Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public

[@Generalkidd]

So if a girl hits a guy, everyone assumes he was cheating on her. But if a guy hits a girl, everyone assumes he's abusing her?

[@rileander]

+Generalkidd havent you ever heard of double standards?

[@i8qiwjwjduwi]

Generalkidd yep

[@Abstrack23]

Haven't you heard this is a feminist society we currently lived in? And that females get treated better than males do.

[@dragonfan8647]

This is not because of feminism. This is because women are perceived as weak, which is something feminism fights against. Because women are perceived as weak, a woman couldn't possibly hurt a man in people's minds.

[@Abstrack23]

^ I know alot of women that is stronger than men. Ronda Rousey admitted to beating up her ex, yet nobody talks about it as much. Ray Rice beat up his girl in the elevator yet it makes every single headline. Face it - this is a society whereas women get treated better than men do.

[@knk7065]

I hate how people always think men are the abusers in school a few girls picked on me because I was small and when I said it to the teacher I got in trouble for harassing them somehow it was such bullshit

[@knk7065]

+h5n6q nah a few years later I got really tall n shit and they never picked on me again because I was the tallest in class 😂😂😂

[@Marcus_Thomas_]

Same thing happened to me bruh

[@dmctztv3842]

i got hit in my gym class by a girl (very fucking hard) because she said that she needed to let her anger out on someone and i was just behind her. everyone laugh at me. i just only 15 and still had that never touch a women crap mentally. imagine if i did that to her.

[@knk7065]

+h5n6q see girls can hurt you even if they are hot af and ugly af

[@ysabellamedrano3360]

that sucks man. i'm sorry that happened.

[@insertdisc2175]

As a male that was in an abusive relationship, this brought me to tears, and it's a serious issue that needs to be addressed. You see a million and one posters and campaigns for abused women, but at least 40% of cases are against men? Yes I do think there's a lot of sexism left in society, and it's for women, and against men. Especially men like me, built smaller, more sensitive, more emotionally aware and empathetic. Men that are quick to come to woman's defense against larger men, but laughed at when they're the victim.

[@insertdisc2175]

+h5n6q I'm going my own way more so I can focus on my career. I now have the experience to see that coming, and will avoid it in the future. This hasn't lessened my view on women at all, to be clear.

[@insertdisc2175]

+h5n6q That's to blame on Feminists, not women. Do not become the same people they are. Do not stoop to sexism because there's a few bad ones. Remember that we are talking about Humans. All Humans, being life, and the same life as we, deserve our love and respect first and foremost for being here sharing our life experience. Don't lose sight that the only way we're going to fix these Human problems, male and female both, is by us each determining that Love is the only thing worth spreading, and the only thing that will lead us towards the lives we all want. Love unconditionally brother. Violence in self-defense. And don't lose your Humanity to Hate.

[@insertdisc2175]

And I'm hardly the first to say the average male looks down on women. It's people looking down on each other. None of these issues are gender specific, but each gender thinks it is. The only way to actually fix the issues is not to wage war against the other gender, but to look past genders entirely and just see people. And I don't know about your experiences, but as an actual, real victim of this situation, if I can say we can move past it, we can move past it.

[@insertdisc2175]

+h5n6q And now you sound the same as the feminists. The cycle continues. Let me know when the Matriarchy takes over from the Patriarchy.

[@insertdisc2175]

+h5n6q Okay, let me put you straight in the same way I put feminists straight. It's not men or women that control society. It's the Elite. And they own next to everything and control it all. Government, military, media, big pharma, etc etc. Now through their stranglehold on the media and pharma and government, they can bend society subtly over time. And they've done artificially created a lot of the problems we have now between the sexes by manipulating Western culture. TV alone over 90% of it is owned by five corporations. I can give you the numbers. And why would they create these problems? To keep us divided. Because divided, men vs women, races, religions, etc, we can't do anything threatening to them. If we want to fix a lot of these issues long term, we have to get rid of the Elite, both the government and the International Banksters/Wall Street, that control everything else. And we can't do that as a divided species. It has to be the 99% vs. the 1%, or even the 50% vs the 1%. But right now you have a ton of 5 and 10% vs the 1% and all the other 5 and 10%'s and that isn't going to work. When the power of love overtakes the love of power, then there will be peace. Until then, if you're not spreading love, you're spreading hate and feeding the system you actually don't like.

[@redd1911]

It's really disturbing to see the women say that they automatically assumed that the man did something wrong. The world we live in. smh!

[@zzz43344]

Ikr...

[@SuperHothead14]

The one saying she’s a role model is worse..

[@everetthopper884]

You obviously don’t see the whole point of the information. The fact that these men are being bullied and abused by women regardless of “simps” and it is never acknowledged in the right light

[@radiantveggies9348]

Just stop protecting and helping random women

[@maatonne]

A guy can go through this for years and when he finally gets mad enough to hit her once...he goes to jail...

[@101limestone]

Liomar Baru and it's the double standard that women enjoy that ensure escort services will continue to thrive!

[@Smegma007]

Liomar Baru THIS is what all the one-sided domestic violence propaganda feminist spew don't understand (which, if you read the US stats, men actually suffer more from domestic violence).

[@maatonne]

Smiling Badger I bet so.

[@em_d]

+Liomar Baru Dead right,you said it.

[@101limestone]

h5n6q I know a few that have.

[@ediable8309]

2:22 This is what society has come to, people cheering at abuse against men and even young boys, not only verbal but also physical assault.

[@BlueSparkMid]

That shit was done even in WW1 England. Look up the "White feather campaign".

[@Thomas-VA]

Shouldn't cheer for abuse of either, there was a time in movies and society where men slapped women in public, to stop their hysteria or getting uppity, and little boys could push little girls and it was cute because he's just expressing his interest in her, when it was just socially accepted abuses. Neither should hit the other, and if they do, they should get the same back in equal measure (same force of hit), and the law should apply equally. So yeah, no double standard, but no blaming the other to just build up hating them.

[@darkfire8008]

Old post, but hey. Then those same men and boys abuse others and they get condemned because unlike women, trauma never influences a man.

[@tonyhuang431]

basically that woman supports abuse, even when she "thinks" the man cheated, she still suportts abuse.

[@cookingforfools8691]

Notice how the people interviewed kept phrasing everything as if both actors were involved: "there's a couple fighting", "people shouldn't hit each other." If the guy was abusing the woman, they would definitely assign him as the aggressor.

[@SIPEROTH]

Very interesting observation.

[@elitesnipeyman]

+Anon ymous it's true though dude look at the video

[@SIPEROTH]

elitesnipeyman Ether something is wrong with you or your language skills.

[@chris__10]

***** "Ether"?

[@cookingforfools8691]

Chris C lol good catch

[@MyHungryWidow]

*man getting stabbed by a woman in public* Do you think we should help that guy? Nah, she doesn't look too harmful. *man bleeds to death* Oh, that's sad, what a shame.

[@cg8939]

+Rusty Shackleforde No wonder chivalry is dead

[@goodman5836]

+nordac parallax smh

[@Odysseusx86]

+h5n6q It actually happend. The male officer was attacked but managed to wrestle the knife away. The woman wasn't charged. www.policeone.com/edged-weapons/articles/7251371-Vt-woman-who-cut-officer-s-throat-acquitted-of-charges/

[@Odysseusx86]

Good Man I have a penis, blame me for everything.

[@cg8939]

Good Man i want to appreciate your comment but my mind is blown #@%#@$

[@stevemahoney1733]

I just threw up a little in my mouth. -Men are told repeatedly that there is no excuse for domestic violence -to watch a police officer dismiss the assault and admit to a double standard -to watch and hear that woman admit to vicariously taking pleasure in the assault -to listen to women automatically blame the victim "he must have cheated on her" -or the group of women who needed to check with others before agreeing that maybe this was an assault and once they engaged the couple, to see the smirk and smiles was shameful.

[@TgarMask]

+Louis Warren A non-abusive woman is a pretty good and less radical option too

[@LouisWarren530]

Michael Morton true very true

[@theexplorer7139]

Brainwashing men and raising them to be defense less. Thats the main scream media for you.

[@LouisWarren530]

The Explorer a-freaking-men!

[@matt_spencer_photos4102]

Steve Mahoney I love the "he must have cheated on her" because that makes it ok to physically harm someone right?

[@alistercade]

My cousin was in an abusive relationship. She would accuse him of cheating, and hit him. He would have to go as far as moving chairs and objects infront of her, to try and get away. Then she struck him in the head with a cast iron skillet, he was hospitalized for a few months with concussions. He is a good sized guy, not huge, but not a twig either. And he almost died to this woman, because he "couldent" fight back. Yes, she is smaller, but when someone is hitting you in the head with a 5 pound slab of iron, your not going to shrug it off. Dont let the idea of a woman being smaller, mean she is harmless. Anyone can hurt anyone, all you need is the proper scenario and a dangerous mind. I wonder how thoes people would have felt if she pulled a knife on the guy and stabbed him? Would they think she was "a harmless woman" then? Be aware of wolves in sheeps clothing.

[@alistercade]

Bigjig2011 if she did, it wasent for vary long. Im not sure if he pressed charges or not.

[@crusherolies8195]

+alistercade he should have defended himself at the very first hit and shown her why you dont hit ANYONE let alone men. and he should have ditched that crazy right away. assault is assault and you always have the right to defend yourself. in nature all creatures are alowed to defend themselves, civilization doesnt negate this. if you attempt to hurt me you will be hurt back and possibly ended. this is what EVERY animals needs to understand. if you attack another animals be prepared to get attacked back.

[@Digganob590]

+alistercade nah, he probably deserves his life to be stolen, "because he may have cheated".

[@alistercade]

Finn Mckee So your saying if he did in fact cheat on her, he deserves to have his life ended? Are you insane or just dumb as a rock?

[@Digganob590]

alistercade no, I'm going into the logic of that insane women. cheating is bad but does not deserve ANY sort of violence

[@martinsimpson9293]

A girl hit my brother in the face in school and when he hit back, he got in trouble. When my mother found out, she went ballistic. She went to the school and laid into the teacher until the teacher cried. I was brought up to protect myself. I will hit a woman back.

[@TechWithKEM]

+Martin Simpson Did your brother not get in too much trouble when your mother stepped in?

[@virginiatapia5060]

Me to. If ANYONE hits me, what that tells me is there giving me all rights to a fight. Win or lose, it's a fight. Every fight I've had we shake hands at the end.

