Reacting to Archie Bunker at a Jewish Funeral! 'All in the Family'

[@anslivallario4447]

The writer of this show, Norman Lear, passed away today at the age of 101. He also wrote The Jeffersons. He was able to show us the ignorance of racism through humor. RIP Sir.

[@danbarrasso2253]

Mr Lear was not a writer. He was the creator.

[@karenfryberger4260]

@@danbarrasso2253 Well, to give him his full due: "Norman Milton Lear was an American screenwriter and producer who produced, wrote, created or developed over 100 shows...including All in the Family, Maude, Sanford and Son, One Day at a Time, The Jeffersons, and Good Times." He is listed as one of the writers for All in the Family, along with Rob Reiner and 4 others. Teamwork.

[@rickyb6780]

How about the ignorance of rap music lyrics the way they call one another the 'N' word that you all like cringe when you hear it? How about when Snoop Dogg and other rappers degrade women in the most vicious of terms and way?? I suppose they all get a free pass !! They're just words, and racism by the way exists in individual hearts (black, white, yellow brown, etc...) individual hearts must be willing to change! Don't let your white guilt get the best of ya!

[@kaarlimakela3413]

Talking about things can clear the air. Shining a light on problems is a way to force solutions. Shame on those anxious Greeks writing about sons sleeping with mothers, 'Heroes' who slaughter their whole family because a Deity made him do it. Then again, there are war passages in the Old Testament not suitable for children, yet get screamed from the pulpit. Not to mention Noah and Lot and their sexy daughters wink wink nudge nudge. For fucks sake. Who hates everybody? Not the left. So, can all the white people kill or enslave the world who aren't white? Is that what you want, for hate to go on so you normalize cruelty and the smell of burning bodies? Burn the world? For what? The power to be asshats over everybody else? For some god you allegedly proclaim, whoop de doo it's been done, nobody wants that. I'm not impressed. Nobody would oppress you, if you weren't gerrymandered, and if only the Senate reflected the Population of a State. That's for the future. That y'all think being EQUAL is a psychic insult or some existential threat is a sad state of affairs. I suggest you follow Michael Jordan's advice and Get Some Help.

[@kaarlimakela3413]

Racism is a crime of POWER. Those with the upper hand are the racists, not the people who dislike their attitude and are STILL being messed with. Which makes people angry, etc so why push it? Anyway, whoever does dislike or even hate those with the perennial upper-hand over them in society CAN'T BE RACIST BY DEFINITION. Then the words would angry, frustrated, bigoted, prejudiced because racism hangs onto the human race like leprosy, and it will destroy those who have hate and power and are CRUEL. So. Destroy the human race, or join it. ✌️ outtie 👵

[@tbascoebuzz4782]

Caroll O’Connor was hands down great at delivering a comedic line. No question about it. But inserting drama into the scene, and he was gold.

[@kennethgoin628]

He was a very talented actor, no doubt, because in real life, he was nothing like Archie Bunker, but he sure had everyone believing Archie was for real!

[@musicairplanes4884]

You took the words right out of my life.

[@paulnewell7722]

Boy, you said it. 100%

[@lewistasso8866]

Rest in Peace, Norman Lear. We lost him yesterday. He was responsible for shows like All in the Family. He was a great one.

[@d2d2d28]

One of the all time best sitcoms in all of TV history.

[@drlee2]

The best one, in my opinion.

[@melhenline8438]

And the proof is that it can still generate thoughtful conversations, even among another generation. 🙂

[@jealousjelly]

Great job, you guys. As an old geezer, it gives me renewed hope for this world when I hear younger folks engage in a thoughtful, intelligent discussion of issues that seem even more delicate today than they did half a century ago when I was your age. Just for the record, Carroll O'Connor, besides being a talented actor, was an extremely loving, liberal, charitable and open-minded man and his goal in accepting the role of Archie Bunker was to help the world see how ignorant and destructive bigotry truly is. And I think he accomplished that goal by showing up in our living rooms every week and making us laugh at Archie's foibles.

