Real Love: Daughter's Wedding Party Drama | Religious vs. Flamboyant Moms

It was love at first sight and now, Lindsay and Victor are ready to tie the knot. Lindsay's mom, Cynthia, is reserved, religious and believes strongly in her convictions. Victor's mom, Gloria, is flamboyant, fun-loving, and loves to get wild. Styles collide as Cynthia fights for a non-alcoholic traditional African wedding, while Gloria pushes for a Caribbean boat party with dancing and rum punch.
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From: "In-Law Wedding Wars" S1 E9
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[@amalgamangel]

I am confused. She can't show her shoulders on her wedding day but she can have babies without being married ... for 10 years ? What am I missing ? 🤔

[@terrie-annhone582]

Don’t judge

[@moosehead1183]

@@terrie-annhone582 she's not judgeing, just pointing out the extreme Hippocracy of it..and she's right on!

[@egg3376]

@@moosehead1183 "Hippocracy"

[@LaurieAnnCurry]

I’m willing to wager Cynthia wasn’t happy with the decision her daughter made to shack up and have kids out of wedlock.

[@Onemorgantolove]

@@terrie-annhone582 worshipping the lord when her daughter have a child out of wedlock. The mother is a narcissist .

[@SKC193]

They’ve already already got 3 kids. I think the sanctity of the ceremony is past. Just have a party!

[@keatonscreations]

Oh please, they very well could have come to know God after they had kids. I did.

[@remiem-iw7uk]

I respect her wanting Godliness involved but she seemed like she is a bit too restricted. Even in the Bible there were wedding feasts and wine!

[@angeladoss8128]

Yes I don't get it

[@SKC193]

@@keatonscreations That doesn’t change the circumstances! She’s still had 3 kids out of wedlock!

[@keatonscreations]

@@SKC193 and? So what, having kids out of marriage means you can’t be made new by God? I dunno what religion you’re part of, but clearly you don’t follow Jesus.

[@moosehead1183]

The grooms mother is fantastic..so fun, and cheerful!

[@angelroberson5081]

She is not that fantastic if she can't work out a simple compromise. So, easy to add some elements of the sacred. Geesh

[@moosehead1183]

@@angelroberson5081 maybe she was just dishing back what she was getting..and good on her for doing so.

[@angelroberson5081]

@@moosehead1183 We will never know. They are just polar opposites. It's THEIR wedding at the end of the day and they looked happy.

[@moosehead1183]

@@angelroberson5081 true enough!!

[@angelacarlisle1708]

They couldnt compromise that was the whole point 🙄

[@tahirhunter]

He has 3 children out of wedlock Miss me with the I don't want liquor

[@moosehead1183]

It's cruel to pit mother's against each other..I'd rather pay for my own wedding than put my family through that.

[@LaurieAnnCurry]

This!

[@angeladoss8128]

And it is

[@enibeni2071]

They have some things is common. One is religious and likes organic food The other values family and food. They can find common ground in food and family.

[@mandamorris7934]

I say THIS very thing EVERY SINGLE EPISODE! EVEN if it were scripted... It just goes too far.

[@bancatorres2455]

Nope they choose to work with each other or against each other

[@jennie._______.ruby.____997]

Omg the "NOT THE SPIRIT IN YOUR GLASS " Got me like 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MissTXTee]

Wow! For someone who claims to love the Lord, I am disappointed by Cynthia. The anger and selfishness she displayed was sad to see...Remember God is EVERYWHERE, so whether or not they are in a church, the presence of the Lord CAN be felt.

[@cmont4064]

I could not agree with you more! 💯🎯

[@arielevenson3108]

And your not giving her the grace she needs she’s only human and it probably hurt her when her daughter rejected her vision even though i do agree the Lord can meet you anywhere when u need him he never leaves you

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Yes Cynthias attitude stank

[@queenawaitts7659]

​@@arielevenson3108omega

[@pattylolson8023]

Far as im concerned they are already married after 10 years

[@ruthquetant7375]

Can we all acknowledge how beautiful the Bride is 😍‼

[@godspromisesamuel5886]

Am I watching Nollywood drama here between the two Mother In-laws? Get Me out of here. 🤣🤣🤣 The dancing part of the Caribbean dancers as well hilarious.