[@samuelmcclure4245]

+Martin Simpson damn right! i solute you for your bravery. most would not even say that

[@Thomas-VA]

You don't do to someone else that you wouldn't want done to you. Hit and get hit back with equal measure.

[@emersonaraujo6845]

Martin Simpson g

[@mosipd]

_"She looked guilty"_ or _"I just assumed she deserved it"_ -- If those words were uttered by a man on national television the earth would stop spinning. The patriarchy, the patriarchy!

[@youllhavetowait]

true

[@twoface2546]

Whilst both men and women may experience incidents of inter-personal violence, women are considerably more likely to experience repeated and severe forms of violence, including sexual violence. They are also more likely to have experienced sustained physical, psychological or emotional abuse, or violence which results in injury or death. I think this is why sometimes people tend to see abusive women lightly.. (don't get me wrong, it's wrong nonetheless) But men who are abused by women can pretty much easily move out of that situation because they are more capable physically to defend themselves.. but women on the other hand have more risks of getting brutally murdered by their abusive controlling men. In fact, abusive men will never let go of their woman and will do whatever it takes to control her life as if she is her property... so yeah, men gets abused, but lesser risks of being threatened for life. Men have more charisma to easily call out an abusive wife.. while women who calls out an abusive husband , usually, the abusive husband have already manipulated her friends/loved ones that he is a lovable person.. I know this because I've witnessed both sides of the coins personally.. the woman had a hard time getting out due to threats of murder or commiting suicide... while men can easily get out of an abusive relationship by cutting it off and the abusive woman can no longer do anything more.. I just hope many of you are more open-minded here... it's not a lie that billions of women have already been murdered by their abusive husbands/boyfriends due to intense rage of desire to control of jealousy. while it's not also a lie for men to be abused by women.. but men can defend himself if a woman gets out of hand.. while a woman who will try to defend herself from an abusive man will usually make things worst and get's more brutally beaten.. unless she's a trained martial artist.. So please, let's go at a more deeper perspective regarding this psychological behaviors between abusive men and women.

[@mosipd]

Star mage _women are considerably more likely to experience repeated and severe forms of violence, including sexual violence._ *Perhaps you intended to say only when the violence is male on female; because if you're talking about overall rates of violence, including sexual assault, men experience far higher rates of violence than women do, on all levels. This extends to many other areas of life as well, not simply the criminal.* *Does it make it right? Of course not. Was my original comment a jab at the double standard? It sure was. But if you in any way, shape or form concluded that either I'm not aware of or care about violence against any sex, not just women, then perhaps you need to look elsewhere for validation.*

[@twoface2546]

@h5n6q - Okay, let's say men get seriously hurt! but doesn't change the fact that men can easily get out of that situation without the abusive woman taking over his life, let's leave out the shelters for a moment and see what he can do.. first off, as a man, it is usually normal that he has a charisma that can easily talk his family/friends out of that abusive woman, they will usually immediately believe him (or if he doesn't want to talk about it, then I believe he needs to find ways if he really wants to get out of an abusive relationship with a woman.) Now, the women who get seriously hurt by abusive men are more prone to having these men take over their entire lives... because usually high testosterone or masculine behaviors (take note, I did not say all men) are more inclined to exuding power and control, which then leads to them brutally destroying their woman physically to impose power and control, which always usually leads to murder, there are already thousands of cases happening on this to women.. and while men also get murdered by women, which is serious too, but is not the majority and that is the truth... it's not sexist to say that women are weaker physically but it is a fact, there are just some men who view feminism as a motivation to beat up their spouses because he "sees" them as equally strong as them.. but sometimes, feminism is no longer what it is supposed to be, because for me, it is supposed to be allowing both men and women to love and accept femininity (emotions, arts, expression and wonders) because men are usually taught to be all masculine and controlling that they get called "gay" or "pussy" if they want to be feminine which is really degrading their rights as a man and result to aggressive masculine behaviors instead, hence why most of the violent crimes committed towards both men and woman are by men! So yes, it is masculinity and high testosterone that causes such aggressive acts of violence towards both sexes, concluding that it is mostly men themselves that hurt other fellow men. and yes, women do this too, but women rarely get taught to act masculine and are more likely taught to submit and behave. And back to the issue of man to woman abuse... women have double the risk of physical dangers in abuses because again... they are physically weaker than the man that abused them and defending themselves usually results in a brutal murder... while men who get abused by women that defend themselves can easily outdo the abusive woman through full force and fully disarm her.. that's the difference I'm talking about... so now.. let me ask you mr. h5n6q, have you ever been abused by a woman before? do you know how it felt? have you tried talking to anyone about it? now, did you have a mother or sister or female friend being physically abused before? what have you observed? reflect...

[@twoface2546]

@mosipd - Male on female violence is just as rampant as male on male violence.. who does the violence on that huge percentage of male victims? isn't is still mostly male?? the male victim could not defend himself maybe because the criminal was stronger than him... imagine then the women being the victim.. worst could have happened to her... now let me ask you, have there been any issues of men being brutally murdered and raped by a woman? left at the sidewalks nude in an awkward sex position bathed in his own blood? nope, all these happens to woman ALL THE TIME.. which is what I wanted for people to know... because men usually view "equality" of modern day feminism as a new privilege to beat women because they are now viewed as equally stronger than them and view an abusive woman just as strong as an abusive man when in truth the average male can easily disarm an abusive woman but the average female cannot easily disarm an abusive man unless given the right conditions of being a trained martial artist or if luckily she is carrying a gun or knife somewhere. A woman cannot defend herself right from an abusive man unless if she really have to kill or get killed... while a man can usually just physically overpower an abusive woman without problems... if he allows the woman to abuse her, then why??? don't men usually tell woman who stays with abusive men to just leave cause she is just doing this to herself/? if so, then men should also just leave abusive women because it is his "fault" for staying with her.. Now with that said, it is never the victim's fault, man or woman... let's just try to look at a bigger perspective that women in average are physically weaker and are more prone to death from physical abuse in relationships.. while men on average can easily get out of a physically abusive relationships through his brute strength or will... If you must know, there are thousands of controlling and narcissistic men out there who would do the worst just so they can control their female spouses. in these cases, controlling men usually use beating a woman as a means to impose power over her, because they are mostly insecure and with low-self-esteem which is very dangerous for women... In fact, there have been many instances of these "men" who would then murder their wives and children if they can no longer "control" them. Everyone is at risk in any violence... but in relationships... Women have far dangers of being brutally murdered and raped and left for dead in the streets, bathed in her own inner-meat. Take note what I said... "Relationships""... violence in relationships, because that is what we're talking about here.. if we leave violent crimes for a moment and see violence in relationships as a whole, I think we can all agree that women are more likely to suffer prolonged and sustained physical, emotional and mental abuse from men... Now, mosipd and h5n6q, again.. I have witnessed both sides of the coin and have talked to both parties (man on woman vs. woman on man abuse)... and I can 100% conclude...that the abused women have the worst suffered physical injuries... which includes acids poured all over their face or a barbel being smacked into her head with full force... while most of the male victims I talked to suffered mostly scratches or slaps in the face... that was the big difference I have observed, while woman to man abuse is just as wrong, I just hope we don't dismiss the fact that men to woman abuse is indeed very deadly.. and I just wished people would start opening their minds and stop being blinded with the whole issue that woman to man abuse is more serious than that of the man to woman abuse.... man to woman abuse have been happening since the beginning of time. woman to man abuse are happening now mostly because some women tend to learn masculine behaviors in today's society.

[@TahaNasser]

I do not care if you are a man or a woman. If you hit me, I will defend myself.

[@TahaNasser]

Your right. We live in a world full of stupid people

[@alaskanbullworm5500]

i agree, be smart about it though, like use a mini tape recorder, and tempt said woman to say the things leading up to violence while shes under the impression that nobody's listening, so you can use it against her in court, but whatever you do, dont be complacent to society's view of men always being guilty

[@alaskanbullworm5500]

WTF is right! >:( this is the kind of thinking that men have to resort to in order to even have a chance in the mysandrist institution known as court, otherwise they're gonna result in pro female assumptions like the ones seen in the video. I get it, the tape recorder may be a bit paranoid, but im sure not gonna sit there and let an assailant go free based on gender sympathy

[@jakeoleary5895]

***** I'd hit a woman if she hit me...call me a whimp but its true

[@cb4allstar4]

equal rights. equal fights

[@tommydee4780]

Let's not be too quick to praise this group of women that called the cops. Think about what was said, "Some want to call the cops on "YOU GUYS" and "You shouldn't be hitting ONE ANOTHER, I was concerned for BOTH THEIR SAFETY." They simply couldn't allow themselves to fully commit to the idea that the man was THE victim. They called the cops because their peaceful evening was interrupted. They weren't concerned or outraged, they were annoyed. This program portrayed them as do-gooders when there's really nothing immediately exceptional about them. Further, at the end, the two women were far too pleased with themselves. No doubt they were told that they're heros.

[@Comicall]

They're the only people that actually did something about it. It's a double standard, all biased on gender. If the abuser is a guy, 'oh my god you should get him arrested', if the abuser is a girl, 'I don't know man, you deserve it'. It's annoying, but I guess that's how today's world works.

[@Future6556]

This kid at my school was hit by a girl. She scratched the back of his neck and made a big ass scratch (about 8 inches long) and he started bleeding. He pushed her because of it. Guess who got the referral? The boy. Guess who got a warning? The girl. Fuck double standards.

[@Future6556]

h5n6q The kid doesn't even seem to care. If that was me I'd sue the school.

[@h3llboyyy407]

+h5n6q sorry i meant that wasn't for this post or toward you ... (by the way don't get ahead of yourself) but this was an accident really!

[@h3llboyyy407]

h5n6q​ when you replied i had realized...

[@johannwilder1437]

Yep. They train youths from an early age.

[@h3llboyyy407]

Okay 👍👏

[@leegraves8878]

How does that cop still have a job?????

[@lolcibolci]

+lee graves fuck that cop

[@Jesse-zc5pg]

+lee graves Cops shoot unarmed people in America so it`s really hard to get fired.

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

+lee graves corrupt justice system. Same way a cop can murder a young black teen then sue his family for "emotional damages" he incurred while blowing the brains out of their unarmed son.

[@calypso9288]

SWIFTzTrigger Actually a white person is more likely to be shot that a black person and that includes proportionally.

[@NathanTAK]

I mean... how do you know he does?

