RATING PRONOUNS ON A TIER LIST | NOAHFINNCE

[@sully0414]

Why do I feel like Noah has just found out how to make tier lists and now all his videos are going to be based around them 😂

[@clairebrown1162]

Bc that’s how it is😂

[@bobwaffless8208]

So true! That what happens with like so many KZbinrs

[@justyouraveragealien.6927]

I mean, you’re probably not wrong.

[@pokemontrainer8898]

This really made me chuckle ahaha

[@olixxps936]

Oh god he's going to turn into schlatt

[@samhasi2287]

"gonna just put she/her in supreme, because i love women" agreed

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/m3qupaV-pMiMkKc The MISSING KNOWLEDGE - get to know it. If you can´t deal with reading then try dealing when the gospel is being shared and preached. Don`t close your ears and heart - open them.

[@jxstine8454]

As a lesbian, I can confirm

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@jxstine8454 Matthew 6:25 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Luke 12:22 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:28 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: These are the verses form bible were GOD HIMSELF saying to us: DON`T WORRY GOD WILL TAKE CARE AND HE WILL PROVIDE. You only have faith and trust GOD.

[@potatoeyboi]

@@theharshtruthoutthere your life is NOTHING, you serve ZERO purpose, you should LET PEOPLE BE THEMSELVES NOW!

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@potatoeyboi you trying to make a joke? GOD is clear in HIS words: REPENT - BORN AGAIN AND COME OUT FROM BABYLON or make your peace with PERISHING INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE.

[@queenthot1438]

one of my favorite jokes: “what are your pronouns?” “oh, i’m cisgender. i don’t have pronouns.” damn, another victim of gender identity theft.

[@ZDragonimated]

gender identity theft lmaoo 💀

[@zion3879]

Mine is "only amateur nouns for this guy"

[@normalguycraig]

The comedic genuious of Nat Puff leftatlondon

[@tessa-mayfinlay1932]

Yes I does when jammi said that

[@lewis9535]

DANG IT RANBOO

[@pjaypender1009]

Hi, Noah! As I've mentioned on other videos, I'm as old as your grandparents, and trans nonbinary. I continue to be impressed by how you've grown as a person as I've watched your videos. You should be proud. Your parents should be proud. I use ey/em/eir. How did I decide on ey/em/eir? Honestly, I tried various pronouns out. I asked people I knew I could trust to use different sets of pronouns to refer to me until I found the ones that felt like they described me correctly. Once I had settled on what felt right, I added them to my bio and asked everyone to use them.

[@_rat_5758]

Same here

[@SerfOfTheYear]

I know I’m late but it’s always so nice to see older folks in the community. ☺️

[@q4yv]

I'm so glad you've been able to find your identity. It makes me happy knowing that we can really live that long, and that we're valid. Thank you.

[@-Heywood_Jablowme-]

I know this comment was commented 2 years ago٫ but you can't be trans and non binary at the same time

[@blue-IMNOTINDENIALYOUARE]

Cool!

[@felixettos]

I think one thing that's really important to think of when talking about neopronouns is autism and neurodivergency in general. A lot of neurodivergent people have a very different relationship with gender than neurotypical people (as an autistic transmasc i can confirm that) and their own view of themselves so it makes sense they wouldn't vibe as much with traditional pronouns. Plus synesthesia, which is common for neurodivergent folks and which basically means if your senses somehow sense something they aren't supposed to (i don't know the actual definition and I'm lazy to look it up right now sorry, feel free to research further though) and one type of that is if words/concepts appear to you as colors or feelings which i experience. It's very hard to explain to someone who doesn't experience it. I myself tend to choose names and pronouns that look pretty for my synesthesia. And finally some themed nounself pronouns can come from hyperfixations/special interests which many neurodivergent people have, which are extremely strong interests. I'm not really too into neopronouns myself, i use he/they in real life, but i do collect neopronouns I'm comfortable with just for fun, which so far are aq/aquas (from aqua) plant/plants, milk/milks and torch/torchs (i think these are self explanatory) and they're mostly either aesthetically pleasing/pretty to me or linked with a concept i feel is a part of me in a way (for example aqua because ever since i was very little i always liked swimming and being in water and my sense of self is in a way linked with that, it's really hard to explain like i said) I'm not sure if any of this made sense but i hope it did!

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

Synesthesia is where one sense involuntarily triggers another sense. Ex. Numbers trigger seeing certain colors, sound triggers certain tastes, etc

[@superdrwholock]

Hello autistic trans guy here, thanks for teaching me this I had no idea that was the reason

[@llynxfyremusic]

@@MoonlitBookworm73 i've had the sounds triggering tastes before, it was pretty bizarre.

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

@@llynxfyremusic I can only imagine. My friend has the numbers with colors thing.

[@imbald9089]

Omg I love milk/milks I don’t use neopronouns myself and I don’t like milk lol, but I love the word milk!

[@swagtortoise8775]

Hey, Noah! As far as I'm aware, emojiself pronouns are mainly used online by people with unsupportive parents (or one parent) who might check their phone. This way their identity is safer, without having to have people misgender them online.

[@toodletoodle]

ohhh that makes so much sense thank you for sharing :)

[@ezra5568]

Oh wow I didn’t know that!

[@dontlookatmychannel1994]

That makes sense actually :0

[@omlette]

Woat that's actually cool

[@GrianyBunch]

May I ask how it works? An example :)

[@desktopcarpet]

As a person who also uses it/that pronouns, I honestly found out I liked them because some annoying people pointed at me and went "what is that" (as in transphobia oOooOOo surprising /hj), and I just went "huh." And then the gender gremlin came out from under my bed and stole my pronouns. The End.

[@gh0stly_retr048]

Ah the gender gremlin, the gremlin who has stolen all the genders and that's how people become enby

[@buttons8510]

I have a same story about y i started using the pronoun it. The gender gremlin stole my gender after I came out as enby and kids thought I wasn't a human bc I wasn't a girl or boy, so they started calling me it. And then the gender gremlin stole mine aswell. Afterwards it stole my siblings gender making them gender fluid.

[@clairebrown1162]

@@gh0stly_retr048 how did I become boy fluix then?

[@gh0stly_retr048]

@@clairebrown1162 the gremlin only stole part of your gender and gave you part of another.

[@nillawafer9542]

I use them cause I love them and a chad at my school once called me a chad and I said “Honestly I don’t even mind it” and I was never called an it before… I’m sad I haven’t but like- it’s fineeee.

[@juniperfox1064]

Another cool neopronoun: thon/thons, a gender neutral pronoun people tried to get going in the 1800’s that made it into the dictionary for a bit :)

[@fragmentsofanusha]

Lol people in N.ireland use that all the time, i never thought of it as a proper pronoun

[@eggchomp]

@@fragmentsofanusha Do they? I never noticed but i’m from the republic, only been up north a few times

[@fragmentsofanusha]

@@eggchomp yeah definitely, they would say "is that thons top over there?" or "whats thon one at acting like that?" so i guess it not always used exactly like a pronoun but definitely to refer to people

[@alik9783]

yeah i was wondering if he would include that! i always found old/historical neopronouns super cool

[@Wormsinmybra1n]

Using this fact for my English speaking exam :) thanks

[@blackonyx9842]

I use it/its pronouns because I often feel a disconnect from my “human-ness.” I’m autistic and was raised to mask those behaviors instead of being taught how to functionally interact with people, so a lot of the time I feel like “being a human” is a mask that I’m wearing, and (at least with friends) I like that they’re comfortable acknowledging that I think in a different way from them but still want to be friends anyways. I use they/them publicly, though, just because I don’t want to give random people an excuse to act transphobic towards me. There’s a big difference for me between people dehumanizing me and de*person*alizing me, and only people who understand that nuance can use it/its pronouns for me.

