real talk about breakups, boys, and blowjobs lol

[@majahagelqvist3102]

POV: you and your cool friend have a girl talk in bed during a sleepover. it is cozy. life is good

[@freyamills6426]

Yeet Ashley likes it

[@fann.9874]

I want that

[@megliee]

Tiktok

[@sydney3170]

And it's really sleepy and brutally honest

[@kkiii4056]

Petition for Ashley to start a podcast ⬇️

[@andreaorrego5430]

YES PLEASE

[@Sophia-hs7et]

YES PLEASE that would make my life better

[@eileenashley5614]

Oh my god yeeesss

[@asijtsma5467]

That would be awesome! Pleaseee

[@tuffuhknee]

Less demonitization for ashley!

[@kylieberk6220]

“They say the heart is like a muscle” It.... ..... *It is*

[@shanaesmith112]

Kylie Creates 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tofu_twee]

IT IIIIISSS

[@marg532]

technically its a organ but its largely made up of muscle so i guess you're not wrong

[@likhi13]

Heart is literally the hardest working muscle it always keeps beating until it doesn't so...

[@michela1461]

@@marg532 another Jeno stan!

[@elliehollobon-baxter2911]

She’s like the best most realist friend at a sleepover

[@caeleycallista9271]

i like ur username, we dirty armies lmao

[@maji_963]

BTS is my bias too

[@elliehollobon-baxter2911]

caeley callista don’t expose meeee😂😂

[@caeleycallista9271]

@@elliehollobon-baxter2911 dont worry ur "secret's" safe with me (and all the other dirty armies) 😭😂

[@247keita]

caeley callista WHATS DIRTY ABOUT IT??

[@helena.1581]

you talk so fast without any mistakes while i become so nervous and make like 46 mistakes in a sentence

[@thatsimi8878]

moon child. Editing magic?

[@morganbrown7922]

I don’t remember which video it’s in but there was this one like “behind the scenes” yt vid for us where she shows us how she makes her videos etc and there was a really adorable segment where Ashley would fumble over her words or repeat like one sentence multiple times until she got the right “sound” for her I guess😂

[@momin9739]

She cuts them out haha

[@haroldestrada1]

Army

[@dmd2803]

moon child. oh shit same!!

[@kara2125]

i love how openly ashley talks.., really makes me feel like she's the older sister i never had

[@mailboxhannah]

+

[@hikingtotoro]

I never had a sister and that’s all I’ve ever wanted :,)

[@starjackson2412]

Same! I only have brothers

[@mollysmith9606]

Kara Mahoney same here!

[@littleamig0]

I saw someone comment on a recent video that "youtubers are pressured to open up" or that they "normalize personal matters" as if ashley and other normal people weren't casually open about such things on or off camera.. I forgot the point of this comment but ye

[@kenramos9991]

"getting out of college without a group of friends" punched me in the stomach so hard.

[@ThinkingInProgress]

Ken Ramos seriously though. what can people do about that if no one in your city is interested in making new friendships as an adult?? Edit: this is the most likes I've ever gotten on a post. kinda sad though hahaha

[@lillierigero]

​@@ThinkingInProgress well you guys both want friends so there's probably people like you in every city. Try joining a exercise or art class where you can meet people. Even invite coworkers out and stuff. If the loneliness prevails, get a dog. Dogs are hella loyal and great friends.

[@briannadiaz3740]

I feel you dude, I live In New York,, I haven't made one friend in the 3 years i've been in college. I see all these cliques and people having fun and i just watch on thinking to myself "hmm, must be nice"

[@Dorkivieet]

Adulting is so hard :'c

[@alicearia27]

@@ThinkingInProgressIt is helpful to join a student club. I found most of my friends there. I'm from Germany so I don't know if students clubs have the same vibe in the USA.

[@KenzieSings143]

say it with my friends: If they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you

[@phiwokuhlemtana9684]

I think this is naive to believe. Labelling someone once a cheater always a cheater has its flaws. We've all lied before but would label ourselves a liar for the rest of our lives. If you do believe they will cheat on you, it is likely to happen because you have put that energy into your life

[@mavel2038]

@@phiwokuhlemtana9684 if someone is a cheater, they are going to cheat. It doesn't matter if it is after a month or after 5 years, it will happen sooner or later.

[@phiwokuhlemtana9684]

@@mavel2038 if that's what you believe it will probably happen then

[@mrinchantube]

there are never set rules with anything, everyone is different, use your own brain and asses your own unique situation accordingly

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

Yep but everyone thinks they are fuckin special for some reason.

[@TheQueenKKay]

“It was a good relationship, it just wasn’t the right relationship.” I think too many people let their pride get in the way of acknowledging this.

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

That makes no sense... That's some bullshit the person thats doing the breakup would say.

[@ricchelleb]

Anthony Hutchins get a life instead of actively trying to tear down women who use this as a safe space :)

[@olivia6530]

richelle belarmino PREACH

[@adel4430]

I felt this on another level

[@FAlRYERl]

Anthony Hutchins lmao sounds like someone never had a relationship before

[@RPNeh]

why am I watching this? I'm a virgin who's never had a boyfriend.