[@seanbailey1156]

in a sane society self defense knows no gender. If a woman hits you, you should have the RIGHT to neutralize that threat immediately.

[@OTPulse]

Unfortunately this is not a perfect world, I defended my self once against my ex wife, and when the police turned up(neighbours called them) they took me away and consoled her. By defending my self all I did was hold her arms tightly so she would stop hitting me with the kettle cord I was being whipped with. It wasn't until my neighbours realised they took me away that I was let out, as they could see through the window what was happening. Do you think they would then reversed the situation and take her into custody? No they didn't they told me I had to be sure to not be abusive and not to make her upset to a point she would do it again. Its ALWAYS the MANS fault, that's the problem. But I'm in Australia, this video was in America so I don't know if things are the same.

[@PartyVibesxD]

I was in a bad relationship just over 3 years ago. Near the end of the relationship I was tired of verbal and physical abuse I put up with and I told her I wasn't happy and i'm leaving/moving out, I remember her shouting at me "If you leave me, you'll regret it" at that point I had enough of it and just left. Long story short, the police knocked on my door about a 2 weeks later ( I'd moved in with my brother) telling me i'm in trouble for assualt. The only reason I was let go was because I had a shopping receipt that proved I was shopping at the time my ex called in the so-called assualt.

[@OTPulse]

+PartyVibesxD You're lucky you keep receipts, but did she get in trouble for false accusations? I was trapped with my ex because as the police told she could press charges on me even though I had witness proving I was innocent. When ever I threatened to leave, her & her friends would say they would lie to get me fucked over. In the last couple years I just never touched her, slept on the lounge. Anything but be near her. Eventually she started sleeping with my friends then left. She was always a cheater from the very start she confessed not long ago, but she convinced herself I was cheating as well to justify how she was.

[@PartyVibesxD]

OTPulse That's rough, man. Just got to keep telling yourself they're not all like that. From what I got told she got into some deep shit, I didn't ask for details, I just wanted to be free from it all.

[@OTPulse]

+PartyVibesxD I'm not so lucky to have had a leave and forget option because we have kids. But after the years she has grown up and isn't like that with her new partner, hopefully it's because her cheating stopped for him (the I can't be trusted, so he can't be trusted treatment I got). I also refused to sign divorce papers until she matured & found a decent man, as she went on a toyboy craze. But we now get along pretty well, it's the weirdest most extreme turn around. She admits she was a cunt for most part while still holding that was my fault. Bitches be like that, never in the wrong.

[@catninja25]

"You go girl"? These people make me sick...

[@zachariahlloyd6043]

My buddy *Kristof* was involved with something like this when we were at Wesleyan taking courses.... Except he didn't just sit there getting hit, *he punched her out quick.* Guess they don't play that in *Russia.* *Guess who got suspended, and arrested??* *Campus Security* was all over him like flies on hot garbage!!

[@AgentFour]

"It's a double standard." "Yeah it is." Please, turn in your badge. You don't believe in equal rights under the law.

[@truckinon1871]

AgentFour Thank YOU

[@junaldinho100]

That’s the majority of police for you.

[@gamersforlife3440]

@@junaldinho100 Dont worry i am gonna kill all those politicians soon i will bring war on em trust me real one within next 6 year we have been building up for that moment they are gonna finish it and we are gonna use it against em and destroy them and take over about time somebody done that then the real laws will be made not only equal for everyone but they will be brutal enough so no one will even think of stealing punching or killing.Before peace a war is gonna be necessory.Some people need to die.

[@themajic1012]

this cop should be in prison and out of police for ever

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

@@junaldinho100 That's all police for you.

[@andrer2006]

5:15 that guy should not be a cop. He is not worthy of *any* government position. Fire him if he is not already fired.

[@EmptyMan000]

+American Man The great paradox of law enforcement. Having subjective individuals enforce objective rules of law.

[@steve3131]

He'll then be replaced by an Affirmative Action feminist hire.

[@alaskanbullworm5500]

wow, he admits that he recognizes the double standard, and is still complacent to it, neutered wimp.

[@TheBazinga314]

This is just sickening to watch. I don't see abuse as just a woman's problem. It can happen to ANYONE. My ex boyfriend admitted to me that he was badly abused by the girl he dated after me, She would often verbally and sometimes,(especially during the latter half of the relationship), physically abuse him. He eventually broke up with her but he is still scarred from the vicious abuse he endured and it's going to take him a long time to fully recover. In my book, abuse is abuse, no matter the victims and the perpetuators' genders.

[@terifaustino3714]

Hi there. I am in the same boat with you. I have a very sweet brother who became a victim of an abusive girlfriend too. I saw how it affected his confidence as a man, and it really psychologically stressed him. In fact, his girlfriend lied to him about having 2 kids from a previous relationship. He would only know this 2 years in the relationship.

[@TheBazinga314]

Teri Faustino Wow, I'm so sorry to hear about what your brother went through and his girlfriend sounds like twisted bitch. Though no children (real or made up) were involved in my ex's relationship, but she still hurt him badly, both physically and mentally. He seems like a totally different person from when I dated him. It really is a shame how society views this issue. I wish the best for you and your brother.

[@terifaustino3714]

TheBazinga314 Yeah my brother was too nice. His only fault was that he really wanted to break it up with the girl gently because she was blackmailing him all the time that she would kill herself. Ignorance is really a disease sister. Anyone is capable of abuse regardless of gender. And though women are generally less capable of physical abuse, they are very much capable of emotional and verbal abuse. Lets remember that physical pain subsides quickly, but verbal insults can last a lifetime.

[@MasterOfSparks]

I saw an episode of Oprah many years ago where a man came on to talk about how his wife physically abused him. The women in the audience roared with laughter when he told them that she had beaten him with a heavy metal pipe.

[@xhjg8329]

That's fucking disgusting to me how women just assume that they can get away with anything with zero consequence.

[@gordenmoorehead885]

h5n6q Wait, I hope you don't think all American women act that way.

[@gordenmoorehead885]

h5n6q Yea, I know what you mean.

[@Jenkkimie]

The Coming Storm That is disgusting to hear. Yeah no abuse is still abuse. People on the audience have to be pretty cold of the peer pressure really big if they think that abuse of that level is a laughing matter. What if it were them? Would they laugh? What if it were their father? Their brother? Their son? Absolutely disgusting. Words can not describe how infuriating I felt reading the OP and the audiences reaction.

[@khalid21c]

MGTOW is the answer. don't spend your life kissing women's asses,unless you're fucking them.

[@101limestone]

I had a girlfriend act like this as she was insanely jealous. I still have scars from her digging her nails into my forearms arms after one of her friends spoke to me. When ever I threatened to break up with her she would threaten to tell people I was beating her or threatened she would commit suicide and would leave a note blaming me. I never felt so trapped and claustrophobic in my life as when I dated her!

[@101limestone]

h5n6q I guess I should have mentioned that I also dated some great women as well.

[@101limestone]

h5n6q That was a great explanation about what men & women expect from each other and unfortunately it's very true.

[@legisnuntius]

+WasThatCamNewton Ur doin it wrong

[@stanleylucky]

+101limestone I have a feeling it was great sex tough right?? :)

[@101limestone]

stanleylucky Ohhhhhh ya!

[@annabellemcdowell6655]

So bloody disgusting. I'm actually in tears at the fact people laugh, and assume there's a good reason when a woman is beating a man. When that woman said "you go girl!" I felt sick. Literally. I feel so sad and disgusted to be part of a generation where this happens. It needs to stop. Violence is violence and men are victims too. Well done to all the brave men out there who have stepped out against this and confessed that they're victims. And to all you people out there who think women hitting men is okay, shame on you. What if it were your son?

[@louiswarren1251]

h5n6q bingo!

[@louiswarren1251]

h5n6q these double standards are getting so freaking ridiculous

[@louiswarren1251]

***** finally someone gets it

[@louiswarren1251]

***** what do think about the double standards on domestic violence

[@louiswarren1251]

***** this happened to brother after coming home from Afghanistan and now his ex-wife wife has falsely accused him of child abuse despite being cleared from CPS 3 times

[@kroon275]

'he looked guilty' 'he probably deserved it' A snap shot of equality, from the mind of women. #shameful&shameless

[@Thomas-VA]

Much like when men argue that a woman dressed or partying in manner that 'provoked' them to commit crimes against her because "she looked like she wanted it", "she deserved it". A large snapshot of the mindset of men against women. Hurting each other shouldn't have gender justifications for doing it or hurt feelings about , just don't do it to either. Eliminate double standards on both sides. Or it'll seem like you want a reason to hate instead.

[@FitMan1973]

What struck me, was even the few women who were prepared to help the man who was being abused, still perceived the situation as them "Hitting each other" even though it was the woman only hitting the man. She also said I felt they were both in danger, when again, only the woman was hitting the and abusing the man. So even when a man is clearly the victim, he is still seen as a perpetrator and a threat.

[@bullsquid42]

Thinking the woman poses no real threat is actually sexist against women. I mean how could you claim "A woman is just as capable as a man" but then not take her serioussly as an offender. That makes no sense.

[@TheGroucho66]

It's also sexist against men too i.e. "all men are strong and can handle themselves". When a man can't, people don't sympathise but mock him. It's the equivalent of saying "all Asians are good at mathematics"; it's technically "positive" but it has negative connotations and reinforces the fallacy.

[@bullsquid42]

TheGroucho66 Absolutely

[@Ninjaananas]

h5n6q But that would mean that men are killing their wifes more times if homosexuals aren't included in that statistic.

[@JazzyJ96771]

I absolutely agree.

[@SamBrickell]

Not to mention it's completely false that people are reacting that way for that reason. Similar experiments have been done with very small men (basically hipster doofs) and everyone intervened in order to stop the weak men.

[@lestatyoung5359]

This is why society if messed up the fact that a cop thought it was ok for a woman to verbally and physically abuse a man but would have jumped in if the rolls were reversed is disgusting

[@ReinertZerker]

Lack of true justice. It goes to show we live in a feminized country in America. Also, a feminist isn't about being Equal by rights, but rather equal by handicapped. Aka, having the upper hand through other sources than strength.

[@Mannypacquia0]

whats hypocritical is, switch this with race, religion, etc etc. people would be outraged, what if that police guy said "i wouldnt mind if a white person was verbally, and physically abusing a black person but if it was a black person abusing a white person, i would have to jump in, thats just how i was taught" IMAGINE THE OUTRAGE THIS WOULD CAUSE.

