Rebecca Crews: Surviving Difficult Seasons of Marriage | Better Together TV

Rebecca Crews shares about the most difficult season in her marriage the she calls the "valley of the shadow of death" and how God led her through.
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[@DebLavern]

I’m in my valley right now in my marriage ....this gave me hope. PRAISE GOD AND THANK YOU JESUS!

[@fjohnson5933]

Deb C I am night owl as well and up early where need be up🙏🏽 . Very helpful

[@vanessaleriche]

Do you want to talk about it in private? Do you need help and support (advice)? If yes, here's my email address [e-mail]

[@mariamonshae2711]

ME TOO GIRL...BUT GOD CAN!

[@DebLavern]

Vanessa Leriche Thank you so much for that. I’m currently in Christian counseling for 2 months now and it is helping me tremendously. May the good Lord bless you for offering to be there for me. Thank you again. Blessings!😌

[@DebLavern]

Maria Hugger YES HE CAN!!!

[@womanofgod2948]

God bless this woman for keeping it real. She is helping a lot of people

[@MrEpz4321]

1 Timothy 2:12

[@jordankennedy8421]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@Taylorcmay_]

Something about her story and presence was very moving.

[@jyj2072]

About to get married in november so i'm currently just watching videos in preparation. What a soft spirit she has. Would love to sit and hang out with her just talking.

[@fredajohnson506]

Yes she has beautiful spirit

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.

[@prettyuniquell2011]

How come these videos not long enough? They are so good!

[@bulelwakowa3920]

I ask my self that question all the time

[@BellePoetesss]

I was just thinking the same thing.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

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[@LindyLanga]

@@BetterTogetherTV I’ve just signed up. Came back to say, “Thank you, Ma’am.” Please keep up the good work, and may God bless you. 😊

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen

[@desilife6435]

I love that she spoke her truth. It’s not easy to be so vulnerable.

[@amatwum9673]

One thing that I've learnt is to be able to hear God for ourselves each step of the way...cos He gave her instructions all through the journey on what to do...Lord help me hear U and hear U right Amen

[@tiffanyh9015]

Amen

[@rd4469]

AMEN

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes. It's VERY imperative to get to know His video, prompting, spirit, word, and will for your life for YOURSELF.

[@darlenemcgriff3085]

I just love Rebecca so much she is the sweetest woman. Just beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.💟✝️🙏🏼💗🤍💖🌸🌺💐🌷🌼🌻God Bless.

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

Me, too. I also love how real she is.

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen

[@catmo59]

What a story of strength and obedience

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen obedience bring very great blessings

[@bewiesinsalone1874]

I appreciate her testimony and her obedience to God and giving glory to God- some of you are talking about her pink hair, I don’t see the problem but you should know if is also symbolic of breast cancer awareness, not just for the look alone, please don’t be so quick to judge - I knew someone who would shave her hair every year, I judged, thought it looked too harsh, edgy, not professional, then I learned the story that she did it in honor of the friend who had lost her hair to cancer and eventually her life, it is not sin, we don’t know the motives to why someone dresses or chooses the appearance they do

[@prudentwife999]

Agree!!!!

[@misskat7437]

Yeah- its a lesson to not just accept every thought we have. It's easier to judge others so we don't look at ourselves, but once we learn to come to a place for the reason God wants to look within vs thinking we can fix what is outside, we'll never want to step out of that command again. Think of all the servants of the Lord that He will put into hiding? To truly discover God is to make space for Him.

[@shirleysmith3540]

I am out of a 43year marriage. Now a 3 year marriage. Someone who is a Christian and believes in God Almighty. We are currently waiting for him to come home to me from abroad. I trust Jesus to see us through. He prays for me when I am not well and the healing happens. He knows the word of God. Amazing preaching and teaching me more about Jesus. Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@rosleenp]

She is so special.