[@thechaz83]

I feel the same way about these gentlemen. This is why I might support them-something I don’t usually do; you know online stuff, once I get a new job. All of them give me renewed hope for the future. Also, the other day I saw an old grainy video of Carol O’Connor. He was singing and had an almost full head of hair 😂. The man sure possessed a set of pipes!!

[@tab9773]

You might be an "old geezer", but your comments are timeless, insightful, & relevant.

[@gregcable3250]

"Stretch" was a common, friendly nickname for a tall guy back then.

[@AngelaSalatino1]

It's interesting to hear your commentaries. Back in those days, when your buddies or friends made fun of you or your ethnicity, it meant they liked and accepted you. Humor was a bonding agent that allowed us to lightheartedly understand our differences. Today's world is too stiff.

[@jerrycalhounjerryleecalhou4192]

ARCHIE BUNKER WAS THE GREATEST CHARACTER IN TV HISTORY.

[@FallenHellscape]

Nah. Spock. 😄

[@alanjohnson2460]

And he was right

[@dupersuper1938]

@@alanjohnson2460 ???

[@drlee2]

Agreed

[@raymeedc]

Along with Don Knots as Barney Fife….. in my opinion, at least 👌

[@joeconcepts5552]

This is why Archie was such an interesting character, because once he realizes he was making Jewish jokes in front of his Jewish friend, he thought twice about it and felt bad.

[@thechaz83]

Archie was a character who had so many layers. If you watch enough episodes of AITF you begin feeling like they’re real people. I call this 4-5 dimensional characters, or characters on a higher plane.

[@abevillanueva1974]

Archie Bunker, All in the Family in general, would make you laugh until your stomach hurts...and make you cry or be very emotional. Please check out the episodes with Lionel's Engagement, The Stivics moving, and Edith's death. Those episodes are TV classics...the show is an all-time classic!

[@johncurtis7186]

Norman Lear, the creator of ALL IN THE FAMILY, passed away today, at the ripe old age, of 101 years old. Thanks for the laughter!! 😂

[@gh9111]

A sign of a great actor is he could have you laughing hysterically abd 10 seconds later there's tears rolling down your face.

[@jethro1963]

Stretch Cunningham was played by James Cromwell (Babe) (The Green Mile). Interesting bit of trivia; Michael Clarke Duncan (John Coffey) at 6'5" was not the tallest guy in The Green Mile, nor was David Morse (Brutus/Brutal) at 6'4"". The tallest guy was James Cromwell (the Warden) at 6'7"" hence the character name of Stretch Cunningham. He was the son of famous director John Cromwell and one of his wives was Julie (daughter of Lee J Cobb). Incidentally his son John was 6'8"

[@dupersuper1938]

He was also great in Star Trek, MASH, LA Confidential...

[@nathans3241]

I was just a kid when All In The Family premiered on CBS in 1971. The show was groundbreaking with some of the best writing and acting. Carroll O'Connor played Archie Bunker so well.

[@Chris_Marrero]

Normal Lear's passing today, just underscores how impressive this show was for how it brought serious issues to our homes to discuss while also making us laugh as well.

[@Ronald-ih9fm]

Love hearing your take/reaction on pop culture from the past, you guys seem like pretty laid back and very likeable people, keep up the good work.

[@luckyskittles8976]

Such a great clip. This was quite a controversial show, but the humor with the hidden messages was so great. It opened peoples eyes to the bigotry around them that they really hadn't noticed like the jokes at work or the parties you may go to, not aware of people who may be hurt by these kinda of comments.