[@aaronoliver9075]

I also use it/it's and totally agree with your last thing. I feel like people kinda have to earn the right to use those pronouns for me

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@aaronoliver9075 kzbin.infovideos kzbin.infovideos

[@klutz5725]

oh my god, same. I use it/its because I don't like... feel human so I get you. I use them because like I'm also autistic, and I was the only autistic person in my environment and felt so different than everyone else it just made me feel not human, and like I was almost a different species than them. I get what you mean with masking, and I especially get what you mean with the last sentence :,).

[@insertname1857]

no i feel exactly the same! i use any pronouns and while im okay with it/its and am autistic, only other ppl who use it/its pronouns for themselves can refer to me with it/its because i know that they are using them in good faith and correctly

[@justaclayblock]

i use she/they/it and ive always just liked it/its pronouns, i have a friend group of gays (we literally call ourselves the gay group) where a lot of us just use it/its without meaning to, im not sure why it happens, a lot of us are just really comfy with it/its pronouns. like one of my friends ash who uses any we just accidently say "oh yeah ash is over there, its just doing math homework" and he is comfortable with it. im not sure why i identify with it/its pronouns. i kinda have half the thing you have where you just feel disconnected from your "human-ness" where i just zone out so much to the point where i always feel like im dissacotiating from myself and just viewing my life like a movie.

[@Bobbys_Sketching]

As someone who uses ae/aer neopronouns, when it comes to "why," for me it was just hearing it for the first time and immediately feeling like they were important to me. I heard them first from a friend who made pronoun roles in a discord server and very quickly loved them. Now ae/aer just feels right.

[@nowhy666]

I use the pronouns they/xem. It started when i was experimenting with pronouns and asked a friend to try them out on me. It fit really well. Most of the other pronouns I had tried out either made me really uncomfortable or indifferent, so I decided to stick with it and when anyone uses xe/xem for me, i get weirdly happy

[@hollyhales2831]

Can I have some help with what the other forms of xe/xem are please? So if you have they/them/theirs, is there an equivalent to each of those? For like the possessive, would you have xem's, or something else? I tried googling it and just couldn't figure out the different forms.

[@thatweirdodaniel]

oh! i use xe/xem as well!! nice to see someone else that uses them! i mostly use he/they bc most people don't know how to pronounce xe/xem or just forget those are my other pronouns lol

[@ajlack]

@@hollyhales2831 in my opinion it would possibly be said as they=xey (zay) them=xem (zem) theirs=xer (zer) tip- brackets are pronounciation

[@iaminyoursandwich]

@@hollyhales2831 other versions of xe/xem are xyrs/xyr/xyrself the original xe/xem can also be spelt as xey/xym

[@Soph_252]

​@@hollyhales2831 yea :) people have lots of personal variations of xe/xem pronouns so if you're unsure for a specific person make sure to ask but these are the ones I know of (also sidenote, you'd very rarely use ()'s for a pronoun because pronouns do not use 's to make them possessive, they just have an s on the end :) they = *xe* ( a lot of people use *xey* as well ) them = *xem* their = *xyr* ( also seen *xeir/xeyr/xer* ) theirs = *xyrs* ( also seen *xeirs/xeyrs/xers/xems* ) themself = *xemself* hope this helps! also I'm not a neopronoun expert so if I got any of this wrong feel free to correct me :)

[@Soph_252]

11:50 - Emojipronouns are an online exclusive thing yes, but some people who use them will have spoken counterparts which they use as nounself pronouns while speaking (for example, heart emoji pronouns can be said as heart/heartself when speaking)

[@MetalWire_]

heart/heartself sounds like such a nice pronoun omg

[@flash84737]

a lot of people use emoji pronouns becase parents go through there phones so emoji pronouns can be a way of code sort of, :)

[@viktor_h787]

washingmachine washingmachineself

[@ruetistic]

stealing those for myself

[@-Foliage-]

@@viktor_h787 sounds pog I'm stealing those to add to my collection

[@rev_lunar]

I use it/its pronouns because a transphobe once called me it and I liked how it made me feel more than the other pronouns I've had applied to me. I'm pretty apathetic about what pronouns people apply to me and sometims it's interesting to see how I'm percieved by people based on the pronouns they use.

[@tuturtley]

reclaiming pronouns a transphobe used to try to hurt you is such a power move

[@paulhammond6978]

Kind of interesting that someone tried to hurt you, and you found something that suited you.

[@skibidi_toilet_isnotoverrated]

so your telling me your object get life

[@JuMixBoox]

You created a really positive and open space here. I don't know how bun/bunself pronouns or emoji pronouns would have been received, even by me, in another context, but you just seemed interested and polite and I learned a lot of stuff about these things in the comments and now I know they're neat.

[@hayleigh7354]

they/them are absolutely top tier attack/helicopter are bottom tier

[@thechaoszone6098]

Agree

[@roach.with.a.tophat]

Yeah obviously the best, and can be used for anyone if you don’t know

[@ff_5678]

Yes

[@fishbowldemon]

Only the facs

[@cole_on_crack3010]

100% agree

[@playswith_squirrels]

I just love it when someone trusts me with using their neopronouns, I know it makes their heart feel fuzzy and so does mine

[@nillawafer9542]

It wishes people would use Xe/Xem pronouns for it, if it so wished. Like it uses it/its pronouns primarily but if it woke up one day and chose to use Xe/Xem pronouns, it wishes somebody would use them.

[@cez_is_typing]

@@nillawafer9542 ….wait, I don’t have a lot of experience with neopronouns and I had no idea you could use them in first person! Is there a reason that you use it/it’s pronouns in first person as well as third? /gen /pos

[@nillawafer9542]

@@cez_is_typing In reality it's just refering to itself in third person, like Nugget does in Kindergarden, but it uses its pronouns instead of its name. But like you could probably count them as self pronouns as it is using them for itself.

[@usernameisusernam]

Yeah it makes me happy calling people by their neopronouns lol

[@SpecialInterestShow]

Interesting thing about the "on all levels except physical, I am a wolf" has come out as a trans girl some years back! I think her usual handle is LeftAtLondon?

[@idgafiminfinite]

those are two different people, LeftAtLondon did the "ha ha ha, I do that" vine. they are both trans girls though afaik!

[@SpecialInterestShow]

@@idgafiminfinite oh right! LeftAtLondon is "haha, I do that" girl. Does the wolf girl have an online presence?

[@idgafiminfinite]

@@SpecialInterestShow I'm not sure but she was in Anthony Padilla's Otherkin video so you can probably find her through that if she does!

[@SpecialInterestShow]

@@idgafiminfinite oh cool!

[@cryptidboyo]

she goes by Naia Okami! Although I think she deleted her tiktok bc of harassment from Ben Shapiro Fans :(

[@darkacadpresenceinblood]

i'm cis but one time i went onto a neopronoun list out of curiosity and... there were INCREDIBLY COOL ones where i was sqealing from how cute/amazing they sounded- i mean some of the nounself ones were long af which is pretty counterproductive as pronouns are supposed to be for simplification but like... that doesn't stop them from sounding fantastic

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

I started out using a couple neopronouns but that soon turned into 50+ because they’re just so cool lol

[@darkacadpresenceinblood]

@@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil that is a mood and i definitely get it they're literally the best things we've introduced into language... i might or might not have OCs that are completely stacked with neopronouns simply because it's really satisfying to use them lmao

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

@@darkacadpresenceinblood sameeeeee

[@Glitterbeansz]

I love How respectfull he is

[@amidnightkid5053]

my ex used fae/faer pronouns, bc fae felt femme in a very nature-y way and but didn’t feel connected to womanhood. fae were also irish and felt a strong connection to fae, so that set felt right to faer!!