[@dr.sarahwilliams6766]

I have so much admiration for Rebecca Crews. Her faith and strength is a role model for how we are to be in difficult situations. Thank you for your transparency and dedication to God and those that need healing.

[@NamesRue]

She helped me so much and I’m so grateful for her wisdom she shared. She kept it alllll the way 100

[@ms.claudia4855]

Good! Obedience is Everything!!!

[@favor9163]

I felt that for some reason cried when she said God was giving her a new husband but the same Lord

[@twyla106]

I love Rebecca's spirit so much and in my head she's my best friend 💓 My story is very similar to hers my husband and I have been married 19 years and God gave me a new husband too, after I left him

[@Webbgurl2000]

Yes! Sometimes, it’s like 👍 that

[@fredajohnson506]

That's beautiful

[@ladennayoung2939]

This is what I say to married and single women alike. I tell them that there are times the spirit of the Lord will lead you to separate. So, He can work on you as individuals and heal and deliver. He's is the Potter, and we are the clay. Only He can mend a broken heart, transform, and make us new. It's an only GOD thing through and through. MANY blessings to you and yours in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. 🤍💛🩵💜

[@marinakeza5141]

We need the rest of that story!

[@LesleyTibihikira]

This was absolutely amazing. I love this channel! 🙌🏾

[@shawnaw9750]

God bless you and your family! The obedience to God even when you didn't want to be. Excellent!!

[@ladiesofiron]

Amen, The voice of GOD was flowing through you Lady Cruz! Thank you SO much for your true heart AND soul felt GOD Given transparency this Morning. I have 2 words...yes LORD.

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen

[@joyh2224]

Rebecca is so Beautiful, Thanks for Sharing how you made it through a difficult patch in her Marriage.

[@lovetiffanyrene8148]

Wow. Respect ✊ and so appreciative of her testimony!

[@christiewright6696]

Wow I love this. So heart felt.

[@jasmineadjei2552]

This was amazing!🙏🏾

[@candiceadriaanse9147]

Such a strong beautiful woman God bless her

[@joyinthisroom1145]

Thank you thank you thank you . I praise God for your testimony which has helped me .

[@piweyanga3488]

I just love these women and glad I found this channel🙏❤.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We praise the Lord for leading you to our community! Thank you for joining us. We are so happy to have you here! 💜

[@shalomchild7414]

Lovely to hear and it encourages me as I try to obey God in difficulties 🙏💖

[@colew680]

Powerful testimony

[@am2212]

The pink hair is fire 🔥

[@bethany3371]

I love the pink hair too 💕

[@fredajohnson506]

She beautiful woman so she wear any color on God not looking on outside he looking at her heart she has beautiful spirit

[@daughterofzion8305]

Powerful ,give God praise amen

[@zelzmwale2576]

Woow Rebecca I wish I met u earlier than this .. I love your calmness when u are talking .. God bless you

[@fredajohnson506]

Wow that's amazing testimony that's deep but God works in mysterious ways and sometimes it's might not make sense but when obey it's always a blessing behind it because he is Alpha and Omega he knows exactly what best for you. Thanks for this encouraging message

[@sandramartinez8105]

Powerful message!! I love how God speaks to us and guide us. 💕🙏🙏

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen we must obey God voice if don't it's consequences for it

[@fredajohnson506]

Every time I hear her testimony it's so amazing how God gave her a the same man physical but new man with God spirit. With God all things are possible. God bless you Rebecca Crew's and your marriage

[@ladennayoung2939]

Jesus this is a blessed word from God. Hallelujah Jesus!

[@itsYourChance]

Love this ty

[@doubblleeggeeprincess3790]

God bless you dearie. Seems like its the,same reality for many women.