[@sn0wchyld]

Mannypacquia0 exactly. comparing it to race really throws most people who would make an excuse for the woman through a loop...

[@palesgensler3099]

At my old my school men got away with abusing women but if it was the other way around the women would get in huge trouble and that was 2011-2012.

[@Ultrox007]

Welcome to America. Where if a man bumps into a woman on accident in an elevator it's rape. But if a woman beats a man to the point of bleeding it's comedy.

[@Iropine]

That's not exclusive to America.

[@NightMotorcyclist]

Iropine Sweden probably takes top honors.

[@MyJegerkul]

for all the shit america gets this is not an exclusive murican thing. Norway did a similar study where three actors (two girls, one guy) pretended to be drunk. the girls would then try to have "sex" with the incredible "drunk" male without his consent. and they did this in a very public place alltough at night. none did anything to try to hinder it. he was raped in public and yet people were not giving one single shit just walking by, one even asked if they were having a good time while the guy constantly said "no".

[@MyJegerkul]

heres the link, sorry its in norwegian but i think you get the gist of it. www.side2.no/aktuelt/her-blir-en-gutt-utsatt-for-seksuelle-overgrep-tror-du-noen-bryr-seg/8509307.html well the only good thing you can do is to forgive yourself and learn from it thats all that really can be done.

[@Ultrox007]

MyJegerkul I'm sure it effects others as well, it's just that the study shown here happened in America.

[@ethanmack5371]

But if a man resisted a woman's abuse and she got even the smallest bruse, she could claim domestic violence and he would be in prison immediately.

[@kiky4881]

I watched my little brother go through an abusive relationship from the age of 17 until 22. he is still damaged from the physical and verbal abuse. the very first time I saw her slap him for not carrying her things to the car quickly enough was her last time. I slapped her so hard my hand swelled the next day! Then I have her a reality check in the form of a tongue lashing! had I not been apprehended by my brother, I would have been in prison. To see my baby brother being treated this way ... I blacked out! societies double standard is horrible and must be done away with!

[@kiky4881]

h5n6q Just the mere thought of how she treated him brings tears to my eyes! To see someone that you love reduced to nothing because of someone's superiority complex, it is a sting in the heart, so I gave her a sting on the face.

[@kiky4881]

h5n6q Yeah, you're right. I had people get upset with me; asking why did I get involved and saying things like "a man should be a man and handle their own affairs". My reply was: a MAN cannot HANDLE their affairs properly when society is not fair about how they may have to defend themselves against a female attacker. Being that it is woman doing the abusing, another woman should step in and put an end to the abuse.

[@kiky4881]

+h5n6q aaaw. thank you. yes, I am married. I would never disrespect him as he is the head of the home and I would not let any other woman disrespect him. Although he can handle himself, women should put other women in their place if they see them disrespecting a man.

[@alansamuel2454]

@@kiky4881 that's right. In our f'ed up society women and police only have the right to hit women.

[@JahGotWings]

Women do not understand how hard Men have it in this world, especially a black man. But that's a whole different topic. Everyone at that damn park is on the womans side, but the guy is the one being abused. Like that cop(pig) said, old fashion views. If it was him hitting her, he would've been all over it.

[@victorwarner2734]

i hear you, i hear, what can we do about it though? Men don't want to be a sissy even if they are being abused hardcore.

[@JeffPenaify]

being a man is a cultural societal demand that women simply will never comprehend. The reality is being a man is hard, we are violent by nature and our insecurities have to be overcome from within, the prison system is a huge part of rape culture that is under enforced and largely neglected. I been working like a dog since I was big enough to dig a ditch, its just what's expected of us. Mentally I have to meet hostility with hostility, I can't live with the shame of being walked over cause I'm a man, I earned the fuckin ground I walk on. Females will never comprehend it.

[@ploopy5235]

Demonai Hellsing we wouldn't be here if one of the sexes disappeared forever we would but would eventually go extinct

[@jq747]

word

[@richardb.riddick727]

Jeff Boxing the curse and pride of being male.

[@why_dsbm]

This video is 15 years old. What changed? Absolutely nothing. Men are still seen as the bad guy, even when we're not. We men are constantly told to "just suck it up".

[@Apidium]

I hate it when people use the excuse "women are weaker, it doesn't matter!". Receiving a punch or a kick from a woman will still hurt and cause damage. Being stronger and having more muscle mass doesn't automatically mean that you have a higher pain threshold. It's also a well documented fact, that in domestic violence cases women use weapons more often than men do. Having a baseball bat wrapped around your head is going to hurt no matter who you are. If some random woman decides to attack me for absolutely no reason, I'm going to floor that bitch A.S.A.P. Equal rights, equal fights.

[@migueldecarvalho8012]

musicmaniac994 Actually, you do use fire to stop fire...

[@iigogi6244]

my sister is abusing me more than ten years now,today she attack me again and almost kill me,my body hurts,i think i have broken ribs,but she is a female and im a male so nobody takes situation seriously in my family ,i'm commenting on youtube now but i should be in the hospital,and guess what?is my fault,she's the victim is response of my family

[@greciabaiza9275]

This is so disgusting, if we want "equality" then we should protect and defend BOTH genders, it infuriates me that we women want all the protection and get no punishment for abusing our partner, it is not fair. We want equal payment, equal jobs, equal blah blah blah okay then let's get equal punishments as well and let's not make ourselves the victims when it's convenient and the heroes when it's not.

[@juzeus9]

feminists don't want equal pay; they lie about pay. "never-married, college-educated, full time working men who have never had children, earn 85% of what women in the same category do." - warren farrell. equal punishment: start at birth "The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment, as it may well be in some cases." - John Harvey Kellogg (genital mutilation of boys) boys choke, vomit, urinate, defecate, stop breathing, burst organs, have seizures, heart damage, turn blue, brain damage, shock, suppressed memories, lose consciousness, ptsd, death, and SIDS from the pain of circumcision without anesthesia.

[@darksparkle6087]

@h5n6q there is no such a thing as "feminist propaganda". You're just delusional.

[@RobertOrwellSandman]

3:11: "He looks guilty". Why? Because he's... a man?

[@BizarroPhoenix]

Confirmation bias. She assumed he was guilty, so any memory of him she has will be in the light of him being guilty. She isn't sexist, not nessicarily anyway. She just fell into the same old trap of sterotyping and assumptions and bullshit we all do. It isn't right but it's an easy trap to fall into.

[@drewc3350]

My situation was very real and I was in a 4 year relationship where I was going to be married. Me and my ex fiancee had a daughter and one day i was sitting on the couch holding our daughter who was just 6 months old, and we had gotten in a verbal argument and out of the blue she jumped ontop of me and started punching me in the face repeatedly while I was holding our kid. I was bleeding badly from my eye and nose. Blood was pouring out. She then went into the kitchen and grabbed the biggest knife she could and ran towards me. I was able to get away from the situation but I was hospitalized and almost died. Our daughter was safe but I was hurt badly. I had to swing at her to defend myself and a couple of my hits connected. I had multiple cuts to my arms and a stab gash wound to my right chest. I was lucky to survive. People are ignorant saying that just because it's a female that there's no threat. And people are ignorant for saying "well he must have cheated or her" or "he must have done something that caused the woman to get violent" or "it's ok if it's a woman because she's smaller". If you would have seen my chest wound you would have thought differently.

[@Riddem79]

Wow. They should have you on Dr. Phil.

[@shelledwalnut1960]

James Crabbe lol Have you seen that one episode of Dr. Phil where he confronts women who are abusive to their partners? If anything, he seems to side with them more than he does the men (who are the actual victims).

[@shelledwalnut1960]

h5n6q Yup. Tbh, that's one of the reasons why I no longer watch his show.

[@jjoohhhnn]

Unfortunately, they wouldn't. I'm sure you're aware, but our society has no interest in aiding a man who "can't support and defend himself". You see it everywhere, from suicide prevention campaigns, to domestic abuse and homeless shelters. You see it in rape victim support and awareness, and prostate cancer drives. Hell, there's even a faction of society that wants to end fathers day. That's why I gave up on women. I decided to become a MGTOW, and to be honest it feels good to not be stressing about the fact that I'm single, and don't have risky sex every night. I personally haven't been phsyically abused by a partner, but I haven't found a faithful woman, and one even threatened to call the police for sexual assault. And, the best part is that was my second rape-accusation threat. Yeah, our society has some serious issues recognizing females agency (and male disposability). I would suggest you watch some Karen Straughan videos, she's incredibly articulate and presents solid arguments with statistic to back it up.

[@alexbrookma]

Idk if you'll see this, but you're a strong guy, and I hope you managed to get away from that monster of a woman. You deserve better and I'm sure you're an amazing father

[@blackdragon620]

That second woman in a pink shirt disgusted me from the depths of my soul. “You go girl”?! “A role model”?! Looking all happy and excited by seeing that poor guy getting abused. What the hell is wrong with you?! Women like her are ruining the society! And yes, I’m a woman myself.

[@absolutelysiege7963]

I wanted to throw up when I saw the women walking past that was CELEBRATING

[@pines3326]

That just struck a nerve in me. Why tf would she internally celebrate a couple fighting? Whether or not if it was a man or a woman, her subtly fist pumping because she feels the guy deserves it just rubs me the wrong way and how she said she's nice most of the time brings out some red flags

[@EvoroPictures]

Even the cop sees it backwards. Women could beat a guy even rape a guy and people wouldn't even see it as that bad. But simply when you reverse the roles then its absolutely horrible.

[@ledudeSansnom]

youre completly right! it forces man to fear their own strenght , to think its a bad thing , the fact that we are strong then become the fact that we are bad because we are strong. if a woman hits a man its okay the man is strong he can take it. if a man hit a woman omg the man is strong he could have destroyed her shes lucky to have survived such a ruthless attack! but yet i get called mysogine everytime i try to talk about it with feminists.

[@BlackButterfly0218]

This really makes me sick! This "feminist" crap, really needs to STOP! For all you men out there that do so much for each of us women but do not get recognized as you should, I wanna say thank you and I appreciate you. Real women would NEVER even think about making our men feel less than. Much love to you guys.

[@BlackButterfly0218]

h5n6q You are most certainly welcome! :D It's time we real women stand together with our men (who are actually the real victims in all of this nonsense) and come against this evil known as the feminist movement.