[@edschultheis9537]

I'm Catholic. I've heard lots of Catholic and otherwise Christian jokes in my presence. It really doesn't offend me. There are may funny things that people can say about Catholics. IMO, people get too offended too easily these days. Perhaps it is because I'm 59 years old. That last 10-15 years or so, many people in general have turned into snowflakes when it comes to being offended. It is sad to see. By the way, this was an excellent episode. I really showcased Carroll O'Conner's acting skills.

[@belkyhernandez8281]

You aren't a a minority Jew getting over the Holocaust.

[@rustybear5125]

Carroll O'Connor as Archie Bunker made me both laugh and cry. There aren't many actors that do that to me.

[@ryanc9888]

All in the family was the most realistic sitcom ever made.

[@lewistasso8866]

I was hoping you'd see this!! This was a great episode. I remember how Carroll O'Connor could make you laugh out from his ignorant, sometimes unknowingly offensive, comments, or even cry from his caring, average man, sincerity. This was a scene hit all on that list.

[@drlee2]

Thanks for this! Stretch was actually in episodes of the show prior to this one and played by James Cromwell, who was extremely tall, so the "Stretch" nickname was probably because of his height. Cromwell's most famous films are Babe and LA Confidential and also he was on the great early 2000s HBO drama show Six Feet Under. EDIT: Another AITF clip recommendation: "Archie Bunker on Democrats"

[@paulgutman5811]

Hi Joe, hi DT, hi Holly, hola Felipe. I thought this episode was hilarious as well. Thank you all for sharing your reactions to All In The Family and other shows that were a big part of my childhood and teen years. Archie and Edith were an absolute riot. Keep those reaction videos coming!:)

[@Jude_196]

RIP, Mr. Lear!! I heard a quote by him, today, on the subject of passing...and, I'm paraphrasing: "I'm not afraid of dying, I'm afraid of leaving..." Such a WONDERFUL PERSON!!

[@CG68810]

This was another great episode where you can see Archie having a moment of evolution. This show was really about him being exposed to all the things he was so bigoted about and evolving. You are all right in that when you are in a workplace and you hear someone say something offensive, even if it isn't about you, you have that hard choice of whether to speak up. Depending on the context of what is being said, you should say something. It doesn't have to be a "clutch the pearls moment", but if it is truly derogatory or demeaning, you should at least show some level of disapproval. It may not be directly about you, but you should push back as one of your coworkers may not have the courage to do so. Obviously, if you are in a work environment, you shouldn't be saying things like that anyway. That is common sense. The people who get annoyed that their "fun" is being shut down are people who are not part of any marginalized group who have no understanding of how that impacts someone.

[@saabjaab]

You also see that in many ways where someone means no ill harm although being bigoted at the same time

[@itoibo4208]

I read that Stretch was played by James Cromwell which is fun to know, but what I wondered is why Stretch had a different name from his father. It would seem he was trying to hide his Jewish identity for what I can only assume were obvious reasons, to avoid bigotry and awkwardness, but why else? Did he have a problem with Jews as a religious group?

[@CaringDisneyfan]

Glad young people are reviving these shows. They are worth the watch. And they let us laugh at ourselves. No harm done. Really…….

[@lifeandfaith]

Good discussion, guys. I guess this Archie Bunker episode is still relevant today.

[@GinaGeeILuvu]

RIP Norman Lear! A legend in the television game, producing shows like this one and the Jeffersons, Good Times, Maude, and more! His shows were always hilarious with a serious undertone with views on race, religion, and society as a whole!

[@bubgum00]

The writing of this show was AMAZING and Carroll O’Connor’s acting was superb.

[@gregcable3250]

The brilliance of the writing and acting here is really breathtaking.

[@BarbButler]

Yay!!!! What a great way to start a Friday morning!! One of my all-time favorite episodes of All in the Family!! I am really looking forward to this reaction!! Enjoy you all a lot!!😎😎

[@yesorlando05]

The acting and writing for this show was impecable.

[@Sunny-jz3dy]

RIP Norman Lear! 🙏. I feel fortunate to have grown up watching the shows created by you! They helped everyone in different ways....God Bless You!