[@natu_illustrates]

R. P. Neh same 😭

[@honoka7917]

just preparin i guess XD

[@ShaiShy_]

Yahh

[@kimberlysantos589]

Sheeeet. Same 😅

[@hilal8978]

Samee girlsss

[@xuang7191]

as much as i love ashley's lookbooks and thrift hauls, when she does a sit down video and talks about real life problems it hits DIFFERENT

[@lpsaesthetics193]

Yes

[@softmongreal]

i know right.

[@andreeaalbu6406]

Yesss

[@annaliaperez2823]

I don't think she is reading those comments anymore. I just wanted to thank the old Ashley for this and all her other videos. They were and still are my comfort place, and I feel at home listening to them. Without them, I probably would have had a really hard time growing up. I just wish her all the best in life and am inspired by how much she improved so many lives just with this KZbin channel. All my gratitude and love, thank you.

[@woozisguitar450]

Who else wants a Pillow Talk Podcast right now???

[@juliajules428]

Woozi’s Guitar YESSSS

[@Emma-sr9qg]

Woozi’s Guitar yeeeeeees

[@francyn115]

Yesssss

[@yaritzygonzalez8787]

j u l i a YES YES YES A MILLLLLLION TIMES YES 💙💙💙

[@CherylGoer]

🙋🏻‍♀️💛💛

[@MariaClara-it8bw]

she's the mother i never had. she's the sister everybody would want. she is the friend that everybody deserves. i don't know a better person

[@karlamoreira3280]

Maria Clara Oprah quote?

[@librabaybiii9744]

Maria Clara sis me either 😭

[@dayana3302]

I love her, she is so perfect.

[@satyawhitby7777]

and she’s the boyfriend that- ok

[@redathame]

*READ PLEASE* I will start a youtube channel when I hit 100 subscribers if anyone could help me out it will make me so happy🥺 thanks and so sorry for self promo! (Please don’t send hate

[@SoftTourist]

Having an objectively "privileged" life doesn't disqualify you from feeling sad or unhappy - your feelings are valid regardless of your life circumstances

[@ThinkingInProgress]

and mental illnesses affect everyone regardless of class, gender, race, etc. It's an illness, it's not selective

[@jaf4912]

@@ThinkingInProgress Feeling sad and having a mental illlness isn't the same thing if you feel sad or angry over minor things you should try to fix that

[@ThinkingInProgress]

@@jaf4912 I understand that. I'm just pointing out that mental illnesses shouldn't be downplayed because you're "privileged". I have various mental illnesses and have been told for years that "you're the happiest person I know", even after my 4th suicidal attempt. People don't see what's going on inside. Your feelings are valid even when others say otherwise. I just thought I was sad and "I'll get over it, this is just what being teenager feels like" but turns out I needed to be on medication and therapy for the last 5 years in order for me not to be suicidal.

[@timorcohen4641]

People really should stop assuming others are "priviliged"

[@lindsenddddd12345]

yes yes yes

[@dylanthomson8122]

*well that was the best TED talk I’ve ever heard*

[@crystalz7945]

This comment has 725 likes and no comments, glad to be the first ;)

[@dianavieira4262]

same

[@sxinranz]

The only person with a 25 minute video I'd listen to talk without skipping any of it

[@ImmaBeAGurl]

sherry berry i didnt even notice i finished the video wtf

[@vivienedayna]

clara sis same,,, she has the best content i love her

[@Silkencira1710]

so true!

[@pseudoluxurynight]

lol same

[@sannetukker942]

i'm older than Ashley, but honestly, she's just given me big sister advice i never knew i needed

[@casketdancer]

same

[@countryfoxxx]

Same

[@coffeeforjulia]

Sanne Tukker mood

[@mayjannie3771]

Same ☝🏻

[@jordinapigrau4769]

Fucking same

[@theboogeyman1100]

It's like chatting with your girl friend but she does all the talking 😂

[@RizunSharma]

"it feels odd to build friendships from scratch when you're an adult" damn I felt that!!!!

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

Facts... It's so strange

[@faithfulgrace1587]

Please make "PILLOW TALK" a series!

[@susanamendonca1949]

Yes please!! I need this so much. I honestly feel like I can watch her videos when I'm sad and everything will be ok. Cause I relate to her thoughts so much. Am I the only one who thinks this?

[@nikolettavarga5764]

Omg yess!!!!!

[@baileyanderson-kita3271]

Yes please!!! We all need some advice!!!

[@silverfox5091]

999 im gonna make it 1000

[@louisratatoulielinson]

Tshuchurutchutchut tshuchurutrutrutut

[@kernpape8157]

Are boys more mature in college? Me: softly shakes head no

[@zainabqureshi9334]

Ikr! Why are they like this 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@genericchannel126]

Kat P WHAT! Ive been holding back and waiting till university because high school boys act like theyre 10!

[@dinannananna]

They are not more mature in postgrad either 😂

[@_pandasal_]

They’re never mature no matter what age

[@max-bl6fi]

I can agree I'm immature as fuck

[@AngeloveMJMJ]

“Exes are like time capsules in your life. In that they knew you intensely at a particular phase of your life. So talking to them is like being able to reconnect with the past version of yourself almost.” I literally paused the video and “wow” to myself at this incredible speech I just heard. And then rewinded it to listen to it again.