[@BlackButterfly0218]

h5n6q Hehe thank you :) I've seen your posts before not just on this video but others and I have to say, you are not only intelligent, but you seem like an all around good guy. It's so sad that these feminist women say "where are all the good men at?" And then when those men present themselves, these women talk down to them or hurt them in someway and it's sickening. I see why you choose to live MGTOW with those types of venomous creatures running rampant.

[@BlackButterfly0218]

You are quite welcome :)

[@pirate5019]

You're probably the only woman who view men as actual human beings and not sexual abusers.

[@JohnJones-ku4ms]

Then women would have to loose some of their liberties, because they CERTAINLY have more than we do.

[@fangsea]

My brother has a abusing wife, she hits him broke a phone over his head, called him all sorts of things in front of her kids. Well one day he called the cops on her. The cops arrived, asked what happen he told them and the cops replied with "Well what did you do to deserve it?". Right then and there I would of called for their supervisor.

[@ultraverydeepfield]

take your brother, go on a vacation and teach him to say "no". his wife never is going to grow up. So he has to be strong now, and he needs all your support. When she goes on a tantrum, take out your phone and video her. Use that later on against her. In the end, it is about getting her under control, remember, she still acts like a child, and teach this women that you've got his back. And if it has to be, you guys will go to court, but it all depends on her behaving better in the future. get a routine of doing things that he wants to do. At this moment its very possible that he basically is a large marionette. Once you start helping your brother to be a person again (get a routine of spending time together, alone or with the kids, but not with that women), she will cry and whine and be furious, call all relatives to get support and she will go crazy. but don't let that affect you, go your way, make it clear that she has to get herself under control or you will go to court.

[@fangsea]

ultraverydeepfield Actually, he used facebook to shame her. Basically explaining the situation and explaining her actions. She is still a bitch but she did stop.

[@fatfox6706]

I was a young man in the 70's March 1st relationship living with a woman was a real when she became violent . I didn't know how to handle it because my father always worship my mom and never laid a finger on her but it was understood that a man was a man and didn't take abuse.. For 2 years I tried to resolve this issue but was at a complete loss at what to do. There was only one answer she had to go.....

[@fatfox6706]

h5n6q thanks good buddy! At the time all that was happening I had problems with depression (doctors talked Me into taking anti depressants! !), also it was like my secret shame, but my upbringing while giving me no coping skills for what was going , it did serve as a starting point to figure things out. I just finally thought "this is completely ridiculous, she blamed her violence on the fact I partied (beer and pot) and for a while some of my family were even on her side. As things got worse it just became clear that even if I had a "problem" as long as I wasn't abusing her then it was just an excuse. Sence then she has had 4 more husbands!

[@fatfox6706]

h5n6q four that I know about! I did meet number 2, a, retired policeman, and she made the remark to him at least David never hit me! (I was a hippie so he didn't like me much already, you can imagine the look I got!) its cool though he found out too!

[@Cloud-og1qo]

+Fat Fox Hippie? Dude that's awesome.

[@cfcfan9976]

So if a man is a victim of domestic abuse from his wife/girlfriend he wouldn't get any help, not even by a cop?! Well done feminism, looks like you have won again!

[@Smegma007]

CfCFan99 The cop actually called himself "old-fashioned." So all this time men have been conditioned to treat women like royalty for much longer than the feminists led us to believe. It is fair to say that feminism is a conservative moment.

[@cfcfan9976]

Smiling Badger so feminism wants to modernize society by giving women equal pay, the right to vote and have a career yet they still want to keep their traditional advantages like not hitting a woman. i will never understand them

[@Smegma007]

CfCFan99 I disagree with your last sentence. It's pretty obvious to understand their actions; they want more power and every conceivable advantage. Essentially, they dream to live like a Cleopatra and have slave men do shit for them as they watch men being tortured for not obeying their desires.

[@cfcfan9976]

Smiling Badger well i can understand that

[@anabelecatalao8989]

Actually it's not feminism's fault, its patriarchy. You see, as men are seen as more powerful and strong they were expected to "control their women", nowadays that has changed a bit, decreasing the cases of men abusing women. However men are still expected to always be able to defend themselves which is not always possible. In an abusive relationship the victim is slowly subject to the abuser so they never fight back in any way (works for both scenarios). Women didn't use to report out of fear and men mostly out of shame. I've heard so many men saying " if he can't defend himself is just a pussy and deserves it". Don't get me wrong, a lot of women had said before "well she must have done something for him to do explode like that" in the other situation. Summing up: A lot of people are douchebags. Men and women. Any victim should get help and those who blame them or support the abuser should be ashamed of themselves. In a healthy relationship no one should hit or manipulate. That is not love. I am a feminist and I want equality. Not implant female supremacy, nor maintain the male one. Equality for some is not equality.

[@planetsiren]

I felt disgusted watch this that's full discrimination just because she's hitting the man that doesn't mean he cheated on her, he could be suffering behind closed doors. Not even the cops would put a stop to this SOCIETY NEEDS TO OPEN THEIR EYES

[@chadguindon6909]

OMG, I couldn't agree with you any more. It's ridiculous that no one will even care one bit. I would be just as upset no matter what sex is it that is doing the abusing.

[@alansamuel2454]

Cops would ignore it until the man strikes back.

[@pow3r17]

where are all the feminists now ?

[@goodman5836]

they don't have time to seek the truth.

[@sullivan912]

+Good Man They're too busy in their gender studies classes.

[@goodman5836]

+Tom Sullivan 😂😂. I probably shouldn't go to a feminist KZbin channel with my username.

[@PowerCookie1]

+Tom Sullivan theres enough work in gender studies to be busy?

[@manuforever143]

+PowerCookie1 nah they stay busy blogging and just being general asses in public

[@llewkamiamos6864]

Okay women who said shit like; "Maybe he did something wrong, like maybe he cheated on her." or, "He looked guilty." If those are the reasons that you come up with for abuse, there is simply something wrong with you. None of the women that enjoyed what the abusive woman was doing had any thought that maybe he had beat her earlier or even laid hands on her in anyway. Cry about getting verbally assaulted or having a cheating man, write in your journal or something, verbally abuse him back... But, physical attacks based upon a non-violent offense or the "appearance of guilt" is retarded, you have got some serious issues if you think those are a good reason that a person man or woman should be physically attacked. Based on this social experiment, I fear that this could be another reason why America hasn't seen a female president, as it appears that 99% of the people, men and women, that walked by approved of her assault and deemed an alleged non-violent offense on the man's part as valid reason for her "pushing the button". And, the officer that took unprecedented joy in seeing this abuse take place and didn't do a thing about the assault should be terminated, yesterday!

[@LouisWarren530]

abso-fucking-lutely!

[@nothanksbigbrothergoogle5897]

women cheat a lot. so what if they found out the abused woman cheated? totally different, they would say. they would say something like "she was ready to move on before he was" or some other BS so she may avoid accountability.

[@theMstanglover]

I like how one women singles out the abusive man, but when the women is doing it, it's "you guys" "that couple" implying that the women isn't the only one to blame.

[@Than_McDowell]

So everyone says they assumed he must have cheated on her. I didn't realize being cheated on was grounds for beating that person up. What a bunch of psychopaths these bystanders are.

[@Zaptor111]

It is known that Feminazis are proud supporters of regular beatings of men.

[@SpiceCh]

If the guy defended himself and hit or held down the woman, I'll bet you my right arm that one of the passing strangers would've assumed that he was the attacker and taken the woman's side. Because that's the kind of shitty society we live in. Stop viewing people based on their sexes and start treating people like people instead of having unrealistic expectations of men (and women for that matter). EDIT: Wikipedia defines feminism as "a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending a state of *equal* political, economic, cultural, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish *equal* opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and *equality* of women.", meaning you shouldn't blame feminists for this bullshit. Blame the female supremacists instead.

[@jacoultas2]

Jens Nielsen There are some decent (albeit misguided) feminists, I wont paint them all with one brush, but the feminists that do stuff and that make themselves seen are the extremist male-hating scum that want female superiority. I personally prefer the Honey Badgers/Humanists, who want equal rights and equal responsibility for both genders. Many feminists hate their guts because they are women and they actually want women to be held equally accountable for their actions as men. They recognize that the feminist movement has been hijacked and it is not as pure as it once was.

[@SpiceCh]

MRWorldGuy Í'm a socialist. If I kill a Republican, would that make all socialists murderes, criminals and terrorists? That's the logic you're using.

[@OrangeOctangular]

Jens Nielsen MrWorldGuy is just arguing about semantics. But feminism is a shitty term to use. Makes some females think they are special. Let's use another word.

[@Tivaarg]

We have to go off the majority. It's understandable that there are good feminists out there, but then again there are good nazis too. The majority of feminists, and the people often representing feminism are radically anti-men.

[@JazzyJ96771]

One thing I hate is that as women we are expected to care less about men and not worry about their health, NO! If you are a man, I am going to care about you JUST as much, whether you're a relative or a stranger.

[@Shinycrows]

Exactly. Under no circumstance is it okay for someone to hit their spouse, no matter the gender.

[@JazzyJ96771]

The Sketch Thank you for proving the point I have just proved.

[@finnbalorclubnoshadowfinnf1826]

I instantly respect you

[@combativeThinker]

You're a gem. Any man would be lucky to have you.

[@MDiPietro16]

Could you imagine if a man walked by a man abusing a woman and said "She probably deserved it" On tv? His face would have been plastered all over the news and the internet. The feminists would put their man-blood warpaint on and go search for him, hitting every man in sight. If they hit back then they'd cry out "You can't hit me, I'm a girl!!"

[@bondservant4jesus]

Abuse is bad, either way.

[@GreenThunderWorm]

It's a shame it's not treated equally on both sides...

[@maxsweet3000]

so...if the guy would have defended himself, the off duty would have stepped in? So a woman can beat the crap out of you and nobody cares but the minute you raise a hand to defend yourself everybody wants to step in and protect ......the abusive woman?

[@funnyman7488]

may I introduce to you 'the double standard of feminism' or 'the matriarchal society'. They're both perfectly described by your comment and in other ways as well, if you want to learn more, search: Mrrepzion, TheAmazingAthiest, Vinny Mac, and anti-feminazi

[@supercooled]

He's just a bad cop. If a concerned group of lady joggers took it upon themselves to intervene because they thought its the right thing to do then an off duty cop should know better x2. The fact that he admitted he was a cop after blatantly ignoring the scene and was asked by ABC host just shows he's not that bright. So he is a bad cop and a bad person to boot.