[@Lilyeh-CB]

The words you said the Lord spoke to you concerning what to do in your marriage, had the presence of the Spirit of God on every word. And that's how Christians are to function in marriage: through communication with the Lord Jesus Christ; Him commanding you what to do, when & how in marriage & other areas of our lives. Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

[@gerrimiller3491]

I pray when God blesses me with marriage, i pray that my husband & i will feel deeply comfortable being vulnerable and comfort one another in our wounded hearts

[@fredajohnson506]

Am God bless you

[@patriciajohnson6928]

Awesome that she’s sharing her story there no perfect marriage got work threw all the storms.

[@fredajohnson506]

No it's not f tell stay in something might

[@jemmy924]

Wow! I was intrigued by the name of the person and her beauty.Wonderful testimony :D

[@marymalloy2848]

I love her Spirit, she is So real and loving.

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen she beautiful woman inside and out

[@Iamkgems]

God is so good! ❤️

[@Summer09824]

Everyone loves to think that marriage is black and white but life is just not like that. People are flawed. Society likes to condemn people staying in marriages that have not been perfect. “Just leave, save your self respect. They’ll do it again” but it’s so much more complicated than that.

[@TheArtistStichiz]

This is an awesome show

[@simoiyahector-morales3781]

I am in the valley on and off for years in marriage. This gives me hope that God is up to something.

[@fredajohnson506]

God bless you

[@althealemme2218]

This is so good!!! God told me many years to start a ministry just like this where women come together and talk/ share without judgement or condemnation. He gave me the name of it too. I started the Bible study aspect to f it which really was to be the This here . But as I watched this as Mrs creed spoke I was sitting in my dining room looking across into my living room that’s when I heard the Lord said start it now. Wow!! I said ok Lord but I don’t know who is going to come. But that’s Gods problem, I’m gonna be obedient.

[@jamesspencer1997]

White Christian male...I struggle with porn. I also raised my younger sisters son and daughter.its along story but I love God as well.i felt a very powerful testimony from GOD thru her that makes me believe that love is still real..

[@ladennayoung2939]

Amen! God bless you. God will see you through in due time in Jesus name. Amen. Just take one moment at a time. God have no respect of person. What He do for one. He will do for another in Jesus name. Receive it in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen. God loves you brother in Christ, and so do I. 😘😘😘😘

[@rd4469]

@James Spencer...We all have struggles in different areas. God will see us through and bring us to the other side. I believe it. You can recover from your struggles just as I believe I will recover from the area I struggle.

[@RI.........]

Love is still real.

[@rtendotapiwa306]

James, your testimony is coming! Hold on to Jesus

[@gloriamccoygl]

Try counseling

[@bcdmovement6856]

This so good

[@ambermccutchen8451]

Sister crews growing up in my life my father expose to pornography during my teenage and young adult ages. But I thank God he is a deliverer and healer he deliver me from that life sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen

[@ladennayoung2939]

The Lord keep allowing me to hear her testimony. God bless her in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@kingdomaffairs2373]

Old one reborn my my that’s good

[@jessicaterry2594]

THAT PART TOOK ME OUT!!

[@faithgirton9388]

I put up 34 years, my husband was a minister and he did everything from prostitutes to women and different churches and it was bad and he wouldn’t let go you wouldn’t try to change! My heart was ripped out of me and we have now been divorced 10 years, unfortunately he was a narcissist and controlled everything that I did and wanted to blame me for his problems but that wasn’t true but that’s house and goes we don’t want to face our own problems we want to blame everyone else

[@Webbgurl2000]

Sounds like sexual addiction. It’s rampant in the Body of Christ.

[@achatwithgoitse]

@@Webbgurl2000 Whoa! Never even thought of that. So sad.

[@achatwithgoitse]

😫 is it even possible to win with a narcissist....God is still with you and will restore. 🙏🏽

[@lzunaby]

There’s such a Godly Strength in Rebecca. It’s easier to walk away with offense than to reconcile by faith

[@seprinarayburn9845]

Powerful

[@thandoq]

My heart is so broken for her. I don’t know if I’d be able to deal with what she has dealt with. 💔🤦🏽‍♀️

[@mariakoroma1956]

With God it is possible to go through the valley. He promised us when we go through the waters, the fire, he will be with he never leave or forsake us. God always shows up when we are almost drowning to death in the storms of this life. He shows up and show off.