[@diemasincarpe]

cool! this comment helped me understand how to use fae/faer pronouns so thnx

[@the_alien_1239]

Cool!! :)) that’s awesome

[@gemmonade_]

i also use fae/faer pronouns! /pos

[@nillawafer9542]

I was about to be like “But Fae/Faer is offensive to Celtics” but since they’re Celtic it’s chill. (I’m also Celtic so that’s why I was going to comment that)

[@2small4theMall]

@@nillawafer9542 can you elaborate how you're celtic

[@yurap7923]

As a they/them non-binary person, i’m honored to have my pronouns as top notch

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

Hey, this might be a weird question, but how did you know that they/them pronouns fit you? I’ve been struggling with my pronouns and have always felt a sort of connection with they/them pronouns, but idk if I just find them fascinating or if I want to use them. (I’ve been fighting myself in a circle for several months over this.)

[@-Foliage-]

@@MoonlitBookworm73 why not just say you want to try using they/them along with your other pronouns? You can always change your mind later if you decide you don't like them being used to describe you.

[@phinnking]

i generally see myself as a (relatively) binary trans dude but i honestly love neopronouns. i dont use them irl but online i like using bug/bugs pronouns. they just make me happy :)

[@nillawafer9542]

I know a person named bug and I wish they used bug/bugs pronouns 😫😫😂😂😂

[@yvy.830]

bug/bugs pronouns just gives me a sense of warmth even tho i feel no connection to them

[@alexdoorn234]

I use any but she/her pronouns but I looove pronouns based on dragons. Scale/scaleself sound awesome and I like aer/aerself pronouns. But I love neopronouns in general and would love it if people used them for me.

[@bug4676]

@@nillawafer9542 hi I'm a person named bug who uses bug/bugs

[@thatdudeAaron]

I don't even use bug/bugs pronouns, but I'm in love with them

[@pianopanicattack]

finding out that not only does noah know what otherkinity is but is just so casually supportive of it made me almost cry of joy i never expected to see that at all

[@randomhuman2318]

Gorillaz fan spotted! Woo hoo! 🥳🎉

[@pianopanicattack]

@@randomhuman2318 they dont know im blorbo from their shows……

[@questionme7006]

I actually use he/they pronouns and are currently experimenting with bun/bunself as a transgender male. I understand if you find some neopronouns difficult, but it gets better with time! Thank you for being inclusive, you the man!

[@theparadigm8149]

What is a “bunself”? 😭 Wait, never mind… it’s rabbit kin… strange…

[@theparadigm8149]

Oh, it’s “otherkin”… I’ll let it slide, but ONLY because “otherkinocracy”, which is government controlled by otherkin, is on the PolCompBall Anarchy Wiki (such an informative Wiki!)

[@invinciblesummer13]

i’m an english major and i think i would find neopronouns so interesting to research, it would be a cool topic for a paper in a linguistics or theory class

[@aspenc9093]

another iconic pronoun is pitter/patter. I've never had someone use them for me but like how iconic. Also, I feel you on neopronouns being confusing, I use neopronouns and it can be hard to remember which is the right one. have a slay day (:

[@L3O7M]

Pitters pronouns are very cool. I hope pitter enjoys pitterself on this slay day. 💚 (hoping i used these right)

[@phinnking]

omg pitter/patter :0 /pos

[@nillawafer9542]

What neo pronouns do us you? It uses it/its pronouns and Xe/Xem pronouns as a secondary. It also doesn’t use I pronouns, lol.

[@aspenc9093]

@@nillawafer9542 I use they/them, xe/xem, and pitter/patter, though I’m pretty much cool with any.

[@nillawafer9542]

@@aspenc9093 How would one use Pitter/Patter promouns? It is very curious and it would love to know :)

[@NateChaos]

This was really interesting. I have I am friends with someone who uses fae/faer. But still kinda confused on how to properly use neopronouns but working on it. I'm a trans guy so I'm he/him and I think all pronouns are pretty damn neat. Much love and see you in Massachusetts on the 7th!

[@NateChaos]

@Ville Hmm... Interesting

[@r4y903]

@Ville bro why r u trying so hard 💀

[@supersaturn0008]

@Ville u rlly tried💀

[@gunilvvs]

@Ville Oh. there was an attempt..

[@sleepieststars]

"I love her hair" "her hair is so pretty" "I love fae's hair" "faer's hair is so pretty"

[@wrennnnnnnnn4811]

I use ey/em pronouns! And I chose them because I didn’t feel like the binary pronouns don’t fully fit me all too well. I found them probably just on the internet somewhere and tried them out and it felt so good to use them :)) like it felt like me I can’t give a better explanation than that but it always makes me happy to see representation

[@sidragoncutie4843]

I’m a DID system, some of the alters in my system go by it/it’s pronouns. Most of them who use those pronouns describe that it gives them a sense of something completely outside the binary, which helps them connect to their identity more. -Milo

[@0_ello_010]

that makes sense tbh :)

[@anoria6739]

same thing here tbh -Yosi

[@i_like_cereal2492]

yo fellow sys :D -q!Will

[@raven5644]

Another system woo 🎉

[@kuroi_inu7443]

Fellow system lessgooo ✨✨✨ -🌈

[@skylar_the_aetherian]

I used to use ae/aer/aerself pronouns (I dont use them anymore due to losing friends because of them/people not using them). I liked those pronouns specifically because of how i associated it with the word “aether.” I dunno i just really like the way it sounds and how its written

[@tuturtley]

that's so interesting!!! I've always like ae/aer but never used it myself and never really know why...? I just really like the sound especially since aer is pronounced as air and idk I like Air a Lot

[@skye2271]

holy shit sorry for the random comment but my nqmes are skye (which some ppl see as short for skylar so I've decided to accept that as a nickname) and aether and your name and the comment are so coincidental and awesome

[@skylar_the_aetherian]

@@skye2271 yooo thats cool! I named myself skylar or sky for short because of how the sky and aether are related :0

[@skylar_the_aetherian]

@@peppermint5117 i say go for it! Life is too short to care so much about what other people think. Do what makes you happy :)

[@alexdoorn234]

@@tuturtley saaaame I love any pronouns related to dragons or the sky. So I have used scale/scaleself and aer/aerself pronouns before. Well I still like if they're used for me but there isn't a lot of people that would use neopronouns for me.

[@soupnoodle5909]

Sometimes I forget that I am a neopronoun user... My pronouns in English are just they/them and he/him, but I live in Germany. We've been trying to find neutral pronouns equivalent to they/them for SO LONG. Some people use sier or sie*er (or a different mashup of she and he), or xier, I've seen mensch (human), literally just english they, and fairly commonly no pronouns. I use dey/deren, which is kind of they, kind of plural-ish

[@hii_imjamie]

SAME!! Its sad how we don’t have any „official“ gender-neutral pronouns tbh :,) I also use gender neutral pronouns, but instead of dey or sier i use Es (It) because I like it and feel comfortable with it :D

[@soupnoodle5909]

@@hii_imjamie that's fair and honestly fucking powerful. I personally for me just don't feel comfortable with the dehumanising aspect of it/its, no matter what language

[@snailhouse_hermit1850]

For that reason I've become really great at not using pronouns all together. I just use their name until they figure their pronouns out. It's really a curse to find the fitting pronoun for my german NB friends

[@hii_imjamie]

@@soupnoodle5909 Thats understandable! I personally don’t see it/its as a dehumanizing or „not-human“ pronoun, for me its just another gender neutral pronoun like They/them. But I can totally understand why others don’t feel comfortable with it

[@wintahwonderland]

i also use dey/denen/deren in german but i actually prefer fae/faen/faer :)

[@SpringApricot]

I use fae/faer pronouns - for me it's because I'm autistic c: There's theories that many fae legends (e.g. changeling kids) came from people interpreting autistic folks as non-humans.