[@SummerBreezey]

I hate it that almost nobody wanted to help that poor man, and SHAME on the cop!! I can't believe he actually admitted, on camera, to being a police officer!! U would think his department would take some kinda action on him or something for witnessing physical abuse & doing nothing, even if it was just an act, bc he did NOT know that at the time!!

[@chrisr3120]

Men experience sexism too. The thing about sexism is sexists don't generally realise they are being sexist. It is not a conscious thought but a biased subconcious reaction. Many people saw this and assumed the man brought it upon himself. This is sexism. Because they made this assumption they allowed the abuse to continue.

[@uneekneek1]

that reminds me of my wife. ex wife. I never laid a hand on her and went to jail 3 times and on top of that neighbors would see me handcuffed and always looked disgusted whenever I showed up. You never hit a woman I agree but the laws have to change especially when there is not a dam thing you can do about it. And no I never cheated or hit her or abused her verbally. She would always start a fight if I left the dishes dirty, if I walked in with beer on my breath or if I was on the computer for a long time. She thought she was the boss, so I finally had the courage to leave her.

[@uneekneek1]

***** Thank you for sharing, your thoughts. It kind of felt good to vent out. Something I wouldn't dare tell someone in person.

[@uneekneek1]

h5n6q Misandric laws I never heard of such a thing. I am glad there are women out there who are not like this. You seem like a very kind person. I see a therapist now and it has helped me so much. You are awesome for caring about an issue that not a lot of people really care to address. Thanks again.

[@uneekneek1]

IHATEFeminists Thanks for clearing that up for me. Celibacy is the best policy I really don't care to love anyone but myself, from now on. It will take time. Have a good one.

[@CrypticWizard9]

Good you got away from her. I'll never get how someone, man or woman, could hurt another human being and not feel remorse.

[@uneekneek1]

I think she has bipolar but she is not seeking help she thinks she is fine. too hyper and verbally abusive.

[@kellymckearney923]

I haven't heard the "law" yet. What is assault? Man slaps a woman in the face, no physical damage done, what would police do? Same situation with roles reversed what happens? I've know women, drunk and sober actually attack police and the police will restrain and calm her down and send her on her way. If a man even gets verbally aggressive and in their face what will happen? Check out court records, this isn't just with abuse cases. Women committing the same crimes as men and compare the conviction rates and sentences, it's amazing.

[@ManSpeakOut]

I once read a story recently where a woman abused her husband and whenever he stood up to her she would call the police and use them as her attack dogs to punish her husband when he disobeyed her, and she did this a lot throughout the course of severals years. After several years of being abused by her and sent to jail by her filing false reports against him to police he finally snapped and lost it. After one verbal exchange she once again went to the phone to get the cops to act has her attack dogs once more but this time the man snapped finally and killed her. There is only so much someone can take before they just snap and do the unthinkable.

[@skanthavelu]

When did this incident take place? I am sure the man felt bad afterwards for killing her,

[@MattShade64]

This a great example as to why I ceased 30 years of championing women's rights..and started focusing on trying to find ways to balance HUMAN RIGHTS for both males and females in what has become a terribly unbalanced knee-jerk response to gender equality. One that has robbed one half of humanity of much self worth and dignity. i.e., 'fundamentalist feminism'. I weep for the poor little effeminate boys now being raised, who are told chivalry is sexist, who grow up with the instilled feeling that they have only slightly more worth than a dildo or vibrator because unlike those, men can take out the trash..

[@testertaster]

Perhaps the war on terror should include war on feminism

[@testertaster]

chump ?

[@TiesOfAffection]

This has absolutely NOTHING to do with feminism, if anything it's quite the opposite, this is patriarchy at its purest. The man is always the abuser, and the woman is always the victim. Which is wrong.

[@TiesOfAffection]

h5n6q Never stood still to think that violence against women happens WAAAY more often? How is applauding that bad for men? We still live in a society where a man asking for help is seen as something ''shameful''. Most men than get raped, still feel way too ashamed to and even report it. It's horrible, and it's all because men are expected to be a certain way. A guy is expected to be strong, a girl is expected to be pretty. That's patriarchy, and sexism against women shackles men just as much.

[@testertaster]

Well that's precisely the matter at hand Yua. It does not happen more often to women at all, its just that no one cares when it happens to men. The fact is that women are more than 10 times more likely to hit a man than the reverse. You only think this because of the pervasive and insidious feminist ideology, that has made everyone deny the evidence of their own experience. Look up 'riding the donkey backwards'. Men have historically been punished and publically shamed for letting their wives beat them, never sympathised with. Also watch this video and then tell me which gender is being privileged.

[@testertaster]

Just look how women feel entitled to treat men Yua.

[@ocayaro]

My mother did that to my Dad for years. I have nothing to do with her today. Never mind what she says. She has not seen even one of her grandchildren. Watch "Women who kill".

[@whatayaDO543]

This is the saddest thing I have ever heard. :/

[@c4662]

That is fucked up. That stupid bitch doesn't deserve to see her grand children after the shit your dad had to go through.

[@iigogi6244]

my sister is abusing me more than ten years now,today she attack me again and almost kill me,my body hurts,i think i have broken ribs,but she is a female and im a male so nobody takes situation seriously in my family ,i'm commenting on youtube now but i should be in the hospital,and guess what?is my fault,she's the victim is response of my family

[@Vanillakimchi]

Abuse is wrong period. Man on woman, woman on man, no one should be hitting anyone!

[@DonSanchez]

Pretty sad that people don't seem to care much about men being hit. Even tho men are usually stronger, women can be harmful too if they want. Also whats that bullshit about "I thought he cheated on her"? Even if he had done that (which you can't know), that doesn't justify physical assault. Talk about a man hitting a woman because he found her cheating...

[@J_Rossi]

Don Sanchez - It is sad. I'm not for hitting women, but I've read of many examples of situations where a man and woman would be having a "domestic argument" or whatever and it was the woman that went for the weapon, be it a knife, a frying pan or what have you. The man defends himself by pinning the woman in place (NOT hitting or abusing in ANY way). A neighbor calls the cops and the man gets arrested without getting to explain the self defense. Both genders can be harmful, but if women get away with it, I believe it may be because men are too ashamed to admit to and report such abuses OR.....for all the good that chivalry can do, society may be "bent " to favor an image of women as "dainty" creatures that couldn't possibly perpetrate such acts of violence.

[@JerseyKac92]

Double Standard. This is one of the biggest blows to Feminism to be honest.

[@ethangray8527]

JerseyKac92 More like this is exactly what feminism is going for, women being dominant.

[@JerseyKac92]

Alex Steel Yea, I totally agree. I might have worded that wrongly. I was trying to say, this is why it's hard to take feminism seriously.

[@JerseyKac92]

bowdowntosanta23 I never said domestic or sexual abuse was okay(For men or for women). The fact of the matter is that everyone in the video was willing to ignore the other perspective. I was just correlating that mentality to Feminism because it shows how some women are willing and able to turn off their ability to empathize with anyone other than themselves. This is where the very clear double standard shows itself. I know and understand that these kinds of abuses happen more to women than men, but people shouldn't ignore them or laugh them off or encourage them like the people in this video. The truth is, that feminists only care about women. Personally, I think both sides really need to be examined before making any decisions. Maybe I don't understand it completely but I just don't see any feminists pushing that ideology. If I'm saying something you don't agree with, instead of ignoring my viewpoints as ignorant, try to see where I and countless other men and women are coming from.

[@nikolasbryant4235]

bowdowntosanta23 Do you think you might not hear it more often because men are embarrassed to admit to being the subject of abuse?

[@Jiffygal]

From someone I know who has been physically and emotionally abused by his ex-wife, this is real. It is abuse. If he were to fight back, his manipulative exwife would have tried to get him arrested and she taken full custody of kids. He feared for his kids' lives that he would never see his children again if he reported it to the police (because she would turn the story around). He waited until the kids were older to divorce her. It's not that easy for a man to "prove" he was abused by a woman. This is real and it is a REAL problem. Unfortunately, judges are just going to laugh at the situation and ask why the men didn't leave when it was first happening. What really makes me mad is that television shows joke about this stuff. The media should not be glorifying women abusing men. Nobody deserves this. Who gives women the right to do this to men? All this does is teach abusive women how to be entitled and "right" and blame their man for some problem they probably contributed to.

[@konanxhidan3202]

,,He probably deserved it !" That's great. Of course, blame the victim...

[@terifaustino3714]

Hi, I am a woman and I do believe that society has this unfair double standards when it comes to this kind of abuse. If a woman is physically or verbally abused by a man, we always come to the rescue of the victim without even trying to hear both sides of the story. But when the tables are turned, its so easy for us to assume that the guy "deserved it" simply because of the understood norm that men are generally more capable of physically hurting a woman. Or are more generally polygamous. I thinks this standard should be changed, because abuse against any human being regardless of sex age color culture or religion should never be tolerated. I also wanna say I feel sorry for the lady in this video who showed approval of this type of abuse, just because it was a woman who was giving all the beating. To me thats just ignorant. And why would I be proud as a woman, seeing another woman who has no class or refinement?

[@meteoritessound1673]

but notice that in some cultures(like saudi arabia) the patriarchal system is so imposed that its unthinkable for a woman to hit a man . Instead, only the male has the right to do so.