[@sabeetasaroay8221]

The mother of the bride is religious I respect that . But being in a relationship for 10 years and having a child out of wedlock in religious termology living in sin so she gave her blessings for all that but wanted a church and no skin showing lol I'm sorry lady but I'm sure he has seen more than her naked shoulders 😅

[@arielevenson3108]

Its for other people not for the groom since he has seen her naked already its called Modesty same reason why she didn’t like the dancers being half naked shouldn’t talk about something you don’t really understand it

[@journeytothemosthigh5021]

How disappointing the behavior of the mother in law and mother! One of the fundamentals of marriage is compromise and they couldn’t set the example from the beginning!

[@moosehead1183]

Yes.. compromise..I guess that's why more weddings than not ,end in divorce.

[@heatherbaker8596]

The brides mother is hypocritical she is worried about the wedding being godly and legal and blessed but it hasn't bothered her that they have been living together un married and have children

[@pamelascott625]

Yikes!! she should have picked traditional Caribbean dancers in stead of Carnival dancers

[@mandamorris7934]

In WHAT culture is it more important to cause the bigger scene, than to concentrate on your children? THIS is too much... And of course she arrives acting like the long lost mother... Her behavior is sickening.

[@josiegibbs1176]

The wedding turned out fabulous, I wished the moms could have comprised and blended the best of what their children liked about each of their presentations. And for the son to speak against having alcohol, I noticed he didn't mind drinking it. I also wonder like some others in the comments why the bride's mother was acting like that when her daughter already had 3 children. Not throwing shade but if she was so religious how did she let that happen before marriage.

[@Lovebug-ut8mx]

I dont think her Mom,made her had 3 children she did that all on her own.

[@kemeyartusniki842]

The brides mother is not in Control God is

[@Onemorgantolove]

They're narcissist the son don't want alcohol but drinking. The mother talking about covering when her daughter have a child out of wedlock.

[@somsongjarman3094]

Love grooms mother. She is the best

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

😂 Univite the pastor comment is hilarious. Bet the pastor would secretly LOVE the dancer

[@annedalton289]

😂😂modest and the fact they already had kids doesn’t factor 😂😂😂😂😂

[@arielevenson3108]

Its for other people not so much for the groom since he’s already been with her same reason why she got mad at the dancers don’t talk about something you don’t fully understand you make yourself look like a fool

[@jackiemarshall3711]

Wow God is everywhere not just at the church. Jesus didn't have service in a church he was out among the people.

[@ninjakittycat6888]

Gloria is so fun. I understand that the couple wants it to be traditional and that's great, however, no fun on a wedding day is just plain boring. Cynthia is understandably upset but needs to understand that her daughter is about an adult. Ultimately the decision is up to the engaged couple.

[@pourlinekarlar]

Your wedding doesn’t need to be in a church for it to be blessed 🙄

[@aron1632]

Or legal🤣 that got me

[@cheekychery9965]

It is amazing how the mothers only worry about their day and yet it is the day if the bride!!! They do not even think about the kids, only themselves.

[@joellebrowne5714]

Her mothers ego is more important than her daughters.

[@Isabel13666]

I liked the bride's mother vision and I think they liked it the most too, but since there was no DJ or ANY fun at all, they went for the fun wedding.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Her vision was a bit well no a lot boring

[@MarlaJMatney]

The bride’s mom vision was horrible and glad her daughter did not agree to it

[@rubyjewel1904]

How boring not to have a party. Wat u gonna do for 6 hours after the ceremony. Sit n watch paint dry. A wedding is a celebration. Celebrating is dancing n having fun she didn't have to drink or dance but not no dry wedding.

[@patsygage1466]

Beautiful Wedding!!! Bride looked Beautiful! Blessings to the happy Couple. Glad the Moms got along on the end.

[@francesbacon7825]

3 children. Should have had a civil wedding or a small service in their church years ago.0

[@ravenbaa7989]

Exactly

[@jo-anncharles8528]

I like this couple. They will both get along with their mother-in-laws

[@eileenleech]

Cynthia, the brides mother is a nightmare. She's like a spoilt child

[@rocksiirose4536]

So this stranger woman walks up and start talking wedding plans to a couple. This couple does not ask who she is or how did she know that their life was busy. I know this is all staged. I love this series.

[@Salomeii]

Not sure why they thanked "both" mothers. The bride's Mother (Debbie Downer) was ridiculous. The groom's mother was so cheerful and charitable; no matter what was going on! She saved the day! Hmmm. Maybe it was a plan... the bride's mother did diddly and only she showed up to criticize in her african outfit. I wonder if she even understands that the ways you tie a head wrap mean different things... Doubt it. lol

[@jemjarvs]

The acting is just sooo bad. Every scene has been so rehearsed the monologue is flat.