[@klitzy]

I'm on the spectrum too and I was obsessed with fairies as a kid. This fun fact made me smile, it's so cute. Thank you.

[@laurelelasselin]

WAIT WHAT THAT'S AMAZING I'm also autistic and slightly obsessed with faerie-related stuff so this made my day :D

[@ButterflyLlama]

My brother is autistic and I’m not sure why but this makes my feel very happy that other people relate to him. I’m sorry if this is offensive in anyway, I’ll delete or fix this comment if so

[@-Foliage-]

@@ButterflyLlama idk why it would be seen as offensive that you're glad that the desire to be part of a group of similar people can be fulfilled for someone you love that society says is not a normal person

[@ButterflyLlama]

@@-Foliage- I’m sorry I usually try and be very careful about what I say I don’t react well to any hateful comments and usually try to avoid it so I apologize about that

[@ghost-bo8nm]

i use he/they/xe and i really like how xe feels personally masculine to me while still being andryongus or whatever. im a boyflux demiboy so it's important to me to have both :)

[@zenthiat2292]

Personally, I have a pretty strong connection & sense of security in certain emojiself pronouns. Unfortunately, there’s a lot of discourse around the idea of using emojis as pronouns (inside & outside of the trans community) and due to my inability to deal with ppl having a problem with me, I have been unable to bring myself to use emoji pronouns at all. I feel comfort from them due to them feeling (for myself) like somewhat of a dehuman pronoun as you mentioned. It/its, thing/things, pronouns like those very much bother me when they’re used for me (racism reasons), and I’m unaware of other dehuman pronouns that aren’t attached to a certain topic or theme if that makes sense. Due to things relating to my mental health, I feel a very strong disconnect from feeling like a person, and it has affected my gender. He/him is the pronoun I am most comfortable with, as I identify mostly as a dude- however other genders I use to describe myself (alongside trans man/transmasculine) are the other half of my bigender label, which I use to include demi-offboy. The “demi” there I use as an umbrella to make room for scribblegender flux & scribbleflux is an umbrella for me of a handful of very specific ones like clownillix. Because of the way my gender frays, the idea of having an object image as a pronoun appeals to my sense of self greatly. So, that’s why! Using images as pronouns is entirely a gender euphoric thing for me, however, due to the hate on emoji pronouns (and the point that people always say the only valid use of them is if someone can’t come out & therefore uses emojis as a replacement pronoun) I don’t use them even though I know what mine would be. I just can’t handle the stress caused by knowing how much people disprove of emoji pronouns. If you’re curious, these are the emojis 💤 / 🍴/ 🧷 / ♟ / 🚂 / 🖍. The emojis chosen are ones that are either related to one certain character I’ve grown to have an emotional attachment to, the feeling of the item, or even the related subject to it & how it relates to me or my gender. For me personally, they would indeed be strictly online, however I’ve heard of others who would find a nounself equivalent for irl! Unfortunately I don’t really feel the same comfort from nounself pronouns as I feel from the image of the emoji itself. Not sure why that’s the case. Unrelated but per/pers is a pronoun I was completely unaware of somehow, and even though I do feel a disconnect from personhood, I think the vagueness of those pronouns may bring some comfort to me in my own sorta way. I might look into using those too, to see if I could get a similar comfort of detachment from them as I do with the emoji pronouns. Thanks m8!

[@will-woods-hat]

i use quite a few neopronouns, but my favorites are spark/sparkling ! reasons:: 1. GLITTER !!! SPARKLESSSS 2. comfort character (sparkling cookie) 3. lightning kinda. spark. i named myself after a character who has lightning powers so,, hehe so in summary: adhd

[@wataeisex]

THATS SO SLAY

[@gh0stly_retr048]

Wait, what is your name, if you don't mind me asking? Also can you give me an example how to use these incase I meet someone else who uses spark/sparkling?

[@xaff0]

a crk player ? also i love ur pronouns they're really cool :)

[@alexihavenoidea]

thats really cool! on a totally unrelated note, i might need to update my pronouns…

[@ieatknees8830]

What-

[@Deepseadread6]

Honestly I wish everyone had Noah’s attitude, some of y’all need to realise that just bc you don’t personally understand something doesn’t mean your first reaction should be hostility

[@annaw9687]

Right! Everyone’s different and as long as they’re not hurting anyone, it doesn’t matter if they like something that seems unusual to others. Why would I go out of my way to disrespect someone for no reason?

[@alistair.404]

This was such a neat video. I personally use he/they/it pronouns. I'm a demiboy, so I like using masc and gender neutral pronouns. But, I like using it/its pronouns for multiple reasons. A) I am an enigma who can not be bound by silly mortal things such as gender. B) I have issues with dissociation and being disconnected from reality in general due to my really bad anxiety issues, so using pronouns like it/its gives me this sense of acceptance with myself and my situation. My dissociation is always going to be a problem in my life, and I've accepted that I'll never be truly in touch with reality because of it. So, I use it/its as a way to cope and to comfort myself. C) It sounds cool, and if a transphobe or some meany calls me an "it" I can hit them with the "Thanks for using my correct pronouns. :)" and enjoy the look of confusion, horror, and fury wash over them.

[@playswith_squirrels]

yo that's so cool that you're able to feel comfortable with that part of yourself through other pronouns :0

[@andysgacha-3-]

@Ville that sounds like your problem

[@phinnking]

@Ville ur mom

[@the_alien_1239]

@Ville ok, you just used they/them pronouns to talk abt someone in that transphobic paragraph you’ve written and then you say they can’t be used. Just stop. What do you get from spreading hate? I honestly don’t and can’t understand that. Please just go do something else and educate yourself. You’ll just make people feel worse about themselves if you comment this. And that might be your aim but it really shouldn’t be.

[@the_alien_1239]

I’m so glad you could feel more comfortable with that part of yourself!! Pls don’t listen to the transphobe and don’t let them get to you or make your day worse. Thanks for sharing this, it’s really cool :))

[@amypond7631]

I use several pronouns including neos and honestly I picked them just because I vibe with them. Like, I see some online and I just go, "Yeah. That's cool. I like those vibes." and then I chuck them onto the list. I do the same thing with names; I'm a bit of a word hog

[@HistoricalDeceit_CH]

I go by it/they at first I honestly thought the only pronouns were she/her, he/him and they/them but then I looked more into it and found all of these other neopronouns I thought to myself thoughts like, “it is good.” (Referring to myself, I tested mostly all the other neopronouns I found and I found out that I really liked it/its and they/them and so I told my friends, my friends were okay with it and now try to use the preferred pronouns I have.

