REAL TWIN FLAMES Q&A | The Dark Side - Doubt/Fear/Regret/Jealousy

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In this video Serena and James talk about the doubts they had/have for each other, and the specific scenarios that created these doubts and fears. They discuss many of the perceived "darker" aspects of the twin flame journey and how they are still dealing with these issues as they continue to emerge in union.
This is real twin flames Q&A the dark side doubt/fear/regret/jealousy
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[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thanks for watching! Put your questions below and we will answer them the best we can! ❤

[@Dray7777]

Not only another South African but has also traveled to coffee bay. What a coincidence

[@Dray7777]

What were you guys doing at Transkei. I know a lot of interesting people who went there. Were you part of one of those off grid communities, back packers, community builders, etc. I know there are a couple of projects going on their relating to those themes. I was part of a group that went there which ha its own online radio show. I have great memories camping there by a beautiful mountain by the coast without one tourist on the beach I discovered. The nature looked like a set of a Indiana Jones movie. It was so tropical with trees

[@ecstasy92]

I really enjoyed this video. It brought a lot of awareness to my own separation situation. While I’m not 100% sure the one I think is my twin flame is my twin flame, the universe keeps reminding me every single day and pulling me back to her. Not a projection of my own mind, but actual real synchronistic experiences that keep directing me back to her. It’s crazy how both of your experiences are so similar to mine. It brings me a lot of hope and joy that one day I might reunite with her. She was so special, divine, and unique. Never have I ever felt so alive, at peace, and in the presence of god and secure within my masculinity until I met her. I truly felt at home for the first time in my life when I met her.

[@e.o9470]

I don’t why i’m watching this video but please consider yourself blessed and super lucky if you haven’t been in a TF connection!😅

[@helenaroman1543]

I think we're all divinely guided. If you're watching this video you were likely meant to see it ❣

[@CrystalTwinStar]

Omg! I'm so excited to hear what James has to share, but I'm only a couple of minutes in and my head feels like it's gonna explode! It's because his essence is so similar to my DM's, that it almost feels like I'm peering into the future moment when he is sharing his perspective with me. I know I will be able to listen soon, but I first need to acclimate to James's energy and you guys' combined energy. I watched your first one you did together and I was fine, but for some reason today I feel more overwhelmed. I'm beyond elated for the two of you Blessings and gratitude!

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Aw! So sweet to hear! James, I'm sure, will be happy to see this comment and to know that there are other DMs like him out there! They have quite a special way about them... I agree :)

[@CrystalTwinStar]

@@LifeAfterUnion Thank you Serena! I just re-read my comment and want to clarify...I am always interested in hearing what you share. When I wrote that I had paused the video at a point where James was speaking, and forgot to include that in my comment. All we feminines want to hear our DMs perspective, and since James does seem similar to my DM, I was especially curious about what he shared on this topic. And after listening, I found it to be true! Their laugh is even similar

[@pinxtensylvia9319]

Hey, I'm a very sweet, emphatic and totally honest Aries!!! And I'm in 3D separation fase now from my Taurus twin......but I cannot even be thinking of being intimate with someone else.....We were intimate once...and I know it would never feel the same with any other person in the past or future......and so, celebacy is a natural and logic thing for me now.....I can relate with the view of Aries having a lot of fire, but believe me when I say, for me the intimacy is about giving and receiving pure love, not just purely for me....but for the both of us...... deepening our bond.... sexual or not....any kind of intimacy for me is giving him all the love, space, time and freedom to be who he is and the other way arround.....I'll love us, no matter what....for we are in Union in 5D. Thanks for your video, I love how you can feel the love you both radiate , beaming trough the screen !❤❤❤❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

ahhh! Beautiful! Thank you so much for commenting! Yes, my depiction of aries in this video is not very accurate and probably more had to do with the individual person rather than generalizing the star sign group! I love your take on intimacy and agree with you completely! Coming from someone who made the "mistake" there is no one else that compares to that bond! Not sure if you are interested.... (this is an old video so the offer is only mentioned on our newer videos), but we are just launching a group coaching program for twin flames called the Twin Flame Path to Awakening. We are looking for beta testers! You might be a good fit! If you are interested in connecting with other twins on a similar path in an aligned way and doing the awakening work together you are welcome to fill out our form below... no pressure either way, just throwing it out there! Lots of love to you! And thanks again for sharing your beautiful perspective :) serenarwillis.wufoo.com/forms/twin-flame-group-coaching-form/

[@Aylinakguner]

Lovely! So refreshing to see twin flame couple's successfully come together. I wish that ours was 6 months. It's coming to 5 years me and my twin have been on and off. I feel union is very close though 🙏 💫

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thanks for the comment and best of luck to you!!!

