RATING LESBIAN STEREOTYPES ON A TIER LIST

[@laurenelloise]

WHAAAT? TWO TIER VIDEOS IN A ROW? I know shhhhh, the editing schedule is crazy for this series, I bumped a video back so I have more editing time! SO PLS enjoy back to back ranking!!! YAY. 💜 Hoodie from: shop.laurenelloise.com/en-aud/products/galpals-hoodie

[@Coco21212]

The lesbian bad death stereotype comes from people thinking sex is about a man's desire and that only men love and need sex intrinsically. So if there's no man, even if there's desire at the start, it will die down eventually. It's called sexism.

[@laurenelloise]

i think you're probably right! i had a little think about this when i was editing and came to the same conclusion / theory: men just unhappy that women can be satisfied without them, and therefore they feel insecure and threatened and come up with some dumb tale...

[@lemonfrog_23]

a few years ago i was wearing a girl in red bracelet and this girl in my sixth period class pointed at me and yelled “i know what you are” for the whole class to hear 💀

[@heartstopperlover_44]

OMG 😭

[@laurenelloise]

i would have died

[@lemonfrog_23]

yeah i was so embarrassed 😭

[@mahims_13]

Every lesbian starter pack ever

[@laurenelloise]

basically 👀

[@BeckDaniel]

She asked for summin' gay. I got married 2 months ago. LETS GO LESBIANS!!!!

[@Buckedbyagrey]

@@BeckDaniel congrats to you both!

[@joicy-qe4ch]

I love your profile picture!

[@Coco21212]

The only one I really disagree with is "The L Word", because that show changed my life (I'm 30). Also didn't Renée Rapp have the L Word cast introduce her at Coachella? It's still such an iconic show. Also, also, I think it really draws a picture of its time, and it allows me to see how much things have changed and to understand older lesbians POV better.

[@ThatWeirdmelaniefan]

I added like 5 girl and red songs to my playlist. I love we fell in love in October

[@laurenelloise]

isn't it just so cute and sweeettt

[@ThatWeirdmelaniefan]

@@laurenelloise ya

[@semvolta-rn3jo]

Mid. I know you're not above 13 lol

[@ArtichokeHunter]

also. i'm not that much older than you, but caught a bit of the end of the "do you listen to the indigo girls" or "do you listen tegan and sara" era, grew up in a "do you listen to ani difranco" era, and then came into the girl in red one

[@אילתאהרוני-צ1ס]

OMG now that i know being a docs lesbian is a thing it explains a weird experiences i had last year. I was just starting to come out, i bought myself new shoes (docs - unknowing of the gay meaning of them) and suddenly some girls i met but didn't come out to came up to me and were like - you gay, right? N i was so happy! I asked them how the knee and one of them said "your shoes" and i was so confused HAHA, now i know :)

[@kitsicatz]

omg i love your eyeshadow!! this was in my recommended and i’m so excited!!!

[@kapowjam3462]

Next year I would definitely support stereotypes by type of sapphic. Like fems having 2 short nails rather than all short nails. Could be a hoot.

[@laurenelloise]

oooo this could be cool, but i need more ideasssss

[@lassam333]

So interesting to see how many stereotypes you mentioned are in your top 2 tiers. A lot really depends on what age you are.

[@TinkerAndBelle1]

Been loving the ranking videos it’s great to see yours and everyone else’s opinions! ❤

[@grookeymon]

11:00 OMG YESSSS!!!! I never talked to her but there was this girl who was lesbian and she was SO FAST like faster then me and she was like my rival when it came to walking (although she didn't know it)

[@CiaranOCearnaigh]

as a bi amab probably gender fluid neurodivergent little frog, I may have fit almost every single stereotype on this entire list not sure what this means but i know it’s a win

[@NeeksTheAngel]

Now time to go out and spot some lesbians. !!!

[@laurenelloise]

get ur gay glasses on, we're going lesbian hunting

[@NeeksTheAngel]

@ LETS GO LESBIANS !!!!

[@nathanr5737]

Surely ‘bed death’ is a thing in all types of relationships then, it’s just the phases of a long term relationship where things can something get boring or repetitive etc, don’t know how it became a lesbian specific thing

[@Peachy_Flora]

Falling for my best friend is how I was like I am not straight

[@Hermionegrangeredits]

I was so scared when you put girl in red in Sappho says yea alright

[@laurenelloise]

just like to keep you on edge

[@nikkimelo]

Noooo, I was offended😭 my carabeener stays in my bag it unfortunately doesn't match my style and I don't really have anything for it to hold, so I keep it in my bag with my hand sanitizer and a cute keychain 😔

[@rubydawn9916]

Eeeeeeeh so excited for a new video thank youuuu

[@trekkie74656_]

Astrology, sorry but no! 😂 But then again I am a Physics student, so might not count. 😅 Yeah agree with to many! The walking I love. I'm five three and y friends are like five eight and always complaining that I'm walking too fast. 😅

[@melona1001]

11:00 I'm definitely the slowest walker EVER. All my friends are complaining every time we do something together that I'm soooo slow 😅

[@abbyth3w1tCh]

love you sm, this video was great!!!