[@zwodder_]

I loved the concert Noah!! I was the kid right next to the microphone wearing a rainbow hat! Happy pride month by the way 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️!! Edit: I am sick and this video cheered me up a lot

[@sully0414]

Hope u feel better soon :)

[@sully0414]

Also happy pride month!! 🏳️‍🌈💕

[@the_alien_1239]

Hope you feel better soon!! Make sure to rest up, happy pride month!! Enjoy the video :))

[@travistheteddybear5264]

Feel better soon!! Happy pride month as well, stay safe! :D

[@MH-wd8sw]

Happy pride month, and I hope you feel better soon! 🏳️‍🌈❤🏳️‍⚧️

[@starh4te]

Hiii neopronoun user here, we started using neopronouns due to ~mental illness~ and not really feeling connected to social constructs due to autism. (You should do research on how gender can be affected by being neurodivergent). Our “normal” pronouns are they/he but we also use neopronouns vey/vem/veir, ve/vim/vis, and ze/zem/zeir. For us these were inspired by our love for the “Transylvanian” and German “accent” and our obsession with vampires but everyone’s pronoun journey is different.

[@buttons256]

Autism is not a mental illness 💀

[@idk.3184]

I might be dumb and I’m so, so sorry if this is offensive. But are you speaking for multiple people or are you a system?

[@mrwofferzwafflez]

Some people tend to use “we” instead of “I”. There are a lot of reasons why, for instance, people with “mental disorders” or even people who wish to be referred in a different way. Hope that helps 🙂 Also, hotelviago, I feel that. I am also autistic and (partially) use neopronouns. I use he/its, in my case. Personally, I feel that the variety of pronouns is like a godsend for neurodivergents. Social constructs and “typical human behaviour” is hard lmao 😂

[@buttons256]

@@idk.3184 they’re making it seem like autism is a “mental illness” when it isn’t at all, it’s a cognitive disability. In NO way does autism cause hallucinations or voices in your head or ANYTHING like that at all. If someone with autism experiences those symptoms they have schizophrenia as well as autism. I just wanted to explain that since they aren’t answering, it’s extremely offensive to call autism a mental illness.

[@junemck.5531]

@@buttons256 I'm not sure if that had anything to do with what they were saying. They said struggles with mental illness and autism, not mental illness that was autism. They're most likely talking about two different things!

[@lanaholic3015]

Happy pride month to all the hot gays 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@fuck_youtube_handles]

hot gay here thank you v much

[@DinosaurNick]

What bout the hot frying pans? XD

[@Lemyai]

I use He/They and Ze/Zir.I really just tested many different pronouns,first I used she/her (I was born Female) and I realized I felt unhappy,I then went with gender neutral,then gender fluid,but then I went with he/they pronouns.I felt happy but still incomplete,I found out about NeoPronouns and felt an instant connection to Ze/Zir.I tested them out and I loved them and now this is where I am today!

[@Kabbaway]

I use a variant of fae/faer - I also use they/them, but I gravitated towards fae/faer because of my witchcraft practice, and for reclamation from the use of "fairy" in homophobic and ableist contexts (many disabilities were once thought to be the result of babies being switched out for fairies called changelings) since I'm queer/trans and autistic. I have spoken to some Celtic pagans, and they were pretty indifferent to the idea of using the word being cultural appropriation (the word isn't exclusive to Celtic cultures) and were more so concerned about the Fae (fairies or fair folk) harassing people who use those pronouns for putting themselves on the same level as them. As a respectful precaution to avoid appropriation or invoking the wrath of the Fae, I tweaked the spelling to phae/phaer and the Celtic pagans who I spoke to were happy with that 💚

[@TeheheheheÆHH]

Slay

[@jannekejaeschke8500]

Our problem in germany is, that we don’t have something translating to they/them pronouns.. A pretty good, tho still not perfect, option I only found out about recently is to use the word “Mensch” which means “human” and I think this functions so well, because it only has one syllable. Still.. It’s always getting used to and establishing it in new groups which is hard..

[@kalt1x787]

Oh, I didn't know that. My home language is pretty similar to Dutch and German, and we have a something translating to they/them. That must suck tho... I imagine it must be hard to explain to people that you want to be referred to as "human", explaining stuff to people who don't want to understand is difficult. But a language is always evolving, so hopefully there will be a translation for they/them in the future

[@Stella-iW123]

Gibts nicht dey/deren oder sowas

[@holdyouunder]

@@Stella-iW123 viele wollen die nicht benutzen weil’s neos sind :/

[@Stella-iW123]

@@holdyouunder Jo aber die klingen ziemlich richtig yk. Like es macht Sinn, irgendwie.

[@holdyouunder]

@@Stella-iW123 ja, wenn ich im deutschen they/they benutzen wollen würde, würde ich auch dey/deren benutzen. aber viele sagen dann aber immer, wenn man darum bittet dey/deren für einen zu benutzen “das sind aber keine “”echten”” pronomen”. which sucks. aber ja, es klingt sehr logisch dey/deren zu benutzen!! :)

[@eldenworm5509]

YESS!! i love that someone finally talked about it/it’s pronouns!! they are my favorite pronoun and i love to use them.

[@gingercore69]

My biggest problem with neo pronouns is that sometimes i find it hard to pronounce them

[@ricethericey]

u can always just ask :]

[@NoNonsenseSkyblockGuides]

I get the exact same but like people can't get mad for me calling them they/them since its legit gender neutral (it can't be missgendering) so I end up just referring to people regardless of gender with they/them

[@ditzy._]

@@NoNonsenseSkyblockGuides if you know someones pronouns and still use they/them but they dont use they/them it is indeed misgendering-

[@samb92340]

@@ditzy._ imagine being that privileged to feel offended by pronouns.

[@MetalWire_]

@@ditzy._ facts, i use he/him and they/them pronouns make me heavily uncomfortable💀

[@Luckylylac]

I absolutely love how accepting this comment section and video are

[@KM-in6fj]

It’s great to finally meet someone who thought they were nonbinary then realized they were trans binary to binary instead of vice versa. Thank you for making me feel less alone :]

[@obsidianyuhh]

I'm someone who uses two sets of pronouns, actually. It/It's/Itself and E/Eim/Eir I'm a non binary person who simply uses them bc they're comfy and I like em.

[@Birb_Boi]

I use any pronouns, what I do is tell each person what I want them to call me, for example I will tell one person he -him or z-zem to another person. It is so fun and I got some more from this video, thank you.

[@juniperfox1064]

Love your outlook these days on gender / pronouns / what have you. I have been out as trans for 5 or 6 years and am now comfortable playing around with it. I think of myself as using pronouns chaos. I often list they/he/she/ze if people are listing pronouns, but i’ve experimented and I have an affinity for ey/em, it/its, and lately I like shey/shem/sheir (like she/they combined.) It feels like such a weight lifted for me as a trans person to say “it doesn’t matter how people read me / refer to me because I am a lot of things, and I can feel however i want about it myself at different times. edit: OH AND I LOVE THE OLD ASS NEOPRONOUN THON/THONS

[@cursedwithsetience4017]

@Ville refer to my review on your trolling.

[@analusboxhole864]

Voidgender is an umbrella term within an umbrella term that might come up if ya hang out in Agender spaces and it means (im gonna pull the wiki out for this) : ''a gender which is an absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be. It is often used synonymously with voidgender, which is defined as a gender coming from or associated with the void, although they are not the same thing.'' here ya go

[@Bethdontseeme]

6:10 I’m from Skokie and you pronounced it right. So cool to see my city being a part of history!

