6 Things A woman Must Do, To Keep Her Relationship Or Marriage (Home)

SPEAKER: Apostle Joshua Selman. Apostle Joshua Selman is a Nigerian Christian teacher, evangelist, and pastor who is the founder and senior pastor of Koinonia, a weekly meeting in Zaria, Nigeria that focuses on the teachings of the Bible. He is known for his powerful preaching and teaching style, which has won him a large following in Nigeria and beyond. Selman has also authored several books and teaches regularly on the principles of leadership, spiritual growth, and personal development. I am only but a messenger who spreads the good news and I DO NOT CLAIM RIGHTS OR OWNERSHIP TO HIS MESSAGES.
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Everyone who is trusting God for marital settlement and fruits of the womb, you will receive it in Jesus name 😁🙌🏾 God is doing a new thing o 😁

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Amennnn

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Amenn

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@@nicoleken9644 Amen in Jesus mighty name

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Halleluuujah!🙌

[@odetoluoluwatoyin856]

Amen. In Jesus Name

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I will come back with a testimony in Jesus name Amen,,somebody like my comment ❤❤❤

[@PreciousUkamakaJohnpreciou-d1d]

Good morning ma I my thank you thank you I worship thank you for everything thank you Lord

[@celialanga1457]

I have learnt so much from this Man, I literally stood up and fixed my kitchen for real as I understood that it's a service in the marriage. From the Day I listened to this message I make sure my husband sleeps in a heavenly well made bedroom. In fact, I am not a wife who can cook perfectly but these teaching encouraged me to learn and improve to make the service o Marriage honourable to my husband. Thank you Apostle Joshua Selman, my life is being reshaped.

[@rosejoseph8805]

Thanks God for his word through the man of God glorrry

[@chidinmaelue7501]

This is a great testimony.... A bliss home forever 🥰

[@Leratobusika]

Thank you man of God for your teachings.. I'm this kind of a woman who have anger issues and once I'm angry even my husband can't talk to me coz I become fire.. I don't like this man of God and I ask you to pray for me because I am seeing my self loosing my husband one day through my anger and this mouth of mine. 😢😢😢

[@Okatakyie20]

​@@Leratobusika you will change

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God bless you

[@Reachforsalvation]

To anyone who is listening to this, today I pray for favor, breakthroughs, peace of mind, and mercy upon you, Amen!🙏🙏🙏

[@mathewsmtambo3622]

Amen

[@bettinachinenyenwa4668]

Amen

[@StellaSimon-pi2fv]

Amen amen amen and amen

[@mercyndeta2984]

Amen I receive.

[@PhilaMerementsi]

Amen I receive

[@nancyadaeze1162]

I receive grace to be a wife to my husband and a virtuous woman and mother to my children in Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏

[@preciouskasanga580]

10 years from today, i want to come back and rewatch this message and appreciate how it has helped me 😊..

[@RiaMel-zd9br]

Amen...

[@ShamellaFraser]

I second this ❤

[@akanyijukasarah]

Me2 with faith

[@feliciabennett111]

I receive grace to be a good wife to my husband and a good mother to my children. I am truly blessed to receive this teaching at a time when I felt like giving up.

[@godwindonkor1276]

Amen God bless this beautiful soul

[@stevenamupolo9937]

I receive grace to be a good galfriend to my 5 years realship boyfriend.. And a good mother to him and my upcoming Bbe.. Wanted to give up in our relationship.

[@musiblijohnbjgjf3799]

Amen..May God help you as you have said..

[@Rita-hr7xr]

I receive your grace my sweet Jesus 🙏 AMEN. .

[@FelisterMatias]

Amen

[@estherduah1983]

Grass is green when it is well watered.... when a man takes good care of his wife she would remain beautiful always... how she looks is a good reflection of the work being done by Mr. Hubby...

[@oluwakemitope9905]

❤❤❤.

[@damikasim1576]

Yes but what he’s saying is that some women don’t care about their looks at all. Once they get married, they just settle down and starts looking haggard along the line. Even if the man is providing and doing the best he can, she doesn’t feel the need to honor her husband by looking attractive. She just believes because she’s married, her attraction no longer matters which ends up irritating the man. That’s the standpoint he’s coming from ma.