[@janetolman7939]

Such a beautiful video, so authentic and kept this journey so real and the human experience. Thank you guys 🙏

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you Jane! Much appreciated to hear from you!

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

So beautiful to watch. Thank you for sharing your experience. This is so helpful for all the twins out there. The energy between you two is so harmonious amazing! 💚

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you for the comment! Looking forward to releasing more videos like this in the futute

[@simplyrefinedcooking9854]

This is very helpful! I am on the brink of union

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Good luck! Thank you for sharing!

[@mjey1]

And how'd it go?

[@blacksongbird100]

Thank you for this video. I feel 110% better! Seriously. I feel like it's ok to be at peace with this separation bc it works out in the end if I surrender. Thank you. ❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

You are so beautiful! Thank you for the comment. You can do it!

[@lisabrigham1595]

I am at the point, where my twinflame acts like i am a psycho stalker. I feel it is over. But, I feel good. Like a relief. Spiritually i am focusing on my self. I leaving up to spirit for now. This journey is hard.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Good for you! Yes, it is hard. You are on the right path.

[@CrystalTwinStar]

Sigh...(heart melting) So after acclimating to your combined energy I came back to listen... You guys! Are soooo inspiring. Thank you!

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you Crystal! I just want to let you know I also received your email (THANK YOU) and am going to respond to it soon! We were just on a week long holiday, so no technology! Chat soon!

[@CrystalTwinStar]

@@LifeAfterUnion Oh okay! Thank you so much for letting me know you received it. I will look forward to your reply!

[@dashfriday974]

They. Are. Fu**ing. Cult. Ambassadors.

[@guitarandvoice7]

He's a good man. Settle in.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Hehehe I love this comment. Thank you ❤️

[@guitarandvoice7]

@@LifeAfterUnion Glad you do. 💜

[@AngelaWilliams-wt6kx]

Love you guys. Just the release and sweetest! ❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Aw! Thank you so much!

[@cdoggtotten]

This was so beautiful to watch. Thank you.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate that!

[@Misticaquantica]

111 Comments just before me! I was asking the universe to show me a couple of TF in Union, just to give me some hope!❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Love this! Good luck in your journey! Need any more support you know where to find us!

[@helenaroman1543]

Aww hey guys! Thank you for making such a nice presentation together.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you Helena! We appreciate the love and support!

[@lisanathan7336]

You are both so beautiful ❤❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Aw thank you, such a sweet sweet comment to read!

[@MommaLoveAshea]

Very informative!! It just showed up in my feed.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

I'm glad you liked it! Thanks!

[@CraftyTan]

I’m on my twin flame journey right now

[@LifeAfterUnion]

All the best to you!!!

[@Starseedchick]

This video was really calming and validating for my own situation ❤ thank you for sharing your journey

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Ah! Thank you! Good to know it can help!

[@sachinmahi7709]

I can’t be with someone again if they have slept with someone else I can’t look at them the same way

[@dudahml]

It's fine... For me it's the worst...

[@dreamdemolitionfactory1304]

At first I sensed you were a Leo Serena (sunny and bright), but if James is a Scorpio, I’m now guessing you’re a Pisces? Great content by the way. You guys are so lovely 🥰

[@LifeAfterUnion]

No I am a LEO! You are right lol His ascendant is Pisces.

[@debrashawcross170]

Beautiful Soulful Union ❤(Communication is key)

[@keeractor3028]

Not tying the hardest with all my power to win her over was the worst thing I ever did .

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Ugh. That's hard. I hear you, and thank you for sharing here.

[@k86226]

❤aww you guys are beautiful and it is heart warming and soul calming to hear your story

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you for supporting us! I'm glad we could provide that!

[@mayaenmar6531]

Wonderful video Î’d loved watching you and hearing your stories ❤ Thank you 🙏🏼

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you for being a beautiful part of my channel!

[@shadidx3157]

thank you very much .. i like to share your story with each other .. we know (our twin flame experience) how difficult our relationship trip is .. for me still in separation (long distance relationship) .. regards 🌷🌺

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you so much for commenting and sharing your perspective. I hear you completely. I appreciate your support, and am sending mine to you as well!

[@simayacute]

Would love to know you guys birthcharts combined/ ur birthdays/signs.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

hello! Thanks for the interest! At one point, I had our charts and synastry loaded on an app, but then I deleted it. My top three are: Leo Sun, Leo Rising, and Cancer Moon. His top three are: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Rising, and Leo Moon. Before union I did a lot of research into our charts and it was at a time that I was not certain about the relationship and still had a lot of doubts so I was looking to astrology for a sense of security... only to realize I would not find it there. I found some good things, but also some triggering things as well. It was at this point that I realized the astrology was only mirroring my desires and fears at any given moment and it was really up to me to decide to move forward or not. I haven't done much with our astrology since then, but I do still find it interesting. I do also follow the astrology of the moons and planets and retrogrades. I find it quite helpful to relate on a collective level to what we are moving through. Thanks for the question!