[@Tima-oz5te]

Fr I've never thought about any person in my past like that before

[@sarabellouch1000]

I did the same thing such a metaphoric yet real meaning *____*

[@leonorefuller6836]

when i heard that it clicked in my head that ashley is my favorite youtuber ever she's so wise and not even that word does her justice

[@tamsinfrostmusic]

Ashley gives us proverbs for modern life lol

[@realdiamond1524]

yes.

[@cosi854]

i'm watching all of your "girl talk" videos again during quarantine because i literally just need a person and your videos always seem like youre actually my friend lol. kinda sad but ily

[@laurendavis1595]

me too girl 😔✌

[@shaina4891]

Omg so true. She's the realest friend I have 😭❤

[@laurendavis1595]

@@shaina4891 aww i feel for you girl!!!

[@shaina4891]

@@laurendavis1595 me tooooo heheh ❤❤

[@SarvveshRavi]

I'm literally watching this rn and crying , but i feel so much better

[@softmongreal]

the mood of her room and the idea of this whole video plus the topics screams all of the songs of *The 1975*

[@swalllowtail]

Especially iliwys

[@softmongreal]

@@swalllowtail YAS

[@aliascheuneman1932]

yesss soo true omg

[@mosqu1toes437]

Omg yes iliwysss

[@romillybuckett]

Lol not people tho

[@beatrizaraujo9265]

just a quick reminder, just because you have a privileged life does not mean you have to justify yourself whenever you feel sad!! hope you’re doing well

[@miyandasimalabwi7939]

Luliamama !!! thank you.

[@mewmeww97]

Thank you for saying this!

[@haleyh4481]

yes!! everyone feels sad! it doesn’t matter who you are or how much you have! sad is human! otherwise you’d be a game show host !

[@taehyunglvr8708]

Thank u so much for this comment :(

[@claudiamorales6709]

exaclty. i don't think privileged people should excuse themselves for being priviliged. they should use that privilege for something good like helping others or just not make a bad use of it and also remember they are humans, your emotions can't be controlled by what you have or you don't in life

[@ellohmia]

Everybody gangsta till Ashley has real talk 🥺

[@nneomae6530]

Ellohmia she makes me feel things ahh

[@user-bm1dx2bs6m]

except we all still gangsta

[@Mgdg22]

I used to watch Ashley’s videos when I was 19, and now I’m 23, and i really love and miss her videos, it’s like listening to a dear friend💗

[@rubystreet1880]

Same I’m going back to her videos for nostalgia and it’s so strange seeing all the comments from four or three years ago

[@dreamingofthemoon]

Samee, I was a junior in hs and now I'm in college myself🥺

[@juliemishchuk2589]

Thank you for telling people about the under 18 nudes thing. No one ever warns young girls

[@viv_cheek]

um i wouldn’t ever send nudes. ew. people can still leak them when your over 18 🤔

[@brooklynnbutterfield1951]

Omg yes it’s so important. I was at this “party” (just an after school girl hangout thing at the end of the year) and a girl added random boys and asked for nudes. The boy sent them but she didn’t. It was disgusting.

[@gabbygarcia5811]

Vielche personally, I agree with you, I would never take any either. I think this comment was just referring to underage people taking them because that’s illegal, especially if people distribute them.

[@qquanxisgf]

it's also illegal especially for minors-

[@softmongreal]

petition for ashley to make *Pillowtalk* a series and bless us with actual episodes of her just ranting and talking abt random stuffs and showering our ears with smart and emotional conversations!! *PS. ASHLEY 21K PEOPLE ARE AGREEING WITH ME! LOL*

[@carolinegiblin8549]

Lizzy Grant yes please!!!!!!

[@amandamakesstuff1383]

yes PLEASE

[@fauxcommander]

PODCAST! 🥰

[@wowamazingcoolwow9400]

yes !!! she should make a podcast !!!

[@ahtikahalim9033]

Signed, sealed and delivered

[@jenniferrae745]

“Hey guys you’re listening to Pillow Talk ft. too many feelings” pls make a podcast.

[@lauramaniscalco9114]

Yes

[@roosdutch3698]

Ooh I would loveee that, But She already works sooo much And I dont want here to get a burn-out

[@elle9576]

am i a virgin yes have i never kissed anyone yes have i never had a bf yes am i watching this yes

[@avokiwicado8477]

ive literally never been in love and im watching lol

[@jule5988]

same ✌🏻

[@dawnasteriasageturalba6882]

sis. same here

[@josie3757]

same

[@nirupamasai6735]

Samesies!

[@sophien9203]

"Exes are like time capsules in your life" WOAH I've never seen it that way

[@MsFavoriet]

Fml i have been looking at it like that for a while now and that makes it soo much better

[@valeriaarmendariz9655]

I really hope this video doesn’t get a huge amount of weird comments because I want this to become a series

[@The_big_joey]

yall ever jus be sad that u and ashley will never be friends... yea me too

[@nicolea5992]

Yes! But since a lot of ppl feel the same way in this comment section, this means you have a higher probability of befriending a like-minded person on here or out there! Hope you find your IRL Ashley!