[@terifaustino3714]

The Liberum Spiritus Abuse is abuse brother, regardless of gender culture or ethnicity. Inside we are all just a couple of humble human beings

[@kerimil]

Heh men more polygamous - that never gets old doesn't it? I can assure you that most men out there actually think it's true. The only people who say otherwise are women (or some players, though not all of them)

[@MrSeagull92]

Why would you start off your comment with "I am a woman

[@Rhy2412TitanGamer]

Let me give an example of a common way woman emotionally abuse men: You're in a relationship with a woman whom, at the moment is somewhat irritated and angry over something. She wants to talk about it because she wants to feel loved, cared for, and accepted. You, seeing how irritated and angry she is, decides to put up a 'wall,' blocking your emotion because you want to try to handle this rationally. You say "Let's talk about this later", not wanting a verbal or physical fight to happen in front of your kid Her, feeling unloved and neglected demands that both of you talk about it. You sense the hostility in her voice go up. You say "No, not now." Enraged by this she loses control and starts verbally attacking you by saying "real men don't do x, real men do x, and listen to their wife!" You, feeling hurt by what she said, start getting angry and more emotionally unresponsive, still trying to do the rational thing, you tell her to calm down. This proves to do the exact opposite, making her much more angry. She decides to pick up the nearby vase and attempts to throw it to vent her anger. You decide to grab her by her hand in which has the vase in it, preventing her from throwing it. Everything seems to slow down, she has fear in her eyes, but she cracks a slight smile on her face and says "What are you gonna do? Hit me?" You, at the peak of your emotional capacity let go of her hand and proceed to punch the floor/wall, letting her know you've reached your limit. Instead of realizing her wrongdoings in this eruption of emotional distress she says "If you hit me I will call the police and take everything away from you. Your money, your confidence, and your kid." You feel absolutely horrible, because you don't want to let her have your kid (who knows what she'll do or say), you mostly can't get help as people will bash and question you, she demands many things and becomes destructive and abusive if her wants aren't satisfied. You feeling 'trapped' in this never-ending cycle of torment, feel like crying your eyes out, but doing that will only make her bash you even more, hurting your feelings for showing your sadness over this distressful situation. You try to walk away from this, but she quickly moves around you and blocks your way to your room (which is a form of abuse), saying "No, not until we talk about this." You, feeling utterly unloved, neglected, and frankly powerless say "There's nothing to talk about." The process then repeats over and over.

[@alexanderthegreat5255]

I'm gonna go and say this fucking bluntly and honestly, that woman needs to be slapped and stopped, leave that fucking hag, now. There is no future with that kind of person. You probably don't deserve this. And I know this kind of shit, it happens too much you wouldn't believe. Please, man for your own sake don't be a victim to this shit anymore, one day you WILL snap and you might seriously hurt her and lose your kids in this fucked up society.

[@Rhy2412TitanGamer]

Nathaniel Morgan I went through something like this in high school. Thankfully, I'm not going through this now. The ordeal did teach me that females are not to be taken lightly, which is another reason why people just walk by. People constantly undermine the true prowess of woman (some men even have a superiority complex about it, claiming that woman can't hurt anyone).

[@bentomoswall]

h5n6q See there goes the trap! You have a kid and the very moment you breakup she will file a lawsuit like the crazy bitch she is. And really with the american justice system she could very well win that without ANY evidence based solely upon her word.

[@Rhy2412TitanGamer]

***** I know. Not every woman is bad like that. That is what honestly has many men scared to marry. They want to be treated as equals and not some servant to carry out their wants for material things or they don't want to be her physical and mental punching bag.

[@Rhy2412TitanGamer]

Angel Shotter Very true. I've seen abuse from both genders and been abused by both. It's all an ugly abomination that should be stopped and called out.

[@abark]

"This time she plays the aggressor, verbally and physically abusing her partner" Oh you mean like in the real world?

[@notapplicable8136]

I wonder how these women would feel if the man being abused was their own son?

[@chadguindon6909]

Maybe if older women (aged 50+) would be upset if they were witnessing that. They have sons that would likely be grown men.

[@PuppY0fDooM]

I ike this video but its sad its the only VIDEO of its kind up on KZbin. I am a man. i have been married and abused by my wife. I couldnt get help i got rejected everywhere when calling domestic violence help all the places i got to refered to help only women. Ive been discriminated against and even ppl even downplay your abuse. the only help i coul go to was a place to helps men who are abusers. It was a nightmare for me. Because theres no where to go. i sort of envy the men who lost control and ended up being violent as wrong as that is. Women disempower men who are kind and caring and are actually real ppl who care about equality.

[@MiaMantri]

I'm very sorry to hear of your experience. As a transwoman I know that men's suffering is very downplayed and people downplay my suffering a lot more when they see me as male. You might want to google the name Laurie A. Couture. She's speaks on unschooling and raising children mainly but she also speaks about how women can be abusers and men are often victims but their experiences are downplayed. I hope you do get the support you need and if ever you need to offload just send me a message. Take care!

[@jamesbuchanan5047]

when you run your life and your identity based on being a "men's right activist" you're just as stupid as the average feminist. man the fuck up and dont get your ass beat by girls

[@Renjia]

I reported that guys comment. Internet tough guys can learn to act like real men.

[@TheBazinga314]

I'm so sorry to hear of your experience :( I hope you are staying strong and keep your head up!

[@melon102594]

Speaking from personal experience, I wouldn't mind getting in a slap fight with an abusive woman to defend the man. Abuse is NEVER okay, whether it's a man or woman doing the abuse.

[@astateplayer1]

Some men are physically abused by women to the extent that they fear to go home after work, but they stick it out for their kids. I know a guy that was stabbed by his wife and the police did nothing but offer him a trip to the ER. Women want to be treated as equals, but they also want to continue to receive special treatment because of being "a weak little women". Men and women both need to go back to their traditional roles so that society will get back on the right track. Maybe the divorce rate wouldn't be 50% anymore.

[@TagSpamCop]

6:00 While the sentiment overall was okay by that group of women intervening, there was an element of what they said which is about being worried for _both_ of them. Not for _him_ but for them _both._ The implication seems to be that the woman doing the abusing might get hurt if he decides he's had enough. Not that she should be stopped because she's doing the wrong thing, but that it's okay for now, but while the female abuser can't make it any worse, _he_ can.

[@mrapollo13]

I remember as a kid my mum always physically lashing out at my dad. I never once saw my dad raise his hand even to defend himself. When they got divorced it escalated to the point that my mum once used a chair like she was a lion tamer and would charge at his with it. During this time I have a very vivid memory of my mum on the outside of a glass door stabbing the glass with a knife with my dad behind the glass. I love both my parents and today they're actually quite good friends but it always upset me how the entire community rallied behind my mum when they had no idea what was going on. I never realized how much this affected me until now, 21, I have a deep seeded fear of ending up with a girl that might do that to me and due to me being a guy being falsely labeled as an abuser. I wish I wasn't a man

[@terifaustino3714]

Hi I am a woman, and I just would like to share something to everyone. I have a brother who was a victim of an abusive girlfriend. I know many of you may think that women are less capable of abuse against men. But believe me, my brother is the sweetest guy you will ever meet. He has no vices, he works hard, and is very romantic, and patient. But his girlfriend was just such a bitch. She was unreasonably demanding, She instigates fight in public places to humiliate my brother, sometimes she would even harass him through phone calls early in the morning, or when he is at work. Worst of all she uses emotional blackmail all the time. She would use her heart condition, or threaten my brother to kill herself when she does not have things her way. I know my brother could appear to be a little bit of a push-over. But that does not mean he deserved all of this abuse from her. We as a family chose to not interfere because it was after all a private matter. Then it came to a point that my brother found out that her girlfriend had 2 kids from a previous relationship he was never told about. My brother wanted to leave the relationship, but her girlfriend wouldn't let him go. She even threatened to kill herself if he did. Thats the time we all interevened and helped him cut all ties with this woman. I hope the message gets across here to not tolerate abuse in any form. When you see a man being harassed in public by a bitch of a girlfriend, dont ever think that he deserves it. In the first place no human being deserves that. Think of what you'd feel if they guy was your brother or your son.

[@michaelburns7125]

You are merely seeing the result of excusing bad behavior and punishing good behavior. Your brother is made to suffer, and she gets off scot free, no one even considering she was capable of it. Prepare yourself, when the population starts to decline further, life will become more cold, depressing and impersonal.

[@terifaustino3714]

Michael Burns Actually, we did feel that something was just not right, and we did try to talk to him. Of course as mature adults we would have wanted them to settle their issues by themselves. Thats how it usually works, family should not intervene immediately and directly when it comes to relationship problems. Yes you are right, my brother was too nice. But that does not mean he deserved all that abuse. What if it was a sister? Would you be saying the same thing? Because she was too nice, she deserves all that abuse? Or will you apply a double standard on this one, because she is a woman there is no excuse for her boyfriend to abuse her.

[@michaelburns7125]

Unfortunately, I think the country becoming cold and impersonal effects everyone. The ultimate result is no one caring about anyone.

[@terifaustino3714]

fem borg yeah well, he is not with my brother no more, and thats all I care about. But yeah, abusive partners man or woman can usually have issues.

[@Mzansi74]

Yeah. Where are the feminists comments to promote some equality?

[@coolchant123]

ive actually seen quite a few of them is this comments section

[@mad4song01]

Right, because we can just assume that some of the people here are feminist just because feminism is for "equality" and some people here is pretty much for equality, thus that would make them feminists, right?…RIGHT!?

[@coolchant123]

mad4song01 what exactly are you trying to say? because you are not really making any sense

[@mad4song01]

chantelle bynes In short, I'm saying that feminists are not truly for equality (at least, not these 3rd wave feminists).

[@coolchant123]

mad4song01 probably not but they shouldnt have to be considering that the main cause of feminism is for womens rights

[@flamecid3]

it's now 8 years after this came out, i want people to do this study again, and I HOPE TO GOD the results are different, and for the better

[@flamecid3]

that's why i said hope

[@combativeThinker]

Nothing has changed.

[@minmin4842]

Nothing changed

[@alexbrookma]

Nothing changed

[@supremegodrimuru9626]

It got worse

[@SCWROX]

Women seem to have allot more power than men these day's, I think if anyone abuses anyone no matter what gender or race the victim has a right to defend them selves.

[@50centpb7]

Then the white knights step in and kick the living shit out of you.

[@50centpb7]

A good offense is usually the best defense, but even if you give an attacking woman a good shove to gain some distance, the white knights will be upon you. All I'm saying is when a man is being attacked by a woman, he should have every right to fight back without fearing repercussions from other men who should be helping him in the first place. Basic stuff really, but it still seems to be something society can't even comprehend yet.

[@kbbbb7]

Men continue to be the major aggressors against women. What are the rape statistics of men v women? It's like 1 in 5 women will get raped in their lifetimes. How many men will? The success of prosecuting rape is statistically very low, with victim shaming in court. If women had power, prosecuting rape would be as successful as prosecuting murder.

[@50centpb7]

Oh stop regurgitating this inane feminist rhetoric, dipshit. In the US more men are sexually assaulted than women when prison rape is brought into the equation. 47% of all rape accusations in north America are *proven* to be false. That's almost half. These women are lying, and just the accusation alone is enough to forever taint a man's reputation. so what happens to these lying women? Nothing; the system thinks holding these women accountable will deter others from coming forward with their false rape accusations. Imagine what kind of message that sends to the victims who have had their lives effectively ruined by these disgusting individuals. "Victim shaming" my pastey white ass cheeks. Due process exist for very valid reasons. SMH. In cases of domestic violence studies have shown that women initiate the physical abuse 60 - 75% of the time. Often to gain a position of dominance in a relationship; petty shit. Men are also eight times more likely to be victims of *any* from of violence. So I don't see why you feminists seem to think a short walk to the grocery store is about as terrifying as charging through an active warzone. Unfortunately I can't link sources from this phone, so don't be lazy and look up statistics outside your damn women's studies. You'll find everything I just listed. survival. Ever hear the term "never hit a

[@PowerMadLabRat]

twiddle Dee I think kbbbb7 just got schooled.