[@ghostplaylists]

I love the fact that with every pronoun Noah is like " If you have these pronouns..." and I'm over here using all pronouns

[@L3O7M]

Comrade, same I feel like we are hoarding pronouns. 👹

[@eh9918]

I also use all pronouns. Prefer they, but any are ok :)

[@FiSH-iSH]

@@eh9918 nice rhyme youve got there hehe

[@DinosaurNick]

I don't use all but I use multiple ....

[@alexdoorn234]

I use any but she/her pronouns because I don't feel feminine at all. But he/him, they/them, it/its + any neopronouns is ok they feel good.

[@alexbrewster4317]

Honestly the hardest thing I have with pronouns is that "I" is a pronoun. I don't know what about that I don't like lmao... I'm a linguistics student

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

@Ville Go bully some Fortnite kids.

[@qunni3604]

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 wtf is ur problem

[@eveybeana4691]

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 you are a gachatuber, shut up and stop making arguments where there are none.

[@nvmindem]

As someone who's not a native English speaker I just don't understand why "I" is written with capital letter lol like I'm not that important. It gives off western individualism. Also it looks weird because it's just one letter AND capitalized.

[@alexbrewster4317]

@@nvmindem I think it's because of it representing a proper noun? But at the same time you're right (about the general superiority complex) because none of the other English pronouns need that.

[@nvmindem]

I didn't know ey/em existed as standalone pronouns before, I only met them in the context of someone dropping the "th" because they speak too fast. But I use they/them and my name is Em, so now I'm considering using ey/em too. It just makes sense.

[@FiSH-iSH]

the amount of ey’s and em’s that would be used in a conversation about you would be insane and i love it :)

[@0_ello_010]

yeah i say ‘em’ when i try to say ‘they’ lol

[@em.elizabeth7368]

As someone that lives in Chicago Illinois, you pronounced that correctly, honestly im impressed you said it correctly without the "s". most people in the US pronounce the "s". And Skokie was also pronounced right.

[@WhyIsLif3]

Wait people say Illinois with the s?!

[@em.elizabeth7368]

@@WhyIsLif3 yeah, your not supposed to, but i have family from Arizona, they say the s, family in Indiana say the s, and i have seen other people talking about states and they say the s.

[@pablozanoto5801]

My language (PT-BR) is a language that assigns gender to every word. Examples: Chair is female, duck is male. The gender in the word itself has no effect, only aesthetics. But when we use it to refer to people, we only have ele/ela (it would be he/she) and masculine pronouns are used to refer to everyone who does not reveal gender/generalized gender. I'll cite his/your example: "Oh, someone lost their wallet. *He* must be worried." This caused intrigue and for years people have been trying to formulate a neutral version of the words, with the militants and "sealers" (sorry, I don't know a word for your language) bringing more visibility. Our grammar works like this: For the majority, every masculine word ends with the letters O, E, R. Ex: -Carpinteir-o (Carpenter♂️) -Aquel-e (That♂️) -Professo-r (Teacher♂️) And generally, every feminine word replaces the O, E by A or adds A to R. Ex: -Carpinteir-a (Carpenter♀️) -Aquel-a (That♀️) -Professor-a (Teacher♀️) Maybe you're asking yourself "Why create a new neutral alternative if the masculine already does it?". According to several studies, this generic masculine is a consequence of what we call linguistic sexism. It has even been proven that when people hear the supposedly "neutral" masculine words, most of the time, only men come to mind. No women, or non-binary or all people in general. We also use the generic masculine to refer to groups. If there is a man and a woman, together they will be "eles" (They♂️). If there are 99 females and only 1 male, they will still be "eles", even though the predominant gender is female. So, some people have formulated and use neutral forms, like the they/them. The systems are: -Elu (replacing all O, E, A or adding to the R by the letters E, U). Ex: Carpinteir-e; Aquel-u, Professor-e. I use these pronouns, even though I'm a cis man, because Elu is neutral, and I don't see a problem with using neutrality with me. -Ile (Replacing every vowel in the penultimate syllable with I, changing the masculine words, or using the E in the same way as Elu). Ex: Carpinteir-e; Aqu-i-le. I accept those too, but I prefer the first. -Ilu (mixture of previous systems). Ex: Aqu-i-l-u; Professor-e. -Elo (Basically Elu, but it only changes or adds O to words with E, R, A , having to replace the O by E too). Ex: Carpinteir-e; Aquel-o; Professor-e/o. -El (It simply removes the gender-applying vowel and adds E to R). Ex: Carpinteir_; Aquel_; Professor-e. Honestly, the hardest pronoun to use for me. Well, now you might be thinking "That's it. Now your language has a decent neuter gender". Unfortunately not. Most people are conservative and do not accept a truly neutral form of language. It is always disrespected and has even been banned from certain schools and universities. It officially "doesn't exists". But we have several linguists on our side and still certain ways of counting as existing. It is not because a word is not in the cultured norm, it does not mean that it does not exist. The whole of Brazil uses foreign words and slang, which are also not part of the cultured norm, still that's not why we make fun of it or criminalize it. Neutral language, as well as slang and foreign words, are part of the colloquial portion of the language. So yes, the NB language exists. Even if they ignore this fact and say that the neutral already exists, there is still one more fact. The NB language is an alternative, so much so that we only use it with people who want to be called that. If you want to abolish an alternative because the original version already exists, then we must abolish ALL synonyms. Thanks for reading this far. #Transrights

[@cryptidflower9240]

I LOVE THE ZZZZZZZ SOUND, TOO, but I didn’t want a “z” name-so I went with neopronouns. Even if I usually use they/them it still feels freeing for me, as ze/zir has a bit more pizzaz and distance from gender expectations in general (and I never understood gender anyway lol).

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

Weird question, but how did you know they/them, ze/zir pronouns were right for you? I’ve been struggling with my pronouns a lot and I’m trying to just get some idea of what other people feel with them so I can see if maybe I have a similar feeling with certain pronouns. (I’ve been going in circles about this topic for months)

[@cryptidflower9240]

@@MoonlitBookworm73 i think first and foremost, don't pressure yourself as much. gender isn't an exam that you have to give the "right answer" for. for me, ze/zir is devoid of pressure to perform anything, and they/them is a nice neutral ground where i can play around with gender. neither of that was encompassed within the binary status quo, and so i don't feel at home with binary pronouns because it feels like i would be excluding a part of myself. but also, you don't have to feel super attached to your pronouns either, plenty of people feel that way as well. the pronouns i go with at this point in time, are the ones that give me the most gender euphoria, a scale i find much easier to navigate than the ones that give me the least dysphoria. -also feel free to experiment with different ones, online or in person, just have someone use the pronoun you want to try, referring to you in a sentence-

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

@@cryptidflower9240 This is such a sweet and helpful message, thank you! I’m happy to say I have switched my pronouns and my dysphoria is much better!

[@Blue-ly6vz]

Just bought VIP tickets to this tour, so fucking hyped I'm bringing my pride flag and it better get a noah sign 😩😩

[@summer5198]

I was just watching one of your other videos earlier today so this is perfect timing:) happy pride month everyone!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️I hope your month is going great so far🙂🤗

[@Dozingdahlias]

It was very interesting watching the video and reading the comments especially because I didn’t know very much about neopronouns at all or how a person came to realize that they felt right, so it was very educating.

[@idklol4543]

The new EP is so good! I just won’t care and chasing daylight are literally the best songs I’ve ever heard, Noah’s my favorite artist

[@Jeetaruey]

I use thon/thons pronouns. They were coined in 1858 by Charles Crozat as a combining of "that one" that was meant to be used when gender is unknown like singular they tends to be used. They used to be in the dictionary between 1934 to 1961 before it was dropped due to disuse. I chose those pronouns because they sound cool and mysterious and felt they were also pretty simple for people to remember and put into sentences. As well I can tell people my pronouns are older than them whenever they say they aren't "real". Pronouns are a lot like names and I like using something disconnected from binary genders.