[@ruthmbaika7236]

Very true

[@sophiaeloho]

But caring for the home, children, her husband and even her business ain't easy. If a woman don't have a man that assist her in all this things, it won't be easy for some ladies to takia of theirself. That's why they start looking older than their age cos the work load is much. This marriage teaching eh, it doesn't really apply to everyone home. It depends on the situations of the home. No woman can do better when her husband is something else.

[@NimusimaMiria]

As a Single Woman I have learnt Much 🌹, When I get a husband I was treat him well in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏

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[@protasligare195]

Receive in Jesus name

[@cosmasnonje8194]

I receive it and amen🙏🏿.

[@Beautybymanii]

I pray the anger that makes me chase men away should be removed.. I really want to settle down… Lord help me.

[@boitumelomothabela8628]

May God graciously answer your prayer

[@arichaG2009]

Amen and Amen 🙏🏼

[@sharonofthemosthigh5887]

Amen.

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Mmmmm

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Amen

[@roxannminott8256]

Honestly many men force their wives to this point. When you abuse a woman's love and trust, then after she has been frustrated enough she will leave you emotionally but stay with you physically, she will no longer serve you. She will stay but may not gather enough strength or reason to leave you yet but truth is that when a woman have left you in her hear she stops catering to you.

[@immaculateprosper3066]

My dear, I just make a great point

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[@stephaniemambwe9930]

​@@immaculateprosper3066I wish more teachings can be made to men, relationships can be in a better space. Atmosphere in a home must also be set by the man, its not fair

[@elsieegbuna6087]

Don't learn ooo, the problem most of you have is blaming men for everything.

[@echeckzita8285]

This is where I belongs. Zero emotions.. May God restore my emotions

[@jalarcosmas4749]

I CONNECT MY WIFE TO THIS MESSAGE IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST AMEN.

[@risperboke7990]

Am here already my love i will make you my king

[@emilyachieng943]

Amen

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[@PatienceEmmanuel-bb]

I pray for a life partner that will love God more than me. Pray to meet someone that will cherish me for my height, body stucture and allegies.

[@kopanomwandi2883]

Amen

[@rachelmoloi1153]

Charity begins at home a big thank you to my late mom for her good teachings from a tender age as a teenager i was already practicing all of these ..man of God is talking about ...it starts with mothers to teach young ones then youll surely be an excellent wife in knowing your position as a wife.. thank you holy spirit 😊

[@elizabethokon2191]

Dear Lord, send me a man who would love me like you do and treat me like a QUEEN.... And give me the wisdom to love and treat him like a KING that he is 🙏❤️🙏

[@zinuchifim357]

I receive the Grace to be a wife, the Proverbial Wife, the Godly Wife. Amen ❤

[@mulamwiinga3468]

❤

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❤

[@lindasabum6699]

Lord Jesus i pray that you bless me with a man that I'll treat like a king and he will treat me like a queen. Let me be a blessing to that man and may he always find favour because i am his woman . Amen

[@danielososo1039]

Hello

[@jaywill147]

Glory hallelujah!!! I can honestly and truthfully say I AM AN EXCELLENT WIFE to my husband…Lord my hubby & I patiently wait for the fruit of the womb….We trust & know that you will do it for us Lord…Thank you Lord for preparing me for my wonderful husband ….He found me transformed and walking in the glory of God…My sweet hubby is definitely a gift from God….He is my sweet King…My one true & forever love! 👑 ❤️🙏🏽🥰

[@akanyijukasarah]

I pray for my 2nd marriage to succeed will come back with testimony in mighty name of Jesus 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@puritysam1323]

I receive the grace of serving my husband and make him feel like a king in Jesus kingly name

[@aynerbatromeniius9576]

I receive the grace to be chosen as a Wive and a mother,Amen

[@kasaponachinsambwe]

I receive grace to be a good wife to my husband and a good mother to my children 🙏🙏

[@rufaromujuru7638]

I receive GRACE to be a good wife to my husband and good mother for my kids,and good daughter in-law to my in laws

[@user-yc9pz5dq2z]

At 55 years still in marriage, thank you Apostle Joshua Selman,iam learning a lot from you.