[@laurenelloise]

Aw, thanks so much for watching! 🥰

[@Newromantic-wo2fl]

Lauren coming for my life with the "You fell for your best friend". Damn, okay, didn't know you had cctv's on me 😭

[@PERCHERON-C13]

I think she has cams on me too 👀

[@laurenelloise]

im sorry for calling you out like this 😅

[@BeckDaniel]

I have cats. Ma wife wanted doooogs but pouting folds hers.

[@DippyFresh-d6l]

I love the gay side of the Internet

[@laurenelloise]

me too, lets never leave

[@cvnningsire]

early also girl i just found u a few days ago and im alr in love w ur page like this is where im home‼

[@MatchaLatte-m6s]

The 12th gay of Christmas my fav KZbin gave to me a new video to watch by myself in my room!!!

[@TeamLeo4ever]

YES NEW 12 GAYS OF CHRISTMAS VIDEO 🥳

[@MiaKochosky]

✨🏳️‍🌈WOMAN🏳️‍🌈✨

[@Bellz-TV-16]

Lauren, thank you so much for helping me figure out all of the lesbian things! I only came out like 5 months ago, and I’ve been going to your channel for advice even before that. Btw any tips for flirting with a girl as a teen?

[@אילתאהרוני-צ1ס]

Oh congratulations 🎉🎉 (i would love tips on flirting as well :)

[@CjCarpenter-z6t]

I love your videos so much lauren also you have helped me understand my sexuality more 😊

[@laurenelloise]

aw that's so nice to hear! thanks for watching :)

[@ALittleArtistWhoGoesByLilly]

it's the fact she called everyone out about liking their best friend Like am I being watch like wtf

[@PERCHERON-C13]

My lesbian ass has chosen to have a crush on a straight girl again 😔😔😔

[@laurenelloise]

✨a tale as old as time✨

[@melona1001]

3:20 I'm still advising the cucumbers 😂✌🏻

[@laurenelloise]

brooo im actually so desperate, i could try this

[@laurenelloise]

also this sounds so weird to anyone who doesn't know what we're talking about HAHAHHA

[@melona1001]

@@laurenelloise yeah right didn't think about that 😂

[@draugaram]

you broke my heart with the L word

[@ArtichokeHunter]

ha my experience has been heavier on lesbians who love cats (my ex wanted to have 9!) as well as astrology (as a sapphic with chronic back pain, i wish the can't-sit-in-chairs stereotype would die and more people would work on their posture younger to prevent the pain later. although i have seen some studies that question how much of a difference it makes, in my experience it seems clearly related)

[@katelynbate1667]

les/bi starter pack

[@Urfav_1_eva]

“Put something gay in the comments” Me:ok A few weeks ago, I had homecoming and I picked up my crush (she’s my friend) and she’s pansexual and I’m a lesbian she looked so pretty and I even got her flowers and two weeks ago I had the winter solstice lavender ball which is a gay dance that my town had and she danced with me a lot there I love her so much. I might confess to her soon. I think she likes me back Does anyone have any advice?

[@roniredansky6341]

Yes another video!!!❤

[@laurenelloise]

🔴 LIVESTREAM about 9hrs from now (9am Sydney time)!! really needing to rest tonight 😭im sorry! see u in morn tho!

[@Issy_Owen]

Hopefully I can be there

[@Keiron-pw6sl]

What time is that UK time

[@Cracha1241]

I’ll probably be there again that’d be like 5pm for me

[@laurenelloise]

@@Keiron-pw6sl i think its like 10pm for uk (just add 9hrs from now!)

[@Issy_Owen]

@@Keiron-pw6sl like 10pm

[@aralkthewizard]

Oh my god the photo for the masc stereotype is literally the first picture on my outfits Pinterest board 💀💀

[@laurenelloise]

didnt i tell you, i went to ur pinterest and took the first pic? 🤭 ahhaha im jk, but thats a crazy coincidence

[@livpeake8108]

just because you are more of a golden retriever wlw don't try to get rid of the cat stereotype!!! we luv

[@laurenelloise]

ahhhh 😩 okay okay i hear you!! i shall revise my ranking and bump the cats up, does sappho says yea alright sound okay to you? 🙈

[@lottiehodgson2230]

I'm actually atrocious at sports

[@mrrobg61]

The Subaru stereotype. You mentioned it during the first proposal video (jokingly).

[@preppy_Pinktulips]

11:05 I don't even walk💀 Ok I feel like I should add context😂 so I'm physically disabled and that's why said that... (also I'm bi actually😅)

[@LiamODonovan-l6e]

Love your videos, lauren. You sre an awesome couple. Wishing the best for both of you

[@morielvalinor]

The thumb ring isn’t a new thing. I was asked about 20 years ago, why we wear thumb rings. 😂 But didn’t know this was a thing until then. I’m bad at sports. 🙈 The woman in the chair is from a show called “The hunting of Bly Manor”. I really loved that show. It has a beautiful les. love story. I would put “all lesbians are masculine” in the bottom tier. It’s the same like the stereotype that there is a “man” in a lesbian relationship. Regarding the same look: people thought me and my ex were sisters 😆

[@adamwarren1982]

I'm pretty sure the livestream would be at 9am, is that right?

