My Fiancé's Mom WANTS To Wear WHITE On MY WEDDING! | r/AITA

[@cynthiaguzman7130]

Sean saying, "Ah, to be a man" LMAO!!!!!

[@elaexplorer]

Next week there's going to be a button that says "unless…"

[@brooklyn3147]

Bloodthirsty Sean is my favourite version. Alternating between that and him listening while holding his mug like an engaged grandpa is SENDING me 😂

[@zbrewed]

I will never understand when someone says they’ve invested so many years in a relationship to just end it. Honey, you have one life. Let there be happy times. 3 months, 5years, 20 years, it doesn’t matter. When the relationship isn’t right you don’t want to invest anymore time in it then you already have. Use your remaining time to be happier else where.

[@elaexplorer]

It's literally the sunk cost fallacy.

[@83gemm]

What you have to do is say, “Ok, I’ve lived X years of my life like this. Nothing can be done. Do I want to live X MORE years like this?” That’s the only way to put it in perspective.

[@beepboop8374]

Am I the only one feeling an intense sense of doom every time someone says “happy 2025”?

[@C-B-E]

I feel it too. 😢

[@nickmonr7603]

Unfortunately I feel the same.

[@beepboop8374]

@@nickmonr7603 New Year’s Eve felt more like a vigil

[@alyzu4755]

I feel exactly the same way. 😢

[@i.shuuya3231]

I feel ancient fr

[@capriciouszephyr]

I'd send a venmo, but I couldn't figure that out, and this is right here. Discovered you boys a few months back, been listening all the back episodes and am mostly caught up. This is the first episode I watched as a KZbin video, everything else was Spotify, so I got to see y'all for the first time. You bring a light (even if it's a crazy horrible situation) to my day, always happy to listen to three mostly well adjusted friends and the delightful banter. A number of episodes ago, I remember someone saying their therapist recommended your podcast for baby drives, and it works. I don't have a baby, but sometimes I'll put on an episode and your voices are soothing and help me sleep when I can't otherwise. Love the pod. Who is this Scheiawunn guy though? That might not work, but had to try. Kind of reminds me of the Schwann food delivery service we had when I was a kid. Yellow fridge truck, if you know, you know. Shout out to Gynnne and Jawshe as well. Stay good boys!

[@alyzu4755]

Story 1: Yes, he embarrassed himself and yes this happens. A LOT. I'm a 55 year-old woman, I've personally experienced this too many times to count. As have all of my female friends. Story 2: I, thankfully, birthed both of my kids in the early 2000's before influencers were a thing. Childbirth is not a spectator sport. And the person who has the last word on who's allowed in the room is the one pushing a human out of their body. Story 3: OP needs to run. Fast and far away. And maybe change her identity. (Also, I'm old enough to remember when TLC was an ACTUAL learning channel and was, y'know, educational. Update: OK, if John can hold strong, that's good.

[@shaecallahan9128]

The way Sean popped off the hearing "Milf Manor" has me cackling about as much as him

[@brooklyn3147]

The way he briefly disappeared because he was laughing so hard

[@AvoryFaucette]

Once every two weeks as "low contact" is WILD. 😂I have a good relationship with mine and I talk to my dad once every week or two on the phone, but my mom it's normal to go months between texts. Even now, when she's facing a possibly terminal illness, we text a few times a week and talk on the phone about once a month. Everyone's different, but this definitely made me laugh a lot. I need a couple of weeks just to have anything new to say!

[@tariennewilliams-rosa542]

The wedding one 😂😂😂I would just tell everyone else the dress code is white ! And where a differnt color wedding dress just to be pretty but then I still wouldnt actually sign the marriage certificate 😂

[@kreuger2062]

Happy birthday to whoever's birthday is today. Oh yeah and happy new years i guess.

[@SeidlerDenmark]

Happy new year 🥳

[@kiashanai]

i’ve been binge watching you guys videos all day everyday since finding your channel like two weeks ago. love you guys energy and vibe

[@SheSheBoom21]

19:42 I just imagine she’s laying on the table and the baby is crowning and then a camera crew running in like cheaters and they have microphones and the one guy is just coming up asking her how she’s feeling and how everything’s going😂😂😂😂

[@EmilyPersephone]

2025 John is pure chaos and I'm living for it 😂

[@kendallchappell1676]

omg so ive been obsessed with this podcast for the past few months at least and, along with everything else i love about it (the frequency and how many past episodes there are, completely non-toxically masculine guys (who ALSO arent try-hards about it--no "yah bro im SUCH a feminist, im so for females" (cough justin baldoni cough)), the adhd representation, diversity, etc) im also obsessed with how willing you are to resort to death

[@UTWdojo]

I do in fact want a 90 Day Fiancé recap from John. Please and thank you.

[@nisaba5752]

Hey fellas! I LOVE the long posts, especially posts with updates. More,please!

[@elaexplorer]

I'm thinking the step mother hasn't had any kids of her own to call giving birth a beautiful memory for the parents. The actually living child may be beautiful but the process to get them there is anything but beautiful. It's messy, painful, uncomfortable for everyone and people may even say very hurtful things during the process. Like get this kid out of me, or I'm not doing this any more, or yelling at the partner for existing.

[@michellebrickner9307]

The only beautiful part of my delivery was when I was pushing and I thought my husband was leaving the room, but instead he was placing his body behind mine to physically support me. Like, he laid himself on my bed and turned himself into a backboard so I didn't have to spend so much energy supporting myself by grabbing the handles on the bed. Other than that, it sucked. 0/10. Would not recommend.