[@CherylHughes-ts9jz]

Stretch was Archie's best friend for years. They called him that because he was tall ☮️ Such a beautiful episode 😢😊

[@MrKeychange]

Amazingly, you guys posted this very night Norman Lear died

[@rnascak]

I was in my teens when All in the Family was airing. The one thing that stands out as a life lesson is that as a nation, we've lost the ability to laugh at ourselves. People then weren't offended quite as easily. In fact, the Italian kids knew all the Italian jokes, the Polish kids knew all the Polish jokes, etc. Everyone laughed, no one's feelings got hurt. That's not to say slurs intended to insult weren't appropriately addressed (sometimes physically), but we were able to distinguish the difference.

[@suekelly6293]

Well said.

[@darrinlindsey]

As I am writing this, it's being announced that Norman Lear passed away this morning, at age 101. All In The Family was the start of his tv empire.

[@Sunny-jz3dy]

This one hit in so many ways....good & bad. I wish more people would be open to watching this show. They had great writers on this show & were blessed with great actors as well. This show was a blessing in & of itself. We need shows like this now....more than ever!

[@kellycrook543]

THIS WAS SUCH A GREAT SHOW!!!!!

[@UncleCharlie111x2]

Caroll O' Conner was outstanding!! Y'all should watch the entire series!

[@joanneperlmutter2038]

Caroll O'Connor could tell a story just by raising an eyebrow.

[@AngelaGoodwin-fh6fw]

Norman Lear, creator of "All in the Family", "The Jeffersons", and "Maude" passed away today at 101. RIP.

[@fredblassie]

When everybody in the group agrees to be subjected to ridicule in the quest for a humorous moment , it's so much better. Focus on intent, not effect.

[@safirestudio]

As an Afro-Latina I am often in circles where purple don't think about whether or not I'm black and say derogatory things about Black people, Black cultureand more. I'm not easily offended, but sometimes it has been jaw dropping the things I've heard. I used to try to ignore it because I didn't know what to say but I learned that people who are willing to make racist jokes ARE racist so I do say something. People get embarrassed. If your embarrassed don't say embarrassing, racist crap. Fun and games is fine. We can all make fun of each other's cultures or people sometimes in jest with close friends. But there is a line. People know what that is.

[@ShelinaCostlow]

Archie Bunker, The Jeffersons, Sanford and Son etc... These are comedies that were real and raw and we weren't offended. We could all laugh together and move on without getting butt hurt and needing safe spaces. Man I miss those days.

[@robgrimm9004]

The round table discussion after is wonderfully inciteful. Norman Lear's magic touched off many, many discussions in households across the country. Grew up watching this as a kid in the 70's. Saturday night was the gold standard of tv with All in the Family, M*A*S*H, Mary Tyler Moore and Bob Newhart followed by The Carol Burnett Show. Amazing.

[@billsantospianomore678]

I watched this episode in the 1970s, and I have seen it many times. I just realized from this clip that Stretch's widow looks a lot like Stretch. That's funny. Stretch was played by the actor James Cromwell.

[@redplanet9162]

RIP Norman Lear. Thank you and bless you for giving us Archie Bunker. Study him and you learn the whole Maga playbook.

[@emmaandgeorgie2006]

Stretch Cunningham did a couple of episodes. He was Archie’s best friend hd got his nick name as he was a very tall and skinny guy who told bad jokes.

[@leannsherman6723]

Very clever and well-written episode; one of the best.❤

[@TheOmegaRain]

Carroll O'Connell was hilarious as Archie and was an all out great actor. He played as such a prejudice northern biggot in All in the Family. But then he later stared on IN THE HEAT OF THE NIGHT having a more serious role as a Southern Law Officer with a black partner. He played such a great role in both characters that unless you done some digging you really couldn't tell if he was actually from the north or from the south lol.. He was truly one of the greats !