[@elvi1796]

Nicole A that’s so sweet

[@HotSzejk]

@@elvi1796 it is indeed! 😊

[@countryfoxxx]

Seeking my IRL Ashley FR

[@zmz7795]

I had to read this sentence like 4 times.

[@delsux4817]

i feel like i’m the only girl who grew up with a mom who openly talked about how she supports my sex life and how she believes sex isn’t something to be ashamed of, it’s something to be proud of and something that is completely normal and healthy

[@simplya.m.5575]

man you sound like a lucky girl :) everyone wishes they had that mom

[@rebeccamartin8322]

same

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

I mean yeah but it's still a private thing for some people...

[@averyrianne2261]

ok my mom definitely isn’t like that but my step mom is, sometimes she gets a little to personal but it happens to the best of us

[@johannepetersen7182]

Anthony Hutchins who hurt you

[@alisonlee9123]

can i drop out of school and have ashley teach me about life instead

[@annale_12_]

alison lee can I join you too?

[@ninasimeunovic474]

Umm I fucking need that

[@steffka586]

Mama simplynailogical says stay in school

[@carinauher6051]

Yeah same that would be way more useful

[@mehh9364]

@@steffka586 Aye you watch her too? 😁

[@deerchanllama2447]

No lie but I'd be down to invest in a bestdressed podcast.

[@putrij8856]

Deerchan Llama PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST

[@sofielarsen3907]

YES

[@halfexotic363]

so keen!! with different guest stars and they can discuss really deep stuff like feminism, mental health and bojack horseman themes hahaha

[@shortfrie99]

SAMMEEEEE

[@Naengmyeon2003]

That’s the best idea I’ve ever heard hands down

[@JinniMinni]

when you uploaded this, i didn't really watch it because i was still with my boyfriend. but now after breaking up our long term rs this is the first video i came to. thank you ashley for always being so open with us, i feel less alone thanks to you.

[@amayaprimiani5776]

stay strong sis

[@maggery9334]

same here i hope you’ve been better! 💕

[@ajimalone1978]

same lol

[@momopeng3269]

Girl same omg. I'm so glad that we all gathered here.

[@elle906]

u have such fun older-sis-that-i-never-had vibes and i’m so here for it

[@garbomode29]

Exactly!! I love these videos so much

[@cherrypie7ilms]

ELLE same!

[@Butterball2829]

carat???

[@bruh2843]

this makes me want to have an older sister :(

[@ellohmia]

We all are 😔🤘

[@karolina7127]

The setting is so calming tho and the pink/purple light omg I feel so comfortable

[@yc2877]

karolina król shes took cinematography and it shows

[@melissa4854]

Therapy: expensive Ashley uploading a video: free

[@veronicaf9398]

1k like 😄

[@imagayrat6970]

👏🏻YES👏🏻

[@titaniumwolf2757]

Hotel:Trivago

[@clarapark4262]

This might seem like a weird thing to say but you’d be such a good therapist.

[@priscydreamer9436]

Unrelated but Ashley confirmed she's releasing an affordable jewelry line and I am already saving, can't wait!

[@somnia268]

OMGGG I CANT WAIT

[@hrithvika932]

Can we please make this a series? Love this.

[@nanashin467]

PLEASE

[@caroletci]

yes!!!

[@avaharker3554]

YES

[@ronjamakela3640]

Yes!!!

[@SD-wv3fo]

I agree! This is really fun to watch and Ashley really enjoys making this. It seems more like a real you.

[@bestdressed]

here are some timecodes for my lovely busy ladies who don't have 25 minutes to kill (or anyone who wants to skip around)! 1:00 what's been going on with me? + rediscovering myself after a breakup 3:56 making friends after college 5:03 female friends 5:57 i'm moving to new york? 6:43 girl talk + advice sesh 7:10 "i like you but i don't want commitment" 9:24 how do you start a conversation about what you like during sex? 10:38 wanting a relationship for validation 12:09 queefing 14:06 can you be friends with your ex? 15:40 my man won't go down on me / oral sex double standard 17:33 nudes 19:28 age gaps 21:17 crushing on a friend's ex 22:15 liking a guy with a girlfriend 23:29 i love my boyfriend but sometimes i miss being single

[@19kayla]

love you ashley, thank you for being so genuine with us.

[@jay-ts8ux]

bestdressed we love ashley helping us out. what a queen

[@ivneetkaur9393]

I literally didn't even realise that it was too long. You are a sister that i never had but always wanted. Thanks sissy😘😘

[@thejase1078]

I hope you are alright. 💕💕

[@VenetiaHo]

bestdressed you didn’t have to but you even think about our experience interacting with your video!! ❤️❤️

[@Frouza21]

this format is so oldschool: the light and talking position and topics. I feel like Im back in 2010 youtube. le thnx

[@jigglyvids]

ashley is the only youtuber who shares real genuine thoughts and feelings and i hope she knows it is sooooo appreciated

[@bellanunezcallejas5828]

go watch Melanie Murphy gurl

[@pingpongloser2131]

Like for real!

[@beephie4411]

Would actually LOVE it if Ashley made a podcast! I really enjoy listening to her thoughts and opinions

[@kodyfarted]

Same!