[@serrahighsfinest]

Its sad because this happens all the time. Woman hits man, man hits woman. Woman gets sympathy, man gets arrested.

[@omniscience9631]

My ex gf hit me in the face a few days after we broke up, some bystanders laughed while she was standing there and I was recovering from the shock, because she wasn't that kind of girl before so that came out of nowhere. Then I hit her back right in the face and prepared myself because I knew those bystanders would come for me, and I was right. As soon as she started crying holding her cheek those 4 guys came over for me. They seemed ready to fight but as soon as they saw I had my hand on my jacket, they just protected her and I walked away. She didn't had the nerve to call the cops on me after that but I have heard horror stories about the man being incarcerated with only the word of the woman, and considering that she had witnesses I would've ended in jail even when she hit me first.

[@voluntarism335]

Those 4 guys just want to fuck her, that is why they'll defend anything she does, despicable pos

[@MrDissidiaFan]

I'm not an MRA(Or from an English-speaking country in first place, I'm Brazilian), but I was glad to see Jeremy Kyle calling out the audience when they laughed at a male domestic violence victim.

[@cuso20]

My ex wife got arrested for attacking me one night (it wasn't the first time she attacked me). That was almost 3 years ago and still have the scar on my arm from where she bit me like a pitbull. I had to rip my arm out of her mouth cause she wasn't letting go.

[@9999adham]

i hope ur doing better now but as a man u shouldnt let a woman hit u nor do u hit her but if ur seeing her acting the way she is u hold her tight by her shoulder and shake her a bit and raise ur voice and let her know her place

[@cuso20]

h5n6q yes that is why she Is my Ex Wife.

[@cuso20]

MRWorldGuy trust me while she was biting my forearm like a rabid dog I thought about knocking her teeth out but I really didn't want to go to jail so I didn't hit her and sure enough someone in our apartment building called the cops when they came in I told them what happened she said to the cop yeah I hit him and she went to jail that night

[@9999adham]

J Cuso hi man like i said before i hope ur doing better now and goodluck

[@cuso20]

adham ziedan Thanks man I am doing a lot better now

[@KingRumar]

When I was in the military, my superior officer was a woman, she slapped me several times. Once because I didn't get my work done in a timely fashion, another time because I didn't clean my desk (I was trying to finish my work) when she wanted to leave for the day, and a third time because I was sarcastic. This was in a small command with about 300 military personnel. Did it matter? No, if it were the other way around? I would've not only been stopped for hitting a woman but also for a superior officer even if I were defending myself.

[@flamegod7]

For a long time (13 years approx.) my brother has been domestically abused by my younger sister. Every attempt to reason with her to stop was futile as she was beyond reason. There was literally nothing in my power that I could do. One day, she had driven my brother to the thought of suicide as his suffering was so bad... If I wasn't there to heal him emotionally and give him the will to move on, I dread to think what could have happened. Fortunately, he will be leaving to another country soon, as he is done with this one. I respect his decision, as the supreme hypocrisy of feminism that has poisoned this nation is enough to destroy someone. But really, I am just glad that he could survive such torture for so long.

[@flamegod7]

h5n6q Thank you for your concern. First of all, my parents were separated, so only my mother could handle things, which, as you could guess, didn't work out very well in the end. My sister became uncontrollably spoiled, entitled, and manipulative. She ended up controlling my mother as well. And as for legal action, this has been considered many times as well, but approaching it in the right way without making it seem like _she_ was the one being abused was very difficult to do. In every case, it would have been easy for her to play the victim and pin the blame on her older brother even if he was speaking the truth about the situation. My brother and I hope to take proper legal action, but for now the best thing to do is to get away from her and sort things out from there. So long as my sister has even the slightest leverage on someone, she can manipulate a story and guilt trip others into oblivion. Don't worry though, she'll get what she deserves in due time: tough love.

[@flamegod7]

h5n6q Thanks :)

[@Bambam12340]

So when a girl is abusing her boyfriend ppl.just assume that he cheated smdh

[@TheLivingHeiromartyr]

Well that was sickening.

[@mikenusser8444]

I really want to see them do this with the (nationwide?) Commercial where Mindy walks up to a guy and states groping his chest since she "felt invisible" and when he gets mad about being felt up she just says "hey, there are worse things than having an attractive woman grab you" people would FLIP if a guy used that excuse to feel up a woman.

[@kobil316SH]

Mike Nusser can you send me a link to that commercial?

[@kobil316SH]

h5n6q im not in the us, just send it, please

[@mikenusser8444]

screen.yahoo.com/invisible-mindy-kaling-nationwide-005057494.html I'm not sure if that works but if you Google "invisible Mindy Kaling nationwide" it will show up

[@natejuda6855]

Even the woman who called the police described the incident as "two people fighting" rather than a person is being attacked.

[@hellepost1439]

Domestic abuse: Not a gender issue/ Andrew Pain‼️ Breaking the Silence of Male Trauma Survivors/ Dr. Debra Warner‼️

[@VictoriaLampini]

Gosh! People don't realize that women can be just as dangerous as men! I should know. I watch Deadly Women.

[@benj1236]

Yet one more reason to embrace MGTOW. The more I learn about these inequality the less i want to get married.

[@LouisWarren530]

bingo baby!

[@angelfrancisco9087]

True we must make society better.

[@YseultCeirw]

+Ben J MGTOW has a long way to go before it's a respectable movement. The premise is A+, nobody should take shit from anyone. Equal rights across the board are great. But the actual verbatim messages the site and a lot of MGTOWs are saying are just comical.

[@benj1236]

+Qaus Sphene Honestly I don't think MGTOW will ever be accepted, but the truth is that we dont even care. Either way, you are a women. You will never understand why men are simply choosing to go their own way and not get married.

[@urthboundmisfit]

+h5n6q At least one kind of feminism does need to self-correct: the liberal "fun feminism" that centers itself around whether men's dicks are happy. That's not what feminism is for. But more generally, your problem isn't with feminism, it's with patriarchy. That's something we're all brainwashed into from a very early age and even feminists can be guilty of it. But most women spouting feminist-sounding cliches don't identify as feminist in the first place. They throw around terms like "equality" and "empowerment" like they know what they're talking about but they're still centering their lives around men and subscribing to the same tired old sexist ideas about relationships. And that's where the women come from who think it's OK to hit a man who hasn't hit them first, and who think a guy getting kicked in the nuts is funny.

[@emmacat3202]

Cheating is no excuse for beating the shit out of someone!

[@AOnAcid]

+EpicPsychoGamer Cheating deserves a brake up not a fucking crime scene!

[@nacita6558]

Emma Falk yea

[@beastieboy3907]

Narcissists also dont take responsibility for their emotions or have any empathy

[@dared_to_daarek1569]

14 years ago?! And were still in the same place. I was strangled by my female abuser in October of 2021. I broke out and ran to another room. When I told her I'd call the police she said she would just tell them I abused her..After getting her to leave by throwing some of her things outside she admitted to abusing me on police cam footage the next morning. But she lied and said that I threatened her with a firearm after she assaulted me. No such thing happened. Cops told her to get a restraining order. I spent all of my savings to hire legal defense against her false allegations. She ended up settling out of court. She had me pay her money to drop the false charges. Some danger she was in. My own lawyer said I didn't have a chance even with all of the evidence against her because I was a man. And because men are seen as more capable of initiating and starting violent interactions. It didn't matter that she admitted on police cam footage that the physical altercation started when she shoved me to the ground. And that she went on to put both of her hands around my neck.

[@unravellings1792]

The fact that people didn't defend the guy being hit by a woman I'd probably down to the toxic standards for men that have been perpetuated by a patriarchal society. Men are expected to defend themselves, being the "stronger" gender. I think the people walking past have been conditioned by a society that continues to spread this belief. It's not fair to assume that a whole gender is stronger than another. Patriarchy encourages domestic abuse of all kinds.

[@somerandomarmydude]

Very true.

[@noname54eeee]

Just look at the double standard of the cop they interviewed. Violence is violence, should any of us tolerate it?

[@Berserkism]

What typical Feminist tripe. Oh of course it's men's fault that women are domestic abusers. Women never do anything of their own accord. They certainly can't think for themselves. It must have been men making them do it. Patriarchy hahahahahahaha. We better get Sherlock Holmes in here to investigate this conspiracy, along with the Yeti and Wonder Woman.

[@unravellings1792]

Berserkism literally nothing to do with what I said. I'm NOT saying women can't think for themselves. I am saying that having a society that has been largely dominated by men for a long time has created a way in which we wrongly profile people of certain genders as having certain traits i.e as demonstrated in this video, people don't bother helping the poor men that are being abused, as patriarchy has raised them to believe that men are meant to be strong. By patriarchy's awful standards for men, any man who can't defend himself is weak, and deserves the lack of help for not being "manly" enough. You would have to be a fool to not see how patriarchy harms everyone.

[@TheTheMaxxx]

The reason why people didn't intervene to help is because of patriarchy? That, literally, does not make sense.

[@SansevieriaMedia]

All of the people who did nothing, or worse yet, assumed he must have deserved it, should be ashamed of themselves. All domestic violence is wrong. I have confronted abusers of both sexes, and called the cops right in front of them, pepper spray ready in one hand in case I have to defend myself. #AbuseHasNoGender

[@equariuz3546]

Even the women who called the cops didn't REALLY call the cops on the woman who was hitting him. They said "a couple is fighting" more or less, not "a woman is assaulting a man". If it was the other way around you can believe they would say "a man is assaulting a woman".

[@qaz123456781]

As a girl I was always taught by my parents that I had no more right to hit my brother than he did to hit me. If I ever hit him even though I might not have physically harmed him I was in for the hiding of my life from my parents. It is not alright to hit anyone no matter their sex, especially when the woman can hit a man but if he retaliates or defends himself he is the bad guy. I hate these double standards.

[@qaz123456781]

I thinks so too :)