[@adongpapetra9630]

From today onwards I decrease that the almighty increase in me so that I carry the full anointing of being a good wife and mother to my family. Amen.

[@hellenwafula4238]

I receive the grace to be a good wife,may I have the wisdom to bring out the king in him. May I never take him for granted in Jesus' name🙏

[@winniefredkyebawaire2865]

I have learnt alot,may God help me to be a good and inspiring wife to my dear husband and the best mother to my children in Jesus'Name 🙏

[@2011frieda]

As much as i would like to agree to the video, some men are just abusers. You will do all all kinds of things for them, physically, emotionally, financially s....xually and yet, they won't appreciate your efforts. Infact, they keep on nagging and expecting too much until you're completely worn out😢

[@zimmy6481]

That's why you have to be sure God leads you to the right person.

[@faithy6767]

That’s why you have to marry a God fearing man

[@tanakachoga4118]

Not all men are husbands.

[@GiftJerome]

This excuse is when you don't want to change listen to the message honestly

[@JCHEALS]

Yes. This message is for wives of real God-fearing husbands not narcissistic abusers.

[@sossothedivinegrace536]

I will soon get married. Please God give me grâce to be a good wife and please my man everyday of our Life. Amen 🙏

[@NamutebiSophia-ci1mh]

Amen and Amen sis

[@theolinachiebuka8307]

I receive extra grace to keep being a good wife to my husband and amazing mother to my children. And through His grace , His blessings will abound. Amen.

[@RachealMulungi-ne4ns]

I receive the favour, mercy and marriage abundance in Jesus'name. Amen

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Hi

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The word touch

[@myaandjamba8028]

I declare I must be a good wife and mother in Jesus name 🙏🏽

[@DiazShadia]

😊❤🎉😢😮

[@naturindafaith1621]

How I wish that you also talk to our husbands to also treat as queens

[@kelebogilemodise8442]

Most teachings are for women

[@daisymageza1921]

Thank u so much Apostle not everyone can teach us this hidden things that destroy our marriage wooow l have learned a lot. God help me to be a good wife to my husband & & good mother to my children in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏😍

[@makwasimilton6820]

Lord Jesus i pray you give me the grace to manage my children and look after my husband

[@wendysupang8776]

This message changed my life...thank you Lord for your servant Joshua Selman..

[@nchimunyamweemba5525]

I've learnt so much from this teaching, its true some women just rush into marriage when they are not wives or mothers. The Man of God forgot the bedroom too. Some women can't even spread their own beds, clean, fold and arrange clothes, its disaster everywhere. I will keep this message to be re-watching

[@getrudekalota1115]

I have learned a lot and willing to improve on my weaknesses in Jesus name. And lord help me and strength me🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@MaryJohnson-co5tw]

Thank you for reminding me how to Love my Man the way God intended for me too. I don't ever want to lose his Love. Thank you for telling me how to keep him as my King.

[@kerethajackson2435]

Truthhhhhhhhhhhh Pastor, Truthhhhhhhhhhhh. Preachhhhh , better is the slap of a friend than the kiss of an enemy. Praise the Lord. Cleanliness is Godliness ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lydiayatommy1530]

I trust in God to get a job this year and to receiving a fruit of the womb in jesus name.

[@jaywill147]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@elizabetholajumoke1942]

God please help me to receive the grace of being a good wife to my husband,good mother to children and good daughter-in-law to my in law in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏

[@passionateruth594]

Amen I proclaim this prayer to🙏🏾

[@blessed1958]

❤❤❤Amen and Amen

[@damarlswanjlru6935]

Every honour come with responsibility...God help me to be a good wife and a good mother❤❤❤

[@4-real950]

Messages like this is why marriage is falling apart in Nigeria. SO much focus on the ladies and nothing about the men!

[@mrsdeborahurio]

To help and compass him.....!

[@uwagboetosin7386]

You're sounding like someone that got struck with this words. Focus on what u gained. Pick yours and change. He will meet his message too . Focus on what you've learnt.

[@uwagboetosin7386]

You're sounding like someone that got struck with this words. Focus on what u gained. Pick yours and change. He will meet his message too . Focus on what you've learnt.

