *they* already do that! A problem I'm having is that I used to be able to last a fair distance but in the last year or so I've lost all ability to last. Guessing it's a confidence thing?

[@LukePiala]

Great video, commenting for the algorithm ✌️

[@whybag]

I want to finish faster. Like, an hour or so faster. It's fun when you're really into it, but sometimes you just want a quickie.

[@whyyeseyec]

Especially when the football game is about to start...

[@davidmays7102]

this is all great but it still doesn't make ur partner happy. she may be all getting into it and u blow too early, its a total let down to her.

[@Skinnymarks]

Omg this information is amazing!

[@touchtone7438]

Great Video ! Very Informative and Entertaining! :)

[@GarethField]

Wow, perspective-win

[@drumur]

You should do a video on the opposite problem

[@Barnabas45]

Having a wife who thinks having sex twice a year is too much can cause this!

[@x-man5056]

If at first you succeed too soon, try, try again.

[@seanpatrick7497]

Rapid ejaculation sounds like success to me. 😄

[@jakesani2134]

Babe u r cool cat

[@taiming71]

can you do a video on Asexual s or males that can't ejaculate with intercourse.

[@paullittle4622]

I use to spunk and hit the ceiling but you get older and it's a little trickle now, old age sucks

[@stephen227]

Just casually excuse it as "part and parcel" of the fast pace of modern life.