[@monavieuk4521]

yesss i love her voice its so calming

[@beedlejuice]

Fenris that's a great idea! Then she could not get demonetized for talking about relevant and awesome things

[@trinitycossette4344]

Yes!

[@MikaylaJade]

fuck yes oh my god Please.

[@alysha2057]

The lightning in this video screams EUPHORIA

[@breckinridgecat]

Alisha Khan i was thinking the same thing haha

[@oliviacatherine1501]

In a good ass way thought, this vibe is a whole blessing

[@hudalx5590]

Alisha Khan lighting*

[@alysha2057]

@@hudalx5590 my bad haha literally typed this while making a cake

[@윤설호-u2t]

I'm korean and watching this video just made me realize how conservative korea is....

[@hanabimizuki6024]

woow

[@hanabimizuki6024]

@@윤설호-u2t 그것은 놀라운 의미입니다 I am sorry i am not good at korean , i just used korean translator, very sorry if im disrespecting or anything :)

[@rachel8127]

ㅋㅋ 저두여

[@윤설호-u2t]

@@rachel8127 꺄항 한국인이당

[@stillchan871]

same in China but I think with the new generation (esp those who born after 90s), situation is getting better

[@mcdreamysbabe1170]

“objectively too many feelings for my brain to handle” okay but why is this me 24/7

[@sushiwithjams5373]

mcdreamy’s babe ME TOOOOO

[@yanisaphattharawat9630]

Dear KZbin, Please, please, please don't demonetise videos like this. We love+need it. Signed, The best* fans (*idk what our fandom name is) Edit: omgosh tysm everyone for liking and commenting! This is super! (it's my first time getting so many likes, thankyouthankyou) ❤️✨

[@naimatkhani5228]

OUR NAME SHOULD BE ASHFANS!!!!!

[@daisy5688]

dressed fans? 😂

[@AndreaBosnjakovic]

Ashleynators? 😂

[@min-cm4fj]

isn't it "bestdressedfam"?

[@nadja.]

Bestblessed!

[@boredoml7274]

Can we fucking appreciate the talks she gives in her youtube videos for young teens because these are so amazing and they help so much like omfg we love this😪💕

[@caitlinjolly8498]

this is the kind of support and education i needed in school lol

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

Not even a teen anymore, but love big sis ashley for guiding us :’)

[@jasminechang8737]

and plus she did it even though youtube is demonitizing it and cashing her... this is not easy to find she really doesd deserve so much love and recognition (well she is but like mOREEEE

[@seafoam3379]

it doesn’t matter you’re “privileged” you’re allowed to be sad for any reason, we’re always here rooting for you

[@tildalinneagidlof7641]

can you please make a podcast?? I'd totally listen to you ramble for 25 minutes any day :))

[@konko3805]

I will third it!

[@sarahspunaugle8246]

I’ll fourth it!!

[@douaebaarbi8822]

Then ill fifht it

[@jasonreitsma6852]

I will 6th it

[@callmenorapls]

I will 443872487th it. pls ashley do it. i would pay for it. even though i'm broke

[@irlywannadie8409]

the lighting and color pallete in this video are absolutely amazing

[@isthatachicken]

I'm the 1000th like 😎

[@timeeuclidean]

i rly wanna die Same omfg im living for it

[@isthatachicken]

@@timeeuclidean why do you want to die? Please live :( please

[@hmmred7896]

@@isthatachicken that's the username of the original post

[@boxofube]

Yeah it feels like we’re in a sleepover with her

[@Mari-Yama]

Girl.... I'm in my thirties and have been with my husband for 10 years and for you being 21, you are blowing my mind on how knowledgeable you are on these types of subjects! I'm so glad that these younger girls/boys have you to look up to.

[@Throatzillaaa]

im in my 30s, single and i had the same thoughts about her!!!

[@EquestrianificationKaylan]

when she talked about not having a close group of friends or girlfriends, i felt that

[@janajenko312]

You should film the apartment makeover before you move to New York .

[@sanriohaechan667]

Why is she moving??

[@karensmith1521]

Whyyy she mivingg

[@Blooms23]

@@karensmith1521 she said she's never felt LA life that much and if by February (when her lease is up) she still doesn't feel good about it she's gonna move out to New York!

[@sabrinasilva2805]

1. The light and ambiance in this video is everything. 2. We don't deserve such a wise and authentic queen. 3. I am proud to say I'm 23 years old and look up to you.

[@gaukharsm]

Sabrina Silva same gurl! 25 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@anabo6779]

23 and still learning how to adult here 😄

[@Radioshoes]

I'm 65 and look up to her. I wish I had someone this wise when I was growing up. It would have made my life so much easier.

[@alexandrabujosa]

25 and I wanna be like ashley when I grow up 😂

[@mathildeb.2609]

25 here and I could not agree more !