[@Nico-qb4kp]

Here to help! Why I chose my Neos; it/its; I feel a disconnect from my humanity and body in it of itself. As someone who was usually attacked by being dehumanized, I learnt to find an odd comfort in it Ze/Zir; I adore the masculinity of the word despite of the gender neutrality in it. Which fully relates to my "disconnected" connection with masculinity! He/Him; Transmasc

[@Nico-qb4kp]

@Ville Bold of you to assume I was ever feminine to begin with

[@Solacedew]

@Nico the flag(s) on sal's mask on your pfp, are they the achillean flag? Sorry for the stupid question my glasses arent working today lol

[@Nico-qb4kp]

@@Solacedew NO LMAO, they're the Argentinean flag and he's drinking mate (which is a national drink/infusion). All good tho, I get the struggle of having shit glasses

[@Solacedew]

@Nico LMAO MY BAD, i was staring at your pfp and struggling to understand if it was the achillean or the Argentina flag because they look kinda similar when they're that small

[@MrEmo_69]

I find it so weird that people can be hateful of identities, like as soon as i found out nb people existed i was like "damn, that sounds cool af" same with otherkins, it's so fascinating for me that there's so many genders, sexualities and etc. Maybe it's because i just love character designing and that stuff definetly makes it more interesting, however i do identify as otherkin and in the nb umbrella lol

[@m0nst3rgutz]

I go by she/xe/it!! I took a “what are your pronouns quiz” thing on quotev and it had pronouns in sentences referring to the person taking the quiz! and I realized that I was more comfortable with she/xe/it than what I was going by at the time which was she/her/he/him :-)

[@sischaotica]

Thanks for teaching me about neopronouns, they're not something I'm familiar with and I'm trying to be a more accepting person. I think it will be good for my mental health ❣️ I should never have been so angry over something that didn't affect me. Being an accepting person is good for everyone (including the people around you.)

[@hvghtcqlzns3891]

I use He/Xe pronouns. i picked Xe/xem/xeir cuz i like how it sounds and looks tbh and it is a neopronoun that just felt right for me when i dont want my pronoun to express a certain gender

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

@Ville Dude stop. No one wants you here. I hope your family abandons you.

[@gacha_xxtuber2218]

@ Ville What is your problem-

[@hvghtcqlzns3891]

@Ville ??

[@r4tboi433]

noah i was in tears and then i watched this and it made me feel so happy ✨

[@patchens7563]

IM SO EXCITED ABOUT YOUR NEW EP NOAH!

[@bellybear8584]

I'm he/she/it because I feel comfortable a pronoun that doesn't stereotypically hold to a gender (I'm bigender (questioning transman)) and from previous experience most neo-pronouns and they/them make people think I'm genderfluid or non-binary :))

[@cattacake]

My preferred pronouns are fae/fir/they/it! I loved this video!! I don't often comment but felt this would be educational. I myself am autistic and have Dissociative Identity Disorder. The pronouns I use are because I heavily associate myself with mythology - due to our DID basing alters and inner world around folklore. Which leads me to feel non-human or beyond the societal norm on two levels (DID and ASD). As well as I do not identify as the body I am in, it is purely a shell. Then on a collective or system level it helps us all feel like our seperate identities are valued, if there is use of the pronouns each alter identify with and helps us be more individual. I also agree the neopronouns can be difficult to understand, We too didn't understand them at first or see the need to use them but over time that has changed. Thankyou Noah for this video it is a really important conversation and there is a lack of education on it. Sending love and acception to all of those reading this comment!! 🌈🥰

[@Kabbaway]

Thank you for your comment, I relate to it so much 💚

[@cattacake]

@@Kabbaway of course!! I'm glad to share it to provide comfort for others in our situation. 💙

[@mik06]

Happy pride month everyone remember always be yourself and everyone is valid 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@sarahsettlemyer2075]

hiya, noah and everyone reading! first of all, i'd like to say thanks to noah for making this video and being inclusive and trying to educate himself in the process without being offensive or trying to be invalidating! he goes in with an open mind and ready to learn and i think that's important! one thing i'd like to point out for his sake is that identifying with certain pronouns doesn't necessarily mean you are otherkin or identify as that thing, but it can just be a strong emotional connection! so bun/bun(ny)self can be used by people who just feel strongly attached or somehow associate bunnies to genders! same with vam (vampires) pronouns, pup (puppies) pronouns, etc.! also, when you used bun pronouns in an example, you accidentally used they pronouns as well! you said "bun came over to my house and bun sat on my bed and THEY sat by bunself" whereas it should have been "bun came over to my house and bun sat on my bed and bun sat by bunself"! i'm not holding that against you as you were making a clear effort to try and accidents happen without even noticing sometimes! but just remember that practice and more familiarization can also help! they can be frustrating or difficult for everyone at first, but it gets easier! also, about emoji pronouns, most people agree that they're text-only and not to be used in real life! though there might be some people who use them beyond the internet and probably have an adapted version for being said aloud (e.g. ☁️self would be cloudself out loud)! as for how i discovered i like my neopronouns, a lot of the time mine stem from trauma (it/its), strong emotional attachments (vam/vamp), or things that feel nice to be called (ae/aer). some people also use pronouns that just fit how they feel in their gender, so some people may use void/voidself because their gender may be absent. of course there are many reasons people use these sets, each unique and valid and worthy of respect and celebration! also, something i love about neopronouns real quick is that there are so many and you oftentimes get to define your own gender however you want, and you can always make new terms if you don't fit any that you've seen! it's truly amazing. you can also use them as any gender, you can even be cis and binary trans people can use them too! and oftentimes, people who use these pronouns understand that it can be difficult and would be more than willing to help you understand or at least know how to use them! just try your best and don't purposefully misgender them!

[@supersaturn0008]

Crap that was long lol. Ty for typing all that out! And thanks for the information

[@_NamNam_]

I fricking love you /j, but still everything you said was great

[@sarahsettlemyer2075]

@@supersaturn0008 yeah, sorry! i'm really passionate about these things! you're always welcome! i don't know everything, but i love to share what i know and learn what i don't! :]

[@sarahsettlemyer2075]

@@_NamNam_ omg, ty! that's so kind! :D

[@FiSH-iSH]

nice essay youve got there, write a book /lighthearted

[@unhumano.bhcsauntie]

i use they/she pronouns, though i highly prefer they/them because she/her makes me somewhat uncomfortable? and in my native language there's no alternative for singular they pronouns, so i have to deal with being referred at as a she, which is quite bad most of the time

[@unhumano.bhcsauntie]

@Ville huh?

[@septiceye_3706]

I felt the "there's no alternative for they pronouns in my native language" so much. I wish the German language would have they/them pronouns, but instead there's virtually only she/her and he/him.

[@Storm-sh7ys]

I think were all so lucky to have a gender neutral pronoun in english it just sucks that so many bilingual people have to deal with getting misgendered in their native language :(

[@cursedwithsetience4017]

@@unhumano.bhcsauntie they're a subpar troll. I'd give them a 0/5 stars, no creativity.

[@AVartist2023]

Hi Noah! This Illinois native just wanted to tell you that you pronounced Skokie, Illinois perfectly! Thanks for keeping the s in Illinois silent! Nothing irritates us more than hearing it called Illinoiz. Love youuuuuuuuuuu!