[@gerdacoetzer3615]

I just love the grooms mother she is so fun. The brids mother is so old and narrow minded.

[@sweetgurl8028]

I'm African buh African Mum is borrring 😴 ..I will choose Caribbean Mum 🥰 💞 👌

[@debrak9644]

Just another example of how people use religion to bully others and be judgmental while being totally inconsistent.

[@ravenbaa7989]

Quiet

[@SuperDudley88]

This is exactly True.These people make every body else feel Guilty. They are sanctimonious hypocrites, at the end of the Day.

[@nickyshaw7677]

Lol I'm from Africa. Where does she come with with traditional Christian African wedding lol. Our country is not traditionally Christian 🤣🤣🤣

[@latiyfasimone5275]

I hate when they change the rule cuz one is a crybaby...

[@angelroberson5081]

Just as "WE" planned it. LOL Just as YOU planned it. I was HIS mom's vision. They should have mixed a little of both. Geesh

[@michellestelmaszek5728]

I wish the groom’s mom was my mom!

[@kiara198923]

God IS EVERYWHERE!!!

[@eileenmcchrystal7254]

To the religious mum with no alcohol. The Wedding Feast of Cana, even Jesus added to the party when the wine ran out 🤔😉

[@healthyliving4624]

The wine was Not fermented.

[@loumorrell61]

She looks beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

[@healthyliving4624]

It was very selfish to disappear and cause your daughter distress but I agree that the naked dancers is inappropriate for a wedding reception. I hope all you getting along better now. Africa and Caribbean together. Beautiful

[@angelacarlisle1708]

🤣🤣🤣 they were not naked

[@ravenbaa7989]

Shame they had kids not married

[@loriegonta3622]

Brides mom is a bit much...

[@kelligray1848]

Beautiful family

[@rebeccaleach2920]

God is where ever you are. When we pray it does not need to be in a church. And I think if the preacher does the service and drums the other mother should just except that god is everywhere

[@ravenbaa7989]

Brides that had kids out of wedlock shouldnt wear white

[@sandisteinberg731]

I'm pleasantly surprised that Mom is not raising a fuss over the bride wearing white. At least she hasn't opened her mouth about that.

[@virginiastevens3782]

The brides mother is so negative. Gods everywhere Cynthia . Go on Cynthia spoil the brides day. Cynthia is blaming the grooms mum. 🇬🇧

[@wandawolfe9463]

Funny how in very beginning when they're talking about what they want she agrees with his Mom wanting fun party and he agrees with her Mom about tradition and religion lol😂

[@parker6739]

Lol at there acting 😂

[@MarlaJMatney]

Oh my gosh the bride’s mother is a religious nut case!

[@octaviamcburrows5086]

Glad the mother's came together and was able too put there differences aside so that the wedding would be wonderful

[@tiyannacato5765]

They’ve attracted their parents in each other 😂😂😂

[@annh2316]

I wish they compromised some more. I think would have made the couple happy by that too!

[@yupitsme9713]

The wedding is a religious service. The reception is a celebration.

[@sassytbc7923]

This couple are beautiful together

[@amyblack9251]

I bet you are?! Legal? Lol. Mother-in-law, it's not you're wedding!

[@najwa777]

The mother of the bride should be ashamed of herself, its her daughter special day and she making her worry because of her ego…that is not Godly at all…smh

[@ladykippins1032]

I like both visions....but a wedding need fun moments....thats why they had to go with the mother in law vision. They choose right.

[@nanipanini]

21:11 she's actin like "i got impregnated by god the holy way"

[@lillybilly9954]

Honestly, Cynthia sounded so miserable describing the wedding she was planning, it really overshadowed the fact that she actually has good taste and the grooms mom did need to reel it in a bit.

[@virginiastevens3782]

Brides mother suddenly walks with a stick while visiting the boat.

[@diozza_tolteka2836]

Why marry after the children are born? This doesn't make sense. So many couples eat the cake before the vows. So wrong.