[@ladennayoung2939]

God will not put more on us then we can bare.

[@achatwithgoitse]

Really... but if God said he's new, he's new. And He preserved their marriage all this time, she didn't know he was cheating had it not been for God showing her. He only showed her so he would repent. He needed tough love. An addiction is not just a choice darling...

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

Why does society feel women always have to forgive men, but they'll never forgive if asked ? Such a beautiful woman inside and out.

[@solowalkervidchives5471]

It's not society she was listening to, it was the Holy spirit.

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

@@solowalkervidchives5471 Yes, I didn't imply that she was but in most cases the man is forgiven and the woman isn't . It's a societal thing also. That is what I was referring to.

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

@@joyc9323 I'm married, not concerned.

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

@Bari Vule Forgiveness is freedom. I didn't mean literally that you shouldn't forgive. It seems as if the responsibility to be perfect, and endure all. Is what society SEEMS to expect from women.

[@a.w.3689]

This has blessed me because I'm going through this hard! A hard time with my husband... I'm ready to leave him, I'm hurt...

[@BetterTogetherTV]

Angela, We are so sorry to hear all that you are going through. We are standing with you in prayer. 💜

[@a.w.3689]

Thank you, We do need your prayers. Angela & Ricky Williams It says this was posted 6 months ago; however the power of the testimony is long lasting. We have been married 7 years. I didn't expect a response, thank you so kindly... I'm in tears....

[@a.w.3689]

@Bari Vule thank you for your comment, but I never said, my husband cheated. What I did say, I'm going through a rough time in our marriage. Its not always someone cheating, its a lack of communication, misunderstanding, etc. And actually it's getting better now with God being involved in our relationship. Thanks for the advice we're keeping God in this!

[@a.w.3689]

@Bari Vule thank you, me too! Marriage is hard, you have your peaks and your valley's, its been hard work for the both of us! And we listened to people who has been married for years and all their hard times; to make it through it was never easy for them as well! God bless you and again thank 🙏 you so much😉🙂! I appreciate you....

[@kc3304]

Inspiring. God is restoring my marriage. We are separated living in same house. Praying so much for the others to be saved. Married to atheist. Lord save him!

[@fredajohnson506]

Wow I pray he is delivered

[@swatinupur8090]

Oh...wow....😢😭...I would like to listen to it....and try to really believe it...!! Oh Lord help...!!

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are standing with you in prayer. If you would like, you can watch this full conversation here: watch.tbn.org/better-together/season:1/videos/better-together-84 God bless you 💜

[@swatinupur8090]

@@BetterTogetherTV thank you...I was looking for it...🤗

[@joshuagoshton2513]

Jesus is a healer and his name is above every name it’s good to know god cares for us all he’s sent his only son to die for all of us every thing to god in prayer

[@letstalkbiblewithshun.s]

Why didn't it show the most important part, how God restored the marriage and what Terry said whe she said "God told me to call you."

[@merraygebhard6159]

Currently going through something similar. Please help me pray for my husband. He is just blinded by guilt and shameand I forgave him. 😭 I don't know how much longer I can live without him.

[@lionap9163]

I love it

[@NiaMSnow]

So deep

[@ladennayoung2939]

God bless them. I didn't know they was sexually abused at a young age.

[@tilisakay]

Love her☝🏽☝🏽🙌🏽💕💕🙋🏽‍♀️ #Forgiveness

[@EvangelistRBColbert]

I bet Terry knows now he has a good woman!!! 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I know I do! My marriage isn't perfect, but I know God has me with the right woman.