[@mikehill3804]

Hey guys everyone has had their Archie Bunker moments, that’s why we forgive others for their offenses. I’m a 70 year old man and you young folks make me proud and give me peace in my heart that everything will be fine, despite the lunacy and the mess that my generation has laid on all of you . The generation of teens who are becoming adults are phenomenal and they are the ones who will save us from our past mistakes. Anyway, I love watching and listening to you all reacting to something that I experienced when I was your age. May God bless all of you and your KZbin channel too. You guys keep making them and I will keep watching them. Later

[@JamesLachowsky]

RIP Norman Lear. Laughing no doubt put some years on his life.

[@cathysmith2941]

Just found your channel today boy do these shows bring me back to my childhood i remember coming home from school and turning on the tv and wed watch all in the family ,good times the jeffersons Another good one is welcome back kotter , also growing pains with mike sever ,happy days, they just don't make tv shows like these anymore.. nice seeing the younger generation enjoying these classic shows. Glad i found your channel

[@YarnCrafts4lefties]

Edith was always able to see the world in the purest and simplest way. She saw people as they were.

[@bubgum00]

The writing of this show was AMAZING and Carroll O’Connor’s acting was superb. The guy who played Stretch is still alive.

[@pennyyoung3166]

Watched this all time. Great job reacting

[@Peony11111]

Crying and laughing at the same time

[@Paul-e7b1n]

Love this show, by the way. Always have. By the way, I apologize if you don't recognize me because of my new account. This is Paul. (Hi Joe, DT, Holly, hola Felipe.) It's always cool seeing how you guys enjoy shows I grew up on. Love the channel.

[@RobertEskew]

RIP Norman Lear (July 27, 1922 - December 5, 2023) 🙏

[@wendyganel3353]

I once made a comment about the heritage of someone I worked with and liked very much. The word I used for that partucular group of people was what I had heard my whole life. She didn't get offended. She was so gracious. She just informed me that the term was deragotory. I wanted to crawl in a hole. I apologized profusely to her. I truly thought the word I used was a legitimate name for people of her heritage. She taught me a great lesson that day. I need to put my brain in gear before putting my mouth in motion! Never assume that what you believe to be true is true. Thank you, Jennifer. RIP🙏

[@frakte]

Stretch Cunningham was a recurring character played by James Cromwell, who later gained renown for playing the farmer in Babe and Prince Phillip in The Queen.

[@NipoteZia]

People think "Jew you down" is a perfectly acceptable way to say someone's cheap. NOT.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

Agreed. Heard that many times living on both coasts. Not cool even if the person saying it explains that they mean no harm.

[@NipoteZia]

@@gabrielmcdonnell8699 - Your experience mirrors mine exactly. That's what they all say: "It's just a saying. I didn't mean anything." Yeah, it DOES mean something.

[@luvbearbut]

Luv watching you guys discuss things through these clips of things I've always loved! You're all very attractive on the eyes as well😉 Btw, LOVE "The Lost Boys" too! Total classic🤗

[@christophertaylor8106]

So sad to hear that Norman Lear the creator of All in the Family just passed away

[@ernies8828]

The sentimental and serious moments were special, often broke me, and were just as meaningful as the laughter moments. Archie was not a bigot or a racist, and actually had a bigger heart and wisdom than sometimes people gave him credit for. These shows showed how race did not matter to who the person really was. That show meant a lot to me, like others in the 70s and 80s.

[@JD_ATX]

Caroll O’Connor was a master at "dramedy" (comedy/drama). DT picked up on that right away. 😁

[@cog4life]

Rip Norman Lear. Enjoying your reactions. 😊

[@rasikasharma7097]

Caroll should get an Oscar just for the dialogue delivery and acting in this one scene. Absolutely amazing.

[@maximilianschmid9890]

"Maekinh fan aw...fan issz bad? Mel Torme:Arr jov hawinh anj fan?"