[@karolmiller6984]

Congratulations ❤️

[@ravenbaa7989]

I agree with him they went with wrong one

[@angelacarlisle1708]

The other one would be boring with a headaching banging of flippin drums and no party atmosphere

[@stefaniamirri1112]

Wrong: wedding is 1 for life, must be Sacred, you can have parties all the other years of your life

[@angelacarlisle1708]

🙄🙄 say your vows and mean them but then party...it doesnt need to be sacred sacred sacred thats just archaic

[@Malepical]

Cynthia saved the day?? She's the one who almost ruined it 🤦🏽‍♀️ had her daughter anxious before her own wedding

[@virginiastevens3782]

But the bride and groom have children out of wedlock. So Cynthia where does the church stand on that.🇬🇧

[@tiffanyross4266]

I want to go to one of Ms. Glorias parties.

[@beckyryan407]

Preacher mom, you are putting to much faith that is unwarranted in the church people. Not everyone is as hollyroller as you are. I have faith that the couple will enjoy their day.

[@faybeharry3330]

Lol that's such embrassment to Cynthia because of that carnival dancing. No need to have half naked dancing in front of Christian people. So I can't imagine how sad she's feeling.

[@faybeharry3330]

But loved the other mom's spirit. Have something festive and joyful. Dancing mingling and entertaining. So won fair. Glad Cynthia came and had a great time.

[@faybeharry3330]

I do agree with Cynthia. No need for nakedness. Dancing is fine but not to be skimpy and suductive with it. It can be used in a very tasteful way. So Cynthia had a lot of spiritual knowledge with the modesty of the entertainment.

[@michynature]

@@faybeharry3330 and the one mom was right, it was more appropriate for a bachelor party.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Oh for goodness sake half naked dancers 🤣 if you dont like dont look simple as

[@minime3922]

Considering they not actors they good lolol. Xx fake but fun.xx

[@faybeharry3330]

My favorite. Very fun to watch. Love the two contrast.

[@faybeharry3330]

"My eyeballs are frozen" loll lol so funny

[@angelroberson5081]

COMPROMISE is important. The woman is bullying. There is no compromise. It's easy to do. SMDH

[@angelacarlisle1708]

No.compromise allowed..its either one or the other thats the name of the game

[@rubeelondon9307]

I thought they were virgins acting crazy

[@shannons8724]

Omg I'm dying how she says it's got to be done this as affffterrrrnonnnnnn

[@LifeInPink999]

Even Mormons are more fun than the groom.

[@paulettehall4614]

Geez traditional wedding ceremony and party the reception

[@paulettehall4614]

This is such scripted bs

[@beckyryan407]

Remember mom that they already have kids

[@jaynechew166]

omg love the Caribbean theme that's what weddings should be not gagged up with religion

[@terrisilaphoenix3695]

Wow. Intense episode.

[@ravenbaa7989]

I like traditional

[@victoriamccormick825]

The groom's mom sounds like Julia Child I can't stand it🤣 but they both seem nice.

[@nopez1nu]

I would have choose the brides mom choice! That was beautiful

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Beautiful but boring

[@carolinevoncanon8442]

These in-law programs are so contrived....don't believe any of them - last one I will watch.

[@ktzep]

I tried to like this show but I can't get past how badly scripted it is and this was the last for me too

[@MariaOliveira-qq7qz]

I think it was more about the brides mom not having the power to control the wedding then about God. The boat Sean made it very clear

[@ravenbaa7989]

Not sexy on wedding day

[@ravenbaa7989]

Take away from good part

[@lisajenkins8744]

That’s right fun mom I love

[@teslarstewart4932]

Am sorry as a true Jamaican brides mom is too much!

[@cameeldavis487]

I'm tired of her i'm jamaica.

[@virginiastevens3782]

Cynthia is not being very God like on her child’s day. What a load of false faith. Cynthia.🇬🇧

[@virginiastevens3782]

Your daughter chose the other mum not you.🇬🇧

[@LaurieAnnCurry]

Gloria could have compromised and had the wedding ceremony which was important to Cynthia AND her son then had the reception she & her daughter in law wanted on the boat. To say Cynthia was completely out of line isn’t fair. The bride really pushed the groom into something he was uncomfortable with.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

It was all one or the other thats the name of the game neither side could compromise🙄🙄

[@ravenbaa7989]

Have religious part then fun

[@rda-gama2567]

The lady mom supposed to be a little bit more flexible!

[@alexiswilliams8475]

Your mother didn't do anything it was his mom did everything

[@angeladoss8128]

Them plants look like a funeral not a wedding