[@xolilezeemasina3131]

Oh Apostle,More Grace upon you sir.I pray for my daughters to adhere to God as they find in Jesus Name

[@lineekelahamutenya9352]

I receive by God’s grace to be a wife, mother and Godly wife who fights her battles on her knees 🙏🏽

[@YakubuPatience-lv6vl]

I will soon come back to testify God's faithfulness over my life 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@puritysam1323]

Lord am trusting u for the fruit of my womb and healing of my marriage

[@twinejoviij5307]

Amen

[@TracyKabengele]

Thank you man of God ooooo,if am becoming who I am in my relationship ,is because of you daddy.thank you Soo much ,live long in the name of Jesus christ.am all this far in DRC

[@MandisaKhalishwayo-um7lg]

I receive grace to be a good wife and a good mother indeed in the name of Jesus , thank u father for your words of wisdom

[@emenikeijeoma5114]

My husband for sure when he shows up is getting a heavenly treatment for the sake of this message.. Thank you Apostle Selman

[@folakebanke6054]

Beautiful words Eye opener Thanks sir and More Grace in Jesus Name 🙏

[@victoriaali6988]

This man is really God sent person,l have aquire so much from him.🙏🙏🙏

[@dorcaszulu4268]

AMEEEEN I celebrate the GRACE upon your life Apostle DADDY More GRACE Apostle Sir

[@uzudikeprecious7353]

I bless dis day,,,I cnt stop listening to u Sir and listening to you without my writing materials is a taboo, May God continue to keep you Sir and we de listeners, may de words u share 2ru de inspiration of God Almighty always dwell in us. Amen.

[@wendyomaz751]

I receive grace to be a good wife to my husband and a virtuous woman and mother to my kids

[@Kimberly_97]

I’ve received grace to be a wife, mother in Jesus name. From now I will go our the man the lord is bringing for me. I will uplift him and hold him never to delay or discourage him in Jesus name❤❤❤

[@puritysam1323]

I pray I enjoy my marriage to the fullest and I decree life unto my womb in Jesus mighty name

[@passionateruth594]

Amen and Amen 🙏🏾

[@CindyAoko]

Wow this so amazing am in school about to end,am soon getting married point well taken ad noted down thanks alot for such good lessons

[@rosedaniel6404]

Lord i will soon get married . Please give me grace to be a good wife . And please my husband everyday of our life, in Jesus name AMEN.

[@usonjecheonga8751]

This to me is a revelation...i dont know why this came today but it came on time...thank you man of God

[@nwankwonkechi6557]

In the name of Jesus anything hindering my marital destiny, I terminate it this moment. Be it spiritual husband , marine spirit I cast them to the pit of hell Amen.

[@anyimgrace]

I join you with a believing AMEN

[@PriscillarSyansowa-ov1gu]

Am learning here and thanks alot for sharing this knowledge it will help me to keep my marriage in Jesus name.

[@fifi-rb2wr]

In the name of Jesus i receive Grace to be a wife

[@chancembissa9751]

What a powerful teaching for relationship? I will never fail in my my marriage in Jesus name.

[@nduharmony9334]

Thank you Holy spirit for speaking to me today 6/10/2023. God please i ask for strength and wisdom to be a good and godly wife,to serve my husband well and make him the king he is every day of his life.Holy spirit take away every spirit of laziness and dirtiness from me in Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏

[@EvelynFese]

Papa I have tried and brought joy by the Grace of God after a broken relationship and we're not in the same country but still give him the respect as if he's in Cameroon with. And the friends are saying he's a coucou how can we live when we've never met since Oct. But I know is a divine arrangement

[@ruthochieng6738]

This is just an amazing sermon Am completely inspired and changed❤

[@sensualallure5325]

Beautiful message for us women and men alike. I appreciate this my dear Father in the Lord for opening our eyes.

[@tatendamercympofu]

In the name of Jesus I receive Grace to be a virtuous wife indeed

[@PrincessEsther-sp7do]

Thank you very much... I have learnt alot how to protect my Relationship because it's start from relationship before Marriage.