[@hayleyowens214]

Use this button as a petition for Ashley to start a podcast! (edit: holy jeez, thanks for the likes.) ⬇️

[@gandgandq]

Hayley YES

[@reimarz]

Hayley this is such a good idea !!! Ashley please

[@manaralaqbari8601]

been dying for one for AGES

[@gracefoley2239]

PLEASSSSSSEEEEEE

[@BookyFaliza]

i’d literally pay for a podcast fjsjsk

[@yvonnie4632]

i saw this on another comment section but.. fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely :)

[@jahnaviraman5411]

“we’re taught to feel a lot of shame about sex” uggghhh this is so true

[@intelligentrock4379]

idk i feel like its the opposite. I spent my teen years in europe and u.s schools im an 18yo american btw and really sex is too normalized today i get its nature but i just feel like we live in a sex crazed world, not that any time before was better but today in this society anybody and everybody likes to talk about detailed sex and if u dont ur automatically seen as a prude.

[@jahnaviraman5411]

@@intelligentrock4379 yeah i see where you're coming frm. ig it depends on different societies (w/in the country itself). or from person to person

[@Users_rx]

i think it depends, when there isn't any 'shame' about sex there will be no boundaries and it becomes normalized and hence the hook up culture..and we all know it has it's bad sides as well.

[@jahnaviraman5411]

@@Users_rx yeah i see what ur saying. but at the same time ppl shame women for casual sex but don't give a shit if men do it, and it's kinda gross. ex. TI checking his 18 year old daughter's hymen while his son did it at 15

[@intelligentrock4379]

@@jahnaviraman5411 wait wtf i don't wanna look that TI news up because thats truamatizing but if it's true wthell. That's a further conversation than just sex , That's literally a violation of privacy and it's creepy.

[@aimingstarlight]

After a messy day this is exactly what I need. Big sister Ashley looking out for us again

[@namitaj5033]

Yessss

[@namitaj5033]

Yes yes yes

[@fionanaray9205]

Yes yes yes yes

[@caroletci]

exactly

[@laraochoa5968]

sameee

[@vivlundskow]

I don’t have an older sister but watching videos like this makes me kinda feel like I do!

[@cottage-core_]

Same here!

[@sofiamenapace653]

same, i have 2 sisters that really look up to me but since they are younger, i kind of consider ashley a role model/bigger sister

[@Biodegradable-my8wx]

omg on the topic of being awkward in sex, one time i legit said "are you feeling it now Mr Krabs?" when my bf started moaning

[@lynninthetrashbin]

XD omg thats great

[@violetsibley]

Aisha Payne HBJGBFSDFBHSGSBGDBS LMAOAOOAAOOO

[@yuzu-ade]

OH MY GOD

[@fayetopias]

NOOOOOOOO

[@jordanyoung1327]

i’m using this thank u

[@ja3hyuns561]

can you talk abt like social anxieties, being awkeard and just having low self-confidence. 😷

[@adrianaanairda4769]

omg ashley plsss

[@arenyt4496]

Plz I need it

[@marielle2497]

Watch Yes theory 💛

[@adjfo]

Yes

[@ashina3696]

omg hoshiiii

[@rebecsofia]

Girl, you NEED to have a podcast!

[@wiktoria9681]

Yaaas please

[@ringringring7504]

Omg truee

[@aysimaberil]

Pls, you are the only one I can relate to, it would be awesome

[@lillianschafer9020]

Omg yeeesss

[@karlzrandomshit]

I would never understand why you don’t have a lot of friends tbh, with your attitude I think everyone would wanna hang out with you 😅

[@yasumitodaka1013]

This is just my opinion, but sometimes (and most of the time) keeping many relationship as friends puts stress on you. You'd have to maintain conversations with them, your care, your memories with them...What if there's this long-time-no-see friend coming at you from a corner of the street, shake your hand and starts asking questions? You start getting confused when you don't recognize the person, and you have to search that mental library of memories again, within a matter of seconds, in order to not let the other person down for simply forgetting. It's draining. On top of that, doesn't mean you express yourself on the Internet openly means you can be so open in real life. It's a matter of priority and assessing self-worth as a person, because attitude just can't cover all of a person's personality, as well as their inner self. Many would approach you, want to make friends with you, but it's human's nature to love being remembered, one little disheartening moment of forget would crack something up inside. This is my personal perspective as a high-functioning individual with Borderline Personality Disorder, I know it won't apply to you all but I hope I did this answer justice.

[@lilyburke9588]

Yasumi Todaka ummmmm lmao

[@ariellewang4963]

@@yasumitodaka1013 wowww

[@5LifePath]

She said she didnt put in any effort to make friends and that's a huge deal. What you put into your friendships is what you get out tbh.

[@themlongplays4961]

She said in previous videos that she is introverted and that she really enjoys spending time alone

[@ChanelRodriguez-lc9wh]

miss you Ashley 💗 4 years ago I was 16 and now in a few months I’ll be 20, I’m so amazed being your age now

[@LenaTrieu]

Can we take a moment to appreciate that she did this knowing she wouldnt get money cuz of demOnitiZation. Thanks sis we love you 🥰🥰

[@Bunnylovescoffee]

you need to keep this pillow talk series Ashley. not just for content but for your dreamy cozy background. (Thank you for all these thumbs up!!! Video advice: making a video chatting about advice for people who want to live in LA and personal experience of living in LA generally 💛 Love you Ashley xoxo) - Update: Ashley had the LA experience video after she decided to move out and go to NYC-

[@caitlinjolly8498]

i'm obsessed!!