[@tessasnow]

I really enjoy watching your reactions to and appreciation of these old shows. I’m so glad you understand that it’s poking fun at racism and talking about it without talking about it. I hope you understand what I mean. It made people think even if they didn’t speak. 🇨🇦🖖🏻

[@aboyer9828]

Satire is very difficult to pull off. The genius of Chapelle comes to mind. Comedic satire works on soooo many levels.

[@makingthecoin3647]

Joke. I see this guy in a Spanish neighborhood outside of this apartment building constantly. So I asked him are you Spanish, do you live here? He said No I am half Polish half Jewish, I am the janitor but I own the building.

[@timward3116]

A few decades ago, when I was young, I used to go clubbing with a bunch of my straight buddies- all of whom had a great sense of humor and nothing was off limits. When I told them I was gay, the first words out of their mouths was sometimes, "Oh my God, I hope I never said anything that offended you." I always told them, "No, everybody loves a good joke. I know you wouldn't offend me intentionally. I know your heart. Don't ever worry about offending me." Those people remained friends for years after - and some are still close friends. People have to be free to be themselves, to play around, to see the humanity in one another but not take anything too seriously. The minute people have to watch what they say to their friends "for fear of offending" is the minute that friendships stop growing. You can never get to know someone well if they feel they have to be careful about what they say. To all people who are being trained to think that courtesy is more important than honesty, love and friendship: Think again. The gift of allowing people to be themselves without fear of hurting you is probably the gift that will come back to you seven-fold. Relax. What is most important is that they be allowed to be themselves.

[@sarahdixon1943]

I'm shocked she mentioned The Little Rascals!!!! Great show!!

[@tdann2203]

I used to watch these shows when I was little, mostly cause a grown up was already watching it. And…I knew even at 10 years old that Archie was inappropriate, but that was kind of the reason for him. To actually show people how idiotic racism and bigotry really sounds. The fact that your generation finds it so shocking and abnormal proves that progress HAS been made.

[@tdann2203]

Maybe not quite enough, but still……………

[@raymeedc]

~ O’Conner was a highly respected film character actor for quite a while before accepting this role. One of the most difficult character portrayals in television history to have successfully pulled off. One of those shows that wouldn’t have worked at all without just the right actor, which they had ~

[@Ozziecatsmom]

Lear’s first choice was Mickey Rooney but he turned it down. What we got with Carroll O’Conner was iconic.

[@deborahmurray7698]

Loved this show😊😊😊😊

[@jbloombe]

"Let's bring down the temperature in here" says the guy wearing the winter hat inside

[@txpatriotgirl]

Back in the day, we were not as sensitive as people are now. We could laugh at ourselves and our friends because we knew that we all have our "quirks". But now it is all so personal and serious because we are all so insecure. Like the comment about "man-splane" by that chick.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

“By the chick” 😂 Hi Holly! ✌🏽😉

[@Boxerdad27]

Just a little prospective from a GenXer. It’s all about intent and from what place comments or jokes come. Throughout the run of “ All In The Family”, the writers reinforced the notion the Archie wasn’t hateful but ignorant and a product of his time. As a gay man myself, I take into account such things. Offense and sour feelings are just an occupational hazard of participation in a society. It’s how we respond that’s important.

[@jameslemmons9737]

Producer and creator Norman Lear was all about the issues and serious topics and the Comedy came from the actors performance! That’s with any show that Norman Lear had any involvement with …excellent excellent

[@derekm4819]

Archie Bunker was and is an American icon. America was real, bold and great in the 70's

[@leearmour4267]

But this is the GENIUS behind the writer Norman Lear who grew up from Jewish descent himself ....👍🏿💯👌🏽

[@michaelguyda9507]

They should have came in early when a relative came to the Bunker's yo ask Archie to say some words at the ceremony. When the family member left, Archie says to Edith "I don't know, I've never delivered the "UROLOGY" before!