[@wilson8979]

You both look similar like brother sister

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

I’ve read that the twin flame connection is so close like that of a brother and sister with romance/sexual attraction thrown in.

[@84Dstar]

Such a helpful video. Thank you 🤍🙏

[@Capernaum-zm2tz]

Beautiful couple twin flame. Yeah sometimes i doubt

[@LifeAfterUnion]

We all do! We are human the the uncertainty is part of the beauty of taking the leap! Thank you for your support!

[@onimpulse4785]

Thais really helps! Thank you!

[@LifeAfterUnion]

I'm glad! Thanks for the comment!

[@fourtwentythree]

i love hearing twin flame stories seeing how they relate to other stories and trying to decipher if a pair is for me to continue watching their content, im curious if you have told your story or journey in a video ?

[@LifeAfterUnion]

What are some of your other favorite twin flame couples on youtube?

[@fourtwentythree]

@@LifeAfterUnion i don’t so much follow them as actively as much as I realized I was not currently on this path myself but I love listening to the one’s that shared their stories on the platform: Lee & Sherry, twin soul poets, twinfinity, journey within awakened minds There were others but I’ve lost track but I’m always looking for new one sharing their experiences and stories 🙏

[@na_yika]

​​@@fourtwentythreecan we suggest a KZbin channel that has offered us help? @wearethesamenergy

[@fourtwentythree]

@@na_yika is this a twin in union channel ?

[@na_yika]

@@fourtwentythree yesss!

[@trishstewart121]

Very helpful, thank you.

[@Mvr4021]

Thanks for sharing this!

[@JBGuarino43]

Lucky for you guys at least there was some sort of acknowledgment.

[@MrsNolastname]

I No LONGER HAVE DOUBTS

[@loveyourketo1433]

Yeah don’t appreciate the description of Aries

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Thank you for calling me out! 🙏🙏🙏 big love! ❤️

[@Dray7777]

Have either of you been to South African or around there

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Funny you should ask... this video was filmed on our small holding in South Africa... my partner is south african and I am from the United states!

[@Dray7777]

I knew a group that went down there called Kinda Community. Not a fan of them but met some very awsome people from those circles who are trying to live off grid, be self reliant and independent. Locals were so friendly. Just some UK people who are taking advantage of both peoples intention to do good, their trust and the locals circumstances. That I was not too happy with. Basically organizations clothing themselves as a charity when they actually there to save a rich man tax when moving large funds

[@Joliapodcast]

I don’t get twin flame vibes here more twin soul.

[@ayuodagiri1577]

You all have the same eyes ❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Haha thank you! One of my best friends remarked at his "gentle eyes" the first time she saw him

[@AlekhyaParapathi]

Hey is anyone's twinflame look exactly like their ex ?

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Similar body style, and interestingly both have Scottish heritage...

[@AlekhyaParapathi]

@@LifeAfterUnion thank you

[@AI-ch3if]

The situation with my ex played out a lot like the twin flame runner scenario. However, years later, I accepted Christ, and a few more years going forward, I decided to undergo deliverance prayer for a stronghold of idolatry (for an unrelated reason). To my surprise, I started having dreams of my ex. As the deliverance progressed, the remaining feelings for my ex dwindled, and I achieved a surprising level of indifference toward him. So, he was never a "twin flame," but I just was under the sway of demons that influenced me to literally make this guy into an idol in my mind -- go figure.

[@soulTraveller144]

I'm not sure both twin flames can be aware of being a twin flame so its hard to believe anyone on youtube claiming to be a twin flame couple.. still enjoyed the conversation you share though

[@dorteheidecker7074]

You guys are so cute 🥰

[@chouchihad4686]

Is this a sign ..cause i dont know anymore ..we decided to meet after one month ...today is one month exactly and when i check his profil i was blocked ..is this video is a sign that we are tf

[@LifeAfterUnion]

I think it's a good question to ask. You are, afterall, a divine conscious creator... Do you want it to be a sign?

[@CherryMorrison]

Did you experience DNOTS during separation? How long was your separation? I knew my twin since 19 but we only came together at 36 (now 37). We lived together for 3 months then separated for 2 then lived together another two months and now been separated for close to 6 months and will be reunited soon. We live 12 hours apart 😢❤😊 I’ve gone through heavy things since being separated it’s like being heart broken but on steroids and the numbers, dreams, his name everywhere.

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Sorry Cherry... what is DNOTS? I've been trying to think what it stands for and it hasn't registered!

[@elliefrangoulis2228]

Is this guy the same guy in the other videos 3 years ago? 😅

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Lol yes!