[@monsoon1247]

I am someone who accepts fae/faer pronouns, they do not refer to someone who identifies with fairies, but I get why'd you assume so. They refer to someone who is gender neutral/non-binary and has a strong connection with femininity. If you are Demifluid, genderfluid, non-binary etc. and feminine, fae/faer can be suitable pronouns for you. 👍 (Hope this helps!) 😊

[@kishluv4836]

ALL PRONOUNS ARE SUPREME PRONOUNS, UR ALL VALID ✨

[@F1reW0lf]

I use xe/xem and I picked them because they simply just felt right for me. I love the sound, the spelling, they are just perfect for me

[@alexihavenoidea]

i use all pronouns including a few neopronouns (i am also okay with almost all neopronouns, i just have a few i prefer), and i guess i chose my neos because they just felt… right? like i heard them, used them for myself for a sec, and was like, yeah, that feels right. also, i like neopronouns because i am genderfluid, and while he, she, or they can cause dysphoria depending one what gender i feel like, neopronouns can feel right no matter what

[@carlygee8866]

WHAATT that is so cool about ey/em pronouns I didn't know the history of those at all and I am from Skokie IL thank you for sharing this Noah! I'm so excited for your Chicago show

[@sabxu4]

i use any and all pronouns now but when i was figuring it all out, i used it/it's before i even considered using they/them. i liked them better cuz it can't be mistaken for a plural noun and it just felt so nice for some reason when i first heard it being used ! :]

[@jannekejaeschke8500]

okay soo i still don’t know how i feel about neopronouns, buut i think you handled this subject very well. Talking about and introducing the pronouns (and even rating them) with respect for the people using them:)

[@bobwaffless8208]

Happy second day of pride month everyone!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️

[@libbettmirabal3624]

that’s really interesting! i’ve never met anyone that uses neopronouns but i’ve always been curious about them and i’ll definitely look more into it, they sound really fucking cool

[@Fishwolfcrow]

It's really interesting seeing all these people explain why they use neo pronouns, always happy to know more about what confused me!

[@iloveboobies5610]

Hi! My name is Jayden, and you've helped come out as transgender. (ftm) So I just want to say thank you because without you I don't think I'd be able to do it. I've been watching you for a little over a year now, and I've loved every second of it. So thank you so much for helping me figure out who I truly am. Love Jayden 🏳️‍🌈

[@jax_firestorm9689]

I use he/him and ze/zim pronouns, and I really like my pronouns. I chose my pronouns pretty easily, and I’m grateful for that. When I was younger, I thought that pronoun=gender, and so I thought I was a man because I liked he/him. I was incorrect. I started using ze/zim pronouns when I was senior in college, because I heard someone using xe/xim, and it sounded cool, but I switched the spelling since (for me) the letter x seems more feminine, and not quite correct for me.

[@happinesspridejoy7394]

So happy you did a US tour ! Had so much fun! P.s. thanks for signing my trans tape !!

[@the_alien_1239]

Happy pride month!! :)) I always love your content (having not watched the video yet, Ik I’ll like it ahah)

[@zwodder_]

Btw Noah played Taylor swift at the concert in Austin (noticed your username sry)

[@eddieisverygay7937]

@@zwodder_ I was there for that :)

[@the_alien_1239]

@@zwodder_ ahh that’s amazing- thanks for letting me know :)) that’s awesome

[@the_alien_1239]

@@eddieisverygay7937 awesome!!

[@Lady_McSassy]

I’m one of the weird older folks that watch you, so I knew these words were around but never really understood where they came from. This is an awesome video! Just one of the many reasons I 💜 your channel.

[@beluud5870]

Speaking of neo pronouns, I use the set *mer/mers* based on the word "mermaid" simply because I feel a very strong connection to the aesthetic, and some days even feel like one myself :] I also use They/Them and She/Her, as I am a demigirlflux. My gender is fluid between feeling like a girly girl (in my case never actually feeling like a woman or connected to the concept of womanhood) and feeling like a fucking void of gender and wanting to chop my tits off lmfao

[@usernameisusernam]

If you don't mind me asking, does Flux just mean that your gender fluctuates?

[@alexdoorn234]

@@usernameisusernam yes! It indicates that outside of being a demigirl the intensity of feeling like a girl fluctuates. I used to go by demiboyflux but I have now given up with trying to describe my gender. It exists it's in a masculine spectrum other then that I don't know and don't care.

[@usernameisusernam]

@@alexdoorn234 thank youu

[@c4tt0_]

omggg mer/mers sounds so cool ^^ I wouldn't use them for myself but I love these pronouns

[@hazel_gacha]

I use any pronouns but I REALLY like mer/mers pronouns

[@lucky_da_gamer_4976]

I always feel like genderfae(a type of a a fluid gender identity that does not include any male-aligned genders) so I like to use any pronouns that sounds fem-aligned more than masc, I personally prefer shey/shem, fae/faer, ze/zir, and xe/xer I also don't mind fey/fem/feir, ae/aer, ey/em, ze/hir, vi/vir, ve/ver, and zhe/zher I still don't really mind she/her much specifically cause there's still so many people that gender normalizes everyone so I'm like, "eh whatever" even though I don't always feel like one, same for they/them except for those that either don't know about the other pronouns or just don't except them XD Edit: mostly prefer shey/shem the more I think of it tbh but still lol

[@Ididitall4thenookie]

That's cool Is there a male version of genderfae?

[@suzannabananav3132]

I use fae/faer because its the perfect combination of feminine and other. My pronouns match my gender(demigirl), which is pretty satisfying xD. It just feels right, they feel like me. Having fae/faer was better for me than using she/they because it felt kinda like I was giving people an out to keep calling me she/her and no one was calling me they/them. I do not identify with fairies(the fae), nor am I otherkin, but I understand why those who do would use them. Also, as far as I know! Fae/faer was created by a demigirl :) i could be wrong, but its so cool to me and brings me comfort that others have felt exactly the same as me Also it has quite the controversy surrounding it, but I dont care. ^-^

[@ark_awaits3367]

Oh that's cool ngl

[@barrianic4]

i once saw a post from somebody who uses it/it's (if i remember correctly, it's because it likes it's idea of being an animal)

[@r0t.r10t.r1p]

I myself am an it/its feller and i have been using them for a long while now while being girlflux, whenever someone see’s me at my school and they are sexist, homophobic, transphobic, and that shitzu it is so fun seeing people try to be rude to me and be sexist without knowing they are using my preferred pronouns :3

[@MaddyMedia]

This is a dangerous game for THOSE people

[@nightcrawler8864]

Conservatives would have a FIELD DAY knowing this exists LMAOO

[@phinnking]

theres already one transphobe in the comments commenting on everything and tbh its kinda funny. people be so mad about WORDS

[@MaddyMedia]

@@phinnking FR

[@MaddyMedia]

@@nightcrawler8864 exactlyyyyy

[@yabbistar]

As someone who is closeted with homophobic family, i also have a closeted trans brother. My pronouns r Ey/Em rn so i was so excited when they appeared here lol. the reason i chose them is they felt the best. Felt more comfortable. Idk why but they r the ones that suddenly stood out after a few minutes of looking up "All neo pronouns." lol And my best friend uses Ve/Ver i think is how u say it i am sToOpEd also Noah ur videos really make me laugh. Then I realize i should stop laughing cuz its 1:00 am

[@randomhuman3493]

Dude those are probably the coolest neo pronouns I've ever heard

[@Baconsarecool7616]

YOU NEED HELP THEN