[@laurenelloise]

since its supperrr late, yeah im going to do it in the morning!!

[@adamwarren1982]

I'll try to wake up on time for it

[@Dustypaws]

When I came out recently I had almost everyone be like "yeah, we kinda guessed" and i felt insane cuz what do they mean...? They knew before I even figured myself out?

[@TheBlueDuck299]

I'm the complete opposite as almost everyone I know were so surprised, like what do you mean? Im probably the gayest person you know?!

[@SleepingAves]

The first stage of gay is sitting weirdly in chairs, we can all relate

[@lunaamothh]

Speaking of lesbian stereotypes in clothing/accessories, does anyone have any suggestions on like accessories or stuff to wear to let other women know you're lesbian? I really want other women to be able to look at me and know just by that, that I'm lesbian but I want to still keep my more femme aesthetic (I do still wear some masc things/accessories but I'm overall more femme and just a casual mix of both almost)

[@evxrbee]

Instead of vans, I see a lot more high top converse

[@jennyhart7588]

The girl in red one is difficult because I get the hint but I DON'T listen to her... It's not my kind of music but I love the secret code of it

[@laurenelloise]

THIS!!! yes! i get it!! im not majorly obsessed with her but i love the secret code... also i must ask, what kind of music do you like?? ehheeh

[@אילתאהרוני-צ1ס]

I find it cute the your way to judge if a stereotype is true or not is you and gal pal ~ 😂✨ (also, i really like cuts, they are cute and squishy and they're like me! So yea :)

[@אילתאהרוני-צ1ס]

Cats*😅

[@אילתאהרוני-צ1ס]

English is not my first language pleas forgive me ~

[@CoZmicBluez12]

I guess I gotta find some carabiners

[@Keiron-pw6sl]

Interesting I'm gay and have three cats never new this haha

[@laurenelloise]

i guess you just learnt 2 things! 1) lesbians love cats and 2) you are living up to the stereotype 🙈

[@Keiron-pw6sl]

@laurenelloise funnily enough one of my best friends is a girl she has two cats so I learnt something new

[@abiblessing971]

I am singleeeeeeeee......I love your videos 🥺

[@TotalNoobAtEverythin]

Girl slow down I’m taking notes

[@BlazinMosquitoe]

Anyone here an Aries? ♈🐏

[@sappho-favourite-pupil]

I love you rings lesbians, they are awesome, they are everything to me, they are my chosen family (the thumb ringer in particular is a meh to me tho). Thank you, for coming to my Ted Talk.

[@laurenelloise]

awwww cutie! tysm 🥰 (look i never liked the thumb ring til i had one to wear, and now i love it, probs bc dad made it, so i think thats special).

[@SplatterDoesStuff]

Me with the gay mullet 😅😂

[@laurenelloise]

nah i bet your one of those that actuallu pull it off! 👀

[@CatarinaStone]

I think I know more dog lesbians than cat lesbians

[@grookeymon]

I'm a trans girl but I fell for my straight guy friend (and have had crushes on more than 1 straight guy) and ITS PAINFULL So it gets in lets go queer people in general personally

[@Beckiequeenofwoof1]

I love your vids, i am pansexual

[@laurenelloise]

💗💛💙 aww tysm!! so glad u enjoy them and so happy ur here!

[@marlene.mckinnon]

I LOVE YOUR VIDEOSSS 🩷

[@TchudakPOV]

nice video

[@Laytheeverything]

Let’s go lesbeans 🥳🥳🥳

[@laurenelloise]

LETSSS GOOOO

[@TatumMcCowan]

i don’t get the sibling thing with you and galpal. like if u told me you were sisters then i guess i wouldn’t be surprised but the differences between you guys are clearly there and it’s obvious, to me at least, that your not identical twins

[@CatarinaStone]

wrt to the L-word. I'm not super sure it was for lesbians? like, in a way, yeah. But some of it also seems to want to cater to a more male audience. Also, I thought seasons 1 and 2 were good but season 3 was god awful and I didn't watch more after that.

[@BwhwitiBargayary]

🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 Indian ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@roniredansky6341]

Pls react to Billie eilish edits!🙏🙏🙏 love you so much btw❤

[@namosari13]

i mean you should watch the l word❤

[@laurenelloise]

i mean, yeah, youre probs right, i need to give it a go 😅

[@mahims_13]

2nd

[@laurenelloise]

yaaaaassss love that for u

[@B.23.B.23]

first!

[@laurenelloise]

aww heck yeaaaaaa 🏆

[@TwentyPercentPeppers]

I´m bi with strong preference for girls and dont rly like cats either

[@SpiderDJDU]

𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆

[@laurenelloise]

its almost 12am for me so going to sleep! but ill go live in about 9hrs