[@Jojo111]

I love 💗 all of you omg 😱 see how beautiful you all are... how can I watch the full stories God bless you hmm 🧐 your pink hair is adorable 😍 beautiful

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so happy to hear that you enjoyed this clip! You can watch full episodes of Better Together anytime here: bit.ly/2UeaeQT 💜

[@MrJRM90]

Thank you Jesus

[@min.eunicesackey]

Am loving you all women of God!!

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We love you! God bless you 💜

[@nachononna8750]

😭 my father left porn on the coffee table with 2 daughters and my mother let him I never realized that ..Terry is me God thank you for this revelation

[@leahingraham5509]

Wow that's very sad and disturbing.

[@danymuembo5507]

WHY DID YOU STOP IT??? I WANTED IT TO CONTINUEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@LindyLanga]

My tea went cold. Thank you for this gift. 🎀 Watch full episode watch.tbn.org/better-together/season:1/videos/better-together-84 I’ve also downloaded the app

[@BellePoetesss]

Thank you so much. I was looking for a direct link to the episode so I knew what season this was from.

[@min.eunicesackey]

God is real!!!!!!

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

How do you know when God is speaking ? Is it what we want to hear? I seriously wish I knew how do you know.

[@BlackPanther-lt7wr]

In your inner spirit,, you cant really explain it, but it's like someone asking u these questions that seem so 'tough' that you could have not come up with yourself in the situation you're experiencing at that moment. He also does it in a divine way that wen that conversation is over, you know for sure that you were not alone making those decisions

[@lisascott3634]

The still small voice lines up with the pure word of God. It is subtle, un assuming, and it is sometimes so quick you can't hear if you are distracted by what is going on around. Seek God with your whole heart and he will answer you!!! Ask for anything according to His will. You can ask for wisdom and discernment and it shall be given! It is so precious and amazing!!!!!

[@ItsMyLifeDaralynn]

@@BlackPanther-lt7wr I see what you're saying but I wonder because I'm not hasty with decisions but sometimes waiting on that inner voice can be misconstrued into hearing what we want to hear.

[@Isaiah--vj2xu]

Please don't be pressured by such testimonies where people seem to have like such a friend basis kinda conversations with God.. "kick him out" "but God you said" it's not real.

[@lthompson601]

@@ItsMyLifeDaralynn Just start talking to him and don't "wait" for him to respond. God prefers a relationship not just an organized way of communicating with him. As you talk to yourself, make that time to talk to him. I've been saved 21 years and never heard holy spirit inside of me until year 17 but God had always been my guide. When you do finally hear him speak you'll know.❣

[@Lola-anointed]

I don't want to lose my career in marriage.

[@mammaof3angels685]

Wow I was just trying to find the right words to tell my future husband about how porn has a way to lead u down a bad road and the violent stuff and how it really can suck u in and do not good things to your soul, but people really don’t even realize how unhealthy it is and what it really dose to people inside and how to explain that to them is not easy. When you don’t have a relationship with Jesus they have no idea but helping them find their way to him and using the right words sometimes is hard but this topic has been heavy on my heart u til I can find the right way to express my views I can’t then I come across this video!! Lol awesome!!

[@fredaduahkonadu5051]

Wow

[@lisascott3634]

Think process. The end of a thing is better than the beginning.Even when you receive an answer keep praying and listening.He will order your steps through the process. Proverbs 19:21 Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails. Everybody's process is different, but the Lord's purpose prevails!!!!!

[@BGladnessLekgoa]

Can anyone explain why these videos are not long?

[@dianasaintfleur6602]

Terry crews has a wonderful life

[@achatwithgoitse]

This is everything for me coz that's how God talks to me. Although I'm not into when He says, do this and then next don't do it lol.(Kick him out, bring him in) 😫, which is which

[@jayrome42]

You guys did a phenomenal job dealing with that foolery coming from Shaka! May God continue to richly blessed you both! Kudos brothers 👏 🙌 👍 Shaka don't want none!😏

[@shaamya]

WAIT!!! THATS IT??!! WHERES THE REST OF THE STORY!!??