[@grahamparks1645]

A detail that was kind of thrown away was his original birth name as a character was not Cunnigham. Think about the time the Holocaust had just happened and in the postwar period Jews starting their lives after the war might have felt a need to Anglicize their names and conceal or abandon their Jewishness to pass as Christian or non religious, possibly fearful that Jews might be singled out again. The Cunnigham character probably lived a life of passing much like light skinned blacks or masculine closeted gay men or feminine closeted lesbians. The impact on Archie of the weight of knowing stretch was scared to share his Jewishness with others was there in Carroll O’Connell’s portrayal of Archie. Audiences who knew Jewish survivors knew the pain of Jews who survived the war afraid to be themselves living emotionally isolated existences. A whole generation lived with a bag packed looking over their shoulder even if the closest they got to the camps was as a US GI stationed there fearing Nazi capture.

[@grahamparks1645]

Serving in WW 2 would have been a universal experience a real life Cunningham would have faced and he would have had a 50/50 chance of going to Europe. He’d have come back shaken to his core and scared to be openly Jewish as we know from Archie’s shock at not knowing.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

The officiant did say “Stretch Cunningham, beloved son of Haim Kohnheimer”.

[@grahamparks1645]

@@gabrielmcdonnell8699 yep, that was point. Archie never felt the need to hide who he was and saw what it must have been like for stretch that he felt he had to do that.

[@sciencenerd8428]

Im a Jew. Jews tell the best Jewish jokes.

[@raymeedc]

~ Bunker was speaking of the decades he spent with Stretch, which would put them back in the WW2 era, at a time when being Jewish was a deadly affair in more weighs than one. It was much more than making fun of an idiosyncratic affectation or most any other religion at the time. Hence, MANY Jews at the time changed their names to avoid trouble ~

[@raymeedc]

P.S. - Bunker was relating the quips they said as being “jokes” , but he was obviously also thinking of the antisemitic remarks that were passed around as well ~

[@kellahella5286]

RIP Norman Lear. He rubbed America’s nose in the common way of thinking at the time. Pure genius.

[@dodger2829]

With "All in the Family," Norman Lear influenced tens of millions of people to have a more open mind and to realize that we are all the same underneath our skin color. THAT is world-changing influence.

[@safirestudio]

Pretty sure Archie's friend didn't tell anyone he was Jewish because he wouldn't have wanted them to look at him differently. To spark prejudice or bias at work. It was (is) a real thing.

[@ChillSensesASMR]

Love the shirt DT!

[@Carib9408]

It’s just been reported that Norman Lear, creator of tons of television shows has passed at the age of 101. Your reaction…

[@joeconcepts5552]

So many clips out there of All in the Family have comments showing that some don’t really get the point of the show. It wasn’t to say, “Making jokes about race is all in fun, don’t be so woke.” The point of Archie was to point out how stupid and ridiculous it was to think the way he did, and point that out to people. I know back then and later there were some who didn’t like humanizing the bigoted character. But the show grew so much and Archie evolved over the seasons. And the creator Norman Lear and actors like Carroll O’Connor and Rob Reiner were very much liberal. So while they wouldn’t have been “politically correct”, they definitely were not conservatives.

[@Spooklilly-Latina4Freedom]

Back in the day my friends n I used to diss each other constantly about race in a joking friends way. We never got insulted, it was never malicious. That's missing today cuz jokes like that diffuse tensions & take power away from slurs. The censorship of comedians has made tensions rise & given power back to bad racial words even to the point ppl get offended no matter the context.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

So based on that notion, when is the context *good* to call a black person the n-word? Or a Jew the k-word?