[@akissxo3643]

I was going to like but it's 666

[@annemarieeijlders554]

Maybe one about all of the first times? Like first kiss, first real relationship, heartbreak, one night stand...

[@alexlong9749]

Great idea!!

[@helenfaith1508]

Annemarie Eijlders oooo yesss good idea

[@sarahmason21]

That would be a great video!

[@philominapalathingal2284]

Yessss

[@invictus1554]

Still coming back to this in 2024, i love and relate to this so much, thank you for being real.

[@beel4498]

I love how open you are about kinda taboo?? Topics? It’s so sweet and helpfulll, thank youuuu

[@kggroom]

Bethany Lowe Exactlyy 👏🏽

[@Beretboytoy]

Ashley: "the heart is like a muscle" Ooh, I've got news for you, sis....

[@the-symbol-of-the-umbran-way]

hahah

[@SuperSilverJay]

😂

[@rosalyngummer6587]

😂

[@user-dc1dk7qj1q]

Javier Pan the heart IS a muscle

[@thatotherpatrick4871]

Javier Pan it’s because the heart is actually a muscle but she said it was “like” one.

[@elachouhan4923]

I'm the oldest of three and you have no idea how good it felt to have some "big sister advice" for once.

[@meohmya]

Ela Chouhan me too!!

[@kaijaanderson8410]

Sameee!!!!

[@illianaiswatching]

Same brooo

[@kyliegaarder2819]

sAmeE

[@magdaibrahim3195]

Me too oldest out of 5

[@aschearth1059]

i just got broken up with by my ex of almost 7 years and this video is so comforting. im going through a self discovery journey right now and its such a freeing thing, while still grieving at the same time. im hanging out with my friends more, being with myself more, etc. i know youre not really on youtube anymore but thank you so much for these videos ashley ❤️

[@-sunny-66]

could you talk more about - long distance relationships - getting over relationships (preferably getting over a relationship that was private) - specifying "loving" and "liking" - when to you know you're not interested anymore (maybe even how to tell your partner) - still feeling like you "need" attention from an ex even though you also don't want to be in the relationship (< in a nutshell, feeling mixed emotions) - knowing when you're making everything about your partner, and when and how you should give yourself time - when is it a decent time to meet someone you've been having a distant relationship with (what's the safest way as well) - things people should know before committing (or maybe even things people should know before considering dating) (sorry this is a long list, I think a lot and this video was just so helpful in many ways! I'm looking forward to this being a series!💜💕 thank you so much for such amazing content as always💗💘)

[@lilithjune]

- ̗̀sunny ̖́- dude you just have to experience it your own way. If she explains these things, you will be waiting for the exact moments and maybe miss the actual different signs. Whatever she talks about is part of her experience, and it might resonate with a lot of us also that some might have a completely different one.

[@Username-nullified]

Just how I personally view the 3rd topic: Like: For now Love: For a while In love: Forever

[@lauramller1851]

all i want to know is, have you told your parents about your channel?

[@peachesb5675]

She's 21..

[@lauramller1851]

Peaches B i know, but i’m still curious

[@endelvelt7650]

Peaches B I think they asked bc it's Ashley's running joke that she still hasn't told them, and this topic is like not one you'd want your parent to see

[@day6iu175]

No she didnt but her aunt knows

[@slowedsongs4099]

Laura Møller r u danish?

[@diaryofawimpygus9068]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE START A PODCAST (we would totally support you on Patreon if need be!!)

[@Dirtysoda_]

Bitch that red lipstick looks so good on you, are you kidding me

[@mel5282]

lex the t-rex I’m LIVING for this positivity. YES.

[@Rose22479]

Mėł are unsolicited comments on physical appearance always positive/something that should be encouraged? it can be kind of an uncomfortable part of being on the internet for some women

[@gracedell]

Rose22479 it’s a complement? they weren’t being creepy. if you’re not being creepy i love complemts

[@kate6618]

@@Rose22479 They were complimenting the lipstick, I think maybe it would be inappropriate if it was about her body or anything else but it was literally just about how that lipstick suited her.

[@olliem890]

I remember my first time with my boyfriend was kinda funny cuz the entire time we were asking each other how it feels not to be a virgin anymore It’s kind of an inside joke now haha

[@noahelmer7738]

Ollie M I aspire to be like you haha

[@pedroborges5323]

Your name reminds me of Ollie MN (a.k.a the best artist ever)

[@olliem890]

@@pedroborges5323 dude I freaking love his music so much

[@michirou93]

i didn’t know your room would be so “euphoria”?

[@nqwochi]

euphoric

[@sophielessore8155]

@@nqwochi its a reference to a tv show with a funky neon aesthetic

[@nqwochi]

@@sophielessore8155 ah ok that makes sense

[@sanjanafaria4224]

Right? It's so fresh in my memory I thought that right away

[@rosedollll7199]

chirouhun oh I thought you meant BTS lol

[@ameliewolfbane7733]

Jesus Christ i don’t know whether I wanna be her bestfriend or her girlfriend

[@softmongreal]

same sis

[@adrianmattioli185]

just lesbian tings

[@phlasaban]

Both!!!😂

[@mimineko1019]

Amelie Wolfbane same wtf 🤣

[@livluvsu.]

saammee

[@lesliesan4114]

honestly, if you made podcasts.... I’d listen to them 24/7. you should make podcasts

[@kattybaclay2354]

Listening to her talk before bed has been my quarantine routine

[@reei4560]

‘The mindfuck of being female’ is the title of the current chapter in my life

[@windowsxp7823]

I share the words of your book, girl...