[@nachononna8750]

I have to call my husband 😭😭😭

[@Ibochic1]

Lord give me a gentle Spirit! In Jesus name, amen.

[@nxtchpforme9154]

Natalie cole song.... funny how she hears from God. Wait..she didn't finish.

[@melissarodriguez6737]

😳😳😳

[@estherpeggy2160]

Her name is Peggy ? Her husband calls her Peggy on the phone ? Very beautifull testemony !

[@murungiatusasiire9904]

I have a question about this the Bible says He is God who never changes His mind, so how is it possible that God asked her to kick her husband n then later have him back I'd want to understand someone help

[@swatinupur8090]

After when GOD asked Rebecca to take her husband back....at that time GOD gave Rebecca a brand new husband....he was the same man outside but GOD changed him from inside...her husband was a new man....and that's how GOD didn't go back on HIS Word....🤗🤗

[@DellTewahdo]

I think Her husband needed time to go by himself and spend time with God. He needed to be kicked out to learn his lesson for a time and then it was time to return.

[@paulinedhliwayo8316]

Murungi Atusasiire i will try to answer you God speaks with us in different ways.

[@murungiatusasiire9904]

@@SMV20500 thanks for your response can God tell someone to divorce more assistance

[@swatinupur8090]

@@murungiatusasiire9904 yes... He can...Michael Crisswell...you can watch his videos...

[@wisandjesus]

Well test the spirit dont believe every spirit

[@Isaiah--vj2xu]

I wish you would explain more..

[@wisandjesus]

It is in the word of God. Plain, clear, and simple. She is talking to a spirit. God's word says test the spirit. Whether you accept or reject it is up to you. God bless you, with much love and righteousness. 1 John 4:1 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. 1 Thessalonians 5:21 But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; 2 Timothy 3:15-17 and that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

[@Isaiah--vj2xu]

Was just wondering what it means in this context..

[@bcdmovement6856]

Old man reborn

[@Isaiah--vj2xu]

God asks you to meet him at 5am and you say 'whatever'.. People think God is just another dude.. If the God of all creation set an appointment with you, you would not respond by saying whatever. So much in this story and these direct conversations with the God of the universe sound offish and new age. Ladies becareful what you listen to.

[@RamonaQ]

2 Timothy 3:6

[@nightline.i.7598]

As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: Except Jesus Christ and there is only one good and it is God and there is only one pure and it is the Holy Spirit. "For God hath made Jesus to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him."4 God forbid: yea, let God be true, but every man a liar; as it is written, That thou might be justified in thy sayings, and might overcome when we are judged.

Titus 1:14 “Not giving heed to Jewish fables, and commandments of men, that turn from the truth.” King James Version (KJV) The WHITE man's Jesus (Jewish fable). It's a 400 years LIE to promote BONDAGE of PEOPLE OF Color.. THE OLD TESTAMENT identified the MODERN day Jews (Ashkenazi) as Gentiles. Japheth is the father of (Gentiles) the Europeans. The link between Japheth and the Europeans stems from Genesis 10:5, 5. The sons of Japheth; Gomer, and Magog, and Madai, and Javan, and Tubal, and Meshech, and Tiras. 3 And the sons of Gomer; *Ashkenaz*, and Riphath, and Togarmah. 4 And the sons of Javan; Elishah, and Tarshish, Kittim, and Dodanim. 5 By these were the isles of the Gentiles divided in their lands; every one after his tongue, after their families, in their nations THE Ashkenazi are included in the list as being Gentiles. THEY are the grandchildren of Japheth through Gomer,. Ashkenazi in Hebrew means German.

[@godschild2432]

Everybody know about God but not Jesus...these people are not born again.

[@jesusislord3668]

Well, ir right! No one can get to God unless they go through Jesus🤔🤔🤔😏😏

[@ladyj5682]

Huh? Interesting God speaking so much