[@SusanNyamb-ix5wl]

@l will keep my marriage by this teaching ❤

[@DynessNatashaNato-oi8dt]

Oooh APOSTLE JOSHUA SELMAN you are a blessing to me I have learnt alot in this topic....and about shorting i do short i will first change myself before changing the king in him,

[@akwiirenetapong9445]

I recieve the grace of becoming a good wife and a mother Amen

[@RachealRakl-vn8qo]

I receive the grace to be the best version of a true loving wife.... Bless me Lord

[@emeldahmbaso4200]

In the name of Jesus I receive Grace to be a good wife and mother 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@natrisvivian]

Above all me am blessed Ap. Joshua God bless you for this anointed revelation.. me i have been leaving my kids to do things and i don't mind but it has touched me and from today am gonna be a change wife and a mother of results in Jesus's name......Bless you Big

[@DanielOladele-n9v]

I receive grace to be a good wife and mother indeed in Jesus Name Amen

[@Rebecca-md3ff]

I receive grace to be a wife to my husband and a virtuous woman&mother to our children in the name above all names ijmn let your will be done upon my life,lord help me bring the king,peace&calmness in my husband.🙏🤲🙌👏❤️

[@fredericaama3013]

In the name of Jesus l receive grace to be a good wife. Amen 🙏🙏

[@mitchellkambeva8948]

Im blessed to have listened to this. Thank you very much Apostle

[@dorcaszulu4268]

I receive GRACE in JESUS CHRIST Might NAME

[@marynekesa166]

God bless Apostle Selman. The wisdom in this message is priceless

[@EniEsther]

I receive the grace to be a good wife indeed in Jesus name amen

[@PatienceAdongo-ln3gh]

I receive grace to be a good wife and a good mother 🙏🏿

[@CarolineChada]

Papa i have tried several times about the danger ahead of him sometimes that of jazebel but the moment i tell him it becomes fire on earth.. no matter how good al i layer the issue he is ignorant infact he supports that

[@mitziejames3095]

❤wow man Of God thank you for this information i am a single mother and a child of God i pray God sand me a hundred because everything you say is true may God continue to bless you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NimusimaMiria]

In Jesus name 🙏 l will be a wife and a mother indeed to my Children ❤ God have Mercy on me and to all who are Listening in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@tresiahamushila4783]

Amen

[@tresiahamushila4783]

I received grace to be wife

[@tresiahamushila4783]

Marital life

[@sommma489]

Learnt this way back in my growing age,my mum of the blessed memory made me learn that my toilet should be clean that one can sit and eat inside now i've passed it to my one and only own daughter. Your sitting room,kitchen and toilet the centre of attraction in a home.

[@nomsasono5630]

I receive Grace to be a good mother and good wife to my feature husband. My bedroom is the covenant for prayer. 🙏🙏

[@AstridahMwale-jy6vh]

I pray to always bring joy and peace in my husband's life

[@Wealth-hp3um]

I received grace to be a wife indeed and a great future mother for my husband and children in Jesus name,👏🙏

[@nyotaxx286]

I didnt know this honestly 😮 Thank you God for the teaching from man if God

[@Sherry-me]

May Gods grace be upon us ladies 🙏

[@oluwatoyinoluwatoyin6023]

And for some of us doing all.this,and yet the man sees us as being desperate.May God lead us to the right men that will appreciate us and not see us as been despite...

[@donnastewart121]

Prophet let me ask you this question and I need an answer what then when the husband from beginning don't take care of his wife the wife has to work and take care of the family don't want to work and when he does no money for food he always has other bills to pay there is more. prophet talk about the husband who don't keep the queen alive

[@charleskimonyi9857]

That not a husband my dear but may I ask ,u wanna mean u did see ths things in the beginning I mean when u were dating

[@donnastewart121]

@@charleskimonyi9857 some people good at hiding

[@lilianbana7735]

Woooooow been blessed, was just having a fight with my husband, may God give m the grace to be a mother to him

[@sharonabbey5690]

I RECEIVE THE GRACE TO BE A GOOD MOTHER INDEED 🙏

[@venyendelorisnyuyeni6173]

It's wonderful. Thank Apostle. Your knowledge and wisdom enriches my soul.