[@tofu_twee]

My mind is a basically a minefield infested with rats

[@plateoffrogs4709]

‘The mindfuck of having a vagina but not being female’ is mine

[@kattensilverregn340]

same girl

[@MattieSaysRawr]

Ashley 👏🏻 needs 👏🏻 a 👏🏻 podcast (But only if she can handle it without being a stressed mess)

[@yeah2853]

We love that

[@nathanieltabernersmith2328]

best stressed

[@lauradevereux9117]

+

[@stardewcat]

Nathaniel Taberner Smith SECOND SIDE CHANNEL

[@anyarosed7930]

Omg yes

[@adele2234]

Ashley: we’re taught to feel a lot of shame about sex Me after violently reducing the volume because I read the question quick and don’t want people in the house to think that I’m watching a video about sex: *shocked pikachu meme *

[@marthavaladez9351]

Same

[@queenb7209]

Same

[@alikay9402]

Honestly there wasn’t even anyone home I just did it reflexively

[@lizzybelle11]

I did the exact same thing too!!

[@yairahyasmin]

The title includes 'blowjobs' 😂😂

[@heathers.7755]

As a trans woman who started transition at 25ish, I sorta missed out on sleepovers as a child, so I really, really appreciate this video.

[@stimpyfeelinit]

bloke in a dress

[@shahar9452]

this is sweet. hope you know you can still have sleepovers at 25

[@aur9035]

@@stimpyfeelinit are we playing i spy and are you in a circus mirror room or something

[@nico-yd6fo]

dont let age get in the way of fun!!! you can still have sleepovers :))) make up for it now that you can😤

[@agnesarellano6033]

as a trans woman as well i would love to have a sleepover with you

[@valerieverkaik358]

Me: enjoying this content Me: also realising why her parents don't know about her youtube channel 😂

[@annabaerg3776]

I love big sis Ashley, but ALSO can we talk about that wallpaper!? So pretty😍

[@FreyaFires]

Just wanted to tell everyone that I asked my crush out and we’re going out in three days!!! Wish me luck ;)) Edit: Our little date went amazing! We’re seeing each other again next week

[@michelen2903]

gl bb! fuck it up!!

[@yuul7178]

Wow good luck! I tried to ask my crush out a few times, but he is oblivious af😂. I Iiterrally said: Hey do you wanna go out like see a movie....

[@franziskahenschel4183]

good luck ! :))

[@irisvandenieuwegiessen5533]

Good luck! I asked my boyfriend on a date two years ago and we're still dating

[@marthavaladez9351]

You go girl 👍

[@thesleepydot]

I sometimes wish I had a yt channel just so I could talk about things that are deeply personal and reveal things that I don’t have the chance to to my friends because I don’t want to sound dramatic and whiny or it just doesn’t come up. Kind of like a personal journal that is being taped. Damn... I should actually do that. Without posting them, tho.

[@arooshatariq5573]

Do it girl!! If it makes you happy, do it. I'll watch. :D

[@thesleepydot]

Abdullah Tariq That’s sweet but I don’t think I could handle any audience at all. It’s terrifying and I have other plans for my future that I would prefer focusing on, but thank you still. :))

[@rockingmona9834]

Girl you're a big fat mood

[@alexandraschafer9664]

Try podcasting :)

[@tishaprnucedteasha]

Blog?

[@lyndaba865]

Why pay for a therapist when you have Ashley?

[@WhitneyAustins]

preach

[@lenorha1017]

beacuse therapist is THERAPIST

[@kggroom]

hot wasabi 69 basically 🤣

[@lyndaba865]

@@lenorha1017 are you dumb

[@lenorha1017]

@@lyndaba865 No, i'm not.

[@rosie4546]

"exs are like time capsules" that's actually pretty cute

[@victorclemenpua2007]

Trying to be like neutral but also she re-did his entire room I can’t believe

[@beccarola]

Sans Caesar Pua this !!! but he had to have had his reasons ig

[@reagyragu]

I’m screaming bc i was literally thinking the same thing

[@FireLadyAzula]

It just makes me think that he has a constant reminder of the relationship. But if it's amicable 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@AlicedeTerre]

@@FireLadyAzula He moved to SD!

[@FireLadyAzula]

@@AlicedeTerre aaaaah. That means someone else gets that bomb ass room

[@gachaou8388]

that painting metaphor is so relatable, it’s crazy when you realize There’s so much you don’t realize like wow there’s a world around me, high school shit having no obligations not no more

[@jisha7461]

I'm five minutes into the video and this may be off topic i think but I'M SO PROUD OF YOU FOR THE HARPER'S BAZAAR VID

[@HarpersBazaar]

💕

[@softmongreal]

@@HarpersBazaar they are watching Ashley omggg

[@okelise]

Jisha ME TOO! I WAS SO HAPPY FOR HER