[@elliefrangoulis2228]

I thought this video was part of the same channel I was watching previously called “twin flame guides” 😂 oups

[@LifeAfterUnion]

@@elliefrangoulis2228 hahaha I must look like the girl then!

[@hoosierhunny5001]

What is your horoscope sign Serena? I heard James say he was a Scorpio. My TF is a Scorpio also. I am cancer on the Leo cusp

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Haha very funny! My top 3 are: Leo sun (cusp virgo) Leo rising and cancer moon His are: scorpio sun Pisces rising and Leo moon

[@sequoiahyams9632]

Hiiieee! I found my twin flame he found me... He is a pain in my ass. I am a pain in his ass all the time... well most of the time lol okay alot of the time...The universe is forcing us to love each other and we do deeply. However our fighting is volatile so much so we might not have a choice but to separate for a long period of time. Neither one of us wants this. I am the runner we have been in a relationship for almost 5 years. Any advice to get past the back and forth chasing? We are both very wild by nature and one of us if not both of us may end up in jail. needing spiritual guidance thank ❤

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Hey! Thanks very much for the question. This sounds a lot to me like the power struggle phase. This is where when in a relationship together twins tend to try to exert their thoughts/opinions/actions over the other one and both end up wanting to rebel against the other. This happens a lot of times because neither twin is in their spiritual center. For example, when I am not in my spiritual center I will take criticism from my twin very personal and start feeling bad and not worthy and then I stop wanting to show up for myself. Literally just this morning my twin over stepped my boundaries by asking me repeatedly why I wouldn't do something and when I found my power I said "no because I do not have to explain myself to you" I wasn't forceful, I wasn't mean. It was just the honest truth. If you guys are having these struggles what I would deeply look at is your inner child and how you both related to your parents when you were younger. For example: did your parents take away your ability to make choices for yourself or did you have any narcissistic or abusive parents or authority figures in your life? I can definitely feel that you both are rebelling against each other because you both are trying to find your power without being co-dependent. I actually have a really great course for this which addresses the inner child and how to heal these things on a deep level. I will put the link below if you are interested in really working through things with your twin. This is a powerful course though and you both need to be committed to making changes. serena-s-site-6aaf.thinkific.com/courses/RelationshipRepair

[@chriswillis9775]

I would suggest looking up testimonies here on youtube of people that had been in a narcissistic abusive relationship thinking it was part of twin flame process. Search "twin flames deception" I am a former New Age occultist and can tell you alot of this is a false light demonic deception between two people that is actually emotional abuse and comes with no respected boundaries. You do not have to take my word for it but you will find tons of testimonies here on youtube about it. If you hear words "universe" or "source" that is actually what occultist worship...it is Lucifer the great deciever of dark and light. Uses the feelings of love and enlightenment to deceive people as well. The goal is to get to believe you are your own god or part of god. Get you to worship anything but the true creator. Not go to the true Jesus that died for everyones sins and rose the 3rd day. And yes my wife and myself were demonic oppressed because of New Age ideals and practices. Hosroscopes are a deception as well. We prayed to Jesus we were set free of the demonic activity and started to see how we were deceived. If your curious about that see "New Age to Jesus" testimonies on here as well. Tons of people had experiences just like me on here.

[@catrinab888]

I just sent him to VM forever. He came apologized for his behaviors over 2years n made a bunch of promises he didn't keep, then he just slowly over the course of a week disrespected me, apologized, assumed n accused, blew me off, and then today, I couldn't take any more fake sweet nonchalant talk in cycles. Byebye

[@alenabartoskova]

Ready? I Have never been readY😂😂😂😂😂

[@LifeAfterUnion]

Hehe he's a funny one!

[@yourtrustinme]

yea

[@madziadziakl]

Are the twin flames fisically atracted to each other?

[@LifeAfterUnion]

In my experience, yes. I do imagine there are asexual twins out there who might not describe their attraction towards each other as physical or sexual... but I've yet to meet someone like that!

[@dudahml]

​@@LifeAfterUnionI'm demisexual and I think I'm a twin... For me it's hard to feel attractive to... I remember feeling really attractive when I was in the night of the soul, but I don't usually do, for now for example I don't feel anything else...

[@CraftyTan]

You to look so alike and are you pleiadian?

[@LifeAfterUnion]

I'm actually not sure. My twin doesn't resonate as much with the starseed mission/background (although he always talks about how he's an alien 😂) and as for myself there has been periods where I have connected with energies of different beings including pleiadians.... so maybe!

[@CraftyTan]

@@LifeAfterUnion I defo read pleiadian from you :) and him cause I’m pleiadian :) my twin is also pleiadian but I’m going through twin flame pull right now and I don’t know what to do as I never seen him before only in dreams and I’m currently with a false

[@shinistrue]

18:07 🥹🥲