[@Spooklilly-Latina4Freedom]

@@gabrielmcdonnell8699 well u just used the words to "school" me, even though u had to write them in code, like a child, when u weren't being malicious toward those groups in using them. But way to miss the point while proving it Papi 😘

[@safirestudio]

​@@Spooklilly-Latina4Freedomso it would've been OK to spell them out? 🤔

[@safirestudio]

Having fun with friends is fine as long as we know no one is offended. We do over scrutinize comedians. But they're rarely truly thoughtful or enlightening like say a George Carlin. When something is bad for so long its normal to over correct. People will find a happy medium eventually.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

@@Spooklilly-Latina4Freedom Just so that it’s perfectly *clear* I was _NOT_ trying to “school” you. I asked about *context* bc your original comment _implied_ that there were occasions that “bad racial words” were acceptable. Not sure if you meant it that way but that’s how I perceived your post (based on your word usage). _”Back in the day my friends n I used to diss each other constantly about race in a joking friends way”_ Please give an example of a “joking friends way”. Ppl have diff opinions of what’s friendly dissing and what isn’t. Just curious bc it’s mentioned often how ppl, in general, are uptight in the 2020’s and how back in the day they were not. ✌🏽

[@safirestudio]

Great episode. This show was ending when I was little so I remember nothing more than the theme song. I'll have to give it another watch sometime. One thing to keep in mind is that often people that look white/white passing WANT to pass as white. They are trying to assimilate into white culture. So while Archie's friend may not have liked the jokes, he wouldn't have said anything, most likely because he wouldn't have wanted his buddies to look at him differently. We already know that Archie would've had a hard time not making a point about him being Jewish all the time. Or even whether or not they should be friends. So it's not only that he wouldn't want to be a kill-joy but that he also would not have wanted to spark prejudice. Especially at work.

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

I have been watching this show since the 70's. This comedy wouldn't work today. It worked for Archie because he was clueless and didn't know any better. They are people I have met like him still.

[@kennethgoin628]

It's a bit off topic relativity, but the thing of not knowing what is going on in somebody's life applies here. I was newly dating an acquaintance of old, and she took me to a party to meet some of her closest friends, of course, to see what her friends think of me and what I think of her friends. She and I were having some drinks, but I knew I had to limit myself; I was driving. Around 10pm, I mentioned that we should get going but things were going well, and I had to try the announcement again at 11pm. "It's over an hour drive and getting late..." and this guy pipes up and challenges, "The night is young! What's so important that you gotta turn in so early? Come on man, we're having a great time here! Stick around!" I said, "I don't want to kill the mood here, but I really do need to get going, and make sure I get a good night's rest." The other guy wouldn't let it go... "Don't be such a namby-pamby. You got time for another drink. Just sleep in an extra hour or two. The world can wait, can't it?" "Not this time," I said, "I have to sing solo at my uncle's funeral tomorrow. People are kind of counting on me to be there and to do a good job, if you know what I mean." That guy's jaw almost fell into the fire pit! He could not apologize enough... feeling 2 inches tall. "That's a legitimate reason right there. You're not pulling my leg, are you?" The girlfriend vouched for me, and he practically pushed me to the car! "That's really respectable man, and wow, you're right... it's kind of mood killer. Me and my big mouth..." Next time I saw him, he was still apologizing! LOL!

[@biblebadcopycatofcuneiform8210]

Social pressure is easy to let go of when You are *very* comfortable with Yourself. *Sometimes* years of experience are required before arriving at that.

[@michaelopry3456]

over the course of the show, we got to see archie evolve, and we got to see the other characters evolve, for instance we got to see his liberal son in law Mike get a little bit more conservative on some things after he finished school and started working, and archie get more understanding and soften up. The episode where archie beat the butcher up for insulting his housekeeper who was black, that was a great episode, little evolution for Archies character. The episode where archie went after the KKK is another one worth checking out. Archie they threaten to burn a cross in archies neighborhood, and archie threatens them, they call him out on it, he tells them he and his brothers would be down to speak with the KKK then....see archie had surgery in an earlier season and he had blood given to him from a black man so now he's sure he's part black.