Your suffering becomes apparent as a result of the gaslighting and future-faking agenda. You'll realise you've fallen too deep down the rabbit hole once you've finished the charades. I was able to see clearly through the fog and run for my safety thanks to these lectures ❤
@jolie1327Күн бұрын
I have been away from the narcissist for some years now and I find that now I can pick out the narcissist and their victims easily and there are so MANY narcissists in America.!
@jewely9757Күн бұрын
They are deeply malicious. It’s so subtle, you can feel it but you can’t prove it. That’s the scary part.
@Pixi26Dust2 күн бұрын
I deserve better. I’m open to giving and receiving healthy love xxx
@MacTwain2 күн бұрын
Rebecca, you are spot on, absolutely correct. I'm so outraged. My father was a narcissist. The withholding any help for me. Sickening he was a cop. A liar. A cheat, adulterer. Mom suffered the worst. She died at just 65 years of age. She's a Saint. Not recognized by the Catholic church. I and of course my brothers miss her. As a final fucking dad never made a last will and testament. Four years to settle his estate!
@jolie13272 күн бұрын
This is so true narcissist do not want to change as they have so much fear. My ex husband was such a monster and everyone else is less in his own mind.
@liseduedue2715Күн бұрын
Thanks again…. But the worst part is this “ user” issue! That they actually make plans on how to use you! It’s not normal to think like that!!! Most people thinks about “ how can we share 50-50 TOGETHER to make the life work and protect each other and our family! They can also actually say it straight out” oh, but I cannot USE you, or you’re of no USE for me! And “ I can’t control you!” Hello??? Is that something that happens when they’ve met resistance from you, and limits and heard you say no, back off! Then their mask falls off, right? And they forget to lie for a minute?? It’s pretty scary
@debbievoss3496Күн бұрын
Yes, it is, but I've been studying up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder with all these youTube videos about NPD. I was really quite thrilled when circumstances set us up for his mask to slip & He Could Not cover up the hateful vengeance glaring out of his eyes.😂
@notaclue822Күн бұрын
You're either good or bad...malleable or not malleable. They don't know what to do with you when they can't manipulate you. Supply equals not seeing through them. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
@elisalederer5507Күн бұрын
There’s new evidence that there is no evidence that trauma causes narcissism.
@vikkiweigel2504Күн бұрын
Exactly, and new evidence of it being genetic
@phoenixrisin226945 минут бұрын
Narcissism is not NPD.
@huggydad22 сағат бұрын
This is the most comprehensive analysis of the narcissist I have seen. . excellent video!. I have experienced most of these behaviours.
@graceevertt23172 сағат бұрын
Was with a covert narcissist for 48 years, married 44. What a nightmare but I’m out!!
@gcassidy10002 күн бұрын
Never in my life did I think I would meet a narcissist at my age. I've always prided myself in having good instinct and gut feeling about people. Until I met a narcissist who I thought was a friend. When I finally realized something was wrong I did a lot of research on narcissistic people and bang there she was standing right in front of me. I couldn't believe I had been fooled for that long. To be honest it hurt my heart because I did think of her and love her as a friend.. our lives are far too short to deal with people like this. You must walk away from them but before you do please let them know you know. ❤
@notaclue822Күн бұрын
I had the same experience but I'm not sure letting them know you know is always the best plan. Mine became extremely aggressive in a covert manner and smeared me. It was a mistake. She's very practised at manipulation.
@gcassidy1000Күн бұрын
@notaclue822 there's nothing she can do to hurt me she has nothing to hold over my head I'm a good person I have a lot of other friends so I'm not afraid of her anymore, I'm done 😎
@peterknight79872 күн бұрын
Your videos have really helped me understand because I never experienced this before not on this level
@lindacoleman-orso285249 минут бұрын
Fakers! You are one of my favorites! This is right on.
@whitneysawyer4837 сағат бұрын
"Fakers" Been dealing with one for years.
@monicacollier9858Күн бұрын
NOT OK VS ITS OK TO BE NOT OK …
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj2 күн бұрын
I feel like l have a fasle self and a true self
@Seanus32Күн бұрын
A VG assessment. Avoid them like the plague as they will leave you scarred to varying extents. No thanks :)
@DawsonDave-YZF-R62 күн бұрын
For sure !
@darenunlimited2 күн бұрын
My wife of 8 years. 3 small children together. Pray for me.
@trinab77622 күн бұрын
I pray for your children
@TheTruth-x4t2 күн бұрын
❤️
@crs7937Күн бұрын
I have a narc that is my direct report. She is a wreck. So nice to anyone new and tells them she knows show much. The new ones realize a fraud and tell me that they hate that liar! The narc then turns on them!
@whitneysawyer4838 сағат бұрын
Thanks
@deb2319Күн бұрын
For Sure.
@EarlDavis-r9h10 сағат бұрын
I have walked through that
@benverasso48362 күн бұрын
"Faker!!"...
@elainakourepenos2943Күн бұрын
Fakers!!!!!Yup. Major projection and deflecting. I know how stupid it is to cry around them b:c they get off on it but the abuse has been top shelf and it’s so damaging. What do I hear? “oh don’t play the victim” didn’t even say one word as know they’ll never take responsibility. I could’ve blurted out a dozen egregious actions that if they saw a show with a character like that they would say what a BLEEP BLEEP! But absolutely no self reflection.
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj2 күн бұрын
I got this 2 selves going on
@monicacollier9858Күн бұрын
Lawyers for the Arts 🎭?😂
@ReginaldRuff2 күн бұрын
I deserve better!!!!!!!!!
@spence50682 күн бұрын
For sure
@joanhastingsКүн бұрын
4 sure
@Joe1789717 сағат бұрын
Rebecca . Why Do I think I'm the Narcissist ? I Been Trying to Heal for Years . I've Made Mistakes . I won't Disclose my Mistakes cause it Will not Serve Me with my Wife . I'm Open .Yet I Shut Down to her . Cause I'm always at Fault . So Change for me is So Hard ...
@benverasso48362 күн бұрын
"For sure"///
@barbarakrall11842 күн бұрын
For sure.
@monicacollier9858Күн бұрын
Superwoman of municipality reality shows and Netflix exploration ❤🎉😂😮
18 сағат бұрын
2 younger bros, just broke away. Older brother cries to mom and dad, who are enablers. They wont watch any videos and just want peace and want us to put up with the asshole like they have. Tried compromising with them. Do we cut them off too? Is there any hope if this jerk goes to a psychiatrist?
@preetsomal94832 сағат бұрын
Fakers and big frauds
@Truthteller1s2 күн бұрын
Fakers!
@jerryleecobb67912 күн бұрын
I really need help with one we have twins and I'm scared for them being with her what to do she's aways trying to call on me
@NereidaVasquez-dn2vs2 күн бұрын
Good
@MohammedKhan-lu3meКүн бұрын
So sad
@SamuelIda-n4gКүн бұрын
Thanks for the analysis! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?
@huggydad22 сағат бұрын
I deserve better
@denisemciver49472 күн бұрын
Fakers! My cover narc is a Pastor of a church, and I’m stuck because I stayed home to raise our kids ! Help me Jesus
@elainakourepenos2943Күн бұрын
🙏🏼💗
@PatriciaAlexander-x3t2 күн бұрын
Fakers
@lindacoleman-orso285226 минут бұрын
So sad. This feedback encourages you, too.
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj2 күн бұрын
This prented self wish l were
@ReginaldRuff2 күн бұрын
Fakers !!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!
@monicacollier9858Күн бұрын
I deserve better and tell that to UCLA OBGYN and the entire infrastructure of UCLA Health ❤😅