[@EvilSinx]

About the last story : Who cares when/where they got engaged? As long as it didn't happen at the wedding/reception I wouldn't care even if it was the same day. Let's be realistic. Noone except the couple will really care about the date of the wedding from now on. Noone's gonna care about the exact date of the engagement, except for the engaged couple and after their wedding, the date of the wedding will be the most important date to them. Noone else on this planet is gonna give a f**k about those dates.

[@psideborac]

I'm a Debbie (though I hate when people call me that), I have a son and a daughter-in-law that I love! I cannot grasp the concept of feeling 'betrayed' or that you're 'losing' your son, because the woman he loves is 'stealing' him from you. My father used to fight with everyone who hinted at him he should be jealous of me or my sisters, and he taught me that parents who love their children will want to see them happy. Pros meus conterrâneos brasileiros: meu pai chama esse conceito de 'corno de filha' hahahahahaah

[@JordanA71009]

Now I'm embarrassed I know what comes after "it's been a while"🙃

[@emsmith.]

Since i could hold my head up high

[@tiryaclearsong421]

And it's been while since I first saw you.

[@kloe.404]

i feel like a renewal of vows or other 'wedding redo events' are underutilized. Like for the MIL wanting to wear white to her sons wedding? why not just hold another ceremony with your husband now that you have the means?

[@nikiahota]

What Manor??? OMG I'm dead. 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jasmingovers4403]

Whoa that was quite a story with the mother😮

[@Holographlick]

In regards to the last story: the only reason I can think of for OPs brother/SIL being upset would be that emotions are still high from their wedding. By no means do I think OP is in the wrong, though I do wonder if they’re on their honeymoon currently, and/or if the high from starting the new chapter in their relationship could be clouding their judgement of the situation. With the limited context OP gave about their relationship with the brother/SIL, I’d think revisiting it in a week or so would help them come to a proper understanding of what happened in the minds of the newlyweds. TL;DR - NTA, I simply love to play devil’s advocate and wish I knew what made them tick

[@CerealSalad]

18:49 😂 thanks for subtle edit!

[@RicoCorreia]

52:22 some people dont want get married, some people Just want be a Bride(usually a Bride could be a groom) the point here is the in law is Sad thats already there another Bride and its not her anymore.

[@akire3.14]

What a great episode- 2025, let’s gooooo!

[@the_catsmeow]

Yes! Another 90 Day fan! But sorry guys, The Reality Gays already have the best 90 Day podcast 😂

[@kuro_neko_26]

What a way to start the year 🎉 amazing video. Hope you all had a wonderful new year celebration

[@trucywright8625]

you guys uploaded a day before my birthday lol

[@kakendrick62]

OP could have told them the doctors will not allow the videographer in the delivery. Most do not as it’s a liability

[@Gingersnaps1978]

Story 4: it’s only your special day. You don’t get a whole damn week

[@beachwitch89]

The eye contact from Josh is new and idk about it lol

[@strangers-online]

Very excited today 🎉

[@mahnazakhtar-junjua8819]

Mother walking down the aisle in a white wedding dress looking like a bride to b married to her son & DIL looking like a chaperone, & THE SON DOESN’T SEE THIS LOOKS WRONG?!! Or WOT HIS MUM IS DOING?!!😳🤯😱#emotionalINCEST. He’s blind as a bat, & she needs to RUN the other way,red flags 🚩🚩🚩EVERYWHERE, he’s always gonna put his mums needs b4 his fiance & mother is definitely gonna make sure THAT HAPPENS! 🏃‍♂️#RUNFAST #RedFlags

[@here4funyadig]

36 seconds yeahhhhhhhhh !

[@yuuyuuchan]

7 minutes!!! Yayyy hahaha!

[@jenniferhoisington66]

First off if had actually listened he would have put two and two together and figures it out for himself Second as you did it in privite no one would have known if he hadn't caused the drama by outting himself story 2 You made it clear from the start that you were not comfortble with anything like this The only person who gets to decide if the birth is filmed is the peersin pushing the baby out There will be so many magical childhood moments to share this is NOT one of them Let Lenna and your Dad use the videoogrgher to film their respective OBGYN and uroligest appointments as well as them engaging in material relations and share it with the group So Debbie got preggers before marrage resulting in a shotgun weiiing and is crying about it now? She could have at anytime helped a vow renewal ceremony on her time and money but didn't That's a Debbie problem not a right to hijack yours She could have used all the time she spent trying break you up on dating sites for herself Honey this isn't what anyone wants but Debbie lift you with no choice One minute she loves you like a daughter the next you're an outsider Debbie is the kind of woman who will play victim throw tantrumsminipulate every event to make everything about her if she can scream she can breathe NTA you didn't plan it around the wedding you planed it 3 days after the wedding No one else is still celebratting their marriage but them their attention seeking time is OVER

[@kaystar7741]

I feel like the situation with Debbie, as horrible as she acted and rightfully got called out for it, is believing that everyone mistreats her and that the vision she was seeing was becoming a reality. Even with her own son still trying to be there for her she still thought he was never doing enough, especially when he had priorities with other ppl. If you truly are afraid of something happening and it affecting your relationships with others or your family just talk to them and stop blaming everyone else for your own insecurities. I do hope the son and his fiance will find a sense of peace whether they do talk to her again or go radio silent